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The Break Up Break Down

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When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

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Episodes

Break Down Bonus: Embracing the uncomfortable in dating & relationships w/ @thelibertyshultz

Liberty Shultz, best known for documenting her 50 first dates on social media, joins Abby to talk about how to be more comfortable being uncomfortable in dating and relationships. - Liberty Shultz: https://www.instagram.com/thelibertyschultz/?hl=en - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www....

Nov 07, 202429 min

When she said her husband got her bestie pregnant.... - S6E16

Usually I'd say "the other woman" never owes you anything, but if they're your best friend they should at the very least think twice before having an affair with your husband. This week's interviewee says her best friend had at least one baby with her soon-to-be-ex-husband. Why did she stay with him for years after? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for I am Voices Inc. in Charleston, SC: http://www.iamvoices.org/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUB...

Nov 05, 202427 minSeason 6Ep. 16

Break Down Bonus: How to communicate effectively w/ men ft. Kate Mansfield

Relationship expert Kate Mansfield joins Abby in London to explain how men communicate differently than women do in relationships. - Kate Mansfield: https://katemansfield.com/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.i...

Oct 31, 202436 min

Break Down Bonus: How to 'manifest' your person into your life w/ Nelly

Nelly, the #1 Dating Coach for High-Value Women & Men joins Abby on the podcast to talk about manifesting your dream relationship...and even drops some personalized advice for her on how to land her next relationship. - Nelly: https://katemansfield.com/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://www.nellysudri.com/about - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https...

Oct 31, 202441 min

Break Down Bonus: The test you need to avoid getting love bombed w/ Kate Mansfield

Relationship expert Kate Mansfield joins Abby in London to tell you how you can tell if your new boo just really likes you....or if you're getting love bombed. - Kate Mansfield: https://katemansfield.com/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Br...

Oct 24, 202419 min

When she got pregnant, engaged, and broken up with in a matter of months.... - S6E15

First comes love, then comes baby, then comes marriage...maybe? This week's interviewee says all three almost all happened within a few months. However, when tragedy strikes this budding family, things change for the worst. How did this all come to an end in less than one years time? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for YWCA in Nashville: https://www.ywcanashville.com/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.v...

Oct 22, 202429 minSeason 6Ep. 15

Break Down Bonus: How religious trauma shows up in relationships w/ Suzanne Goodwin

Suzanne Goodwin, from Parkside Psychotherapy joins me on the podcast this week to talk about how your religious upbringing impacts how you view your romantic relationships - Suzanne's practice's contact info: Parksidepsychotherapy.com / 404-914-0279 - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www...

Oct 17, 202422 min

When she said her ex got on the no-fly list.... - S6E14

When you've been with the same person since you were teens, it's hard to notice when someone isn't the same person as when you met them. This week's interviewee said she was fighting to stay in a relationship, but couldn't ignore the red flags once the FBI got involved. We'll find out what happens when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for WINGS in Chicago: https://wingsprogram.com/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ ...

Oct 15, 202447 minSeason 6Ep. 14

Break Down Bonus: When does keeping secrets go too far in relationships?

Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are back together to break down this week's main episode! We talk about some of the most SHOCKING parts of this week's main episode and hash out some of the main points from the story. - This episode originally aired in season 2 of the podcast - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - ...

Oct 10, 202416 min

When she was driving the getaway car.... S2Replay

This week we're raising awareness for the Jacksonville Hubbard House: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Timestamps: (00:00) - (01:01): Intro - (01:01) ...

Oct 08, 202435 min

Break Down Bonus: Healing from a long-term relationship w/ ExCoworker Justin

LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Oct 03, 202422 min

When coworkers broke up and literally couldn't avoid each other.... - S6E13

Dating your coworker sounds like a good idea in theory, you know, if everything goes right. So when your coworker and BF of three years breaks up with you on a random Tuesday...keep in mind the worst case scenario: a post-break up work trip in a foreign country. We'll get the details when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for The Women's Resource Center in Atlanta, Ga: https://www.wrcdv.org/about - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdown...

Oct 01, 202440 minSeason 6Ep. 13

Break Down Bonus: When domestic violence isn't necessarily physical w/ Dr. Gail Patin

[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - [CW: domestic/intimate partner violence, murder, de...

Sep 26, 202425 min

When a WAG felt trapped in her marriage.... - S6E12

If you've ever dreamed of becoming a WAG for a star MLB, NBA, NFL, NHL, etc.player...this ones for you. Behind this former WAG's picture perfect relationship was a life that was anything but. We'll find out how she got the courage to leave her ex when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for Favorhouse in Pensacola, FL: https://www.favorhouse.org/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https...

Sep 24, 202433 minSeason 6Ep. 12

Break Down Bonus: Why do I keep choosing the same type of partner if they're not good for me? w/ Rachel McLelland

LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Restorative Atlanta: https://www.restorativeatlanta.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast...

Sep 19, 202421 min

When her ex-husband started dating her friend.... - S6E11

She and her ex husband split up before their wedding photos even got released...and now two years later she says they're friends...and he's dating someone she's close with! How did our interviewee from S3E7 end up there and how did she end up in another relationship worthy of a BUBD episode? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for The Spring in Tampa, FL: https://www.safehaventc.org/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbrea...

Sep 17, 202433 minSeason 6Ep. 11

Break Down Bonus: Your relationship's impact on your kids w/ Marissa Mundy, LPC

LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Restorative Atlanta: https://www.restorativeatlanta.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast...

Sep 12, 202423 min

When she divorced him over his farts.... - S6E10

'Better out, than in' might be a better suited to talking about your husband when he can't control his flatulence around you. What seemed like a harmless joke at first quickly turned into a marriage-ending factor for these two. Why could a simple bodily function contribute to the end of relationship? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for SafeHaven in Arlington, TX: https://www.safehaventc.org/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: http...

Sep 10, 202441 minSeason 6Ep. 10

Break Down Bonus Episode: Understanding popular reasons people cheat

LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Aug 29, 202416 min

When he transitioned after their divorce.... - S6E9

The only thing lonelier than singleness is feeling alone in your marriage. When this week's interviewee said she felt her husband pulling away, she thought it was just because they were growing apart. It wasn't until after the divorce that she found out the distance between them ran much deeper than personality differences. We'll hear about the shocking call between the ex-wife and the new GF, when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for The Nest in Lexington,...

Aug 27, 202428 minSeason 6Ep. 9

Break Down Bonus: F*ckboys are boring: A Gay Man's Guide to Dating w/ Ryan Sheldon

Brawny model and eating disorder advocate, Ryan Sheldon bares it all on his escapades as a gay man looking for love in the digital swipe culture hellscape that is modern dating. F*ckboys Are Boring is a raw, hilarious dating guidebook for everyone. - Pre-order "F*ckboys are Boring: The Gay Man's Guide to Dating Everyone": https://www.amazon.com/ckboys-Are-Boring-Dating-Everyone/dp/1959524038 - Ryan Sheldon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/realryansheldon/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT:...

Aug 22, 202426 min

When he said his boyfriend cheated with 50 people.... - S6E8

Getting cheated on isn't good. Getting cheated on with 50 or so people is really not good. Getting cheated on by someone who knows they're putting your health at risk.....you know the rest. - This week we're raising awareness for Clackamas Women's Services in Portland, OR: https://www.cwsor.org/about-us/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.i...

Aug 20, 202424 minSeason 6Ep. 8

Break Down Bonus: He joined the show to get back at his ex?! w/ Coworker Jackson

LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Aug 15, 202421 min

When both exes showed up at his job and confronted him.... - S6E7

You know what they say...those that break up together...show up at their mutual exes' job and confront him together. Right? This Bonnie & Clyde duo plotted to make a scene after finding out they were being played and of course nothing goes to plan. Let's get the details when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for Safe Havens in Boston: http://www.interfaithpartners.org/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a...

Aug 13, 202423 minSeason 6Ep. 7

Break Down Bonus: Identifying grooming behaviors by our elders, romantic partners, and friends w/ Sally Baker

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Aug 08, 202423 min

When she said her mom & husband had an affair.... - S5Replay

[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - This episode originally aired in Season 5 - We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce! - This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby...

Aug 06, 20241 hr 20 min

Break Down Bonus: She used an oatmeal bath to try and cure her STD?!?!

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - S1E2: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d6a44e5000113fd037 - S1E9: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d6a44e5000113fd02f - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle...

Aug 01, 202415 min

When his google search history blew his cover.... - S6E6

If you've decided to open up your bf's phone, you already know something is up....but what exactly? When a mutual friend sends you sus screenshots from an app you never thought you'd see your man on, you decide to do some digging and end up finding information that could change your life entirely. We got all the deets when we broke down this week's break up! - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Hubbard House in Jackso...

Jul 30, 202419 minSeason 6Ep. 6

Break Down Bonus: Can I trust my gut if I have an anxiety disorder? w/ CBT Joanna Harris

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Jul 25, 202422 min

When the other woman's husband told her about the infidelity.... - S6E5

No one ever wants to fall victim to the DM with receipts/timelines/screenshots about the man they just planned an entire wedding with... When you've got a whole decade (and whole lotta cash) invested in a relationship, do you stick it out? Or take the DM and run for the hills? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Palomar in OKC: https://palomarokc.org/ - Submit a...

Jul 23, 202436 minSeason 6Ep. 5
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