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The Bittersweet Life

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Life doesn't have a script. At least, it doesn't have to. Hosts Katy Sewall and Tiffany Parks explore the challenges and joys of moving abroad and moving home. Whether you’re living overseas, or not — or not yet — join us weekly for unadulterated conversation. Get to know Rome. Laugh at our embarrassments and insights. Most of all, imagine the possibilities for your own life (and meet some famous authors along the way).
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Bittersweet Moment #64: Visiting an Empty Colosseum

What's it like to visit the Colosseum in the time of corona? This iconic monument usually crams thousands of tourists in at a time, making the experience hot, sweaty, and often uninspiring (even if it is one of the most inspiring sights in the whole world.) Now that the Colosseum has reopened after months of quarantine, there are strict regulations on how many people can visit the site at the same time—not to mention the fact that there are still close to zero tourists in Rome right now. Tiffany...

Jun 25, 202017 minSeason 7Ep. 64

Episode 321: Living Alone during Lockdown (with Nicole Hardy)

What is the reality of living alone during this pandemic, when your entire town, state, or even country goes into a strict quarantine? What are the worst days like, and how do you stay healthy, safe, and sane when loneliness and the longing for human connection are prominent parts of every day? Today we talk with Nicole Hardy, a Seattle-based writer who has been living in complete isolation since Seattle went into quarantine nearly four months ago. She opens up about her difficult and painful ex...

Jun 22, 202037 minSeason 7Ep. 321

Bittersweet Moment #63: What's Going On in Seattle? (with Casey Martin)

Wondering what's going on in Seattle's police-free zone? The national media's reporting on the CHOP (Capital Hill Organized Protest) has, at times, been inaccurate. Today you can hear the truth from someone who's there every day. On this mini-episode, we are joined again by Seattle-based NPR reporter Casey Martin for the inside story. Casey has been on Seattle's Capitol Hill since the protests began, and has spent all week in the zone talking to shop owners, protestors, residents, and armed civi...

Jun 18, 202017 minSeason 7Ep. 63

Episode 320: Facing Death (with Jim deMaine, MD)

Whether you regularly contemplate your own mortality (like Katy), or give it very little thought (like Tiffany), we all have death on the mind more than usual during this time of pandemic. We may be worried about losing the older members of our families, overwhelmed by the staggering number of lives Covid-19 has already claimed, or are simply more aware that life is all too fleeting. Today we're joined by Jim deMaine, a retired pulmonary and critical care physician, a clinical professor of medic...

Jun 13, 202035 minSeason 7Ep. 320

Bittersweet Moment #62: Quarantine in Trastevere (with Amy Knauff)

You've heard all about how Katy and Tiffany spent their quarantines (or are still spending them, in Katy's case), but what was quarantine like for a someone living alone in Rome's lively and quaint Trastevere neighborhood while working from home? On this mini-episode, Tiffany checks in with her friend Amy Knauff (who appeared on Episode 27: UNSURE , way back in Season One), about her experiences with a completely solitary quarantine in the very heart of Rome. ------------------------------------...

Jun 11, 202014 minSeason 7Ep. 62

Episode 319: Who Is Rome For?

In cities like Rome, tourists are part of the city’s identity, its reality, its way of life. When they go away—and don’t come back—the city will inevitably change and adapt. Will the countless AirBNBs turn back into regular rentals, and will that in turn cause locals to move back to the historic center? Will the souvenir shops that have crowded out the artisanal workshops close their doors? Will restaurants that once hawked mediocre fare to tourists be forced to raise their standards in order to...

Jun 07, 202041 minSeason 7Ep. 319

Bittersweet Moment #61: A Nation in Protest (with reporter Casey Martin)

Protests over the murder of George Floyd, a black man in Minneapolis, have sprung up in cities across the United States. In Seattle, peaceful protests calling for justice have also generated violence, looting, and clashes with police, undermining from the message of the Black Lives Matters activists. Public Radio reporter Casey Martin has been in the thick of it, and joins us to explain the view from the streets, and what it is like to cover a riot during a raging pandemic. Find Casey on Instagr...

Jun 04, 202024 minSeason 7Ep. 61

Episode 318: The Nature of Time

Why does time pass more slowly or quickly depending on what we are doing? Why is it that we sometimes completely lose track of the time, and what does it mean to truly live in the present? Are the past, the present, and the future all happening at the same time (at least in our minds), and has the future already happened? These are just some of the intriguing questions we ask ourselves this week, particularly given the unprecedented time we are all living in. (By the way, did you know that "time...

May 31, 202034 minSeason 7Ep. 318

Bittersweet Moment #60: Italy's New Rules of the Road

What can you expect when you go out to eat in Italy during Phase Two? What about if you want to go to a museum, get your hair cut, or just grab a coffee at your local bar? What's the deal with shopping and trying on clothes? On this mini-episode, we give you the nitty-gritty on what to expect when you head out into the world again—at least for those of us living in Italy. And for the rest of the world, here's what might be in your future. --------------------------------------- ADVERTISE WITH US...

May 27, 202016 minSeason 7Ep. 60

Episode 317: Out and About in Rome

Italy has officially reopened for business. While masks are required in public places, social distancing is (supposedly) non-negotiable, and tourism is still non-existent, life is nevertheless quickly returning to normal. Perhaps too quickly? After Tiffany’s first aperitivo in Rome since the beginning of lockdown, she’s a bit apprehensive about how carelessly many of her fellow Romans (and sometimes herself) are picking up their old habits. Will the irrepressible sociality of Italians cause a se...

May 23, 202039 minSeason 7Ep. 317

Bittersweet Moment #59: MEMORIZATION (with Katy's dad, Dale)

Memory is the buzz word on The Bittersweet Life this week! Monday's episode was all about autobiographical memory, and on this mini-episode, Katy's dad Dale stops by to talk about the challenges and rewards of memorizing a speech of prose as opposed to rhyming rhythmic poetry. He also explains why he chooses to memorize things and what it means to want to have the words in him . He explains how, even after years of not revisiting a poem or speech he's memorized, parts of it never leave him, and ...

May 21, 202021 minSeason 7Ep. 59

Episode 316: The Nature of Memory (with Susan Engel)

Why do we remember certain things and forget others? Do some people simply have a better memory than others, or is it something we can practice and get better at? Perhaps most intriguing of all: how reliable are our memories really? Do our stories change to fit our perception of ourselves? This week, we muse about the nature of memory, particularly in regard to the fact that we’re all living through an unprecedented moment in living history. We wonder, are we more likely to remember the details ...

May 16, 202044 minSeason 7Ep. 316

Bittersweet Moment #58: EMPTY ROME

Rome has finally opened up for walks in the center. Even so, when Tiffany finally has a chance to wander through the city, she finds it all but empty at midday. From the Spanish Steps to Piazza Venezia, from the Pantheon to Piazza Navona, Tiffany finds empty streets, chirping birds, and precious few residents out for a stroll. On this mini-episode, Tiffany takes you along on her walk around empty Rome, capturing the sounds she hears and describing the sights she sees, from a deserted Trevi Fount...

May 14, 202011 minSeason 7Ep. 58

Episode 315: THE FUTURE OF TRAVEL

With international and even domestic travel all but ground to a halt in the wake of the coronavirus outbreak, the question on everyone's lips is: what is travel going to be like once everything is back to "normal"? Will it become unaffordable to fly? Will museums limit the number of people who can enter at a time? Will prices on everything skyrocket making travel once again a luxury for the elite? Or will airlines and other tourist providers offer amazing deals to lure reluctant travelers back i...

May 09, 202035 minSeason 7Ep. 315

Bittersweet Moment #57: DISPATCH FROM SEATTLE

What's going on in Seattle right now? More to the point, what's going on with Katy in Seattle? On this mini-episode, Katy checks in with what's in store for the city in the near future, as well as how she's doing, and what she's doing to stay safe, sane, and well during this crazy time. She also talks about how and why Seattle is one of the cities in the US that has been first to begin to flatten the curve, and she muses on why that might be. Find the New Yorker article that she cites here . ---...

May 07, 202010 minSeason 7Ep. 57

Episode 314: STRAY (with Stephanie Danler)

How do you transcend a childhood marred by addiction and go on to pursue the life that is calling to you? This week, Katy sits down with bestselling author Stephanie Danler to talk about her forthcoming memoir Stray , but also to discuss what it takes to make the hard decisions that will allow you to claim the kind of life you know you want. Danler examines her overwhelming desire to wander the world and spend time in places where she can be anonymous, as well as what it took to face her fears a...

May 03, 202032 minSeason 7Ep. 314

Bittersweet Moment #56: ITALY BEGINS TO OPEN

Italy's lockdown restrictions are finally about to begin (and, more essentially, we finally know what they entail). In this mini-episode, Tiffany goes through the new rules, as well as her reactions to them. (Hint: she's slightly frustrated, and plenty perplexed.) She also hears from Aurelio about the places he's most looking forward to going once Rome is fully open again. --------------------------------------- ADVERTISE WITH US: Reach expats, future expats, and travelers all over the world. Se...

Apr 30, 202011 minSeason 7Ep. 56

Episode 313: Virtual Tour of Rome

Longing to wander the streets of Rome, visit its most beautiful squares, and marvel at its monuments? Since, for now, that isn't possible for any of us (even those of us who live in Rome) we've put together a virtual auditory tour of the Eternal City. The magic of radio brings Katy's expert editing skills and Tiffany's knowledge of Rome together for a light-hearted, informative virtual walk through Rome... until the time we can do it for real. --------------------------------------- ADVERTISE WI...

Apr 26, 202039 minSeason 7Ep. 313

Bittersweet Moment #55: Memorizing Poetry

Today Tiffany talks about one of her favorite hobbies: memorizing poetry! She lays out the plethora of surprising benefits she reaps from this personal practice, as well as a list of tips on how to start out memorizing your own favorite poems. Be sure to listen all the way to the end to hear a cameo poetry reading by Aurelio! Click here to find the gorgeous recitation of John Keats' Ode to a Nightingale , played at the end of this episode. Did you recognize his voice? ---------------------------...

Apr 23, 202021 minSeason 7Ep. 55

Episode 312: PHASE TWO

When will Italy reopen—and what will that reopening entail? These are the questions that Italy's residents have been asking themselves constantly lately. Rumor has it, Italy's country-wide lockdown will come to an end on May 4th, although this is not official yet. Hypotheses abound and no one really knows what to expect. Although one thing is for certain: this is only Phase Two. This crisis is far from over and social distancing and some restrictions of movement will likely go on for the foresee...

Apr 19, 202033 minSeason 7Ep. 312

Bittersweet Moment #54: Learning to Read in Two Languages at Once

With Aurelio home from school, Tiffany is taking the opportunity to teach him how to read and write in English—before Italian school gets its hooks into him. She explains why she's taking this so seriously, as well as some of the exercises she (with no pedagogy training) has come up with, and the biggest surprises she's had in the quest to teach a bilingual child to read. --------------------------------------- ADVERTISE WITH US: Reach expats, future expats, and travelers all over the world. Sen...

Apr 16, 202018 minSeason 7Ep. 53

Episode 311: LONG DISTANCE

We all have those close friendships that survive over time, despite the fact that we live half a world apart. And now—with most of us living under lockdown for the foreseeable future—all of our friendships are long-distance now. Is there a secret ingredient to making those relationships last and deepen over time? What are the best strategies for keeping friendships close in spite of the distance? We get some insight from two friends of the show, Stefania and Katharine over at This Life Explains ...

Apr 13, 202036 minSeason 7Ep. 311

Bittersweet Moment #53: Roman Easter in the Time of Coronavirus

Rome is the center of the Catholic world, the home the pope, the city of St. Peter. Easter time draws enormous crowds of faithful to participate in the high holiday services and be blessed by the pope himself. But this year, Easter is cancelled. Or almost. Easter services will still be performed in the Vatican and churches around the city, but unless you're a priest, an organist, or a deacon, you're not allowed to go. What will Easter in Rome (and around most of the world) be like this year, sin...

Apr 09, 202021 minSeason 7Ep. 53

Episode 310: A Day in the Life under Quarantine, Part 2

In the second part of this Day in the Life episode, Katy offers a rare glimpse into what it’s like to edit and a long piece of tape, extracting its gems to transform it into something engaging. Karen, a US expat in the Dolomites, cycles home from work, hoping not to be stopped by the Carabinieri, to Jill in Oregon spots a hummingbird and looks for the silver lining in the midst of chaos. From Steve and Linda in Orvieto making homemade pizza to Simon from Melbourne as he walks his dog to Valentin...

Apr 06, 202021 minSeason 7Ep. 310

Episode 309: A Day in the Life under Quarantine, Part 1

What does a day in the life of someone under lockdown look like? That's what we asked our listeners for today's episode, offering a peek into their lives throughout the course of a day as well as our own. From Lynn in San Francisco as she studies Italian to Scott trying to find some space for himself in his basement, from Madeline in Menlo Park remembering to be thankful to best-selling author Jess Walter who is very used to working from home. From Nancy in Wisconsin dealing with spring snowfall...

Apr 05, 202033 minSeason 7Ep. 309

Bittersweet Moment #52: Shopping and Consumerism in the Time of Coronavirus

What happens when you CAN’T shop? When all the stores in your town are closed and your supermarket stops selling anything beyond the basic necessities? Even major online shops are running out of merchandise or have month-long waiting periods for delivery. What’s an eager consumer to do? And a perhaps more interesting question: is this a good thing? Of course no one wants the economy to collapse or people to lose their businesses or jobs, but could we all get used to not constantly buying stuff, ...

Apr 02, 202026 minSeason 7Ep. 52

Episode 308: Tips and Tricks for Surviving Quarantine

An astounding half of the world's population is now on some form of legal lockdown, quarantine, shelter-in-place, or self-isolation. With many of our listeners new to Quarantine Life, Tiffany, who as of today has been on lockdown for 21 days, offers some practical advice on today's episode. Tune in for tricks and tips for listeners who are have isolation looming for the unforeseeable future: how to stay sane, stay healthy, and not murder your mate. --------------------------------------- ADVERTI...

Mar 29, 202032 minSeason 7Ep. 308

Bittersweet Moment #51: LOCKDOWN, Part 4

How are our daily lives changed due to quarantine and life during the coronavirus outbreak? It seems like every day something changes: restrictions get tighter, a new epicenter emerges, and the new theories on the best way to conquer this crisis emerge. It's hard to keep up, so we like to check in with you from time to time to let you know how we are faring—and hear from you as well. This week, we read a letter from a listener (and recent expat in Italy) who, despite the challenges, is finding t...

Mar 26, 202021 minSeason 7Ep. 51

Episode 307: REPORTING

When did a podcast about travel, living abroad, embracing adventure, and going off the script become about… staying home all day, every day? Since coronavirus, that’s when. The Bittersweet Life is certainly not the only media platform that is suddenly all about the spread of this virus and the quarantines around the world that it is necessitating. So today we ask, what’s it like to cover a major world-wide news story that changes and develops practically every day and blots out every other thing...

Mar 23, 202035 minSeason 7Ep. 307

Bittersweet Moment #50: LOCKDOWN, Part 3

Lockdown has hit the United States—at least in some parts of the country. And people all around the nation are choosing to self-isolate. On this mini-episode, Katy and Tiffany discuss the realities of life under quarantine, including the practical things you need to do if you must leave your house. They also wonder if self-isolation will make enough of a difference, or if a nationwide lawful quarantine is the only way to combat the spread of Coronavirus. Tiffany also lays out Italy's grim number...

Mar 18, 202021 minSeason 7Ep. 50
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