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they're you know, they're listening to the Breakfast Bus. Get your ass, wake up, wake up, Wake y'all as your time to get it off your chat, your man or blass. We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Good morning comedy buddy, and oh man, what's up snack Man our local comedian? How you doing all right? All right? I got let me let me try, let me run two, Let me run two by you, okay, let me know what you all right? Two jokes and begin Okay. At my job, I had to spend twenty

five minutes getting to work with Eloy the indoor robot. Okay, but I think there should be a twenty five minute video on how to work to snack manut up, thank you? Why he had two jokes, Envy, I didn't hit either one here, how do you do that? Okay, come on stat man, and he's gonna love this one. I decided to steal my new card and that's not the best part. My new car has a backup camera. So on my last date, while we were in the park, I decided to put the car in reverse, get out, and do

my stand up routine behind it. Thank you all right, Emmy, that one was for you. Thank you. SNA send snack healing energy, sending his comedy career healing energy. He's trashed for real like bad bads, send them healing energy NV. Hello. Who's this? Oh? My name a Bert of Hey, good morning, Oh my god, I'm gonna hi guys. I've been doing them like I trying to take them. You made it ja? How old are you? Thirty three? Oh? Okay, well, I know right, it sound like I'm like fourteen. I know.

I just love y'all. I just feel like y'all st like I'm trying to fresh rate it. So they got my babies going back to school, their sticks and pay like they can't get back to me. Yeah, it's scary when my kids, my kids went back. I mean, the kids are all wearing masks now and they're comfortable with the mask, which is which is pretty good. And my kids when they leave a house they got their mask on. They're so nervous, but it's one of the things you just gotta pray, tell them to wear their mask and

wash their hands every chance they get. You ain't. Oh my god, I'm not. I love y'all, love you back. Hello? Who's this every one? Jason good b oh Man? Well, I just got a house felt be in ten years. We closed from the house, um earlier this year, only for her cheat on me a month later. Oh I'm sorry. Yeah, Um. We got two kids, two dogs. Um. Now the question is what do I do next? Oh man? And the house is in both of your names, correct, yeah, yeah,

And there's no working it out. I mean there is, because I truly do you love her, But it just seems like there's that tension now and and everything's just meeting to an argument and it's not saying yeah, sorry for you, bro. Yeah, you gotta just take your time with that one until you see what's gonna happen. But it is harder now that two guys have a house that Jill have like a pre nupper or anything. Oh, you're not married? Yeah? And she apologetic? Is she trying

to work it out? Or is she just like effic she is? Um? But I mean, I don't know if it's me and my insecurity where you know, it seems like those fread flags year and yet there and now it's just it's it's hard because I happened to hear one um and we got through, we got passed, and then along your ten and it happened to get Oh, it sounds like she's a habitual cheater. Is there a way that you can buy her out of her part that she put down for the house? I'm so all

about it, But I mean it's it's the kids. I mean, we got two kids, and then I would essentially lose everything in the house for kids. I worked a lot. She did she take the kids? Yeah? All right, Well I'm sorry, bro. Yeah, just keep right. Yeah, that's all. You ain't got no choice, brother. The world keeps moving, and it's okay to feel however you feel. I know it's not an easy thing to deal with, all right, all right? Brother? Hello, who's this? Hey? This is a

trailer from Columbus High. Good morning, man, what's up? Broke it off your chest? Well, I'm calling this plander, y'all because a lot of else Flanders is what Angela e. You gotta quit being cheap and just pay for your leader. Every time you don't get good and talk about some stuff, your phone go off because you don't pay for your meter. For your meter. Well, I am paying for my meter. That's why the that's why the phone goes off, because it has certain times that you gotta pay for it.

So as soon as it starts as either eight o'clock or nine o'clock, my phone goes off to remind me. So I don't forget. There's parking lots all around this place. You could park in a parking lot. It's actually really far and it's too early in the morning. There used to be a parking lot right across the street and it closed, so now the other ones at fire. It's kind of dark in the morning to walk here, So I don't want to park like three blocks away and

then walk here in the dark. I understand. I understand. And Charlemagne, man, you gotta question. You gotta question the N words so much, and you gotta come to work on time. You were doing good for a while, but you gotta come to work on time. I feel you, brother, I'm trying. I'm just doing my best, but get it off your chests. Eight five eight five one on five one. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. It's your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're

man or blast. So you better have the same and we want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hellow who's this? Hey, it was going on. My name is James. James. What I'm getting off your chest? Just found out my daughter is in mind biologically, and I'm going through a lot of emotions right now. How old she had a homeboy that happened to back in the day? Man, how old is she? Yeah, she'll be turning a couple of weeks. Well, I'm gonna tell you something. There's no

getting out of her life now. I know that sounds crazy, but it's true. Like I had a homeboy that happened too. But once you have that emotional spiritual connection with a child, like you know you're not you're not you can't turn that off. Yeah, most definitely not. That's always my baby girl. What made what made you get tested? Well? I didn't have the resources before because on child support going back and forth, but my daughter's mom. But I got a new job, so I was able to scramp up the

money and actually do this time. Well, I'm sending you healing energy, King, and just remember that's not that child's fault. Man. And you know you gotta look at it from on a different angle. You know, you're the person that God putting her life to raise them and be her father figure. You know what I name. I didn't even think about it like that. But you don't gotta pay child support no more. You can just raise and pay what you want to pay. Correct. I don't know, Nah, I think

according to New York State, I got to them. Yeah, I think you still have to pay. Yeah, but I think honestly, man ten years old, you've been with that young lady ten years, you probably want to you know, you might not want to pay the mother though, you might just want to take care of his daughter exactly. It's a weird law though, that even though you find out a child's not yours, you've been raising her as if she is yours, and then you still have to

continue to pay child support. Yeah, what was her biological father king, no clue. See, that's that's my point. That's why I say, you know, God put you in that young lady's for a reason. Man, So yeah, agree, should that position down? He shouldn't have to pay y'all support though, Yeah, I shouldn't, not, not at all. I'm looking into lawyers now so I can try and tempare in this situation. I'll always be there for her, but I don't want

to supbout her mother. Absolutely agree with you too, brother, I get it all right, man, have a good one, man, God bless your brother. All right. Hello, who's this? Hello? I just want to say, he said, blood, Good morning everybody, john Stone? What was happening? Brother? What's up? Charlotte made a guard? What's up? Angela? You don't never speak? But what's up? Speak? Hey? I just want to shout out my four real quick. He just came out with a

new project. His name is patient Steve on the score, he's patient obviously follow him on by h A, I C I A M Steve spe v E underscore and uh what I want to sell y'all? The story? So coming off the train and woof Ridge and I come off the train and I see a black dude on the platform, I say, what's up? I give him the head nod, like when black people see each other, we give each other at the head nods. Right, Harry, you gave me the head nod and start smiling at me, crazy,

what's my dad? No? But it was a crazy smile. It was like like, hey, like I want hollyge smile. Listen, Shan Starting, don't get down that way? Man, are you Sean Stone? Why can't you just take it as a COMPI why are you furrntee yourself as Shan Stone? Or that? I listen. But the matter of fact is I went down to when I look behind me, this dude it's following me. So I said, hey, why are you following me? Man? He was like no and then ran back up stairs

and how long the traine crazy? I mean, you shouldn't be winking that. Brothers on the train for the platform, y, I didn't win. I say, what's up? I head now, head nod. That's not a wink, Brokat's just just be fladdered. Yeah, just be flattered. It ain't was cute, all right, Get into a few chances eight hundred five A five one on five one if you need to be here and something now with the Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast Club on. Everybody is DJ MG and Ngelu yee Charlomagne,

Ni guy. We all to Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building. Yes, sir, Yo know Yolo. I don't know why I thought you was heavy set, man, I didn't. I did hit. I saw pictures of you and video back in the I don't know why I thought you was heavy. Said you lean down to some of you just never that big. No. I We're good to meet you. Yeah, and congratulations, man, you've been doing so many great things. So the pandemic has been good for you though, right like man, yeah, yeah, like it's

been great for me. I ain't. I can't playing really, I'm telling me about this the other day. Sometimes people be feeling bad that like things went well for them. Yeah, yeah, I can't realize. You know, I can't really celebrate something like that. But you know, you know, it's a blessing.

It's a blessing for sure, to keep getting money through everything going on, what you're suffering from, like survivor's survivor's remorse kind of, I mean not really, it's just that, you know, I just know what ill went on, you know, throughout throughout that time. It's just like it was really about like my financial game for real, Like too many people hurting too meet. I get it. I get it for people who don't know. Let's let's let's break down

how Young Blue got into the industry. A lot of people heard you the first time when you when you're record with Drake, So how did you get in the industry? How did you hook up with Bootsey and and explain that whole story. I got into industry like, you know, just dropping mixtapes like I was underground for a long time, or I had this Investments Investments mixtape. I was just dropping doing shows like just throughout the software, like you know,

everybody from the soft really start. I was like in the Mississippi North, in the Carolina Fiebe. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, like chilling circuit. And around the time I've dropped the Volume three, I had made Boots he had flew me out to his house, and uh, I really just took it from there for real. One of your mixtapes was like, yeah, this young man let me fly them out now? Really his uh, like I had hit up his brother. Uh I knew Booster gonna c

d M. So I had hit up his brother smart. Yeah, and I just sent him a song and he was like, man, got me on the phone with Booster and uh So it's basically like it brought to put it together. Really, you signed a boosty Yeah, yeah, I didn't know that. I found that out about a month ago. Yeah. We do. We we been as part of us. We do bets together. You gave him some money or something, right then you give him like a big stack. Yeah, I gave him some of them. I gave him playing that just the

first time idea camera. Yeah, why did you do that? Like I mean, I mean just had of appreciation, but really because that was the first time I had a game him that much at one time. So I don't know if I just already eating off you anyway, You're already eating off you anyway. Yeah. Now, you've been doing music for a while, since you were young, So what were you doing financially, like to keep yourself afloat until

things really popped off? Uh Man, To be honest, but like a lot of people don't know, I've really been rich since like twenty sixteen, Like you know what I'm saying, because I've just been doing shows so long, like I've been popping on the underground scene for so long that you know that I've been been had money like that, I'm like kind of way ahead, like you know what I'm saying, So I don't even remember, like what what was? Like what do you call rich when you say rich?

I had already had made a million lots of shows like in twenty seventeen. Okay, you know what I'm saying, because I was just you know what I'm saying, just doing so many shows. I'm so glad you said shows because most artists be like I've been having money, I've been rich. I was big time such as Touch doing it knock it off. But you built your own house early on. And you know, most most artist and rappers you don't see that. You know, they go to jewelry route,

the car route, the private jet route. And I went through that stage. I went through that stage. I feel like everybody gonna you're gonna once you blow up everything you saw when you was coming up, You're gonna try to go get that just because it's like I ain't never had I always wanted this. I'm gonna you're gonna go through that list stage where it's just like, yeah, I'm gonna go get all this stuff that I always

wish I had. You know what I'm saying. But if you're smart, once you once you do it, you know what I'm saying, you don't know when to stop. Some people don't know when to stop. They're just gonna keep doing to keep doing, keep doing it. And then you know what I'm saying, Yeah, you opened the restaurant also, right,

I did that like a couple of years ago. Yeah, and then I had opened it for like three months and then COVID hid and just missing mess it up for real and they really I really just did it to have something my city because he't really a lot of profit and it's like probably like list than ten percent profit and the rest of his life stealing man like it be. You're so right when you open the restaurant, you really got to keep your eyes on everything and you have to have an amazing manager because it is

too easy for people to steal. Myself, is it back open or No? I had like hired like all my family, all my friends. It was you will make it. No, matter an't even you know, I tried to, you know what I'm saying. I had did the little Peppe thing and Burke I had got a hundred thousand back. I put it about the work man. Later I was like, I should have kept you pay back. You didn't have to because you gotta use it for your employees. I don't want to say, I don't want to see that

much shot blue, like damn Blue, I ain't. I ain't paying it back yet. But I didn't have to though. It was like whatever. It was like, you didn't have too if it went to your business with your employee. Yeah, yeah, my so mine actually went to my employees because it was your mother's best friend though who named the resta right after explain that relationship, Like, I'm really close with my friend Mom, like ever since we was like real little. I used to get put out of the house, like

being bad in the streets and stuff. I used to go to the house, you know what I'm saying. They used to work for me open, so they just like they mom just like my people, like we just all like family. So you know, she always used to cook, she us feed us when we were hunger, Like you know what I'm saying. So I just felt he was on the right. Like my mom donna cook. You know, she don't really cook like that. So uh, it was just why would she put you out the house? What

were you doing? I was just like when I was like young, I was just like, you know what I'm saying, just badges in the streets, real real badge. So I just do crazy stuff, like you know, just some normal, normal look crazy stuff. We have more with the autist Young Blue. When we come back, don't move. It's to breakfast Club. Good morning, the breakfast club holding everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Scharlomagne, the guy we are the

Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Young Blue. Ye your girl want to go on a girl's tip of her friends? Yeah, okay, are you the type of person to be like, all right, I got you? Like you and your girls go somewhere. I think that's what she go on the girl's trip once every six months or something. You know what I'm saying. My life is a ball chill. I got a week, I got a lady. You know what I say. I got you know what I'm saying, And everywhere everywhere I go, going to release parties. I'm

going to everywhere. I'm going just fine women around you know what I'm saying, So you'll be fine. Black men don't cheat. Yeah, And how long how long have you been together? How you've been together? You've been together six years? You got two kids? Two kids together? Huh yeah, we got two kids. Does it feel good to have somebody that you know, been down with you since before all that stuff? Yeah? Yeah, I definitely, I definitely feel good.

Like I cherished that, like I really cherished, like you know what I'm saying, the relationship because a lot of a lot of the other stuff just fake. You know what I'm saying, It's really just just fake, Like these people don't really care about you, like you you gonna get locked up right now, like your girl gonna be first one now with rich kids. You know what I'm saying. For the bill you are, you know what I'm saying.

A lot of the other girls ain't even they just but like I said, it's just it's just be temptation. Like dudes, like I really don't feel like I really go all the way back to the Bible, but like you know what I'm saying, do you tell about eight. I feel like it's human instinct, man instinct to just be out of blue. Though we left this house already, we still Oh my god, I really ain't making it

worst because blue be white. No, I'm saying it's just me and like me and instinct like its just mean, it's put into me and to be like if you got I don't got the men things I'm gonna talk about it. I used to have those instincts way way way way way back when well he's a lot younger. I feel like if you should had a lot to yourself, then I feel like you making it worse, like man my girl and not already talked about all this man my life to talk about y'all do three now? We don't.

We don't, we don't. So you was mad atory for doing your song a while ago? Yeah, why was you madatory for that reason? Like you know, when we talked about on that, he was like, they're green. I was like, I don't get it because I come from the mixtape game with rappers somebody's song on be singing to somebody's song, and that's what they did and it was on the But you was mad about it. Why was you mad about that At the time, I just felt like I had I had saw him like a couple of times

before that, and he never said nothing to me. So I felt like in my head, I felt like he didn't even know me. So when I heard the song, I'm like, you just you just saw him. At least you could have been like, you know what I'm saying. I met with the song, like I felt I took it as disrespect, you know what I'm saying. It wasn't that he remixed the song or that it was better than well, you know what. He didn't even say. Yeah, I just wanted. I just wanted. We were talking crazy

to each other through texts. We were in Miami. He was like, man, I was like, man, pull up. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, like the fight, I'm like, pull up, you know what I'm saying, And he like pull up. I'm like he was like, he was like where you wait. I'm like, I'm sitting on my location. You know what I'm saying, la la, So I'm waiting for him. Pull up. He like, man, pull up, pull up to my house. I know, bro. We both just in a moment like don't want to bang down, you

know what? I'm saying, and so I pull up. We dap it up, hit homeball with him, my homeball with me. We just go scrape to making music. You're like, man, I feel he ain't even like he ain't really even like trying to be like you were tripping for really like, man, I feel man, he was like laughing about it for real, all that tough talk of a text. Maybe you read it wrong, you know how it could be like pull up or it could be like pull up. Yeah, we

were definite. We were definitely going back and forth. We just started started off like that, and then I guess I ain't really know what I'm gonna have a real I just pulled up because I ain't want him, you know what I'm saying, just like I was, you know what I'm saying, No a sucker. Yeah, Like it's the breakfast club. Good morning, So breakfast club, your morning's will never be the same. Hey what up? Y'allas dj MV Charlaman.

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We are the breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us, we're talking about Sawheedie. This conversation came from Saweetie. She posted a video of her eating spaghetti and putting ranch dressing a lot of ranch dressing on her spaghetti. Ranch with spaghetti saw us taste very good, but you just need to da have a ranch like her boyfriend said. Okay, she put way too much ranch dressing on that spaghetti directly. I've never putting it on directly. I have a little

side salad, have ranch dressing on the side salad. As I'm eating, I'm mixing the spaghetti up with the salad at the same time. And it does taste good. Sounds she just put way too much on that. Now behind the scenes, I don't know if you do this too, Yea. They talk about they take French fries, get a frosty from Windy. Nope, no, no, no, you just don't want

any French fries. You get the fries from Windy and you get the biggest, the milkshake, the thick ass what's it called it called the frosty, That's what I said. And you dipped the fries in the frosty. Oh my god, that that sounds really nasty to me. Like my fries, so I cannot imagine them and something cold. Look at my grandma, God blest it. My grandma used to love to go to Windy, choose to like Windy's hot fries. And I don't even know how I even started doing that,

but I'm telling you. You dipped them fries into that that frosty. Oh my god. I don't even like cold ketchup on my fries. My ketchup got to be room temperature. And I'm from I'm from Monks Corner, South Carolina, so I like ketchup on my grips. You ever did that? Yeah, I'm gonna tell you one thing, one thing I was really into for a minute. I was making these sandwiches every morning. Were not every morning, but every day. It was spicy mustard, cheddar cheese and green apple sandwiches. That

sounds disgusting into this. I can't believe y'all don't put catch up on your grid. So you ain't even put catch up on your grids. Well, I'm gonna catch up love like that. Hello, who's this? Good morning? And apple from Columbus so high? How are you apples that popular? Apples are popular this morning? So what's the weird thing you do with your food? First of all, I'm half to tire and hot sos, cheese and branch for loans. Forget period. There's no questions ask about that. How much ranch? Though?

Should we put a little too much on this? No, that's how I'm gonna eat it, exactly how she did it. But I asked you the hot so wow thing I do would be on salmon patties. I'll put ketch up the syrup on salmon, put up and catch up definitely, though Salman on salma patties, Talma patties, I put ketch No, I never served, I've done. I've definitely done catch up on the salmon patties, not sirve, that's both sounds discussions. So you're mixing life. Try it. I said, I was right.

You couldn't say though, to try try it, Yount say, I don't like it. Hey, I'm gonna tell you something to you take them sam patties with some grits and put that ketchup on the Lord have mercy, right, all right, I'm gonna try. Thank you. Mama, got my goddamn mouth water. Hello? Who's this? What's up? Bro? We're talking about some some weir those stuff you do with your food. Man. I eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich with showy jelly, bail egg. Cut the egg up, the ball egg up

here on the sandwich. You're eating the peanut butter, jelly and egg sandwich, your bold egg sandwich. Gotta be bored and cut it up. That might sound if for some reason, I feel like that would take good scramble No it dog, Uh no it doesn't. Yeah, you can put eggs on top of the burglar. You ain't got time. Yeah, sometimes it might be better with scrambled I never thought about that. Yeah, the eggs and listen, by the way, egg sandwiches be hitting,

But you got to toast the bread. Toast the bread with some scrambled eggs lightly lightly didn't feel like the white bag on it. That was the whole thing on the poll. Yeah yeah, I'm with you now, I'm with you all right, thank you brother. I know my cousin used to eat catch I'm saying with just like he liked catch up and bread like that was his one cousin. I hope your cousin got out of poverty. Man, that's what That's what he liked that used to catch it.

Good morning, How y'all doing this? Kid? Jay? Dad? Hey? Shot the man? My man? Hey this this They ain't hey, ain't man hey? If he don't be man man, you're my guy. Man. But I just wanted to say spaghetti and ranch man shot maybe on the same plage any time. Man's cultural, man, that is good. It is many And if you don't they say some things it don't be cultural, like y'all don't do y'all eat anything that's like like I like, I eat ships and I grew up down shot used to cook it and I hated don't wait

but you ain't dad, I don't know. I don't know how you black or they don't like well, if you don't even like spaghetti, I don't like ranch. I don't listen the only time I've ever tried any other is when I'm on diet and they got that balsamic vinegarrette tone the diet yet, But I don't do I like spaghetti if no, no, no, Norman, no nothing nothing with red sauce. I'm gonna be onng with you. I don't know.

And did not eat spaghetti? Spaghetti? Was you meal that your mama would make when she didn't feel like cooking? He doesn't like the red sauce, so I mean for me it was kraft matter you don't like, you just boiled. My mom made that fast when when when when you talk about a quick meal, my mom made that and then we had lunch of me that was a quick meal and not like shaghetti. Just just to clarify. And but you do eat spaghetti, you just don't eat the red suce. Yeah, I don't like the red sauce. So

were I ify? Not wrong though, because you're in good shape. But I learned how the people that eat the red chapter they give him a heart bird too. I ain't got no hard, but I just don't like red sauce. It's worth the hard. Let me let me share my combination real quick, great damn and cheese, rape him and cheese that it ain't bad, because that's like when you go to the white people places, they had that on the plate. It'd be like the grace of Ham is disgusting.

The cheese Ham is good. Ham is good. It's the other white man turkey. I don't know, thank you, it's it's on a good top of y'all. Man. I appreciate that. Man, I appreciate you. All right, what's the moral of the story and the moral of the stories? Just be happy you eating? All right? Okay, everybody, just be happy you eating because if you got you know, you can put together all these weird combinations you're doing okay in life. And I just want to put this out there, intimates, y'all.

Don't make Danish rink anymore. Like, oh, you know what I used to do when I used to be like like high all the time, really wild, And when I was young, I would go to the Scotchman and I would get a honey bun and I take like a Snickers and put it on top of a honey bun and then put it in the microwave for like thirty seconds and then eat it like a hot dog. Oh

my God, that was so good. That's why you ain't got no head that probably that whatever that kind of put together for all of y'all out that I ain't afraid of a little sugar, and you try it, get a honey, put his niggers on it, warm it up for like thirty seconds, and eat it like a hot dog. When you high, and watch what happened? You turn fat automatically. All right. We got more coming up next with a breakfast club, The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,

Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest joining us right now. Yes, Jason Wilson. He's the found in CEO of Union. Okay, Jason has over fourteen years of experience, you know, training and developing young black men. You've probably seen his videos on Instagram where he teaches, you know, young black men how to deal with their trauma through martial arts. He's got two great books, out Cry Like a Man in

Battle Cry. You've probably heard him on the Joe Rogan Podcast. You've seen him on CNN Doctor Oz. He's spoken My Mental Wealth Expotus past Sunday, and now he's on the Breakfast Club. Mister Jason Wilson, Good morning brother, Good morning, my brother. How are you all as well? Man? I love New York. Love walking early in the morning here, especially late at night. Give me time to really reflect and release things that I need to let go of. You wrote a couple of books, Cry Like a Man

and now Battle Cry. Why is crying such a theme? It was imperative for me that I learned how because my life well, I was self destructive, pretty much about to lose my marriage and my family, and I didn't know how to not only express them, but to even process what I was feeling. So I was only taught to express it through either fighting or really suppressing it. And as a result, Man, I lost it one day, Man and demons will be yelled at my wife in the kitchen, hit a hole in my refrigerator, and I

just I had to make a change. And when I saw my wife, I saw her go from trusting me and loving me to her whole spirit was torn down in front of me. And at that very moment, I realized I had a problem, and that problem was I wasn't a comprehensive man. I was just a masculine male and I needed to learn how to express the gamut

of emotions that God has given me. You know, more so than just being strong, a protector and provider, I needed to express being a nurturer, express spring, compassionate, loving, long suffering. You know, when Kobe Bryant died in that helicopter accident with Gianna and nine others, we didn't see a lot of pictures of him playing basketball. We saw him operating as a nurturer. And then a hashtag girl

dad went viral through what men? But over a million, one point two million men posted pictures of themselves loving their daughters. And so we've always been nurturists, but we've allowed society to define us as men just by one adjective, which is masculinity. But we're more than masculine. Can we talk about your background a little because this is our first time meeting. So I know that you have this youth organization in Detroit, Union, but I want to talk

about you and how you started doing this work. Yes, well I started actually was a popular DJA and Detroit and actually did a few concerts with Public Enemy. I was in a rap group called Chaos a Maestro. So the Union nonprofit started as a record label, and so we were used as a Christian. I would use the music to counter what at the current time, what we would call like gangster hip hop, and I saw the negative impact that was having on youth, and so we

created music to counter it. But we realized quickly that once the music stopped, they still had to deal with the trauma. And so we're like wall, we need to stay in their lives. We need to get into schools. More so, we went after our nonprofit status and in two thousand and seven we received our first grant for mentoring through the government and we haven't looked back since.

And currently we've reached over fifteen thousand youth and young adults in Detroit and we just purchased a fifteen thousand square foot building due to the demand of the Cave of Adullum, which is the Transformational Training Academy where I used martial arts to help young boys navigate through their emotions instead of succumbing to them. When did you get into martial arts? It was that a way of channeling

like anger. Yeah, So it was interesting when my good friend she was shot and killed when I was in the eighth grade and we didn't have grief counsels or anyone come to our school, and I didn't know how to process what I was feeling. So I gravitated toward ni jitsu. At the time I was twelve years old. But then I quickly realized if I only process my anger by hitting things, whenever that anger rise, I start

hitting things and hitting people. And so from that day on, because I have my father around, he was in the same city but wasn't in my life, I saw the Sinsey as a father figure, and I longed to have that affirmation and teach me how to be a man. And it helped me with some processing some of the training combat communication, which I talk about in battlecry and fighting. If we're getting ready to fight, I'm downloading all of your moves, your anger. If you move on my jab

or my kick, I'm seeing how your defense is. I use that in communication with my wife, I try to read the room. How is she feeling to day? Is this a good time for me to share with her how all of my emotions? Would it overload her? And so instead of sometimes when you become emotionally free, when you break free from emotional incarceration, we can come home and unload too much on someone who already had a heavy day. And so I've learned to use combat communication

to excuse me, Read my wife, Read my son. You know he's quiet today, what's going on with you? Instead of yelling at him. Now, I want to ask you about for women who are dealing with a man who may be experiencing trauma or doesn't identify ways that he can improve his own communication. What advice do you have for women that have to deal with that. My wife a lot of people ask her that because it was

all new for us, you know. And so the first thing I would say is that we as men, we not only have to unlearn what we've been conditioned to believe a man is, but also our women. And we have to give our wives and our women the grace and the space needed to do so, because you've been also programmed to see a man in a certain way. My wife had never seen a man crying to me, you know. And so that's Number one, is to unlearn

what you've been taught to believe. Number two, never impassively dismiss your husband or your significant others when he comes to you. He's trying to open up, he's trying to become comprehensive and whold the worst thing a woman could do is shut him down or I'm busy. Can I come back to that when you see that door opening, like okay, cool, He's allowing me access to that heart. And then lastly is to listen without expectation. That's what she would saying. She says, listen to your husband's or

your significant other's heart like it's your girlfriend. Be slow to speak, quick to listen. But I said, you also need to know how to allow your wife to help you through that process. Can you break down what is emotional incarceration? It is a self imposed imprisonment, a mental prison that a man confines his non masculine emotions and his true heart from the world to keep him from

hurting others and even himself. And what's interesting about emotional incarceration and we all as men, we can admit this. There is no door keeping us locked in. We choose to stay in there. And because we have to face or acknow knowledge feelings or traumas or emotional pain that we don't feel comfortable with, we choose to stay in there. And a lot of good men are tired of being bad guys even myself. Man, I ever suppressed all of my emotions, you know, And because that's what I was taught.

And because of that, I didn't even they not only know how to love my wife or my children, bro, I didn't know how to love myself. And that self hate caused me not to really be available for my wife. And as I share at the Mental Wealth Expo, she had five miscarriages and I was checked out. I didn't know how to express the hurt or anything. To this day, it bothers me. We should say we had five miscarriages. No, I say she had and I should have been there,

but I was emotionally checked out. But now it's truly a blessing to be able to drop my guard with the woman who really holds my heart with care. All right, we got more with Jason Wilson. When we come back, Dute move, it's to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy we are the Breakfast Club. We're still talking with Jason Wilson. Charlemagne.

The things you say in regards of your wife was so relatable and it's the same reason I got myself together too, because you know, I didn't want to be like my pops. And you know, I saw the pain my pops called my mom, you know what I mean? And I saw how you know, them getting divorce affected the family. So why are so many men just comfortable with saying, you know what, Yeah, I'm married, but I'm gonna still cheating. I'm still have a whole other family

out here. Another girl like, why is that okay? You think that something's it's affeckless attempt for affirmation. And so you know, again we taught you know, masculinity as well being a man that's having multiple women. My father told me I was going to him proud, saying, hey, Dad, I'm about to engage to Nicole. He said, why in the hell you want to do that? When I come front of my dad about cheating my mom, my dad said, oh,

you only got one girlfriend? If it one day're gonna understand. Hey, And I told my dad, I told him, I said, I don't want to end up like you broke. You're still having to cut hair, Dad in your sixties, because you've had three marriages that failed because you didn't have any sexual self control. But when I allowed my father developed Parkinson's. I finally was able to get a relationship

with him because he couldn't go anywhere. So when we finally sat and talked, he shared with me the pain of growing up and feeling lacking in so many areas he was called to preach. He told, guy, there's nowhere on earth I'm gonna do that because he came up in the sixties when the cops cracked down on the pimps in Detroit, many him became pastors, So he said, the last thing I'm gonna do is be one of

these guys. But because of that, he never really knew how to express what he was going through and what he felt. And that's why sharing battle cry too. As where we are now as men, we got to go back and reach and help our fathers learn how to process what they're dealing with. So you got to think my grandfather, not my great grandfather, a great great grandfather.

My grandfather was lynched, beating and lynched, and then after his lynching, my mother's family was terrorized by the police to ensure that none of them whatever feel like they're equal to white people. In Fort Pierce, Florida, I saw that trauma transferred throughout generation, throughout generation, and until I allowed my dad that freedom to be human, I didn't hear him say he loved me until thirty seven years of age. I told my dad, and it didn't make

sense to me at the time. He's landing his bed, and the Holy Spirit told me, he says, tell your father, thank him for being a great dad. That doesn't make sense to me, But what my father needed was affirmation. So I leanked over to him while he was landing his bed and I said, I said, Dad, I said, thank you for being a great dad. So I was walking out and I heard him like getting heavy in his breath, and I turned around and I saw the strongest man in my life crying. He finally had a

release and this is this tough one. So I went back over to him. I held his hands and I kissed him on his forehead, and he wouldn't let me go, and he says, son, he says, I love you. And that there it removes so many shackles off of me. And it freed me to really live from my heart instead of my fears, instead of trying to live up

to this limited definition of what a man is. Now I can be a comprehensive man, which is a man who is courageous but also compassionate, strong but sensitive, a man who can boldly but freely live from his heart instead of his fears. How important is it for men to give other men positive affirmations? Because you know, I thought about this after the Mental Wealth Export, because a lot of stuff came up for me when we was on the panel having a conversation. That's why that's why

the tids came. Because it's like, just listening to you tell me, oh, I'm proud of you, YadA YadA, I'm like, damn you i't. I didn't get that the way I wanted to growing up from my father. So even just hearing it from another black man at your respect is like whoa, it gets you emotional or whether we realize that or not, we do that all the time. That's why we gonna get the cars flacause we want other men to give us affirmation. Yeah, it's like it's effectless

attempt for affirmation. Even with women. You know, it's like we call you trophy wives and all this other foolishness you would create. You're not meant to be objects. You know what I'm saying. It. But it's when we objectify women that a lot. When I saw that evil, that's what allowed me to break free from pornography because again, to have this right in front of you, where you feel you can have control over the most beautiful woman in the world. I didn't know how to really give

a woman my heart. But when I allowed myself to be free, I started cherishing women for who they are, even their superior qualities, not that equal qualities. Because my wife runs our nonprofit. If it wasn't for her, I look at the stuff we do now, that's because I allowed my wife to operate in the fullness of who she is. Right, I don't need you to be just at home with my children. God has created you to lead this organization, this ministry, and then eventually I hope

she gets her own health center. The goal for us to even be healed, brother, and I was sharing this at the expol for us to heal this black men. I want us to heal so we can finally decrease what's going on the side of us, so that our sisters can finally unload the weight and emotional pain that they've been in doing for decades. Now as far as affirmation. It's so important, especially with our boys. You know. I remember I had one kid. When I piloted the Cave

of Adullam. The principle introduced me to this young man by all negative descriptions. I took that young man and for twenty four weeks affirmed and poured into him, taught him how to meditate, release the anger, the frustration, and it actually the hurt of not having a father. There. He smoked about two blunts a week. This was an eighth grader. His great point average was point eight. Within twenty four weeks, his whole life change and he graduated because I affirmed him in who he was. Even the

young man he didn't see. They saw the prankster. I saw someone who could negotiate whose why, Who's clever? They saw someone anger. I saw a young man who would fight against injustice, who would defend kids who are bullied. That's what affirmation does. I thank you for who you are, and I meant everything that I said. Man, I'm proud of you, and that's why I affirmed you. And we need to affirm each other that way. And then more so, as I told our brother Van Lathan when I was

on his podcast. We're so quick to just deflect it or just here you're the man too. I love what you're doing, like no, I want you to hold that, brother, because you're doing some great things, and I want you to really embrace who you are as a man. And that's all I ever wanted, man, And that's why I'm thankful I finally allowed my wife access to hear because

what causes men to really drift away? You want to feel important, you want to feel loved, But it's if you don't work as hard as you do in the community, in your home. How do you expect those in your home to give you the accolades that you desire when you're working twice as hard for those who don't even live with you. You said something so powerful yesterday at the Mental welfaxt BO when Maxwell asked you, what's the definition of a man? How do you define them a man? Yeah?

And I said nothing. You can't define them. Once you allow yourself to be defined, you can't be anything and everything you have to be at any given moment. That's the goal of a man. That's comprehensive. Man. I want to be able to morph between transformers, everything that I need to be for accomplish my mission here on earth, for my family, for you, for my sister, my brother, my brother, And that's the goal. Once you allow yourself

to be defined, you've just cut off your potential. And so I tell people to I was telling me, and live from what we long for instead of what we lack. We tend to blame my father's for not being there, what we didn't have, and now we bring that stuff to the present. We allow our trauma to time travel, living the present so you can fully be there. And

that's the key. Man, If you only feel as a man that you're only a protector and provider, you're gonna be there for your fa I mean, how can you have a relationship with your wife and you're only you can only manifest two attributes. You're extremely limited. A friend of mine compared it to that crayon boxes, the ones of eight and the ones of sixty four. As men, we take out three crayons out the one of eight, and we said we're gonna stay in that that area

because it feels comfortable, it's safe. But the most igh created us to exude all sixty four and even more. Now movie got more with J. C. Wilson. When we come back, it's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning. I'm seeing her looking at Keisha like, do you love me? Do you love me? Not morning? Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We're still talking with Jason Wilson. Yea. You also have a documentary that you've been working on, right, Yes, can you tell

us something about that? Yeah, that's really exciting. I signed with Lawrence Fitzburn's film company sent them a gypsy to do a documentary film on my work for Boys in the Cave of Adullum. We submitted it to Sundance and so waiting to hear back from them, but it's supposed to release next year and we're really excited. You get to see them follow four of my boys, and you see the effects of intergenerational trauma, but then you see

it broken and it's so powerful. It's beautiful. How do you black and brown people learn to stop wearing trauma as if it's a bad honor acknowledge that it's nothing good about it. There's nothing honorable about getting shot. There's nothing honorable about hating each other, mean mug and not being able to say how you doing, my brother, how you doing my sister? There's nothing honorable about I guess,

just the pain that we've been through. I mean, we look at it as like, you know, especially I love hippop. I came up in the culture we brag about getting shot. We don't brag about living in a good neighborhood. We brag about being in the roughest neighborhood. And so until we recognize that this isn't how it's supposed to be. Yes, trauma will happen to all of us, but it's not the black experience as we always say. You know, just as trauma can be passed down through our generation, so

can healing. But we first have to renew our minds. We have to allow. For me, it took for me to ask the most how to break me, break away my stubborn will, the evil in my heart. I didn't want to be his light to the world, to help those who in darkness see, And so until I allowed him to break me, I wasn't able to see that all that I've been through, the stuff that, even for my benefit today, wasn't meant for me to stay there. So when traumatizing things happen. We have to let go

and keep moving forward. But a lot of us we stay there because we fear moving forward because of something else, traumatizing may happen. And so as a black people, we got to start living from what we desire and hear the good that's in here. We love each other, man, we do. We just have to learn how to express it. And there's nothing weak or docile telling you I love you, telling you I love you and who you are. I'm

proud of you. I need help, I'm hurting. Just because something is wrong with me doesn't mean something is wrong. So when we get to that place where we understand, okay, we can break through what we've been through, that's when you see us rise together. My final question, you know, as your profile raises, how did your wife feel about all these women calling you zaddie? I didn't know they called me. They called me that them on Instagram? Oh man, I um um. My wife and I have a very

like transparent relationship. If she feels something isn't right, she said, you know, but this is a funny story. One day I met Halle Berry right, and I took a video from my daughter because my daughter, you know, was into modeling at the time, and so I called the court. I say I met Holly Berry. She's like, really, where was she at? And I told her at this conference.

So we get off the phone and her friend was like, oh, so your husband is with Halle Berry and she was like yeah, and she could looking at my wife and my wife called back and she says, are you okay? Because you know Holly Berry is was like attractive like our generations leaning a horn. But my wife was like, are you okay because I know she's beautiful and I know you know you together, you're good. I'm like, yeah, I'm good. And we both laughed about it. But the

beautiful thing. When I got home and I looked at my wife, I said, dang it better than her. You see what I'm saying. And so and so when she knows my wife, she affirms me man and I fight it. I'm still growing, bro. I don't like that. How do you what you She had touched my face or gent I'm like, what are you doing inside? That's why I'm cringing because I'm thinking when my father told me I wasn't nothing, and they have a woman cress my face

and tell me I'm beautiful and she loves me. And as a man, you look in your mirror, you see your flaws. You ain't big enough, you ain't buffalo up, you ain't smart enough. What can any of these women give me? Man? What's a night of sex? I'm gonna I'm gonna giveaway everything that I got just to have a moment with a woman. That's not peace to me, that's chaos. I ain't got time to have three cell phones.

I don't. I don't have an energy for that. We're chasing a sense of worthiness that we can't get from another woman. Like that's that's feeding your ego, being with your wife, that's feeding your soul. Yeah, it's it's it's she's a part of me, man. And so you know, Yeah, they're a flirt. You can see them. They look at you. But I don't have an available Look. You know a lot of brothers who struggle with infidelity. Y'all look available, You look like they can holl at you. I consciously

make sure I don't look available. I told them that. Look. You know, I practiced with my sister. You know we're talking. I'm like, you know what I'm talking about. Okay, So I do this. Okay, I take my ring off, but I'm not. I'm talking you, but it's respectfully. How are you doing? I shake your hands right, I'm not doing this, so how are you doing you? I'm not doing all that. I'm like, how are you doing? I'm press a pleasure to meet you. I'm proud of you, thank you. What

are you doing later? No, I'm kidding, I said, I'm calling my wife. I'm telling you right now. Taking that ring off and then having the conversation not make you less available, that's true. But no, but but but the look is the spirit is the vibe. And that's why I tell my brothers. One of my friends standing back in the day amazed women beyondly man. I'm trying to be faithful. I said, you look like you want them too, And he started laughing. And we was in the gym

and I said, look at you. He was like, I get it, Doug. You're coming here every day with great sweatpas. Okay, so you know, and and and that's my my thing. I just you know, I love our women. I do. And they need a man. And who doesn't want to get between their legs just to talk to them and affirm them to hear from just a man who just wants to affirm you for who you are, not because

I'm you beautiful. I'm trying to ho let you man, these women which is you know, I just you know, That's why I say, Man, when we can get healed, keep doing those expos man. I mean, just we gotta continue to do what we do. But when we can get healed, we gotta sit down and open the space

for our sisters to heal. And that's when you're gonna start seeing transformation, when we both can truly find that and get that heal and we desire and our families become whole, then our communities to change, and then you got the world. Yeah, I'm so extra grateful for like the men in my life who do affirm me and have positive things to say to me, and it's not for any reason other than they really feel that way.

And I don't feel anything crazy from them. I know their families, I know their wise and significant others, and it's completely comfortable. And I'm so appreciative all the time of people that are like, yo, like you really doing your thing. I'm so proud of you. I'm gonna come support like it means a lot to me. Yes, and that's that's awesome. And you know, because sometimes people feel like men and women can't have these relationships where there's

nothing going on. And if you could take a picture with somebody like oh, yeah, he's trying to holler, and you're like, dude, come on, just because he's a man doesn't mean that that's what it is, just because somebody can affirm you. But people sometimes are scared to even do that. Yeah, but the more men who who who model it, the more men feel comfortable and say, Okay, this is what a man is, you know, and that's what our women need, you know, even at the union.

Just affirm and love them. I got you, don't worry about that. I ain't trying to holight you. They need brothers, They need men in their lives that they feel that they got their back, you know, and then ain't always wanting something, you know. And so I went I did

what is it called virtual reality. It was at this conference, and they they put put me in a headset where I saw through the eyes of a woman at work and showed how many like advances men were making to this woman throughout the day and from the handshake to just having conversation. I'm like, damn it, can you just just respect me as a woman, affirmed me just as a woman instead of just trying to get between my legs, you know. And so I'm glad you have men like that.

I try to make myself available for the women in my life the same way, you know. And it's so needed as men that again, as long as we're seeking affirmation in the wrong places, and that's what I did for the longest, will never truly respect our women for the queens, the jewels, the gifts that they truly are to use points. I mean, that's why I'd be so happy. I you know, I got so many women that call me any brother uncle because I really wear that as a badge of honor, Like you know, I want to

be there for them in that way. And I'm glad they see me in that way. Yeah, they need it. And we need women like when my mother when when my mother passed, man, I needed a nurturer. I needed to allow older women and my wife access to my heart in that way, you know. And so and I don't need women's sisters trying to holight me. I need a sister sometimes women who pray for me. Man, ain't trying to holler praying for me, and they say, we know what you're doing. We got you. Like I feel invigorated.

You know, I'm ready to go. And my wife doesn't mind it, man, And so you know again, it's it's our minds need to be renewed so that we can truly live from the good in our hearts. His name is Jason Wilson, giving me a Twitters and Instagrams and all that good stuff. My handle throughout all social media is mister Jason O. Wilson. That's m R J A s O N. The letter O W I L S O N. And I want to thank you for doing

the Mental Wealth Expert yesterday. I couldn't even have done an event like that and not have you there, because you're such a leader in this space man, and you inspire me and you make me want to be a better man every time I hear you speak, ary time I read your books, seeing you on Instagram, everything, So I just I thank God for your existence, brother, thank you feeling his mutual thank you. Nah, it was really powerful yesterday and I look forward to being at the

next one. Brother, Yes, sir, thank you, pleasure me and you Finally, Jason Wilson is the breakfast Club. The breakfast Club, Your mornings will never be the same. What if you honest? Dj MV for nearly sixty years of quality coverage, make the right call and go with the General called eight under General or go to the General dot com to get a hassle free quote today the General Auto Insurance Services, Inc. An insurance agency Nashville, Tennessee. Some restrictions apply to make

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keeping here. Get y'alllect well, don't you? The Dave goes to a twenty three year old Florida woman named Alexis Tally. Now, what did your uncle Sharla always say about the great state of Florida? Say it with me. The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. It is what it is. Okay, I love Florida. But one of my favorite things to do when I'm in Florida's turn on the local news. High levels of entertainment people. Okay,

I can't believe it's free. I was in Miami last weekend just watching the local news and laughing and shaking my head very hard to avoid the crazy that exist in Florida. You know, every day of our lives, we wake up and we attempt to avoid crazy. It's hard to avoid crazy in Florida. It's like a full time job to avoid crazy in Florida. Because in Florida, you don't have to find crazy. Crazy will find you. And that's exactly what happened in this situation involving the sister

Alexis Tally. Now, Alexis Tally was arrested for domestic battery after putting hands on her girlfriend. Now, the other day I told y'all on this radio, how I had a dream. No, let me refree. I had a nightmare that I was cheating on my wife, and in the nightmare, I felt the guilt, so I stopped. And then when I woke up the next morning, my wife said to me that she had a dream that I cheated on her and she woke up wanting to f me up. When you got a soul tied with a person, y'all are really

connected SYNCD up like your smartphone with a bluetooth. That's me and my wife. Well, my wife said she felt like she wanted to ff me up because of her dream. Alexis Tally actually fed her girlfriend up because of the dream. Okay, because of the dream her girlfriend was having. Oh how I wish there was a news report for this one. But allowed me to read you the details off the smoking gun. Police responded the calls from a neighbor who

said they could hear a fight taking place. When authorities arrived at the scene, the twenty one year old victim said she was awoken after Alexis Tally claimed to hear her sleep talking about an X. I'm not making this up. Okay.

If you're thinking, what the f, please think what the Florida, since Tally started beating on her girlfriend and her sleep because she thought she heard her girlfriend sleep talking about an X. According to the arrest report, Alexis started punching the victim in the face after waking her, and cops noted that she had visible swelling to the right side of her face. Now, when they say Alexis woke her up, was it what the punch are before? Now I'm gonna

shoot Alexis a little bell that slang. By the way, I'm not giving her no money towards the bell. I'm just talking about a hypothetical about the situation. I'm almost positive. But if I mentioned another woman that I was involved with while I was in a deep slumber, I too would get punched in the face. What about you, Indy, I concur not justifying what Alexa did, just saying that as Florida as this sounds, this might garner the same

reaction in any state. I mean, my wife woke up wanting to f me up because of a dream she had that I was doing something. Imagine if she would have woke up to me calling out the name of some other woman I dealt with my god jee. This is why hot grit used to get thrown on brothers in the sixties and seventies. Okay, your granddaddy got a scar right now, and it's back from that hot grid because he too was saying somebody else's name in his sleep. Okay.

Muhammad Ali once said, if you even dream of beating me, you'd better wake up and apologize. Same rules apply with your significant other. Okay, just change beating the cheating. If you even dream of cheating on your girl, you better wake up and apologize now. Alexa was arrested for domestic battery and has maintained that their argument was only verbal, verbal rather than physical. She told the officers. She told the officers that the mark on her girlfriend's face was

from a previous fight. That's not funny. It's not funny, but it's Florida, Florida, Okay, she told the police. Not the fight that was reported to the police. That was last week. It was from another fight. It's basically been the officer of That mark on her face wasn't from when I beat her this time. That was from the last time we fought. Boy, don't have anything else, Okay, Please give Alexis Tally the sweet shounds of the Hamiltons. Oh no you are do gee? Oh the day, do Gee,

oh the day. Yeah. How would you react if you heard your man saying the name of an X in his sleep? Um, I don't know. That's a tough one. I don't know what I would do. We'd have a conversation, it might not go well, we might not talk for a couple of weeks. You don't think we will resort to violence though, you're not. I'm not a violent person. Yeah, you know. I don't believe in putting my hands on people. Kay, I think we should play a game? You think we

should play a game? I'm curious, really really? Yes, okay, yes? What was the name? What was the name of the X? I need to know? Didn't say didn't ame to X? They just say X. All right, Well, okay, since VY wants to play, I guess it's time for a game of Guess what race? All right? What's the clues now? Alexis Tally. Alexis from Florida, Florida. She was sleep they both will sleep with her girlfriend, and her girlfriend was sleep talking and said the name of her exo alexis

swung on her Guess what race? She is? Sty Go Latina, damn it man. Okay, Okay, ANGELI said Latina? Why do you say Latina? Angelie? I don't know. I just felt like it. Okay, okay, dj Envy. Alexis Tally from Florida. Okay. She was with her girlfriend. Her girlfriend was talking in her sleep and her girlfriend said ex's name alleged Lisa Alexis got up and swung on her. Guess what race she is? All right, the name Alexis makes me feel black. But I'm going Puerto Rican? How dare you? I'm gonna

be honest with you. I don't know what Alexis stallely is. I'm looking know what she looked like? And he asked to play. I don't know. Let me see, let me I'm just always down for the game. It's just a good guessing game. She might be Portoici might be, but then she might be black. She might be she makes she might be happy. Its like you, Daniel, Well, it's Alexis Stally. She looked Puerto Rican. What she looked like, definitely Puerto Rican. Sometimes you can't look at a person Intel.

You can't look at a person Intel, you definitely can't. All right, pointless game and wanted to play thought you knew the answer. We'll find out on social media later. I'm sure, I'm sure somebody. All right, keep it locked. We have more coming up next. It's the Breakfast Club. The Breakfast Club relations your advice, need personal advice, just the real advice. Call up now for asking morning. Everybody is DJ Endy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We all

the Breakfast Club. It is time for ask ye Hello. Who's this? Um? I'm staying anonymous? All right? What's your question for you? Anonymous? Yes we can, all right. So I have a dilemma. Um, when my boyfriend and I first started dating, we're gonna, you know, do it in the car and pulled his hands down or the foul older didn't he didn't fart, He just like had took

a dump and like didn't wipe his butt. Hey, now we like lived together, and whenever we're gonna do it, I always, you know, I hesitant because he doesn't wipe his butt. So how older? And you know he always has the days of his boxer, so skid marks that's what they call him, Yes, skid mark. So how do you tell your man like day? Can you please wipe guys, is he a grown man or a baby wearing a

diaper that is disgusting? First of all, judge that I'm gonna tell you, Oh, is this envy we're talking about here? All right? So first of all, do y'all have wet wipes in the bathrooms in the house? I think I need to keep him there, But that is what help you gotta help him out, man, because there's first of all, there's no way he don't smell the dude who coming out his butt when he pulls his pants down. Number one.

Number two, you might have to tell him you gotta get up in there when you wipe yourself and wipe yourself good. And you might have to buy him some wet wipes to carry with him when he goes places and tell him to use those when he uses the bathroom, because this is not something that you can dance around. You have to be direct about this hygiene. She's right,

but I'm not his mama, though embarrassing. One time you're gonna have you have to tell him because you know what, if you don't say something, you're gonna just end up having to smell dude every time you have sex. Yeah, I can't do that, So just just till and be like, babe, look at your underwear. See this, you're not wiping yourself? Well, are you getting up in the hole? So you have doodoo stains on your sheets too? Huh? No, No, I

would never. You do have to if it's in his underwears in the sheets, but you gotta, you gotta point it out because if you don't say anything, then I don't are you just having sex? And then during the smell, oh girl, I don't go down here, but I won't go down on him a lot because of that, Like I'm alwa even afraid, Like I don't want to. Why is it so hard to tell a man his ass? Think? I don't know, but you could get can't you get you call out or something? I mean, I can't wait

till you ask you. I don't want to. Hell, no, I don't want to hurt well girl, I don't want you to get some type of disease either, bacteria, infection. But this is this is for his own good. First of all, if you're doing laundry, sometimes you don't want to have to touch that and clean that, right, right, And this is for his own benefit. This is to help him out in his life. You gotta show him. Look, baby, these are wet wipes. Now, me and you were having

this conversation. Don't be embarrassed because we could talk about anything. And trust me, if you're having sex with this man and I'm protecting, you should be able to tell him his ass stinks and he's not wiping himself. If you can do that, and you could lay up with him and do all of that, then you should be able to communicate with him and telling him, babe, you need to clean your butt. It's gonna be so funny when

you tell him his butt stinks. And he was like, man, I was thinking the same thing about your poom poom and guess what and guess what she would do? White pep poom poom with a wet white You ain't crap, ain't crap. You do want even crapt and and just listen, this isn't time when when you got to be directed. Be like, look, you know, I don't know if you're just not wiping yourself right, but there's these stains in your underwear and sometimes I can smell it, So I

just want to say, you gotta wipe yourself better. Here some wet wipes every time you go to the bathroom, and you shouldn't even have sex with him to after he showers, but if he's not cleaning his button in the shower either, and then getting now that I don't know what I'm but it's cleaning his But I will say I've been on my wife twenty one years and I do remember a time about fourteen fifteen years ago where she went down and she was like, hey, man,

you need to go take a shower or something, because you know and you appreciate it. It. Yeah, I went, maybe I didn't wipe properly. I don't know what it was, but she told me it hurt my feelings. I just went and took a shower between then, like, I don't understand. I don't think it was a commentation to me before once or twice, three times, four times, five times happened to me before. Yeah so, but like so that's why

you got to point it out. One day y'all will laugh about it, and hopefully that day that Chella laughing, his butt will be clean. She got embarrassed and pick up the underwear and be like, what's this and then let him see the do those stains. He'll get embarrassed and I'll never do it again like that, you know what I mean? And check your sheets and I bet you gotta doose stains in your sheets. Yeah, I bet you.

He knows trust me, tapping to me once or twice, but the skin marks in his face, you go too far? Thank you, mama. How do you like it? That's actually that's some young boys stuff though, because you know, like that's that's one of the reasons after I do a number two, I do go take a shower, except if you're at work. Yeah, if I'm at work, but then I'm not like I'm going home and like me and my wife gonna get right to it. I don't want to go home smelling like you should never pull and

then have sex right after. Hell, you can take a shower. We don't want your money, butter pee you better white, better bro all right? Ask ye eight hundred and five A five one oh five one if you need relationship advice at Ye Now it's the breakfast club. Good Morning. There's some real advice with Angela Ye gets ask Ye Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. We're in the middle of asking ye,

good morning, good morning, good morning. Hey. Can you take us on bluetooth for speaker please? Yes, sir, absolutely, what's your question for you? Bro? Good morning, breakfast club. So, yeah, my question is, so, just recently, I'm in a relationship with this with this, with this beautiful woman. She's currently going through a divorce right now, and she was raped by her soon to be ex husbin. So I was very angry. I tried to get her to go to

the cob um. She didn't want to do it. So I'm trying to figure out what should I do, how I should I feel? Okay, So I understand. So you said she was raped by her soon to be ex husband. You want her to go to the police to report this, and she's not willing to do that right now, and you know that's a difficult decision. Again, it is her decision. But what you can do is be as supportive as possible. I think you should encourage her to talk to someone

like a therapist or a sexual assault counselor. I know they have the National Sexual Assault Hotline that numbers eight hundred and six to five six. Hope, if she wants to speak to someone, and that way she can have a record of it, because the worst thing you want to do is not be able to bring this up

later if she should change her mind. But I do think speaking to a counselor or a therapist will help her understand that it is in no way her fault, because she might be having some feeling a lot of times when things happen, you think about what could I have done differently? Is this my fault? How could this have been prevented? Did I put myself in a bad situation? Am I going to ruin his life? If they have

kids together? Women think about all of those things, and a therapist might help her to see things from a different point of view and under stand that it was in no way at all her faults. And another thing you should encourage her to do is write everything down. That way she can remember every single detail. In case there's an instance where she does decide that she wants to go to the police or report this, she'll have all of that information. But speaking to a counselor speaking

to a therapist that can help her see things. Who's an expert from a different point of view, I think would be one of the most helpful things you can do, because again, you want to be there to support and comfort her. You want her to be able to trust you, but you don't want to make her feel ashamed or

have any type of judgment on whatever her decision is. Gosh, and I tried to suggest some of those things to her, but I think that the problem arose where she didn't want to be big demands or be a big Jim and it was kind of hard for her to em and grasp the concept of what happened. And when we had the conversation, it was kind of like she was

kind of in denial rights. That's a problem now we were running into But and she's a survivor, and she's a survivor we like to say survivor, so not a but she survived this and we want her to continue to thrive and to actually deal with whatever she might be feeling with that. And that might be something that

she needs to talk to somebody about. Again, if right now she's not ready to go to the police, I would encourage her to speak to someone and even you can call right because then they might be able to give you the tools that you would need to be able to talk to your girlfriend to better be able to help her because that's a traumatic experience. You don't even know how this might affect her later, but you want her to be able to have whatever options available

to her in case she needs those. Oh, thank you so much. I love you, guys. I left me all every pint at but thank you again so much. All right, thank you, and we commend you and appreciate you for being such a support to your girlfriend at a time like this. Absolutely got to be Okay, you two ask ye ooh, that's tough. All right, we got more coming up next with a breakfast club. It's that time ask Charlemagne and Dji morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela yee,

Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. It's time for asking if you need relationship advice and any type of advice. You get this right now? Hello? Who's this? Hey Kendrick go morning? What's your question for seeing? I actually have a question for you, Envy here in North Carolina and I'm wanting to get into but I don't know where to start. Okay, Well, first of all, how's your credit? Your credit good? Yeah, that's the most important thing.

And then now you have to find the property. There's a couple of websites that I use across the country. One is auction dot com okay, and the other one is hubzoo dot com. Now those two websites I have no affiliation with, so I don't get no paid for it and nothing. These is just the websites I actually use. Those are the websites I used to find properties that are usually being auctioned off that you can get at a great price, way undermarket value. And that's where you

should look first. And you should look at the comps in the area and see what those properties worth. When you look at those properties, you should take somebody with you to see how much those properties will cost to fix up. See what's wrong with the property, if it needs a new roof, if it needs electric, if it need's plumbing, if it needs flooring, if it needs sighting, if it needs whatever it may be, and then make

your your analysis from there. So if that property is five hundred and needs one hundred thousand dollars worth work, that's six hundred thousand, but it's worth eight hundred thousand. That's a good flip. Okay, I want follow your partner on Facebook and Instagram, and I want to send one of your seminars, but I'm working. That would be a good one because during the seminar, there's so many people there that like do finance, and we a lot of times we have the people from those sites actually come.

So fuction dot com tells you how to navigate through the site to buy the actual properties. We have hard money lenders. We have financial people there to tell you how you can get the loans and help you get those loans. So it's a it's a really good seminar. You should definitely check it out if you have a chance. I appreciate it. Thank you all right, and just continue to follow me and Sezar because we're gonna some courses online because we can't make it to all the cities.

We just got so much going on where we can help people online and we just want to see our own people just you know, continue to purchase land and property. Yeah, I'm trying to feel a generational wealth, all right, Mama, thank you. Hello, who's this? This is nails design question. I have a question for you, mb Why are you so insecure in your masculinity that you won't let ye playing me when you're not there yet, so you are good.

Great question, Great question, queen. Um. I'm not insecuing my masculinity. He was allowed to do mixes a long time ago. But I believe they said she was trash or they didn't want her to That never happened. You are such that was out at the time, not the pre program stuff you got going on. Well, I don't play the music during the show man, but if if you know, if if Ye's mix wasn't trash, they would have invited her to play again. It is something more to the

ex than I do your next. Oh, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. Maybe you should start a um an Instagram page and try. I don't know, but that's what trash. And they said they said that because the mix is so trashed, they didn't they didn't want her back. I'm sorry you said you're gonna see her already. You that was you. You were being shady. I'm not being shady, but you have a good morning, though. I love you whatever. Send her healing energy. Hello. Who's this? Hey?

This is umke Oh boy, fake name? What's your question for seeing me? I just had a question, um, how do you deal with like trusting someone after like them she and you know you have a baby together. Oh that's not on you, that's on him, you know what I mean. The best apology to change behavior, like he has to regain your trust, you know what I mean? Like, that's not that's not something you got to force yourself

to do. Yeah, and it takes time. Don't don't. Don't let him force you to be like, oh you gotta you forgave me, so you gotta no, no, no, it takes time. Whenever you're comfortable, whenever you feel okay, that's when you feel okay. Like Charlemagne said, it ain't about telling me, it's about showing me. And are you open are you open to trusting him again? I am definitely open to trusting him again. It's just like the fact, like feeling like the prison, like feeling betrayed by someone.

All good feelings are not good feelings but all natural feelings to have. All you gotta do is remain open to trusting him, and he has to regain your trust by changing his behavior. And that's just gonna come over time. Just like you knew he was cheating. It's like your six since that woman, since intuition knew he was cheating. You're gonna know when you're doing right, and thank you and if you still comfortable. Every once in a while, do a phone check, phone check, Nick, give me a

phone thank you, guys. Hello, who's this? Hey? Hey Nannie, what's your question for CNE? So I just thought out my husband was texting Reilly like, but this test with a co worker. I'm a month pregnant and I've been going through a lot of like, let's scary scars. So this whole time, I'm like, why would you think it's okayty for you to be doing these things when we are going through like some hard at home, like we

could lose the baby. And every time I bring it up to him, he kind of just like, just get over it, you know, let's move on. M I didn't do nothing with this message, But like, you work with this girl, and I've asked you multiple times to like contact her in front of me and tell her like it's over, you know, like I don't want to have nothing to do with you, but he won't do it. Yeah, I mean, I'll be honest with you. I think it's very disrespectful the fact that you're pregnant and continues to

text this girl. I know it has to be difficult for you because every day he goes to work, you have to think about your husband seeing this other woman that he's been texting explicitly. And it's not a matter of just get over it and it'll go away. No, it's not that you put that You keep that pressure on that man's neck. The fact that he has been doing it is very disrespectful. Your husband is a boy. We've all had our boy opportunities and our boy aspects of our lives. But he has to grow up and

understand he has responsibilities. He has a wife at home that's pregnant, and he should be taking care of home, making sure that you know that life that you're building, that you're completely stressed. Free Yo yo yo, queen, Get a fired queen, Queen, get a fired queen. You know what I'm saying. I'm sure you got a creative mind. You can make something up and get a little message to the boss. You know what I'm saying, get her fired. But you know that's our livelihood. I can't. Yes, Oh

you care about her livelihood? Did she care about your liveli She ain't thinking about you. She ain't thinking about your life, your livelihood, the life and your belly. Nothing. Get a fired queen, all right, goodness, gracious, let her know. I'm gonna get you fired. If you don't leave my man alone, you might have to embarrass up. You might have to embarrass him straight up. Maybe maybe an anonymous face book post. I know what's going on at the job.

Y'all better leave my man alone before I start naming names all. You could do it right now if you want, no, don't do it now, think about it. I have a good one. What kind of advice is that forget a fight? All right? Do it now? Don't do it now, don't do it now, think about it? On it? My goodness? All right? Well that's as C and E. It's the Breakfast Local Morning, the breakfast Club. Your morning's will never

be the same. What up, y'allas? DJ envy for nearly sixty years of quality coverage, make the right call and go with the General called eight under General, or go to the General dot com to get a hassle free quote today the General Auto Insurance Services, Inc. An insurance agency Nashville, Tennessee. Some restrictions apply. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela, Yane Charlomagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building, that's right. Name

is Love Russell, not La Russell. He's only been the La five times, that's right. My man Horvain hit me, hit me back in July and he sent me a a video and he was and he was like, he just sent it to me. I think he might say check it out, but I didn't get a chance to check it out. In a couple days later he hit me and Hope and say, you ain't watched that video. So I watched the video and I was like, Yo, who is this kid? This kid is incredible? And here he is now right you know. Now for people, where

are you from? I'm from Valo, California, from California. He forties land. That's right, man, all right? So so l Russell just here to s pitch some bars. If y'all haven't seen hopevai and post him or me post him up. Everybody be posting him. You know. We want to give him the opportunity to do his one two things. Right here. You're gonna rap, okay, you're gonna wrap, all right, So only millions of people listening right now. No pressure though,

no pressure. Yeah, Breakfast Club, thank you for having me. Yeah, bay Area Valo, Come on, man, we came out to n Y twelve deep for this. Yeah. African and the European with like when't come hill, No European ship your opinion shod show. European lives, money and murder. That's that European. I know better. I just hold my tongue yelling out told the while I'm on my running happily waves back as I hold my gun. Huh. I've seen a lot of side of y'all look like me. You know your

rights get denied when you look like me. Yeah, we're both in different size, but you look like me. I come to man in the mirror. Never looked like me. I'm familiar. Quite peculiar, dude. You know yourself? Are you tending to your garden? Do you grow yourself? Are you living in the past? Do you hold yourself accountable for all that's bad? Like you all yourself a new life, a new bitch and knew you, some new goals and new holes and new crew. You know them. You know

us and them too. You know who everybody is, but who you I ain't trying to preach because I hate that. But I see dying, and I hate that smelling all the time. I gotta fake that. I hate twenty shots. Why make that sharing all this pain for the income market game? Greg Granny was a sleep. What would have ever covered chain gave us band dads like that? Could ever stop the pain? Shoot to hang for these songs

that I sang. Jused to die for these pitches that I posted, because you used to die trying to get a right to vote, liberty in life. They say we gotta right to both. But when have right? Since they jugg us off that boat, took us from our land, then took our lad from us, cross the arm in the leg. They really took our hand from us through a send them pages, taxed all our wages, tought us state religion rippled all the pages, been his way for ages through a cent him mazes made it off them

cotton fields. Now we're on the stages wrapping about ass cheeks. We're rapping about chains, rapping about fenzes, We're rapping about pains, rapping about oppression, We're rapping about pain. I'm wrapping about all that. I gotta share the blame they're rapping on the contract. They're wrapping for some fame. They're wrapping in a slate deal. We're clapping while they hang Dan. Hello, Dan should be doing but let out it's different. Get get Russell some water? I want my own man. I

gotta hear something else. I need another one? Man, you got some more? You know? I come? You got some more? You want to switch to beat? He got his own water Alkali? Okay, let's get another beat for him? Then he got he got his own alkali? What else we got? Who produced that? By the way, Russell produced by skies man? Okay from no, No, he's actually from overseas. Okay, wow, wow wow wow that beat online? Man, Make sure that's clear. Make sure it's clear. The money were clear and were

splitting the pie up with him. Let's go there we go. We got no one? What's this? Who produced this one? This by bandit loose man Savage. Let's go my mail Russell. Let's hear hey yeah go on Valo, California, Bay Area breakfast club. Yeah, hey, look at what it comes to? No escape? Who can I run to Na's Agate life like I'm sun too? Was having fun with it? I ain't so separately. I come with it through my life away like I was done with it. I've been in

a slump dog. Should have kept it real front of jump dog, Chris crossing me, gonna make you jump dog. I just need some preferably in a lump dog dreams of a beat. Well, no, it's deficiencies in my beat twelve my net game back feel like eats hell. How could I be well belly even sleeping? I don't eat well. I can't even go into the details. I'm just on the crime bro I got bigger than my mind hole. I rapped about it when it's time ten years from now.

Don't want to ask where the time go. You can have a mindful that you could be mindful ever rap better go get a. Had to send the order back needed mo chetta. These verses kept me out of them hurst and stiff me away from churches. Frivolous when I purchased love letters than cursive elegant when I shoot addicted to them trees, I never got to the room. I'm gonna take a break and let these reboot. Wrapping for a Daycage spitting when he had neck braids, back when

I was banking with the messages. God was lost, trying to find some where to fit. Still had pride when I ain't had the newest kick back when my mamma used to rub me down with vic gee unit fit for all the family picks people in them cages him post to sound free me the statue in the v it won't be another me. I'm out and bet could take you from A to Z. They gonna watch me peel off. I'm on it like A and D. They put it on the show because save us for A and D. I didn't put more dope outs and dealers

in eighty three. Yeah, bring it where it caught me sliding with the stick. The let's be playing hockey or this horseplay gonna turn me into a jockey number cook. I'm always burning the broccoli lee. I'm wrong for plitting my favorite song. Shouldn't invest in half and the opportunity zone be on my back and I ain't even wearing blown three grams in the cone. I'm trying to get in my zone ready for the shake back, buzzing like

I drunk a whole eight pack. I've set things I can't take back, watching everything I built shot the trumble apart being broken. You the humblest start halfway through a breakdown. I didn't lost everything, but faith now negative balances on my PayPal accounts closing. I'm the only one that's being open. I get the picture you posing. Its depended towards be looking at empty floor, low ticket sales. But I keep booking more meets with the board they missed, told us

the cord really put in work. Can't make it off, my lord, no bill hop. I'm no one that opened doors. Norm's gonna make it. I can feel it in my core when it rains, it pois on the poor even more. I know what I'm doing, but don't ask me if I'm sure. Never before the door, if it, don't ask me what it's for. I've been on neds can show you the Heaven's dore, Mike, get my hand out with

it like it's the sword. Pull up to the venue with my own boy while I listen more can't get caught up than them cours playing the new releases while I wrote my own tour twenty twenty boards and trying to explore. When you're the mother and boss, ain't no susting it's bored. Don't make me reveal all this I do for real, It wasn't. I took them and gate from scales. They won't admit once they get up in

the fields, don't try to lend their hand. Once I made it up to hell Stream to the mill without a distribution deal, you don't do it on your own money. Let's be for real. My plots help me out, But I started by myself. I put over fifty k before I ever got some help. I ain't got no label. They can't put me on the shelf. I don't pay no flaw. They write about me by themselves. I can't build a home, but looked at me building wealth. I can cry by my hand, I could play. I was dealt.

I'm an animal. You can see my pill hit at a moment. Most the melt made my career is spitting everything I felt undisputed. Champ GC on the belt made my career. Spitting everything I felt undisputed. Champ GC on a belt. It's different. But leo, what's up? Alkaline ball us? Those alkaline balls right there, that's holistic hip hop. Those are healing verses right there. No industry plant, this is

organic growing on the organic man. Wow, Wow, what are your Twitters and Instagram and Russell when they can find you follow me at L Russell LA r U S S E L L on everything. I appreciate y'all. Man young man is special. There is special. It's L Russell. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Remember it's Lot Russell, not La Russell. Not lying on man's right. He's only been in La five times. He said, it's the Breakfast Club morning. Everybody is tj Envy angela year, Charlemagne, the guy.

We are the Breakfast Club. Charlemagne. You got a positive note for the people. Hey, The positive note of the day is simply this life is ironic. It takes depression to know happiness. It takes scress to understand calm. It takes absence, the value presence Breakfast Club. This is, you know, finish for y'all. Do