Parent Paranoia At Its Finest

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this weekend. No, it could be four if you wanted to. He started today. I'm starting today. He's on today. Yep, that's what you're doing, yes, sir. Okay, Well, if you want to identify as the weekend essterday, then I can to day you go. I'm glad, you know, I'm glad. You know today is Thursday. What I identified today as the start of the weekend. Okay, So I got a four day weekend. No, let me see Thursday, Friday, Saturday,

Sunday or Thursday. Well, Thursday, you don't count Monday, rightday? No, I do count the game today, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Monday. Monday is a holiday. I got a five day weekend. Yes, I'm not off today. He's saying, I am off today. Stop telling me what I am. Nick, I told you what I identify as. I identify as off today, right, Okay, definitely definitely off. He's great, way off. Whatever floats your boat. Welcome on and guys, how you guys feeling? How was

you yesterday? What you do yesterday? After the breakfast club? How was your day? How was your night? Did you eat well? Was everything? Okay? Did you sleep well? Good morning? You sound very concerned. I'm just asking. I'm just sorry. I can't do much. Yeah, how was you walking around the backyard? It was fine, everything's good here. You know, I think COVID is coming to a close soon, hopefully.

I know that the regulations are confusing, but it says you have to quarantine for five days and then you have to be outside with a mask or wherever for another five days. But I have another at home test to take today to see what happens. Feel free to stay home next week. Okay, if you don't, we don't need no chances. And now I can't wear I can't wear a mask in there, so yeah, goodness are you going? So you're not going away this weekend? Well, we'll see

what happens when I taket. Wow. You know, Envy was setting you up the whole time. He's like, I said, that was all is set up, just to see if he has been quarantine And that's all. That was that whole line of question. And I'm listening. I'm like, his daddy really is a cop. That's all I was thinking the whole time. You know you don't stuff? Wow, wow, Okay, right, well, yesterday my kid has had a baseball or softball game. Probably one of the slowest things when your kids starting

just starting to get into sports. Sometimes it's just bad, man. Sometimes everything is just all about it, the pitch and the hitting. Just it's just a long ass game. That'd be the longest six innings ever. Yeah, but that's a learning curve though, especially when you have multiple kids, because I remember when my daughter first started running track and she, um, she did the long jump like it literally was like at practice. It was like the first time she ever

did it. She was young, young, she was younger than I go. That was terrible. She just burst into tids and I'm like, oh, my wife was like, why did you say that? And I'm like, because it was terrible. But that was one of the first moments I realized, like, you just can't say everything that comes to your mind when it comes to your chill. But I mean, I was not She's terrible. Long jump was terrible, you know.

But then you realize you realize the power of your words as a parent and how much you can you know, empower your kids all like discouraged him and with just one slip of the tongue. O. Yeah. How about yesterday in the middle of the game, right the middle of the game, bases loaded my son's playing a second base at the time. Right, I'm sitting on the side. He walks over to me in the middle of the game like that, I gotta go to bathroom. I'm like, there's

a game going on. He's eight. Yeah, that's potty training. You taught him to tell you when he got to go to the bathroom. This is in the middle of the game. Is bass is lower? There's a hitter on. Well, you didn't explain that to him. That's not how body training works. Been potty training. We never teach baseball. Oh my god. I was like, well, go around. I said, go behind the trees like that. People are watching. I'm like, oh my gosh, you told you to go behind a

tree playing a game. Yes, he needs to pull up. Okay at eight, clearly if you if his daddy' not gonna let him pete during the game. Right, all right, let's get the show cracking front Pace News. What we're talking about, Well, let's talk about this executive order that Joe Biden signed yesterday has to do with federal police practices. All right, we'll get into that next. We got a worldwide exclusive. This is Kanye West x x X extension it's called True Love, and it's the breakfast Club. Good

Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club when we're playing at every hour on the hour. If he just missed it down was Kanye West x x X extension. It's called true Love. Now let's getting some front page news. And Alice thought, NBA, did you see the games last night? I did watch the second half of the Celtics Miami Heat game. When I watched it, it was like they were only down by like two. But that's not how I finished. No.

Celtics beat the Heat last night, ninety three to eighty. Yeah, I mean I had the Celtics. I picked the Celtics to win this series. But I mean, Miami is really banged up right now. It seems like Jimmy Butler's playing through injury. Called Lowry's playing through an injury. Harry Tyler, Harroll, I don't even know he did he played it. I don't think he played last night, either, did he? Uh? He didn't. He didn't play, But I still had to

Celtic wanted the series. But yeah, Butler had thirteen last night. M last night him at twenty two, Brown had twenty five. All right, what else we got? Easy? All right, Well, Joe Biden signed an executive order yesterday that is to improve accountability in policing. It was also the second anniversary of George Floyd's death and the family was there as well as well as members of the family of Brianna Taylor.

Now this is just an executive order, and so what that means is that Congress is still deadlocked on the issue of the Justice and George Floyd Policing Act. With lawmakers unable to reach an agreement on how to reform police policies or to reduce mass shootings. There are limited avenues for advancing these campaign promises that he has, but he is trying to strike a balance between police and

also between civil rights groups. There's a lot of rising concerns about crime, and sometimes that can eclipse the calls for reform. But most of this order is focused on federal law enforcement agencies. So for example, they are required to review and revise policies and use of force. They'll also create a database to help track officer misconduct, and this cannot require local police departments to participate in that database. So that means that problem officers, you know, say you

want to hop from job to job. They're looking for ways to use federal funding to encourage their cooperation. So they can't make the local police departments participate, but they do want to encourage them to do that. So Joe Biden did talk about it. He said that this will not prevent every tragedy, but we know certain ones will have significant impact and no negative impact on the Second Amendment. Yeah, I mean these, I mean, I guess something better than nothing.

A lot of folks smarter than me think it's a bunch of you know nothing, But it's just like these things aren't impacting us on a federal level though, Like it's not the federal police that are out here, you know, committing these crimes. Now this the FBI, Ice, Secret Service,

and Customs and Border Protection are required to participate. So the database will have records of officers convicted of crimes, firings, and sustain complaints or records of disciplinary actions for serious among misconduct, among other issues, and that will be available to state and local agencies. So like I said, local, uh, you know, non federal entities are not required to do that.

So yes, and that's that kind of the feature the pervice, because once again, it's not the federal entities that are you know, committing these active police brutality that we see on the regular. All right now, I don't know what if the executive order can't do that, I don't know why for local Well, you know, we had a child blows on MSNBC yesterday and he kind of like really really really broke it down. I thought, did they get that in? Well, that is front page news. We'll get

more into it next hour. All right, now, get it off your chest eight five eight five one oh five one. If you need to vent, phone lines to wide open again eight und five eight five one five one, call us up. Let us know how your day was. What you want to vent about anything? It's the breakfast slum. Come on in the breakfast club. This is your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're man can get from you on the breakfast club. But you got

something on your mind? Left? Hello, who's this Listiangelo Barrocko want to give a shout out grot to Illinois. You want Illinois without man. Get it off your chests, brothers, and I want to get it off my chest. Man I just want to say that all these political games and all these things going on and all these man shootings, stopped taking the black pop out of the hood, off the house after understanding out the community. Stop putting these fellers on these young boys man where they can't have

a bare arm to protect our child. Okay, what are you saying. You're saying felons, I'm confused. Saying again, bro, I'm saying, just totality on each young boys so early and take their right to the bare arm, so they take a half some perfections and show that communities ain't going anymore. Oh, I see what you're saying. I mean I do think that that has to change a lot too. I think if you commit a crime that gets you a felony, especially at a young age, it should be

a way to change that, to flip that that. You know, you can change it. Because everybody evolves, everybody changed their lives. There's there's things that we all did as as teams that we would never do now because we were young, we were dumb, we were stupid, But that doesn't define us. You know, absolutely, if you don't grow you did that's right, that that is exactly that exactly it, you're not growing you nae. Hello, who's this? Yes, O know it's coming up.

Job underground, new room. And what I got on my mind to day is fathers, black fathers matter of fact, that are not stepping up and doing the right thing for their sons. Our sons are out here dying each and every day and each and every way. If we have a lot of these guys you know what I'm saying, that have household names, that are not stepping up, you understand me, to get some of these kids off the street, were dying out here. Man, we need some help, and

we need some help bad. If we need our father to step up, step show up, they show cards and the out doors. I love this energy this morning to agree with that too. I love you, I love you, and I love what the lass caller just said. I mean, yes, we do have to be a village. It takes a village right, absolutely, And I agree like parents, if you got kids, you got young kids, you got you gotta step up, you gotta pull up. You gotta make sure

your kids are doing the right thing. Like I said, my dad was was was following me home from the bus at times to make sure I was doing the right thing. He was checking checking up on me to make sure I was doing the right thing. Every once in a while. I'm sure he was in my room looking around my room and make sure there was nothing in the illegal. Like it's I do the same thing with my kids, you know what I mean. I I check up on You have to micromanage your kids, follow them,

you know. I gotta track on my kids cars, like I make sure they're doing the right thing and trust them. Is just I want to make sure they're doing that. I don't trust the world. Okay, I don't trust the world, So yes, I'm gonna micromanage my kids situation. Hey, one more thing, man, we gotta give our queens. They have pops for stepping up. Happen now, showing up and showing up daughter always, and and and and and and you know, our sons and daughters are going to these colleges. These

are d one colleges. You know what I'm saying. They got to start changing their their way. They got art changing their SBCU is what we need to do. What's that? What's that? What's that? Oh? I'm sorry, that's probably not re relations for it. But the black HBCUCU, WHOA, whoa, who did you go to one? I didn't go to one either. You know you sound like me and going like he said it with conviction, and I'm like, damn, I want my kids to go to one? And oh

what is that? Small? What is that? HBC HBCU. All right, he had the right word. We understand what he meant. Eight hundred five eight five one or five one? Get off your chest? Is the breakfast club the morning the breakfast club? Wake up, wake up, wake ya. You're trying to get it off your chat your man. I'm blessed. We want to hear from you on the breakfast But hello, who's this hey? Good morning, peace and blessings. How y'all feeling today? Peace? King Sean Stone with Sean Stone TV listening.

I love the man a good morning. How you feeling yeah, man, Peace King? How you doing brother? I'm doing good envy, good morning peace. Hey listen, man, I love the way how you guys start up to start off the show. We're talking about your kids. You know what I mean? It's good energy this morning. Man. I just want to say, you know, I'm sorry for all them kids that lost their life. Man, yesterday. You know, man, man, I don't feel like I just feel like that's just pure evil.

There's no mental it's just evil, you know what I mean. It's just good people, and then you got just evil people. That's just evil spirits, you know what I mean. Yeah, I can't wait to talk to my therapist about it

this weekend. I've been talking to a lot of individuals because it's been hard for me to chalk up the last two situations to just mental health, because it's so premeditated, the body of the targeting, you know, knowing exactly who you want to go hit, letting people know beforehand, you know what I mean. Like, it's like that don't sound like somebody who's snapped to me, it's just pure evil, Bro, It's something that you can't physically explain. It's just an

evil spirit. I mean, I agree it is. But one more thing, I just want to say that new Kanye West song Man sounds very strong. I like that song. Shout out to Kanyekee from doing some good music. Yeah, just hit me up on Instagram, see on TV. And one more thing, I got a song. Can I think a song? Require sure to sing it? Yeah? Monkey Fox, Monkey Fox where are you with trapping friends? Trapping his friends? Okay, that's enough. All this positivity shotelling. It's wrong, man, what's

wrong with you? What is wrong? What is what is wrong with you? For why you can't be mad at Sean? Now? Travis said that Sean Stone was the one that bro monkey pops over. That's right. But when Trap call up here with a freestyle on your ass? Okay, give you PTSD again from last time freestyle, I'm ready to go. You want to rematch, just say you want to rematch Trap? If you want to rematch, I'm ready to go. Okay, okay,

all right, I ain't gonna lie. Let's do it driving poking your forehead so I ain't mad at hey, hey, I don't go that way. I'm talking about his finger. Man, his finger, whoa whoa, whoa, hey gun that gave field? Who What is going on this morning? He's starting off positivity? Man? Oh my god, people are so crazy? Get it? Ont be a chance? Ain't under five five one? What is wrong with our listening to? We got rumors on the way? O lord, Yes, let's talk about the time that Snoop

Dog turned down two million dollars. All right, we'll get into that next. It's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast club. Oh Gosport got breakfast club? All right? Well Snoop Dog was talking about one time. Imagine this turning down a two million dollar offer to DJ and not just the DJ, put the DJ at a Michael Jordan event. Here's what he had to say. One of the craziest deals I turned down. It was like two million dollars to DJ for I think it was a Michael Jordan event,

and I turned it down. And I never met Michael Jordan. And I still neber want if you don't want me to ask you, why would you turn that down? Because I was doing so much that I had to do when I had way more customers before I get to you. No, but I never met Michael Jordan. I want to meet him, and I want to meet him on a different I want to meet him on I'm out there a DJ, and I want to like meet him as a fan, as a boss. Is like, Mike, I love you since North Carolina, I'm a big fan of yours. I love

what you do. You wanted the greatest to ever do it. That just lets me know how rich newpis he's booked in Busy, Busy. Imagine having so much to do. Yeah, and that's a logan Paul's podcast Impulsive by the way. All right now, Laverne Cox, congratulations to her. She has been honored as the first ever transgender Barbie. She said, I can't wait for fans to find my doll on shelves and have the opportunity to add a Barbie doll modeled after a transgender person to their collection. She told

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the iconic Martin living Room set as Dope. So Martin and taccamily they squashed out their beef there right, Yeah, they're gonna be there, Okay, cool, Dope, They're gonna be there all right now. Brittany Grinder's wife, Cherrelle Grinder has broken her silence on Brittany Grinder's detainment in Russia. Um. She was speaking with Angela Ryan. Here's what she had

to say. Is she being used as a political pon? Yes? Yes, if it was Lebron or kd or Steph Curry, do you think that you would be sitting here today, you know, respectfully and no, you know, no shade to them. Um, when I say this. But the answer to that question would be no. I wonder, though, I wonder what right if if you're Russia and you have a Lebron or

a Curry, you're gonna hold them to you. You're gonna absolutely positively hold them until you get the best, especially with you you get everything and everyone not let them go at all. I'm gonna keep them until I get them negotiation skills rupt. But I wouldn't let them go. But I think what they're saying in that conversation right there,

that America would be negotiating already, you know. I mean like there would be a lot of different things on the table, there would be a lot more discussions happening. They would be actively trying to get them home. That's that's what they're saying, all right. Also an NBA countdown, Charrelle Grinder discussed wanting to have a conversation with Joe Biden as well. Have you spoken to the President? I

have not met with him. No. If you had the opportunity, Cherrelle today to say something to President Biden, what would you say? If he is a person that I can get my person back, I would love to meet him, you know, I have requested a meeting with him, and so I hope he accepts in the near future, you know, to me with me because I want my person back. You know, I feel every second that BG's not here. Okay,

I need a second, that's okay, take your time. I wonder how involved a spouse is when something like that happens. What do you mean, because I mean, I'm sure the country has to nego shit, right, But how involved did they tell you everything? Do they not tell you? I'm sure she's on the lawyer's ass every day. I'm sure she's on whoever she needs to be talking to the

ass every day about getting Brittany. Because I was just wonder, like, how involved do they allow the spouse to be because you know, at the end of the day, they want to keep everything quiet. They're trying to, you know, make a deal. I just wonder how involved she can be. You know, I know one thing that'd be a great pall move for Biden right now, approval ratings. You know,

midterms around the corner. You can't get any legislation though, you know, just some executive orders yesterday that was a cool, you know, pall move as well. But you know, this, this would this would this would be something, and I know she's been Cherrelle Grinder has been speaking to Brittany Grinder. She also was on Good Morning America at Robin Roberts and she talked about how she first found out through Brittany. She says she started texting her around two am and saying,

they wake up. They have me in this room. I don't know what's going on. You know how horrifying it must be to get a text message like that, crazy, especially when from your your love one out of the country. All right, well that is your rumor? Reports, Yeah, because when you're out of the country, no matter what country had you, you feel like there's nothing you can do. You feel like there's no right. You got to play

by their rules, and it's very, very scary. I was coming back from where was that this week in Africa and my manager lost his passport and they wouldn't let him come back in. It was like, well, we can't do nothing with it. You gotta prove that you're American. And luckily he found it, but I was nervous for id you prove that you're American? You don't have a passport?

Exact exactly exactly what are you doing that situation? How about what you know what happened to me one time at DAR they thought I was Dominican you are I'm not, but they thought I was Dominican for real, and they would they would not let me back in the country the passport you are. They were talking to me Spanish side room, and I was scholars, told you got dual citizenship, you are Dominican. No, but I was throwing that. They tried to keep you home, bro. They would not let

me leave. I'm serious, like I was nervous. They put me in the side. I wanted to keep you there. They're like, yo, if you and your whole family come there, population or increase, we need you. They kept talking to me in Spanish and I was like, no, no, I no, nopold. I was nothing. Wow, you just lie. You know what? Forget? I didn't lie in black. You know what? We got

front page news next to see what we're talking about. Okay, yes, and let's I am on a Uvaldi and the shooting, the massacre that happened there for guy has to yell out at him black. Maybe he just maybe he needed to be uh, because I didn't even need to be tested a little bit. You know what, It's the DNA testry. Bro, It's the breakfast clause African Ancestry. When you need it's the Breakfast Cloud. More so, Breakfast Club. Your mornings will

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are to Breakfast Club. Let's get into front page news, the last night nbat the heat ninety three eighty, what else we got easy? We are going to talk about the awful massacre at rob Elementary School. Will give you some of the details that we know about what happened on Tuesday with the eighteen year old gunman Salvador Ramos, who was from New Valdi. Now he had been identified by officials and had shared his plans on Facebook about

thirty minutes before reaching the school. They said he shot his grandmother in the face before heading to the school. The sixty six year old grandmother made it to a naar By home that's where she called police and she does still remain hospitalize in critical condition now. Minutes before the deadly assault at the school, he allegedly sent text messages to a girl in Germany that he met online. He said he had just shot his grandmother and he

was going to shoot up an elementary school. They do have screenshots that were reviewed by CNN and they also interviewed the teenage girl. They said he complained about his grandmother being on the phone with AT and T and that he then said he shot his grandmother in the head. He then drove his grandmother's vehicle about a block and a half away from the school. He crashed at that point and he exited with a backpack with a rifle

and went to the west side of the campus. They said a school resource officer engaged with Ramos and no gunfire was exchanged. He then entered the school through a back door, went down the hallway to the adjoining classrooms, and they said that officers approached him and engaged with him. He entered a back door and then went down two short hallways and then into a classroom on the left

hand side. Now, they said he took about thirty minutes They said after he arrived on the scene for the gunman inside the school to be neutralized by law enforcement. He had one rifle in his possession when he went into the school, and he was wearing a tactical vest

carrier with no ballistic panels. According to officials, he did legally purchase two AAR platform rifles at a local sporting goods store on two separate dates, and also three hundred and seventy five rounds of ammunition on another date, and they said that the gun purchases were made for his eighteenth birthday. All right, so that's the information we have. This is really impacting how our parents. I don't know how other parents out did feel, but I'm really, really,

really thinking about homeschooling my kids. But you know, even that's difficult because I saw how during COVID. You know how stressful homeschooling, homeschooling is, and you know, my oldest daughter, she's a teenager, so she's at that age where she wants to go out and socialize with her friends in

them all in other places. In my mindset right now, was hell no, now, mind you already suffered from parental paranoia, which I call the anxiety that just comes with being a parent, but boy, that anxiety is so heightened right now. And I know, I know that I'm, you know, not doing right my kids by doing that. Well, I will say this, and this is I can't say this is lucky, but I got kind of lucky because the last two three years we've been damn we've it's been pandemic, so

the kids haven't been going out. So I've been feeling a lot safer. But oh so like the lack so yeah, because your daughters what eighteen, My daughter's twenty nineteen seventeen, she's pretty been locked down. In My son he was eighteen eighteen seventeen sixteen, they've pretty much been locking the house, so they missed that element, which is sad, but it's kind of making me more comfortable, you know what I mean. And it's gonna get to the point when they want

to go out. We all going out, but our comfortability as parents isn't good for them because they still have to go out there and socialize, the being around their friends and being paid. So I know I'm not doing right by that's true. You know my kids right now, but God, but I have to be safe. Yeah, I just don't know how I get rid of that parental paranoia, especially with this situation. Oh, we all go to the moll. You go to the More with your friends, and I'll

just be hanging around. I'm going to the Moro. I'm hanging around. I'm watching you. You want to go to two food call, you want to go to our Kade, I'll be over here. We not go. We got them all at home. We don't but you know, don't go to the moro. We got them all at home when he was young. Don't go to McDonald's. Got me down at the home. White bread with a burger dam and cheese, cheese they't even melt. And there There are also two Texas funeral homes who are offering free services for Uvalde

School shooting victims. So for those families, hill Crests Memorial Funeral Home and Rushing Estes Knowles Mortuary made the announcement to help the families after the shooting. Wow, that's a drop on a blue bomb from them. That's big though. I respect that. That's when people are being humans, you know what I mean? And stepping up and understanding that you know, humans need help, but we're still gonna have to help more. Any reason I say that is, you know,

funerals are expensive and the services. The fact that they're taking care of the services is great, but that's usually you know, allowing them to use the home and probably a preacher speaking, but you still got to pay for the casket and actually burying them in. So I'm sure they're still going to need some help financially. And I don't know, you know, I haven't seen any go fund me, but I would definitely love to to send some money to help those families. That is very expensive. We'll find

out and do some research on that. And yes, the NRA, the National Rifle Association, also released the statements. They said, our deepest sympathies are with the families and victims involved in this horrific and evil crime on behalf of our members. We salute the courage of school officials, first responders, and others who offer their support and services. Although an investigation is underway in facts are still emerging, we recognize this

was the act of alone deranged criminal. As we gather in Houston, because you know, they do have their meeting. Actually I think it is it tomorrow. We will reflect on these events, pray for the victims, recognize our patriotic members, and pledge to redouble our commitment to making our schools secure. All right, well that is your front page news. You know, I would I would love to talk to the other parents this morning because because am I alone? What you

mean with this parental paranoia? You know what I mean, because you know my last book shook when I talk about parental paranoia, which is the anxiety that comes with being a parent. I just wonder, like when you see things like the rob Elementary shooting, does that impact how you parent? Meaning has to keeping keeping your kids from doing things like that? I know they I would want to do, whether it's a field trip, whether it's going

to the mall. You know, are you even just going to the park, your little kid going to the park, like but you know, it doesn't even start there. A lot of people, a lot of parents just have that beforehand. Like, you know, let's open up the phone lines. We'll talk about it. Like my wife. You know, my wife has never went on the field trip as a kid because her parents would't let it go. So when all the kids went on the field trip. She was stuck in the school. She would be the only kid, like a

couple of kids stuck in school. My daughter got a field trip coming up, and I'm like, I told her two days ago, like I don't know, might we might have to cancel this. Well, what we do is if we can't go, I was going anyway. Oh all right, but still still you don't need to be there, neither nor of us. Let's open up the phone lines eight hundred five, eight five, one oh five one all the

parents out there? Is this impacting how you parents? I know, I know we all suffering from parental paranoia anyway, just the anxiety that comes with being a parent. But it is just making it heightened. All right, eight hundred five, eight five one or five one. Let's talk about it. It's a breakfast club going in the breakfast club. It's topic time called eight hundred and five A five one oh five. Want to join it to the discussion with

the breakfast club? Talk about it morning. Everybody is tj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. Now if you just joined us, uh, we're talking about parental paranoia. Now this comes from where Charlemagne. Well, you know my last book, you know, Shook One. I got a whole chapter called parental paranoia. And I think that, you know, if you're a parent, that's just the anxiety that comes from, you know, just having kids. Right and

after what we saw this past or that Monday. What day was that Sunday? I can't even remember Tuesday. You know, the shooting at you know, rob Elementary School, I know for a fact, is really impacting how my parent. You know, I'm thinking about, you know, pulling my daughter from her field trip that she got coming up. And you know, my daughter, my older daughter, the teenager, now that she wants to do things like, you know, go to the mall and you know, hang out with her friends in

public places. I'm talking about even just hanging out in front of the ice cream Paula. You know, you know your younger kids, they want to go to the park, and I'm like, no, we're not. We got we got park at home, you know what I mean. I'm we got the ball at home. You know, we got field trip at home, even though we have none of this stuff at home, you know what I mean. But I just I don't know, I just want to talk to other parents this morning because I just I know I

can't be alone with this. And I feel bad because you want your child to have those experiences. You want your child to have those experiences with their friends, you want them to have a childhood basically, And I know you can't protect your kids from everything in the world, but damn it if I won't try. And I know what makes me comfortable as a parent. It's taking away from experiences that she will never get again. So it's like,

just emotionally, it just makes me feel bad. But I will say this, with with having so many kids, you get a couple of doovers. Right with my twenty year old and my eighteen year old, I was very very protective over them. I didn't want I didn't let them go out. They weren't allowed to do some of the things that their friends able to do, whether it was go to the park and go to the mall without me and my wife being there or a family member

being there. And I realized when they got a little older, they didn't have it as many friends because it was I didn't allow them to go out as much. But now with the younger kids, I'm starting them to let them go out more, but I'm going out with them. That's so not fair for older kids. Not But but you know, you you see how it affects absolutely, you know what I mean. And as a kid, you know, I went out, I was at the park, I was

playing with my friends. I have so many different friends from different blocks, in different areas because I went out. My kids don't have that because I was so protective of them because I didn't want to see them get hurt. What you just said is what makes me feel bad because I know I have friends who were the older child who didn't get to do a lot of the things that the parents like the younger kids do, you know.

And it's just like, it's not my fault. The circumstances of the world are the way that they are right now. So it makes me feel bad that I'm not letting my oldest daughter do certain things. But then it's like, man, I gotta I gotta protect my family too, all right, But just think about it like this, At what age were you allowed to travel and not to travelers flying because we couldn't afford the back in the day, but drive to another place to anything, Well, to go to

another city. My circumstances were a little different. My father was dealing with substance abuse, and you know he was he was waller, you know what I mean. So I didn't have much parental supervision. I was a bad kid. Put it like this. And my daughter right now, she's a junior and NYU. She has never traveled anywhere without me, never gone anywhere like you know how kids go to spring break, they go to Alma, they go see their friends, never see I used to lie about stuff like that.

To your point, I lied and went. I left and went to black Biker weekend and Myrtle Beach one weekend when I was in high school and didn't even tell my parents. I just went, have five dollars in my pocket and I just left. Yes, I just have five dollars in my pocket, and I went with three of my homeboys. I was just missing for the weekend. And guess what, Nobody went looking for me because they knew that little badass boy that black bike. Get Murdle Beach. He'll be back, and I'm an beat his ass when

you get home back. Goodness, gracious, I think we should talk to a parent. Didn't really love you ye's parents not taking it adnity, But gee, you know my parents loved me. I was gonna ask all so yee. Now I know you got a bunch of God kids, yee, and you watch your God kids. Does this make you feel anyway when you got your kids? I mean, I think it's way different than being a parent. But I had a lot of freedom when I was growing up, so you know, I look at it a little differently,

that's all. My parents definitely let me do what I needed to do and be responsible. You can't control what anybody else does, but you also don't want to be scared to live your life and deprive your kids of you know, having a good time being a kid. Absolutely. Hello, who's this? Hey? Good morning? Is Nicole? Hey Nicole? You got kids? I do have a four year old? And how does this, you know, with everything that's going on,

how does that make you feel as a parent? So I actually have a double paranoia because I have a four year old. But I also work in the school in the bron Oh wow, so it does get me it should be. Yeah, Well, so that's I talked to. My point is that you have so many things to worry about that I just kind of tried not to live in fear because I can't go to a grocery store, a movie theater. Realistically, you can't keep your kids in the house. Um So just trying to push through that

and understand and peace some different things. What you just said, you still have to go in the world. What you said about not living in fizz is it messages with me on a spiritual level too, because we know we're supposed to walk by faith, right, like we're supposed to believe in a higher power. But in my mind, I feel like, you know, God is the one telling me like, hey, shut all of this down, you know, no, let her stay home. And it's confusing, Like it's confusing because I

know it's just confusing. It is thinking mama. I used to hate when my mom used to be like, I have a feeling you shouldn't go out, and just got a bad feeling. And I could be like, oh my God, now I can't go out because you had a feeling. I'd be trusting them feelings from mel just though, when a black woman tell you you might need to sit your ass down, you probably need to sit your ass Dowt.

If I think about all the times. My grandma Mama said that to me, and I still went out, and I wonder why I got someone trouble when I was younger, I should have listened. I'm not. I don't see about her way of saying no was ask your father. That's what my wife does too. We sho'd been like asking that they know. My answer gonna be no. We wanna go with how long? How far is that? Lord? Now, we're not gonna We're not doing it. We got more cast Yeah, No, we'll take someone when we come back.

Eight hundred five eight five one o five one. We're asking all our parents out there, you know, with everything going on, is this impacting how your parents man? As you're parental paranoid and anxiety that comes with being a parent. Through the roof right now, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, call me and your opinions to the Breakfast Club Top eight I did five five one five one morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are

the Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us, we're talking about to all the parents out there, you know, with everything going on in this world, the man shootings, I've seen a second greater that they found a gun in his desk yesterday. With everything going on, is this effect the way that you parent? Because I'm hean Listen, we all already suffered from parental paranoid. I wrote a whole chapter about this in my last book, Shook One.

And when you see these situations like what happened at Rob Elementary School, it brings back all the memories of you know, Sandy Hook and anything. And it's not even just Rob Elementary. It's like what happened at the grocery store. It's what happened at the grocer store in Buffalo, the church in California. Like, these things are happening so much now, and I feel bad because you want your child to have these experiences. You don't want to deprive them of

just you know, living their life. But then you want to protect them as well, and you feel like protecting them it's keeping them at home, like don't go anywhere unnecessary. Correct, that's how Hobby feeling. All right, But let's go to the phone lines. Hello, who's this? This is Christic. What's up? What's up? Bro? You got you got kids? Bro? Yeah? Man? I got a daughter that she's nine years old first off, giddy or its chesting up? What's good man, Peace King,

Thank you for acknowledging, Thank you for my attractiveness. No problem, man, Yeah, man, your first off is a tragedy at the time. You know, a parent has to for their kids. That's absolutely you know, it's it's horrible. But um, I got a nine year old prest far enodising. Man. You know, I'm I'm with you when it comes to keeping your kids at home, when it comes to homeschooling. But you know, socially, they're

gonna be growing up awkward. That's how I feel. You know, they're not gonna be able to have a proper conversation with people. They are going to be actual, but I don't feel like they'll have what they need to be a part of society either. You know, and listen, I agree with you, and that's what makes it so difficult. But you know, man, when you especially when you got girls, you see all this stuff about human trafficking and all

of this other stuff. So it's not even just the things like the violence, the shootings, it's you know, you know, you sing about the girls getting kidding aff the Dallas Mavericks game. You're like, man, what the hell? But not only that bullying, it's it's so much going on, and and I don't think there's nobody for these kids to talk to it. It's nobody to protect these kids. I feel like, as a parent, you got to be there majority of the time to protect him. Hello, who's there?

And I just wanted to say kids are getting a lot of trouble at home too, just to put that out there. Hello, Nah, not like the outside word that much trouble. Noah. But I monitor my kids. I can control them. I know what my kids are online doing. I ain't worrying about no homeschool shooting. They ain't no homeschool shooting. Now. Hello, who's this? Hey? This is Sharif from Indianapolis. Hey, Sharie, you got kids, Sharise, I do. I have a ten year old and he has all pism.

So this topic I have to call you guys because I'm a registered nurse and I get up every day and I talk about mental health awareness because there's Mental Health Awareness Month and I think we need to focus more on that. And thank you, Charlot Magne for all the work that you are doing with mental health. Thank you queen, Thank you you guys who Angela Ye, and I'm dj envy because you do a lot for the community.

But anyway, I just wanted to say that we have to start talking more about mental health because this is where these type of episodes are family from. We're not focusing enough on mental health awareness. I agree with you because it's a lot of hurt people hurting people, you know, and that's why I always say we rely on each other as humans to protect each other every day, just based on our our behavior. Man, So I agree with you. Hello, who's this Yessa? You got kids in Essa? Yes, I

have two Boroughs daughters. What's your thoughts? Man? I know parenting got to be crazy right now. Yeah, the parental anxiety I have when I go out anywhere with my kids, even when I'm not with them. But when we go to restaurants, I'm sitting making sure that I'm facing doors. We go to grocery stores, I'm thinking about what's our exit plan if something happens. It's just it's not rageous, man. Yeah, see what I'm saying. I'll be honest though, this makes

me feel better because i know I'm not alone. Even though I know parental paranoia is real, and it's got to be heightened right now for everybody. All right, well, all right, we got rooms on the way. And by the way, there is no moral to this story. After I go to therapy tomorrow and talk to my therapist about this, maybe y'all have something for y'all next week.

But you know, parent, the paranoid is real, because my therapist always tells me, in regards to any anxiety, think about all the times you thought something was gonna go wrong but it didn't. It's very hard not it's very hard to feel like that. Now. I can't just say, well, you know, yeah, she's right. All the times I thought

about something going wrong, it didn't go wrong. But man, when you see all these things going wrong in all of these places that we frequent on the regular, from grocery stores to schools, it's like, come on, but you know what too, and this is and then we're wrapping. I don't just have it for myself. I have it for other people's kids too, absolutely, Like, like yesterday, I've seen this this young parent. He was playing not even young,

playing that like an older brother. He was walking his kid, and I told him, look, you should be on the other side or the sidewalk like walk you walk closer to the street, catch it and be walking close to

this baby brother, walk close to the street. Even when I'm in an airport and I see a parent talking on the phone and not watching the kid and kids are about to hit their head, and I know I should mind my own business, but I don't want to see no childhood and because anything a child grab and like when you hear stories like oh, the fifteen year old girl got you know, kidnapped from the Dallas Maverick game.

When you hear the young girl got shot in the Bronx, Like, if you're a parent, you automatically see your child in that situation. Absolutely, But that's that's what you're doing. You're looking at You're like, yo, damn. I want him to protect his child the way I would protect mine. And that's how we should always be as that's how you protect That's how a village protects each other. All right, Well, we got rumors on the way, yes, maybe talking about Nori.

He has some issues and that is with the hip hop culture and who they are putting first. All right, we'll get into that next. It's the breakfast club. Good morning, this is the rumor report with Angela. Well, Nori was on Twitter and he had some things he wanted to get off his chest. He said, I have been the best of this culture. I've always put hip hop first. And I see you guys go to Ellen and David Letterman's and Sane and treat them with more respect than

the culture. But you say you want black excellence. I'm gonna be honest, Even going to Oprah or Gal is trash. At this point, we control our in culture. Why go outside of it? David Letterman is my favorite, but man, why go there or Ellen before a million dollars worth of game or Joe or the Champs or even twitter ish. So that was Nori, I guess weighing in. I don't know what prompted this for him, but some people thought it was Cardi b on my next guest needs now Introduction.

I'm sure he's gonna text us momentarily and let us know. Now. I do agree with nor when it comes to that when I see that for a lot of artists, I know people were speculating that it was Cardi, and I would say one thing about Cardium. Cardy does a lot of the things that a lot of artists won't do. Oh. Absolutely, she goes to a lot of those places. So I doubt he was talking to Cardy. Maybe he didn't know,

but Cardy does interviews with everybody. She still touches the club, she still goes out and goes to black owned restaurants. She still supports a lot of the DJs that helped the out that that came up on UM. So I know Cardy still does that. So maybe he had misinformation when you're talking about Cardies, I don't feel like that even did Cardi even did lip service on her own free will, Yes, but let's be clear, I don't know if Nora was talking about so I'm not going, yeah,

we don't know that he said. That's why he said speculating, But when I see it in some of the blogs, they city was. But I know for a fact she does a lot of the stuff that most artists would never do. But I do feel like I do feel like, I do feel like what artists blow up, they don't go to a lot of the places that helped them get there, and they start doing you know, the crossover things. And I think that's why when we say a artists, who are we talking about? Musicians at anybody that that

we helped one who like who like? In particular, I don't know why y'all doing Why y'all why y'all talking and artists? I agree with that, That's what I'm saying. I don't. I don't see. I do see a lot of people going on a million dollars worth of game, and I do see people going on drink champs. That's why I'm asking, oh, okay, you think doesn't do that? Well.

I will say I agree with Nor on the treating the other outlets and more respect part because the publicist and label will come to black outlets and say, don't ask this, don't ask that, But when they sit with the white outlets, they will say, we are open to discussing anything. Correct. So after me is where the respect is. Because you're giving these white outlets sound bites that go

viral and you make those person's platforms bigger. But it's just as far as like, you know, doing million dollars worth a game or drink champs or you know whoever are a letterman, a gala Oprah, you should do it all, you know. I'm thinking that I'm thinking about biggest artists that we have in hip hop, whether it's Hove or it's J cole or or whoever you love or Hove does nothing opening. What's the last thing Hope did wrap

raid Yeah, but Hope has done rap raid off. Hove has been here, He's been Hope has done you know, but he's The goal is to reach as many people as possible, and the goal is the game is as much new audience. So you should do it all. If you have the type of stature where you can do a letterman and then turn around and do it drink Champs, I'm probably do it. Don't us that I haven't seen do interviews is Drake, but he doesn't do it across

the board. He has his own stations. He has his own station, that's right, But I haven't seen him do it across the If you have the statue to do do it, do them all. Do them all. And not too many people have that stature. Not too many people have the statue to be able to go do let him and didn't have the option to come do you know, drink Champs or rap radar million dollars a game? I

agree all right now. Dave Chappelle, by the way, Black and Black star most definitile quality Antonelle rawlings are all gonna be on the next Drink Champs. So make sure you watch that and listen to it on the Black Effect I Heeart Radio podcast network. That's gonna be good. He's getting that first Dave Chappelle in the view after everything that happened, So you know, that's a blessing drop on a clue bombs for NYD. And by the way, Dave Chappelle is one of those people I'm talking about.

He has the stature to do the Letterman and didn't turn around and do Drink Champs. He's done over. You know what he's done over. That's what I'm saying, done the breakfast club. And he don't need it. Let me to ask what I'm saying. I like how you keep sleeping slipping breakfast club? And there I got that ring like that? I like that all right. Now, Brandy has responded to Jack Carlo. She did her freestyle over first class. Brandy did the breakfast Yeah, so did Jack Carlo throw

the jack off? Don't put that out there now. This is all started because Jack Carlo was surprised to find out that Brandy and Rayja are siblings. And so definitely did the breakfast club a couple of times. Yeah, taking shots at Jack Carlo. You know this is all very playful. So here's her freestyle. You need a breathat fresh air and a breathtaking painted pictures. Send the Ruller scriptures. But that's don't mean Jack in the streets, Jack of all trace.

Now I'm here. Jacoba beats Queen's cancel, but you could never cancel the queen crown. Concrete stone and angel in disguise of rom the earth Guard, like the son of Jehovah's on the bear, witness to my second coming, one hundred miles of running, still getting money from Mota, overdone it over twenty years, and I'm still a tope A pictures with a million. Now I'm feeling killing Rocket forty three and feeling like a kid with millions watching popular but nail those side of pocket went still a gold

mine shining. It's like excellence that it's finest. Don't call me Brandy no more, call me your Highness. Feel tougher than my brothers. His passion. You woke up pieces, your highness, dropping the clues BOMs for Brandy. I wrote that I wrote that I wrote that, I wrote that Incent at the ratio was flowing on that. I wrote that ain't matter, wrote call me Brandy, call me your highness, black excellence, that it's finest. So right, Brandy? What Jack gonna do? Jack?

You got twenty four hours to respond? Jack? That out alone? Jack? You know we robbed with you. If you thought Drake bodied you, Brandy just did you dirty leaving guys like that. Man, Frank, you're gonna be flying coach. No more forest class for you. Jacket, don't want them problems. Leave it alone, Jack, Oh, he should come responding with oh, I want to be down though. To do it the remix version too, not like a dish, But just do a fly verse over a Brandy record?

Why not? Yeah, why not? We'll put that out on the remix. But do the remix and have Brandy on the remix old first class. Okay, not a bad idea? All right? Who are giving your donc to four after the hour. You know, everybody's having these conversations about, you know, rapper lyrics being used in court against rappers when they get convicted of crimes. Well, it's not just happening to the rappers. We'll talk about it. Four after the hour. All right, we'll get to that. Next it's to Breakfast Club,

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Nancy Crampton Braafy. Who is Nancy Crampton Broathy Well? She is seventy one years old and was just found guilty of second degree murder. Now what did Nancy do well? For the past five weeks she was on trial facing charges that she murdered her husband in cold blood. A jury of twelve person jury, after twenty six days in court, came to a unanimous decision to lock her ass up for second degree murder. Let's go to KGW News eight for the report. Police count one murdering the second degree guilty.

After about twenty four hours of deliberation, a jury found Crampton Brophy guilty of killing her husband, Daniel. The murder happened nearly four years ago in June of twenty eighteen. The state said Crampton Brophy light about where she was the morning of the murder. Her van was caught on surveillance in the area of the Oregon Culinary Institute in southwest Portland around the time of the murder. Prosecutors say the motive was money insurance money Nancy would receive upon

her husband's death. During the trial, Nancy told jurors she did not kill her husband. The verdict comes almost four years to the day of Daniel Brophy's death. Hey, you commit the crime, you gotta do the time. That's not why we are here today. We are here to discuss

art reflecting life. Are life reflecting art? All right? There's all these conversations happening in the media right now about rappers lyrics being used against them in court and my thoughts on that as symbol Number one, I don't want people committing crimes period. Okay, no, folks do what they have to do to survive. But my number one priority will always be to provide the opportunities and resources to people who need it so they don't have to go

out and commit crimes. This is why I push investing in your mental wealth so much, because I want folks to go to therapy so they can get the healing they need so they don't show up in this world hurting in pain. Because hurt people hurt people. Folks in pain project that pain on the others, and they just walk around bleeding on folks who didn't cut them. So when it comes to you know, drug dealing, drug using, violence, I would rather y'all not partaking any of those activities.

But I understand how you get there, okay, but I would rather not do it, which leads me to number two. If you are going to do it, if you can't avoid it for whatever reason, if you have done it, are still doing it, and you earn the process of changing your life through art. By art, I mean rap and hip hop. Please, I'm begging you, don't put it in your music, Okay. One of the worst things we told our culture, and I'm guilty of it too. I

am absolutely guilty of it. One of the worst things we told our culture is that we want our appers to be real, okay, if that we want our rappers to live what it is they're rapping about. I apologize for ever saying these things. I apologize for ever putting that in the universe because telling folks to keep it real and buy real what we meant was criminal with

some of the worst advice we fed our culture. Because what happened was all the rappers who were, you know, just doing it for entertainment, who we used to clown and you know call c before they waited until you know, they got rich and successful to become gangmarers okay, and they started doing some of the things that they once lied about. Okay. But then you had the dudes in the street who was really living that life, who was really about it about it said to themselves, oh, we

can talk about what we're really doing. And since we're really doing it, we were gonna be the stars, right, We're gonna get rich and famous. Now, oh well, let me go in here and indyte my whole hood to

a beat. Okay, that's essentially what happened, all right, All the screed dudes who were still in the screed started rapping about their day to day activities, not just rapping about them, doing interviews about them, Okay, I mean straight up giving law enforcement and prosecutors everything they needed to build a case, connecting all the dots for them. All right. You know not many law enforcement officials probably got bonuses cracking these cases by simply subscribing to some of your

YouTube pages. So the issue to me isn't whether or not your lyrics should be used in courting, okay, because what confession recorded visual or audio wouldn't a good prosecutor using court duh. The issue is that y'all got the audacity to unmitigated gaul to rap about these things in the first place. But I'm here to tell you today this isn't just a rap thing. This isn't just a hip hop screet black thing. Okay. Today, Nancy Crampton Broafy is getting donkey the day because she was found guilty

of murdering her husband. See Nancy must have wanted to live her art? What are you talking about, Uncle, Charla? Nancy wanted to live her art? Well, let's go to inside edition for the report. Place is this gray haired romance novelist a grieving widow or a calculated murderer? Nancy Brophy is author of such steamy romance books as The Wrong Husband and the Wrong Lover, and also an article

title get this, how to Murder your Husband. Now she's accused of doing just that, gunning down her husband of twenty sixty years. Nancy shot him first in the back. In the twenty eleven how to Murder your Husband article, Nancy Brophy writes, a spouse who commits merit aside will almost certainly become a prime suspect. To get off, the wife must be organized, ruthless, and very clever. Seven years later, her husband winds up brutally murdered inside the kitchen of

a Portland, Oregon culinary institute where he taught cooking. Now, I'm not the highest grade of weed in the dispensary. No, I might have strongest avenge it. But if you write a book called how to Murder your Husband, a book that details how to not only kill your husband, but how to get away with it? Then you probably should like can never kill your husband? To call cassidy of this woman to write the voice is expensive and if you're married for money, aren't you entitled to all of it?

But to carry how a successful murder would require you to be organized, ruthless, and very clever. Because the police aren't stupid, they are looking at you first, Nancy, you should have took your own advice. Okay. Not only did Nancy play the role of grieving widow, she went to the police and asked for a letter to say she wasn't a suspect so she could get her life insurance money.

Not only did she write this how to Murder Your Husband's book, but research she conducted on her own computer about how to buy in a simple and untraceable ghost gun. And she lied and said she was nowhere near the crime scene. But surveillance foot it showed Nancy driving too and from the crime scene during the exact window her husband had been shot, which contradicted the author's claims that she'd been at home in bed the whole time. Not

very important to note the judge allegedly well. The judge said he didn't let the jury read this book, even though I'm sure some of the jury did anyway, But he the judge said, he didn't let the jury read this book. Judge didn't let this book be used in court. So with that said, how come some of these rappers art is being used in court? If I rapped about some things in my past and then in the future,

I got caught up. If I'm not detailing specifics, if it's just art, if it's just entertainment, if it's just generalizations, why are these things being used in court against the rappers? Huh, everybody, here's the thing though, just please start lying again. All right, we don't need you to live your art, okay, rappers are to stop, all right, stop this stuff can it will be used against you in a court of law. We see this in some donkey to days. Just sell themselves.

Please give Nancy Crampton brofy the biggest he are. Now let me ask you, Envy especially, yes, why do you think this woman who wrote this book How to Murder Your Husband? Right? Why do you think the judge didn't allow her book to be read by the jury but allows rappers old lyrics to be used against him? Why do you think that is guess what racious it will guess I would have to go white. Okay, okay, what about you? What do you think she's white? Okay, just

wonder I wonder on what you thought? So is she? Yeah, she is very Caucasian, like could be on a dollar bill Caucasian. She's a woman. But you know, but I one thing about some some white women age like presidents. Yeah, but okay, but it was some OJ wrote a book similar right after Yeah he did. It was called up If I did it? Yes, m hm, alright, that book come out. No, it never came out. It was it was supposed to come out, but it never came out.

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are the Breakfast Club. But in the middle of ask ye hello, who's this? Hey? Everybody? Good morning? Okay, suck that money. I just wanted to know your take on what I call hood divorces. It's basically, Um, when a couple is still married on paper but they have lived separately, maybe like a year up. I know people that have been living separately up to teen years, but on paper they're still married. So, um, it's it's single people out here. You kind of gotta get in where you sitting, but

you know on paper that's steel marry. So what's your take on that? On dating? Who had divorced individuals? Well, why don't you guys get it to voice is at the cost of it, And it's not me, it's them. I'm just dating. I've known several individuals that have been hood divorced um, and they have different reasons. Say a lot of times that they say the kids, which I don't understand because so you're dating somebody and he's not officially divorced, but he's been living away from his wife

for ten years. I'm thinking about dating, think about it. So yeah, so his reason is his kids? Yeah, Well the reason is, um, they're getting to it. He's trying to just figure it out. They're not together again, they don't they're not trying to get together. But it's really it's really it's the reasons don't make sense. To me, but I don't know, so so I'm confused, Like, tell me what they are because is if and I'm not

speaking about one particular person. I've had this happen at least three times um with individuals that are feel married but they're not living together. So I'm just wondering if that's even a situation. And some of them have gone on to get married, I mean get divorced. Some of them are feel divorced but living separately. But I'm just wanting to event even something to entertain. Okay, So this is my thoughts on it was the person open and

honest with you, right did they tell you right away? Look, here's my situation. My wife and I are divorced, we don't live together, and are we in the process of getting a divorce. That's important and I also think for you as an individual, you have to decide what you

will and won't be okay with now. For you, if you're okay with the fact that somebody's still married but telling you that he is going to go through the process of getting a divorce and you believe him and he has proven to you that they're not still together, then that's a decision that you have to make if you decide okay, I can't be with you unless you get an official divorce and then we can discuss it. That's really up to you. The ball is in your

court to make that decision. All a man can do is tell you what it is that he's going through, and then all you can do is base your decision off of those that information that he gives you. So what are your thoughts? Thoughts? Are these morals my mama gave me? They just sometimes get in the way. But you know, so, I truly I'm not into it. I guess I'll just wait it out and afoor date other people in the process. But if they had been weakened, you know, and there's nothing Mama that you don't have

to compromise your morals just to be with somebody. And honestly, if this is something that he really really wants and he can prove it to you by showing you, Okay, here's the lawyer. I've been talking to the lawyer. We're going through the process, then that to me is proof enough for you that this person really is making that

huge effort. Now if he's saying, well, it's too much trouble the kids, this, this, that, and the third and you're not comfortable with that, and your morals are telling you know, you don't have to compromise what you feel. Absolutely okay, thank you so much. And no real man, no real man, should try to make you compromise that. Oh yeah, absolutely okay, great, thank you so much. And I don't I love you all, Charlotte, and I just love the way you speak to our black men and

encourage them. Just love y'all. All right, we love you toobo. All right, A good one, come by, ask ye eight hundred five eight five, one oh five one. Now we got rooms on the way. Yes, Courtney Kardashi and her fertility doctor instructed her to ingest Travis Barker's sperm. We'll tell you how often do you have to do that in order to get pregnant? All right, we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.

It's about Angela. Ye, the Breakfast Club. Well, Queen Latifa has announced that she's doing It's bigger than me. It's a tour that she'll be going on, and that's your She'll be discussing um obesity and shifting the conversation she wants to empower our community with open and honest discussions about how living with OBC in America. Um, you know, it's more than just about your hormone, It's more than

just a eating properly. She wants people living with obesity to seek help and open the floor for personal stories, questions, and voices to be heard. She said she wants to change the way the world understands, talks about, and treats obesity, and she's partnered with Novo Nordisk for that campaign. She said, we're both aligned when it comes to the topic of obesity and the stigma that comes along with it, and the fact that it's not just about weight, it's not

just about genetics or hormones. And most importantly, to create a conversation to allow people to voice their feelings about what they're feeling and the challenges they face, and to let them know it's not something that's their fault. So statistics do show forty one percent of Americans are obese, and that includes four out of five Black women, and she said this perspective that she has has shifted recently. She said she herself has struggled over the years with this.

She's witnessed artists who have been one size prior to releasing music, only to quickly transform their bodies when it's time to promote their new projects. Then that go on to become hits. She said. When you're someone that's looking at that, it's like, hey, is this what I need to do next time? I dropped this album. So I contemplated that, and it really made me have a conversation with myself. And I'm sure that'll give people proper motivation, you know, to to to get healthy to deal with

their matters of obesity. I'm sure, she said. One of the scariest things is watching people secretly do surgeries, and you know, people don't want to publicly share what their journey is, and so I think that'd be a good thing. She's got some stops coming up. I think New York is one of her stops that should be on during this tour or so. I'm gonna tell you something. I don't express how much I'm influenced by Queen Latifa. I

love the way she moves and has always moved. I love how she constantly gives back and empowers her hometown in New York, and I love with her and Shan Kim have built over the years with Flavor Union Entertainment. I love that black woman and you know black man dynamic, those type of partnerships. I love so dropping a clue bons for Queen Latifa. Man, you are any icon. You are loved in value and appreciated in New York, Houston and in La So. And she also talked about Sha

Kim and her interview that she did with Ebony. If you guys want to check that whole interview out where she talks about everything that she's doing. Right, Yes, the interviews out now read that going right? All right? Now, let's now let's discuss Courtney Kardashians. He's on this journey that she's sharing about fertility and she's really trying to have kids. You know, she just got married and they went to their fertility doctor and they basically gave her

some advice on what she should do. So, okay, how's your iron? Can't remember what he said if it was low or high? And then um, but he said something and um he told us too, Um do both of you well? He told me that the thing that would help it was drinking his like four times a week when they seemen playing different. But yeah, they said drink his seemen four times a week and to get fertile. Really wow? Yeah, So are we sure? Gee? It's been the one happened the baby? What are you saying? What's

wrong with you? Nothing? What? What are you sure? You sure? Him saying you did miss some dates? Are you having the baby? Over there? Too late? I got you frog, you can't get back. I got you first. You can't even come over and get each other. Hate you all right? Too late? You got me over here? I hate you

all right now. Kanye was gearing up to release the second capsule from the Easy Gap Engineer by Valenciaga collection and was supposed to actually come out yesterday, but out of respect for the victims of the Uvalde School shooting in Texas, he has decided to delay the drop until Friday. So that's just to let you guys know, also trade

the truth. He declined an invitation to go to the White House because he wanted to be with the Textis shooting victims families, and so instead of going to where he was invited at the White House to meet with the President with the families of those who have wrongfully been murdered by police, he said, the people of Buffalo, New York are really in need, as well as a family of children murdered in New Valley. So I will have to pass. I will be in the field with

the people in need. Yeah, he's in a Buffalo now shout the trade to truth in all the work. The trade to truth does a lot. And brother, oh yeah, they was out there, Trade to truth, Tamica Mallory, Untell Freedom. I think they fed like five hundred families yesterday and Buffalo, New York and what's crazy? Those are type of stories that don't get media attention. But like once again, those are the people that are always on the front lines

holding holding all people down. Yes, they fed like five hundred people yesterday and Buffalo, Tamica Mallory and trade a Truth, Untell Freedom and all of them. So drop one of clus bombs for Jamica Mallory, the Truth, Untell Freedom. All right, now, all right, listen, I don't know you guys, have y'all ever listened to Aerosmith, the group Aerosmith with the lead singer Steven Tyler. You know they did walk this way.

Aerosmith is a well. Aerosmith is a huge rock group and Steven Tyler's huge to his daughter Live Tyler, also a famous actress. But anyway, he's in rehab right now. He's checked himself into rehab. But it made me revisit a story, and they were just talking about this in the news. He did his memoirs and he talked a lot about his addiction that he's had since he was

sixteen years old. And one story that he told was um about a time that he once had his his child's mother his ex girlfriend draw a w on each of his ass cheeks. That way, if drug enforcement agents ever checked him when he was getting on a flight and told him to bend over, it would say, wow, wow, I've heard this story. I do like Aerosmith's Dream on

record though, how's it going? Yeah, um, Jamon, I don't remember you know so No, Aaron Smith is a great group, but I will say they did have this one song that could not work today was called Dude looks like a Lady. Dude looks like a lady. Yeah, I like that record to it. That's hard you know that one lady like that one records hard Dude it looks like a lady. Well, it depends what dude. Each other I don't see me right, I get it now, I get why it would be offensive. Okay, oh we got it.

Oh wow, like lady, all right, dude looks like a lady. I know what all y'all thinking too. But we tried to brush basket brush pass it, so I'm not gonna go back. You wonder how big a butth hole is? Because when I first heard that story, I was thinking, like, damn, if you put a w on each cheek and bend over and it says, wow, you like, how big is this man's butt hole? Come on, I've been thinking that right, And if it's upside down, that says mom, whoa wow?

All right, that was your man. People's shoe mixes up. I don't know. I'm sorry you got I'm not gonna lie. That's the anis you take a picture of put that he needed to send that this close friends, because if you can do that, that's special. It should be getting paid for that. You should should be telling people that without letting people see Stephen Tyler, it's the Breakfast Clugal Morning, the Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same.

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to think. I thought about it. You know, we talked the song dude looks like a lady. That's a compliment, Dude, A dude that looks like a lady. If somebody comes to you and say, dude, look like a lady, and say, if somebody tells you like a lady, that's saying you're pretty. Maybe yeah, I would think so yeah, Like like I think, who's the guy that looks like a lady? And he just saying the song he says, never judge a book by his cover or who you're gonna love? Okay, maybe

I need to go listen to the lyrics amore. But just by based off the dude looks like a lady, I'm thinking of a pretty man, like, uh, what's homie name? That was just in morbious? Uh, you know I'm talking about Jared, not Jared. What's the guy? Man? You know what I'm talking about? Man, Yes, Jared Letto. Dude, Jared Letto like a lady A little bit, right, he's a you know what, never mind you could you kind of look like a lady when you had the little glasses?

All thank you, thank you, thank you? Was good? That wasn't flirting? Oh he was not hot? All right, sexy secretary, No, not at all. Okay, okay, maybe granny all right, okay, all right, now, dude, you need some extra bread to help fund your dreams? Now? The Breakfast Club wants to hear what you would do with some deadly bread. Hey, maybe you're a small business owner that needs some money to help pay for some bells, or maybe you're someone

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ch Envy Angela yee, Charlomagne the guy. We all the breakfast Club and listen, man, I got a salute Audible. The reason I want to salute audible Audible is absolutely positively part of my self care regime. And the reason that part of my self care regime is because there's nothing I'd like to do better in the morning than getting lost in a good audio book, are a good podcast,

and I listen to all my audio books on audible. Okay, whether it's you know, wellness programs or financial advice, motivation, whatever you need to inspire you or entertain you. I guarantee you Audible has it okay, And they just keep adding more and more stuff every week. And I am about to do a shameless plug because I want you to check out the brand new true crime Audible original

called Finding Tamika. That is the first release from myself and Kevin Hart's company SBAH Productions, which is a partnership with Audible, And we got a little piece of it for your right health. Tamika was gone, but her ghost would remain waiting, demanding waiting. What followed in that thirteen year period pushed the heartbroken family to ask a web of dormant questions, questions that, if answered, may invoke massive pain, unnurse, family secrets, and resentment, few urban rumors, an unlock a

dark path to human unknowns. Why Tamika? That audio is from episode one the Spiral Man. I love Finding Tamika. I would not even be a part of it if I didn't love it. Salute to Queen Eric Alexander and Color Farm Media for putting that together. In salute to Eric Alexander for narrating. And another top pick is dj Envy and his wife Wife's gear Casey new book Real Life, Real Love Life Lessons on joy, pain, and the magic that hold just together. Can we play a little piece

of that? Please? We can't change each other. We actually don't want to, and neither should you and your partner. The rule of thumb is asking yourself, if your partner never changes, can you build a life with them. You should never go into a relationship expecting a person to change. That's a risk and a gamble. None of us should be willing to take People only change on their own accord, for their own reasons and in their own timing. We should want to be the best for ourselves first and

for each other second. I wanted you to play chapter sixty nine, which is my secret chapter if you haven't, I know, I know a lot of y'all have the book, but on the audible version there's a new chapters, chapter sixty nine, which is narrated by me and I talk about the magic that holds us together, us as in Leonard and Rashawn Mike. Okay, all right, thank you guys,

and I appreciate all the sport from the book. I know it was sold out to restocked again this week, so I just want to say thank you guys, and now you got a positive note yes, And I just want to tell folks just to put a button on the Audible thing. You can start listening to both of these today with a free thirty day Audible trial. Just go to audible dot com slash Breakfast Club okay okay.

In a positive note, when you are living in a different frequency and energetic vibration, a lot of times people can't hear and understand what you are saying. They can only meet you as deeply as they have met themselves. Don't drain your energy continually trying to explain yourself. Breakfast Club, y'all, Finish for y'all. Dune four