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pick up the mother mother phone and dial. This is your time to get it off your chat. Whether you're man or blast, you want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. So you but have the same energy. Yeah, Hello, who's this? Yeah? This shit boy? You dog? You dog? You dog? What's up? You dog? And you know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. You know what's up? What's up with y'all? Man? What's up? What's what's up? What's up? As we use Charlotte mane envy, what's up happening? Brother?

Since you've been and you've been sober for forty days on the days, La, I've been cleared for the day. Congratsman, thank you, thank you appreciate it. I don't know why we can gratulating the one it? Wow, I mean, you know, should we go off? What you gotta tell me what you was sold off for? Twenty days? Get off? See you see what I'm saying, y'all just like congratulations, don't

even have congratulations. He's trying to stop himself, to stop masturbating. Yeah, a long way, man, Like, it's been really hard for me. I'm sure hard it's been. It's been a long forty days and you know, I'm you know, just let me ask you a question. If you hear that if you use another guy's hand the masturbated, that relapse, that is that cool? You know? That does that? Does account? Yeah? You can do it. I'm just saying you can get a start from another guy. I wouldn't count, right, Yeah,

I can't say that, bro, So I shouldn't do that. Okay, all right? Well yeah, go on, man, Charloman makes your offer, you bet? Except hello, my boy was handing with I'm not blood No, I mean, I'm playing I'm playing them. You know, I'm nothing. Okay, what's up in the day? Just say both that drength doesn't matter. Hey, um, he's real so so Emby, I wanted to pick your brain, bro, Like really, I'm trying to get into the real estate game a little bit more, I'll be sure and stuff

like that a little bit right now. And so I probably got about like ten fifteen rocks, like just kind of off to the side, and I'm trying to see which way to kind of jump in that. You know what I'm saying. Are you from I'm from the Power from Okana. He from Oakland, Okay, the Bay area? All right? Just eat email me all right? Uh Caesar and dj m v A Gmail all right? And and um, I try to hit you after the show and told you what your options are and everything like that. How's your credit?

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miserable right. I can't stand being around unhappy people and people that complain about everything. But don't do anything about it. If you're so unhappy tor situation. You know what, it's just not even complaining, it's just a whole vibe like they don't say hi, not nice. Have you ever thought that maybe it could be you? Maybe they're happy on

another shift when you're not around. She sounds happy yet, Nah, It's it's like the twenty four seven, whether I'm there not there, they're just always just an unhappy group of people and not putting it very nicely. Well you avoid the unhappy absolutely well. Thank you guys, Thank you so much. Yeah, have a go on, get it off your chest eight hundred five A five one on five one. If you need to vent, hit us up right now. It's the breakfast club the morning, wake up, wake up. You're trying

to get it off your chest or blas. We want to hear from you on the Hello. Who's this? Hello? They? What's your name? Bro? Oh my god, bro? I got through all. My name is Will Well, what's up? Getting up for chas? Will person up? NBA? What's up? And god? Bro, it's good? What's up? My guy? How are you? Mom? Oh my god? I'm black and you know what I'm saying, Um, what's on the same out freaking everything, y'all. Dude, Man, y'all s for race. Y'all a part of my everyday routine.

And um man, y'all motivated me. Y'all have y'all make every day easier to keep going. Thank you, thank you that way about y'all, I'm he serious. Hello, who's this ail? Oh my god? Hey Ariola, Hey, get it up, Ario Loveterio, Oh Ariel. I'm sorry, y y'all for years. Oh my gosh, we're so old. I'm not. I said we old because you've been trying to call it for a year. Honey, I have so out of calling from Orlando, Florida. I moved here from Jane Bill three years ago. Um, but

I've been trying to call y'all, dja envy. I've been been giving you on Instagram because I have a homeboy who, like you, do music and he really doing. His name is seen minutes Pro. He has a project out is called Warm Night Ful Heart. And then I have another homeboy named Kendall when he goes to text only and he has a project out called Legalized Millanem. And he also has a dope at I mean dope call called Pam Grier and it is really really dope. Where we

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man bro Yo, So celebate. You've been in the New York ta arable very long time. Man came here in suise. New York Heads has been allowed to you. You're not allowed to undermine any more New York team. Man. You don't underline the next You don't underline anymore. Man, we're trying to the next. Man. You're not allowed to say that. Well, first, can ask can I? Can I ask you a question? Can ask your questions to the New York Knicks up?

But I'm in New York. I can say that. I can ask you another question, can ask you another question to the New York giants up, No, they don't. I'm never gonna be that you crazy? Okay, Well, well, one thing, one thing I will say about New Yorkers, and I love New York. A lot of y'all are very delusional. We all so much. Why don't we break your New York if you are New Yorker? Now, I love New York. I paid taxes here, but I am a Dallas Cowboys fan. Good try Rick such a bad person. Get it on

your chest if you need to. N hit is up now. It was the Breakfast Club going bad person, the breakfast club pointing. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building, Yes, sir, andre Iguadalla, Welcome back, sir. It's good to be back. Man. You should be somewhere relaxing after that long ass season, but you are here

promoting your new book. First book, first one, first six six many memoir WI now, man, I think it was just good timing, especially with the run we've been on. We were kind of the poster child in the league as far as you know, people really loving us and what we did for the game and then being on the oppositie of that and it hate you for having too much success. So um, just for me, it was more therapeutic. And I had a lot of young kids, young guys in the league asked me for advice, and

it's kind of surprising. You know, you get people that look up to you, but you're still playing. It's still you're still competing against them, So all those things, uh, for like, it's kind of a way to get back to the because it's a new age athlete coming up, especially for the black athlete. You know, we're being exploited more than ever ncuba Au and kind of how I navigated through the whole thing, it's kind of like there's no navigational tools for guys to kind of you know,

get to the league. They're kind of being pimped throughout the whole process from you know age a laban when they're phena. Let's talk about the navigation part you were saying, you know, we get exploited a lot, you know, and a lot of us have sons and daughters that want to play basketball and it's a tough process. So what do you suggest that people do you know, because the only thing we know is AAU and high schooling to the college, and is we never get anything. Well, I've

had many conversations and my son plays ball. It's funny, he's that Duke camp now, you know. And he grew up different than I did. He grew up different than we did and right, And the one thing I give to the kids and the parents that grew up similar to the way we did is you gotta do it for fun. You got to do it because you love it. And I always say, these kids nowadays are living their parents'

dreams and that's what always derails them. Or no matter where they get either they don't make it, the parents derail them. Another reason why they didn't make it, or when they do make it, parents are the reason why they're having mental issues or they're spending all the money, or they're going broke, or they're having all the family problems is because you know, they did it for all

the wrong reasons. So for me, it's like listen, just let the kid's gonna make it or not make it, regardless, Like you have nothing to do with that, Like you can't support them as a parent, and that's going to help them mentally. But you know, there's there's a lot of things that we can do differently, and exploiting the kid is that's the worst reason to get them into the sports. So creating our own spaces, we talk about

that a lot. And I even look at colleges and and I look at you know, just imagine if we had one star leave an HBCU forty million dollars. Slaves spoke about that in that book. What if the Fat Five all went to a historically black university or college instead of going to Michigan and it changed the course of history. You know, they did it with black socks and black nikes. They could have changed the course of history. And I was just talking to one of the interns.

She was talking about you was talking about, say, I wish I would have took a visit to Howard. Well. Black people, we haven't tendency to think white ice is colder, right, But that's just the way we see it. Like we grow up, you know, growing up out saw Michael Jordan, the Fat Five, I was like they were like gods to me. So it was like, you think that's the

only way that you can go to make it. And David West, close teammate of mind, he's trying to change the trajectory or the course of what we can do. He's got the he got a league where instead of going to college through the NCUBA, you can go through this league where they give financial services as far as financial education. You can actually make money off your likeness.

It's just a different avenue. They give you a percentage of your jersey right right, right right, But they're teaching you all these twols as well, because that's one thing I talk about in the book is we all were exported in an NCUBA, especially if you went to a big school. I went to the University of Arizona, and I remember seeing the report the larger schools in terms of revenue basketball team pat to the school. We were number two. And the reason why this the athletic department

ran was because of the basketball team. And then it was funny. I would go to practice and then the volleyball coach would be like, coach, you know, you guys got car blanche on the practice time. I know who pays the bills around here. But I would go a week when I had like ten dollars and I had to make ten dollars last food for that week. It was like, and you an athlete, My jersey was in the store, like number twenty four was in the store. I would think it would feed y'all, just to keep

y'all healthy. Well, they change the rules now where they getting limited food? When I was there, you only got food on game days or they got food sometimes at the practice whatever. But other than that, you know, he was on and then but you got the head of the NC double A. You know, you can look at the salary right now. He's a millionaire, you know. So it's just it's just a system in how it's been so far. Now people saying that the Warriors are over,

that the dynasty is over. What do you think you got two men? Dawn? Maybe next year Claire and be back soon. Katie would be back to form if he signs. But he'll be back to form, okay, but um, hopefully he'll be back. He might be out all next year. But we saw what we did in the finals. You know, we just right there and we were like, really we had three guys break something and we still had an opportunity, were one possession away. From pushing it to a game seven,

so we'll be fine. Um, big free agency this summer, so we'll be at all right, we have more with andre Iguadallas when we come back. Don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Go morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with andre Iguadalla from

the Golden State Warriors. Charlemagne. Did the Warriors organization take any blame for having the Katie or shouldn't because you're talking the book about you know, we're sacrificing in your body so for these organizations. So that's a really good question. I don't think his injury was the reason before the other of the other injury because the way the body set up, the Calves should have went out first before they Achilles. So that was like an active guy like

the Achilleses just gonna go out. Don't matter if he was injured before that or not. But I talk about in the book, you know, what's your body worth? You know, all I hear is play one of years longer than you can. But at the same time, it's like y'all want to have a certain lifestyle when I'm done playing. You know them knees go quick, so you don't you don't think the Warriors had any responsibility with maybe pushing Katie out there too soon. That's a tough part too,

you think about it. We have a really good training staff. You know, I'll give credit work credits due our training staff was one of the best in the world, and

I feel like they got them back. The tough thing is when you're an athlete and you're hurt, everybody's looking at you sideways, and then being his teammate is harder because everyone's feeding stuff in our head when Katie coming back, When Katie coming back, and the fact that it's the finals, I'm saying that whatever happened to more because he put that team together, it seems like, and then nobody ever

gave him a chance again, which seems weird. We were just talking about that about that this morning, and like we were huge fans of market Players. He was ultimate players coach. That that was. I mean, he pretty much put that team together, like that's that's what we first started hearing about the Warriors, and then it was like he got let go in the nor of a team, gave a shot and I'll talk about it in the book.

As far as he was like one of my favorite coaches of all times, it was like, come in, compete, play hard, But I feel like this the politics of it, man. And when you say politics, what do you mean? I know they used to be upset because he was too religious. They said, did he make y'all go to church? That was a rumor that he made. He didn't make us go to church like he offered it to us. And we all went as a team because we got a team bunch of believers, so we went to church like

we were going to church regardless. But it was the politics. And then you know how it is when once they want you out, they're gonna find something. And then you know, one particular issue was from what I heard, was his views on ginger or marriage or what the Bible said on your sexuality. And our head of our business who he just went to the Hall of Fame. He was the brains behind All Star Weekend. Like this dude, he created the All Star Weekend brick wells like genus business

and he's gay. So there was conflicts with that that was wide spread everyone was talking about that, and it's interesting. Someone mentioned it to me. It was like when people can express themselves, but are you allowed to express yourself that you don't agree with it, you should accept it

because we should accept each other. But it's like we're afraid to really say our beliefs now, Like you may not believe in something, but you know you still embrace that, or you have respect for them, or it's as long as you don't dispect them or judge them. Correct. It was that on top of you know, he might have issues with ownership. That was that was a crazy part, Like he didn't have a group relationship with the ownership and that's not gonna work. That ain't gonna never work.

But no other team picked him up. Think about it, not one other team. Well, it just shows crazy. It just shows how in line the ownership group is. They all together, they care about one thing money at bottom line. You think Mark Jackson's black ball, I do, yes, really, yes, absolutely, But we appreciate you for joining us. Yeah, pick up the book. Six men and Katie and Clay coming back next year? Pretty sure? Pretty sure? Pretty sure? Kad two.

I think Katie's coming back. I hope he does I mean we wanted to come back prior to the injury? Did you think he was leaving a going I didn't know. That's a hard part of two. It's like every day we had to deal with that, like the whole year you had to deal with it. Is Katie coming back? It was like, man, like, man, I hope, so yeah, like what you want me to say. But at the same time, it's like, you know where they're smoked. There's a fire, so it's like, well, who's putting out these reports?

Sometimes it fake? You don't know what's what? You know, it's the drama, the NBA. They're going to the Knicks though, that's what I heard. I don't know. Man, I personally think y'all gonna strike out. Yeah, I agree with you. All right. It's Andrew Iguadolla. It's to Breakfast Local Morning, DJ, Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now, if you just joined us, we're asking have you ever caught your parents having sex at or how your kids

ever caught you having sex? Now? This topic comes from Shout to the Bully and the Beast podcast. Lorille and Waxes played an audio have you ever been caught by plenty? Plenty? I got called plenty. I gotta called my mom's grandmoms brothers. So I was with my friend. It was two o'clock in the morning. I was just saying I was in a room with a door that was in locks. My son comes in because I guess he heard some noise. All I hear is Mommy, that is very inappropriate. I

am calling my mom. Good did your friends say? He was like, he was like, you should have yelled at him so he could think something's wrong. I'm like, I was in shocked. So we're asking eight hundred five five one oh five. One of my kids have never walked in and caught us, but my daughter has texted us and said, guys, I'm still up. Guys, you checked your text during sex. Now this was after when we checked in. You can see the text was like, guys, I'm still up.

The next morning she asked, Mommy, Mommy, what was you doing the daddy last night? He was making so much noise of what he was in. Yeah, have you ever caught your parent type of sex? I think so. I never walked in on them, but I've heard them, and it's because I was sneaking downstairs in the house. My room was all the way on the third floor, so I was creeping downstairs past their room. The door was closed, and I heard some conversation. It didn't sound like it

was fun, though. What conversation did you hear? I don't sound like they were having sex, but you know how like you're tired and you don't really feel like it. That's what it sounded like. Okay, what about you, Charlemagne? No, I think I don't remember. I mean, I might have caught my parents having sex one time, but it wasn't

like a caught thing. It's like, you know, you used to have a ranch style house in a monk's corner, and you know, you walk in the door and you peek in and you see them under the covers, and you just back away because you know, you know you're seeing something you ain't got no business in. But my kids had never call me, simply because I'm not poor and I got locks on my door. Apologies to all

those who can't afford locks to get your money up. King, I hate your kids would have never caught you if you wasn't a Paul asked me, who could have afford locks. All right, some people out there that could have afford locks that blocks on that door, Well, then lock the goddamn door in. It's just that simple. Let's go to the full hous. Hello, who's this from Houston? I'm from Calli, but I live in Houston. What's up? What's going on with you? What's going on? Man? Yeah? I called my

parents having second boy. It wasn't my parents. It was like my mom's and her boyfriend. I was like nineteen, I ain't really like to do, but I'm like, I knocked on the door, like hey man with like is it cool? Like I got to ask you a question that She's like, Oh, I'm like I saw just by Wow. So, dude, you didn't like was knocking down your mom's and that you had that image in your head forever? Was he putting it down? Yeah? Bro, I still got it. I

don't know, like it sounds like like it. See Charlemagne, you always gotta ask that man, what a question down? Listen, Mommy gotta have a life too, bro. I'll feel you on that. It sounded like it sounded like he was, but she was making noise. She was moaning, Yeah, Broda, I had knock on the door to kind of break it up real quick. I don't know if you rap o, that'd be a great rap song. Mommy moaning and just the perspective of a parent kid catching their parents having sex.

I'm serious. Hello, who's this? Good morning? This is Ricardo Hanley Junior from YANCS. Ricardo Haley Junior. Man, you ever walking on your parents having sex? That was about Ricardo Haley SENI you're putting it down. Ye Na, I ain't never seen pops old mom get it in. But I got a one year rold. I was giving my shorty some backshots. He walked in with the sun face I'm talking about. He looked shocked, like I was hurting her son. I mean, you know, some nice pleasurable plane. You know,

I was putting that paint in. But I'm saying at the same time, you know, like cool man, this is all. Did you stop me? Did you stop though? Yeah? Nah? I pulled out real quick, snatched them up, took him to the crib. You know, I couldn't even bust that. Yeah, you gotta tell you how to tell him? Like, look where you keep interrupting me. You're never gonna have a sibling. My g was too because I need a babysitter. Man. Oh my good an eye brother? Hello, who's this? They

ain't nsha you tout your parents having sexy? Your kids caught you. I put my pans, So what happened? You sound mad too? Right? And my mom was on her knees and then she looked me in my eyes. Wait wait wait, you was under the bed. Why my my mom? I want to know what they were doing here. My mom was saying, oh, daddy, oh dad, I'm like black called him daddy, And I see what she would say all that day. You sound wild incestual right now. And you wanted to see that because you actually hit under

the bed. And what if that man would have pulled What if that man would have pulled out and let that let that stuff fall towards the coverence, and you just happened to be looking up for the hold on, charlomne. Let me let me let you know something. First of all, and you're playing the ten dog and you heady, and we're an apartment build. Our wolf is really thinning. You're getting stupid noises. You want to be like, wait, hold on,

what's going on? You? No? You mind your business that's that goddamn boogeyman your parents keep telling you about, and that little pollo. Well, you saw the boogeyman that night. He was boogeing all over your mama, wasn't it. I was so traumatized, like, oh my god, like, oh my god. And that was your daddy. That was your mama was saying too. And when your dad was, oh my god, oh my god, why are y'all so crazy? Y'all crazy? It's so crazy. What's listen? It's so crazy. I didn't

wonder why I'm crazy. It's your fault. There's no moral of the story. These are the stories. Lock lock the goddamn dog, your pole ass before lots. Ain't that expensive, bro? All right? No, man, lock the goddamn dog. Buy some locks for your door, and locked the door before you do it. It's just that simple. I put the chair up behind the door. Something I can in. Put a chair behind the door. I've done that before. Just put the chair just so it makes noise so you know

what's going on, so they can't sneak up on. Yeah, that's when you was Paul. Huh, that's a pole all right. We got more coming up next with a Breakfast Club. Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club. We have Jill, Marie Jones and the creators Old Monogamy here. Welcome guys, Good morning morning. Yeah, it's been two seasons of monogamy so far, right, Yeah, yeah, this is our

second season. And there's this swap therapy, yes, that you guys do on monogamy to help in your relationships and your marriages. Swap therapy. It's basically when you swap spouses in an effort to get distance from a relationship, to get a perspective on it, to heal it. So it's like sanctioned infidelity basically. Well, it's it's more about mirror, isn't Yeah. I think yeah, it's more about looking into a mirror and saying the reflection of it that I

see is actually who I want to be. Yes, I'm also too characters that think a certain way, um, and then they go into the experiment and realize it was better at home. They just didn't appreciate it. But then there's also two characters that saw what they thought they saw and then end up finding something new about I always say that monogamy should have a question mark at the end of it. I always say the well of what is monogamy? Can one person be your everything? And

should they? Should they be? For example, and what we were just talking about, if there was a space where my husband could feel attracted to a woman and feel free enough to come and tell me and we're sharing that together. Put that lesson the fact that he goes out and steps out. I mean, it's the secrets and you're not giving a platform to be who you are. If he's attracted to someone, tell me, babe, let's talk

about is that real life for you? It's real life? Okay, so it's it's now got ana be attracted to it. Like a man can be attracted to another woman, but you don't. You're not gonna let them go sleep with the other people? Do some people what they shoose? That's the point is like, do you feel free enough that you could come to your wife and say babe, or you know, any man or any godless of what happens after that. Yeah, Like, do you is there a space

where you can be who you are? Because we have this idea that you get married, you're not attracted to people, you shouldn't feel things now there's nothing wrong with honoring your commitment, because we do honor that, but honor who you are as a human, Like we're not dead. We feel people were connected to people, were attracted to people, So let there be space for that and maybe just

maybe that'll cut down the lies and the deception. Really, yes, because I don't think, like I've never thought that that was a problem being attracted to another woman or a woman saying another guy's attractive. That's never a problem. Is when you actually go act on that and sleep with that. I mean, everybody talk about it on the table real

and I think that's what I mean. Do you feel like you feel like that it's okay to put that on the table in your relationship that that you can you I'm not gonna sit around a lust over woman be like, y'all I want to hit that, but I might be like, oh, she's pretty up. My wife would be like, yo, he's handsome, that's cool. So do you fight your thoughts if you're exactly because maybe your head, do you stop yourself from thinking that? How do you fight it? Or do you about what you're gonna say

so that you know is at the right time? Is it the you know, is it the is he? How far should I go when I when I speak about this? So yeah, and a certain women that we both can agree all bad. Like you might see Angela Bassett and you and your wife and be like y'all right right yeah both for y'all be like that right now. I want to talk about y'all relationship though, as creators of this show, I want to know what is your relationship like?

And what are your thoughts because watching this show, watching monogamy and seeing the aftermath of the whole swap therapy and uh, seeing the different relationships and you know, the struggles that people have been having in their marriages. What made you guys come up with this? And what is your real relationship like? That's that's all love that. How we first came up with it was basically in the bed, Yeah, we were The husband annoyed me something like he was

handling business on the phone. I was like, babe, like we have to stop, and he said something like, well, I'm sure your perfect dude would put down his phone and something filling the blank. So it kind of startsed up that were your perfect woman, would you know would allow you to do this on the phone, and then I kept talking about it, and we're like, well, you know, what would that look like if we evolved that into something else? Could we be with other people and our

marriage withstand that, withhold that, let's hold it. Would we be okay? If he and I were put it in two separate environments for two months? Could we maintain the integrity of our two month? Wasn't there at first? We didn't know that at first, but we just we're thinking came we didn't? We have not tried it? How think you guys should know? I was about to say, but

I'm love you guys so much. I don't want to Yeah, because I feel like maybe it wouldn't be a bad idea to see what that's like because the show now where you're putting this an ecosystem, well, because we feel like I felt like traditional marriage is dying. So what I really wanted to do was put a different spin on on what marriage could be. And I just felt like marriage doesn't not have to be what the box that we put in. I felt like we've put it in.

There's always a good idea to get a perspective to self reflect, and I don't think we do that enough in relationships. Um intimacy into me you see is about like really going deep, and that's the point of marriage. So we wanted to create this, this specialized environment where couples could do that. And I feel like marriages would survive and thrive if we actually started to look at a lot of our pain points, things that we don't

want to talk about. For you, jim Y Jones, has your thoughts on a marriage change if I'm doing if I'm doing two seasons of monogamy, have you have your thoughts changed? You know, like I don't know if I'll ever get married, I mean just by choice, you know, but maybe if he's worth it, you know, he has to come with something, you know, like not marriage for the take of just saying you know what marriage because you went to write and so I mean, I love

the exploration of this. I could never do it, you know in my life. You know it's scary about marriage to me is that I have a lot more friends who are unhappily married and happily married. Yeah, and I know, Wayne,

way right, Why do you think that is? Like? Why I think it is that I don't think you ask the right questions when you're dating people, Like, it's crazy to me that I have friends that they're in like two year relationships and they don't even know if the guy wants kids, if she wants kids, Like I mean, they're not having like the right conversation. So then they are in these relationships that end up lasting, lasting, lasting, So you're like three years in and then like, what's next. Okay,

well society says marriage is next. Right, then they proposed, and they are in this marriage, but they don't really ask the right questions. They're not really getting to know the real person. I agree, that's what I think. And I also think there's problems that you have when you're dating that you think if you get married. Same thing with kids. It's crazy that Brian White's character on our show I actually relate. I didn't know that I would

related to this character. I was like watching I was like, oh my god, like I relate. That's that was me in my twenties, Like I was saving like dudes that didn't even ask to be saying that. I was just like, I will help you. I will help you through it, you know. But I didn't realize how emasculating that can be. On the flip side. They say, a great woman can make a man great, so you don't want to do but I would think I was absolutely you feel supported.

If you do it in a way that he does not feel supported, then you're not You're not making him great. You always making him dependent. Say it again, what yours? You're making him depend? And that then he takes you for granted after a while, and then you're just doing these things and then and then you start feeling like, damn, I done did all this? And then right and think anything exactly what both are fair? Well? I think men only say that when the woman starts storing it up

in their face. When the woman starts stowing in their face everything she's done for him, then the man might say, but I didn't ask you to do all that. Well, but I think you appreciate the support if it's real genuine support. I guess the question is, is it's a real genuine support? All right? We got more with the creators Old Monogamy and Jill Marie Jones, who Don't Move is the Breakfast Low good morning, everybody is DJ Envy and jul Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club.

We have Jill, Marie Jones, and the creators Old Monogamy. Here the best advice I got when I was getting married, Samian Bernard shout out to her. Um. She said to me, let it be okay for your husband to say no, right, And that really hit me that because you know what, whatever whatever that it should be because the ideas that, well, if you love me, you will do blame and if you don't, then there's an absence of love, and that's that's unfair. I think sometimes that we put on people.

I had a hard time with it. We're saying I had a hard time with saying he did. I'm trying to think of a reason why I would say no to my wife. Exactly. I don't even married. I've been on my wife for twenty one years, been married for five okay, so um, for me, it was it would be things that would just be something I couldn't do or outside of what I what I needed to do at the moment, or or outside of outside of the things that we needed to do even as a couple.

But I would try, I would, you know, in the beginning of our relationship, I would always say yes, yes, yes, yes, yes yes, And then but then, but then resentment builds up because you don't feel like you know, maybe that it's really on me. I often think that men aren't given the space to know what they want and to

ask for it. I know we've struggle with that. Like I'm very clear on what I want, and I'll say, honey, I need this, this and this, Like, do you feel like it's okay to say I need this and that you and that need will be mad. Yes. I'm a very expressive person, so you know, I have no problem saying exactly how I feel. And I think going to therapy the past few years is definitely let me be

able to convey my feelings a whole lot better. So I think the biggest arguments me and my wife have nowadays are about the kids, and I would even call them arguments, they're just healthy debates. Now. When I have discussions with my friends, one of the main things that comes up is sex and not having enough sex in their relationships. And I've heard people say, listen, I've been with you know, we've been together. We haven't had sex in two months. We haven't had sex in this amount

of time. I don't know what's going on in this relationship, So what makes you want to run towards that? Right? But I've heard people say that a lot, like as they get into especially in marriage, like he sleeps on the couch, or he's sleeping in the basement and watching TV.

He's watching porn. I called him doing that. That's a miserable friends, and you know, and I get a lot of ask you questions about it, And I think this is a really common problem that people have where they're sex drives don't align and don't know why is he cheating on me? Is he not interested in me anymore? Is he not attracted to me? So? Is that something that's ever been that's not it can never be the woman?

You know, it happens both ways, because I've definitely had guys say and then I think what happens is you don't even want to initiate it because you get turned down. So then now I don't even feel like doing it anymore, and then y'all both end up not having You have to create a culture of closeness and you have to really really consciously do that, like for your for your marriage, like that has to be almost like an appointment. And

so I go back to for us. We have a scheduled time that we do that schul schedule for me spontaneous, okay, soutaneous, you missed a few. The penetration for me starts mentally and emotionally, so we can get that cracking at any point. And I'm just saying we make a conscious point to do that. Some guys, when they have sex, they don't even care about all that. They just least most women exactly. Yeah,

but men too, I mean I mean married men. I think I'm assuming you got married because you want something beyond just the physical flash for indication right time, not always. I said this yesterday. I feel like the best sex I've ever had is definitely what my wife, and it is because of the emotional, spiritual connection. I don't even remember those physical the physical altercations. I have a woman,

you know what I mean? Like, No, I don't mean like outside your marriage, but I do mean within the marriage, within the person that you're Yeah, sometimes you just want some times you just want to go at You don't have to because the emotions are already there. It's always going to be there. Yeah. Yeah. Would you say the best sex you've ever had has been with somebody you did love. Yeah. Wait, I was over here, like, Okay, the best sex you ever had has been with somebody

you're in love with? Or can you have great sex with somebody you're not in love with? Oh? I have a different type of great sex. There's this varying degrees of great text I think, Yeah, yeah, you know, I keep really, um, you know what I love Like, you know what's crazy is that I've been you know, I have a family member that has not been in the best health or whatever. So I've been like really like that's been on my soul and then also to just

work and stuff. So I've been just about Jill, right, But like about three weeks ago, I was just like, I think I'm ready for my person again. So I'm like, you know, not that I'm actively looking, but I'm you know, I'm baby now I'm your persons please. But um, I'm a person who just likes my person, Like I just want the one person right when of the time. Yeah, So I would answer that to say, like, yeah, probably the best sex that I've ever had is because I

love them. Yeah. It marriages that times a hundred yes to me. Yeah, that's what marriage, That's what it is. When you're making love your wife feel like I'm making a little my wife like a different feeling. Has cheating ever helped a marriage? I think it can, which kind is like friends that they were better after. Yeah, because what happens is space opens up where you start getting authentic and honest about what you need and what you feel.

And that goes back to what I was just saying in the demanding that you don't give ourselves permissions often for the first first time ever, because that's what makes it so real and juicy, is when you can just show up fully as who you are, so give me all of you, the good, bad, and the ugly. Yeah. And I'm not condoning that you should cheat and stay. I'm not condoning you know, domestic vines or anything like that. But I am creating a space where we could be

fully who we are. That to me is power and love, social second chances to be allowed or sometimes third four fifty sans. I mean it depends situation, but yes, sure, and nopened up by it if you're which is what the in the monogamy in our TV show Some Pipes, that's it opens opens people. Because but if it doesn't, if if it's just if that is an absolute deal breaker, and I think it's the deception and the betrayal that comes along with Yeah, but that is so hurtful, it's embarrassing. Though.

Sometimes I would think that the cheating is easier than having that conversation. Yeah, sometimes the cheating allows you to have the conversation. It does. That's what we're talking about. Do you think do you think that when people cheat, or maybe some people cheat, that is that a cry for help in the relationship that they're in or is that just just their being guys or girls just wanted to do I think it means, I usually think is for ego. You know what I'm saying, Like, we have

wounded egos, we have fragile egos. You know, we're trying to fill off. We're trying to we're trying to fill our cups with something that's just not going to e feel because the cup got a hole in the bottom. So I tell you fix that wounded ego, then you're gonna do things like want to cheat. Do you feel like your marriage has helped you feel that? Move? Absolutely, when you're being when you're when you have a good marriage and you're being the good husband. And what's a

good marriage and a good husband? I mean me doing what I'm supposed to be doing. Like I was a dog. I was out there running the speech. You know what I'm saying. Everything now was moving. So when you stop doing that and you start really committing to your wife and committing to your kids, there's nothing more fulfilling. Like that's when you have a beautiful legal instead of a wounded eg Yeah, yeah, yeah, I wonder what is that? What makes you get to the point where you're saying,

I'm going to commit to this woman? Men, what's the answer to that one? Is that growth? It's just like living life and like learning, like because I'm definitely not who I was in my twenties, Like you know, you couldn't pay me to go back there. Yeah, I hear you, And I think five and January fourth, Yeah, I know it's growth, And I think it's just just realizing, like, yo, this is the closest person to you, this is the

person that you go to. People get to that point the point I started feeling when you knew this was the person, I started feeling like a sucker. I started feeling disloyal, I started feeling like a liar, you know what I mean, And like that's not things that I can do. I can't live with those kind of feelings,

you know what I mean. How I'm more loyal to my homies, but I am my woman, you know what I mean, like just my best friend, right, how I'm more loyal than them and won't lie to them and keep one hundred with them, but doing that to her, Like, man, that's not a good feeling for me. All right? We got more with the creatives of Monogamy and Jill Marie Jones who don't move as the Breakfast Loure more than everybody is DJ Envy and Ngula Yee, Charlomagne the guy

we all the breakfast Club. We have Jill Marie Jones and the creators of Monogamy. Here is it also a feeling that I might lose what I have too? Because I think sometimes guys get to the point where they're like, damn, she might really leave? This time? Was right looking fine? Had for me? How did I get to the point where Charlotte is talking about right? Um? For me and you, it was about it was about the support. It was

aout the support that I got from you. It was about that you felt me, and you were me, and you were inside me, and you were everything that I had. Damn it, let me write this that next time I get asked that question. That's what happened. I mean me too. I kissed him on our first date. I just I just went in he was talking, and I just I knew you. In lines like that, I can see why, you know what? Else? For me, she was my wife and my father. Like watching my father and my mother

get a divorce and how he got it. They got divorced because he was cheating, and watching how that ruined my family. I didn't want to do that to my family, right,

you know what I mean? You think you do have to if your partner has some type of sexual as you call it, devancy, Right, do you think you should make the effort to try even if you're it's not something you're you've ever really considered or been into, if it isn't hard for you, know I mean if, I mean, it depends it depends on how long it's your partner. So I mean, in some ways you got to support your partner, right, as long as it's nothing harmful to you,

but maybe something you never envisioned yourself trying. I mean, I definitely think I suggest that you explore with your partner. That's the point of marriage, like really going to other dimensions sexually. If I don't think Maggie should explore that with Carson, I mean she couldn't buy it. He Hie's husband. Well what is it you? I'm not going forward? You say, But he's still right though. Whether it's sadism, sadism, yeah,

I'm stupid. Is that sadism is when you inflict you get pleasure, pain, pain, pleasure from right and to the point where it's to the pinks detrimental, it's danger. You got? You all men a slight say this story right? Probably? So you got do you take it a little to the extreme, like I said, my character can no longer have children? Extra extreme? Yeah? But the question why are you flinching? Like these are real sex scenes you're doing. You're just saying I was like, Maggie would like do that?

Where would Maggie go? So Maggie likes a little choking, but she don't want to Maggie doesn't know a light choke. Let's just say I'm just so happy this season too, because I feel like Maggie finally has her voice. She has a lot of hurt on her on her name because she made sweet sweet love to her husband before the experiment, and then she caught a connection and the experiment and she's pregnant and she doesn't know who the baby daddy is. Right, that's Maggie, right, connect not now

one we having to really explain that yet. Right, I need to start watching monogamy. But even more I think that y'all need to do a monogamy after show. What y'all do? I'm serious, show a little ya do an after show like open it up to other couples and relationships and the conversations that just to starting now with my wife. We don't do that, but we do at this corner. This is the Capitalcorns. We're not married, just the married charm over there having a life. I like dating.

I don't know if I feel like marriage is the be all end all, but I could be with somebody yeah forever and not get married. Happens, right. I can say that there was definitely a transition from making love as you know boyfriend girlfriends who husband and wife? Yes, indeed very different. It was just yeah, somebody told me when I'm gonna say because it was a famous but they were like, don't get married to ruin your whole relationship. You can't stop talking a miserable I mean it, I

mean it really. Yeah, but it's also the most life affirming, life giving. It's the thing. If it's the right person, it's the right person to look at. And I think a lot of relationships look at what they don't have anymore as supposed to what they have. Now, yeah, they don't have any more. It's supposed to what they don't. Yeah, Like relationships free you, they should, they should free you, should be a mirror for you to grow into your

most expanded self. It shouldn't be constrictive and you focus on what you're getting. But we do spend too much on what we don't get. Yeah, I think we're saying the same thing that you just said, like like I come with a lot, and and you should in the most beautiful way. So add to that, so like if he's worth it, right, I'm down. And also I also think you get miserable when people don't learn how to fight. You have to learn how to fight, well, don't you think so? In a marriage, like you have to or

any relationship. Yeah, you know you're gonna get as arguments. You have to be productive and that yeah healthy. Yeah, like sometimes you know, are arguments had not been helped They weren't. Yeah, so we had to really work on that. I think you forget that that's your friend. Yeah, you know what I mean. Yeah, you think you guys are on the same team. Yes, but we are that same thing. If it's worth it, and I feel like I decide to do it, let's do it. But if I decide

not to do that's okay too. Yeah, you can be happy with without the institution of marriage, you know what I mean. I think you know if you're happy within yourself. Monogamy Season twos out now. You watch it on you MC dot tv, dowload the app, or go through Amazon Prime just so ya know. You can get a free seven day trial. Yeah that's so true. It'll bring up some great conversation between you and your booth. So I love like watching it with friends of mine that are coming.

Debates will happen because I literally i'm watching it. I'm like this because it sparks conversations. All too need to host the after show. I agree, we're gonna do that. Your wife are coming from your words. Craig Ross Junior, Karen Walter Ross, Jill, Marie Jones. Yea, thank you for coming. It's the breakfast club having us. Thank you. I was going to donkey. This is a Donkey of the Decker Devil Breakfast Club. Yeah, don't hear the Dave goes to

a New jerseyman named Richard Decker. Let's call him Dick. You know, Dicky short for Richard, so we'll call him Dick Decker. Now we really need to see if Dick's origin starting Florida, because man, on the scale of one to Florida, the level of stupidity and this man's story is absolutely pohokey. I've never been to po Hookey in Florida, but it's ranked the worst place in Florida, so I'm just assuming it has to be pretty bad. And when I hear what Dick Decker was arrested for, I have

to think to myself, wt F, what the Florida? All right, I'm sorry Florida, but you all have reached the level of crazy that when we hear certain stories, we say to ourselves, oh, he must be from Florida. When I told the story to the room this morning. It was like, what had happened Florida. No, Dick Deckie is not from Florida,

He's from New Jersey, but he's just pulled a Florida move. Now, unfortunately, there's no news report for this story yet, and I'm highly disappointed because I love when it's news reports about nutass news like this scene. According to the New Jersey Herald, Richard Dick Decker, thirty one years old, wanted to have sex, and I guess there was some fine things on a farm in Jersey that caught his eye. Oh. Yes, parts of Jersey definitely have farmland. In Sussex County is one

of those places. People work on these farms, they live on these farms, and Dick Decker was in the need of some sexual healing. So what Richards started doing, Okay, what Dick started doing is sending messages to farms and horse stables in Sussex County asking if he could have sex. Now, I know y'all think that sounds creepy, and you should, because it is a random person calling you just asking for sex. But look, it gets worse because see the

people Decker was calling or animal caregivers. And when he was asking to have sex, he wasn't asking to have sex with the animal caregivers. He was asking if he could have sex with their horses and cows. They can't make this kind of stuff up. I'm reading this in the New York Post right now. Dick Decker, thirty one years old, began sending the messages to Sussex County farms and horse They was in twenty eighteen asking the animal

caregivers if he could have sex with their cows and horses. Question, do you think Dick Decker is a vegan? Okay, I'm thinking of sexy vegan from last week. He was a vegan who was sleeping with his dog. But people don't eat dogs in America, so that don't count. But if you were vegan having sex with cows and horses, something's not adding up all right now. Dick Decker didn't take the rejection kindly. He called these animal caregivers and asked for consent to sleep with their cows and horses. He

was rejected by the farmers. So what did Dick Decker do? Dick Decker sent threats back and placed homemade metal spikes on their driveways. To damage their cars. In one case, he threatened to beat a farmer's wife with a wooden stick when denied permission to fornicate with their horses and cows, and several of the property owners reported their tires have

been damaged by spikes. And when he was arrested and police searched his home and he found a homemade twenty two caliber gun, arrows would explosives attached metal spikes similar to those used at the farms and posters of the Chick fil a Cow. I'm not making this stuff up people. You know what, It's time to play a game of

gus What Rice today now? Richard Dick Decker for thirty one years old, Sussex County, New Jersey called farms and after animal caregivers if he could have sex with their cows and horses, and when he was rejected, resorted to violence. Just what Rice today? Angelie, I will definitely without a hesitation, say he is Oldtown road white. No, actually, old time

rod would be black door right? Well not the remix? No, yes, you gotta sit the remix dj V. Richard Dick Decker, thirty one years old, Sussex HNY, New Jersey called farms and asked the animal care givers if he could have sex with take cows and horses. When he was rejected, he resorted the violence, Johns, what rights? This one's a tough one. Okay, that's what's a tough one. I take you try to throw me off? Come on, I got

him away. I gotta away. I gotta go white. You know you know I'm ask Stephen Stephens, the white man in the room. Stephen Richard Dick Decker, thirty one years old, Sussex, called farms and after animal care gives if you could have sex with day cows and horses. When he was denied, he resorted the violence. Guess what right today? Stephen the white damon? He was white, but we don't claim him. We gave him up in the racial draft of two

thousand and nine. Okay, right, this is christ I would like Stephen the white Demon, dj MP and Angelie to know that they're all correct. Richard Dick Decker is Caucasian. Let me tell you something. The male ego is fragile as it is, but the white male ego, who the white male ego is fragile is eggs. That's probably why eggs are white. Because white men have sex with chickens, all right, and then they have the white eggs, all right.

The entitlement and the privilege that comes with being a white male when you don't get your weight, even if it's because someone told, you know, Dick, you can't put your Richard and my horses and cows. The level of entitlement one must have to think that they are wrong for this, and for you to resort to violence. The

story really made me think of vanilla icens. You know, vanilla licenses, those white male domestic terrorists who shoot things up because they haven't dealt with their trauma properly, so they just redistribute that pain to other people. Don't raise your hand, Stephen, you're scaring me, all right. The rejection, the rejection that white men feel from not getting laid usually results in violence. Stephen. Put you don't raise your hand.

You raise your hands twice? Okay, this is y other than other reason why Stephen, the white demon our cameraman scared the hell out of me? All right? Please let Kathy Griffin give Richard Dick Decker the biggest Hea Hall. Please give this giant jar of male the biggest he haw Dick Decker. Hello, my name is Dick, and I would like to have sexual relations with your horse and your cow. Are they're available around seven thirty tonight too. Definitely sound like our camera guy has done that before.

But anyway, thank you for that dog kay Today. Now this guy Dick Decker in his room with a big bottle of Jergon's Chick fil A posts on the wall getting off to the Chick fil a cow. Can you imagine what is wrong with the world? What rong when you were thinking of that man watching old Runs and mister Edge just whacking watching the Kentucky Derby just going at it. Oh my goodness. All right, keep it lock. We have more coming up now. It's the Breakfast Club,

The Breakfast Club. It's DJ m vy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got some special guests in the building, Carlie Red and Chad braver Man. Welcome guys. Hey, trying to figure out what these bondage cuss is crazy because they plastic, you can pop y silicone actually silicone all right for people getting into it because you can get them off on your own, don't get Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it. We played with a lot of lip service, a lot of toys from

Doc Johnson on lip service. Just fy. A lot of people walked away from that show happy for sure. For sure, Young Ami got herself some new toys up there as well. Yes, with with you, I'm seeing there's no keys. He's testing out the product, the handcuffs scale. You know what I'm saying, Cause you gotta really trust the parson. You can slide on for so you can like slide them off, get them off easy if you need to, so you're not relying on someone else. I thought you should probably be

sleeping with someone you don't trust. I know what that was? All these toys? Some people do it every day, right, Yeah, you're right. Why you got all these toys with you today? What's going on? Well, as you guys know, I did a deal with Johnny Johnson and I'm happy. And um, where does that go? Charlie? The tryst TST TST? What is this? It's pleasurable for a guy and a woman.

The two things right here scimulates the couturius and this right here you can put the penis through right there so or you can just have the girl use it. It's different, and you didn't have any kind of trust you want. Yeah, but the stimulation is through every you have your own toys. No, explain what the carly redline is from that. I don't know if he knows. But I got the mold done. Yeah, I got the mold done.

So your vagina of my vagina and my ass your vagina. No, I know, you just gonna say that, is it weird to you that people are having sex with you? Well, actually they're not having sex with my insides. But yeah, it's imaginable, but it's exted. It's just very very similar. It's almost just like me. Yeah, I mean, you know, yeah, it's part of the fantasy, you know. So I mean, like I think that, like what she did is cool because she's like definitely one of the most mainstream people

to ever do a product like this. So, I mean, you know, it's we talked about it, like it's uh, it's part of the fantasy that someone can like bring home. So if they see carly Red, they know carly Red. But now this is like just an extra, an extra part of it. How did you How did it feel to you, Carly Like did you test yourself and then

test the product to make sure it felt similar. No, I literally I literally got the mode and I haven't tested it the inside of it yet, but um, it should be outwood in the next like the next couple of months, next couple of months. Call me stupid motiv vagina. So I went to the Doc Johnson in offices and basically they put a mold on me, like, um, like clay. Kind of yeah, it's kind of like almost like a wet, silly putty put out. No, it doesn't go inside, it

just goes outside. Because that beauty of vagina. I don't know if y'all know, but the beauty of vagina the inside, inside, inside, that's true. Actually some people would disagree. The beauty and the uniqueness is sometimes on the outside as well. I mean, actually, we make the inside I think even better because we can texturize it and we can do a whole bunch of different stuff on the inside. So it's not the inside of a vagina that you okay, No, it's the outside.

It's the look you know of the vagina that is

that is perfectly cast it off of carly. But the inside is like textured and different things that we do like that when you're holding right, there as a certain texture on the inside that's going to be different from like Carly's or some of the other ones that we do is just based off of that's that's actually not a vagina, that's just a hole vagina shaped person for certain customers that just kind of want to use the product for other purposes but not necessarily a little like

stimulate sex with a vagina. But you all vaginas feel different to you, Like just say you had your eyes closed, could you tell you know your wife's vagina as opposed to somebody else's. Do our all vagina is different? That is such a good question we should ask them in that contract contractedly obligator to say yes to that. I think my wife's vagina, but I didn't know. I mean, there's definitely different feels, you know, and there's definitely different looks.

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I don't remember anything with other woman. Carli answer, what kind of toys do you use? I use? Um if you had to recommend something for all the women listening. Okay, So what do you just do? I love the Okay, you know, so what does that? What does that do? Yeah, it's the room. It acts like a numbing and it um you know, it's great for the gag reflects. So just you know, you could take it all the way down. Okay.

And then I love the trist Okay. So this is basically a bag that you kind of put together of things that are your favorite toys from Doc Johnson. Okay, and what Chad put together? Wait? What is this though? Why do you have? The two sided? Publican is my favorite too? What is the two sided? What's this? That's the main tweeze? I think right? Yes? Or have someone help you with it? Right? You know you can use

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Y'all playing though holiday season, this is little. I was thinking, I like sex toys. I don't much. I enjoy them, like me and my wife sex toys. What do you what do you use me? I use just a vibrator, and I like the use vibrator. Though I use it, be careful you don't want to hack into it. I love you your wife. What kind of who else would I be using? Man said, I don't know this man. You know, but women do tend to use sex toys more than men. Yeah, I would say men get intimidated

sometimes by sex toys. And we've discuss that too. In the bedroom. Sometimes guys are a little like, oh, what you need a toy for? When I'm here? But I'll see Charlomagne's using the perfect products. Like if a guy were to ask me, I would say, use a vibrator or something small or something that you can bring into bed and not be intimidated by. And then the ring I think you're talking about like a c ring, right, yes,

when you put on the clotars. Yeah, but it goes on on you, right, what ring goes on the clutars? What ring? I mean you just sit there, You just let it sit. Are you talking about like a we vibe or something like that. It's kind of like a little clip. Yeah, okay, yeah, so that's a different product. But like a c ring is something that I would tell someone to definitely use as well, because like a

guy can wear it. It's not intimidating. It delivers pressure, it delivers pleasure to the guy, but you know, definitely to the girl as well. I saw something, yea, this is that this boom? Yeah, this is a liquid vibrator. It's um you just put it on and it buzzes so without even it's like a cream, but without even using a vibrator really, so it's a cream. You put it on the clitars. Yes, if you put some on your lips, you will feel it like it will start

to vibrate your lift up your lips. It won't plump up a little bit on. Don't too much. I did this a little Yeah, No, it's good. Try it. It'll vibrate your lips. It'll start to vibrate your lips. You'll feel we're gonna start shaking. Don't, don't do too much, but you'll definitely start to feel like the tingling sensation. All right, we have more with Carle read when we come back. Don't move. It's the Breakfast Club the Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We

all the Breakfast Club. We have Carly Red and Chad Braverman here. Now, Carly, we can't not we can't have you up here. And I ask you about loving hip hop and what's happening. So, yeah, I thought you gave that. I thought you was doing it. Nah, I'm stilling, damn still Saints Centers when I was fourth season on Saints of Ciniers and still I love and hip hop nine years damn nine long nine. Now let's talk about this because you know, last time you were engaged and then

that didn't happen. So what's your relationship status? Now? I'm by myself, Okay, I'm having a relationship with my toys exactly. How can you be your relationship with all this back? He accused you of cheating though, No, he never accused me of cheating, which I found him cheating, okay, because he was saying usually it's a person that accuses you is a person that's doing it. I found him cheating. Um. I Actually the girl sent me a DM of her

in my bedroom. That's disrespectful. Can't use your toys? No, that's crazy though, man, really having no reason to cheat on you because you can take you with John anyway he wants to exactly, No, but that's the ultimate because you can't do not add No, she sent me a picture of her in my bed naked. Wow, that is so disrespectful. So what was your reaction when that happened? What did you do immediately? You'll see it the rest of it, aren't you know? I can't really get into it,

you know, Okay. I didn't know if this was gonna play out on the show or this is because this is real life, right, that happened in real life. So what about his claims about money bag Yell? When people were trying to say that you were dating him I don't know. I don't even know, money bag. I was on Faith m was on Live and you were and I clicked in, like, hey bro, whatever whatever, and it was that's right. Never seen him a day of my life, never talked to him a day in my life. Nothing,

all right. So let me ask you this, So rules of being in a relationship, right, would you do that? Like, say you're in a relationship, you're engaged. Do you think that maybe I'm not gonna click in on certain people's lives because we're already over with. Okay, so that was done already, but he was trying to fix it at the time. He was trying to fix it though. But you can't fix being in your bed. Yeah, that's that.

You can't get another woman pregnant, Like what you can't you do throughout the whole bed and move out like this. I never I've never been back to our house. We got the house together. Now here's something we discussed for Seanta Waynes, and I'm hoping you can help me with this. Chad. She was saying that she uses um dildos and she's like, you know, when I have sex with a different person, am I supposed to use a new dildo or do I just rinse that one off and use it on

the next person. What's the etiquette there? I mean, I think I would say use a new one, um, But I think honestly, it depends on what the material the product is, because like, for instance, if you're buying something that's made out of silicone, it's not a porous material, so you can clean it completely, you can disinfect it, you can it's like brand new every time you do clean it. So for me, I would use. Of course, you would say that the company that makes sex to it.

So I mean I wanted to buy new ones every time. Sanitarily you can. If it's why the name Doc Johnson Um company started in nineteen seventy six. Johnson at the time, it's like, was the second most popular surname, right, But it really wasn't. I mean I don't know. My dad, who started the company says that's not the case, right, It was just Johnson's a really popular name. And then Doc. These used to be called Merritle aids back on the day,

so there's a family business. Oh yeah, wow, car these vagina if they won't call these vagina and the sex you can go on doc Johnson dot com. Um and uh go right out there, you know, search like Carly Red and uh get right to the product. And then the true callie got three hundred grand for her vagina sex toys. Sex toys is big, I see your holidays got, mister Vicious. And I'm talking about like actual sex dolls? Yeah, right? Is that big now? And is that expensive? It's a

they're expensive. It's a pretty big business. I mean, we don't do it. Actually, we do more of like the strokers and the things that we have here. But um, it's getting more and more popular, and they're they're coming down in price. Like before they used to be like five grand right for like a doll. Now you can get one for like maybe a thousand bucks or something. When you when you throw off in the do where's it go? You got clean it up? Is there like

a little pouch? There's an exit route? All right? It's not something you could pull out of it. I would think and clean and then put it back in. I don't know that would make sense. There's basically just like an exit route, so like you can just kind of clean it through there. I mean, I don't know how to be honest with I've never used a doll and I've never we don't make them. With the strokers, I can tell you can literally flip the thing inside out

and clean and clean it properly. There's a stroker. Yeah, that's a stroker. Okay, Well, thank you guys for joining us, Thank you for having website one more time. Doc Johnson dot com thought I was gonna get out of here about that. It's an undisclosed amount, I guess at this point. I mean, I don't know. I can't talk about different contracts. Is it out No, but it's it'll be out like within.

I'm just asking because I was thinking, like, right, you could have a line called Vicious, because when you got caught with the guy or whatever and they said it was a nine half due though, you replied back vicious. So I just think that'd be a dope brand for Envy to half like that Vicious. That would be good. Yes, I like that name. It could be like a first name vicious by Rashawn, These guys a vicious. Yes, would you ever mold yourself? No? You should? You know you

should get now. Jason Derillo is hot right now? If you saw that some cats I bought off right here, You wouldn't mold yourself. Mold myself? Three hundred grand Collie got undisclosed the mouth for Safari. You're a money guy, right right, But thousand dollars pays for the rest of the kids college. You want to get eight hundred, nine hundred thousand dollars. You think he's worth more than Carly? Get out of here. Question would you mold yourself? I

don't have that kind of penis right button? Because wait, wait, what kind of penis do you need? I don't have like a big penis. I don't have a peters. I don't think nobody would want to buy yah. So maybe he could do like a big we ever molded somebody pocket racket. He could do the pocket racket more six inch dildos than we do ten inch. I'm seven inches three fourth eight When just one pocket ever molded somebody's

rare end. Yeah, we probably molded over a thousand formers in the industry over who was to get a mold? How long would it take to get back? Because I gotta get via a birthday present? Now, oh, Christmas present. We're back by Christmas next to me number one? If I can get it back before Christmas. In order to give Envia a birthday present, I will get my ass out of the real material. Like you want a working

model is joke. I'm not joking. He's rare. And I'll see a Browns as I'm going to you put it on the table and his would be like a gaping hole. Yeah we can do that. Yeah, we appreciate you. Guys. Have no ask for me. Man, That's what I'm saying. I've died. It's carly Red Chadd. We're gonna talk to Chad for Christmas. Better not breakfasting for business. The Breakfast Club the Morning, The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,

Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now, if you just joined us, we're asking have you ever caught your parents having sex at or have your kids ever caught you having sex? Now? This topic comes from Shout to the Bully and the Beast podcast. Lorille and Waxes played audio have you ever been caught by plenty plenty? I got called plenty of that. I gotta called my mom's grandmom's brothers. So with my friend two o'clock in the morning, I was just saying I was in a

room with a door that was in locked. My son comes in because I guess he heard some noise. All I hear is Mommy, that is very inappropriate. I'm calling my mom. Good did your friends say? He was like? He was like, you should have yelled at him so he could think something's wrong. I'm like, I was in shock. So we're asking eight hundred five five one oh five. One of my kids have never walked in and caught us, but my daughter has texted us as the guys, I'm

still up. Guys, you checked your text during sex. Now this was after when we checked in. You can see the text up was like, guys, I'm still up. The next one she asked, Mommy, Mommy, what was you doing the daddy last night? He was making so much noise up it sound like he was in Yeah. Have you ever caught your parent type of sex? I think so. I never walked in on them, but I've heard them, and it's because I was sneaking downstairs in the house. My room was all the way on the third floor,

so I was creeping downstairs past their room. The door was closed and I heard some conversation. It didn't sound like it was fun, though, what conversation did you hear? It sound like they were having sex, but you know how like you're tired and you don't really feel like it. That's what it sounded like. Okay, what about you, Charlemagne? No, I think I don't remember. I mean, I might have caught my parents having sex one time, but it wasn't

like a caught thing. It's like, you know, you used to have a ranch style house, you know, a monk's corner, and you know, you walk in the door and you peek in and you see them under the covers, and you just back away because you know, you know you're seeing something you ain't got no business in. But my kids have never called me simply because I'm not poor and I got locks on my door. Apologies to all those who can't afford locks to get your money up.

King I right, your kids would have never caught you if you wasn't a Paul asking me who who could have afford locks? I'm writing, some people out there that could have afford locks, have locks on that doors, Well, then lock the goddamn door in. It's just that simple. Let's go to the full hous. Hello, who's this Hey? It's DJ from Houston. I'm probably CALLI but I live in Houston. What's up, brother? What's going on with you? What's going on? Man? Yeah? I called my parents having

to take boll It wasn't my parents. It was like my mom's and her boyfriend. Damn. I was like nineteen, I really like to do. But I'm like, I knocked on the door, like, hey man with like is it cool? Like I gotta ask you a quasure that. She's like, Oh, I'm like I saw just by Wow. So dude, you didn't like was knocking down your mom's and that you had that image in your head forever? Was he putting it down? Yeah? Bro, I still got it. I don't know like it sounds like like it see Charlotte Mane.

You always gotta ask that man what you mean? Question down? Listen. Mommy gotta have a life too, Bro, I'll feel you on that. It sounded like it sounded like he was but she was making noise. She was moaning. Yeah, Bro, Damn, I did knock on the door to kind of break it up real quick. I don't know if you rap, bro, but that'd be a great rap song. Mommy moaning and just the perspective of a parent kid catching their parents having sex. I'm serious, Hello, who's this? Good morning? This

is Ricardo Henley Junior from Yanks. Ricardo Haley Junior. Man, you ever walked in on your parents having sex? That's about Ricardo Haley Senior putting it down. Yea, I ain't never seen pops old mom get it in, but I got a one year role. I was giving my shorty some backshots. He walked in with the sun face I'm talking about. He looked shocked, like I was hurting her son. I mean, you know, some nice pleasurable plane. You know

I was putting that pain in. But I'm saying at the same time, you know, like cool, man, this is love, this is Did you stop? You stopped though? Yeah? Nah. I pulled out real quick, snatched them up, took him to the crib. You know, I couldn't even bust that. Yeah, you gotta tell you to tell him, like, look where you keep interrupting me. You're never gonna have a sibling. My g too, because I need a babysitter. Man, Oh my god, I brother, Hello, who's this? They ain't Nicia?

Do you cut your parents having sexy? Your kids caught you. I put my pans. So what happened? You sound mad too, right? And my mom was all and then she looked me in my eyes. Wait wait wait, you was under the bed. Yeah, the my my mom, I want to know what they were doing here. My mom was saying, oh, daddy, oh dad, I'm like black called him daddy. And I see why she would saying, hold that day, you sound wild incestual right now, and you wanted to see that because you

actually hit under the bed. And what if that man would have pulled What if that man would have pulled out and let that let that stuff fall towards the conference and you just happened to be looking up for the hold on, Charlomagne. Let me let me let you know something. First of all, and you're playing the ten doll and you had these we're an apartment build. Our walls is really sading. You're getting stupid noises. You want to be like, wait, hold on, what's going on here? No,

you mind your business. That's that goddamn boogeyman your parents keep telling you about, and that little part as the book man. Hello, Well you saw the boogeyman that night. He was book get all over your mama, wasn't it. I was so traumatised, like, oh my god, like, oh my god. And that was your daddy, that was your mama was saying too. And when your dad was oh my god, oh my god. Why are y'all so crazy? Y'all crazy? It's so crazy. What's there? Listen, it's so crazy.

I didn't wonder why I'm crazy. What's more, it's your fault. There's no moral of the story. These are the stories. Yeah, lock the goddamn door, your pole ass lots. Ain't that expensive, bro? All right? No, man, locked the goddamn door. Boy, some locks from your door and locked the door before you do it. It's just that simple. I put the chair but behind the door something lock in. Put a chair behind the door. I've done that before. Just put the chair just so it makes noise so you know what's

going on, so they can't sneak up on you. That's when you was, Paul, huh. That's when you was a pole. All right. We got more coming up next. At a breakfast club morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. Now it's time for that positive notes pressing positivity. Please listen man the positive note. Accept responsibility for your actions. Be accountable for your results. Take ownership of your mistakes. Breakfast club potition you don't finish