Stephanie Mills Interview & More

I've been married for four years. I'm thirty years old. Um, and my husband is inconcivrated in the bedroom right now. So a long story short, he'd be like tracking me on Facebook, on every type of social media. I don't know if he got people, screen recording whatever. But we don't go to ready go home that we just got caught with a cellphone and they gave him a ticket. And then so they took his business for a whole year, a whole freaking year. They took his business over the cellphone.

He goes and get another cellphone, tracking me talking about some why I don't even know, on Instagram, just all this stupid stuff. And I'm just like, like, what more do you want? I'm there for you, your family, aint thing. I'm the only one doing everything. I work and go home. That's all I do. I don't even go out. This man is on my back. Twenty people A seven. I don't know what to do. Yeah, yeah, but you gotta

understand that's just all called that's jail related stress. That's all that man is miserable little and I try to I know he's miserable, and I try to be there one hundred and thousand percent. I'm there for him more than than I'm here for myself. But I'm emotionally dreamed. I keep just be going too much, always accusing me and making stuff up and just going crazy. Like so I just don't go out. I just stay home. But I wouldn't do that. But you do have to know

where all that is coming from. That's literally only him projecting all his insecurities and fears on you because he's in jail. That's it. It's not fair to you. It's definitely not. Yeah, So that's what I'm saying, Like, how do I go about it? Like? What do you do to get locked up? Somebody's messing on her? His old us okay, anyway he was doing something right to do it? Let me say, I don't know where you know, I wrote wrote the paperwork going him, and I thought he

got brapped up. People that got wrapped up in your life? You rather die right here? I have a good one before, Charlomagne. What should I do well with your man? Yeah? I think that you should. I think that you should have fun, but not tell him about the fun that you're having. You can't. I think you should have some me time to yourself. You know what I'm saying. But but he don't need to know all that. Turn your fine? My eye phone off. You better get you a Samsung fun

You better get you a drawing Thank you mama. Hello? Who's this? Good job? Called it? From Dave's part? John? What's up getting off your chests? Morning? Mary mash Lot going on putting real depressed? It's morning. I've been putting the You know depression is real? You know guess it is? You know I listen to your radio stations. I don't never really here touch bace on depression. You out your goddamn mind. I gotta look at my shirt, Steve, what

my shirt said? Anybody even asked you to say you again, what did my shirt says Steve depression? Okay, and you know it says depression, but also it has pressed on highlighted. So even though you're depressed, you got to press on. My brother, we talk about depression all the time. Okay, I never really heard talking about we talk about it all. What do you think, man? What do you what do you think? The mental health conversations are about anxiety depression PTSD?

Cope with it? Huh with it? I mean I go to therapy, I do meditation. Okay, thank you, man. That's what I want to know about. Like it's it's hard, you know, it's hard, and depression it's one of the pick things killing people. Yes see, I would tell you this thought. With therapy, though, I need to go see somebody. Brother, Yeah, A lot of times when you depression, you just need somebody to talk to. I would go see a therapist. My brother appreciate you. All right? Man? Hello, who's this?

Sean um or for Connecticut? Man? What's up? Get it off your chest? Brother? Man. Yeah, I've got to work this morning. I'm working as brother every day. Man. I'm a metal man, so this is just another regular day. No rain, all that. How much? You know what? I always wanted to do. What is good enough to tip the mail man during Christmas? Man? I never en what do people usually tip you? Bro? Oh? I mean I've worked mostly in a hood, so you know what I mean.

I get like weed more than just money. Sometimes I get like leaks weed. You get some weed, don't lie, man, that's a regular day man. Okay, okay, I don't know. You're aposed to tip your mail man, that's the thing. Yeah, he's supposed to tip the mail man. Man. They give mean they you usually get like dun get down the stars and all that. You're supposed to tip the mail man. You ain't get no dunk car in the hood. To stop lying to me, he sposed to. Now, let me

ask you one other question. You have a deliver the package you know with some smoke? You said? What? You have a delivered the package you knew with some smoke or some work or some work to d deliver drug laing exactly mat some work some smoke deliver now all some real. Some people asked like to um deliver late like credit cards or debit cards or like gift cards that were like yeah, yeah. For scammers yeah, some scammers. I got off for that a lot people. Okay, how

you with it? No, I don't know. Trying to get him a stitch on himself? Ye eat, all right, thank you brother. Be safe out there. Have you been down there with all them young boys when you're trying to talk hip? Now you have delivered from Smoke's talking about get it off your chest eight hundred and five eight five one oh five one. If you need to ven hit this up right now. It's the breakfast club. Go morning.

Did your time to get it off your chests? Whether you're man or blast, so people to have the same instry. We want to hear from you on the breakfast club. Tell out who's this and what's up? Broken it off your chests? Man, don't just this morning man, you and me both brother? Yeah, man, you know, just thinking the Lord and shouting out my family, my wife and my kids to keep going on my way to work this morn y'all. Have a blessing. Yeah you going, brother? Hello,

who's this? This is Jules Jim's one hundred. Hello, I Juled Jim's one hundred. Hit it off your chest, he said, like a cigarette. It's early, it's early. I didn't have t Yes, Well, what's up, I'm gonna get you off your chests. You're having a great day so far, so far, it's a great day, so many blessings. Um. I do have a jury business. It's called Jim Jim's one hundred. But every single day I think about my brother that

is in jail or because of police brutality. Over for ten years and then in the morning he's in jail because of police brutality. How that happened? He was about fifteen years old, and um, he was jumped by police. They took him to jail. They had his sign papers and he didn't even have his paracter with the damn. Oh my god, I'm sorry to confess to something that he didn't do. God, I'm sorry about that, Mama. And we and see how that can happen. If we've seen

it happen many times, that's awesome. I even want to go visit him and the police one let us visit him. Is that allegio? And you go with Jill continued and well, I'm so sorry, mama. Well, well you're my story going, my brother's story, So I'm very happy about this. Okay, Well, thank you for calling the event with us this morning. Thank you so much. That was good day you too. Hello, who's this which? Say? Hey April, get it off your chest.

I want to spread some positivity this morning. I want to thank the Breakfast Club for getting me through my parents three years. Um, I'm working Arkansas, trump printres not a lot of people look like me, so, um, just want to thank you guys. We're getting me through the past three years. So basically you're saying, we the only black people you get to hear from every day. Basically

that's the reason why we have Basically that is real. Yeah. So, like I decided that I needed to make a move to get up out of there, and I solely found a way out. It's a very topic work of love. So I'm still working on my business until I can afford to move on. Okay, Mama, We'll keep working all right, all right, So you guys visiting my Instagram and at s E and paxpaq dot com. Um, and to Louie, I would love to send you some sinspools Um. I

created a feminine emergency kit for manisturing people. You know, sometimes it happened, Yes, girl, I've had plenty of emergencies. So I was in love, love love love love to send you some sandpool um check on my Instagram at sinpac or my website at www dot sinpac f e mpaq dot com. Thank you, mama. Hello, who's this can yak Jack calling from Detroit? What's up? Bro? What I'm due? I'm mad at and that's my day? My daughter came and going dotube. Oh they cut the internet off. The

internet working a little bit. I was trying to you know, black man, no cheat? What's up? Traveling man? Black men don't cheat? Ay? Question? Do you love the D? Y'all love a D, but I don't know about we're talking about? What do you mean? Why you gotta ask something to it? Why I'm talking about Detroit? Yeah, I'm saying, Hey, I'll be trying to go on poor hub. You don't even work either, so you know I mean, I've got a

horror for a brother. You know what I'm saying? You are You're more concerned about port Hub or your daughter using the YouTube to watch your cartoons? Bro? Like both like yeah both, y'all gotta be enter teamed. I understand. Goodbye man, all right, get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one on five one if you need to vet hit this up right now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club, pointing everybody's d e j Envy, Angela yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are

the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building. I thought she was up here before, but now this is her first time, this is my first time. Welcome all right now, how I want to go back though, because this is evident first time. Yes, I knew you before you did basketball wives and you were for real, for real friends with Jennifer. That's actually how I know you. Yes,

so you were in her wedding. You guys knew each other from back in the day, from being in Toronto, right, No, for being in Boston or in Boston together boy right, Okay, so no, it's the last the relationship for strange. We we you know what we say. It's like a toxic marriage, you know, it really is. But why y'all have sex with the same man. We never had sex with the same man. The problem because she was talking about she Nise. Yeah, so that's the really you know, But can we get

to that? I want to start she Nise is my daughter.

So this is all crazy to me because I watched all of that unfold on the show, because you know, sometimes it's hard for me to watch it because I do know you guys were like best friends for quite some time and we were in you know, the Bahamas together, wedding together, and so to see your friendship deteriorate the way that it has after watching the show, do you think that perhaps the show contributes to this because people are trying to come up with storylines says things being said.

You watched the show, You're like, when did that happen? This guy edited a certain way. Do you feel like your friendship suffered because of it? I feel so so. Last season, I genuinely wanted to work on my friendship with her because you know, there was so much that had happened which had whatever, you know, so I'm like, I'm past it. You know, I wanted to work on the relationship with her. We had our scene on the

beach that was a real authentic thing. We cried and I was like, cool, whatever we said back in the day, it don't even matter. Like, you know, I love you and I care about you, so you know, let's just keep doing this so then that actually that was the season before the last season, it comes out that she was saying things about Chanie. So it was hard for me to process, you know, you know she said allegedly, she said that, you know, my daughter was a latch

key kid. For anybody that knows me, I don't care who I've dated, what I've done, Like I'm a great mom, Like I take care of my kids. You know, from day one, I had my daughter pregnant, sixteen, had her seventeen, so she'd been rocking with me from day one. So that to me was it was her ful because you know, Jackie saying something about Chanie is it doesn't matter she never met Janie. But Jennifer, you just said you were swimming with the dolphins, You're seven years old, You've been

to birthday party. So I'm kind of like, I know we've been through some stuff, but even Tammy and I we have never talked about each other's kids. So that just really hurt my heart. You still say alleged though, well, because I can't give too much away with this season, but the truth comes out, you know, and it comes

out from her. So you know, when she was up here, I watched it, and I said to myself, Okay, I didn't know what the truth was still, but now in hindsight, I'm like you, you know, you went on the show and you played the victim, and you weren't truthful. You know. You know, she made she made comments about Malaysia while she was up here called or a linebacker and or whatever it was. But me while Mala Malaysia was speaking the truth. So it's like just say, like, look, you

know why I was mad at you. I couldn't stand you, and I did say stuff about your daughter because I was I was upset. I'll take that. But instead you you tried to cover it up. But because you know, especially with this season, it comes up again, It comes up again because everybody knows like you're not being truthful. So and it's hard for me to move past that. Just how do how do you move when you got

to kids? This is what I'm saying. So I'm kind of like me, not my kids, not my kids, And I feel like, you know, I love her to death. I don't wish her anything negative in life, better than me, but talk about whatever happens happen. Yeah, but you know, when it comes to my baby, somebody that you've spent time with. And Shanis is so in it and she's been the topic of conversation for two seasons, right, and

it's like she never apologized, never said sorry. Never She ended up texting her when we started filming this season, which is another thing. I'm like, you know, you could have reached out to her pride to filming. Everything's not feel the show, everything's not feli show weak. You could have reached out to me during the after answerdam and been like, you know what, like I want to talk to you one to one Chanise. I'm sorry that her name is being thrown around like this, but that never happened.

How hard is it for she needs to She's not even really on the show like that. And you know she's so like, I mean, she looks how she looks, but she's such a sweet soul. So she's just I feel bad, and as her mom might feel responsible because I'm I'm the one that's on the show, you know,

so it's not it's not fair to her. You know, It's like, why is she always the topic of conversation just because you know, she's this beautiful girl that you know, women want to hate on because that's all I can think of, Like what else could it possibly because you want to take a dig at me and that's really the way they know to get to you. Yes, and you know, looked all the therapy and all the Yanla's in the world, like when it comes to my kids,

I'm not I'm not her own. All right. We got more with Evelyn Lozatta when we come back, don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good Morning, the Breakfast Club. Everybody's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club were still kicking it with Evelyn Lozada Ye. So with Carl, I saw you and Tammy had a

back and forth over her commenting on his post. Yeah right, and you felt like she was being thirsty or whatever, but understanding that she was supporting Magda Stallion, do you feel like that's I just feel like she should have

been on Magda Stallion's point page, you know what I'm saying. Okay, like Carl, it's not like Carl has one hundred thousand followers on you know, Instagram, like he's active now, and we could talk about the Magda Stallion thing because when he we had a conversation that he was going to start this record label. We were still together and I'm not gonna lie. I kind of was like, oh, here we go trying to do something, and then I did.

I thought that he and he was like, you're a hater, and you know, so for me to see how good he's doing with it, Like, I'm like, okay, I have to give you credit when credit is due. I have to eat Crow. I'm gonna eat because I want him to do good, you know what I'm saying, Like, I don't hate on him. He does good. Kids are great, you know, like he is very passionate. People didn't even know their affiliation. You really don't. And I thought it was some bush I did is way from to get

more girls. I just was like, really because we were still together at the time. I'm like, you, I haven't met Megan because we broke up at this By the time he started working with Megan, we were done. But prior to that, he's like, yeah, you know what, I'm thinking about starting a record label. This is he retired. I'm like, oh, like, you throw that money away? All right? Off, here we go. Everybody's about to go bro right, you know. But he's doing really well and I'm really really proud

of him. Would you get married again? I would? I feel like my first marriage, I was trying to get that an it didn't. I couldn't. I couldn't, you know, I couldn't, but I would. I would get married. I love love. I'm a relationship type. I was with one for ten years, married Chad. I'm married Chad and with Carl for you know, four and a half years. So I'm a relationship type. I've seen somebody new. No, you know about to go not rab dash it rab kardash

because if I cauted it him to sound a little funny. Okay, here you quote it, Sep. You said, Rob Kardashian has a big sashi and say it like that. You say it again? How she do it? Rob Kardashian has a big sausage. Wow? And he said, and you're a squirtter. Oh wow, Sorry, Grandpa, I'm sorry, So explain that. So that really started. I've never I've never seen I've never seen his sausage. It just really started off as a bet, like I was. Dad was dared. I was dared, and

I take dared seriously. I was like, don't dare me because I'll tweet something crazy. So I wished him I had We're cool, never went on a date with I feel like he's an amazing father, you know, um, and I wish them a happy Father's Day. And I said happy because you know, I'm a little crazy. It's a happy Father's Day, big Rob. And he was like, oh, thank you. I bet you won't say that to the world. I said, don't play with me because I would. He was like, no, you won't, and then that's why I

ended up happening. So it was really just like a you know, I took a bat too serious? How did you know you're a squirrel? No, that was a joke. That was a joke, okay, but in real life, I'm not. No, I don't know, not even once. No, I don't know how to do it. This is awkward. I'm going to human reason, I don't know how you're going to human was about to go get a shot or something. Just tell you know, Envy's a squarter. I heard, yeah, I'm sure, I think so I'm definitely going to let's go get

a drink. Now, you know you got robbed in the gym. Now, because after that post, you know Robert the pit. Oh did he? Yes? I am so happy in the gym. Get robber shot. I think Rob is a nice guy, I really really do. I think Rob is a nice guy. I feel like he has that's the way of turning somebody down. No, would you give a shot? What? Yeah, there's a lot. There's a lot. Then she's got to deal with the other whole family stuff. And you know, I like the family. I feel like the family's cool.

So they have like haters today turn on you? Yeah, right, But I feel like I'm a good person, so that wouldn't happen. But you know, I think he's he's a nice guy. Um. I feel like he has potential for greatness. Okay, and I hope he really keeps kicking ass in the gym because I think he's a nice looking man. So if he if he gets in the gym and together he has an athlete's body, because you like athlete's body, athletics body. Would you have a little past that? Now,

I'll take a little little ball belly. I'll take a little ball of belly. I'll take a little ball. Rob. Let's go on a day. You would give it a shot? I would go on a day. Okay, Rob, there you got send me something, Rob. And you know, look, you know his mom is dating younger. He could day older. You know what I mean? But it's you know, there you go. Not well, thank you for joining us. Thank you. It's Evelyn Lozada. It's the Breakfast Club. Keep the Breakfast

Club humble with slants of the Breakfast Club. Hate me if you want to love me if you want, but just use your comments wanting everybody's DJ Envy Angela yee. Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time for slander the Breakfast Club, right, We need the humbling, you know what I'm saying. We like to do this every now and then, just to keep us humble, you know what I mean. All Right, Well, let's get to a KLA. Good morning guys. Hey, Kelly, who you want

to slander Charlemagne? Why you want slander Charlemagne. I'm a fairly new listener. I've been listening for about two years, and um, Charlemagne has been open and honest about what he went through at the child in terms of him

sexual molestation. And you know, I wonder if maybe you need to explore that a little deeper in your therapy, because out of the three of y'all, Charlotmagne, you are the only one that makes so many over the top sexual references about man's hearts, about doing things sexually that most people don't even talk about in the privacy of

their own home. And I wonder it's because you have residual issues with what happened to you, because it's very cringe worthy to listen to you make so many over the top sexual reference you do talk about man, but a little plane. Yeah, that's a valid point. You do talk, right, But I'm not I'm not even just mutinous. I think she might be right, But thank you, Kelly. Did you hear anything this morning? Uh? Not this morning, so I

don't kind of room for you this morning. But you know, y'all not off the air for another forty five minutes. You must have just got in the car when I told you didn't hit, when I when you didn't hit, when I told Envy that just because a man tells you to get on your knees like you used to, it might not be a reference. Hear that? Okay, that was kind of mile compared to how you Yeah, that is right. Did you hear how we tell he was gonna fill in his face. I didn't say no, he

didn't say that. That didn't happen. But thank you, Kelly. Hey, Jason, come on to Jason. It was going on envy, Angela? What the hell you just saying to Charlotte Man? I think here closet everything y'all talk about it comes back to some closet homosexual stuff. What's up with that, Charlotte Night Like? What you mean an example? What's in my closet? I mean an example? Tim? Like this morning I was talking about the grouse. Westbrook, you're talking about what baby?

She was gay? And he's to get on it. Yeah, I had nothing to do with anything. What are you talking about this? Because I don't understand why people just jumped to the conclusion that that meant slavery just because a man tells another man get on your knees like you used to. But that's a conclusion, Russell Westbrook, jump too. But why did you go to the home side? Homo side is murder? Sir? Oh Roberts, Hey, Robert, how you doing? Oh? How you doing? I'm good? Who you want to slander?

Why do you want to slander me? Brother, Man, I really started following you on Instagram, Man, all your posts. That is a different call with the same hoodie on. He got it on? Now? Who do he is it? What does it say? Is it? My guy? First enemies? I love that brand. I wonder why I love that brand. I love that brand. Yeah, you can go to the Body of God dot com to get your You know, my dad said that the same. Do you own any other clothes? You were that same hood the other time?

Why don't you think it's the same hoodie? It's different colors exactly. It might be the same as smells the same. It's not one on going on? What was up? Me? Going? Who live? Hey? What's up? My Dominican brother? No, you're talking to me. I ain't American. I'm nine eat something to say West African, sir, No, I'm talking about see Poppy. You better tell you beldn embrace that man? Who you want to slay? The boy he's doing though? Man, I just want to say what a couple two guys on

the two Guards every morning? Man, y'all funny Charlotte Man, the guy I gotta love for you. Man, you even funk all the time, and that's a good thing. Well, thank you, sir, But this is slaying of the breakfast clubs. So we can't talk about the slaying of y'all. Man, and I'm slaying to ask you because he's not embracing this waffle. Man, he's got to brake that waffle. He does embrace it. He eats him all the time. You know, he don't hold it down, though. Man, he'd be laying,

he'd be laying um Charlotte Manus with that man. Yeah, I'm not Dominican, man, I'm black. He stopped his pancakes and you don't embrace your Dominican side, man, Hi Poppy cost he cho him every morning. I'm like, no worry. You know you got that though thing you It's almost spring time. He'll be out here with the white jeans. He'll be full blown. To me, any can buy someone Komo style instead, Peace, Poppy? What you calling him? I don't know, d Yo. He wanted to play in the dB. Poppy,

how's it for you? He definitely called you Poppy. D This is a slander, man, because I think you're really gay, man, I really think you're gay. And be like, because you old y'are always so sensitive brows but damn bro, you Oh he's got to be so sensitive, so goddamn b Charlomagne. Bro, I love you, bro, but you look like a one on wallet. Bro. Yes I'm gay, but he's done everything about your face. Bro, That's all I'm gonna say. And I'm gonna go back to every Yo. You need to

stop playing some real man, some real stuff. Man. You don't get paid to play real music. And then y'all can always complaining about home. Man. We tired of hearing the same stuff and played the same whack. Yes he dies for that. You ain't got none for ye. Love you laughed like a four year old little girl, and you need to fix your whole laugh and sound of fact. Let's go to Disneyland, something new for your life. Okay. I liked it. I liked it. I liked your slander

this morning. It started off strong. I don't mind laughing like did a little week, but it was strong, all right, Bye man, Slander The Breakfast Club eight five one h five one keeping lock this to Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlomagne, the guy, We all the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest. In the beat, we say special guests a lot, but sometimes you gotta put a little more sauce on

it for certain people. Okay, there's a whole legend right here named miss Stephanie Mills. Yes, welcome, thank you. I'm so excited because I watched you guys all the time and listen and everything. I'm excited. You told me that I saw you at the Tyler Perry Grand opening. Wonderful. Oh that was amazing. It was wonderful. He celebrates that, and I was like, Stephanie Mills, listen to the Breakfast Club. Yeah,

do you quite who? He just made his day? Let me just saying when I left, quite like you said she could sing that she might not be able to see me. Was just having a conversation week about to turn by ugly, because you know how women don't say to you by ugly. I've never heard anybody just say yeah. Nobody said that to me because yeah, it's Felicia and the morning Black. Yeah. I mean sometimes my friends saying the morning black. Yeah, come on and Blackie, how you doing?

I never got that one. You never So how did you get into the music industry? Let's stalk from the start. Let's start from the beginning. I was like seven years old and singing, you know, listening to the radio and singing, and my sisters used to always, you know, like put me in little talent shows and things like that. And then I auditioned. I went to the Apollo and I

won three weeks in a row. And then I auditioned for a play called Maggie Flynn that ran on Broadway about nine months and that's and from there then I had a record out call I knew it was love, and the producer Ken Harper heard that record and asked me to come down in audition for the Wiz And because I had audition for a lot of different things and so much rejection, I didn't want to do it. My mother made me go, and thank God, before we

get to the how do you get the record deal? Singing? Okay, they heard me sing at the Apollo, and then I had to the Broadway show and then Paramount Records in a microphone, I got you. What kind of deal was it? Like? Did you have business savvy or your parents or I didn't have business savvy, but my parents and my family managed me well a very very long time. So I

didn't have business savvy yet at that time. So magically you gotta take advantage of early on I got based oh yes, make no money no, yes, yes, no, yes, yes you will. You still get taken advantage of even when you when you were successful, because they employed their friends all around you. So you have to be careful. How old were you when you played Dorothy and seventeen years old? How was that like? Because that's what I mean, that's that was his debut if I'm not to say

that was that was the big thing. Yes, it was wonderful. Of the cast. Felicia Rashad was in it. She was a munchkin and she played She was the understudy for Glinda. It was I've stayed in it five years now. Why didn't they use you for the movie though? Because Diana, you know, she was a biggest star than me. Ye. They hardly ever used the Broadway person for the movie. I don't know why, but I was signed to Motown briefly and uh, but Diana wanted it. She came to

the show quite often. Yeah, we lookt out that single um something in the Way. Yes, that was written by a Jela win Bush. Really wow. Yes, and produce. Yes, all the DJs were you? Were you aware of all the dj doing their own mixes? No? No, But did you see the one with care? And he told me I was not aware of that, not at all, not at all. No, nobody. You never been in a party and heard nobody playing party the clubs or anything like that. Really, And now that I'm old, I'm like, I want to

I want to party and get out there. But I didn't. I didn't hang out that much. I was always working. You feel like you missed your child in a way. No, I think I made it, made up for it in my forties. What you doing your forties is gracious. I came a little frisky, my boy, what do you call frisky? What is frisky? Had a little fun. I was a cougar and my party. Oh he's messing with younger man. Yes, okay, she said, yes, straight up? Yes, yes? Did they know?

Did they even know you was forty something? Because I always was. I'm always honest. I don't like people that say they're not well. I couldn't say. I don't respect people that don't own up to their own age. You've earned those years, that's right. Well, those the guys that were attracted to you too, Like the younger guys were always trying to talk to younger guys were always attracted to me. They thought I was younger, right, And I

was like, I'll be younger the baby you were. You were sugar mama too, because you had yes And that's what I got turned off. I don't want to be a sugar mom. You know I was a sugar mama. They didn't ask, did they, like, you know, but I'm giving like I'm flying first class. We gotta fly first class. Yes, Yes, gave a young man miss Mills car a BMW and Mercedes. Wow. One guy got too. No, one guy got a BMW. One guy gotta that hush money? Why did you do

that for him? No? I gotta say this. My ex husband, Michael Saunders, was the program director for this station, and when I walked in here this morning, I was like, this is one O five, this is where they used to work. Yeah, he got them. All these rooms can tell some stories about you. We were divorced by then. Okay, okay, well we were still cool. But was it at least you outright purchase the car purchase that's nice. I don't matter, Like maybe a lease and then you pay make the payments.

Was the nicest thing anybody ever got you. Uh, I have people don't give me present. I've never had a man to shollow me. With presidents. I've always bought my own president, not even Michael Jacks. Used to date Michael Jacks. I used to date Michael Jackson, but we were young. I used to date. We dated while he was black. That's fine, that's the truth. Yeah, yeah, what was his mind set back? He was the most gentle, most kind

for he never said a bad word about anybody. I've never seen him upset, never, and he's not a pedophile. When did he start changing, Like when you started seeing him lighting his skin and doing stuff for this? I think that. I think when he became bigger in entertainment world.

They always tell you because I was always I was too black to this, to that, so they want you to cross over, so they tell you you have to you know, not sing so soulful not to so I think when he crossed over to pop that's when he began to change. When he began got all that success and he had I believe he had the wrong type of people around. When when did y'all break up? Why

did y'all break up? Why did y'all stop? Because I wasn't I didn't want to go to certain people's houses for dinner or I didn't want to do that white people he started hanging around, Yes, yeah, I didn't want to. I didn't want to do that. So why do you think he got caught up in the whole pedophile scandy? Because Michael liked being around children because they were innocent. Even my brother Andre used to hang around Michael, and they weren't. They didn't want anything from him. They didn't

have an agenda. And I think that's why he liked being around children. They just liked to play and have fun. They didn't have an agenda. But most people around him had an agenda. They wanted something. Do you think it was strange? And even behavior like staying over with the kids or anything like that. I didn't think it was strange. Yeah, the public and I think people that are around him made it strange and and and because he liked that,

they made the story. But he's not that. Did you guys stay in touch even after all of that, like we did when he did the bad video? He called me and he wanted my best friend who was Greg birds to choreograph the bad video, and um, I got in touch and they got in touch with each other, and then I went to visit the set. That was the first time I ever saw him when he had totally changed. What did you think I whisp? I whispered something.

I whispered something in his area? Get involved though. I used to call him all the time, and he used to laugh already used to use the word I heard Michael was, I heard Michael wasn't he was? He wasn't. Yeah, and he was not soft? What about him in competition with Prince? I never heard him say anything about Prince. Okay, Oh I love TP Yeah, I loved and I could say whatever I want. There was used to be a time with Teddy. You know, he had food, hot food,

and nobody could eat until Teddy. And I'd be like, well, hey, you know, I'm hungry, I'm gonna eat, and I would eat. I could do almost anything Teddy, and it was Okay. I watched this documentary. I thought it was amazing because I didn't know all those things about him, and I thought it was great how he taped himself so they had all of these like audio autobiographies from him that they could include in it. Right? Where the things that you learned about him that you didn't know? Did you

watch it? No? I knew a lot about Teddy and I was supposed to do that documentary, but I chose not to. Why did you not do because you know too much? No? I just I didn't like the way they were putting it together, and just for financial reasons. I didn't think that they were giving the people what they needed, and I thought other people were making money of somebody that they didn't even know. Ye y'all did two songs, Field the Fire and Too Hearts? Which one

was your favorite? Both of them? I loved singing with Teddy. He was just a straight up dude. Do you remember those recording sessions? Yes? What was it like that party in the studio of all business? H Teddy was a lot. He was a lot. He was the biggest star at that time, and so I would have to say, come on, let's do this song and get it over with. As Lee Daniels reached out to you about the Teddy Pendergrass, No, Charlie Mack was just telling me about it. But I

know that Tyrese is supposed to do it. Do you remember that you don't think tyres can pull it off. She's very uncensored, so let's go ahead. Why you know, But I was telling the name no that I don't give. But I think ted I think Tyrese will do a good job. You know. I don't like that he goes around saying he was Teddy's son, because I never saw him around Teddy at all. Maybe he means like in a spiritual sense, like maybe yeah, like that's like a father. Maybe.

But I think he'll do a good job. I hope, And I told Charlie Mac I said, I hope y'all be good and stay true to who he was and not put a whole bunch of mess in it. Why do they do that? I was like, when it comes to like Teddy Pendergrass and Michael Jackson's any of the great black stars, they always gotta in their lives with some mess. But they don't talk about Elvis Presley marrying her at sixteen, or they tolerate us in this business. They don't celebrate us. But someone needs to make that

documentary about Elvis. Everyone talks about it, and they don't talk about it. They don't talk about this, but someone needs to absolutely because so many other you know that white artists, that dude, have done the same thing, but they don't come after them. It's just like Kaepernick, you know, he took a knee for the brutality of policemen and no one remembers that, so they're making him this villain and he's not. He just stood up for justice because

police brutality is real. Racism, it's real. I just experienced racism at the Guardia airport yesterday. Coming in. We had gotten the car you know how you get the cart from the lady that does my hair, Karina, and she had her hand on it, so she asked the guy, can you help us? And she was like pulling the cart and the guy just totally ignored us. And then this white woman came and put her bag on the cart and he helped her. And I told him, I said,

you're ignoring us. He was something else. He was okay, Spanish or something else, because I call a black person out quick for that. Oh yeah, but we're the worst, you know, we are the worst against each other. I mean, we're so racist against each other. We don't support each other the way we should, and we shouldn't then we always want to cry. I hate that we you know, and all this botox. And well, let's talk about this book and your sons as a book. Yes, and your

son has special needs? Yes, my son come here for hot Rod? Say hello, you gotta be careful with or with our stuff in here too? It is a week. Good morning. And first of all, how was it raising a sou special needcause you travel? I know it's a lot. I had him when I was forty five and I was I was really wanting to have a child. I didn't want that time to pass me by. So I was told that three months that my son was going to be a special lead. But I was like, I

don't care if he has one eye or whatever. This is my baby. We're gonna rock this world together. And that's what I want to talk about this book that that he wrote. The talk about this book a little bit. What's the name of your book, baby Cranks? And what's the name of it? The Adventures and for Rod? Yeah, okay, tell us about the book. What is the book, what is the book about? What is about cranks? Panks? He likes to do pranks, but he wanted to show that

you could do pranks and be safe. Do you hear your mom? He's pretty Uh yeah? Who's your favorite artist? Tupa? What can he do a little bit of it? Come with me and Mary on what do it happen? Now? Whe Nah? Then love it? Did you like the Tupac movie? Did you like the All Eyes on Me movie? Yeah? How do you get into Tupac? Him listening? He's a mother. I could have been two girlfriend. Okay. He tried to hollog you before. No, his girlfriend. I like, I like

that kind of guy, like, oh you like them? Thugs like that? Oh I do? I liked Yes, I like thugs. Yeah, educated ones former thus yeah, yes, thank you. How is raising that special needs on me? Is you stronger? It's given me patience and there's a love. You know with any child you loved them, but he just he's I feel like he's my gift. God gave me a gift. He gave me the perfect child for me because for ride when he was small, he didn't cry. I'd get

up in the morning, have to do TV whatever. He's always traveled with me, and he's in a student he's on the computer now, academy. He's homeschooled. I mainstreamed him from kindergarten fifth grade, and then I didn't want him to go to middle school. Middle school? How was that with because I know kids could be so mean and so nasty together, well, I had I had a teacher go to school with him, and I go up to school. Everything. Somebody messed with my job. They're gonna have to deal

with me. How did the book come about? Was he like, I want to His teacher when he would finish his work, would let him write. So one day she came to me, she said, your son, right, he writes stories and books. We should put it together. I said, really, So she gave me some papers that he had written, and I was like, this is really good. And that's how it came came about. You said you had him when he

was forty five. It is because when you were younger, they would tell y'all focused on your career and focus on the business. No. I had been married a couple of times, and I had tried to have children, and I had problems getting pregnant. So at forty five, I was determined that I was going to get pregnant and

have a child. I always wonder how come like when when you have a very Gordy who was so established and you know, put so many black artists on, why wasn't it more black executives at at helms, at these record labels instead of all of these coachiallycluis white people. That's my problem. I don't understand because they don't understand us.

So how can you tell? Like I used to have a at MCA, you know, Gladys Night, myself, Mary J. Blige, she came in at the end, and all of us was on the label at that time, and we all would come out, you know, and we all got together, we would tour together and it was peaceful. But we I had one executive there and he wasn't white, he was black. That totally worked against me. Wow, yes, okay, But what I don't understand is they see you the way they are. White people see you the way they are,

the way you are. There's nothing that you can do that's going to make them like you more. It's just like what Tyler Perry said, you know, Hollywood totally ignores him and he built this fabulous place and it was only us there a sprinkle of them, right, it was beautiful. I'm gonna say this, Um, I think entertainers of today don't look at me as able to give them advice.

Why do you think Why you say that? Because they would never take First of all, their handlers will keep you away from them, because I would honestly tell them the truth. I did the Whiz life with Mary. I did you know with Mary and Queen Latifa and Neo and all of them. I've been around that a couple of years ago. Yeah, a couple of years and you tried to talk to her, and now I didn't try to talk to her. I would never approach No, but they've never come up to me and ask me anything.

Maybe they feel intimidated. I don't think so. Oh no, Why would you feel intimidated because people will look up to you. I don't think so. I just you. I don't think so. Charlomagne and I'm touching you, but I'm just the touchy I don't mind. I mean, you met

my wife, but it is beautiful. Thank you. I'm so glad she's dark black yes right black, yes, yes, yes, I'm so glad when it comes to the music, right when you do music, do you think did you used to think about making songs that would be on the radio, that would be hit songs, or just songs that you were like, this is just a dope song. When I was younger, uh, they used to make those decisions for me. But then when as I got older, I didn't care.

I didn't care about being politically correct. I didn't care about oh, you have to wear this, you have to be this. I didn't care about any of that. Are you still doing music now? No, it's different. I can't just come out with the song and play and then there's all us payola. I don't want to pay a one hundred thousand dollars to get my brecket play. Damn vy, that's something I don't want to play. Yeah, I don't want to pay. I don't want to pay. I don't want to pay. I don't want to play the games

that they want you to play. Now, I just yeah, you know you don't know some radio now because you don't because you can. But I haven't felt like recording. I do things when I feel like it. Right What would be your dream tour? Right now? You and who like? Oh me, Well, I'm doing a show with SHACKA, but I would love talking shot up when I see shock, I say hey, bitch, and she says hey, that's how, that's why, that's why. That's how I greet out like hey bitch. She's like hey ho and then she said, oh,

you're so cute. I say, oh, you look so good. So it's but I would love to do a tour with Shaka Anita and myself or Gladys and I would just love because the country people do it all the time. That would be an amazing tour. They do it all the time. Why can't we. I feel like a lot of these young women look up to you, but you don't realize that. And I think that they would love to connect with you. Well, I connect with Monica. I love. I mean, yes, I love Monica. I love because you're

on the same type of energy. Yes we are why She's real and I am too. You know what I'm saying. I'm just saying that I would like if I come off and I'll say, yes, it's too late now, but Pop scaresway Pops. I'm sorry. But if I thought you just said if you you know, I was like no, no, no, no, I was like no, I was like, I'll you up, Like that's what I said. I don't feel like the real stories are y'all are being told, Like, no, they're not. They're not because the white people telling them. It's white

people telling them, and you can't. It's just like Betty Boop was a black woman and she's colored as a white woman. It's you know, it's like they take out and run with it. So how do we get those real stories told? Like do you write books? Like what do you do? You have to work with the work with the people that are that are doing the stories, like Tyler would tell a real story. Would you ever write a book? Not a book about myself. I probably write a book on how to raise a baby. I'm

part of us. Yeah, but I wouldn't write a book things that that I didn't experience going to with me to my grade. I need to hear these stories about like just even marriage and being in such a high profile business, being on the road. You know, I don't think I'm good at marriage. I don't think i'm good at man. I've been married three times. I've been married me though, you say you're not good at I'm craziest, you know, I mean, oh, do you think you're crazy? Well?

You know, I suffer with depression. I got depression, and I just think people a man, I didn't know how to handle me, so that thing. Now, I probably would be a better partner because I'm really at peace with myself and I know myself. But back then I wasn't well. Back then people there was such a stigma around mental health. We didn't talk about mental health in the black community. I have suffered with it since I was thirty five, but didn't know what it was until I started going

to see my psychiatrists and things like that. So how do you expect a man to know you just think you're tripping? I know you just don't like being married because you liked popping that. No, I don't. I don't. If you were ever gonna tell your story, where would your story start? In Brooklyn? Growing up? My heroes are my mother and my father. My mother was a new joke. She took no prisoners, and my father was just a

gentle giant. But it would start there and growing up and my family, and because it wasn't always easy for me, you know, being in the business and being young and having sisters and jealousy and things like that. So I went through a lot. My life has not been easy. And you guys, why you gotta tell you the third because if you're doing a white person will and a white person better not tell my story, but what they're doing, what you saw leland Land. I don't like anything that

they did on Michael. You know, I think I think they make fun of us, Like I never wanted to sit at their table. I wanted to do something with an artist. I'm not going to say their name, so don't ask me Charlemagne. And they were like, well, your audience is too black. I'm on television, so my audience is pop. So a black person, a black woman and she's a singer, and um, I was like, well we could go out and do know your audience is too black. But you know what, I'm good on my audience being

too black. I don't care. They were my age, and I bet you right now they wanted the people that act so black, so pro black. They don't know this pop woman was on TV. You said she was a sitcom? What was it? She was on TV a white show when she fro New York sing on a white show. She's a Broadway star. She's done a lot, but I'm not gonna tell you so don't Broadway singing. Google, let me see Broadway. I'm gonna put Broadway star on black, Broadway star on white TV show that I'm gona hold on,

hold on, let me see what comes up. You're not gonna figure it out. I like your necklace. What's the range we're on? My age? I think I'm younger. I think i'm older. Yeah, I have no idea who you're talking about. But it's okay. It's cool because you know, No, it was a while ago. I wanted she's still alive. You ever had to put hands on anybody? How many people? That's the question. I'll fight. I'll fight even today. I will. Yeah, she said, even today fighting over the last fight I

got into. I don't know. I haven't fought in a long time. You used to fight other women, like when you were Oh no, I don't marry. I don't. I don't believe that women should fight other women about man, what if you caught her in your bed, in your house and I'm kicking that ass? Right? Yeah? Yeah? Have you ever cheated? She's talking to you? KISSI tells what artists you put hands I know you don't put hands on the artist before. I don't think I have. I

would remember, I wouldn't put hands on the artist. But now a promota, you're gonna beat up some promoter. They don't pay your money. I've got my money. I can tell you a story, but i'm not. Come on, I'm not. I'm not because I can tell you a story, but i'm not. You don't money. We were in the studio and I was working with this one producer and his manager called me a spoiled bitch. Oh boy, and I hit him and then I picked up something hit him

over the head with him. What was this something something in the studio that I could pick up. She's looking around, Yeah, did you hurt him? I don't know if I heard him or not, but he knew he was in a fight. His glasses all twisted. Well, if he gets tired of singing and want to do security, I'll hire you know. I just don't like to be don't disrespect you. Know. I love, I love, I love hard. I always tell my girls y'all in trouble, just call me. You know

I'll be I'll be there. I'll be a backup for you. I love that. It's like if you called me and you said you said step you said somebody was messing with you, I'd be like, call me, yeah, Pops to get him. Or we appreciate you for joining us, thank you with us, thank you, thank you for having me. And the best part about this interview is all the conversations that's gonna happen after it, because I'm gonna be getting all of these texts and emails about all this

stuff you probably used to do. I'm sure and and and I whisp your hey, Miss Mills, I heard yeah, and I'll tell you about it. Whoever wants to say and all that, just come on, give me a website for the book for Rod j m dot com, my son's book for rod jam dot com and instead Adventures of Rod Jay. Alright, there was a pleasure, Miss Mills. Absolutely, thank you. It's the breakfast Club. I was born to donkeys,

the donkey of the Devil. Devil breakfast club. Yeah, donkey to day go to a California man named Nathaniel Gene Robertson. Nathaniel was arrested earlier this month on suspicion of killing his wife. That's it, that's the donkey. Nathaniel is getting donkey to day because he killed his wife for no reason at all. You can understand why he's getting donkey today for that, right. Yes, Nathaniel admitted in interviews with police investigators that he hit his wife with a concrete block.

He said he was showing no mercy and claimed the alignments were not in place. The protector now, he killed his wife. So that's donkey of to day whevery, because donkey today is all about giving people to credit they deserve for being stupid, and killing your wife is indeed stupid. But it's not just the fact Nathaniel killed his wife. It's the reason why he killed his wife. What got into Nathaniel, what infected his spirit and made him commit

such a hanness act. Well, let's quote a kget NBC seventeen for the report police a husband accused of murdering his wife with a concrete block. Here now with details of the man who's blaming mayonnaise as part of the problem. Well, according to police reports, Nathaniel Robertson admitted during an interview with Sheriff's detectives to beating Lydia Robertson with a concrete block. Robertson is quoted in the reports stating he did it to quote give her compassion and mercy as the alignments

were not in place to protect her end quote. Court documents state Robertson said he had been infected by Mannaise quote they put him in. They in this case refers to a group of brutal, powerful people. Robertson said he couldn't identify, according to the report. Asked if he used drugs, Robertson said he used quote ice to help him breathe. Robertson, forty six, has pleaded not guilty to a charge of first degree murder in Lydia Robertson's death. He's being held

on one million dollars bail. Nathaniel is quoted as saying he killed his wife because he was infected by Mannaise. Can we hate what this murderer says he was infected by? Again, Robertson said he had been infected by Mannaise quote they put him in. Oh, I can't believe this assassin since butcher, this slayer, this dog criminal, this homicidal manise maniac blamed Mannaise on killing his wife, homicidal man whatever, All right, let me hear what he says again. Let me hear

what he says called him to kill his wife again. Please. Robertson said he had been inspected by mannaise quote they put him in. I know you wouldn't believe it if you didn't hear it for yourself. For all you people who call up it at I Heeart headquarters in New York City and complain about me, complain about me and call me racist and call me a bigot, all because I don't like mayonnaise? What did you have to say? Now? This, this right here is indeed the devil, the condiment of satan.

Mayonnaise is disgusting. Too much of it ruins everything. You just need a little, just a little, to make something good, but too much of it makes everything bad. Too much mayonnaise and tuna yuka, too much mannaids and potato salad YUCKA. This is a story that literally has too much goddamn mayonaids. You can't argue with me anymore about the dangers of mayonnaise in our society because Nathan eel Gene Robertson shuts down all debates. Okay. Nathaniel is quoted as saying his

wife had been his best friend. He didn't want to hit her a bunch of times. He said I wanted to end it. I didn't want her suffering, but he couldn't control himself because of maddays. Wow, there's nothing left to do here. There's nothing left to do here but play a game of guess what race it? Days? Now give me your clue with guys and girls. Man Nathaniel Gene Robinson, that's his name. He's from California. He beat his wife to death with a cinder block and says

manonnais made him do it. Angela, Ye, guess what race it is? I'm gonna have dj envy three clues. Nathaniel Gene Robinson from California beat his wife to death with a cinder block and says, manais made him do it. Guess what racing is? White? You bow far car. He's indeed Caucasian. Can I call this guy your manage flavored mamo without y'all calling the front dousk here at the heart complaint? Can I call this man a human jar of helmets manaids without being called a racist? Bigger? Who

age white people? I don't hate white people. I hate mayonnaise. And after seeing the effects mannais can have on a person, which is something I already knew you should hate Manonnaise too. Please let Chelsea Handler given Nathan you Gene Robinson the biggest he hare heehaw, heehaw. That is way too much, Jane mannis too much. Goddamn Manaise, damn. One day, y'all gonna listen to your good old uncle Charlot. All right, I know what I'm talking about, all right, Charlomagne, thank

you for that donkey of the day. Yes, sir, all right. We got more coming up next with a breakfast club. The breakfast club, Hello, the relationship advice, need personal advice, just need real advice. Haul up mawn for asking morning. Everybody is dj Envy Angela, yee Charlemagne the guy we all the breakfast club is time to ask yee hello? Who's this? Um? I'm staying anonymous? All right, what's your question for you? Anonymous? Yes we can all right. So

I have a dilemma. Um, when my boyfriend and I first started dating, we're gonna, you know, do it in the car, and he pulled his hands down or the foul older didn't he didn't fart, He just like had took a dump and like didn't wipe his butt? Hey, now we like looked together and whenever, um, we're are you gonna do it? I always, you know, hesitant because

he doesn't wipe his butt, so how older? And you know he always has the days of his boxer, so skid marks, that's what they call him, Yes, skid marks. So how do you tell your man like, babe, can you please wipe you? Guys? Is he a grown man or a baby wearing a diaper? That is disgusting? First of all, judge that man, I'm gonna tell you, Oh is this envy? We're talking about you? All right? So first of all, do y'all have wet wipes in the

bathrooms in the house? I think I need to keep him there, but that is what you don't use them. You gotta help him out, man, because there's first of all, there's no way he don't smell the doodoo coming out his butt when he pulls his pants down. Number one. Number two, you might have to tell him you gotta get up in there when you wipe yourself and wipe

yourself good. And you might have to buy him some wet wipes to carry with him when he goes places and tell him to use those when he uses the bathroom, because this is not something that you can dance around. You have to be direct about this hygiene. She's right, but I'm not his mama though embarrassing. One time, you're gonna you have to time him because you know what, if you don't say something, you're gonna just end up

having to smell dudu every time you have sex. Yeah, I can't do that, so just just tell him be like, babe, look at your underwear and see this. You're not wiping yourself. Well, are you getting up in the hole so you have doodoo stays on your sheets too? Huh? No, No, I would never do have to if it's in his underwears in the sheets, But you gotta, you gotta point it out because if you don't say anything, then I don't

are you just having sex? And then during the smell, Oh girl, I will go down here, but I won't go down on him a lot because of that. Like I'm a even afraid, Like I don't want to. Why is it so hard to tell a man is asking? I don't know, but you could get can't you get you call out or something? I mean, if you eat an ass I can't wait till you ask. I don't want to. Oh, hell no, I don't want to hurt his ego. That's it. Well, girl, I don't want you

to get some type of disease either, bacteria, infection. But this is this is for his own good. First of all, if you're doing laundry sometimes you don't want to have to touch that and clean that, right, right, And this is for his own benefit. This is to help him out in his life. You gotta show him. Look, baby, these are wet wipes. Now, me and you were having this conversation. Don't be embarrassed because we could talk about anything. And trust me, if you're having sex with this man,

I'm protected. You should be able to tell in his ass things and he's not wiping himself. If you can do that, and you could lay up with him and do all of that, then you should be able to communicate with him and telling him, Babe, you need to clean your butt. It's gonna be so funny when you tell him. It's gonna be so funny when you tell

him his butt stinks. And he was like, man, I was thinking the same thing about your poom poom, and guess what, and guess what she would do white pemp poom poom with a wet wife said, you ain't crap, ain't crap. You do want even crap? Don't you? Thank you? And just listen. This isn't time when when you got to be directed be like, look, you know, I don't know if you're just not wiping yourself right, but there's these stains in your underwear and sometimes I can smell it.

So I just want to say, you gotta wipe yourself better. Here some wet wipes every time you go to the bathroom. And you shouldn't even have sex with him to after he showers, but if he's not cleaning his butt hole in the shower either, and then get an like that. I don't know what I'm say on the radio says,

but it's cleaning his I will say. I'll be on my wife twenty one years and I do remember a time about fourteen fifteen years ago where she went down and she was like, hey, man, you need to go take a shower or something because you know and you appreciate it it. Yeah, I wouldn't. Maybe I didn't wipe properly. I don't know what it was, but she told me. It hurt my feelings. I just went and took a

shower between nothing, like I don't understand. I don't think it was a comment to me before once or twice, three times, four times, five times happened to me before. Yeah, so, but like so, that's why you got to point it out. One day y'all will laugh about it, and hopefully that day that chella laughing, his butt will be clean. She got an embarrassed and pick up the underwear and be like, what's this and then let him see to do those stains and he'll get embarrassed and I'll never do it again.

I like that, you know what I mean? And check your sheets, and I bet you gotta doose stains on your sheets. Yeah, and bet you knows trust me. Tappling to me once or twice put the skin marks in his face? You go too far? Thank you, mama. How do you like it? That's actually that's some young boys stuff though, because you know, like that's that's one of the reasons after I do a number two, I do

go take a shower, except if you're at work. Yeah, if I'm at work, but then I'm still like I'm going home and like me and my wife go get right to it. I don't want to go home smelling like you never puh and then have sex right after hell and you can take a shower. How know. We don't want your money, butter pe you better white, better bro? All right? Ask ye eight hundred and five eight five one oh five one if you need relationship advice, he

emails the breakfast club Go Morning. Did some real advice with Angela Yee's ask Ye Morning. Everybody is dj Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast club in the middle of ask Yee, Hello, who's this? Hey man? What's something? What's your quest to feed? Bro? So this is my situation. Um, I was in a married right Me and my wife been married now about a year. So we got in a situation where, um, the relationship got physical. We had a physical arcase in our relationship

and basically her family won't forgive me for that. Being her we had our issue, you know, we went through We know why the things happened and then happened. We still want to work it, but her family really do tool of it because of me flutting my hands on her. Well, of course her family, Yeah, I'm trying to figure out, like, how could we possibly work around the Well, her family's very protective of her, so of course they should feel that way, and so you shouldn't look at that as

something detrimental. Of course they should feel like you put your hands on our family member and a woman, and they should definitely side at you for that. So first you have to understand they're very valid and their reason for looking at you and the way that they are, and that's a punishment that you have to take. And I totally, I totally understand that, you know what I'm saying.

It got physical, but I wanted you understand this for over the years, right being her both being back and forth, people that put our hands on each other, right, and it's kind of like it's kind of like, I k know what they ain't right for nobody to do it, But it's like if I wouldn't do something wrong, you know what I'm saying. You go through my phone and she see something in my phone. She don't betrough my phone, and she attacked me because of things that she's seen

in my phone. When she plutt hands on me plenty of times, right this time it was the other way around, I've seen something and her home, so I put my hands on her because of that, you know what I'm saying. So it really got out of hand because she had a bruisy guard and wow, that really really pushed it, you know. Yeah, And you bruised and scarred your woman up and that that should make you feel terrible. And I just want to say a couple of things. First of all, it's never right for a woman to put

her hands on a man either. And I tell people that all the time. Women shouldn't be putting their hands Nobody should be putting their hands on each other. I think that, as you said, what happened was worse because you ended up really physically harming her, and you could have ended up in jail for that, and things could have gotten even worse. You could have permanently damaged her.

You could have, you know. And one thing my boyfriend was tell me is that anytime, and his mom has always told him this, if you feel like you have to put your hands on a woman, that's you need to walk away. That's not the right woman for you. But you said, this is the one time that it happened. She wants to forgive you for it, and I can't tell a woman went to do. But I suggest that you guys have got to get real help, and that

means that y'all have to go to therapy. You have to figure out why you reacted the way you reacted. She has to figure out how to keep her hands to herself as well. But there really is never an excuse for you to basically beat your woman up. And that's what you did. Yeah, it really ain't. I tell you what happened though, or why I did it. You went through her phone and saw something? Yeah, well, basically, well when I saw let me tell you what I

saw though. I went through her phone, right, and I saw that she was actually heaving the affair with my son's football coach. Listen, I feel you, and there's but there's still no matter. It don't matter what you saw. There's no justification. I see, y'all. I'll understand what you say at a term like that. When you see that, you're still trying to justify it. I know we look, okay, can I saw every every you listen, Yeah, I'm listening. I don't agree with you, my brother. I'm gonna ask

you your white fold right now. You say that the heaven out there with somebody that was close to y'all, and you had a little nick in your system. Your very first action to lead a damn house. You can't move off emotion in a situation like that. You got to move off strategy number one, number one because you shouldn't hit a woman in number two because you just got too much to lose. Brother. That's right. Now. I'm looking my system. I probably cry, and I'm in the

fetal position. But what I am concerned about is that you are still trying to get people to back you up for your actions, and you cannot justify your actions. You cannot put your hands, You can't appeal to the men in the room and think that they're gonna be like yeat to get it too. I can understand why you did that. There's no explanation, there's no way that you are in the right in the situation. I feel you you were hurt, but that doesn't mean that you're

supposed to physically harm your woman. I will say, I can understand why he did it. I don't agree though. I can understand the emotion in the alcohol, but I don't agree with you. Yeah, you can't justify it. You can't say, well, this is why I did it, so all good and so you cannot ever do something like that again. And you have to own the fact that you were wrong in your reaction. Now what she wrong? Dead wrong. You could have left her. You could have

said I'm never gonna be with you again. You could have cut off whatever you know, support you give her or she gives you, whatever it is, but you physically put in your hands on her. It's never the solution. You're like, I knew all the wrong. I'll really be great it right now because like I feel, were separating. I don't move that and you know what I'm saying, I'm away from my kids and family. Family, had a whole lot of you spit from me before. But yeah,

you bruise her up. You know how crazy that looks. What you need to do is get yourself into some therapy and show her that you're serious about rehabbing yourself and take that time apart to work on you. I'm doing it, and it don't feel like with me. I just had a bad situation at one time. Stop listening. There is something wrong. You shouldn't have reacted that way, and you gotta acknowledge that if you did it once, you'll do it again. So it's so wrong with me

because of a womanstake. Everybody makes a mistake. I don't say I feel like I have to go get Yeah, everybody, everybody does make mistakes. But the problem is is, first of all, you're using liquor when you're upset, and that's that's the worst thing to do. You're upset, you mad, You're using liquor to to take away the pain, and you wind up being an abusive and yes, you have a problem and you need to deal with that problem.

You don't want to make sure that happens again. And then the next time you're saying, yeah, I made two mistakes. You just want to make sure that older you, sir, he sounds older. Yeah, I made I made that mistake when I was seventeen years old, you know, putting my hands on a woman, you know, for the same situation. But you know I was I was had low emotional intelligence. Then I was immature, I was insecure, I had low self esteem, like my ego was bruised. But at thirty

three years old, nah, I wouldn't make that mistake. If you're serious, go get some help for yourself and acknowledge that you're run because I don't think you really truly grasped it. Okay, I could feel good all right. I wish you the best. Ask you eight hundred and five eight five one oh five one. If you need relations ship advice, ye now is the Breakfast Club? Good morning the Breakfast Club? Hello the relationship advice? Need personal advice?

Just need real advice? Call up down for ask ye morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club. Were in the middle of ask yee, Hello, who's this? Yes, Sherry Brown ain't Sharon Brown. I don't from him to Virginia. I've been trying to get in touch a draw for like months and months and months Hu seven five seven eight h four. Okay, didn't sounds

too great, Okay, Shy said, let's tell your question. Okay, okay. Um. I'm a very smart by the way, um, y'all inspirate me a lot. I listened to the radio because I suffered with PTSD and I love music and music. Hallan me down. I can do a lot of things in music and cookle music. I can dance the music. Got kid draw the music. I can read the music. I

just love music. So um, I had a question because I love God right and I've been saying since I was three years old, and every every relationship I've ever been in, all the guys say that I'm crazy. Everybody in my whole city say I'm crazy. In Hampton, Virginia, I've been in seventy five seven since i was nine years old. My mom came here getting away from abusive

our relationship that my father was doing. Her and my father couldn't get along, so she left my father when I was nine months old, and I was up with not having a father. So I failed to like having relationship with guys looking for father figures, and I was going with older guys. I never go with younger guys. So now without now that I'm forty three, I started attracting younger guys. Cooper stuff, Cooper stuff. So um Um,

I went selivant for four and a half years. And because I was trying to fig out watch up getting these relationships that was abusive. And I mean they keep putting me down and their star of saying and like they love me like right away, like a munch too much. They loved me and then they, um, they say I'm creative and stuff I do? Mama, what's your question? What's your question? Like twenty six I have, like twenty you

have like twenty sixty three. I counted them. I did a self anonymous analys, I draw, I do hair, I sing, I rap, I dido, I mentor, Mama, what's your what's your question? What's your question? Um, I don't like everything, but they keep telling me I'm not nobody. I'm a certified chef. Mama, what's your question? The question is the question is do a person or a good woman when they see as a woman, And the question is I'm

trying to figure out why are you single? Do I keep dating these guys and say they don't believe in God because I believe in God, And every time I see from about God, they don't like it, and I don't understand why they don't like it. Maybe we should go back to the part where she said people think she's crazy. Okay, shy, just ask Jerry just has some things to get off her chest. This morning, Hey man, I got a crazy crazy and everybody keeps man, you're

not Syry. Do you want angels? Advice? Shared, huh do you want advice? I'm trying to figure out. I'm trying to do on the ready. I'm like, y'all, so I can get into charming because I a lot of salt. Really, we know, I can't tell. I can't tell at all. Sold. Okay, So Sharry, you keep dating guys who don't believe in God. Don't ask that question. They stay to believe in them. But they got all these game stars on them my head. Okay, so they do believe in God. They heart on them

blood and Sherry, remember Sherry. So it's not that they don't believe in God, as they don't praise and worship the way that you do. Oh well, I've been saying since I was three years old, and I've been in the choir. My mom made me go to church every fund and even though she said she stayed out all night and slept with people husbands and and mistress and all that, I've never had a husband. I've been the best woman that I've ever known, and the best mother.

My mom just took my friend from me, and I'm like, really like fans the fun I'm in the best brother. I can never picked up. I've been mother to other people's kids that don't even mother that kids. All right, sharp. You know, the Bible says, Cherry. The Bible says kind of get in touch with drunk and like every Schry. You know, the Bible says a great deal about being quiet, right, yes, yeah, holding your tongue, shutting the hell up. Sometimes I leave

that long he's still and listen. Got you you know what I'm saying. You can hear God? How you hearing God? And you talk so goddamn much, Sharry, I don't know I do why everybody just give me? I have ADHD I have yes, I Cherry, I got eshe MTV, I got all your hold on. But we just ran out of time. Very much, Cherry, Cherry, did you even ask a question? I don't know, Serry, Thank you very much, Cherry. Let me jumping the water. Send me a ticket. I take it the water, jumping in a jumping in the water.

I need to go to something in the water. I can get a break. Somebody send me a ticket place. Oh you want to go on vacation now? Now our host this, I just want to be there. I just want to get away from all this show. What the hell is rong? We'll get your ticket to Virginia Beach. Thank you, Thank you. Virginia Beach just five minutes away from you, I know right from me. I used to live in NORFL, Virginia, Scherry. If you want to reach me, that email has helped me. Ye at gmail dot com.

Do you help me yet? Gmail? You have enough space in your inbox for this email? Shay's about to send you. Well, the show's ever Thank you all for listening to the best. That call went on goodness, well we got rumors on the shair. Should have just started off. Hey, fam, if it is all right, we got more. Come up next with a breakfast club voting everybody's DJ Envy angela ye, Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. Now leave

us on a positive note. Listen, man, I knew I'm a chure when I realized every situation doesn't need a reaction. Remember that the day every situation does not need a reaction. Sometimes you just got to leave people to do. The lame ship is that they do