In this episode of The Bucket podcast, David Abend sits down with renowned behavioral economist Dan Ariely to explore the hidden costs of keeping your options open. We explore how the fear of closing doors could actually be narrowing your window to happiness and fulfillment. Dan dives into the traps of procrastination and the emotional hurdles that keep us stuck in place. If you've ever found yourself spinning your wheels, unable to move forward, this conversation offers the kind of insights tha...
Aug 21, 2024•54 min•Season 3Ep. 5
Can applying Scrum principles to your personal goals lead to fewer deathbed regrets? That's the question I pose to Jeff Sutherland, co-creator of Scrum and author of "Scrum: The Art of Doing Twice the Work in Half the Time." Jeff explains how the Scrum framework, known for revolutionizing project management and software development, can be a powerful tool for individuals seeking to make meaningful progress and avoid life’s regrets. By using sprints, iterations, and feedback, you can prioritize g...
Jul 16, 2024•27 min•Season 3Ep. 4
How many Monday’s do you have left? And how are you going to use them? That’s what Jodi Wellman wants to know. Jodi is the Founder of Four Thousand Mondays where she dedicates all her Mondays to helping people live squander-free life. Unafraid to take on the Grim Reaper himself, Jodi combines her Masters in Applied Positive Psychology with her 25 years as a Certified Life Coach to realize that life is short and you can’t waste a minute of it. In this podcast, Jodi talks about her vision, her uni...
Apr 23, 2024•39 min•Season 3Ep. 3
Need some help getting out of your own way? (don’t we all?) Then listen to this podcast with Laura Berman Fortgang, one of the founding members of the International Coaching Federation (ICF), a best-selling author and a professional speaker Her innovative approach to life and career coaching has earned appearances on numerous television programs including the Oprah Show. Her Tedx talk has been viewed by more than 1.5 million people who, perhaps like you, were struggling to find a way to transiti...
Mar 18, 2024•34 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Can acknowledging and planning for your own death lead to fewer death-bed regrets? That’s the question I pose to Gabrielle Elise Jimenez, hospice nurse, end-of-life doula and the author of eight books that offer tools, tips and wisdom on end of life caregiving. But it is her class, The Best Three Months , that offers the evidence that planning for your own death can be the impetus that leads to choices that can help change the way you’re living your life — and lead to fewer death-bed regrets. Wh...
Feb 27, 2024•36 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Why does a folktronica band embark on an album about death and dying? Find out in this revealing podcast with Sam Genders and Becky Jacobs, two of the founding members of the English band, Tunng, that recently released a 12 song album and eight episode podcast called, Tunng presents…Dead Club. “We are a band that is known for being playful and for being fun,” Jacobs tells us. “I think that that's possibly one of the reasons that there was some kind of discussion about whether this was an appropr...
Mar 02, 2021•53 min•Season 2Ep. 2
"It’s easy to get caught up in the crap of life where we get stressed out and get frustrated. That’s why it’s important to have reminders that life is short. And pep talks when we’re down.” If you’re in need of a pep talk on the living life to its fullest, then cue up this podcast with Kate Manser, author of the book, and creator of the website, “You Might Die Tomorrow (So Live For Today)”. Hear how Kate turned her death anxiety into a “not living an awesome life anxiety” and started living her ...
Jan 29, 2021•48 min•Season 2Ep. 1
“People who are willing to contemplate their aging, vulnerability and mortality often live better lives in old age and illness and experience better death than those who don’t.” Right out of the gate, this podcast with Katy Butler, best-selling author of The Art of Dying, explores how acknowledging your mortality can be a catalyst for making choices that can help you live a more fulfilling life. Whether you’re in your 50’s and feeling great, or older and feeling your years, Katy’s advice to “Tru...
Apr 02, 2020•46 min•Season 1Ep. 14
As an oncologist, Dr. Ranjana Srivastava is no stranger to death and dying. But in this podcast, the author of the new book, “A Better Death: Conversations about the art of living and dying well” talks about how her experiences have helped shape her perspective on a very Buckety theme — how acknowledging your mortality can help you live a more fulfilling life. Says Srivastava, “We often go through our lives without contemplating that we are mortal.” Instead, she explains, we need to get our prio...
Feb 27, 2020•35 min•Season 1Ep. 13
John Ondrasik, better known as “Five For Fighting,” has some advice for you: “Dude, look around!” That was the thinking behind his hit song,”100 Years”, and is still an underlying philosophy in his life. “Our lives are made of moments. For me, the song was like, try to recognize those moments as you're living them. Don't let them just be on some video when you're 92 years old and people are playing your life and you're like, Oh, that was pretty great. Hopefully, while it was great, you were sitt...
Feb 13, 2020•40 min•Season 1Ep. 12
Guess what? YOU are an endurance predator. Keep moving, and your body keeps thriving. Stop moving, and your body starts decaying. That’s the reality for anyone over 30 according to Chris Crowley, co-author of the New York Times best-selling book, Younger Next Year . In this podcast, you’ll hear Chris talk about the science behind this claim, and what it means for your body as you get older. From getting regular, rigorous exercise (“6 times a week”) to simple dietary guidelines (“Stop eating crap...
Jan 30, 2020•34 min•Season 1Ep. 11
“If you think every day that when you go out that gate, you could be killed. I don't know how you go out the gate.” If you’re like a lot of people, listening to this podcast with General George Casey, Jr, former Chief of Staff of the U.S. Army, will leave you with an overwhelming feeling of humility. From his selfless devotion to duty (“I really didn’t think about it…I had a job and I was going to do it” ) to his joyous appreciation for everyday things like seeing his grandkids or riding his bik...
Jan 16, 2020•30 min•Season 1Ep. 10
What does Cabot Cheese have to do with The Bucket's mission of helping people lead more fulfilling lives by embracing their own mortality? Find out in this conversation with Roberta MacDonald, SVP of Marketing at Cabot Cheese and a long-time hospice volunteer. From the “Circle of Life” that takes place on the Cabot Co-op’s farms, to the “family truths” she sees revealed in the intimate moments of hospice, Berta tells us what she feels are the benefits of talking openly about death as well as why...
Jan 02, 2020•40 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Are you stuck? Stuck in your career? Your relationship? Or even in your retirement? Then take a few minutes to listen to this podcast with Dave Evans who, along with Bill Burnett, has harnessed the power of “design thinking” to help people create meaningful and fulfilling lives. What started as a course at Stanford University to help students explore their potential futures, has turned into a New York Times best seller, Ted Talks, workshops, retreats and online classes that are now heavily atten...
Dec 19, 2019•51 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Death is not a game. Or is it? Listen to Lori LoCicero and Lisa Pahl talk about their bold new card game, “The Death Deck” and how it’s helping people have healthy conversations about dying — and living. From sample questions to poignant stories, they explain the reason they created the game and how they use humor and lively game-play to break down resistance and open up communication. Says Lori, “It’s so much easier to approach a parent or a spouse with a silly card game that has humor in it ra...
Dec 05, 2019•38 min•Season 1Ep. 7
In 1973, Billy Starr’s backpack was packed and he was all set to leave for a dream trip hiking in Nepal. But like George Bailey in “It’s a Wonderful Life”, Billy never got out of town. His mother was diagnosed with cancer and Billy spent the next year at her side in the hospital. When she died in 1974, Billy’s mind was not on the Himalayas, it was on something much more challenging — dealing with the pain of his mother’s death. It was this pain that eventually drove Billy to start the Pan-Mass C...
Nov 21, 2019•42 min•Season 1Ep. 6
You may already know that David McCullough is the Pulitzer Prize winning author of such best sellers as John Adams , The Wright Brothers , Truman, Brave Companions, The Johnstown Flood, The Path Between the Seas, and The Pioneers. Or you may recognize his voice as the narrator of The American Experience , the film, Seabiscuit , or Ken Burn’s miniseries, The Civil War . But what you may not know is his perspective on how some of the soldiers, pioneers, builders and inventors he has written about ...
Nov 07, 2019•32 min•Season 1Ep. 6
Life is precious. And no one knows that more than Andy Wirth. Andy recently retired as the CEO and President of Squaw Valley Alpine Meadows ski resort. He’s also a former backcountry ranger in Rocky Mountain National Park. In 2013, while skydiving over Lodi, California, a perfect storm of events caused Andy to collide with a high-tension wire that severed his right arm at the elbow. What happened next has got to be heard to be believed. It all started with Andy, a trained first-responder himself...
Oct 24, 2019•29 min•Season 1Ep. 4
Dr. Sanjiv Chopra is a professor of medicine at the Harvard Medical School, a motivational speaker, an accomplished author and a man who is often referred to as a happiness guru. Why? Find out in this fascinating podcast in which Dr. Chopra explains the four traits of happiness and how anyone can choose to achieve them. In this episode of The Bucket Podcast, Chopra talks about his new book, The Two Most Important Days, and shares colorful stories, quotes and lessons from a lifetime pursuit of he...
Oct 10, 2019•26 min•Season 1Ep. 3
“Miss the bus.” That’s the advice of renowned palliative care doctor BJ Miller and Shoshana Berger, editorial director of the global design firm IDEO. Together, they wrote the breakthrough book, “A Beginner’s Guide to the End: Practical Advice on Living Life and Facing Death.” In this podcast we discuss their refreshing approach to managing both the practical and emotional baggage of dying. As well as the ways in which everyday obstacles, like missing the bus, can actually be a catalyst for seei...
Sep 26, 2019•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 2
Can embracing your mortality lead to a more fulfilling life? Yes, says David Abend, founder of The Bucket, an online magazine that helps you live fully and die well. In this episode, David talks about all things Bucket. From the genesis of the idea more than 30 years ago, to the clarity of the “Zoo” metaphor, David explains the counterintuitive value of embracing one’s own mortality. He also introduces us to the concept of everyone having a Bucket Age — the number of years you likely have left t...
Sep 12, 2019•15 min•Season 1Ep. 1
Introducing The Bucket Podcast. An unexpectedly refreshing series of interviews that transform the taboo of death into a catalyst for living fully and dying well. Hosted by The Bucket founder David Abend, the series features an eclectic mix of notable authors, entrepreneurs, adventurers, philosophers, musicians, doctors, soldiers and innovators who all share one thing in common — they’re all going to die. But does being aware of that change the way they live? Hear from multiple Pulitzer Prize wi...
Aug 15, 2019•2 min
