Morning. Everybody is dj n V. Charlemagne the guy. We all the breakfast club. Now if you just joined us. We were having a conversation about smoking weed with your children. Now this came from ben Zeno where he was talking about how he feels like a hypocrite sometimes because he doesn't want his daughter to smoke weed. Let's listen, because she's about fifteen sixteen, listen that she's smoking. I don't want her to smoke, of course. So it's like damn, like we know, so I don't want to be the
bad guy. Wet exactly why you want your kids to be better than ring. It's called necessary hypocrisy, but you won't stop. I like that. No, say that again. Necessary. So we're asking eight hundred five A five one oh five one. What are your thoughts now, either you have a daughter, our daughter and a son were ages. My daughter is twenty six and my son is thirty one. Okay, so they of age. So let's say they wanted to smoke with mommy. I don't want to smoke with my kids.
I don't I don't want to create habits with my kids where we just we different different differentiate parental lines, like I'm good with being their mother. But no, I don't drink with them. Me that my son doesn't drink. Yeah, I don't. I don't want to like a glass of wine. I'm just asking. I mean, my daughter will have a glass of wine at dinner, but we're not about to get messed up, you know, like have that attitude. I
just think you know. Uh. The other thing is it depends on how old they are, right, because even if I did something early, like I joked earlier, like I don't want my daughter. Well you your your brain ain't fully developed. Why are you smoking weed? But if I did it, you see how my life turned out? Why you want to do this? Like? You know, I think we kids just be afraid to draw lines with our kids because we want to be cool with them. But you know what, my daughter is twenty one. Um, I
was thinking about it when we had this conversation. Now this is where it would be sticky. Yeah, of course you don't want to smoke or do anything like that with you with your kids. But if my daughter wanted to try marijuana, if she wanted to, I would rather she tried with me and learn with me, then try with somebody one of her friends that she goes to college with right, because where she's where? Where would they be buying this marian, this cannabis from? Where would they
be smoking it? Is it? Lace with fit? No? I would rather have come to dad and be like, hey, Dad, this is something I wanted to try. I would like to try it with you, because at least I can go to one of the dispensaries I know, or some or you know, get it from even my own, you know, cannabis. I don't know. I don't think either one of y'all wrong.
I think, you know, both of y'all approaches to parenting and how y'all choose to, you know, be with your kids is both correct because I can see myself going either way. My kids are fourteen, seven, four and one, so you know, hopefully I don't have total problem. I hopefully don't have to have make those decisions anytime soon. But I kind of feel with I say, like, I want to draw lines between you know, parents and children, like I'm not your little friend, you know what I mean?
And I don't smoke anyway. I do edibles right, you know, But let's say let's say your daughter one to do edible you know what I mean, I would you rather she get it from you than flame Monroe? Yes, please, The Flames is out here doing sixty milligram edible for recreation unless you can teach you about micro docing it and teaching how the effects opposed to getting it from a friend that don't know when she takes something and she don't know what she's taking. A lot a lot
of mine isn't for recreation. A lot of mine is for anxiety, you know what I mean. So it's not like I'm doing it just strictly for recreation, even though I do do it for recreation sometimes but not all the time. So I don't know, I think any would I would like to. I agree with you too. I would like for them to come and have the conversation, right, you know what I mean? I agree, but I can't
see myself sitting around high with my kids. Yeah, we're not re enacting the scene from Friday, you know, And I think you know what I mean. I mean, I agree with you, though I wouldn't want my kids to come to me and of course monitor the situation, but to create the habit where your kids feel like they can come do that kind of stuff with you I just feel like you just if that that's the gateway. What happens when they're like, yo, I want to try coke? Now, WHOA,
I ain't never did that. Now you gott I acidently smoke coke and a blunt, you know what I mean? But I ain't ever willingly. But that's part. You see, how you accidentally smoke coking a blunt. Just imagine if you're your daughter or you know, or one of your kids wanted to smoke and say, you know what, I'm gonna try it. My friend got something and they smoke it. Now they're smoking coke. But that's why I say, I agree with you when I would want my kids to
come talk to me about everything. But I agree with ida when you know it's still lines between my parents and children, because I ain't never sat around and had to drink with either one of my parents, and I wouldn't want to, you know what I mean, I wouldn't. I barely like to drink around my mom, but I know how she feels about that. My mom told us a long time ago, y'all gotta watch that alcoholic, cause
y'all got a longline of alcoholics in your family. So I know how she feels about that, So I don't know I can go. I could go either way. I take a little bit of from what both of y'all said. Hello, who's this Hey Tish in a good morning? Good morning, So I have a take on your question about the marijuana tofore your kids go ahead? Mom, I wouldn't do it. How old our kids? Um, if my children aren't gone. Personally, I wouldn't do it, but I do know parents that
do allow it. Because if it's going to be done within the comfort of your own home, Um, I want to see if teams are being added to it. Yeah, I want it. I want to know your reaction to it, you know, because now base may want to have benefits where I can't help that. My medicine smells louder than yours. So at the same time, that's why I'm saying, you know, Um, personally, I wouldn't do it. If my child is my thirteen or teen, you definitely know, But a grown child yet
definitely you know. I don't see your reaction monitor being done. It can get what I'm saying, Yeah, I would love for my You know, I started I smoked weed mad early. I was like sixteen, seventeen. So if my if my daughter who's fourteen now, I did feel like that in a couple of years, I wish you, I wish you would come to me. So I would tell her, no, you know what I mean, like, that's something you should
wait to do until you get older. Your full frontal cortex didn't even fully developed at you twenty five, right. The only problem with that, too, is is you know, once a kid wants to try something, they're gonna try it, you know. And if they're reaching out to you to try, you can sit there and say no, I don't want you to. But I would just hate for them to be like, well, I'm gonna try with my friends anyway. And my favor had the perfect excuse for that. What
my daughter calls me goofy all the time. She tells me I'm weird. I said, that's because I smoked WE when I was young. So after we watched Super Mario Brothers last night and I kept going to you and she's just looking at me like I was crazy. That's because I smoke WE when I was young. So if you don't want to be weird and goofy like your daddy, wait until you get older to smoke. Your daughter is a jeus. She could tell that you're weird and goofy from. Hello,
who's this all right? This is dove, Hey, Dove, what are you calling from? I am calling from Ohio, Ohio. Now you smoke with your daughter? No, I let her try it because I've been smoked since I was twelve and have my medical hard When she was sixteen, she's like, I want to try that, So I let her try it and she hates it. No, you let her try it at sixteen? Smoke, You let her try it at sixteen? Yes, I don't. I believe that's contributing to the de linguacy
of minor right or tribute. I believe you are absolutely correct. Oh okay, Wow, you said she never smoked again? She no, she hates it the first time. She's like, I don't feel anything. So I'm like, well you need to hold that in Jesus Christ. Then she then we were going to dinner, She's like, I don't want to go. I can't function. This is stupid. So yeah, no, she hates marijuana.
You know it's crazy. I'm nobody. None of us can judge because I'm not gonna sit here act like my dad didn't pass me a bud wise and when I was the full bear though you like it, damn it man, Jesus sixty. All right, well, eight hundred five eighty five, one h five one, we're asking would you smoke weed with your kids? Let's talk about it when we come back. It is the breakfast leve, good morning,
