Rewind: Jennifer Lewis and Michael Blackson Interview

I'm with Walmost Dangerous Morning Show, Breakfast Club. Yeah, yeah, morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela ye shoul, I mean the guy we are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building, the Black Mother of Hollywood. Here, Black Hollywood guys. How are you good? I'm good. I've been traveling around the country a lot, you know, touring. Uh you know, Florida, went over to the Parkland, talk to the Parkland kids, just left Detroit, went over to Flint,

talked to the water warriors. It's just not a book too. I'm trying to do something out here, you know, Um, you really putting in their work. Huh oh yeah, you know, Blackishes on hiatus. Oh, we just got picked up for a fifth season. I'm rich. I'm rich together, y'all just gotta keep watering. Well, we've been picked up for a fifth season. Obviously. I do love that you started the book talking about going getting on Blackish and just basically you almost retired. Yeah. I was about to retire. I

didn't get Oranges. I auditioned for Oranges and New Black and my girlfriend Lorraine Jussaint got it. I auditioned for getting on on HBO. My good friend NC Nash got and I was like, okay, this is m So I was out in my yard. But you know, I love them, and I'm always happy for other people. You know, I worked, so come on, now, I got more talented than my little told thing. Anyway, I got it. I'm getting Okay,

let's get that right. Cut that. I don't want my peers to think I think I'm better than everybody, but I do. Um. Yeah, So I was sitting in my backyard. You know, I come from poverty, so I saved my money so I wouldn't have to need too much. You know what I mean. I'm an owl for female. Anyway, what was I Yeah, so I was pruning my roses

and I said, I'm gonna I'm gonna retire. I walked over to a twenty five cent wheel barrel that I had bought at a garage sale, and it's full of geraniums, and I said out loud, not even me can stop me. I gave up many times in my life, but I didn't quit. You gotta be in it to win it. You gotta stay up. I wrote that book for the millennials because I saw him lay down in the streets. But there's a beat they miss. You gotta feel your feeling.

If you're feeling hopeless, feel that whatever you're feeling, feel your feelings, then move because you'll carry the rage with you, You'll carry the confusion with you, You'll carry the chaos with you, and then we don't get anything done. Feel your feelings. They are shooting our babies. Yeah, I heard you. You're very passionate. Did you feel like all the players should be kneeling? I want them to all go down

at the same time. If you take away America's fun, these are the great warriors of our time, these are the gladiators. You gotta go down. No great, great, great great grandmother went down on two knees and her hands. She wasn't just picking cotton. She was raped while she was doing it. So with the ABC episode of Blackish that they didn't air, which was about the kneeling, what

was the reason they didn't er it? You know, I gotta tell you something I wasn't around, but all of that, So I'm not gonna speak to it because I don't know what happened. But we all know what happened. It was too much. It could have been you know, the temperature and the temperament of the country where it might

have been too delicate. But I don't understand ABC is you know, let us say everything else and address all these you know, needed modern day issues that people can walk away from the television and sit down and discuss. There's a lot of depression in this country. The in word police brutality. Can your Barriss sits at the helm of the show. He's brilliant, He's a young genius. I

admire him so much. So I don't really know what happened with Disney or ABC, but with what's going on in this country right now, they might want to speak to it all. And if it was about the kneeling. Let me tell you something. These basketball, football, baseball, I don't care what you play. You are a gladiator. We pay your rent. You have to honor what's going on. They're pulling our babies over and blowing their heads off, and you're gonna run around and throw a ball. I

hit a ball and they pulling your sign over. I don't care who you wit. I don't care if you were the white woman. The baby might look white. You gotta into black blood. They blocked and they gonna kill them. And you go to work and throw a ball around. How you go to bed when your son is out in the street going to the club. What made you decide to write this memoir and tell all these stories? Because it is something that as I was reading it, I read so many memoirs from men who tell all

of these stories about themselves. But it's very rare that I read women telling stories like this. I wrote this book first of all for me, but then I wrote it for the next generation because I want them to know that no matter what, you can come through the fire. You gotta love yourself. If you want to come through the fire. I have an expression, I say, love yourself so that love will not be a stranger when it comes, and it will come if you take care of yourself

self care. I'm stressing self care out on the road. I tell all them black women, stop eating fry chicken every day. You used to do that too. You talk about it in the books. Chicken every day. I know it stonnuts, but you gotta stop. You gotta get sick and tired of being sick and tired. You gotta stop. You know, sitting in those rooms, you know I was. I'm bipolar. I'm bipolar still I have to take my man. And my daughter was like, you got your man's head. I want to talk about it. I got it in

this morning. When did you first realize you had a bipolar disorder? Okay, so here it is real fast the book. Born and raised in poverty. I'm the baby of seven children, so I didn't get a lot of attention. So I spent my childhood going see me, see me, And then that turned into me see me. That lasted a long time, and then it turned into the deep, Oh you gonna see me, bitches, and they saw me. But look at this,

you get tired. It's a mask. I mean, I was talented, at hell, and I had a good heart, but I was sick and I didn't want to admit it. So they came down after I got my ass in therapy. It's a journey, y'all. It's called the journey within. That's what my friend said to me. She said, Jenny, there's no greater journey than the journey within. I went, there's a journey with it. It sounded exciting, so I took it. So I opened up my palms and I educated myself.

And now y'all want to know what my hands are doing. Hi, everybody. Yes, I'm Jennifer Lois. That's why I'm saying Louis. Actually I'm from a little small town called Kinlock, Missouri, all black. It was one of the first all black, self governed townships in America. So I was born and raised there. You see. So this little town sits on the border of Ferguson, Missouri. I come on now. So even as a little girl, I was warned never to go to

Ferguson alone. So when it exploded, I wasn't surprised. But see, and here's the power in the glory. Ferguson had a movie theater and Kenlocke did not. Now you think I was gonna let white folks back there keep me from my dream. I would go over to every Saturday morning.

My mother would have killed me if she no not go over there, get my little popcorn set up in the balcony and imagine myself on the silver screen and now sixty eight movies later, four hundred and fifty two episodic television shows, four Broadway shows, and concerts all over the world. Don't with me. I was gonna ask you, you know, did you feel like the bipolar hinted you any in the business? But clearly not did it? Well, here's the thing. The mania, understand, bipolar is manic behavior.

That's that cousin at the family reunion up on top of the table, drum cousin with his pants down. So that's bipolar. You don't have to go and say you think you're bipolar. He's bipolar. The other polar is depression. Now listen very carefully to me, bipolar disorder. The mania is the rush. It's dangerous, it's rageful, and it's out of control. It worked for me on stage, but baby, when the curtain comes down, Oh you want to talk

black and dark and sad and lonely. You hide in a dark room, eat yourself to death, sleep yourself to death, get high yourself to death. And then you missed that online in the Constitution, the pursuit of happiness. So what sustained me was having a passion. We have more with Jennifer Lewis from black Ish, So don't move. It's the Breakfast Club, Good morning morning. Everybody's DJ v Angela, Ye Charlemagne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club now from

black Ish. We have Jennifer Lewis in the building. Now, let's talk chapter four of the new book Deva. Oh, y'all, I had so much sex up in these streets. I had a sex addiction. I didn't know, you know, I just being in my twenties and early thirties. And I'm not gonna lie. Whenever I hear guys say that, I

always think it's bolled. I'm just like man to say you was cheating you Like, but you know what, when I was reading the book before you even said that, I was like, yeah, because it seemed like you didn't feel like you were complete unless you had somebody. No, it was a need, it was yea. I had to have that right after I came off stage. I get me a good looking man. He was my type. You like the red boy. Yeah, just a little high y'all. I liked him with a throwback then, you know, pretty

lip like. Does he look like you, Miguel? That was her. No, he doesn't look like Miguel. Let me see if anybody in here looks like Miguel. Miguel was Dominican. He had your skin tone a little lighter, and he was He's a man that you wouldn't think would have been the love of my life. But he was brilliant. It was a mathematician met him in New York. I know, I met him in college. I met him when I was

a freshman. He was brilliant and he was sweet, and he was very spiritual, and I was fascinated with him and he called me yeah what that mean? No, he would call me in now before you started like going to therapy and stuff. Here about Polo? Was the therapeutic? Was that was? Oh? Yeah? Was the drug? Are you kidding? And when you buy Paula you you got multiple orgasm? I mean I bad. I loved it. I would come was it was it like a relationship or was it just random child? Yep, I had him all, but I

was selected as a star. I was gonna be a star. I can't say I was. I couldn't sleep with everybody. Everybody couldn't say they slept with me, and that did tame me once again. It was the dream that stopped me from being killed. I had the knife to my throat. Yeah, it was the greatest performance of my life. I talked myself out. And this was just some boy coming out the street. He'd seen me in the paper with a white bikini on. I was on page six of the

poster the Daily News. It's all in the in the book. Oh yeah, please tell that was a horrifying experience. We don't want to we don't want to go in there. Y'all read the book about the boy putting life and the knife at my throat. I talked myself out of rape. The boy came into my house with a knife. It was the greatest performance of my life talking myself out of it. Even he cried and he said, I just got out of jail and they put me in for something I didn't do, and he just wanted to hurt somebody.

He wasn't mean. He wasn't he didn't come in like this because I'd have kicked his ass. I went to therapy for seventeen years, twice a week because I wanted to live. You spend thirty three years in depression, hurting yourself. I want all those men on me, Come on. I want to love myself. I wanted to enjoy my success. I was a Broadway star. I no business running around picking up guys and clubs. I didn't want to do that over it. I went to my assid therapy. You

got to go to therapy for the sex addiction. Yes, sir, Wow, you even went to an acupuncture, she said, And she said she could tell you had two men in Oh my god. I walked in some room and this Asian woman, you know, I had bronchitis, and she gave me the the needles all over. I looked like a porcupine when she finished, and right before I walked out of her office, she said, how many boyfriend you got? One? She said,

how many boyfriend you got? I said too, because I had slept with a guy that morning, and then I slept with another guy that night. That was the only time I ever did that. She looked at me she said, two men with one woman make one woman poison. Oh my god, gotta that. I don't know how she knew I had done that in New York and I got into LA I was like, okay, baby, yeah, yeah, right,

but yeah. When Walter Cronkite came on the news and said everybody you slept with, you slept with everybody they slept with for the last seven years, I told my girlfriend and I said, bitch, booked me a trip around the world and put it on the credit card. Because I'm a dead bitch. You know. It's scared that at a world AID stopped. Oh, aid stopped us all I went stop. I was in Monaco, I remember, and somebody had called me and told me that Luther Vandross had

AIDS but it was because he had lost weight. He did. He didn't have a anybody that lost a lot of weight. Back in those days, you just right, right right, and so you know, I loved me some looser and I was like, you know, and that went through my head. Over there, I was just getting ready to sleep with some French boy. It was gorgeous. I'll never forget anyway, very nice, but anyway, hey, but I put on the brakes that night that I ain't doing this no more.

I don't want to die. Did everything make you? Or did you already know your body so much? For maybe masturbations? I didn't need no man to make me. And as I used man, I discarded them like tissue paper back. In those days, I was a brick cows thirty six to four thirty six around check my lag off anything I wanted to do. But yes, it was a need, it was a drug. I didn't do hard drugs. I was at a party with the San Diego Charges when I was touring the country with a Broadway show, and uh,

they were passing around a brown box. I said, what's that? He said, that's cooke, baby. I said, how you do it? He said, we'll just you know, pull it right there. Snorted up and thank god, I asked this second question, I said, and then what happens? He said, Well, are you gonna feel a drip down your throat? I said, my throat? God, I got a matinee to mar I ain't putting on my throat, And thank god, but once again the dream, you see, if you really want something,

you ain't gonna mess yourself up too bad. I want go ahead, baby, I want to ask you. I'm sure you took an HIV test at some point you're like, oh, honey, I don't sleep with a man no more unless we go. Oh yeah, first when you took after all that sex, what was that you married? You don't sleep money. I've never been married. You've been engaged four a time. I've been engaged for a time. I have four rings, but I never went through with it. I'm married. I listened,

I married my career, and I have no regrets. I have a beautiful daughter here that I met in the Big Sister Big Brother program. I was a Big Sister for five years, and when she turned twelve, her mother was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis and was unable to raise her. So I adopted her. And she's thirty now. I just pretty she can be. I'm so proud of us. Charmaine, Laura's over there, yeah, Lauren, my other baby. Yes, but you were relieved after you took the first time. Oh yeah,

oh yeah. I actually got real stressed out when I first moved to la You know, Robert Wax brought me out there. He was a manager. He managed Eddie Murphy or Sin Chris and me so, but I wasn't ready. I didn't know who I was. I would crumble at auditions, cry myself to sleep, seeing myself to sleep with tears by polar disorder. Ain't no joke. If y'all know somebody

suffering with mental illness, reach out. But I tell people when I'm on the road, now reach out about three times and then leave their asks along because they will kill you. You understand who had your back as a child. I'm looking at I'm looking at everything that you've been through and my mom and mom, no, no, it wasn't mama, Because one time I need to speak to us. Who had your back? Who gave you that? Encouraged my teachers, my professors in college, and I went in search of mothers.

I tell my daughter, now, if I'm not good enough for you, then you go find some more mamas. I had about five mamas. I talk about them in the book. It's ironic that you became the mother of black Hollywood. Now are you well? You know I I tell you working with Tupac and Whitney and Taragi, and I've been there to Kevin and Gabrielle. You know, I've been everybody's mama. I didn't have any kids, but I got my baby, so I had to learn how to be a mama.

They're calling me the mother of the movement now because twenty five percent of my life the show business. Now seventy five is the resistance, all right. We got more with Jennifer Lewis. Of course, black Ash season finale tonight, so don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good Morning, the Breakfast Club, the world's most dangerous morning show. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We have from black Ish, Jennifer Lewis

in the building. Charlomagne, you talk about getting molested by your pastor too, Oh yeah, I was. I was molested by the past of my church. I was fifteen years old. You know how in choirs visit churches, you know, a visiting choirs coming. While we were on our way home and there was no room in the truck because you know, we used to riding the back of the truck in

those days. Like I ate ride, you know, so I said, I'm riding with the past I was so happy, and halfway home I said to him, hey, pastor Herd do you think I can be a star. He pulled over, leaned over, tried to kiss me, but I clenched my teeth and he circled his tongue and I felt his hand on my breast, and I resisted profusely. I was like pushing him back. You gotta understand, this was the man of God. I couldn't like bunch that mother. You know, we had been taught to revere him. No I couldn't.

I'll tell you why, because it was pounded in our heads to revere that some of a betch to watch up him. So I resisted, and he saw that that wasn't gonna happen, so he started the car pulled off. When we exited the highway, I opened the door to spit him out of me. I'd been holding it in And when he grabbed my arm because he thought I was gonna jump out of the car, I couldn't even say, don't touch me, you son of a bitch, because I was speaking to a man of God. Ran in the

house told my mama. There was no Oprah Winfrey in those days. You understand what I'm saying. Women back then, they didn't know how to confront that Kaniston. That was no time's up, me too movement. Hey now, so it was never discussed again. But you did end up having to ride in the car with him. Oh yeah, but that let them read on that I want to stay

on this molestation. He took everything from me in seven seconds, your faith, everything, took God because he was a man of God, took my career because I was asking about it, and took my mother. They don't have to rape you. If you've been touched inappropriately, tell somebody, and if they don't listen, go tell somebody else. And then you tell somebody and then you stand out in the street and dreams or her name. I'm surprised you didn't ye come.

Oh well that's the chapter, the chapter on the molestation. Because thirty three years later, after I've been in therapy, I called him. I got real drunk. I was so scared. And he picked up the phone and he said, hello, Jennifer, We're so proud of you. You're on Fresh Prince and a different You're on television. Jennifer, I said, it ain't that kind of call. Mother, Hm, you read the book for the end of that. I won't talk about definitely pick up the book The Mother of Black Hollywood. Jennifer

Lewis was so much. He was on Bill Cobby Show. You don't want me to go in? On Bill? Did you? Did you? Did you see anything back? And yes, I saw some suspicions. Yes I did, Yes I did. Don't ask me what room I was in. I think I was auditioning for something. I don't know what it was, but I was here in New York and there was a young girl in there and she's thinning. I hope she's watching. I don't know who she was or what.

But we were in that room and I was going on and on about myself, what else, talking talking, talking, what I'm doing? And I said, we were having a good time in this girl. We're just talking and I looked out. I remember looking out the window at the Hudson River. I remember it like it was yesterday. I'm talking out and I said, and next week I'm doing the Cosby Show. And she I didn't hear her saying nothing,

because we've been laughing at everything. I turned around and her whole change at reverse in a second, just from hearing his name. I said, what's wrong with you? You hate me? You know, back in those days we revered Cosby and she was a pretty little thing. Side I thought in my head, oh girls, she's not going up you know, audition, and slept with him on no you're

now we used to think. I didn't think nothing. She mad because she didn't get the job or you know, And here now, these many years later, I mean, let me tell you something, if something you can't fake now while with this child, roll up and say something like that to me. I think it was ninety four. I did the call. You can look on IBM and see when I did the cause of his show. But yeah, that happened. And once again he didn't come for me, but he did. When I went to his dressing room

after the show. I had a girlfriend with me, and he patted slapped her ass when we left the room because when you know, he didn't know she um told me when we stepped outside of the door, she said, hit me on my ass. I went, you know, we would kids. That's all I'm gonna say about that man, because once again, y'all, I'm passion. I don't hate. Look, I try not to hate anybody, but these sick pedophiles. There's one thing to have a sex addiction It's another

thing to be evil and take advantage of children. And all these men in power. You think they're supposed to suck your because you got money. Trump himself a stormy couldn't have made that up, you know, when somebody's telling the truth, y'all do was looking their eyes. You're not probably about nothing you see in Hollywood now at the times of me, Oh, I ain't surprised, and nobody came

from me out there. I had too much talent, not that you know, I ain't trying to say that they didn't come from me, but you know I came in the room loud and bold and ready, and I'm not sucking your to get a job. Are you insane? Not after the work I did on myself. So because you like it, well, I don't know. I really wasn't into it. Was like she did say that one guy he was too little. Oh yeah, that was a little ether the open man and pulled out something. I was like, honey,

you're gonna have to put that in my ear. And also and the next day I had rehearsal. They were giving us new steps. I was like, huh, oh man, I can't hear you. Oh, my daughter's here. That's just a lot, baby. You know, my mom always jokes and carry on. We appreciate you for joining us. It's so grateful and thankful, Thank you. Please pick up this memoir. It was really incredible. It was great for me to read as a woman. But for everybody, I think this

is and I think everybody. Somebody that is mentally ill. Somebody speeds in a call, talking too fast, walking too fast, being rageful all the time, and they disappear for weeks. Come on, y'all, we all got a little bit. I go to the every once a week for anxiety and all kind of by. Good for you, absolutely good for you. Gonna take care of yourselves, self care so your arms

will be strong when the people you love fall. But you, guys, go to Jennifer Lewis for Real, Facebook, Jennifer Lewis Curreal on Instagram and Twitter, and look for the schedule the book tour um so you can come out and here's some good stuff. All right, it's the Breakfast Club. It's Jennifer Lewis, the Breakfast Club. Wanting everybody is DJ n Vi Angela Ye Shallow the guy. We all the Breakfast Club. We have Michael Blackson's troublemaking African Michael Blackson in every

part of his life. What is going on when you see this coat? You noticed one last time he saw this coat. You lit your ass up right? No same coat, elite. I want you to know. Kevin Hart did he really did? I promised to God give me another chick. You give me another he really was. Now what should be for Kevin Hart? Michael Blackson A matter of fact, before you say that, play with Kevin said when he was here, played Kevin, Mike turn into the Instagram model that just

shows her ass that is looking for life. And you thought I was funny. That's what Mike turned into. Mike turned into that guy. Yeah, Kevin Hart, what the what? Mike, I'm your guy. If you don't know me, I get it. I'm supposed to be your guy. But now you're looking for likes because the conversation of Kevin Hart drives attention to you. So now you put your relationship with me in jeopardy because you want to try. I could give a but you want to capitalize love. But Kevin Hart

cheat scandal that becomes your bits. Okay, Mike, I guess first of all, that's what Michael Blackston, do Michael Blockson makes fun of everybody from Bill Cosby to Birdman. When he came here, try to choke you, to Tyrese, and Tyrese wasn't that. I didn't know it, doct well and I climbed it to the fullest and you got such a sense of humor that he called me and later on I got kidnapped. We are comedist, we David Snow. We talked about everything. One thing. We don't touch find me,

we don't touch wife, we don't touch kids. You know, if he never made a video went on there and by the cry, it looks so stupid. He just made it so easy for like me, Why aren't you guys friends or we're friends? We go way back Philly? Well yeah, yeah, when he tried like I wasn't Philly first, I was. I moved to Philly some of nineteen eighty nine. Kevin was probably in diapers, so I was original. I was

probably one of the original Philadelphia comedian. You think about Phillipack comedians, you go to comed for you back in the day, original from West Africa, but not raising Philly, Michael Blacks, Phillip bam my home. If what I Philly, I would not be doing no comedy. Okay, me and Kevin go way back. We've all been locked up together before. When I went to do the movie next Friday, Kevin Hart drove me to the airport from audition back in

ninety nine. You know we went at one point. I don't know what's happening, whether falling, I fell out at that lady, I don't think me for some of my apparent reason. That doesn't matter because I didn't do that because I don't with him. I did it because that's what I do. You, I wrote, so don't you think? Don't you think in that situation when his houses and

shambles and split me up. When they happened to me, you had major, major hype, and the other guy came here, y'all mentioned my sex tape and they made some jokes split my ass on when you you deserve whatever comes to you, and you know he deserved it. But I gotta ask you this, where you guys not cool before you went in on him because you said you didn't know what happened, or was it because of the jokes that you made. No, it was probably before that because

my thing if I'm your guy. The first post I would have made. What would you have done the first post? I would have made what you did exactly. But you didn't call him. You ain't give him that respect. He said they were friends, y'all was friends, but you ain't call him the same Kevi? You're okay? You good? What's wrong? Before I had the same phone number since nineteen ninety nine,

Kevis had thirty different numbers. If you're my homie, you push something and I know you got like two minute followers, I would call you a put that down. It's not a good time. And I respected that. That's a proof that he's not my soul called guy. Maybe he's my guy, you know, a Calf, I'm gonna call your bluff. Go ahead, pick for my special right now. If I put my money away and you said let's make money together, you know, Calf, would we put you on the network? Hell? Out of network?

Do you watch it? Why are you trying to put me on the air? That's where he's special, Charlotte Jermaine Johnson, don't do that tone. Please, But in that situation right talk to me with the cheating and you was there because when I seen you, when I see I had. I've never cheated Georgia rain cause you one. Listen, my gout his own page. Okay, do his own thing. But that's the long, very long story. No disrespect of Safari, but my is the champion. But make a long story

longer like my don't care. Y'all just caught the stories at the wrong time. People don't understand. With the hotel going online, say penis PENI just slut. Say he has penis. You have penis? Out of me and my girl every time, I never every time I did something wrong. We had a temporary breakup. We had a temporary break up. I went out of town super Bowl weekend, somewhere in Houston, some thirsty beach. You just got weekend. We when we put one together, we had a big argument some beach

whatever the beach did. A month later, me and my girl get back together. We engage. We're laying in bad All of a sudden, I go on social media and my gets online. I know you were like, oh my god. I was like, I said, listen, don't look at instaground right now. This is not a good time. In fact, East Ground is shut down. But no, why I would say, I'm sure Calf told his wife the same thing, and she go on the ground and see, you supposed to be a friend going in on Calf, So you got

numerous times. You can see what you hit. Was suspecting everybody to roast me. I deserved it, He deserved you. You deserve it. It doesn't mind tie he's he should have made a video. Don't make it easy for a savage like me, you know, and if you had a problem and I'm your guy, and let me know you my guy him, you know, Mike, my guy Pipom. Specially because two million dollars, give it to me right now,

I'm saying to shoot it. I'm not saying I'm need a lot more than that, more than two million dollars. My ya will never see it. But he might have felt like if he reached out to you, you might have incorporated that into the jo. I wouldn't do that. I mean I did who I did? I think I did it to Bobby V. No no no it man put that online. I ad my bitch when I did the whole thing on the Zealist celebrity and I said, Bobby V, we don't want your money. He sent me a DM like damn Mike for real, and I screened

out and posted it. But I wouldn't do that to cath How ye know that I'm saying, he gonna call me? How you I'm gonna record? It plays okay, right, but it do seem like you go past a little with jokes with kids, you a little bit. I had everybody called. I listened to the radio station called in. I thought that keV was sensitive. It was about even. She was the only out on my side. Disrespect the light, skinny. I don't expect much from you because you get lighter.

You almost like it. Then, sound like Charlotte Jamaine Johnson Learnd listen to Face on Love, say Michael Blackson, that's like him talking about you. Oh I do it all the time. But no, but not on some real come to cheating on my family. Yeah no, that's something that he really got to deal with. Yea, Kellen was right, he was. He was doing someone like you want that much attention. I can give you attention. And I like Michael, but come on, man, it's rules. They both from Philly.

I don't know, you know, Michael got that you know, the African thing. But I was like, come on, man, don't don't do that. Face out sounds hungry. You just wanted something to eat. When you're hungry, you don't think straight. You also said that was not funny. So if we can't take everything, face out saying seriously, that's my I love him, love him, but you know what it is is, look at what Bill Cosby did. Bill could go to jail for his and we all live. I gotta five

minute material on Bill Cosby. He did something legal. Yeah that's a crime. Well you read there, you can't. That's it's more sensitive to touch than everybody cheats. But you know how hard it is to fix it when you do when nothing, He went on, I'm not I'm not a doctor. I'm so happy I'm I'm not my fucking voodoo doctor. I'm not a real I'm not doctor Phil. I'm not here to put to get out everybody. The

Breakfast Club. When we come back, we got more with Michael Blackson, We got to talk some more cav and of course Tyrese did he really get kidnapped? We'll get into it when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee Charlemagne, the guy we all the breakfast club. Michael Blackson's in the building. Charlemagne, you think you camp could never be cool again because you told Tims do

you want to fight him? You know the reason? Because I thought I was when I when when I was on TMZ, I think I was next thing. I'm not lining. I put a video of him boxing. I'm like, I wanted to fight, so I I thought, you want to fight me? Listen, I thought you don't want to fight me. So I decided going to the gym, and then I realized I'm a little out of shape. You know, I kind of want to fight that to get over with. But I'm scared. I'm scared though, because Midges hit hard

and with a regular heap. You know all of this. You know what, I'm a little key jealous? Who keV Why? Because when he did his team, he had two business I had one. Oh my god, I just he just keep going. Well that's because according to Georgia Raine, there were about three or four women may he had him all at one time. I had minds one. I'm trying to deflect from Georgia Raine. Now let's talk about her for a second. So what exactly happened? And do you

miss her? Because that was your woman? We don't seeing y'all on team be together. She's all over the place. She seems like a great catch. You seem like you loved her, you were engaged. What happened? I mean, we're cool. She's a great woman. We are cool. See that. I don't want get too much into details. No, no, get into the details. Let me hear her up and ask her what happened right now? Because she played a clip from George Ran, are you really calling her? I don't.

I don't give a dam now that we are cool. Yeah, she did a whole letter of a self love letter and an open letter. It was Ventie's that she missed me. But I mean, is that something because you said you guys have broken up and gotten back together. Would you love to give it another track? Or do you feel like you're not mentioned? We'll see what happens, so you do want to give it another track, see what happens

what the little husband places for us? But you but you know what caused her to speak out with you clowning calm though? She was like, how are he gonna talk about somebody cheating? Yeah? She will always be Tim blockson you. She would always be Tim Blackson. Yeah. Once you get with him with Tumbo, you know, yeah, once you give up block infection, she always on your side. This guy is crazy, don't we got one more your comedic PIDs who had something to say? And then we

can move on Tony. I'm sure Kevin New Comics is gonna have a ball with his because that's what we do. Something happens anybody gets in trouble. They got to know comics are grabbing pins and running too the path, you know what I'm saying. It seems to me and they not Neither one of them is like my rider die one. They they want dude, but they're both cool with me. But it seems to me, like yo, Mike, you could let it go now it's over. It's like keV trying

to fix home. Like you said, major jokes. It's no more to squeeze out of the juice, squeeze out of the lemon like you got it all, you know what I mean? Yeah, it's always more together with the lemon. Excuse the lemon left automated. To be great, you have to touch things to other people want. You can't be afraid of anything, and that's why I have no fear. I mean, listen, I can't. I can't from a village. I ate with my heads and I walk barefooted. You

don't give about anything. I'm a warrior. I'm not frad of anything I talk about. I speak my mind. That's what America is about, right, Yeah, don't don't. There's no rules in roasting people. You have a Netflix special coming, I'm about to I'm about I'm shooting it this summer. I'm gonna shoot it in Philly. How much they give you, It's how I work now, I'm doing different. I'm gonna shoot it and then I'm gonna sell it to them. They don't give me the right money. I'm hold on

to where that I write money comes. Yes, that's the plan. I don't have no deal that I'm paying for it. I'm spending my own money. I'm gonna shoot it and I'm but they are talking to you already. They know to talking to my people. People are talking to them. Did you stick your toe in the water just to see what they would give you? I mean, I know where I'm worked, Yeah, yeah, but what do you work? I can't I pitch she's listening. I can. I don't talk too much about money. All of this is fake.

It's not a real lamp. Nothing's real. Do you think that's the way for Adians to go to shoot your own special and then sell it? You think that is kind of the best method. It is even with TV shows nowadays. If you have an idea, even with a movie, shoot your movie and go sell it. Don't sit around way for people. If I'm gonna sit around for netfait tout put something together, you know, then after they put it together, then I gotta go shoot it anywhere, So

go get it done. If they believe in yourself, put your money in yourself, right, And that's what I'm doing, investing myself. I mean, that's the beautiful, the beauty about social media right because it is. Yeah, I at my own audience. I have a bunch of million followers. If I put something now, they're gonna go support it. You know. If they don't, neveritely don't get me what I want here, I just put it at myself. You gonna pick ten dollars and watch it, and I'm gonna get more than

that twenty million dollars. Now you moved to Southwest Philly when you was twelve, thirteen thirteen, Well, my first two years in the stage, I was in North New Jersey. I moved to Philly when I was about fourteen fifteen. Were you ever ashamed of being an African? Never? I was always proud and that's I mean. And they get around. They claimed me a lot when I came. I came in an era of like African friends back there used to get joked all the time. Nobody was claiming being

a friend back then. Jamaicans wouldn't claiming Jamaican because all the did was made fun of them. Was there in an era of our DeBarge and you know, Prince like, yeah, it was your time, you was you know, things didn't work out for me to Wesley Snipes came out and my life changed, you know, but it was tough and kids claimed me. Know all did was defending myself all

the time, you know. And where the comedy. When did I start becoming a comedian is like when I realized what it takes to fit in And when I came to America back then in it in the eighties and Africa, where you know, I spent a lot of time. I was in Liberia. You know, in Liberia and most of Africa, women just cared about you having a new clothes. New clothes is what like me? A woman like you, She's like, oh my god, he has a new clothes. So I came to America. I couldn't wait for my first deal

of school. My mother took me to mcquaries and Woolworths. You know about who were to mcquaries. When it got me some brand new clothes. There ain't no names. And then my first sneakers was called an action. Okay, I a brand new collars, showed some new pants. I went to school. I said, I got some new clothes. I get all these bitches and all these I got to school clowning me, Like what you wearing? I said, what you me? This is new? It's say it's not nicke.

It's not that it's brand new, it's never been used. So I realized the fitting. You gotta wear name brand. Because even back then Inca hout, I cute you us. If you want some name brand bitches, assume you have money and it was gonna date you. So all those happened in Jersey. But so by the time I got the Philly, I knew what it took to fit in. I had a job working at Domino's Pizzas, delivering pieces

and a bike. I made by fifty dollars a night tip money I saved about fifteen hundred dollars, went shopping, brought all the bang, and I went to school. Everybody thought I was a drug dealer. They had no idea I was dealing pepperoni and anchovies, you know. So once I had good clothes on expensive clothes, then all of a sudden, people want to be my friend, you know. And I was back then, your dog skin and you wore jewelry and nice clothes. You automatically what a drug dealer.

So I'm asking with an accent. And when you had an accent back then, Africans, it wasn't a many Africans in America at that time. It was mostly Jamaicans. So you had an accent, you automatically Jamaican right in America. Did less to know about you, the more fear to half. I'm a dogskin, that's quiet, and where jewelry the thing. I'm a drug do a lot this leave us alone.

So when they started leaving me alone, that's when I started making funny you got on when you got this, and then when I got out of high school, I was still working on dominoes and one of my co workers said, you know you're funny. Take that the open mic, and it's how comedy started. People are in from Georgia, Rain the chick with the beard. You slept with a chick with a beard. I ain't never see with this bitch. What is he talking about? She just she looking for

a conversation. You texted me, You did texted I really did we call in chick with a beard and you would have Goddamn. I'm just saying nothing's off limits. Heard a hotline number? She said, don't say nothing bad. She'll come up here next. Could you give her a hot line number. I never said nothing about her. You always, I always love her. She's so it was just a girl with a little facial here because some women do have it. She don't have a bar. She's a hate

Till right, we got more with Michael Blacks. When we come back. We got to talk more Kevin. We come back to I'm trying that what happened with Tyres Why she's getting out of call? It didn't Yeah, it did show up. T reason is such a great actor. Whatever he's trying to accomplish, the accomplished because I think he shot Spook got cut in half. After that, after the thirteen thousand a month or more you want from me, it got cut in halt right right, So he played

it well. But ty Rese has such a great sense of human when all that's happened. And like I said, I never made fun of his daughter. I never made fun of his woman. I just made fun of And it took me a while to even think about making fun of this guy. With Kevin was no thinking. He's a comedian. He knows it's coming. With ty Reason, I'm like, I don't really know this. So the re boundaries, of course, you said, I mean when it depends on I tried

not to. I thought I took some time to think about Tyres because I run into him a lot, and you know we lived, I mean in Hollywood, so small, so I run into him a lot. So you know, I mean I've been as party, We've shook hands, you know, we daw skinned. Like I said, we recognized each other when we see each other. But then after like the second video, I'm okay, Ti Reason. One more video you're gonna get this. Okay, that's the tyres You're getting it. And I did it, but I did minds. He felt

like what I did was a joke, joke, jokes. It was funny. He laughed at it, especially when I trying to trade him for two light skin needs. So he thought everything I did was funny. And that's why he contacted me and let's do something, Let's bring light to this. And we did. And now the reason why the cops got involved because a person that I know and I didn't have his number story in my phone. He texts me that night after the first post went off, as he took my phone and he said, Yo, Mike, is real.

I said, you know this is ty Reasons ain't no game. So that got called the cops. Yes, the stage Book police came. Helicopters came over his house. And I didn't find this out to like. I woke up the next morning and he fell asleep tied up in ty reason. I'm only laying next to Georgia. And you know, I woke up and I found out that this happened. So then TMC tried to get in touch with me. I told my guys, tell him you don't know where I met. And that's how I just started finding us to like

mister Childs. Everything they did, it followed us. And then eventually I said, League, it's tough for him to go on the road. I gotta make some promo. I gotta get my phone back. But it was all fun and good, you know. I mean, a guy like him had a sense to him. I just you know, Kevin, I gotta give a shot. Kevin is one of the hardest working guy in their business, you know. And what I like about him he made everybody step their game up, you know what I'm saying. And and I would never hit

on this guy. He was like the brother. We watched him grow. He watching Kim and passed every one of us and went to a whole different level and respect him. We support him. Last time I saw him in person, I went to I went to support him and we shot his special at the football field Philly and Philly right, that's the lasting my song him face to face, you know, we show kids and gave a hug and then we just kept it moving. You know, did you ever try to reach out to him just to say what's up?

Or before all of this, I mean, I'm doing my own thing. A lot of times when people get success, it's not them that changes. People around him that change my thing. If I see him or you know, I might pick him up or like on a movie maybe if a movie is hid, and I might be like, you know, shout to carefully. I've done something like that. But he's busy doing this thing. I'm doing my own thing,

you know. And I got said his numbers changed. I've had the same number, so I can't really you know, But like I said, I have no ill feeling to him. I love mess a little brother. We got Kevin online right now. Hello, Hello, she sounded like Kevin. Good morning, Georgia, how are you? This is the Breakfast Club DJ and vi Agelie Charlomagne. You have your fiance Michael Blackson here? Is he still your fiancee? Now, Georgia, do you still talk to Michael because he says you guys are still

cool with each other. Yeah, we're still cool. We're cordial. What did you think when he was making fun of Kevin Hart for cheating? Um? You know, at first I was like, your hypocrite, but then I was like, you know, they're not that cool. So I mean, I guess he he had the leverage to say whatever he said. He never cheated on you, so why would you think he's a hypocrite. He never said that. That was about to say how many days out of the year for three

and a half years. But you know, I just thought it was the hypocrite because I'm like, he just had your one? Really now? He told us that day in particular, he told you not to look at Instagram because when he showed up online, he was like, whatever you do? Thought it was like seven am, And when I rolled over, the first thing he said was I'm about your food.

Don't look on Instagram. I was like what. And my home girl lived in the building and she called me and was like, get off your phone, come meet me outside, and I was like, what the But before I got out of the bed, he was like, yes, I think my eggs put an old video out and I was like, oh my god, this dude, now, let's talk about this woman though you said let's talk about this bigger than

the Farrest? Why would you know what it was? Aline? Listen, I don't know who bigg is, Okay, I don't care, but I think the fires got the bigger that you got him up here? About the crime now, Georgia, I know you guys have broken up and gotten before. When you get back together with him again, Michael is I don't I don't know. I don't know, I don't know. I can't say because he's his recycopath. Like he'll we will break up, but then he'll find a way to like contact me, like I know your home. We come

down like women are always hunging. Good queen just ate an hour ago and then they still want to eat. She is one greedy I know how to get Michael. Do you love Georgia? Of course, Georgia, do you love Michael? There was the problem, like y'all, y'all can work through things. Now you're the problem, the problem. She just sent me pictures of this woman with the beard. Now was a real bill, Georgia, tell me about this situation. It's a real beard. You know. It was his birthday last year.

Let me see you man, all of us. All of a sudden, I get a random d M from a fan. Was like, hey, I follow you on this random it's a little got some massuits. I got a massage and fell asleep, and you fell asleep around a girl. Man, she was. It was a massage. I didn't even see what damn massa me was. It's not an inquimer for what happened to Kevin and you're making fun of think about it. Who is this young man, Michael, Michael, Come on, Michael, this has nothing that you see. Wasn't too long man,

whatever she knew better. I don't know. Georgia, she know better. That's on my side. That's suits. Oh my goodness, why would you even put this woman online? Gonna be now you're gonna have more problems. Don't put them. Let pitch you online. Please don't now you can't, Michael Black, please before I'm just looking out for her. I'm looking out for her safe you like, don't put we won't put

it up online. Don't on Instagram. Georgia. It's a it's a problem that Michael just needs to come clean with you and just kind of tell you really what went down and then maybe you'll consider it. You know what, I just took it to even care. I don't even care about what went down, you know, in the past, because it's like I made so much progress and I realized I am a crazy bitch, Like okay, I know. Thank you Jesus, You're admit the devil is a liar up.

I'm saying I know that I have I'm crazy. But the thing is, I don't even want him to admit to nothing that he's done. This is my interview. You see how you feel right now? That's how Kevin Hart felt at him all those times. I don't be nothing. I don't. But if what they want awesome, I don't care. I don't care. He can't. I have no feelings to us if I do anything wrong. I deserve everything, man, I trust me. I deserve and you got Georgia got the AMMO that hurt you? Or you penetrate you. Let

me say some from this his ass characters. If he didn't care, this the thing he was already planning on getting the world's worth. Don't get me wrong, but from Kevin said that like, oh what I'm about to go buy me a two hundred thousand? I'm like, from you care, Michael, I'm gonna be honest with just and dummy ever heard of? But it was no. It was my birthday present. I was doing no regardless, it was a birthday present for himself. Please side are you on? Where is the bucket. How

you hang up on this? Hang up on, Georgia. We appreciate you, Georgia. This is myne Georgia. Thank you, freed you when I get home for you on. We got more with Michael Blackson when we come back, when let's find out if he wants to make up with Kevin Harden. We'll talk about it when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club wanted. Everybody is DJ Envy angela ye, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Michael Blackson still in the building, Charlemagne. Can

we make you and Kevin cool today? Can y'all be cool? I don't have a problem with you. Know what I'm saying. I don't have no problem, but you know I like you do do something. I would light you up if you have a problem. But what do you think I'm doing? And it's costing you problem at home or whatever? I don't really think it was costing too much problem at home? What it was? Would you say sorry? Sorry, you apologize? Who if it was causing the problems at home? If

it was stressful hard? If it was If it was he said he problems at home? You caused hell in my household? Would you if you if you'd called me and told me that, yes, I mean yeah, I mean yeah. I don't want to see my homie going down like that. But I don't think. I didn't think it was that serious, right, you know, at the end of he did something and people clown him. When I did my I got clowned. I just put out to be a bitch, you know what I'm saying, And my boys came out and now

I didn't have that. Was that was a massage I got? And I first don't know I'm massige about that because it's like different pictures with her wearing different clothes I had. I had a stalking a fan? Was it a fan or as a boat? Has anybody ever tried to fight you, like for real? Gotten mad when they got roasted or that's the thing. I'm shocked. Nobody ever I went into burn man. I thought he was gonna choke me, but then he give me a hug and give me a pound.

So that's when I see when I see hard courts like that. No, he didn't kiss me, Why will he kiss me? Money? What's this light? Was a little Wayne jel That's how he agreed. No, no, no, he does. I'm not his son, he said, he kisses he's his son. Yeah, yeah not, but you know he's he and he. I mean, if I like they'll have a sense of human I don't. I think Kevin she goes to be but then sometimes you see how he came in here on me. There was no sense of human human that day. Yeah, you're

not a comedian. What's the suit that you wear? What it was? This is this from tob All my comes from out of the country. All my office went through customs. They all have possibles. This outfit when it's TSA approved, Okay, tell them your Instagram and all that stuff. If you're listening, it's all at Michael Blackson for those who went to a public school, is m I C H A E L B L A C K. I want I want to copy keV. Talk to each other on social media

to day. Just reach out to each other's love. I'm calling collect and I'm looking forward to see you and Georgia. Ain't going out to eat that bitch hungry num lady who is on his way. It's Michael Blackson. Now let's get right and it's room. Mister Chuck, it's time for Donkey of the Day. A democrat, so being Donkey of the Day a little bit of a mixed club. So like other day. Now, I've been called a lot of my twenty three years that Donkey of the Day is

a new wife. All right, listen, man, Charlomagne the God here, I'm on vacation. I don't give a damn what y'all think about that, because I deserve it. Now. The Breakfast Club is in eighty plus markets in one hundred and fifty country, so we have a lot of new listeners who probably don't even know who Charlomagne the God is. So use my time off to catch up on some

of my past work. Okay, okay, if you knew here, I do a segment every day called Donkey of the Day donkey as in jackass, and that's when I give someone the credit they deserve for being stupid. So if you've never heard of it, this is new to you. But if you are a regular listener and this is an oldiep but goody because it's the best of the Donkey of the Day. Donkey of the Day goes to

Jonathan Todd Jackson aka Action Jackson. Aka j T. Now, you probably have not a clue who Jonathan Jackson is because the only Jackson's we acknowledge are all related to Michael and Janet owen Bow. Okay, bo knows you don't have a clue who Jonathan Todd Jackson is, but I'm about to tell you. Jonathan Todd Jackson is a forty one year old friend of Kevin Hart. According to TMZ's been in movies like Swat Naked and even in the

movie starring Kevin Hart Think like a man too. Now, I know you might be thinking just because you were in a movie with someone doesn't make you friends. Wow. Jonathan and Kevin Hart have posted several picks together throughout the years, and Action Jackson even attended Kevin's bachelor party. It sounds like they was pretty good friends to me now.

According to the New York Times, Action Jackson was a professional US bowler, and according to the PBA, which is the Professional Bowlers Association, Jonathan has been a professional bowlosen's two thousand and six and his career earnings are a grand total of three thousand, two hundred and fifty five dollars and zero. Since yes, I have no idea why him being a professional bowler is relevant to the story.

But for whatever reason, when my brain processes this story, the fact that Jonathan Todd Jackson was a professional bowler with the nickname Action Jackson makes this story even more entertaining.

In fact, if I had to run this story on my website, it would say us pro bowler throws Kevin Hart in the gutter Because according to TMZ, Action Jackson is in jail on one hundred thousand dollar bill facing a maximum sentence for four years because he was charged with attempted extortion and extortion by threatening letter because Jonathan Todd JT. Action Jackson was attempting to extort his friend, actor comedian Kevin Hart. Let's go to all dot com

for the report. Yeah, man was charged with attempting to extort money from actor Kevin Hart with a surreptitiously recorded video of the married comedian with a female. According to the Los Angeles District Attorney's Office, forty one year old Jonathan Todd Jackson, a pro bowler, has been charged with

attempted extortion by threatening letter. Jackson is accused of seeking an undisclosed amount of money from the thirty eight year old heart in August of twenty seventeen, and of also trying to sell a video of the Jumanji star in Las Vegas with a woman to numerous celebrity news websites. If convicted, Jackson faces a maximum sentence of four years in prison. Because I tell you, bro, this is why I feel like an open enemy is better than a false friend. Okay, I mean this is a different type

of guy called violation. This is worse than your friend telling your wife he was cheating. This is worse than your friend trying to highlight your wife. Now, both of those offenses would be into the friendship. But in this situation, Jason Jackson was trying to ruin Kevin his life. He was trying to ruin his marriage, possibly ruin his livelihood. Thank god, none that is happening. But damn, Jonathan Todd, Kevin supposed to be your guy, a man you considered

a friend. Y'all got several selfies together, and you were willing to lose your friendship. Possibly caused Kevin to lose his marriage and have people around you lose allreadyspecting integrity for you because you wanted to extort your man, your guy, for some money crazy thing is to Kevin hard I know, but probably I've given you some money if you really

needed it, because you sound desperate. Okay, well not seventeen You got no seventeen million, But you do a little change, you know what I mean to help get you through, Okay, because as a pro bowl of a career earnings the three thousand, two hundred and fifty five dollars, you clearly needed the money. And I'm gonna tell you something else about people like Jonathan Jackson. Any friend that turned into

an enemy has been hating since day one. You've been jealous and envious a keV for as long as you've known him. Off of however long keV been popping. Okay, because this wasn't just an extortion plot. You was trying to ruin Kevin's life. Now, I know what you're saying, Kevin almost ruined his own life by cheating. Well, you know what, You're right, okay, But you know what a friend does in that situation. He tells keV he was wrong,

He tells keV he was wilding. He tells Kevin got to do better because he got too much to lose. But a friend doesn't get a hold of the tape and try to sell it to every blog and then extort his so called friend for money. Okay, this is a prime example of karma. Yes, keV made a huge mistake, but it ain't no good gonna come to you, Action Jackson,

or trying to exploit that mistake and extort your friend. Now, when the news broke, Kevin tweeted out mind blown, hurt, at a loss for words, and simply and complete disbelief at the moment. Wow. I really hate when people say they're at a loss for words and then they're going to use more words after they said that. But that's neither here nor there anyway, Action Jackson, you are facing four years in jail, but you are facing a lifetime

with shame. Why ruin a great friendship over financial gain? Okay, personally I think real friends are more important than finances, but what do I know? Okay, I'm just glad Action Jackson is in jail, and I'm glad people get to witness dis karma because when people do you wrong, it's no need for revenge. Just sit back and wait because those who hurt you will eventually screw up themselves, and if you're lucky, God will let you watch. And right now, Kevin Hard has a front row seat to watch his

former friend pay for the he attempted to do. Okay, this story is gonna have everybody's side eye and their friends all day. And if you know what, I know, you better because the saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies. Please give Jonathan tide Jackson the biggest he hall. He's a sucker, like I can't how could you possibly be? Like nobody could ever talk to him? Like, I don't know. You sound like

you're at a lost for words. I am. I'm definitely at a lost words, like nobody should be his friend ever again in life? Why are you still talking if you're at a lost for words? All right, I'm saying, there you go. That's what I mean. That's what I'm talking about tomorrow. The story is always the same too, all right, don't cheat? All right? Well, thank you for that don Ky today. So are you talking to me or not? He's got a lost words, he's got a

lost words. He because ain't nothing. The morning everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Sharlamagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time to ask ye, hello, who's this? You know what? Every my father's jay? What's something? What's your question? Fee bro? Yeah, I'm in a kind of a tight situation, all right. So basically I got caught

cheating or whatever or my fiance. And the thing about it is so the side check boyfriend, she reaches out, he reaches out to my girl, and I guess I don't want to know if you want to like telling on me or something like that. I mean, who does that side Check's boyfriend does that? He's hurt? I mean, of course he's hurt. Well, I mean I think that's that's that's like a that's like breaking a real guy cold. Like you said, it is that your friend or something

this good with his girl? I don't even I don't even know it. I know his girlfriend, we know what we worked together. Well, clearly you know his girlfriend. You were cheating with him. Put your penis and his girlfriend. Yeah, your anger is missing. Your anger is misdirected. You're mad that you got caught cheating and that the person who you cheated with, boyfriend told How are you mad about that? Your anger is very misdirected. You know you should be

mad at well, I should be mad at yourself. Well, you know, I am mad at myself. I'm disappointing myself. I mean, the thing what I don't understand this. Me and my girl we talked about it and we were trying to get through it. But somehow another, this dude out the cheating guards come out and call him a girl and try to confirm. Yet he's been tasting her, he's been asking for hogs, even telling her your lover her like that. Why does that matter to you? Well?

Is that is that factual? No, it's not factual? Partial factual? Maybe been. The thing with me was it wasn't like I was really cheating on sounds like cheating to me, sir, I feel like you want cheating. I was into deep before I could have backed out up I was. I don't understand how that's not cheating. So you're still even not telling us that you slept with somebody else, You tasted her, you did all this stuff, but you don't

think you cheated. No, there's your problem there. That's about your girl can't move forward with you because you won't even admit that you did anything wrong. Let me ask you this, though, Let me ask you this should you should you admit it? Is it almost she already knows, she knows. Man to dude, you got cut. Just let it all go. Man, to be honest. Man, you're still holding onto the fact that you didn't cheat. But the

fact is you did. You you know, disrespectful. It is when we caught you know you did something, and you're trying to deny it. You ain't catch me butt naked in the poem poom, it never happened. The man though he's lying. Don't beleeve it scorned to ask Negro calling you, who is this guy trying to ruin our relationship? He's a sage chicks. Man. Okay, so you have a side check, but you're not cheating. So what is the definition of side chick? A chick that's standing about your side like

you better not listen to Charlemagne? Can I cannot talk? You? Can I talk to her? Oh? Sure? Hello? Hey? What's up? Honey? Hey? How you doing? So let me ask you this, did your fiance cheat on you? Because he says he didn't. Yeah, he cheated and he got called and he don't know how to cheat. So I found messages in his phone. But it was the girls acting like she was a boy, but it was really a girl the whole time. Oh, he gave no no, no, he's not game. It was a girl or what she was doing to throw me

off side. But and know it was a girl calling his fault. So she was with it like yeah, like if did you see the girl? Are you sure? Yeah? I'm sure. So you know he cheated, but he still won't tell you that he cheated, right, put him back on the phone for a second. Listen, baby, I want you to teach him how to cheat. Go get you some penis. Tell him five years later. Yeah, let me ask you this, what if she did that to you? Absolutely, I'll be heartbroken. But so you don't think that she's

heartbroken right now? Yeah, I understand she's heart broken, and I apologize. Like the boy, when are you gonna stop lying though, so that you can show that you're on the path to becoming a better person. You gotta be honest, bro, It's not gonna work because she doesn't believe you, So you gotta be honest. I cannot be with somebody that's lying to me to my face. You don't even have my back, be honest. Let me hear you tell her

no I wouldn't tell her. Now, hey boy, hey, hey, you know better that you put it back on the phone one more time, he plays, Now listen if, now, if y'all get off the phone and he decides to have a heart to heart and he tells you the truth and tells you what really happen, Will you give him another chance? No, she don't know what she's gonna do that. You can't answer that. Stop. I can't answer that. You can't answer that. I can forgive jay Z and

you can forgive Jerome. Well, if jay Z can admit he did something, and jay Z is on a whole other level. We know that, but don't listen to that. He has to have an honest conversation and you can't even consider moving forward until that happens. Until he's ready to come clean and be honest with you, all bets are off. He sounds like a good guy with a great job and a good credit. It sounds like a damn liar, though, and he seems like he's he loves you and honest, so you should, you know, just just

talk to have a nice conversation. But telling me, he's just got to at least come clean and be honest, and you can't even determine anything until that happens. You don't even think you did anything wrong. I'm really good on him right now, though that's not my mind thinking right now. So he's scared to lose. He can't be honest, and I'm scared that I'm gonna be just following in something that it's gonna be a continuous pattery. You know, might end up doing this again. Why do I gotta

tell you what you already know? All right? You got just is asking. Can y'all shut up? All I need you to do is just keep us updated. I want to hear how this all turns out. I'm very interested. So we're gonna revisit this. But you guys have this conversation right now, and Tom stop the BS lying. I will all right, thank you, Good love, Mama, many guys. I love love a liar. If she if she don't, she clearly don't want to leave. She wouldn't right now,

That's what I was saying. No, she know everything that's going on, She wouldn't right now. But I know you did it, just admit it. But it's still doubt. That's why. But he just just just man, No, doubt. She saw the message. Tell the truth, she saw the messages. All right, eight hundred five eighty five one O five one. You got a question calling now? It's the Breakfast Club, Go Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlowne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club ass c and e. If

you need relationship device will help you out. Hello. Who's this? They? Your name is Juice? Yeah, all right, sound like your baby in the backseat choking on some juice right now? Are you coughing so much? What's your question? All right? What's your question? Mama? Michael? Question is for some reason, it's not hard for me to find the day, to find somebody to deal with, but I just cannot keep anyone because of them. Two little kids in back? Stop? How many kids you have back there? Mama? I have

set twins? Fun? You got three kids? Okay? All right, I'm stupid South Carolina public Education. You got three kids? Nobody want to already made family, mom, That's just all it is. Okay, Well, let me ask you a question. How are you? How do you look? Are you in the gym? Do you look nice? Tell us? How are your parents looks? I mean, well, I've recently lost a lot of way, and I look damn good like wise on a third, like everybody exactly all right, Well everybody's conversation,

though I cannot. I hate that. Well, where are you looking for? These guys? Nobody wants already made family? Mom? Why are you lying to this show? You got three kids, that's what it is. I'm sure I'm clearly your box is good because people have shot your club up a few times. You know what I'm saying. They just don't want to be They don't want that ready made family. Now there's some guys out there who got two and three kids themselves, So y'all can come together and make

your own little ghetto Brady bunch. But other than that, nah, Well where are you looking? Mama? Are you in the club? See? If you're in the club, yeah, your body might be looking. You might look good, and like he said, if you're in the club, these guys want to smash and they might not want to already made family. But if you look at I don't club. Indeed, period, I don't club three kids? Okay, So when are you gonna w are

you looking for these guys? At? They find me as the grocery store, at the gas station, at the live areas. Find a man that has two or three kids like you do. Try Christian mingle. Christian people don't. Christian mingle are very forgiving. They're very forgiving. Hello, who's this Rob? Man? Rob? What's up? Man? What's your question for seeing me? Bro? Chick pr on me? And she keep on saying, nah, you said the chick pole the people put on you.

Oh po okay, alright, alright, okay, b Yeah. She keeps on saying, I've been throwing rocks and stuff at her house, but my carden broke down for the past two months. So like all the stuff she's saying is I don't even got no where to get over to her career. I mean, there's other ways. It's ben't using your card. Mean, you could take a list, you could take an uber break, I mean, but you might need to take yourself being in your house, you know, just so the police don't

do know that you're at your house. And why is she messing with you so crazy? Because I don't know, she said. She So we broke up, and she says she wanted her space, so I started giving her her space, like she yes, and then topped off and it happen. Man, what year is this that she's accusing you of throwing rocks at the window? What happened to text messages and repeated phone calls over and over and like, why are

you throwing rocks at the window? That's what I'm saying is I don't have I don't take ub or lift nowhere. I come like I literally worked ten hours a day in the morning. First she said, you don't drive? Are you saying you don't take oobo left nowhere? But I didn't ask you that. I said, why are you throwing rocks at the girl's window? Oh? I don't throw rock You know what? I don't know what's going on him? Somebody lyons the girl is accusing him of throwing rocks

at a window. He's saying he didn't do it. But like you said, who throws rocks at windows? In twenty and eighteen? Hello, exactly, I just want to record the show. We get that guy? No advice? Just now. Hello, who's this? This is Christian? Hey Christian, what's your question for CINGE?

So my question is I've been dealing with this guy for about eight nine months and we've been spending a lot of time together, but every time we get into an argument or whatever, it's this one girl that he's always contacting, which is a female he used to deal with. So I'm just trying to figure out am I got know? Who would ask Florida syndrome of being crazy and trying to make myself think it's normal? Or do I just need to let this do go? You need he need

to let him go? I mean, first of all, if he's could if he's still with the X. Because he's still with the X, there is no X when when it's a new relationship, you can't go back to your AX. You kid call your X unless he got a baby by her. Now that ain't happening. How long she say they've been together? Nine months? Nine months? Have y'all Have y'all been experienced any holidays together? Yes? Yes? Okay, what holiday? Tell me which ones? Chris muths, Thanksgiving? New Year? Those

are serious ones. Was he was he with you on Thanksgiving? Yes? Yes, he's been. He's been all of his time with me, he does. Okay, you're not a side chick. He's not the sidecheck. No, No, I'm not the side check. So so I'm thinking being that he always contacts this girl anytime we get into an argument. Is this something that he's not gonna let go? And I don't want to have to go through a relationship having to worry about that.

Maybe they're just good friends now. Maybe they're just good friends now that's what that's what he reaches out to when he needs to indvice about his woman. No, you can't have good friends with that exactly. If he doesn't want to let that X go, you let him go, and I guarantee you he'll be running back within three weeks. Won't you just try? And won't you say? Look, I want to have a three song with me, you and your ex and see what he says. If he gets excited,

he's definitely still smashing her. That's disgusting. I didn't say that. Test the water, put your little big told enough morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne. Guy. We are the breakfast club with in the middle of ask ye, Hello, who's this Hi? My name is Stacy. Hey, Stacy, what's

your question for ye? My question is I've been in a relationship for the past seven years and recently I lost my job and with that I needed more financial help with my boyfriend, and now asking him for financial help, he's just gotten like worse, turned into a monster where we can't communicate. And I asked him and he said, was because if I have to help you, then I should be treated the best way. So it's okay for

me to curse at you. It's okay for me. So my plason is I don't know what to do because I do need the financial help, but I do know that his behavior is crap. Yeah. First of all, because I've come across him hard time, and I've been working all this time, something unfortunate has happened to me. Obviously, I'm already feeling a little bit down because I don't have the finances that I needed that I'm comfortable with. And then to have somebody that's supposed to be your

support system be as you said, abusive. That sounds like that's a great warning sign that that's not somebody that you should be with in the future. As soon as you start saying somebody's abusive to you, as soon as something unfortunate happens and they're not there for you in your corner and he's acting like he could talk to you crazy. Imagine what he would do if y'all was together, y'all had kids anything like that. That doesn't sound like somebody that's an ideal mate. That's the thing. We do

have kids. And even with that, I'll say, okay, well then we should try to co parent, and he'll say, well, we don't really have to co parent. I know when I can pick up my kids. Well, when the things start going bad for you, guys, was it before you lost your job? Has it been like this? Like? No, probably like a little bit before I lost my job, but then once I lost it, I guess before I used to just work and he could see that I'm independent.

And if we'll argue, you know, I don't have to ask him for anything, But now it's I need the financial help. I feel like he feels like it's you know, the doors are open now I can say do what I want to do if she needs my help. So if I try to talk to him, it's more like, okay, we'll shut up. I don't want to hear it. And how do you react when he speaks to you like that?

And what do you tell him? I just tell him, like, okay, do you know that what you're doing is not right, and he's just like, yeah, so yeah, he's got to learn about Yeah, he's just like, yeah, I know, I'm a good guy. You're the one that's making me upset. Right. Well, listen, baby, I hope you get yourself back together and get at your feet. But even for the take of your children, do they see him speak to you like that? No, So he does it just in private, just the two

of you, not in front of the kids. Well, he does it no matter where. But I just try to hold it together because I know if it's in front of the kids, I just try to play it off so that way they don't think that's the best behavior. Yeah, because this sounds like a gateway to things getting even worse. Okay, So I think right now you really got to nip this in the bed. And when I say that, I mean if he's not willing to work on himself and understand that what he's doing is wrong, then you have

to be thinking about your exit strategy. Okay, all right, and you know, let him know, like this is good for him too, for him to want to change himself to be a better person. Has he ever put his hands on you? Yeah? Yeah, this is absolutely unacceptable. But he doesn't call it that. He says it's called working you up. It's not a big deal. It's a huge deal.

Have you spoken to any of your friends or family or anybody that can be supportive to your spoken to them, but they can't really be supportive bright now because they are you embarrassed to tell them what's really going on. Yeah, all right, Stacy, hold on the line. I'm gonna talk to you off. Fine, But here's the thing. I don't want you to feel like this is in any way your fault is all his fault. Like there's no reason for a man to be putting his hands on you.

There's no reason for him to be speaking to you in an abusive manner. You don't deserve that. He's the one with an issue, and you shouldn't be embarrassed. Okay, all right, hold on the line. Yes, all right, Well ask Ye'll get some professional help, right, Yeah, absolutely, I'm gonna get her information and I have somebody that she could talk to. But you know this, I feel like this has been an ongoing situation when people are reaching out to me behind the scenes, you know, via the

email helped me ye at gmail dot com. I had one woman send me pictures to herself and marks all over her, and those first steps that you have to take as far as getting away from the person who's abusing you, though it is a really difficult thing to do. People say, well, somemonea put their hands on me, I would leave, But you don't know what you would do unless you get yourself in that situation. And clearly she's in a tough spot. But if you don't want to

call the police, I'll call the police for you. All you gotta take action and listen, you gotta go and make sure you do the proper procedures, get a restraining order. If you don't make him stop now, it's never gonna stop. All you gotta do is give me the young man's name and send me a picture of yourself. I'll send it right to the proper authorities. A day. Go officer, right there, at him, him, right there,