The Breakfast Club REWIND ( Lizzo, Ask Yee, Ask C and E +More)

you on the Breakfast Club. Hello, who did he? You doing it? LG lgout getting off your chest? Brother up all Uh, I'm doing pretty much for them. I'm a car transporter mine. Uh the way, the the way the cards out here, man, they don't respect him mine. You know when when when we see a big truck on the road, No, you gotta move to the pod. Everybody trying to cut us off. Given them giving the floor

respect out there on the road. Man. Now, I'm gonna be honest with you, man, Lately, I've been feeling like them truck's been driving like they cass. I feel like it's been like that the last few years. They'd be pulling up. They'd be cutting over on the side of the road like they like they're driving regular vehicles. All right, look, you gotta bluy your way in out there now, y'all too big to be bullying in your way in. All right, you got a mack truck, but you food run to

hit somebody. Look, I ain't even gonna mack truck. I trust four cords and everything, So I got a three cords face, you know what I mean. No, but trying to get to the side, you know, like I don't nobody want to get over. Yeah, I don't like people. People do try to not let trucks over, and sometimes Chuck's gotta take that because people will speed up driving your blind side. So I know that's not an easy thing. I've seen it happen. I've probably done it. Yeah, trucks

do the same thing, though. I don't like that. Y'all got you because you already got commanded the road. You know what I'm saying, y'all can really hurt somebody, Like you can't just swerve over into another lane when you're driving a pig. As cars gotta be careful too, because cars be disrespectful to the trucks and just hop over and then think the truck could just it goes both ways. It definitely goes both ways. That's a lot to weight

on the road. Man. All I'm saying is like when you see it truth respect, you know what I mean. Like we got here every day with a lot of weight. It's a lot of responsibility. You know what I mean? You and your brother, huh, you and your truck man. Uh No, I'm actually hitting the work right. I was gonna actually blow the horn, but I thank you brother. You want you to blow something? You're always doing that. As a kid, that was the coolest thing. We used

to drive to Disney back in the day. And you see a truck, you get the truck driving to blow the horn. That was the coolest thing. Okay, y'all never did that? Yes, now flash him and ever you didn't show them. You have your breast, that's right. If you want to signal truckers to blow, you do your thing. King you see, y'all always take it too far? What y'all take it too far? What? Yeah, you've never been to Disney, that's why you never did it. Hello, who's

this yo? Yo? Know? Aslid charlote name the god DJ. What but getting off your chest? Bubba? So that is my birthday. I'm twenty six years old man, Happy Birthraula. Yeah, I woke up early this morning just to call you guys and say, yo, I'm sorry, happy um. I'm a long time listening first time college from Florida. Okay, well, happy birthday brought. How are you gonna tell that no cash money Blaze two four and ninety six. Now, I'm gonna be honest with you. That's not enough for nobody

to want to put nothing in your cash app. I mean you're not the only person with a birthday out here, sir. I mean if anybody feel generous, anybody feel big fall, I don't know. Yeah, No, I ain't got it for you this morning. I don't be honest with what you doing for your birthday. I thought i've heard you guys getting that girl's take dinner. I was like, oh, man, me and my wife gonna love it. She had a better story than you did, and I think she was.

It was something to do with her children. I'll send you a book though. I got a copy of Anita Colpack Shallow Waters. I'll send you that for your birthday. All right, I got you. Happy birthday. It's well you have a good one, brother, you got it, thank you. D hold on, let's get your address. Hello? Who's this? This D D from the dread whatever from Virginia and Detroit. No, the oh the d d D from the D from the D. I want to get it off my chest. Hey, I am very respectable of more than eighty one, but

I am so sad of my mama. Sorry, mama, my brother, damn, my wife is getting everybody. Just please leading me a lot. It's okay to say, though, right, yes it is. It's called boundaries. There's a great book called set Boundaries, fine piece by Nidra twof Glover that talks about that. Yes, I am simply just tired of everybody else and people. I wish y'all would call him the breakfast Club with short like get out here into it. I do whatever I need to do. I live in teatro, I hustle.

I survived. It's not big. You need get together. Please, That's that's all I want to say. And I Russian power to dinod for let's see my father. I left, y'all, Breakfast Club. I listened to you every morning thank you. D have a good one, d D. Get it off your chests eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If you need to vent hit this up now? Is the breakfast clubs? Good morning the breakfast club. I'm telling,

I'm telling what's doing? Holl of yo. This is your time to get it off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed. Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. We want to hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello, who's this? This was school? How are you doing, sir? What's up? Fool? Yeah? I called myself full There's too many people that know me, and I just don't want everybody that knows that it is okay, okay, fool. First of all, how y'all doing this morning? First of all,

I want to get off my chest. Um, make it suite and simple. February twenty second, I got divorced, and I've been trying to get a touch with your guys for a while. I came home February nineteen from work. I caught my wife in the bed with a woman, our best friend. Be okay if the woman ended up just like me and as a man, ended up getting divorced and my wife. We were married for seven years and getting divorced. The judge gave me the house, the cars. It's going to give me the kids, but I work

a four time job. I got to get off my chest because twenty years prior to this, I happened before you know, and you can get divorced that fast. Look, I didn't even know she filed for a divorce. I didn't even know she filed for a divorce. What happened. What was amazing is when I went to court, she apparently last year filed for the divorce, but they never served me. So when we went to court, the judge said, hey, I can take Jursey Dicurtion up you right now for

two hundred dollars. It's like, I don't have no money. So she says, I do outside in the car. So she went downstairs and the judge honored it, and he said, if you go upstairs to the third floor, Flora will accept it right now. And they divorced us on February twenty seconds. I just want to thank you for two hundred dollars. Yeah, you know, I just want to thank you guys for just every morning man keeping me actors and keeping my mind right, because if it wasn't for you,

uh not do anything bad. But it's just a blessing that you guys are keeping positive. Know it's one the ready or every morning. Okay, brother, thank you. Brother. Wish I had some good advice for you, but I don't you know, but at least you lost it to another woman because there's certain things a woman can do that you can't do, you know. I don't know if that was good advice, but I don't know. Trying to make you feel better. Hello, who's this? This is from Indian dathlist.

Oh my God, should get worthy dj Ivy Angela Charlotte made, Oh good morning. I'm like, can I fa quick? Like it's really really fast. What I'd been saying, girl, this like really really fad. Stop cursing with dad. I was like talking to your daughter, bro, stop cursing. She was cursing radio. You said it's so hard. You said it's so aggressive like a daddy. Oh I listened to yeah every day, all right. I am so tired these door dash customers not tipping at least tipps like five dollars.

This driving like this driving like took twenty five minutes for order and tell the find that they only tipped in two dollars to at least five yea gas is two card. Seriously, man, I'm trying to tell you, Like yesterday, I had an order that was like thirty minutes away, and mind you, the order said it was like nine dollars. At first, I was like, I guess I'll take trying to find out, drive all the way up there. Becustomer early tips three dollars. So please listen to what you

just said. Though you know the order was ten dollars. He said she tips twenty percent, which would have been two dollars to customer gave you thirty percent three dollars. So what would you expect the customer to tip on a on a ten dollars order? I just well, on a ten dollars or at least tipped fire at least far because sometimes, okay, five dollars, I'm gonna get it myself there. Do you know what that I would never order anything on door dash for ten dollars. People, I

didn't think they delivered for ten dollars. I would because there's also like a processing fee. There's a processing fee on top of that, right, Just yeah, that gets rid of the delivery fee, but there's still a processing fee and all of that not just flat what it would cost to get a shout out right quick, because I just want to give a shout out to my friend Nicholas Georgia, get a shout out to my husband who's in jail right now, but he gets to listen to y'all.

You guys, have a great day and stay safe. All right, we'll do a queen too, all right. The Breakfast Club, good morning, the Breakfast Club? How are their gifts? Are only as good as the network they're on. So get to your local Verizon store now, angelou ye, Shlomi gay, we are to Breakfast Club. We got a special guests in the building and Sharon, what's up? My brother got up having to be back. How was fatherhood? Man, it's good. I've got two girls then two little girls. It's um yeah.

I mean it's every challenge that everyone says, but it's so rewarding. I'm just glad that my first store night has a mate. Was she jealous efforts? No, No, everyone said that she would be, but no, she wasn't. She was. I think she was just really happy to be a sister, you know, yeah. My brother was so jealous when I was born. He's only a year older than me. They had to like keep us separating because he was always sitting on me and he thought I was a dog

because we had a dog. My first daughter, she just wants to hug the whole time, and my second daughter is five months. So sometimes you're like, Okay, what's the age difference for good? I think like eighteen, maybe twenty months, maybe twenty one, that's good. My last three or all like three years apart, so seven four in one with the oldest is fourteens or the age gap is so far, so she's more like a how's the one year old? She's amazing? Oh yeah, yeah, I mean she's amaze. Yeah

yeah totally. But just I'm glad like being a close in age, you'll see the bond totally. Yeah, more totally. And I really wanted to do that, Like me and my brother were super close when we're growing up and there was like exactly two years between us as well. Now what about this new music side? I saw that

you did a little secret show. That's a really emotional show man, Like, really, I've sort of made this album I had I had like a bunch of stuff happening at the beginning of the year, and I made an album sort of in and around it, and I've never hadn't played it to anyone, And then I put this show on. It was for a mental health charity, and I did, you know, like what Chappelle does, you take all the phones and stuff like that, and I played all the songs for the first time and just it

was really powerful. Well, let's talking about all the inspiration form. I had my best friend died in March, and it was as well, actually February the twentieth, but as I was heading into a big court case and I had another mate died in mid court case, and I had some other stuff in my family that was like health issues, and it was one of those things. And you know, I've become a problem solver in my friendship group. I'm sure you both of you guys are problem solvers in

your friendship groups. And there's just certain things you can't solve and death is one of them. Illness is one of them, you know. And it was just I just wrote a record around it, mostly being like cathartic and it being therapeutic for me because I had no outlet of because I was basically in a courtroom every single day being told that I was like a thief and a liar, and I had like no outlet of talking to people because I could talk to anyone because I

was in this case. And so I just wrote a load of songs that ended up being this album that I think will come out next year. But it's it's definitely it's the album I thought the least about. There was an album full of grief basically totally yeah, well grief and like processing and like, you know, because I felt when my friend died, like the next day everyone's life resumed as normal, and I was sort of looking around being like no, no, no no, the world the world

has to stop for it. But you know, like when the Queen died, the world stopped, Like I just felt like the world had to stop and just take a moment. So there's a song on there called like Life goes On, and it's basically just lyrics are easy, come, hard, go, but life life goes on because every like the worst day of your life ends and the next day begins

and then it's a totally new day. And I just it's a lot of processing, like I've never never been to therapy before, and after all of this started sort of speaking to someone and it's very just opens up your I'm glad to hear that. I'm not even going I started. I started pretty much straight afterwards. Um June wow, wow, Wow,

how was there for a session? Like horrible man? Because he's talking to a stranger and you're like, you're saying like the deepest darkest secrets of like childhood trauma or like it's happened when I was a kid like this, and I was singing, I haven't splaying to anyone about and you're telling them to an absolute stranger. And then you go and how are you? And they go they can't, they can't let you into their private life. But but yeah,

it's been it's been very helpful. Sam Smith said therapy is basically someone coming in and looking at your suitcase and reorganizing it for you. I love it. I love there. I'll go once a week totally. I mean it's something. It's it's still quite a like taboo thing in the UK. Everyone I know in America, like I would say nine out of ten people do it, but in like even speaking to my friends about it back home. You know, I still have mentioned it, and the reaction wasn't like

good for you. It was like, oh, you're right, you know, yeah, whereas I think it is quite it should be normalized. I think we go more with ed sharing when you come back, don't more of it? Is the breakfast Club, Good morning, the breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are. The Breakfast Club were still kicking it with ed sharing. I saw people congratulate when I congratulating, but the bigging you up because

you kept the ticket prices reasonable? Yeah? Are you doing it because you're aware of how the economy isn't it. I used to go to gigs as a kid, and the tickets that I bought I could always afford, and I could go with my friends. And I don't want to, like without sounding crass, like what is the extra money

going to do for my life? Like I would rather play sold out gigs everywhere in the world than have an extra X amount of whatever, And like I know how much my show costs, and I know how much I kind of want to walk away with, and after that, I'm sort of fine with it. And merchant does amazing too, totally yeah, And you know, and people coming to the gigs like this isn't going to be the last time at all. You want to repeat business. You want people

being like, do you know what? I went to that show with all of my and we had a great time, and we'll go next time. And this is what I've done for my entire career is just like make tickets reasonable and affordable and they will come. And my last tour was the biggest selling tour in the world and the highest grossing as well, so we still made good

money and everyone came to the gig. So I'm just you know, I don't believe in the platinum seats in the VIP areas and sold meeting greets like we do partnerships with radio stations for meeting greets, and it's always free, and it's always competitions, so fans actually enter the competitions, they excited to go. They don't feel like they're parting with money to meet you and feel cheated out of it.

And there's just ways that I like to do it and it's always worked, so I'm not going to change it, he says, I'm just now about doing that wanted to do things that you don't believe in. How hard is it not to be a cloud chaser in twenty twenty two, because I know people probably come to you and be like, you know, well, this person's doing this, and this person's doing that, maybe you should try to do this type of record, or maybe you should take a picture doing

this totally. Well, I mean, TikTok is that I never really understood TikTok, but TikTok controls now. Really There's a team in the UK that come to me and they go, well, these are the trends, and I'll go, well, this is quite funny, and this is quite funny, and I'll just choose the things that I want to do. So I guess that is kind of chasing clout, but it's essentially that's how you advertise your music now in terms of like genres, like I'm I love spanning all genres. I

like trying different things. I like making like anything. I've sung in Italian, I've sung in French, I've sung in Japanese. I'm up for trying anything. But I think you have to walk into something with a somewhat knowledge of it and respect of it, rather than just being like, oh that's the hot thing I'm I'm I'm going to do that. So when I first made AfroB, I moved to Ghana and lived there for a month and music that wasn't just my music. I made music that went on other

people's projects and stuff. How will that experience living in so good? Did you go to like the door and not return and all of that stuff? We saw castles? No, we went to the guy that I went with, fuse Odg. He had a house there and he had a studio in his house, and I mean we went out and about, but like not like huge. We would like go for

runs and stuff like that. But what the thing I loved about it is you'd be in the studio all day making these songs and then a phone call be made, two hundred people turn up to the house, and then you'd have a party to the songs. Well, dad, say, do you have a hard time just selling music nowadays? And what I mean by that is people want your life totally, don't want to know about the wife and the kids, like, well no, I don' want to give

them the music. It's an odd line, isn't it, Because I think, well, I think kids are always off off the table, like there's no, there's no point with that. But it's it's interesting with my life with Cherry because the songs are about it, so there's obviously interest in it.

And you know, we're shooting a documentary at the moment around my life, and there was a big conversation about what do we include, And I think that as long as it's honest and it links in with a theme of something that's in a song, like, there's no point putting something in if it is just Dutch mental to your life, I think. But yeah, it's definitely there's a fine line, isn't it, Because we're all public figures. Everyone's interested in what you talk about your personal life on

the radio. You talk about your personal life on the radio, therefore you've somewhat opened the door. But then there's also this boundary preaching privacy of being like, oh, actually i'm a I'm a I'm a human being that sometimes people forget. So yeah, it's a very fine line. But that's why I like, you've been to my house in Suffolk, Like, that's why I live where I live, and I don't live in Los Angeles and I don't my life as a celebrity is switched on when it needs to be

switched on. So I come to New York and I'm working this week, so I'm doing the TVs and I'm doing the radios, and I'm a celebrity for the week. But when I go home, I'm a friend, I'm a dad, I'm a husband, I'm a son, and that's my Like, you can't bring celebrity baggage into a pub in the Suffolk, you just have to be yourself. Well, have pubs in your yard? Well, yeah, I mean that is you know. Actually, since you came and then basically the pandemic happened, that

pub hasn't really been properly uses it. Yeah, it's weird, Like the kind of way of hanging out. I don't I don't know if it's changed here, but the way of hanging out in England is very different. It's not like twenty people go to I'll meet up with like a mate and go to a part. But it used to just be a bit more free. I feel. I would think that that would be the place everybody would have came to hang out during the pandemic. A little bubble rate. I don't know. I don't know how it

was here, but like it was very much. People were trying to catch you out, so like being irresponsible. Yeah, so like a neighbor of someone might tell the press of you know, someone coming around. You have kids in a family too, and I think yet to be more responsible when you have that. Well, we actually didn't have We didn't have a kid for the first half. Cherry was pregnant for the first half, but that's how we kept it so quiet. No one knew she was pregnant. Yeah,

so can we expect a new album? Track is coming? Yeah, some tractors coming. There's a new album, and then there's new music. I'm basically like I'm in the most creative part of my life. I phil because of the pressure of every album having to be this like god Ganchuan pop Machine is off. I've had five of them now, and I feel like now is the time to actually explore doing stuff and taking risks because I'm going to be on a stadium tour for five years, or even if I put out an album and it bombs, I'm

still playing to ninety two thousand people that night. You know, it's there's no I don't feel the pressure of it. You're going to talk for the next five years and well including this year. Yeah, we finished in twenty twenty six. Wow, that's amazing. It's my guy and sharing man, and thank you for coming brother. Yeah, thanks you for always stepping bad to see us and I don't have to, but it's not I love it. I love it. It's always. It's always the best interview the day for me. I

love it all. It's my man and Sharing. It's the Breakfast Club, the Breakfast Club. Your morning's will never be the same. This ball a great night sleep. Start at Matches Firm right now, get King Beds for Queen prices, Queen Beds for Twin prices and save up to seven hundred dollars on select matches from tap brands. Visit a store near you or Matches Firm dot com. Today it's topic time called eight hundred five A five one oh five. Want to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club,

talk about it morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club and now if you just join us during get it off your chess. A woman call this morning and had a little issue at her son's school. Let's listen. My son comes into the car and tell me a teacher called him a jerk. So I'm ready to let this lady. My son is

six years old and a school teacher. Instead of inspiring them and being a role model, she over there calling him a jerk of law, telling him it's not science. So what would y'all do? Because I'm literally trying to make myself not getting concrated because I'm afraid of jail to be truthful with you, but I'm ready to let this lady have it, because enough is enough. Eight hundred five A five, one oh five one. We're asking what would you do if your six year old child called

a jerk in school? Now, Charlemagne and I were talking, and he is absolutely right. Back in my day, if a teacher called me a jerk, I definitely would say your mother your mother. I would say your mother is a jerk because I was a bad, disrespectful little kid who was always in trouble. And you know what would have happened in that situation. I would have gotten more trouble than the teacher because I would have been sent to the principal's office for saying that your mother is

a jerk. And then I'd have been in the principal's office trying to explain, well, she called me a jerk first, and none of my none of the teachers, none of the principles, my parents, none of them wouldn't want to hear that. No, okay, in that case, I wouldn't have got in trouble because as soon as I told my mother my father that a teacher called me a jerk, they would be like, all right, he was right for saying your mother. I don't know if they wouldn't Back

in the day, Brock. Back in the day, they didn't really listen to kids the way we listened to the kids listen to me. My parents listen to me like that was one thing I knew that if I ever got in trouble, I can call them immediately. So if a teacher called me a jerk, and I said, your mama is a jerk, then when my mama came to school,

then my mama would call your mom. My mom will called my teachers mama jerky, And truth be told, I've never been on the right side of any of that, but that's probably that was always it was all I always instigated. Yeah, that seems like you always in some way, shape or for him. But if that was my child, I would go have a conversation with that teacher immediately. Yeah, there's no email, there's no phone calls. I'm pulling up after school and I want to go talk to the

teaching I'm asked to teach you a simple question. Did you call my child a jerk? And then she says, yeah, I called him a jerk. Then we got to have a conversation, and I have to I can't even leave that conversation with you. I have to take that conversation immediately to your supervisor because that has to be on record for if I got to give you a weggie are slapped at you next time, I see, Well, you can't do it because she's a woman, But it depends.

We don't know all teachers aren't women. But in this case, the teacher as a woman and my wife was slapped, did you go? I mean I would do the first thing I would do is I would have my attorney draw up a letter because I would need to have it on record just in case that does happen and my wife has to slap the issh out of a teacher just wanting on record just in case and say

that this this teacher is h is very aggressive. Um, and then yeah, I would have my wife go down there and have a little chung lashing with this teacher. And by the way, were just talking. We would never hit the teaching so we would too them we really go to the supervisor. Okay, all that is true, but right, But I just I think that from the side of things,

from the teacher side of things. I remember when I was doing my apprenticeship to be a teacher, one of the teachers would always lose control in the classroom and talk crazy to the students, and students don't respect that when a teacher does that, and then it allows for them to feel like they can speak to her that way. Like you said, you would call the teacher a jerk back or say your mom is a jerk or something

like that. And so I just think that creating that environment makes people feel like that's appropriate to talk to each other that way, and you never want to do that as a teacher. That's why you always have to have control and be as authoritative as possible and also teach him how to show respect to each other. So I think that is one of the main things, because once you lose control like that, it's hard to get it back. Yeah, I agree with that, but I'll tell

you something. You do respect to teach it if she curses you out the way you and your friends curse each other out, like like if you said, if you call him an f boy, you know what I mean, I'll tell him he switched side like a little bitch. You know what I'm saying stuff like that. I'm telling you, why are you sending the bitch And I don't know why I ain't did that, but I'm gonna tell you something.

But I cursed them out that way. Respect. But I think you don't want kids to feel like it's appropriate to speak that way because then they talk to each other like that. They talk to me. You don't want them. You don't want to set that standard. They already area. I agree, but they already are talking to each other like that. And if you curse them out the way they cursed each other out, the whole class will be like, oh burn, And then that's the ego thing. I had

teach you to put hands on you too. Oh yes, I teach you that grabbed me by the copy by the shirt. Absolutely yeah that I don't think that happens as much anymore. But when I grew up Mom's corner, South Carolina, I'm telling me we had a fourth grade teacher in white elementary school, boy Miss Freeman used to put hands on people, boy be jacking us up in the classroom. To missus Harris, Miss Butterfield used to grab my cheeks, grab my cheeks in my face and pinch

them like pull me out the cub. Yeah, well, mister Harris, your cheeks its Harris. I ain't hit that part, you know, mister Harris, did what do your cheeks? Hello? Kids, do you want to discuss this child of trauma that you experienced? Wow? Hello, this try. My name is Alicia, Alicia, Good morning, Good morning y'all doing what did the teacher call your kids? It was an after school teacher and he said my

son looked like squidbird Like who squid word? Squid word? Well, before we judge, does he No, he don't know, he don't, So I pressed the situation. I went right back to the after school right after, because I like to address things right then. To me, I'm not taking it home. Um, he didn't want me to go back because you know, like he no, he don't stop playing with me, and

he doesn't. He doesn't, So um I went back. I'm like, I want to talk to such and such whatever the teach your name was, because he said my son look like squidbird. I'm ready to I'll see him coming. I'm ready to go all off on him. But long I'm still be sure. Come to find out, my son told the teacher that the teeth is my something he looked previ that was me. I was that kid rant, so you know, you know, and I had to address it

and I let my child know. I'm like, that's not because that the teacher's not your thoughts because I'm ready. I'm like, you're gonna get me in trouble one day because I'm always ready to go up on the teacher because I don't play behind my kids saying like something I'm said. I would go to jail behind mine. But my kid is that kid with the mouth that's gonna tell you how he fails. So we just got to get to the bid of the story before we jumped down.

Absolutely that was me, and that's why whatever stuff like that used to happen. First thing, my dad was he well what did you do? Because it was always one side, what did you do? And then he was right. A lot of the time I did instigate that I'd be the one message with the teacher, and the teacher say something back to me, and now I'm upsetting. Hello, who's this? This is Tempers from the Bronze tempaing to us. Well, listen, I'm meeting her at the school, and we gotta discuss

why she sat. It was okay for her took for my child a church. I'm going there, and then I'm going to the principle because the principal needs to put her in check to know. If my child did something, you tell me and I'll handle it. That's not your place. First. If you calling him names, that's right. How you going good morning? You put my child to jerk nah, and then you say and then you say, I want to see you dance, and then you put onto your jerk song.

That's right, jerk good bye. You make the teacher dance backwards, moll. The story is stop playing with people churing. Okay, It's simple. It's really that simple. That same golden rule. Y'll be teaching them kids doing the others you would have them doing to you treat people's kids the way you want them to treat your kids and your grandkids before somebody have you in that classroom dancing to your jerk. Okay,

don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club, wanting everybody in CJ Envy and charlom Nay, we are the Breakfast Cluse. We've got a special guest in the villain. Jammy dominated Lizzy six times, six times number one song Lizzo number one song album this week, Lizzie, how are you yourself? Lizz Lizzie, how are you forget the career and stuff? How are you personally? I am finally okay, yeah, today to day, I woke up in a good mood and a good ass moe. I woke up by five am.

Word that you know I always tell when I'm sitting down. My therapists always say I'm somewhere between O and K. I think that's a good place to be A by C D h J. No, Okay, like I love that Litz and called y'all Lizzie guzzlers. The meeting Glizze gladiators in the bill, that's not what happens that what happened. That's what I heard. That's not how it started. We were talking about cot dogs, yes, and then for some reason we got into Ryan's. Oh Ryan, Oh Ryan's that's

what she said. She said Ryan's belt. You were talking about Glizzy, yes, and I was like, I didn't know it was a Glizzie. I thought Lizzie's hot dog. Lizzie are hot dogs. But it's also I never heard of it. That's a gun a Glizzie. I never heard that. When what do you call it? Like? When you were called to it? Yeah? What do you where do you normally use? I say, um o, whoa whoa? Because you're not called the wee wee's. But that sounds small, so I say

who you say it like that? Who? I don't know if that gad, that's actually a good way to make a guy feel as you say special, you'd be like, whoa, whoa? I don't know. Plug the album, Yeah, if it's cute like Lizzie's albums out this Friday. Now let's talk about it. Now. You did this through the pandemic, Yes, I did. How was that because you didn't have producers, you didn't have people around you were you had to figure it out yourself. Well, the first songs were bad, well good. I mean I'm

a great songwriter, so the songs were still good. But I was in my home studio beating on a guitar and like doing an MPC trying to make beats. It wasn't it. But really, all of these songs came after I wrote Rumors. When I put Rumors out, I was like, this is how the world sees me. After Rumors came out, I got all this backlash and I was like, holy, and I'm not used to being in the public eye and dropping a song. So I wrote Special to kind of like protect myself and remind myself how special I am.

I love fact that you had self awareness to know that the music wasn't good, because you know, sometimes your ego will tell you like everything I do is great. Like when you think you developed that type of self awainning, I think it's because I'm a perfectionist and I'm really hard on myself. So I cut a lot of songs from the album. I wrote like over one hundred and seventy songs, and I had to cut a lot. Some

of them had some of my favorite lyrics. I was rapping more on some songs, and I was like, I gotta show people out wrap, you know. But I narrowed it down to like the perfect songs. I was like, it has to be a perfect song, it has to mean something. So I think, um, I can just be super hard on myself. It's really that, how do you know you're not lying to yourself? Because you know, the things we tell ourself is the most important. How you

know you're not lying to yourself? Because I lie to myself in the opposite direction, and I'll be like this ain't good and people have to be like, bitch, is good what you're talking about? Oh? I mean like you could be lying in some the music could be actually good. But how do you know when you're not lying yourself? If it's just you? You know that happened when about damn time. I was like, oh, I don't know about this when y'all, and it was the last song to

be written for the album. I turned in my master's in March and I wrote it in February and I was like, I don't know about this one, y'all. And I was the number one songs. Yeah, so it was wrong. I don't know. I love proved me wrong. When when the Lizzle get the confidence people talk now they be like, I want confidence, like Listle, So when did you get the confidence and be okay with the world and the trolls and the shots that they always stow at you and you go to the game, they throw a shot

at you. You say something that's cool in the States but might be not cool overseas, they throw shots at you. When did you develop that confidence? I think it's because my intention is always good. I'm very confident in the content of my character and the fabric of my of my being. Like I feel like I'm a good person, um, and that's always my north star. I'm always like, you know what, I didn't mean wrong? I was confused too a lot of things. When I get backlash, I'll be like, wait,

what did I do the spast and confused us? Like I was mad you changed that because you know anywhere people like you spassed out. It's not being words matter. Spas means to lose physical or emotional control like a coach can spas during a game. You can spas out because you're upset about something like. It doesn't just mean a physical ailment. It's a nuanced conversation, and I was like, what's the best thing I can do. I could say my opinion on it and just add to everyone else's opinion,

or I can do something about it. And really I wanted to be a leader in what we should be doing as a culture, like making this world a better place. Like if they could do that for black people, that would be amazing. True when we call things out, if they can make changes that quickly for us, If I can do it that quickly, I did it on a Sunday night, it was fixed by Monday. They could do that for us when we call out the injustices about us.

So if you wanted to be a leader in that, you say fixed, but you didn't do anything wrong because you use it in this proper context, like words matters. This is a dictionary defined word, right, you know, and you used it in the proper context. You know it was news to me. You'll learn something new every day. Yeah, I think it was a great example to say, Okay, people have a problem with this, It's not a big deal for me to just change the word. It wasn't

my intent to offend people. I feel like that was kind of like, you know, a good way to instead, because sometimes you can get defensive and then it turns into a whole way business. The words matters, words do matter, and you use the words of the the proper condex intention, I think, and I think that people pick and choose when intention matters, and in this case, my intention was pure. Anyone who knows me, and anyone who listened to the context of the song would know that I didn't use

it as a slur. I didn't even use it as a slur. I use it as like an adjective, as the dictionary defined word. You use it right, hold my bag, bitch, hold my bag, and you see that I'm as bad. Yeah, okay, girl, okay, okay, that she's right. It's not a slur. It's a word in the dictionary, and you use it in this proper country, and words can be used as slurs. So that's where

the nebulous, the gray area comes in. I didn't use it as a slur, and I think that the backlash of you just lost a fan is unnecessary and someone's intention wasn't negative or too harmful. Okay, my cancel, man, how do you know these people? I'm not saying that all of them aren't real, but sometimes people just do things with you on social media. So how do you know that these are even real people and not like Box?

I think that I have a gift of discernment from God, and I use it very wisely because every time I get backlash, I don't apologize or change things. This was a rare instance for me because I did the research. I don't think I just go off of what people say. I need to look into it for myself and know what I'm doing before I make a big decision like that. Because I was a big decision. You're gonna be changing the lyrics to Everybody's gay because everybody's not gay that LGBTQ,

plus it's a whole spectrum. Everybody's gay is not what you think. It is happy. That's what it means, happiness. See words matter. It's not what I'm saying. You see what I'm saying. Words matter. It's up to your interpretation. You can interpretat okay, gay is an experience with Youzze Brown, Glizzie with a pink chip. That's all Ryan. They actuate, we are we got more with Lizza when we come back,

do moves to breakfast. Everybody is angela year. So the guy we Are to Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Lizzo ye BT Awards. I remember I woke up in the morning and Row versus Wag was overturned. And I know that's something that you've been really focused on as far as making sure that people have money and access to be able to make decisions about their own family plans. Absolutely. I mean, between me and Live Nation, we've pledged a million dollars to plant Pidenthood and abortion

funds and um. Also over Fourth July weekend, I was like, yeah, let's celebrate our independence. Anything you buy an idy that's going straight to abortion funds, all the proceeds to abortion funds. So I was born to do this, and once I was ready in this position to give back, I was like, let's go. It's time. Like that's I got my Yetio know, I'm saying yitt he chained gied up down, yitie. That's my nickname when I was a little kid. Okay, how do you get that? Well, my name is Melissa and

my brother could say he said Mayita. So my aunt she was like, Yeda, you say yie, and so yitty, you know, in Detroit we all got nicknames. Lizzo was in middle school. Okay, so Melissa, you know in Houston you will put the oh on the end, so it was lissoy. So I have a lot of names, Guys, I have a lot of nicknames. Now, since you write your own music, let's talk about some of these songs. Okay, okay, break up twice? What inspired up? So? I had a

barbecue at my house and I invited a man. And you tell your girlfriend that go down, you know, and so they always know and then they'd be bad at him. At this particular barbecue, we got a little drunk and she I saw her corner and she was like, if you her, I'm a slash your motherfuck. I was like, oh my god. But I also was like, damn, that's real. Friends, you know your ex's tires? Like is that your friend? Do you have plans? Was her extra timeable? What was

he getting back in? He was getting back in and at that time, see what I'm saying is she had slashed the ties. And the reason, you know what, she didn't slash them tires though, because he ain't. He's been right over since. And so I went in the studio that week with Mark Ronson, and I was like, I need to write about this, Like all my songs are about things that happened to me. Literally, the first verse talks about the barbecue list. They have to know that

they could possibly be on the song. Absolutely I'm black, Taylor Swift, I really am. I'm trifling. But that was heard about telling your friends something when things are going bad and then they hate the guy into dating and then y'all get back together and they're like, we don't say all this time. See, that's why I don't talk too badly about his character. It's just what he do. I'd be like, he's a good person, but this is what he did. Am I tripping? And they're like, you're

not tripping, You're not tripping. Do you talk about the Glizzie too? Because sometimes women don't want to talk to their friends about what it's like, but some girls say why. I heard women say that I don't want to talk about how good a guy is in bed to other women because I don't want them to Well, obviously what your friends. But I've heard them say I don't want anybody to know because wow, I don't have that fear. But it's like, okay, you kind of got to think

analyze your relationship with that buying their friends. If you feel like I can't say yeah because the first thing you want to do is that girl, let me tell you it was amazing. Yeah, oh my god, new fear unlocked. Have you ever told a friend that with the intent to share? Have women ever done that? Like, you need to get some of that. I have been in that situation. It was like it was kyo. It was like, I don't recommend five stars. You should try it. Wow. Yeah,

honestly that happens. There was a real kid. Yeah, it was. And then they got it canceled. Bring it back back? Oh, got canceled before hubs still around. Come on, we need something too, damn let us have guil. What was y'all rating beyond guili? You asked a nice night not early met would get about a zero? Yeah, we heard Shut up, damn crazy. I'm not explaining nothing. You heard from his wife told us all that he was so close your mouth. It's not that bad. You just asked me to tell

us what. I met my wife when she was fifteen. I was sixteen, So the first time we had sex. For the first ten years, I couldn't make an orgasm from She was like, my game was goods were young, but we could ten years. You imagine listen, you couldn't orgasm for ten years. You have right managers. It may twenty one to get the twenty seven. I haven't even been with nobody for ten years. I can't imagine being with somebody for ten years. That's a long time, Yo,

you're gonna be with this one for ten years? Whoa who maybe name? I'm not gonna ta you how it already is. There was on a red We haven't done a red carpet yet. By the way, I just want to point that out Instagram official. That was an f YC. Why didn't I ain't tag them? We haven't done a carpet yet. When we do a carpet official, y'all gonna know. So Instagram official is not a thing if you don't tackle exactly. Wow, does he keep you laughing all the time?

You know that's important? Look at that blessing. He's funny, yeah, funny, Oh yeah yeah. I think a traditional like relationship scares me for ten years. But love is forever. I can love somebody forever. I want to hear more. What does the non traditional relationship look like the I don't even like to say words like non traditional tradition relationships like monogamy I think to me is a little claustrophobic. I think because there's the rules. I think a love relationship

that's not monogamous has no rules. And I think people who do Polly and all that stuff, there's still rules. It's like, well, you can see this person, but you can't see this person. I don't want any rules. But that doesn't mean I'm out here ducting and you know what I'm saying, Um, it doesn't mean he is either. It just means that, like there's just no expectations. Yeah, And that way the love gets to just be like the main event, not like the well you were supposed

to call me and why are you home? Bike? Like it's like, do what you want to do as long as you love me. That's not interesting to me because I don't think the male ego could ever handle that. I think the male ego is too fragile for that. What do you mean? I just don't think a man could ever deal with his woman being with another man, another woman probably more than like and they love it. Yeah, that's why. That's what I heard things about it. That's

the way to times true, right What if? What if he was like I just wanted to be in them and not just me and you. I don't want you to do nothing else. I want to be with you. Well, we could still have that and not call it monogamy. Okay, it's the label just love. It's like, I just love you. I'm not worried about nobody else. I'm not worried about nobody else sexually, romantically, or emotionally. I'm just worried about you, and I think that's what we have, which is the

most beautiful, pure thing ever. You could be committed the one Glizzie for the rest of la Maybe this g Lizzie. Okay, okay, all we got more with Lizza when we come back. Don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning. Breakfast Club is still picking Mizzo. When it comes to reactions, what causes a greater reaction being number one, having a number one song, I'll being nominated for six emmis My reactions are very quiet, like I don't go whoa. I haven't

gone whoa about anything in a long time. Really, I think I carry all of my shock and excitement like inside. So even when I got the Emmy call yesterday morning, like I didn't know what to do next, and my sister was like, oh, outside and scream. I got some roosters in my backyard and I woke the roosters up. She was like, with the roosters up for a change, And I was like, I got sick. Said the rooster was like, yeah, did any of the roosters ever chased you?

This is why I can't be on this show. The truth. I'm just trying to tell me the proper context of the world. That is when using no, I'm not gonna TikTok. You know that I do not have any control over what this man said or does. TikTok is out of my control. TikTok, no I do. I disagree with everything. I disagree the checks. Just please keep me out of it.

If you're gonna come from somebody, please come fort that you about prints and can you tell us one of those stories for people that haven't heard of you working in the studio with Princes because he even was gonna ep an album for you before you pass. That's wow. So can you tell what are those stories of you?

Makes me so sad? Actually thinking and talking about it. Um. I think one of the greatest stories I still have is um I got invited to Paisley Park like last minute to see Prince perform on piano, and Um I walked in and I was like, you think he's going to uh purple Rain, and like he don't do purple

Rain no more. And then he did Purple Rain. And when he was performing Purple Rain, he started getting emotional and he started crying towards the end, and then um, he finished it and he got up and he stormed off the stage and we were like hot Stan and he came back out and was like, I gotta put that song in a different spot because it was early in the set. Did he say anything to you that that empowered you early on, like made you feel like, man,

I can really do this. Yeah, he said, Lizzen, you're next. You're up next, and then said it in magazines like you know, it was proud of me. Was giving me co signs when nobody was giving me CO signs when I was an indie rapper, Like that was such a big deal to me. I do a lot of things to make Prince proud seven years ago, right, Yeah, Wow, yeah, a long time ago and he wanted to epa album. Huh, I would have been crazy, that would have been. I

still have the emails to this day. I look at it sometimes and be like, he never said a beat to nothing yet he was no. Yeah, I mean that's the way interest because I think I went out like what musical direction would Prince have taken? Right? Um? And I really wonder that likes one of the things I will never know, but I just wonder. I wonder too. I think he wanted me to be on my like rap and sing like he wanted to get weird with it. Well, you know, we'll never know. Growing up as a kid,

you know, your mother was singing gospel music. You went into the church, so when you started popping and you were cursing and what what the mom? The family thing? I still don't cuss in front of my mom exactly. She had songs, she had interviews. I always have to apologize. I'd be like mommy, you know, but now that I'm rich, she's like girl but a cusan out. But they're like, bit let me tell you like prayer. But um, Yeah,

in the beginning, I was so nervous and scared. I didn't cuss at all my first projects on Little Bangers, I didn't cuss Big Girl, Small World, I didn't cuss because I was afraid that my great grandma would hear me. And um, one day, I was just like, you know, I gotta say what I want to say. If I hold back, you know, I'm gonna stay back. So I told my mom. I was like, when I'm on stage, I'm gonna say some bad words, but it's cool, right, And She's like, it's fine. She don't like cussing because

she can't cuse she's she's a virgo. She's bad at Cussing's Virgos can't really cuss good a virgo. I'm a cancer. I'm a virgo, sensitive, emotional. You're a virgo. You cuss? Yes, it sounds sound. It really don't sound you know how you know it doesn't sound right? His voice gets high? You got it? Hey? All you gotta do is go back to an interview with Jesus and Marrow stas off, pick up the getting tea. They't even looking mirrables like that's the best. You got a custom? How important to

role is faith play in your life? Oh? It's everything. I I mean I grew up in the Church of God in Christ, right, I think my anxiety got in the way of my faith for a long time, because if you're afraid, it means you're not trusting in God. I say to Lord's prayer every single day. Now. I started maybe like during the pandemic, actually because I was having nightmares. I was going through it because the world and I was also having a lot of personal loss

and issues and problems. And I started praying every single day. And it is like the most important part of life. This is better than any vitamin you can take. It is sitting back and praying and knowing that you are covered. But let's play special right now. And we appreciate you for joining us. But we got to end on the prayer because you're talking about thank you God and pray every day and he wants you to pray. Are you want me to pray? About to pray? Also? Okay, we're

gonna We're gonna get into this. Y'all know you can't wake the whole money. This is about to be up you. You need to hold Paulo hand. Everybody's jail, right, I can feel the energy in here. This pc yes for every day in the mirror. Lord God, we thank you so so, so so much every single day for life and life more abundantly. Lord God. I just want to plead the blood of Jesus on every single person in this room, Lord God, and extend that out into this

entire building. Jesus, they are covered, Lord God. They are more than conquerors, Lord God, and I pray that we can go out and conquer the day, Lord God, fearlessly to know that you are with us, Lord God, you are by our side. Thank you so much, Lord God. Every single day we pray and we love you and Jesus name. Amen. I'm gonna tell you something, playing fingers

and soften. What can I say, Lizzie grabber by the way like you copying him with this because right after the prayer, but guess what, God knows all said he did this first. I just want to tell you when he was like that. But no, my mind was not. It wasn't. Yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't a more my actual actual as it was not a mold of my actual birth. He was a little copy mea as the mold. Wait, I'm sorry, what is going on? Everybody's gay? He gave me a mold as that is so sweet? And what

did you do with it? As the question tell the truth and this one time there you go. Okay, ten years of practice, So get you somewhere. Okay, the breakfast club. Your mornings will never be the same, fastball. A great night's sleep starts at Matches Firm right now, get King beds for Queen prices, Queen beds for twin prices, and save up to seven hundred dollars on select mattresses from top brands. Visit a store near you or Matches Firm dot com. Today you are, don't you? It's time to day.

Donkey today does not discriminate. I might not have the song of today, but I got to donkey that. So if you ever feel I need to be a donkey, man it with the breakfast club. Bitches, Please don't keep the day today? Yeah, don't you? To day goes to Terrell christa song of Santa Fe, New Mexico. He's thirty

four years old. Let me tell you something. The reason I have made my life's work helping people heal, getting folks to invest in their mental wealth is because of God's Like Terrell Sea, I'm gonna use the word crazy here because I need you all to understand where I'm coming from. Okay, every day of our lives, we are trying to avoid crazy, not just our own crazy, but the crazy that exists within us. See, we can't run from ourselves. That's why you have to do the work

on yourself so you don't hurt yourself or others. Okay, because when you don't do the work on yourself, you end up projecting that hurt and that pain and that crazy onto other people. Okay, but other people we really can't control. We can only encourage, and someone like Terrell definitely needed some encouragement. Let's go to ko AT Action News seven for the report. Please to hit what Terrell did?

Please russe a man in Santa Fe, where officers say he broke into a home, drank some beer, feasted on some shrimp, then took a bubble bath. Police said the homeowner found the intruder inside his home in southwest Santa Fe. The man told you a homeowner he needed a more place to stay, apologize for breaking in, and left two hundred dollars on a chair to pay for the window. Aryl Christensen has charged with aggravated burglary. Larceny and criminal danna.

Now see, Terrell Christensen is what you would call a compassionate criminal, a holistic home invader. If you will, imagine walking in your house and someone in there holding an AAR fifteen, drinking a beer, eating up all the shrimp, and taking a bubble bath. I know that sounds like one of the hardest covers of a rap album you ever seen, but it's not. This really happened. And then Terrell apologized to the homeowners, saying he just needed a place to sleep and did you hear what they said?

He left police to play the news your port one more time? Right? Police a russa man in Santa Fe, where officers say he broke into a home, drank some beer, feasted on some shrimp, then took a bubble bath. Police said the homeowner found the intruder inside his home in southwest Santa Fe. The man told the homeowner he needed a more place to stay, apologize for breaking in, and left two hundred dollars on a chair to pay for the window. Teryl Christensen has charged with aggravated burglary, larceny,

and criminal danna. He broke the window and left two hundred dollars on a pay for the window, before packing up his gun in the duffel bag and quietly departing. Not clearly, this man is sick. Clearly this man needs help. Let's thank god nobody got shot first. Okay, all right, let's let's thank God for that, all right. And by nobody, I mean the owner of the home and Terrell. But I could easily give Terrelle the credit he deserves of breaking in the house, drinking a bed, taking a bubble bath,

and eating all the scrimps. And I'm gonna tell you something, in my old age, I have grown to have empathy and compassion for people like Terrell, because to say you're broke into someone's house just because you needed a warm place to stay, that's an act of desperations. I pray I never have to experience. But Terrell, the reason you're getting dunkey are to day, it's because you left two

hundred dollars on a chair for the homeowner. The average price of a more talent Albuquerque, New Mexico it's ninety eight dollars on a weeknight, one hundred and thirty dollars on the weekend. I google this, Okay, I know inflation is kicking everyone's ass, but you still would have money to get some bearing some scrimps. Okay, gotta be a bubble gumps, all right, Captain Dee's around Santa Fe somewhere, all right, twelve pack of butt light ten dollars and

forty nine cents at Walmart. Get you some kids bubble bath miss the Bubbles three ninety nine. You don't even have to get the honest brand bubble bath. That's like eleven twelve dollars. Go by the kid's brand, Okay, to save some money. Moral of the story is, dude, you know how much two hundred dollars is? All right? You breaking in people's houses, eating their food, drinking their beer, using that tub, and you got money in your pocket. Clearly something is wrong, you know, I know something was

wrong with this thoughtful thug. Well, he didn't get arrested that day. He got arrested the next day after he tried to steal a woman's car at gunpoint at a

church's chicken in Santa Fe. All Right. The woman told cops she was waiting for her food in the drive through line when Terrell pulled up and pulled out and demanded that she get out of the car because he was taking it, and then he ran off when she started blowing her horn, and he was picked up by police when he was spotted walking down a road later

that day. Terrell told police that he had been caught in the blizzard on Sunday and broke into the home out of fear of freezing, and he felt bad about breaking the window, but he ref used speak about the attempt to car jacket at Church's chicken. All right, he's not all there, all right, but he's dare enough, and the fact he had two hundred dollars in his pocket, but instead of going to get a motel, he chose

to break into someone's house. And he was charged with aggravated burglary, larceny, and criminal damage the property for the Sunday breaking and an additional aggravated the soul charge for the attempt to car jacking. Listen, man, Yes, everybody has to deal to consequences of their actions, but what is jail gonna do for this guy? He clearly needs to be getting some type of psychological evaluation and be somewhere,

you know, getting some mental health services. But in the meantime he has to get the credit he deserves for making poor choices. Please give Terrell Christa san the biggest he are. All right, Oh god, okay, envy got guess it's time to play a game of guess what raising And I printed out his picture just in case you wanted up play. Okay, all right, all right, I'm ready.

Terrell Christason, thirty four years old, New Mexico broke into somebody's house, ate up all the strimps, drank all a bell, took a bubble bath, and left him two hundred dollars for the window. He broke angela yea, guess what race? He um? What's his name? Began Terrell? Terrell Christa soon, Christa song, Christens song, Christen song. Oh this sounds French or something connect. We don't have a whatever any French drops but we we right? And then it politely left money.

What you say Germans have a reputation, do they French? I said French. You can't say French. We don't have French. And I said we we claim to be I've never claimed to be a genius. All right, and clean went to college, right, she's the one. I'm just following her. So you go with white. I don't know, but I don't need white. People need Terrell. You going, you gotta pick one. Terrell Christis. I want the Christis song signed

the Rockefeller Christian Christian Chris Joran um Man. It's tough for me, man, because Terre, I don't know a white person one big a race. We know non white, non white, that's an option always. That don't mean black though not white. I ain't non white, he said, no white dj n V. Terrell Christa sault Okay, thirty four years old, New Mexico, broke into somebody's house, ate up all the scrimps, drank all the bill, took a bubble bath, and then left

two hundred dollars for the person. Jes what R fifteen. Let me not forget that part. Damn man, that's a big clue. That's a big clue. Is a big clue. I was gonna go black, right, And I'm gonna tell you why I was gonna go black. I was gonna go black because you said churches chicken. He went to the church of chicken. He's at the church, went to the churches. The robber card not for the chicken. Oh my back. But then then I don't think if a black person ran into somebody house, he's gonna take a

bubble bath. Could be his spanning, you know what I mean, I don't think it. But then you said a off fifteen, and I think A fifteen that's a white man. I think that's a white man's gun. White, that's the white shooter. That's right, Yeah, because black people got the small gun because we got tuck it. But we ain't got no. We can't walking around with him. You hurry up and guess what I'm going. I'm going white. I mean, I

could be wrong, you are wrong. Right, it's white. I know it as I know most y'all look white to me. If he can identify as a white man, that's for sure he white white. Yes, all right, you got that one right. I know. It's the bubble bath. The bubble bath and the A fifteen. Go get to Rell some help. Man needs some help. He said, there's no white people. I don't know any white people named to you. Well

now you do, all right? Well thank you for that, donkey Ja the breakfast club, hell, the relationship advice, need personal advice, just the real advice. Call up nown for asking morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. It's time for asking ye hello, who's this? This is mister B. I want to remain anonymous, though, but I'm just gonna save mister be from day in Ohio. Man, I can't with you this morning, I mister d that

wants to be anonymous. What's quest? Well? Good morning, good morning miss Year and Charlomagne the guard'm Aa dude, yo DJ, what's that? Mister Mann? She my ex girlfriend right now, but she want to she want to get back with me. But my question is it's the white girl she owned the date black guy? Okay and uh. We were going to the Taste of Cincinnati on a Saturday morning, so she decided she want to drive her car so I

could get in on the driver side. I look on the floorboard and I see a Black and Mile rapper. That's you know, you know how you know how this you know? Okay, So a Black and Mile rapper with the back end it oh, smoke blacking Mile. She don't smoke Black and Mile, and I didn't want to accuse her, so I said, I said to myself, maybe one of her girlfriends smoking the lifting so I picked it up and I said, can't you explain this to me? And she hit me with the oaky dough you know, always

fluid in the wind. Man, take that down, flying the window. I gonna fly in the window, and it got the back end it. Then she saying, well, I got at the gas station. Must have stuck to the bottom of the shoe. I say that sticky on this rapper, you know what I mean. So she to this day, that's that's been probberly two months ago. To this day, she still ain't come up with a good explanation how it got in the car. You know what I mean, We're gonna die. We're gonna down the road to go dow

under sincin matter. Now, I'm a hood dude from you know from it. I'm a hood. I'm a hood and she's a suburb. No I got. I used to hustle before I started driving Trump. I'm a Trump driver. So we got pulled over. Some stuff come up from a pat and uh, they put the hand cuts on me, you know. But all they wanted to do with serrupy or summons to go to court. That's it, and out in and out she brought that up and want to

break up with me. I'm talking about you're gonna get mad with me because I found the Black and Mile rapper in your car, and you're gonna bring up some old stuff to break up with me. You think got shit? You think I got shit forgivea and get back with or what? No, it sound like the sounds like too much driving. First of all, she lies to you, and you know she's lying right. Secondly, and then she broke up with you at the time that you really, you know,

needed her. You already gave her another chance after she lied to you. Why would you go back? Exactly? You got out, get out? Okay, Okay, That's what I needed to hear. Why Why were you Why were you even considering it? Because you know we we've been we've been

together going on three years now. We don't broke up about four or five times, you know, because she I even went to council like Charlemagne saying, I went to council to be a better man, you know, because I got issues, you know, from you know, when I was in cancer rating, you know, abandonment issues and stuff like that, and proud of you came, Thank you man, thank you.

She she went to council with me. But the final straw was I brought up you know, I brought it up in counseling and the councilor try to tell her how young Blackney grow up in the hood with no father figure and stuff like that. So she tried to tell the council what to due to the count she made the counsel to get off the zoom Yeah, to hang up. What Yeah, it doesn't. Yeah, this doesn't sound

like it's going anywhere for you. Okay, okay, that's that's what I needed to hear though that, you know I was, I was on like then she try to she tried to put me in a friend zone. Yeah, it doesn't sound like you have anything too positive to say. Everything you've said to me is all the reasons why you don't want to be with her. I just asked you why you want to go back. The only thing you could say is because y'all been off and on for three years. That ain't a reason I'm playing. You know

I'm playing. I love her, but I don't love enough to be visible. I'll put it that weight. Okay, Well you answered your own question, mister b. But thank you, thank you Okay, Charlemagne, you're my dude. Man. I appreciate you, King. I'm proud of you too. Brother. Keep keep being, keep being a better version of yourself. Man, keep going to therapy. Oh yes, sir, yes, sir. Y'all have a good day. Man, I so appreciate it. Man to ask ye eight d five eight five one oh five one if you need

relationship advice. He e now was the breakfast club? Good morning? It's that time ask Charlemagne and DJ nd anything make it up up, It's time to a see any morning. Everybody in CJ and envy angela Ye, Charlemagne, the guy we are the breakfast club in the middle of our seat and eat. And I just want to say that the guy who called, uh, you know, he just needed to deal with the reality that his woman doesn't want

to be with him anymore. Like you can't diagnose her with mental health issues just because she told you repeatedly she don't want to be with you no more. Just use mental health as an excuse. Well that's him using that as an excuse for her. That's silly. All right, Well, let's go to the phone line. We have Nate on the line. Nate, good morning, Good morning, what's going on?

DJ King asked, any what's your question? Yeah, listen, man, what you do when you got two wives that you've been with the years together, been with one for twenty five, one for seventeen. But they're still in competition. Huh? He has two wives, so he's been married twice. He's been married to one for twenty five years. But you know, you know, you know, coming coming a little marriage seven years, right,

what I'm a long marriage is seven years? Oh yeah, Okay, he's been married to one for twenty five and the other one seven. You neither one of them because I can't get matter unless I change my religion. They I'm saying it, but my bob or they both live in the house with you, same house. Okay one I just had a baby with one four years ago. The other one you're trying to have a baby for the past four years, but we can't. But they're always going to competition.

Tell about you don't love me, you only love her. Well, that's good. I mean you should want them to constantly be in competition with each other. Keep them on their toes. The house you went, you went either way like then you don't feel feeling talk the talk. I think you don't mean what's the problem you hurt? I think what's gonna happen is you you put them in competition with each other. Happen man hating on you, envy hating on you. Nope, nope, no,

I'm not putting them in competition. I'm just like you chose with you sold it ain't for you, don't use it, but everybody gonna suck up. I don't see nothing wrong with the competition. I think a little friendly competition is fine. Okay, let me ask you a question. I told you, bro, no, you don't really get an age forty four forty four, So let me ask your question. You still got enough energy in town for two for two? Ops? I mean

big Doug. When when you when you commit, you will in if they choose, you know, I put it to you. I put it to you like this, They say, let them make a choice, right, did you tell them and they know what it is? And then all you do is bring together. Now you you kind of lose your power because now they tell each other, but then come back to you with one dud but other So let me out of do they sleep with each other? Man? I don't know what nobody do it. I just do

what that do, big dogs. I'm saying, you don't know if the women sleep with each other in the house like y'all have three s, but that that doesn't really like I put it to you like this, you know, now choose. It's a way to fake it is a way to make it. I mean, liten, you're faking it to make it. It ain't gonna last. They don't talk to me like you know, Pemp, I ain't one of your wives. Now tell me the truth. Did they sleep with each other or not? I don't know they yet?

All right? They have okay, right up, lavitre blue shoes as that big does none of that? This little push ups get that blood flow. That's all listen, hither thingum. Competition is very good as long as it's healthy. It's what makes one person describe to be better. So I don't see the problem with a little healthy competition. Competition in the household sir? When when? When is it? Though? When they can't get comfortable, do they ever gonna get you?

Should you never let them get comfortable? He got I don't have too wid bro. You you setting yourself up. You got one pregnant, the other one having a baby. You're setting yourself up, bro, don't listen to him. Okay, myself up. But I made my choice, so I treat with it. Don't don't let them get comfortable. King, you do your thing. Can you keep doing your thing until you can't do your thing no more? When you can't do your thing no more, you call us and let

us know about it. You can't wait till you got to take your kid to elementary school or the first day of school, and you got two mamas and one daddy and two kids, and you're gonna be the envy of all the daddy. No, no, no, what I'm saying too, I got a grown son. I waited so boom we was rocking. I waited until my son with to college to make another baby. So once I made the baby with one, I gotta get the other one of the baby seventeen join she's somebody be like, yo, where's mother.

I don't know what you're talking about confusing, but I do know that competition is good as long as it's healthy. Keep the competitiveness up between your two sister. Wise, is that what they call I think something like that. It's a breakfast clug the morning the breakfast club, there's some real advice with Angela. Yet's ask ye wanting? Everybody is DJ envy Angela yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the breakfast club. We're in the middle of asking, ye, Hello,

who's this the club with no breakfast? What's going on? You know? That's right? I got a serious question, Angela. Ye, and I need you to give me a serious answer, Okay, Angela. When a man is act for an opinion on when a woman wears, or a new hairstyle or whatever. Are we are we supposed to give you, guys, one hundred percent honest to god truth. Are we supposed to tell you what you want to hear? But if we're asking you a question, we have to be prepared for that answer. So,

but are you prepared for the answer. Let's just say you ask that question with the assumption that you know you're gonna like the answer. But what if you don't. Would you rather the person lied to you or just be brutally obvious? I'd rather you tell the truth. But you don't have to be brutal about your truth. You know, so you know who your girlfriend is and you know how she handles things. Some people can take it and some people can't. So it's all about how you say things.

You don't have to be like, man, I hate that outfit that you have on. You look terrible, and I could see, yeah, Poopa, you don't got to do all that, but you can be like, Okay, I don't think it's the most flattering outfit. Like when you hear a little bit more detail. My friend trying to headstall that I've never seen before. She she's never tried it before, so she took a picture of it and send it to me,

and my only response was different. Okay, you didn't like the different response, right, So all I said was this is given predator vibes. But I wasn't talking about my girlfriend or the way she looks. I was talking about the hairstyle. And she didn't like the fact she didn't know what Predator was. Then googled it and slue what Predator was. Then, I mean, I've been in the doghouse ever since. Well, yeah, it's probably the way you said it. You know, she liked her hairstyle. You could have said

it's not the most flattering. I like when you have your style, like this better. But you know, sometimes because it is like a little trying to be funny, make a little jokey joke, but she could have been feeling sensitive. Yeah, yeah, I'm assuming the doghouse. She wasn't feeling that one at all, So I guess I got to be more since I guess right. And look, some women could have laughed that off and be like, oh my god, Okay, you know what I'm saying. But you know your girl and you

know she didn't laugh at off. So it's just how you say things. You can get your point across. People always feel like, oh you gotta beat brutally, honest, you don't have to be brutal, especially now with your girlfriend and a hairstyle you can always change so it's not something permanent, so you can always tell her what you

do like. I think that helps too. You can say, you know what my favorite hairstyle is that you did when you did this and when you did that, and that kind of lets somebody know what it is that you do like and be like, hey, look we all try things. Sometimes they don't work out. Absolutely, Oh I think she I appreciate everybody, all right, How would you feel if she was like she adn't like something for her Gee, I said, I don't came home with haircuts

the chewing life. I was supposed to go back to the barber and tell him to pick my hair from the ground and put it back on my head, Like you don't like everything I've ever done? You know what I'm saying. So, but the way that she expressed it was it harsh. I mean it was through text message, So through text message you take things how you perceive and not really how the person wants you to perceive it.

So I don't think I was mean about it, but but she might have read it in a way that I was like, Wow, you're being up you know I'm being mean or being right? Well good, it's a great conversation for you guys have and it sounds like something she'll get over and move on, But it's also a lesson learned moving up forward in the future. How do you respond to things? She is getting ready for working

the mirror right now, listen to me laughing. I'm right, all right, gay, I appreciate all right, no problem, right, have a good one, all right, the breakfast club. Your mornings will never be the same. Draft Kingsports Book is an Officials Sports Beene partner of the NBA. They are little the Draft King Sports Book app today and use code envy for a special offer when you sign up. That's code envy only a Draft King Sports Book. Envy. Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club.

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