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okay for all these duds to have. I said, I'm in a position to have two boyfriends. Okay, okay, but well, first of all, you could do your thing, but they don't have to be your boyfriend. You could just be dating two guys at the same time. The only problem is when words. The only problem is when we're not honest. So you want to have two boyfriends but they don't know about each other. No, I want them to know. So like, I want to have one main boyfriend and

then I just want my fun guy. Okay, so you want a side piece, Yeah, why I have a boyfriend, you can have it. So you can have somebody that's like your main but he don't have to be your man. You don't have to give it a title. See that's

the thing. They all want titles as women. As they start doing nice stuff for you, it's like, okay, now I want you to be mine, but okay, but you already know I'm dating Just say no, just be like look, and they're not gonna stop dating you, right, just being like, look, I don't want to be in a relationship right now.

I've been in committed relationships for a long time, but I really like you, right, And that's why I'm at now just trying to figure out, like how to balance that, because it's like I want to tell one, but it's like only one knows about one. You don't have to tell them about each other. You just have to say I don't want to be in a committed relationship right now. I had to do that before to my now boyfriend when we first started dating. I didn't want to be

in a relationship. Yeah I did, but I was honest about it. I think it's important to be honest because yeah, because first of all, sometimes you also don't want to jump into a relationship right away. What made you change your mind? You have to get to know each other first. It just takes time, right, Like, how did you know?

Because everybody's always nice in the beginning and they buy me all this nice stuff and they give me nice stuff, and then like after two or three months online did not I need to see they gotta gambling problem, right, And that's why to me, I think six months is a good amount of time to know if you really want to be in a committed relationship. But it all depends on how much you see each other, how much do you talk to each other. And it's also not really a time limit. It's more of like how you

feel right and can people grow on you? Because I think that's the issues. So I think I'm attracted to one of the dude and the other dude that's being nicely that I kind of feel like I can go somewhere. I'm not as attracted to him as I am with the other one is, So I think that's what the I think that's the problem is trying to find somebody that's able to take on all my needs, Like it's issues. I don't know, Well, no one's going to take care of all your needs. I'm gonna tell you that, But

you tend to. You know, when you really love somebody, it's okay because you love their imperfections and the things that they can't do as well as the things that they can do. You still love them anyway. So I think, just take your time and enjoy life, get those presents, go out and date, but just don't be in a committed relationship. And then you're not sneaking around doing anything wrong because that gets stressful and that carew and something.

Say your boyfriend your main piece. You decide you want to be with him, but you have a side piece, and then he finds out about it, and now it destroys everything. What you need to do is just say I'm not ready to settle down yet. I want us to get to know each other better. That's all. Oh, thank you so much. Because I was like, my friend was like, don't do it. I'm like, listen, I gotta do it. He knows better. Yeah, no, please just go

have fun. There's nothing wrong with that. Just have a good time date and if at one point you decide, you know what, now I'm ready to settle down, then you do. Okay, good, well, y'all, y'all gonna be in for more. Weekend, and I'm gonna be in Vegas. I won't. My cousin's getting married. I'm gonna be in Detroit. Okay, all right, mamma, have a good time, girl, go out and have some fun in Vegas. All right? While out five five one oh five one. If you need relationship

advice or any type of advice, call ye. Now it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlomagne the guy we all the breakfast club with in the middle of ask ye, who's this? Hi? Right? What's it's your girl? Kay? Live? Okay, Okay. So I currently have been going through it. I'm a senior in high school. I'm graduating in a couple of weeks, and I've been going through the whole college process. I tried to twenty colleges. I got into eighty and the congratulation,

thank you. And basically my issue is money, Like they haven't given me as much money as I needed, and I just wanted to know how much debt is too much? Cut, what's like, what's a smart way to think about this? Because I don't want to have to pay forty five thousand dollars a year for school. Well, I think a couple of things that you could do here because I went through that whole process and it took me definitely a good twelve years to pay off all my student loans.

But going to school, it's definitely an investment into your future. So there's definitely a lot of programs out there that can help you make sure you pay those back. But student loan debts can be crippling when you have to

think about it, right. So a couple of things you can do is they have different apps and websites like myskolei dot com that you can go on to where you can find out about different types of scholarships and there's all kinds of I'm applied to about twenty different scholarships when I haven't gotten anything, Yeah, because they do have all types of grants and scholarships that people don't even know about it aren't aware of. But I will

say that student loans can be manageable. Like when I went to college, I did work while I was at school also, so at the same time that I was at school, I was able to pay for certain things, and you know, that's I think one of the best things I was able to do was I didn't have to get loans to buy my books and other things like for when I was on campus and paying for the school meals and all of that. I took all

of that into consideration. Also, also, I know what a lot of people do is they might go to a college that's a city college and then transfer. So that way, maybe for the first year you go somewhere that's more affordable, and then you can transfer to another school and transfer those credits to you want to and not have that debt either that you would have had if you went to a school that's say forty five thousand dollars a year.

But the other thing, the other thing is, you know, don't think that student loan debt has If you look at this as it's an investment, you are going to be able to pay it back and you are going to have time to pay it back. So don't let that prevent you from going to the school that you want to go to. Yeah, thank you. Just make sure you work out that payment plan. And do you know where you want to go out of the schools you got accepted to. Yes, I'm going to cop the state

all right, so you already know where you're going. Yeah, and so that school you said, it's forty five thousand dollars a year, yes, all right, all right, well just make sure you keep on applying for scholarships, keep on applying for grants. Even when you're in school. There might be all kinds of things that you can still apply for. But just look at there's all these apps that you can sign up for that puts you in contact with things that might be in line with what it is

that you can apply for. Thank you, hey, congratulations, thank you. All right. Well that's ask e eight drew five eighty five one O five one. Now we got rumors on the way, yes, and you know when you break up, you gotta cut all ties. Right, we'll find out who it is saying now that me and my man ain't together no more. We're not doing anything together anymore, including our foundation. All right. We'll get into that next. Keeping locked this to breakfast club. Good morning,