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#135: Replacing a Bridesmaid

May 18, 201735 min
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Say, Elvis rand presents the off air show Steerie Jones, Greg tea yeah episode and what was missing from that? Just before I say that Greg is supposed to go, I'm supposed to scream something obnoxious. Hey, guess what, there's no lookout today because Greg T got violently ill at five o'clock in the morning while he was doing his pre morning show before the Elvis d Ran Big Show comes on at six. He went he went to a commercial break, and he went into the bathroom and he

just started violently vomiting everywhere. And at six o'clock when he finished his one hour pre show, he told Elvis, I'm really sick, man, I'm gonna go so so Gregg T went home, leaving me alone. Chery will be here in just a couple of minutes. We're gonna do sharing nose in just a second. But how sick is Greg T? It's now a quarter after twelve. He's had some time to go home and sleep. I'm gonna call him up real quick. And I promised this won't be a boring podcast.

We're gonna have some fun today, maybe not as much fun as when Gregg T's here. I'll tell you one thing. It won't be as loud as it normally is. And I don't know where bald Freak is either. I'm gonna call him next because he hasn't been here in like three weeks. Seriously, everybody, Hey, t yeah, Hey, it's scary. How you doing, buddy? How are you feeling good? Not good? Throw up? You're throwing up? Oh my crazy, I'm throwing

up like freaking Uh well, I'm on the pod. I just started the podcast by myself, and I'm and the and the lookout was missing, and I'm like, I told the story quickly of what happened to you in five o'clock this morning. So so you're not like playing hooky here. This isn't like it's gonna be degree today. I want to go home and I want to go my swimming pool. No, bro, I threw up like I threw up an entire erosian. Okay, Okay, you're getting a little gross, so real quick. Uh didn't

you have an appearance to do today? Yep? Garrett's doing it. Oh man. So he's at seven eleven Times Square And they texted me and they want me to do social media. So they've been sending me pictures that I've had to put up, and I tried to tell them that I'm dying. I'm sorry, Do you have like come some kind of a bug, some kind of a I don't know. My stomach is empty at this point, so now it's just energy. And then I'm supposed to go to a sales dinner

later on. I don't know what I'm gonna do with that. You're gonna go? I told him I would tell him by two o'clock, right, So I just need well. I wanted to prove to the off air heads that are listening right now that this wasn't a joke. This wasn't you trying to This is no joke. Trust me, this is no joke. Trust me. Trust me. You do not want to have what Greg T is having right now. No, no, no, no, no, no, Look at wake in the room. Oh yes, here, I

have finally had somebody to talk to you. There you go. What's going on? Hello? What's going on? Yeah? Greg didn't show up today? Homesick. I'm homesick. Really, you're not here, scary, Let's just do Yeah, Greg and Gregg T is dying. You want to you want to hang out on the phone with us if you want to peek at any point you can. No, this will make me more sick. No, see, you really sick very much. So we'll feel better, man, feel better. Hold on, I guess the sales people are

texting me more pictures but on social media? Are hold on? Are you pretending like you're at the event. Yeah, I'm at location Prime Square, New York City. Wow. Wow, who's the salesperson on that? Jamie? I love it? Oh boy, gotta go. Okay, bye, that's my phone. They're sending me more pictures. So he's sitting in bed. He's tweeting pictures of an event that Hey, it's a beautiful day here for an a great time. In the meantime, he's home. He's home tweeting and instagramming from bed. We just se

we kind of pulled the curtain back there. We broke what we call in show business of breaking the fourth wall. Yeah, so we broke some. We're welcome. Hi, it's good to see you. It's it's quiet. We need to make this place a little more lively. Hey, where's my music? Here's my need to sharing those music. I'm sorry, I was like I needed to be here. We have a big share. By the way, hasn't even been here in a couple of weeks either, answer, let me call him, okay, is

he's in the next studio. Maybe he wants to grace us with his presence. He said, he was so busy. Let's see here, let's see what's going on. I'm just gonna this is gonna be the the podcast of me calling people hello, hey, bald freak Ronnie. Yeah, scary and share and shares here too. Yeah, but the contest love you and I love you too. But here's the thing. I'm by myself and Greg t. I had to call him up on the phone and he's vomiting, and you

haven't been here in three weeks? All right, thanks? I really And now it's just scary and share, see what I mean? I know that thirty years and he's hanging up in my face. That's a problem. It's an issue. And you know what's funny? That leads right into the share nose question because has to do all about friendships. Okay, but before you get to that, can I want I wanted to tell the listeners about what I did in Chicago, and I think you could appreciate this. I can't wait

to hear so I went to listen. First of all, you know, a lot of times what we do is talk about New York's any where we're going around Brooklyn, but we never talked about other parts of the country because you know, this is where we're based and it is amazing and it is so I mentioned I did a huge thing about Nashville the other day, and by the way, thank you for your comments at the off air show at gmail dot com. That was kind of cool. But and I like Nashville. I've been found there, C

M T S and a bunch of other events. Let me down there, and I happen to think it's great. Yeah, And I was saying that it's now mainstream Nashville is kind of cool now that a lot of New York has come to Nashville, New York and moving there. But anyway, I went off for about fifteen minutes on that. I just gave them a nice giant plug for the for the I mean, I hope you're gonna be going back down to Nashville soon. That I gotta let the listeners know about what I did in Chicago. Okay, there's this

place that's been there since like the nineties. It's called the Wieners Circle. Okay, I didn't talk. I talked about this on my people who follow me on snapchat. Uh they saw my story, but it was gone in twenty four hours. Um. The Weeners Circle is a place that's been well documented over the years. It's been on The Corner O'Brien show. It's been on like all if they've had a reality show where the people behind the counter get really really nasty with you, really oh, completely nasty,

um late at night. So you go in there for like what they call a charred dog or burger, and you walk in and all you gotta do is just just show up. And it's usually crowded, you know the type. It's the afterbar, late night Greece place to go and people are drunk and their hammered into're like whatever else there.

This is like a two am type spot. I mean it's open like for most of the day, but it gets raunchy after midnight because there's there's like dozens of people trying to get in there, and it's just like a stand, like a hot dog stand, and the ladies behind the counter set up a side of sass with their so on this given night, when I went in there there were these two dudes with the glasses and then she goes, what the fuck you, Harry Potter, motherfucking

looking dudes. Wat's holding court and like everyone's like laughing. But here's the thing. The tradition at Weener Circle is to scream at them and scream back, and they scream

at each other. I'm not even going to tell you the profanity that was flying back and forth, but you, as a customer is supposed to scream like, hey, I want that cheeseburger you give dog, motherfucker and be like give me some fries, bitch, yes, and but nasty, using the P word and F word that I don't know if I could flying back and forth, and I swear to god it is hilarious. But here's the thing, though, I mean, you know a lot of people are not tolerant of this. I mean, this is a very political

PC society. So to have like an old vestige of something that a slice of Americana, as we say, of this, a place like this it's still in existence, is great, but I think it's going to go away soon because I mean the kind of ship that flush back harsh. To be honest, like, I think it's funny. It sounds funny, but maybe if I was like in the environment, it might be a little hard to get into it first. It is. It is very difficult. Lot of people don't

know what's going on. They just walk in to order a hot dog and they're like, why are people screaming with a sentities back in front the customers and her. Now here's the best part. There's a secret, and I want people to google this. Google Weener's circle. Hold on, but chocolate shake Weener Circle chocolate shake. Chocolate shake is something that's not on the menu, but it's kind of

like an elbow wink wink kind of thing. You give her twenty bucks and then she, you know, a couple of people order chocolate shakes and after about five or ten minutes, after screaming for your chocolate shake, because she never does give you a chocolate shake. Secret. By the way, side note, there is no real chocolate shake on the menu. It's really just code word. You say chocolate shake. After five or ten minutes, the lights start flickering on and

off like Johnny Rockets. The music comes up really all of a sudden. You you focus your your eyes on the side door. Yeah, can we start flickering the lights. I feel like we have to get into the hold. All of a sudden, the door opens and the lady, the main lady from behind the counter, and she's she's a larger woman with her giant triple e boobs out out like topless, and she she kind of like she lifts her shirt and she folds her apron in the middle, so her boobs are coming out the side with the

left boom with the right boot e ch apron. Hold on, hold on, no, no, no, and she starts shaking them back and forth and that's your chocolate shake, and oh my god. Seconds and then everybody screams, and then the door closes and that's it, and the lights come back on and and then she goes back to screaming and yelling at you behind the counter. I've been going on, especially weekends like Friday Saturday night. If you're in the Chicago area, you must, you absolutely must visit Weener Circle.

And the lady I forgot her name. Her name, real name is ROBERTA. Jackson. She's the main one. They have a bunch of people that work with her, but she's been there the longest and she's been carrying on the tradition. All I can tell you is if you google Conan O'Brien Weiner's Circle, they sent Jack Jack mcbray, who's the dude from thirty Rock. He plays the NBC page, the nicest guy in the world him, And what did the rubber dog that Conan has with the cigar and Triumph

the insult comic dog. So Jack from Dirty Rock and and and um Triumph went in there to order stuff from Winer Circle and Jack gets crapped on by the lady behind the counter, and then they go back in with Triumph. Is an eight minute thing that they did on Conan O'Brien. I swear to god, it is the funniest eight minutes of a video you'll watch. Go to YouTube, it's all over there, Hulu, whatever it is. Watch google Conan O'Brien Weener Circle or Jack Jack mcbray, Weener Circle, Triumph,

whatever it is. You will see the video and you will see Roberta, a younger Roberta. She's blue hair in the video or purple hair. Um. She is full of sass. And then when when she's going at it with the dog back and forth, screaming, the words are going. I don't think there's a a version that that you could find that's uncensored. I think it's all peeped out. That just makes it worse, so because now we're all on

uncensored here. Yeah, but you'll see what it is. And if you're ever in Chicago, visit the Weiner Circle on North Clark Street. You will not be disappointed. But always after midnight on Friday and Saturday. Okay, And I'm never going to think of a milkshake the same. I want you to know that. I mean, you really just messed me up. I think you messed up half the off air scary, scary. Give me milkshake. Yeah, I need milkshake. I need the lights flickering, I need milkshake. I need

something happening here after that story. By the way, they don't play this song. They should have played this song. This would have been perfect for the Chocolate Mill. Oh my god, it would have been great. Are you kidding? Would have been the extra touch that I'm still trying to go back to. I guess they assume there's nobody that's like under age at this environment after a certain time. Is that like kind of how they do it? Yeah?

None of that is what how they do it. They make sure that it's like at least college level of higher. I mean, I hate to bring it back to reality, but um, when it came time for the milkshake moment, the guy came from behind the the counter. He came from you know, with dispatchel in his hand. Yeah, he screamed at us through the window. Everybody, put your ammer f in phones away, you hear me, put them away.

Right up until that point, everyone's snapchats, instagrams, and it's like putting video up because it's it's a hilarious dialogue that makes sense, throwing insults. But when that moment comes, all phones have to go away. So I don't have that. So that's why you don't have it. But I should post. Maybe I should post to the I didn't save the snap story. Damn it. I'm such a bad snapper. Snapper,

I don't save my snaps your stories. No, not usually, not usually you should probably though, especially when we do like something and we're away, we should probably start saving them. That's another like little leg where we're gonna start doing, which is all around the world we share. So you've got to bring in some mural around the world's too right, exactly around the world. Maybe we will save our snaps from now on. Maybe. Okay, okay, are you ready? I'm ready?

What's going on in Share Nose this week? And by the way, I'm sorry if you're looking to this podcast halfway through the fair heads, I won't captain wax Sparrow could have just easily just packed it up and gone off course. And I sailed this ship in tonight and not done a podcast. Not when he knew Share Nose was coming in with some great Share Nose over here. Then I was like, I was going to call you back,

you know what? Then then you know what? Listen, No, I like this, this is like scary and share now this is awesome. This is great. I think I bet, I bet the whole idea of the idea today was to do the share Nose. Gonna have a nice segment to Share Nose right now. I don't see anything wrong with did you really complaining? I'm just telling you a fairheads who think that this is like this is like a whatever kind of show, let me tell you something. This could have been worse. It could have been no

show at all. I think you're wrong. I don't think there to think it's a bad show in here to do a show with what we have. You heard proof on the phone, Greg ts sick and bold freak. I don't know what his deal is, but what you have is me today. So I happen to think since our off airheads show me so much love, this actually works out perfect because we get a share nose and there won't be any interfering or by this point usually showing one of his body parts or we're looking at my

nails or my hair, my jonger. Am I gonna take his place? Yeah? I'm gonna start showing body parts. That's what we're gonna do today. I mean, after all, we just went from milkshakes and a Brinds and everything else. We might as well. But we start flickering the lights that we don't have anyone here to do it. Oh, we have someone videoing us? What's going on? We do we do have? We have an intern in here videoing us. It's Kim intern, Kim Kim Nikolouch from Bay Ridge. Are

you enjoying this? Is this a mess? What's going on? Let me let me get your microphone on over there? Uh? Is this is this a mess to you or what you could talk? You could talk. I'm trying to keep the video going while I do this, but no, this is so funny. I love this. Yeah, see this is the podcast still did she just wants to turn her into a trip into a job. How'll do this any day for you guys. You know, I want you off airheads to comment on how much do they enjoy this

podcast when it's over all? Right, thank you so much? What are we taping this? Facebook loss? So no? So right now, I think we're on video and this will be posted to the Instagram page. Um under chop it off. We will chop a little bit, but it'll be posted on the Instagram. Started here, Hi, how are you? I'm and I'm share sharing us just do off air show minus Gregg t and uh he's out today and we're not going to talk about the fact that he's vomiting.

Everything from before this point is only for the audio podcast, and everything from here on can go on the pages. We're about to get into share nose. Well now we're going to actually flip it and she is going to help us by going to Facebook Live. That's the end of this video. That's it, right, all right, So we're gonna go on Facebook live now, okay, good, we'll do We'll do Facebook Live. Uh. You can always get in touch with us at the Aufair Show at gmail dot com.

But if you want to do a share nose and get a question on for her, uh, go on her Facebook page, like her Facebook page, search at Share Nose fan page at Share Nose fan page, like the page, and then message her privately so you don't have to uh get your you know, some questions you know need some anonymity, as we say. So yeah, so there you go. So so get her over there. So at Share Nose fan page on Facebook. What do you got here today? Who's who's? Do we say who's writing in? Or no,

we can say a first name. She has allowed me to do a first name, so with Michelle today. Hi Michelle. Michelle is a an off air head and she has said to us that she needs the Share Nose bad. Basically, she's getting officially officially married in September, officially officially officially. Well the way I married been getting married and getting

officially married. First of all, well, I think the idea is when somebody actually writes officially officially married, it means that they have a long relationship with the person they're in already, or they have like a very tight bond already. Maybe they have a baby together, and maybe they have a house together. There's something more than just the high we started going out and got an engage memborying decided now we're gonna get married. There's like a lot more

to it. So that's how I read it. How I read it, She's getting married, right. So Michelle writes that she needs some help because she set up her wedding party. Wedding such an important time for a bride, and she didn't feel like she had any drama going on, and all of a sudden, one of her bridesmaids that's a friend since she was seven years old, decided she has to back out, and backing out, but with good reason,

backing out because her mother's sick. Now, the real twist is is that to Michelle, she doesn't know if she really feels that it's a good reason, but she wants to be supportive of her friend. But she's really in a bune now because she goes, how do I ask another bride'smaid to step into her place? Well, it's easy. You ask another bride'smaid to step into her scary. You do not understand there is so much more to this. She backed out, so much more to this. Are you

ready for this? There's even statistics on this stuff. I bet Michelle doesn't know how common this is and how much drama it actually causes. Its out her mom's seck. We know really why she backed out. All I know is her mom sick. Well she knows is her mom's sex. There's no more noulate. But there are people who throw excuses out there, right right, So here's the thing, right, The first thing I would say to Michelle is, if you really care about this person, maybe you could try

to figure it out. So here's the bottom line. How great of a friend is this person? To Michelle? Because if it's your's your bestie, sticky, it's sticky scary, don't what? Right? But here's the thing, right, So are a huge time commitment. There are huge money money money. I mean you're talking major money. So you mean from the engagement party to the bachelorte parties, to the showers, to the dress fittings, okay, to the rehearsal dinners to the actual big day. You're

talking a lot of things that they go through. So with that being said, maybe maybe let's just assume her mom's sick. Maybe if she talks to her and she really wants her to be a part of it still, she could tell her she could let her off of some of those commitments. Maybe she could give her a little bit of a break. Maybe it is a monetary thing. Maybe she should have a heart to heart with her and say, if I have you part of my wedding still because it means so much to me, could I

lessen your responsibilities as part of my bridal party. That may work. So that's the first thing I wanted to put out there was if you run into this problem, see if you could talk to the person and lessen the responsibility. However, if that doesn't work and there's no way because it's too emotional for her with her mom, you have to take a second and understand the fact that it is her mother and whether you agree or not, you have to be there for for her because it's

still your friend. So moving on from that, do you find a replacement because that word is not a very nice word. Replacement sounds exactly like it is a plan B. So if you're die hard that you can't do the wedding as is without her, Which is my first suggestion, Michelle, leave the wedding party the way it is. If it's nothing that bothers you that much, don't pick another person. You're just saying, just just maybe have a hologram of her show up that there. No, maybe just have one

less person. Why why, there's nothing to do with numbers anymore. Weddings don't have to be even anymore a girl for every boy and a boy for every No. See, that's actually something that that I actually have checked into that more weddings nowadays are trying to do it where it isn't like that the two girls with one guy. It looks adorable. Even like families are very separate nowadays, families are very different nowadays. So sometimes people women have their

moms walk them. Nowadays women have their moms and dads walk them. It's very different. Are you saying that that I'm trying to understand this, So you mean to say, just that's it, I'm done finished you. You might be safer because here comes the drama. When you step in to asking that other friend, you run into some sticky

territory and the pressure is on. It's almost more work for you, bribes, because now you have to make sure that person can handle the fact that they weren't your first choice, that they're emotionally okay with the fact that they're stepping into a situation. First person who backed out that you're pissing off. It's the second person that you're asking so and so can't make it. So, so hey, listen, can you fill her spot? And it's almost like they

little with tickets to the game. I mean, I can't go. No, if I'm going to a mack game with a friend and then that friend backs out and I just call friend b They're not gonna be offended. They're not gonna be offended that that they weren't first asked to go. They'll be like, I'm going to a free freaking game right here. Yeah, that's a little different you're asking. So I'll tell you the difference you're asking. That's exactly the

key word free. You're asking this person, this replacement, to come in as a full party to your bridal shower. So you're talking they're going to be able to. Now they have to take on the responsibility of the money. They have to take on the responsibility of the time commitment, and they have to feel good about it, and they also have to do other things. So you're ready for this. If she has got her dresses already, depending upon how quick she worked this out, the bridesmaids will know each other.

It's like a little clan. Come on, think girls here. Okay, it's like this little clan of girls. Right. This is why I have more guy friends, by the way, anyway, but this girls tend to be clicky. Right, So if they're already down the path of let's plan her bridal shower, let's plan this. Now this girl has to step into this platform where she has to become part of the group.

So so you're what you're trying to say is that the journey that if they're not with them from the beginning of the journey, they shouldn't just come in like three quarters of the way through, because they've probably missed out on all the bonding and all the fun that went that led up to it's a really good chance and maybe maybe a problem with the dresses to right, And then it's an ask of like money, like okay, now now you're gonna be spending all the sext your money, right.

So it's kind of something where it could really get into a sticky situation. So I kind of see that. But but here's the positive. If the person is a team player and she's really cool and she's kind of like a little light about it, you may be fine with it. This is all obviously, this is all situational. So if you know somebody that's actually someone that I'll

tell you the best situation. If you had someone that was a friend that you had asked to do let's say, a reading at your wedding or be an usher because you wanted them to be part of it, but you really weren't sure if they were going to be bridesmaid

because that's like a special thing to be in. Maybe you could try to upgrade that person because they already know you cared enough to make them a part of something in your wedding, but they weren't a bridesmaid because maybe free you it was something where you had an even number, so you use that as just the reason and you said, hey, I don't have enough space, but could you be a part of my special day. That type of situation, you might be able to put that

person into this into the platform easier. You know, listen, I got my pad here, we got wet. She's got a note. This is the handwriting of a share notes that cares and dedicates her time to her fans. Us we do so wait a second, so you gotta hear this. Okay, recently married and women. This doesn't say much for us, but recently married women, it has been proven that say

they don't even talk to their bridesmaids anymore. So the ideas at so here's a special day scary, and I have to turn to you since he is not here to add about his wedding and everything else. You got a boys club. I hang with a lot of guys. I happen to find it to be fun and drama free. So now I have the question to you. Do eyes go through this when they have a wedding? And well, first of all, you just struck a nerve because this is something I feel very strongly about. And women do

this to each other all the time. Women forget about women after marriage and especially after babies. Once kids come, women forget about their female friends overall. I'm listen, this is as Elvis would say, general Eyes general generalizes reporting for duty. This is I'm generalizing, okay, but I've seen more often than not women's circles of friends like get smaller and shrink and get narrower and narrower. And it's

because of the way women treat each other. And this because this starts at the beginning with with the formulation of a relationship, the boyfriend thing. Yeah, a girl gets a boyfriend and she drops her female friends. A girl gets engaged, I'll see you later, or she doesn't go out with her single friends anymore because all of a sudden she feels like she needs to do Like the boyfriends pretty much drops everybody and and but guys are

not as quick to do that. Guys are still bonding, Guys are still friends with guys, you could and even if you haven't been you know, hanging out or you haven't seen each other's like instagrams or Facebook feeds in a while whatever, Like, guys could pick up where they left off, like four years later, it's like, Hey, what's up, Hey, why did you call me? You dick? Hey, by the way, how you been? You pick up where you're left off and if you're and guys do that, and guys can

do that. Guys go in and out of each other's lives all the time. But guys are not quick by the same token, and guys are not quick to just drop their friends the second they get a girlfriend. Guys are not quick their friends after they get married, they still hang or again generalizes reporting for duty. Generalized general, I'm captain. I wear many hats, Captain wax battle and I'm the generalized guy. So I'm in the army as a general that should be in a position in our cabinet. Generalized,

I'm generalized, Rie Jones. But it's true. But it is true. But but women are quicker to do that, And I think that that's a problem later in life because if a woman, you know, God forbid, you know, she gets divorced or separated, they feel very lonely then like now I'm screwed. They don't know how to go back out in date. I absolutely agree with you and guys actually, and they don't have to call up their all friends and that they haven't spoke to in ten years, because

then now they're trying to save face. Don't ever lose your friends, No, And I think you make such valid points because the ideas and I that's what I love about this because you get the guy's perspective the girl's perspective. But really, I have to say, I play in boys playgrounds. I'm very much the girl that likes my guy friends. Not that kind of not that kind of playground now. But I like the idea of hanging with the guys

because I find that it's less drama. I do think that, and I think everything you said is the reason why I think guys actually handle certain things ladies a little better than we do. But with all that being said, here's one other thing that's a total girl thing, Michelle, I want you to know. Also, stats show that jealousy and financial issues actually pair most of the bride'smaids apart

from the bride. By the time the weddings over, they actually have shown um statistics that they get jealous again because of their own situations. The women can't really handle the whole yeah itself. There we go all over the place that you know, we get emails all the time on that. It's terrible though, and guys don't go through this then, So you're saying you've never had scary an issue where you were like, you got a type group of guys you go away together you just did a trip, right,

So those guys, some of them are married, right. We had a conversation about that about guys that are married going on trips with the single guys. Remember that fact. And then we had that my friends friends are your friends are angels? You know? No? So the point is is that with your friends when they've had those weddings and stuff, has there ever been any drama between the the groomsman? Everybody's happy. That's that's petty stuff. Have you ever been a second? Say never, never sweat the petty

stuff and never picked and never pet the sweaty stuff. Okay, never swept the petty stuff and never put the sweaty stuff. What about have you ever been a second? A second? That's a very open ended question. A second in a wedding? Have you ever been the second? The secondary person that was asked? You know, the backup, the backup, the replaced, the backup, rides made of the backup, the backup, best man of the backup. That's rough, that's tough. That's a

whole another question. So okay, so how are you going to help Michelle here? Because we're gonna up here. You go, you're ready? Point one? If you really care about this person. She's been your friends since the seventh grade. Which you need to do is first care about her in her situation, even if it's hard for you to understand because your own personal life. You need to care about her situation

and understand that she loves you just the same. She might really be in a bind, and see if you could work out with her time commitment and the monetary commitment coming around, I totally agree. If you can't and you're gonna go to the replacement mode, yeah, I don't know what cred lightly. At first, I was going to go to replacement mode, but you've talked some sense to me.

I'm with you now, and this it might be easier for you to keep drama out of your situation and out of your wedding by just keeping the numbers where they are unless it really bothers you. And if it does, see if you could go to those other things I talked about, like getting somebody that was special to you but you had an understanding with. Maybe they were pregnant at the time and now they're not. The joke out of it walking down the right it could be two

guys on one woman. I mean, I think that sounds great, Like I almost like have the girl in the middle and the two guys on either side escorting her down the aisle. I mean, that's cute. That's how they make up for it, and they're like, hey, we're all going back to the hotel room. Here we go. I knew that was coming off area. So Saron knows this is your big day for sharing love with that special someone. Don't let that change a thing. Don't forget that friend

some support and care. Okay, she is your good friend. She wasn't being malicious, and unless you have that perfect girl who's gonna fit, don't force it because it's gonna look horrible and leave it alone. Okay, I love it, alright, Cool, there we go Share Share Nose. Make sure everybody I know scary it said this, but make sure you go to the fan page. It's at Share Nose your fan page. Rewind this if you want to know where to go.

We said it at the beginning to all you gotta do is just go and then you get it right there at the beginning. You can scroll back. Oh is that the best part? Just like no, but because no, I think in terms of live radio. But it's not live, so you don't give it again. I forget that because I'm a live person. I'm a TV girl. You forget that. So being TV trained, there are no cutbacks. And when's your freaking movie coming out? You know? I actually have a call in to find out because I'm not going

to let people down. I want to know when Glen John Malkovich and Glenn Close are going to be on screen for the first time in a long time time in the wedding called Wild Weddings, Wild Wedding, wedding in a movie called Wild. But now I got weddings on my mind. That's funny. It's a wedding. My characters Eva and she plays across from Noah Emerick in the movie. I want to see this film. I want to see this film email. Actually, I actually reached out to the

directors and they have ago. Is this what happens with film releases? Yes? And now you've got to realize something else. You have Can's Festival right now, people are traveling. This is a busy time all throughout the year. People don't realize, but everybody gets hung up on other things. Sundance, this and that. You know, you had um, you had the Upfronts this past week. People come in and out. Now that's TV, but it's still everybody's in the same world

to TV and film clumped together. There's a lot of stuff that goes on that people don't realize people are doing behind the scenes. But I do think it's got to come out soon, very soon, very very soon. All right, well, well scary think of it this way till then you have their share nose in town and she's been able to support the show. Thank you for being here for me, the only person here for me. I love the Afair Show.

We'll do another episode next week. Alright, alright, see you take here, say Jackelo Jack Love would be so proud. Just watch me now, it's just watch

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