Issa Rae and Pastor A.R Bernard Interview

do my own thing. I don't want to do what enmy does. You gotta be started. I'm not envy, ok I gotta be me okay ready, Happy Friday. Good morning Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo. Good morning Angela, yea, he said, mellow, good morning, Envy, Good morning Cholamne. The guy past to the planet is Friday. Yes,

it's Friday, man. I'm out in Miami and they just did the studio over so uh, getting everything up and loaded was a little took a little time, but we are rocking and rolling. What's up, guys, you in the house. I woke up this morning. I saw a man de Seals on the front of Rolling Out magazine. Man drop one of the clues bombs for a man decials being on the couple of Rolling Out back and Insecure starts on Sunday. Oh man, that look that that that warm

my cold heart this morning. Man. Wow, congratulation that really did salute to man the Seals pregnant Insecure. Yes, he played Tiffany du Bois. Yeah, we have Easter Ray joining us this morning. Correct. Easter Ray will definitely be here this morning. That's one correct. I will represent for all the Ashley brothers and figure out what his life gonna be like without Lawrence because Lawrence will not be on

this season of Insecure. I mean they broke up. That doesn't mean any that you can't have a main character for two seasons and have us emotionally connected to the main character is actually Eesa Ray. That is true, but he's one of the main characters. Let's not act like he's not. No, she's actually the main character. And if he's out of her life, Ain't that's messed up. Ain't that messed up to the show. She could just write you out of your life. And that's real life, ladies

and gentlemen. The same reason you connected the Game of Thrones, ain't you emotionally connecting Game of Thrones? And he knows that those characters get killed off. Yeah, I don't get mad. So Lawrence got killed off. That's when you know you got a good show. You got a good show when people get emotionally connected to the characters that you have on your show. So at killed season three us taught this Sunday and there is no Lawrence, so there will

be no Laurence Hive. But yeah, I believe Charlomagne started a petition to try to bring Laurence back. That wasn't me. He paid for everything advertise. I mean, I may not have donated a couple of dollars to the protection, but that was not me. All right, Well, we'll talk to Terra about all of that. I'm sure you'll bring it up. Oh and um, and you know, we haven't had any men of the cloth at the Breakfast Club in a while,

so we have past the aar binard on this morning. Yes, that's the Aarbinard in Brooklyn, definitely gonna He's gonna pull up the prey for us. All right, well, let's get the show cracking front page news. What we're talking about. Ye man, imagine if getting arrested could actually be a good thing and you could get job offers because of it. All right, we'll get out to all that I have been popping when we come back, keeping lot this to

Breakfast club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we all the Breakfast Club. Let's get in some front page news. Let's talk about the NFL. Yesterday was preseason. What happened in preseason? Ye? Yes, preseason games started yesterday. So NFL players are back in action now. Several players did take a knee, they raised fist, or some did not go on the field at all while

the national anthem was being played. So they said Dolphins wide receiver Kenny Steals along with wide receiver Albert Wilson melt during the anthem before a home game against Tampa Bay. They said, Dolphins defensive end Robert Quinn and raised his fist during the song. Eagles defensive end Michael Bennett walked out of the tunnel during the playing of the anthem

and then went to the team bench. They said several players on the Jacksonville Jaguars were not on the field for the playing of the anthem before their preseason game against the New Orleans Saints. Well, dropping the clues bonds for Kenney Steals and Albert Wilson for actually taking a knee. I mean, sum to everybody who had their form of protest. But the fact that they're still taking a knee with the NFL's policy, and the fact that they probably you know,

was still preseason because they can still get cut. I respect that because they're not scared at all. So sup to Kenny Steals and Albert Wilson. Right, all right, now, let's discuss what Let's discuss how actually getting arrested helped to one person. She's a makeup artist, Marshalla Perkins. She goes to Texas A and M University. She had just left her dorm room. She was on Facebook Live doing

a makeup tutorial when she got arrested. She said she was sitting in her car for like two minutes waiting on her friends when a police car pulled up right behind her. She was taken into custody because they smelled weed and they heard sor vehicle found two grands of marijuana, and then they did her mugshot, and her mugshot went viral. So now people are saying they want a tutorial. There was a post that was retweeted more than sixty thousand times.

Somebody reached out to her, she said to start her own makeup line. She said, it's crazy. My mind is blown. Now it's turned into something so positive. So I'm just going to embrace it and see where it takes me. And that's life. When life gives you a lemons, you make lemon pie. Right, But this is what somebody needs to do. Somebody needed to get in a lab and make weed that don't smell like I know that y'all love loud, but no, you need to find something quiet.

If you can find something that's potent and quiet, the world will be a better place. It's about to be legal anyway, Well it's not for the moment being that is not the reason that what you mean like pills, not a weed in that you know is kind of smell poof. You can't smell through it. So why people don't do that, because don't you realize all these story start with cop smelled weeds, and then there's the vapes and stuff like that, and the one hitters or you

just take one hits plenty of that. Everybody else is just behind on the times. Then. I mean, she probably just smoking in her car. You need to be you should have been smoking a vapor. I don't know that it's going to be a good invention at this point in time, because when weed is legal, that is going to be extinct. You still ain't gonna wa smell it. Yeah, did you hear the story about the bait truck in Chicago that police are doing. This is a crazy story.

So police actually left a partially open truck with Nike Air Force one sneakers and Lubaton's shoes in several places around the community in Chicago and Englewood where there's a lot of people um around that they thought, like Mike, want to steal them. So basically it's like entrapment. They're trying to get people to go and try to steal these things and then arrest them. One resident said that

to the officers, y'all are dirty. It's a set up and they're saying that it's the same bait truck, they actually are putting it in different locations. So if you see a truck Babe Sneakers and lubi's, yeah, they can't do that. Yeah, I mean the community is clearly outraged by it, and it's uh they're saying whether they would put bait trucks into their own neighboroods, So they're only

putting it in certain neighborhoods. So what they're trying to say is that they can catch those people who are repeat offenders, because those are the ones that actually will run up and try to steal things. Well, that's why it was sixty plus shootings last weekend in Chicago and no arrest because the cops was too busy staking out bait trucks. And not to mention, if you take a bunch of sneakers and lubatons and pull up in a point disenfranchised area, what would make you think they're not

gonna steal it? Like why wouldn't they? Like, like why wouldn't they? No one's there and open these people that need things, they probably feel like that you take these things, gonna sell them and get you some money, Like that's that's that's nothing for nothing. In any type of neighborhood that people see an unintended truck filled with things, a lot of people might go take a let. Oh, ye, only you. If you saw a truck full of lubaton,

you would definitely rush only you. It would feel it would feel like I said, I'm not really that type of person. It would feel like I said, but I might have to ask someone else to check it out. My goodness. All right, yeah, yeah, you are. You are. And by the way, you are kind of a fool. If you fall for that bait truck at this moment, either you're either you're a fool or you're really in need of something. I would definitely say, this looks like

a set out. Yeah, you can't fall for the bait truck. No more big truck on your work once. All right, that's front page news. I get it off your chests. Eight hundred five eight five one on five one. If you're upset, you need to vent. Hit us up right now. Maybe you had a bad night or bad mong the morning and you just need to vent. Or if you feel positive and you want to spread some positivity, you

can tell them are your blessed. Phone lines are wide open eight hundred five eight five one on five one is the Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast Club. This is your time to get it off your chests, whether you're man or blast. So you better have the same any we want to hear from you on the breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Brandon? Out of ball? Dudet m old lady man. It's like anytime she's ready and she wanted little Tom, it's like, you gotta have it right then and there.

God for fear. I try to get so if you can't see no, then it's supped to everything is supposed to be okay. But she could tell me though, nine times out of ten, I just gotta rock with it. Well, you gotta know what's the little something you're talking about? Crack, you're talking about sex? Talk about sex? Oh, you gotta be more specific. You could have been talking about anything, a cold problem. No, just tell her no. Sometimes that's why I try't it don't FaZe it. I try. I

try to keep the same medicine. That's don't just like, okay, you don't have to have sex. You could just cuddle and kiss. Yeah, but it don't the cuddling kids, don't work seven days work, and then after a while, if that cudling a kissing, maybe she'll feel like it. But she told me from a judging the person. I ain't I ain't know how how dear, how serious, but it

actually was. And that's why when you tell her no, she don't believe you because she don't give it to you enough now, so she like when you tell her no, she's like, yeah, right, solution. I would keep telling her no. Maybe a penis is trash. That's why she don't care. She wanted to play games. I'm gonna be honest with you. To old me would have told you go get a side check. But you know, I am a proud member of the Faithful Blackmail Association, So I would tell you

just pray on it. I would tell you to masturbate more. They literally prey on it, prey on her, poom poom, prey on your penis. Just masturbate. Hello, who's this? Hey? Devin? All doing? Devin? What's up? Get it off your chests? Bro man. I'm just tired of my job, honestly, and my boss and everybody I work with. What you work Landscape and Company? All right, quick. Then if you buy it bout it fool, you buy it bout it fool. I'm bout about it. I'm ready to get this day

over with, man, and start my weekend. Yeah, what you do if you pay your bills or do not quit? Just take a knee on every lawn that y'all landscape. Every time y'all go to somebody, y'all, just take a knee and refuse the work. Refuses the work. As long as I'm on the clock, they d Charlomann, I'll get him fined. Hello, who's this? What's going on? Man? My name is Drew. Drew up, get it off your chests, bro, what's going on? Man? Actually in a good mood. I

just wanted to share some positivity. Man, lest y'all every morning I'm an uber driver. Everybody that gets some my cards in y'all. But luck man, thank you. I wrote a book. Appreciate I wrote a book. And I know you got a book club. Charlot Magne got one out one on the way. Um Man, I just wanted to share my book with Y'all've been trying to get a touch yo'all forever. Man. Charlott magn I emailed the link in your biod like three times. Man, what's up? Who

karny hit you back? Nah? Manks, yes forks. It's not really for sales. I just wanted, you know, sharing my copy of my book with y'all. I would love to have it. What's the name of it the book? You can find it on Amazon. It's called Life Wounds Drew Foster. But I actually wanted to send one to y'all personally, you know, for all three up. Send it to the radio station when we had when we will put you on hold and somebody to give you the address to

send it up him attention breakfast club man. I appreciate y'all. Man, you keep it up doing a thing all right. Brow, you keep doing your thing too. Same. Make sure y'all give Drew the address man on front and Drew don't hang up on him in me get it off your chair. Eight hundred five eight five one on five one. If you need to vent hit us up now. It's the Breakfast Club. The morning, the Breakfast Club. This is your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're man

black from you on the Breakfast club. But you got something on your mind. Let I don't know who's this It is real from Queens. What's going on y'all the mornings? Morning's Good's good? Yeah, man, I just wanted to comment on that, uh, that bait truck situation. Man, that's an old school, bro. They had a TV show on that about ten years ago, siptum fifteen years ago. They was catching back in the back with the back in the

day in Chicago. They used to have guns. They used to be guns like like trucks, the guns, and they brought it back, yeah, which they had TV like the it was. That's that's so old. They had the big TVs back their TV's with the ass on it. Yeah, yeah, yeah they Yeah, they were putting those in their VC yards and all sorts of crazy. I don't like. I don't know how to I guess I guess that next

generation didn't catch that, so they just catching leave. But that's some old Why you object Why are you reifying the TV? Though? See? Why are you objectifying the TV? Say the TV had asked? Though? Stupid? All right, thank you brother. You know they arrest people. A lot of people used to do that, Like when there's burglaries in the neighborhood, they might put leave their garage open and they hide in the garage and then when the kids come in to garage to steal it, they would shoot them.

They would go to jail. You can't entract people like that. But hello, who's this? Have a TV show called bag Call? Good morning Angela, Good morning fej Amby, Good morning charl Maine. God, how are you good? Um? I just wanted to tell you guys a story and get some feedback from you. Um. I just got back from vacation. I have been in a relationship for six years, on and off, and when I got back to my plate, my plate was vandalized and he broke my bedroom because he actually walked out

on me. What was he so many? He's so mad about that he broke all your stuff? Well, he just broke the bed because he said that, you know, we purchased it together and since we're no longer together, he didn't want me using that bed with someone out. That's so petty. I'm not gonna lie. One of my ex boyfriends try to take my mattress down the steps and out the door when we broke up. How do you break a bed? Oh God, he's crazy. Girl. You better be glad you're not with him anymore. Count you have

blessings that he's out of your life. Yeah, and I hope he's listening so that he knows that. He said to me that we have different values, and I said, hell, yeah, we have different values. Why would you hope he's listening. He's selling. He sound like the angry type. That's when you like, I'm glad I'm not with that person anymore. Get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one on five one. If you need to vent, you can hit us at anytime. That we got rumors on

the way. Yes, so we're gonna talk about Kim Kardashian. She was on with Big Boy, and we'll give you some highlights about what she said on there. She talks about Northwest, she talks about Tyson Beckford and a whole lot of other things. All right, and don't forget Easter Ray will be joining us next hour, all right, to keep it lock This the Breakfast Club in the morning, The Breakfast Club morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We all the Breakfast Club. Let's get to

the rumors. Let's talk Kim Kardashians. This is the Rumor Report with Angela Yee on The Breakfast Club. Yes, So, Kim Kardashian did a sit down with Big Boy and she talks about a lot of different things. Now, one of the things she talks about is her daughter Northwest, asking her about why she's famous. Here's what she said, Mom, why are you famous? And I was like, oh, okay, okay, I'm gonna have to explain this. And I'm like, I'm like, we have a TV show. We have a TV show.

And she was like okay. And you know, that was the first time when she was like, oh, I wonder if Northwest knows that she's the three hundred million person asked that question in the history of all. Kardashian like, I'm sure, I'm sure she knows. So Lucan norf for being in tune with what's going on in the universe, nor like, what is really going on here? We still don't have an answer to that question either. By the way, she said, woll because they have it. They're on TV.

All right, Yeah, but how'd you get the TV show? That's the that's the good follow up question. Don't worry, no, if you'll get to you'll get there. You'll get the ask those questions later in life. Now. She also talked about being married but being at a restaurant with Kanye. And here's what happened. When she was married to Chris Humphries. So I'm presenting an award and the award was Kanye

was nominated. So I see him backstage. We end up both at the Soho House and he sat at my table and I had my big ring on because I was married, So I'm like talking with my ring, and I talked with my hands a lot. So I'm talking and I just see him looking at my ring and his hand. His face would just like get heartbroken. So

I sat on my hands. You know. We look back now and I guess him and his best friend how to combo, and was like, dude, like we're at a restaurant together, Like she just got married two weeks ago. Nothing went down, nothing happened. But then I went to New York and started filming, and I was like, you're right. I'm miserable. I made the wrong decision. I think we all knew that relationship was fake. It wasn't gonna work. He said it was fake. Why does she hide the

ring from Kanye? Because she said that she could tell he was heartbroken. She could see it in his face and he was looking at her ring. So she was trying to hide the fact she was a married woman. I guess she just didn't want him to feel hurt. Who knows why she did that? Why does she wear the ring to begin weight she's married. I'm saying, if you know you're going on a date with another dude, I don't know that she wasn't on a ring. I

don't know that she was on a date. She said she was just out to eat and he sat at the day Yeah, she was at a resting rank. Well, I just want to tell every woman out there and every man, if you got to hide your wedding ring or you're ashamed of your wedding ring, you don't need

to be in that relationship. Now. She goes on to talk about the situation that just happened with Tyson Beckford, where Tyson had tweeted out she is not real doctor ffft up on her right hip and that's when she responded, Sis, we all know why you don't care for it. Here's what you had to say about that, Because people were

accusing her being homophobic. Really do like you're gonna body shame me, like okay, okay, says people were sending me stuff on his page day like keeps on going and going and going, and like, I'm just like, dude, that's so female name to It's just lame to me. And for anyone to say that I am homophobic, right the comment of saying sis, like, I'm sorry, like I'm the least. All my best friends are gay. I support the community. I still don't know why it was the point of

calling him sis. Yeah, no good and will why because it's been rumors for years that Tyson Beckfoot is gay. Okay, So I mean I wouldn't that. That doesn't make her homophobic. That was just her basically saying, we know why you don't like it, right, she just said that you don't like women. All right. Now, let's talk about Takashi sixty nine.

According to prosecutors, they want him to get up to three years in prison because they're saying he violated his twenty fifteen plea deal by getting re arrested twice and by joining a gang. Also, he was in court yesterday. He had four bodyguards with him, and he was supposed to be sentenced to three years probation. That was proposing that lude video of a half dress thirteen year old ger performing oral sex on friend. In that video, he

is thrusting his hips behind her, stimulating a sex act. Now, he did plead guilty in exchange for the no jail sentence, but he was not ever supposed to get arrested again and fulfill all these other conditions. But as you can see online, he's still doing a lot and claiming a lot of different things. So the prosecutor is asking for the judge to get rid of that plea deal and actually send him to jail. So they want him to

go to jail for one to three years. Well, I'll tell you this all that SMD is not going to work in prison, all right. You'd be in prison telling gods the SMD somebody gonna definitely jump in your jeans, right, You ain't even gotta worry about that there, So please now, according to that plea agreement, they also said he would have no criminal record if he complied and complied with everything. But of course if they take that off the table,

then he'll have to actually be a registered sex offender. Yikes, that's not going to work in the game. Of rap like you can't be a regis sex offender this and everybody because that is too easy for people to use. Well, now, his defense lawyers are asking for more time to respond to the prosecutors allegations, so he will be back in court on October second to find out what's gonna happen. All right, I'm Angela Yee and that is your rumor report. All right, thank you, miss Yee. Now coming up next,

Insecure is back this weekend and Eastern Ray. We're gonna chop it up at home when we come back, so don't And I'm gonna represent for all the Ashley brothers, okay, all the Ashley brothers that don't understand why we gotta have life with our Lawrence this season. I'm gonna represent for y'all, and I represent for all the ladies who are like, he's out of my life, he's off the show. My goodness, all right, she'd be a lot of fun. Keep it locked it to Breakfast Club, Good morning morning.

Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the God, we all the Breakfast Club and sees back. Yes, welcome back. Thank you for having me ready, but we are ready. For Insecure. It's back on Sunday. No, we're not, because ain't know Lawrence this season. Hunt, you just don't give a damn about us. Ask you Okay, you're gonna take

all the representation laws, not gonna be on like a day. Okay, I'm married and that her ex, you know, because you know all along right when you first cheated, I was actually gonna end up with this dude, with Daniel or I kind of thought that, and I know he's going to be all on this next season. So I kind of liked doing better for you. I don't know why. Well, we'll see this season. Except you thought he disrespected you when he in your face. But she was going through

a lot. She was you know, she was going through a lot and she that was like the charter that broke the camel's back, you know, for her. So I saw him at the airport, yes, and I kind of was like angry at him, and then I realized, like Daniels, just the characters, and I really you know what I'm saying, I realized I met him before when we did it was that show Printer did the hustles. A great guy and I love you know, I know he probably felt like I was being a little cold to him, but

I was like, nah, y'all made it. I contacted him like like, oh my bad, Daniel. You know you're not Daniel, but why were you? Why would you doing ahad of him? Like Daniel? Would you want that? No, because you said you want me to suffer. So I don't even just one more seasons then y'all get back together season four. I have babies and stuff. You know what I'm saying, that's what you want. Yeah, I think it's good to move on that relationship. But clearly ran his course, and

that happens in life sometimes, you know. I've definitely this is like based off of certain events, you know, So I just want to depict them, how how they went. Do you believe in going back in a relationship. I've gone back, and do I believe in it? I don't know. I think it just depends on the person. I'm very forgiving.

I never forget, but I forgive. So if it feels like we're both matured and we're both acknowledging things because I don't like holding on to stuff, I need to put it all out there and talk about it, then you know the possibilities are annoyed. At what point did you learn forgiving? Because I really think I just learned that concept. I never used to believe in forgiven. I know you still don't believe in it. I did. I didn't tell you that, but I had a breakthrough this

weekend when I was sitting at my grandma's post. I did. I didn't. And in therapy I always talk about forgiveness. Couple days ago, I know, but I pray for that person. I'm serious, I'm there serious. I had to get that anger and resimbents and I never felt that way towards the person where I really really really wanted to hurt them in a way. So I was like I had I got to let that go. It's that energy though, like I think that's just like holding on to like

anger and just resentment. It is taxing, and I think for me, it's just like I'd rather let that go. And you also have to remember, Charloman forgives what the goons don't, so what they do have nothing to do with me. Forgive it. Just like I said, it's always more for yourself because to not happen said, yeah, it is taxing on yourself to be angry and have these feelings towards someone else who wants to walk around feeling

like that. No, I don't want to forgive like I always will remember, I'm not not forgive, not forget, but I'm not. I'm not praying or not thinking about it all the time. But I just want you. That's fine. That's that she can still forgive the act and be like, Okay, we're good, we can separate now. Spoiler alert. I did get to see the first episode because they sent us a screener. I'm not gonna lie. I was out all day. I was exhausted, but I came home. I was tire back.

I got to stay up because I am watching this first screen it because I was so excited for it, and it does not disappoint. I was really excited to see where ESA's character is going and to see the job you actually the side job that you have made me want to do that. I want to do that job in really I tried to do that. Let me not. I don't want to. I don't want to give it away. There's a side job, and I was like, you made

it look like so appealing. Not talking about it. No, I about a guy at first, that's a new name from Side side. It is a job. I want to talk about it because I think it's so interesting. Well, don't talk about it Sunday talking about adult thing, they say the team explored in season three. Yeah, it's like about knowing better, doing better. You know, that's like, um, one of the key things of adult thing. It's like, you know, nobody's gonna forgive you, nobody's gonna make excuses

for you. After you pass like your twenties, people are like, she should know better, yeah, and she needs to do better. And there's like after at some point when you when you make mistakes, you need to learn the lessons from those mistakes. And our characters make some decisions and now it's about like watching them not kind of double back. Okay, I was adult thing for us in real life though, because like you like a mogul now celebrities writing like okay,

I thank you. I still make lots of mistakes, but I feel like I know who I am, and that's part of adulting is just like not shifting yourself for somebody else. Like you know, when you come into your own you're just like, this is who I am, and now I need to make that work for me, But do people allow you to grow? Because you know as a kid that we didn't have social media so we

could grow. If we messed up. We messed up, it was overul And now it's like, you know, they'll pull up an old interview you did seven years gonna be like you remember when you said that that's that's really the thing about the Internet, like everything lives forever. And I felt like, yeah, there is a culture just like holding people to a certain time period in their lives, which I feel like it's harmful because you know that social media is so public in terms of like what

you put out out there at the time. And I think about like I used to read articles at the time where people would be like, oh, I complained about my job on Twitter and they got fired, and I'd be like, how stupid? Are you? Right? And then I was going through my old tweets and I did the same. I added my job. I was like, I was like, oh, I'm so tired working blah blah. It was not a museum,

like you just got hired. Date on it, and I was like talking about it and I was like, you know, twenty six and I was like, how stupid, could you. I would never do that now, but there was just something and that you feel like it's contained, like it's a bubble. That's why you got tweets. I was just talking to Reggie about that. And it's good that when you look back on stuff and it makes you feel uncomfortable, because that let you know that you've grown from that.

I trained out a bunch of stuff that I used to say, but that's not have a journal, Like I have a journal where I look back and I'm be like, oh, but yeah, I cleaned the other time. I think it's good to perch thoughts and it's just again, it's so unnatural for people to have access to the thoughts that you had and holds you accountable today when you know

there's no context. Even last time when you again talked about your book and you were like, I wrote that so long ago, and yeah, like now you look at it and you don't even want people to look at that book as who you are now. Yeah, but I also give why people do because if they buy it today, they're like, oh, this is her. But you know, it's

just you don't think about how books. Let's passage from your book, Oh my God, you see why I proposed that black women and Asian men joined forces in love, marriage, and procreation. Educated black women. What better intellectual match for using an Asian man. And I'm not talking about Filipinos. They're like the Neva. Why do you say, y are oh black servasion? Okay, that's black SurVision. Do you still stand by that? Um? It was so interesting like that.

I wasn't even on social media at the time when I came out, while of all people was like, yo, saw you trend in. I thought insecure the trailer drop like and I was like, I'm not even gonna look. And then you know, I started my publicists hit me blah blah blah. You know. I wrote that in two thousand and ten, you know, and that was the context of like Steve har Be coming out and all these news things like black women have no hope, there's no chance,

nobody yes, black man. So satirically, sarcastically, I was like, you know, reading a lot and noticed that there was just an abundance and surplus of um. And then of course it was a joke, but I was like, for this to come up and this is not this is this is what I'm getting dragged for I've never even dated outside my race. So I was like, I say, loyal all my life. I was like, come on back page, like see if I get in me. His like, let me try to see if I can, if I can

get a hit, because this is ridiculous. Dudes are like, I don't even cheat, and I might as well cheat because you think I am. And that also felt like it was just beyond me, Like I was like, this has nothing to do with me. People project a lot and they want you to be this certain thing that they think you are, and as soon as you show a glimpse that they fit what you think they are, They're like, I got it. I knew that. I knew

that bitch. I knew. And then I felt bad too because I was like, you know what, some black people really don't read, like this book was out for so long. Then be more Asian men high at you? No? I mean also I wouldn't know. I no, I wasn't walking down the street. And first of all, also Filipinos, if you take black as an offense, like that's that's not you. Stop all right? We got more with east Ray when we come back, don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good

morning the Breakfast Club, pointing everybody is DJ nd Angela. Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We have Easter Ray in the building insecure us back this weekend. Yee. Okay, so you are living at Daniel's house, right, and so how does that even end up happening in this season because y'all are not together. But she didn't want to

stay with her brother. And there's also something because again based on real events, and no, I never lived with like an X, but I have stayed with one and it was when I when I needed to. But you also just find an excuse of just like being around I want to be around you and I can't explain why, and this opportunity is available and I just really want to explore, but I also don't want to tell you that. And let me just see what's up. So that's how

it happened. So let me make myself vulnerable, let me tell you, let me lay the rules. Because she comes and she says, look, I'm sweeping on the couch. So that's what it starts. That's what it starts. You know, you in the bed, then you wear his T shirt y'all have protected cooking protect you know what I'm saying now, Lawrence, like Dancey, I knew it all along that he was he was in love with him. Who you think has more big energy? What would you say? This is an

excellent question. What are you doing finish? Lawrence? Said Daniel from at the outside. Who has more big energy? Big energy? Between Lawrence and Daniel, I think Duriol does in real life? Are you attracted to big I'll tell y'all, I have a very average shot penis, So I have no idea what that is. Seriously, what is that? What is that? What she said? She say, you got dight? That sounds terrible.

Big ego? You know how you're just walking You're like, you know, you just walk with a certain confidence you have, Like, no for guys, guys, it's a real thing. For women. We could tell the size of you by the way that you carry yourself. Really true, all right, something to say. There's a third non saliance that you have when you're walking, when you when you're carrying, Wow, there is there's just you don't really expect them. I'm not kind of like when you got your gun on you what when you

got your gun. Yeah, congrats on the Ebony magazine covered though incredible. You don't you don't carry yourself like the awkward black girl at all anymore. Thank you for that. I appreciate that. I mean, you never did to me anyway. What I'm saying, I don't see it at all. It's the glow. Yeah, that's the glow up of even Molly glowed up everybody. It's on the actual show. Yes, thank you for being able to date and have options her Ebony magazine cover before we jump back the Insecure. No,

I love it. I love connecting her back to Insecure, and he shout out to vonn Orgy, who's just been you know, sexual rock and sexual talent and sexual forest Like. She's blowing up to yes in every single way, and I can't imagine doing the show with anybody else. She's such a positive light of energy and she she blew up and she got a man now with real life, which is real cute. I'm happy about that for her. Love him, love him. He supports her, which is all

you can for. He gets it. Oh, he saw Insecure for the first time during the well No, he hadn't seen Insecure before they hooked up. And then you know he was at the premiere and you know the first episode is kind of racy. Yeah, it was a lot for him to deal with. Do you still feel like the awkward outsider? Because an outsider, No, because I'm like, I demand to be in and there's so many like of my peers around me where I'm just excited to be amongst them. You know, I don't feel like an outsider.

I just feel like what's next. I feel anxious and I feel so excited to go to do stuff and create the next because you're like, you're you are the party now, Like it's not like he used to say. I used to go to the parties and kind of just like hang out, but now it's like Lisa is one of the lives of the party, not the life of the party. But I throw a good party. I'll still be in the background the party, like looking at people dance like get it, get it, get it. But

you know your red kickbacks lit my little kickbacks. Yes, I'm having another kick Um. I'm having a yacht party soon. I like good party and I had one last year that because I just like randomly tweeted like I want to do yash I had one and just invited a bunch of my friends and that was great. And it was right before the season premiere of two Insecure two, and so this year is just going to be a little bit later because I have no weekends left. But I just want to have fun, Like, what's the point

of doing this? If you can, I'll make your friends. Why do I feel like you talk to your accountant just like that? I want to do yat. I can't feel like somebody but yat now at this point, like, no, I wish if you know anybody that would yeah, all right, you know somebody that let me borry? Yeah, I actually do yeah, Okay, all right, keep a lock with kicking with East Ray some more so don't move. It's to breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy and

Jela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We all the breakfast club on this Friday. We have easta Ray in the building. Ye question for you and real life. Somebody calls up here right for advice and she just gotta a ten year relationship. So she's now dating two guys at once, and now her ex is calling her a home because

she's sleeping with both of them. Now What kind of advice would you give a young lady like that who to be ten year relationship, her ex cheated on her with her best friend, and now she's dating and sleeping with two guys. What would you say? Because she's feeling insecure that her man is calling her, her ex is calling her, horday have kids together? She still has to see him? Why? Why does her ex know that though she went on her um who caresly things? Live your life?

She doesn't like you was your best friend? Don't about you? Move on? He's trashed, That's all I can say. Right, Sorry, kids, Yeah, daddy's trash. Did you hang out with any gang members growing up? We're good? You were talking about Yeah, why do you talking about me? Shorty? That shorty that break the show? You know what I'm saying. She's from the crib, from the brib, you know what I mean? And she you know, so she knows the game coaching, you know what I'm saying. How he's on it? Yeah I am.

And I was like, I mean, I'm neutral. No, I went to school, you know, I went to school in Compton and it was just like a diverse group of black people. And yeah, there were some people that had banged, and you know, it was just like I was like, I was a person that asked you about black people in the hook, like have you ever met a gang member? I didn't met. I said, hang out one of the people that I was in insecure when I had when I knew that I want to see like the blood

walk scene. I went to high school with dude and he was the only person I knew who knew how to blood walk. Like we went to we Dick school one day and went to the homies house and had a party, and I remember mac Ten's do the Damn Thing came on and he was just like, you know, I'm fifteen sixteen, I'm mess minds. I'm like, I've never seen people a blood walk before. And so when I came down to write an episode for someone the blood Walk, I was like, I know exactly what I'm calling on.

Called Brandon and he showed up. I hit him on Facebook like, hey, do you still know how blood walk? And he was like yeah, and came through the gang members getting mad about your depiction the way you depicted him on inssecute. Um, they haven't attacked me like they've attacked Cardian anyway. No, feel like they have not. They haven't complaint, they haven't sent a formal complaint. They haven't

out of me. So I feel okay. And you see why he gave it his stamp, he said, he I just I'm so grateful getting my hopes up right now now I got you just wrapped a movie to her, yes yesterday. Else I'm very hype. I had a little champagne before I came here and just to celebrate because I was like, it just doesn't make sense that I'm going straight from a movie to doing interviews. Movie. It's a movie tak a little It's will Pack a movie that March Steve Martin, who plays nan On Black Is

she picked when she was ten years old. Wow, that's amazing and it's getting made now. We just finished out shooting with Regina Hall, who's my favorite, and she just finished it right. Yeah. And it's based off of Big. It's like, yeah, it's it's totally different, but yeah, the inspiration came from Big. It's like the opposite of Big. Big is one of my favorite movies. Em I used to watch that like every day as a kid. I

still watch it now, right. I wanted that Big piano. Yes, and then I went to the toy store and got to play it. And then now that's a tragedy. And what about this film with that that that's been rumored for so long with Ava and Issa and Rihanna and Peta. Because I'm here and it's happening. That's a discreet saying. That's why told me stop making up stuff. Definitely not in production, you know. But I have another movie coming out. Okay,

it's called The Haitia Gar based off of Angie Thomas's book. Um. It's coming out in October Starry a Man a man Less Stamburg, Stamberg, and it's um. Regina housing that one as well. And I'm basically I've done two movies so far, and Regina's been both of them. So I want to be in every movie she's been. I'm gonna pull up and be like, what are we doing next? Oh, they had a screening for that essence fast. I still haven't seen the movie yet. I know we're doing we're premiering

world premiere will be in Toronto Film Festival. But I know they were there for it. She was on my flight, That's why. Who was talking? No, she was, but listen we know you gotta go. But Insecure is coming out on every single Sunday. They used this Sunday, And I promise you because I already, of course stayed up late to watch the first episode. The screener is so good. It's so exciting. And you're gonna remember when I said the job that she has on there, You're gonna wish

you had that job. It made me really feel like I should try to apply ship you should in real life. And and a sip. We don't. You don't have to worry about anything, right, that's just a little hobby for you. It's a hobby. We mean as where y'all do this? I don't. This is just an excuse for me to drink alcohol and get you know, we got some cases for you right here if you need it. Why don't y'all ever have drinks? And why do I us yesterday ever offer like up front you need, I'm gonna say,

can I take a case? You can take a case? What you guys are so hospitable you should be called the Hospitable Club because that's what all right, dress room, I'm sorry, it's the breakfast club. Thank you morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy angela Ye, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get to the rumors. Let's talk Kanye West. Just oh gosh, it's the report Breakfast Club. Yes, So Kanye West was on with Jimmy Kimmel. Now he hasn't been on that show since they had They're back

and forth via social media. When Jimmy Kimmel actually aired a video making fun of Kanye West, that was back in twenty thirteen, so now he was back on the show. Now. Amongst the things that they discussed, Jimmy Kimmel asked him about, you know, his support of Donald Trump. And here's what, Kanye, you had to say, Everyone around me try to pick my candidate for me, and then told me every time I said I like Trump that I couldn't say it

out loud or my career would be over. I get kicked out the Black community because black we're supposed to have a monolithic thought. We can only like we can only be democrats at all. So even when I said it right before I went to the hospital, when I came out, I had lost my confidence. So I didn't have the confidence to take on the world and the possible backlash, and it took me a year and a half to have the confidence to stand up and put

on the hat. So basically he wanted to support Trump, I guess because he didn't want people to choose who he should support for him. Yeah, Kanye is one of those people that if you want him to do something, you have to tell him the opposite of what it is you want him to do. I don't want him to support Trumps, to say, your supporting Hillary. So I'm basically gonna just supporting Trump. Dude, I'm gonna make decisions based off of trying to go against what everyone else wants.

That's who. That's who he's always been. No, when is Kanye like that though? Does that listen? He's been wrong a lot of times throughout his career. We just was riding with him then, So I'm going to tell him not to eat poop so that he will eat it. He might pop all right now. Jimmy Kimls dumped him with this question when he was talking about his saying that George Bush does not like black people, but how

cony things. Donald Trump isn't the same way. Whether we like his personality or not, his actions are really what what matter. I mean, you so famously and so powerfully said George Bush doesn't care about black people. Makes me wonder what makes you think that Donald Trump does, or any people at all. Why don't we take a break. We'll come back and Kanye West. Let the record show. Charlomagne the God asked him that same question in my two hour long interview with him, and he did the

exact same thing. But people think that I Jimmy Kimill gets credit. It's stepid well you because somebody tweeted me that one person tweeted you that yes, Solid takes is one tweet. It's not about you. Okay, can we talk about this without I'm just saying I asked that man the same exact question. You had the same exactly response. Did you ask him about watching porn? No? I didn't. Not all right, Well, Jimmy Kimmel did well, kind of I like Jimmy Kimmel's interview. Shut up anyway, somehow this

conversation turned to porn hub. Here's what else happened with Jimmy Kimmel and Kanye West. You feel like your attitude towards women has changed since having daughters. Nah, still look at porn hub. What kind of stuff do you look at? What categories? Blacked is my favorite. You don't have to go into that. I mean you can if you want. I mean, what's the point of being Kanye West if you can't. Let's break down a lot of a lot of black on white obviously all right, so black on

white port there you have it. Somebody need to ask him, as you ever watched Kim how are you going to say that? You should have asked him in those two hours and now you get someone needs to ask him? Why not you? Because I don't need that kind of cloud anybody else The than's trying to cloud Chase and you don't want to ask headlines ask him that, right? I don't need it. Okay, I'm good now. Another thing that happened, of course, was Me and Tweets, and this

one was particularly funny. It was a hip hop edition of Me and Tweets and you're here, Remy May, you're here, DJ Khaled check it out. Fifty Center is a moron and needs to be kicked in the ball, said, I don't think anyone deserves to be kicked in the balls under any circumstances. I think that we should take these violent thoughts and place your energy somewhere a little more productive. I feel like remy My physically fights her beats, like

she can't wrap on beat to save her life. Remy may also physically fights people that talk on Twitter like forever, come on, yo, do j called focus on getting you a fat ass and shakee God? Who can't aspire people to be right? When you haven't seen it? Year, I enjoyed a mean tweet segment. I actually think Me and Tweets could be its own show. It definitely could like a nice little I mean, because you know thirty minute shows only twenty minutes. It could be a nice little

twenty minute show on somebody's network. We should do that up here. Yeah, we should steal that from Jimmy Kimmel. First of all, Charlemagne and God has stolen that from Jimmy Kimmel. I do it every week on Breakfast Clubs Twitter page. You do see what I'm saying. I don't know, people I watched Jimmy Kimmel do it when you're steal from the white man. Even when you're steal from the white man the way they steal from us and do what they do, you still don't get credit for it.

All right, Well, Demi Levido has canceled the rest of her tour all because of her trying to make sure she takes care of herself. She was supposed to be performing and going on tour, but she's going to be in treatment for a lengthy period of time, so she's canceled the rest of her tour. You gotta take care of yourself first and foremost. It is what it is like, you know, forget about everything else right now. If you don't take care of yourself, there'll be no fans because

you won't be around. So yeah, and it's just Albut since you're talking about black, white and all of that, the rumors that he might possibly be the next James Bond are getting even closer, according to the producer Barbara Broccoli. They said director Antoine Fuquad revealed the details of a conversation with James Bond producer bbar Broccoli and which he said it is time for a non white actor to

take on that iconic role. Food Quad discuss who might be next in the running, and they're certain the progressive move happened eventually, with it just Elba a front running for that role. Would you be interested. I ain't been saying that for years, I know, but it's a little bit closer now that the producer is talking about it. Well, I will drop one of clues Bond for Idris Elba because the truth to the matter in this is just me and my world, Idris Elba means more to me

than the character of James Bond. So Idris Elba is already an action figure to me. He's already a movie hero to me, way more than James Bond. So I don't give a damn. It was just Elba plays James Bond. Who else you think could play that role? Michael B. Jordan, I got the same body type. Oh my gosh, you might as well just keep it as a white person. I never watched the You do got a white dad body, and you got a white dad bar. I've never watched a James Bond movie and made are you having? I

actually enjoy James Bond movies. All right, I'm Adela Yee And that is your rumor report, all right, thank you, missie Charlemagne. Yes, sir, hell you give it a donkey too. Well. Since we talked about white people so much in the rumor Report, let's let's let's have a little discussion about white privilege in the benefits of white privilege for us all four after the hour. We'll get into that next. Keep a Locktice the breakfast Club, Good morning. I was

born to Donkey. It's the Donkey of the Death Charlemagne Devil breakfast Club. Yes, Donkey here today for Friday, August temp all right, goes to a young woman from my home state of South Carolina named Elizabeth Cutshaw. Dropped on a clues bounce for South Carolina. Damnit okay eight o three eight four three eight six four all day. Now, if Elizabeth was a garbage pale kid, her name would be entitled to Elizabeth. I know you young and just

have no idea what a garbage pale kid is. But Google is your friend, bro, But just know the garbage pale kids represent and represented and still represent the highest levels of trash and in human form. All Right, you had junk food John who was a glutton for all junk foods. You had Sicky Vicky who was always ill boozing, Bruce who was a drunk and entitled to Elizabeth. Would that fit right in? And her name would speak for herself because she represents the entitlement and privilege that she

knows she has as a white woman on this planet. Now, I have no problem with white people using their privilege in America. Zero. I just don't like when white people at clueless to their privilege because we all know that there are societal privileges that benefit white people. And I'm not going back and forth with you Manny's loving Taylor Swift lovers on this. You know it's true. And once again, I don't have a problem with your privilege. Just don't

deny it when I bring it up. Okay. One of the benefits of having white friends is to be able to use their privilege like Starbucks WiFi. All right, let's not act like white privilege can't be used for the greater good of us, all all right. White people's privilege is one of the only things that can stop racism because it takes good white people to tell a racist white people they are wrong and their behavior towards minorities needs to change. That's why I always stress that white

people must use their privilege to combat prejudice. So don't ever think being aware of your privilege as a white person is a bad thing. Just use the privilege you have to do the right thing. Word despike Lee. Now, I actually respect Elizabeth because she's fully aware of her privilege, and when she got pulled over and arrested for speeding and driving drunk, she wasn't using her privilege to help anyone but herself. In fact, she laid all her privileges

out on the table for police to see. Let's go to inside adition for the report. Police a lady pulled over for suspected drunk driving try to novel argument to avoid going to jail. She told the cops she was too pretty. She also said she was smart a cheerleader. Anne went to an accredited university, But instead of dissuading the officer, he says it was just further proof to him that she was intoxicated. I'm a pretty girl. Please to me going there, Lauren Elizabeth Cutshaw begs for mercy

after being pulled over for allegedly speeding. Has to stop sign she's put in the back of a police cruiser. Then she sobs as she rattles off the list of reasons why she doesn't deserve to be placed behind bars. A really good university officer Evan Korean graduated with three point my guys going, he'll get discarded into my college going the organ cheerleader, I mean didn't visit beat the whole life. At the police station, she called herself a

very clean thoroughbred white girl. According to the arrest report, the officer says he asked her what that had to do with anything York. You should know what that means. She allegedly replied, where's my white tears mug when you need it. I'm a very cops, I'm a very clean thoroughbred white girl. Okay, if you had an invaded girl at the end of that statement, I would have thought you was describing a horse. What does very clean thoroughbred white girl even mean? What can a very clean thoroughbred

white girl do make mayonnaise from scratch? Two? Very clean thoroughbred white girls own more pair of leggings and ugboots than other not so clean and pure white girls. Like what in the name of Downtown Abbey is going on here? Anyway? The most telling thing in this audio was when the cop ask her what does that mean? In reference to her saying she's very clean thoroughbred white girl and entitled Elizabeth responded, you're a cop. You know what that means, meaning,

don't act like you don't see my privilege shining. You know what this is. You ignore people of my hue breaking the law all damn day. Why did you stop me for driving drunken speeding when you could be out here profiling black and brown people and drawing your weapons on them just because they're not wearing seatbelts? How dare you not acknowledge my entitlement by asking me? What does that mean? When I tell you I'm a very clean, thoroughbred white girl. Do I have to spell it out

for you, mister officer? W H I T E P R I V I L E g E. I am entitled Elizabeth, and I am a beneficiary of a system that is failing me right now because I am in handcuffs for actually breaking the law. And that is not how this is supposed to work. That's how a white person who knows and acknowledges they have privilege actually thinks. And you know the old saying, drunk person speaks the sober mind, and Elizabeth's case is a drunk person speaks

an entitled mind. Please give it entitle to Elizabeth aka Elizabeth Cutshall the biggest he Hall for the record, Elizabeth, and for the record, Elizabeth got charged with speeding, disregarding and stop signed, simple possession of marijuana, d UI, possession of drug paraphernilia, and she was fired from her job at the real estate agency. Jesus Christ, Elizabeth, your white privilege signal is poor. My god, your white privilege has

a weak signal. Minorities, this is not the kind of white and you want, Okay, get you a white friend whose white privilege signal is strong. All right, all right, all right, well, thank you for that donkey today, Charlomine. Now when we come back, we have passed the A. R. Bernard in the building. We'll kick it with him next. We have not had a man of the cloth here on the Breakfast Club in a long time. In fact, I think the last man of the cloth we had up here was Reverend John Gray with his wife a

couple months ago maybe. So you know, I'm glad that past the Al Bernard is coming this morning because we could use the prayer. We need it. Yes, all right, we'll get into that when we come back. Keep it locked us to Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building past the a au Bernard to be with you all. How are you? I am blessed, I'm blessed,

black and Holly favored. All right, good, Let's start with your departure from the Evangelical Advisory Board, Like, what was your defining moment moment that made you want to step down from that? Well, interestingly enough, we're about to celebrate the first anniversary of Charlottesville. Yes, and that was the turning point for me. You know, I came on the

board because of two things that were presented. Number one, the proposal for an Inner City Initiative agenda and the administration's intent on doing something about the inner city situation in our nation that was part of his campaign promises. And number two, religious liberty. Yeah, you were hopeful this would be positive for you to be able to be involved in the changes that you know, I believe in having a seat at the table, not just for the sake of having a seat at the table, but because

that seat empowers me to speak truth to power. That's the only reason I would go into a situation like that. So after experiencing the campaign year and then the first half of his presidency, in terms of that first year, first half of the first year of his presidency, it was clear to me that the group was simply a photo op. The group was simply a prop you know, to give a certain impression to that political base that

you know, he had the support. And when I saw that it wasn't going anywhere and my efforts weren't going to be effective or efficient in any way, I had to rethink my place there. And then when Charlottesville came, where he drew that false equivalent you know, between both sides, you know, yeah, I mean, you know, white supremacists are equivalent to you know, peaceful protests. You know, that was a problematic and it simply reinforced that this man is

not immoral. He's not moral. He's a moral And when a person's a moral, it means that they don't subscribe to a set of core values or moral influences. So they're transactional. It's based upon the audit of the deal, the moment, and the transaction and winning. So I could not cooperate with an individual like that Pastor John Grade just met with Donald Trump and well, I'm just talking about and I got problems. It was like it was

like wow, lovel with that. Yeah, you know, and I know some of the individuals who were there, and you know, I was disappointed really because I knew what it was about. It was about diversion. It was about distraction, which this president is a master at safety. Say, you wouldn't have gone. No,

I wouldn't have gone. You have more information as far as what it's like to deal with him on that level probably than Yeah, but some of those at the we're also talking about, like Kim Kardashian went and got something done. And I think it's different when someone like Kim Kardashian goes to meet with him as opposed to

when clergy meet with him, especially black clergy. So when we go in there, we have a prophetic responsibility to speak to the issues and we can do that artfully, tactfully, respectfully to the office of the presidency, regardless of how we feel about the person who's occupying that office. And

we have that responsibility to responsibility to do that. Yeah, you gotta Pastor Donnelle Scott in there saying that he's the most pro black president Daryl Daryl Scott, and that's problematic when you think of all the craziest thing I think anybody could possibly say, it's nothing further from the truth. But I'm not surprised. I'm not surprised at all that there would be individuals in that frame of mind positioning themselves in a place of power. You know, this goes

back two hundred years. You know, slaves did that during slavery. So I'm not surprised. It's unfortunate because it sends the wrong message. I just don't like the disruption in the infighting that it causes when somebody from our community goes

to speak to him. And I can't speak very passing in there, but Reverend John Gray is a good man, and he's a good he's a leader of of of men and and women, and I just don't like how everybody's giving him so much flat just because he tried to go in and do what you tried to do. Wait a minute, he brought that flat on himself by the decision that people know, we don't go to cancel him like that, I don't think. But no, I don't think he's canceled and he's a good man. You know.

I love John H. Gray, you know, and and I want to be there for him. But these emerging leaders need mentors. They need seasoned individuals in their lives that they can run a conversation like that, ye before making critical decisions. Even though I've had forty years in ministry, I've been at this and tweno years in the business world, I still call individuals when it's a major decision, all right, that I'm going to make, or if I'm invited to a space that I know can have ramifications, I want

to think through what's going to happen. What will those optics mean. See, so when you go in there and say, well, I'm not the President's boy, I'm not anyone's boy, or I went there for this particular reason, Okay, let's judge the fruit of that. What was the outcome of that? Because when you have the platform and you're sitting right next to the president, all right, and I don't want to you know, hurt John Gray. I want to see

him successful. He's a young emerging leader, and I want to see these individuals continue, you know, the legacy, all right. But at the same time, we've got to be conscious of the weight of the decisions that we make, even if it's taking a picture. We have more with pastor Albinoh, we come back, so don't move. It's to breakfast club, Go Morning Morning. Everybody is dj Envy Angela Yee, Chalomine the guy. We all the breakfast club. We have passed

the Albernard in the building. You even talk about how marriage is different now just because society is different. In my book for Things Women Want From a Man, I talk about people are getting married to find themselves, and that's a problem because we're all born with the identity crisis and the resolution of the identity crisis as thing that carries us to life until we resolve that crisis. So if I'm going to marry you because I'm gonna find myself in you and you're looking for you in me,

all right, we too lost. People are trying to find each other where we're not going to find You have to be and you know, like all those single sisters out there, all right, you got to be complete and whole in your singleness and bring that into a marriage relationship because if you're looking for that man to complete you, you're going to be disappointed. Are we ever really whole? Pastor I feel like being whole seems like profession. We are in a process. Like I said, perfection is impossible

in this fall and human condition that we're in. But it's worth the pursuit because of the person that we become in the process, Because more important in life than what you get is the person you become in the process. And I think probably being whole is different for every person. Like some people might be completely content to be making twenty thousand dollars a year, have three children and settled down and happy and they marry. Some people might feel like, Okay,

I want to travel the world. These are things that for every person, I would think that pursuit of what makes them happy is completely different. Well, you're you'rewing two things, external things and internal things. I think wholeness begins internal. It's the interior life as the place that you find wholeness, and that is basic to all human beings. It begins with resolving the identity crisis. Who am I? Why am I?

Your sense of purpose? That's all interior. I want to I ask you about wholeness because you know you talk about marriaging two whole people. I guess coming together, How do you find it if nobody's completely hold, what are you really looking for? Well, again, the pursuit of wholeness. I think it's important when when when you get married,

it should not be a collision of two histories. It should be a point of confluence where you bring your experience, your gifts, your talents, your abilities, your relationships to bear on this new relationship that brings the two of you together. So it's really becoming incorporated, all right, and then you create a new stream of life and new deposit in that stream along the way, and you create a legacy

behind that. I think that's what it's about, Not like this is going to fix me, but I'm already feeling like I'm a whole person myself, and so now I'm ready for this because I think a lot of times we make mistakes where we think, well, I can change this person to be the person or ask to we get married, then he'll be the person that he should be or I want him to be, and all those things I think for each of us individually have to happen before. I'm glad you're saying it, because you're saying

it just like a woman. Women unfortunately, can tend to feel that marriage is a construction project and they're the general contractor. So you don't marry a man for what you're going to turn him into, what you can make out of his potential. You have to understand that what you see is what you get, and what you better pay attention to is his character because that's really what

you're married, not his knowledge, not his money. Now this looks if you're managing this character, that's what's going to come to support you and strengthen the relationship. Why why is forgiveness important? Pason God has had a breakthrough. I'd never believed in forgiveness, and then I'd actually prayed for a few people that have had an issue over the past couple of weeks and I actually felt better after

I do it. And Pastor Air Bernards, just so you know, we have argued about this because I believe in forgiveness, and he has always said everybody's not worth forgiving. Well, if forgiveness is considered a value judgment of the person's worth, then it goes back to the dignity of the human person stamped with the image of God. Every person is

worth forgiving. Forgiveness is designed to free you. If you fail to forgive someone, then you attach yourself to their sin and you carry it for the rest of your life. And they can go on and forget all about you freely, but you're still carrying that burden. It's more for you actually is for the other person. It's not like I'm forgiving you now you can go to heaven. It's I'm forgiving you so that I don't have the burden of having these feelings about you. Not saying that you forget

what somebody has done. You don't forget because you have to exercise wisdom. You have to know okay, and not that you have to be friends with them. You don't have to be You have to understand, Okay, this person can no longer occupy the space in my life because they're not mature enough. There's no sense of purpose. So I've got to move them out of this space in my life, you know. So forgiveness liberates you, man, It

makes you free. So if I pray for someone and I forgive them, but when something bad happens to them, I say, look at God, not smile a little bit. Am I wrong that you or you're wrong? That's that's retaliation. That is right. You know what you're looking for, and that's intrinsic in human nature, the desire for justice, and you feel that justice is played out if something bad happens to them. See, I do believe in karma. I do believe that when people do things wrong, they bring karma.

But I don't believe I have to do anything. I just feel like if you're that type of person and you do things that are harmful to other people, or you're a malicious person, that malicious things will end up happening, because that's just. But that's still her looking for. Well, look, human nature, we do want justice. We can't lie and say, well care what happened. I'm sure that if something happens to someone that we decided to just let it go. You know, we say m karma. You know, well, look

the scripture says God is not mocked. Whatever in person sows, that's what they're going to reap. That's karma. That's a biblical expression of karma. What goes around comes around. Pat can we end in a prayer? Absolutely, Lord, Thank you for your grace, your favor, your love for all mankind. Thank you for the sense of purpose that you've given to us because we know that You've created each one of us for a purpose. Thank you for love and learning how to love ourselves and learning how to love

each other. Thank you for fulfillment and achievement that we were designed for. And thank you for the platforms such as that that you give us to speak life into a society that is in confusion, that is moving towards chaos. Thank you that there's still hope in the midst of the darkness, that there's light. Thank you for everyone who understands the responsibility that comes with that platform. May they use it well to bring your love, life and light to the world. We pray for all of those out

there that are struggling the challenges. Know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. There is a God and he's very real, and he is there to give his love and grace to you. I pray this all in Christ's name. Amen. Amen, your name is Pastor are Bernard. Thank you for coming my brother. Yes, Sarah's the Breakfast Club, the Breakfast Club Toning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club, and you know I want to say Happy birthday to

Michael Bivens. Today is his fiftieth birthday, So happy birthday. Happy birthday in Boston, it's called Mike biv Derby Park out in Boston. Were supposed to hit out there, but you know, we all have different things to do today. So Happy birthday to Might biv my brother. Salute to the good brother Michael Bivins. Always wanted to play him in a movie, um, but of course I aged out of that role in Yas from Empire, ended up playing him.

And I also want to salute one of our faithful listeners here to the Breakfast Club and based on Salam. I know I'm pronouncing your name wrong, but she's from Eritrea, okay, and she listened to the Breakfast Club every morning. Happy born day to you, but I promised her I would give her a Bond Day shout out for her born day. So Happy Borne Day to you. And it doesn't matter that I'm mispronouncing your name, because you know who you are. All right, Well, let's get to the rubles. Let's talk

Nicki Minaj. This is the Ruba Report with Angela Ye Breakfast Club. All right, Well, it is a big day for Nicki Minas because her album Queen is coming today. Now. I thought she pushed it back to next week, but it looks like it is coming out today, So that's going to be happening at nine am if you're on the West Coast and noon if you're on the East coast. I'm looking forward to it. I cannot wait to listen to it, and I will please please people not rush

the judgment on the album. I hate when y'all do that. I hate when the album comes out at noon and y'all got reviews by twelve thirty. Can we live with it for the weekend? Please? Well? Yeah, she actually had did her Queen Radio and she announced it there. She said she was gonna play the album live there, but somebody messed something up so she wasn't able to do it. So I don't know. But she had a whole listening thing, you say. I saw a lot of people were out there.

Lauren London was there, Cassie, Kelly Rowland, Jennifer Williams, a whole lot of people showed up. Dreya, so you have a listening Matrini played out. I guess it was supposed to happen. I don't know. I don't know, but the first episode of her Queen Radio was on last night on B TO one, so that's where she made that announcement about the album coming out today. And she is

going on tour. Also, let's not forget that in September she'll be on tour with a few and I think six nine is on some of those dates as well. So congratulations to her. Today's a huge day for her. Yes, salute to Nikki. I can't wait to And she's also going to be performing at the MTV VMA's so apparently it's going to be from some great location in New York. Junior's Restaurant is where I heard I'm Gonna tell You

something else too. Um. A smart move for Nikki to get Queen Radio because that way you avoid having to do any interviews with any radio stations, okay, or any podcast you know. Good, start your own radio station, should do your own damn interviews. All right, now, let's talk about Little Kim, because Little Kim recently sat down and did an interview and she was saying that she's tired of questions about Nicki Minaj's Here's what happened. God bless her.

What she did she did, But you know what, God bless her. I wish it the best. I'm passed that. I'm over it. At the end of the day. She did what she did, and until she's ready to be, you know, hopefully God puts it on her mind or whoever else's mind to do the right thing because you know what she did. And once that happens, then you know, hopefully everyone will stop asking me because y'are I mean, listen, man, she got a point. I mean she got she got

a really good point. I mean, little Kim is little Kim. There's a lot of things to talk to little Kim about and do. Little Kim and Nikki even still have an issue that's not like a hot button topic right now. Yeah, you're saying that all that is behind her and you know, wish you well and everything. But you know, they were asking about the album titled Queen and Little Kim was the Queen Bee, so I guess, yeah, But then that's like asking Queen Latifa how she feel about that? Right?

You know what I'm saying, like all black all black women to queens, all women of color of queens. You know. But but if you're just talking about in terms of rap. Queen Latifa's name is actually Queen Latifa. All right, now let's talk about Snoop dog and Tamar Braxton. They are going to be doing a play together. Here's what Snoop Dogg had to say on his social media account about it. But I'm saying, your boy picked Snoop Dogg coming at you with brand news News. I just partner up with

my main man. She carries Johnson on a play that's write y'all, Redemption Up a Dog and it's coming to theaters real. So are you here for it? What is the name of that play? Ain't no fun? That is definitely not the name of the prats, can't have nothing? Absolutely play? What kind of stage play is that? Go listen, I'm here for it. I'm excited about it. I actually remember when Jim Jones had his play No I don't Jim Jones had to play his life. It was really good. Yeah,

I remember that. So the first show is in Houston October fifth, and it runs. Um. It's going to be in all different places to trade Memphis, Atlanta, and Virginia, Brooklyn. Listen. I love stage plays. I love theater because that's when you get to really see how skilled people are because you can't mess up when you on that stage. Ain't no take, ain't no retakes. Maybe, but if you do mess up, you gotta just keep flowing and going with

it like act like it's nothing happened. And people in the audience shouldn't even be able to tell like you might think you messed up with. People who are actually watching should feel like, oh, it's supposed to be like that. All right, Well I'm anti la Yee and that is your rumor report. All right, thank you, miss ye. Now let's get into the people's choice makes you want to hear something at DJ Envy. I'm gonna start the mix off with poise and again, Happy birthday to my brother

Michael Bivens. Like I said, he's opening up his park today. He's having games all day, surprises all day. So get down there to the park. It's Michael biv Derby Park, Mike bib We love you, and it's the Breakfast Local Morning