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The Break Up Break Down

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When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

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Episodes

Break Down Bonus: Does your partner have an unhealthy relationship with Porn? w/ ExCoworker Justin

LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Mar 28, 202421 min

When he was sharing her nudes on reddit.... - S5E12

You never think things can get worse AFTER the break up, but when you receive a strange message from a man who says your ex is doing some shady stuff on Reddit with your pics....it's safe to say things are about to go down when we break down this week's break up. - Live Podcast Tickets!: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Wichita Family Crisis Center: https://wichitafamilycrisiscenter.app.neoncrm.com/np/clients/wichitafamilycrisisc...

Mar 26, 202431 minSeason 5Ep. 12

Break Down Bonus: Is an age-gap relationship right for you?

LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - Mickey Atkins Age-Gap Relationship Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3zC7YCVR28 - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https:/...

Mar 21, 202417 min

When her celeb crush DM'd her back.... - S5E11

If you've ever wanted to slide into the DMs of the hot guy in THAT band...this episode is for you. Turns out hooking up with the mysterious musician isn't all it's cracked up to be, but there's a lot you can learn from this week's guest's experience. - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for Partnership Against Domestic Violence in ATL: https://padv.org/ - Submit a break up story/coup...

Mar 19, 202425 minSeason 5Ep. 11

Break Down Bonus: Reacting to S5E10 w/ ExCoworker Justin

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Mar 14, 202419 min

When she said her husband slept with her daughter.... - S5E10

You know, it's one thing to cheat. It's a whole other thing to cheat with your CHILD. This week's guest says she is getting ready to serve her husband divorce papers....and DNA test results. - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Women Against Abuse in Philly: https://www.womenagainstabuse.org/services - Suicide Prevention Hotline Dial 988 - Suicide Prevention: https://988lifeline.org/talk-to-someone-now/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast...

Mar 12, 202426 minSeason 5Ep. 10

Break Down Bonus: Learning to trust again after betrayal ft. CoWorker Amber + Dr. Margaret Rutherford

Are you having a hard time trusting your new partner after your last relationship? Your ex may have damaged your ability to trust again, but you don't have to live in fear forever. Dr. Margaret Rutherford joins Abby to talk about what you can to have a healthy relationship with your new partner. - Check out Dr. Margaret Rutherford's: - Website: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/ - Podcast: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/selfwork/ - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbym...

Mar 07, 202441 min

When the 'other woman' came clean in an email.... - S5E9

You barely check your inbox, but the one time you check it, your BF's other girlfriend comes clean in an email! Suddenly everything you thought you knew about the last year of your relationship feels like a lie....so we got the details when we broke down this weeks break up. - This week we're raising awareness for Safe Place in Sarasota, FL: https://www.sparcc.net/donate/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagra...

Mar 05, 202432 minSeason 5Ep. 9

Break Down Bonus: How do I leave a manipulative relationship? w/ Vernique Esther, LMSW (Replay)

[SCROLL FOR CW] - Have you ever felt manipulated by your partner? Did you try to break up with them, but they kept luring you back in? Abby brings on LMSW Vernique Esther to talk about how to recognize manipulation, set boundaries, and leave if necessary. - Check out Vernique Esther's: - Website: https://www.verniqueesther.com/ - The Wholeness Academy: https://www.thewholenessacademy.com/ - Books: https://www.verniqueesther.com/shop - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abb...

Feb 29, 202426 min

When she had an affair with their boss.... - S3Replay

This week we're bringing awareness to My Sister's House in Charleston, SC: https://www.mysistershouse.org/give - This episode originally aired on January 31, 2023 - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPy...

Feb 27, 202441 min

Break Down Bonus: Getting over the person you thought you'd marry w/ ExCoworker Justin

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Feb 22, 202421 min

When he broke up with her on their wedding day.... - S5E8

On your wedding day, the last thing you're expecting is for your fiancee to walk in and cancel on you. Like, could we not have had this conversation two years ago?! This ex-bride says that's exactly what happened to her. After she attended her wedding (alone) she thought that was the end, but a few months later she'd get a call from him that would send her spiraling. - This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: h...

Feb 20, 202450 minSeason 5Ep. 8

Break Down Bonus: Protecting your mental health in casual relationships w/ Jessica Hutchison

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - National Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/ - What proof do you need for a protective order?: https://www.findlaw.com/legalblogs/law-and-life/what-proof-do-you-need-to-get-a-restraining-order/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ -...

Feb 15, 202422 min

When a secret IG account exposed his past.... - S5E7

Imagine losing your virginity to your new boo and finding out he has an arrest record the next day. Way to burst the post-coital bliss. Do you look past your new man's history or stick by him and hope he's changed? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for Journey in Cleveland, OH: https://www.journeyneo.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/thea...

Feb 13, 202429 minSeason 5Ep. 7

Break Down Bonus: Learning to trust again after Intimate Partner Violence w/ Katherine Ripley & Dr. Margaret Rutherford

[SCROLL FOR CW] - Follow Katherine Ripley, LMSW: linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist - Dr. Margaret Rutherford's Website: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/ - Dr. Margaret Rutherford's Podcast: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/selfwork/ - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms....

Feb 08, 202442 min

When she said he faked his cancer diagnosis.... - S5E6

[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - She thought she had finally left her ex for good...when he called her up and told her about a devastating diagnosis. She took him in until she started suspecting that he had spun a web of lies to keep her in the relationship. - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - When she said her wife lied about having cancer...S3E1: https://open.spotify.com/episode/39DterRk42lMoxagOLiq7M?si=rSyVt3EpSBGKJJhcTd0LKg - Follow the podcast! - Abby's I...

Feb 06, 202452 minSeason 5Ep. 6

Break Down Bonus Episode: Is love enough to push past cultural differences? w/ CoWorker Jackson

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Feb 01, 202424 min

When he was falsely accused of a crime.... - S5E5

[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - Submit a break up story/couple : https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (02:47): How they met - (14:31): The false accusations - (21:34): When he was finally c...

Jan 30, 202441 minSeason 5Ep. 5

Break Down Bonus: The connection between narcissism and serial cheating

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Jan 25, 202418 minSeason 5Ep. 4

When the mistresses exposed the affairs in the comments section.... - S5E4

[SCROLL FOR CW] She says her husband had an affair with multiple women while she was pregnant...and the mistresses came forward In the comments section of one of her TikTok videos. - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms....

Jan 23, 202436 minSeason 5Ep. 4

Break Down Bonus: The signs you're getting love bombed w/ ExCoworker Justin

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - 5 Signs you're getting love bombed w/ Kati Morton: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlXoI_XJGAg&t=151s - How to spot a love bomber w/ Matthew Hussey: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlXoI_XJGAg&t=151s - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Subm...

Jan 18, 202414 min

When he wrote their break up song while they were still together.... - S5E3

Her indie musician bf wrote and performed a song about them breaking up for her...while they were still together! Would you stay with someone who was already planning the end of the relationship?! - This week we're raising awareness for Abuse Counseling & Treatment, Inc.: https://actabuse.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/...

Jan 16, 202448 minSeason 5Ep. 3

Break Down Bonus: Getting strung along in your relationship? You're not alone. w/ Lexi

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Jan 11, 202423 min

When she wouldn't let him break up w/ her.... - S5E2

You know that friend that won't break up with their toxic partner? Admit it we all have one...and this week...we're talking to one of my coworkers who says he stayed because his ex wouldn't let him dump her.... - This week we're raising awareness for My Sister's House in Charleston: https://www.mysistershouse.org/about-us - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.t...

Jan 09, 202452 minSeason 5Ep. 2

Break Down Bonus: Identifying grooming behaviors by our elders, romantic partners, and friends w/ Sally Baker

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Jan 04, 202423 min

When she said her mom & husband had an affair.... - S5E1

We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce! - This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www...

Jan 02, 20241 hr 20 minSeason 5Ep. 1

Break Down Bonus: Breaking down our attachment styles w/ LCSW Kat Schneider (Replay)

This episode originally aired on Dec. 8th, 2022 - You already know Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are already a bit messed up...so we decided to make a whole episode talking about their attachment issues! LCSW Kat Schneider joins the podcast as well to give a professional take on attachment styles and even relates them to 'The Office' characters! - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up B...

Dec 28, 202330 min

When her best friend had feelings for her boyfriend.... - Replay

This reply episode originally aired on Dec. 6th, 2022 - This week we're raising awareness for The Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZ...

Dec 26, 202338 min

When the break ups were yet to be solved.... - Season 4 Finale Pt. 2

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (01:00): Submission #1 - (02:21): Submission #2 - (04:23): Submission #3 - (06:35): Submission #4 - (08:44): Submission ...

Dec 21, 202319 minSeason 4Ep. 24

When the break ups were yet to be solved.... - Season 4 Finale

Season 5 Kicks off on January 2nd- here are some of the submissions we may get to do deep dives on next year.... - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (01:5...

Dec 19, 202322 minSeason 4Ep. 23
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