The Bondage Gaze

The Bondage Gaze is a place where we discuss the male bondage perspective in everything from mainstream pop culture to niche movies and TV, from adult content to our own personal experiences with the rest of the world.

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Episodes

Ticklefest: Round Two

Part 2. Nat (thoughtful_fetishist) Sammy (substandardsammy2), and Nate (ropedraak) continue discussion on all things kink, group play, and Ticklefest!

Dec 07, 2023•53 min•Season 3Ep. 35

Welcome to Ticklefest!

Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful_fetishist) are joined by their final guest for 2023, Nate (ropedraak), as they commence a 3-part discussion on all things kink, group play, and Nate's role as the organiser of Ticklefest!

Nov 30, 2023•55 min•Season 3Ep. 34

Two Brats and a Nat

Calling all brats and brat tamers, Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) and Sammy (substandardsammy2) are joined by returning guest Mike (knot_nuts) for a discussion on submissive brats.

Nov 16, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 33

Reluctantly Daddy (Part 2)

After milking him over two weeks, Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) conclude their conversation with the leatherbound stud Jonathan (hushednbound).

Nov 09, 2023•53 min•Season 3Ep. 32

Reluctantly Daddy (Part 1)

Over two weeks, Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) are joined by Jonathan (hushednbound). He loves leather, bondage, and travelling, and as an added bonus he'll tolerate you calling him Daddy. Tune in as anything goes!

Nov 02, 2023•57 min•Season 3Ep. 31

Gaze In The Big Top (Part 2)

It's closing night in The Big Top! Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) are joined by Barney (TStoater) the kink illustrator and host of 'The Big Top' podcast to conclude their discussion on clowns, diapers, impact play, and more. Admission strictly 18+.

Oct 26, 2023•56 min•Season 3Ep. 30

Gaze In The Big Top (Part 1)

Come one, come all, join us in the big top for opening night! Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) are joined by Barney (TStoater) the kink illustrator and host of 'The Big Top' podcast for a scandalous discussion including clowns, diapers, impact play, and more. Admission strictly 18+.

Oct 19, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Season 3Ep. 29

CNC, Spit Roasts, and Heartburn (Part 3)

Part 3. There are no limits as Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) are joined by Aggie (bound_aggie) over three weeks for a supersized kinky conversation.

Oct 12, 2023•59 min•Season 3Ep. 28

CNC, Spit Roasts, and Heartburn (Part 2)

Part 2. There are no limits as Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) are joined by Aggie (bound_aggie) over three weeks for a supersized kinky conversation.

Oct 05, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Season 3Ep. 27

CNC, Spit Roasts, and Heartburn (Part 1)

Part 1. There are no limits as Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) are joined by Aggie (bound_aggie) over three weeks for a supersized kinky conversation.

Sep 28, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 26

That Sounds Like A Culture!

Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) are back, and this week they’re joined by kink star Danny (kinkmate13.0) for an in-depth discussion on the culture that is the male bondage community.

Sep 21, 2023•1 hr 16 min•Season 3Ep. 25

Best Bondage Scenarios

Mid-Season Finale. Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) are joined by Higgy (pup_higgy) for a discussion on their best bondage scenarios, among other debaucherous topics. This episode might be our heaviest yet - listener discretion is advised.

Jul 27, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 24

Suits, Socks, and Submission (Part 3)

Part 3. Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) are joined by the submissive superstar Johan (johdarg) as they conclude their no limits conversation.

Jul 20, 2023•49 min•Season 3Ep. 23

Suits, Socks, and Submission (Part 2)

Part 2. Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) are joined by the submissive superstar Johan (johdarg) as they continue their no limits conversation.

Jul 13, 2023•51 min•Season 3Ep. 22

Suits, Socks, and Submission (Part 1)

Part 1. Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) are joined by the submissive superstar Johan (johdarg) to kick off a three part no limits conversation.

Jul 06, 2023•47 min•Season 3Ep. 21

Heteronormative Hell

Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful_fetishist) are joined by the self-proclaimed sadistic bitch CJ (CJ_2125 on Twitter) as he discusses his love of tormenting subs and his experiences with tying up straight men.

Jun 29, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 20

Art vs. Content

Artists and content creators collide as Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful_fetishist) are joined by Dave (gaggedtightly) for an anything goes conversation.

Jun 15, 2023•55 min•Season 3Ep. 19

Coming Out Kinky (Part 2)

Part 2. Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful_fetishist) are joined by Freddie (gaggedhostagebear) as they discuss their experiences on coming out as a kinkster - among other debaucherous things.

Jun 08, 2023•53 min•Season 3Ep. 18

Coming Out Kinky (Part 1)

Part 1. Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful_fetishist) are joined by Freddie (gaggedhostagebear) as they discuss their experiences on coming out as a kinkster - among other debaucherous things.

Jun 01, 2023•59 min•Season 3Ep. 17

Dungeons, Playrooms, and Playspaces (Part 2)

Part 2. Over two weeks, Nat (thoughtful_fetishist) and Sammy (substandardsammy2) are joined by Joe (gagged_w_tape) as they discuss his experiences in designing dungeons, playrooms, and playspaces.

May 18, 2023•51 min•Season 3Ep. 16

Dungeons, Playrooms, and Playspaces (Part 1)

Part 1. Over two weeks, Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful_fetishist) are joined by Joe (gagged_w_tape) as they discuss his experiences in designing dungeons, playrooms, and playspaces.

May 11, 2023•49 min•Season 3Ep. 15

Gaining and Feedism (Part 3)

Part 3. Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful_fetishist) are joined by the Thicc Radio podcast host, James (s.t.a.n.n.u.m), for an insightful discussion on gaining and feedism.

May 04, 2023•54 min•Season 3Ep. 14

Gaining and Feedism (Part 2)

Part 2. Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful_fetishist) are joined by the Thicc Radio podcast host, James (s.t.a.n.n.u.m), for an insightful discussion on gaining and feedism.

Apr 27, 2023•51 min•Season 3Ep. 13

Gaining and Feedism (Part 1)

Part 1. Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful_fetishist) are joined by the Thicc Radio podcast host, James (s.t.a.n.n.u.m), for an insightful discussion on gaining and feedism.

Apr 20, 2023•52 min•Season 3Ep. 12

A Gaze Back (2nd Anniversary Special)

Join Sammy (substandardsammy2) and Nat (thoughtful.fetishist) as they celebrate two years of The Bondage Gaze, by looking back at some of their favourite moments from the first two seasons.

Apr 13, 2023•1 hr 17 min

Mental Health in the Kink Community

Sammy (substandardsammy2), Nat (thoughtful_fetishist), and Louis (leatherladleeds) discuss their mental health journeys, and how kink can be affected by mental health. Also featuring contributions from Tom (suitorsouthern) and lthrup69. This episode contains topics that some listeners may find triggering. Discretion is advised.

Mar 30, 2023•1 hr 46 min•Season 3Ep. 11

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