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light that but was like, what are you doing? And then she'll coming short. I don't know what she wants. To be honest, I give him money and I'll take care of her. But I don't know if she's jealous, she's trying to get back with me. What do you want her? Hay me? I mean I want everything, but to be honest, Uh, I can't see it with her. That's why I don't really reply her back like that. Okay, so then it doesn't It doesn't matter what she wants.

What matters is what you want. I mean true, So if you don't want to be with her, don't be with her don't matter if she wants to be with you or you don't can't figure out what's her motives. That none of that matters if that's not who you want to be with. All right, well, guys, just shout out my instagram is the mego underscore, Oh my god and sliding him DMS. He'll answer him. I've seen that drink Champs yesterday. I love me for YouTube, probably like

three years ago. Your nammy was on there talking about some meat and booty. Oh yes, and he was talking about eating booty. Y'all kill me, man, I love the breakfast club. All right. I feel like sometimes y'all throw shade at me, at you. We don't even know you. You You might on Twitter, man, shut up? Okay, hey, thank you. That's a little shady. It's the audacity of man. Why you're doing shade at him? All right? Take care? When the middle of as he would you want to go

to Let's do Mikita online nine mkita? Good morning, Hey, how y'all, I'm good. So hey, okay, So I wanted to assum so I pretty much I was in a relationship and then I got pregnant. And when I got pregnant, as I had my baby, everything pretty much shop went left. Like I was kind of being like a little abused, And what's a little abused? Um? So I have been like kids before in my face, but only like once we get in like a real strong argument and he

just don't know how to control his temper. But if Makita, don't downplay what happened to you, weren't a little abuse, you were abused. Oy, Okay, Makita hot people. But I have a daughter with him, and I don't want to take my daughter out of his life. And when I went over his house to pick my daughter up and he had a girl there, and it made me feel wanting him best. So I kind of tried, but it would feel negative and just negative energy. You know, I

wouldn't be positive and right and feel loved and everything. Game, I guess it's like what am I whether like you now? Like ho's like you're over these feelings or Makita baby, listen, First of all, it's okay for you to have these feelings. It's okay that you were jealous that he had another woman at the house. It's okay that you feel a way better to You're a human being and that's fine, but I would say you should be thankful that you are not with this man anymore, and I would say

run and keep it moving. And just because y'all not together doesn't mean he can't be a father and that he's not going to be in your daughter's life. He can still do those things, but you don't want to raise your daughter around somebody that's abusive to you that you're making excuses for that. I think that right now you should be so happy that you're not with him anymore, and that the I know that it takes a long time because only time can heal those wounds that you're feeling.

But it's okay for you to mourn the death of a relationship. It's over. And then what if, like I don't I'd be telling him like I don't want him. I don't want my child around thirty who people that he has around him because they just are enemies to me or do so like me or whatever, And he feels feel like, pretty much, just forget what I say, Like there's no respect. So here's the thing. Do you feel like your daughters in harm and harm's way? Okay,

so it's gonna be. It sounds like This is an emotional experience where you don't want your child around people who you don't like, and you want him to respect that, but that's a hard thing for you to enforce. And if you feel like your daughter is safe and she's okay, and that he's doing a good job as a father, you yourself are gonna have to deal with those because you can't really tell him who to be around, you know,

and all those things. I think it's a different question if it's a safety issue, But if you feel like your daughter is safe and being treated, well, that's the top priority. Okay, Well, thank you. You definitely help me clear my mind. Then just know which way to go, mckitta. I can't wait till you find somebody who loves you and values you the way that you deserve to be valued in your relationship. And I think that sometimes certain

things are a blessing. Like anytime you think I want him back, I want to get back with him, just remember how abusive he was and remember that he has other girls that he's dealing with. And don't go back and backside, because it's gonna take you even longer to get out of that hole. You halfway out of it. Now keep going. Okay, thank you, Okay, mckitta, We love you, love y'all to thank y'all, listening to y'all every morning. So all right, thank you, thank you. Sorry, all right,

but let's go to another line. Hello, who's this and shou Land going from Regina. What's up? Bro? What's your question for you? I'm about to go to jail and do three years. And you know, my girl said she send you to work with me, whatever, but we had infidelities before coquter texting people and stuff. She said, whatever did.

But I don't know if I don't know if I should go with a clear mind or you know, just try to hold it down with her, with you, um, being that she's already had infidelity issues while you were home and not locked up, and you've caught her texting and doing other things. I always say, I wouldn't want you to be stressed out in jail thinking that your girl is going to hold you down, right, That's what I was saying to That's one of the same things. Great as she does, but you have to be realistic

with yourself. You know you are about to go away. You're going to be gone for three years. She's gonna have a lot of freedom, and imagine every day you're trying to call her wondering what she's doing. You know, you might have to just in reality all they say, Okay, I'm gonna just give her this pass in my mind and know that whatever might be happening might happen, and I have to be prepared for the fact that she's not gonna do this bid with me, or you have

to just let her know it. Look, I don't even expect you to do that. Yeah, true, true, I guess I might just break it off, all right, no problem. Good luck to you in jail trying to keep it real. Yeah right, you need a little more than luck. Geez, all right,