When the the conversation seems to take a left turn and then another and in confusion, you ask yourself what they really mean? It is hard to know what they really mean and what they are trying to get at and there are numerous ways the message is clouded. Let's see what Brannon and Tyler Patrick, his brother that treats sex addiction and betrayal trauma, say about this challenging aspect of recovery. Additionally, you can catch more recent podcasts of Brannon and his brother on the Real Talk Reco...
Nov 19, 2019•22 min•Season 2Ep. 126
Brannon and his brother are both therapists who treat sex addiction and betrayal trauma but how did that happen? For the first time, they are in the studio to discuss how they both ended up in the same field with the same specialty. Listen as they discuss some of the key issues they face as therapists from the perspective of brothers. You can also catch more recent episodes on the podcast where Brannon and his brother break down many great questions on healing relationships. We are glad you foun...
Nov 12, 2019•31 min•Season 2Ep. 125
The podcast is really a way to Brannon, Ashlynn, and Coby to share their experience and insights from addiction, betrayal, and recovery both in life and in the clinic. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. We do not use our Patreon account any further, however we still provide the following methods of support. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to loo...
Nov 05, 2019•35 min•Season 2Ep. 124
When there are so many unknowns in life how do we manage our thoughts to the point of not letting the worst-case scenarios play out in our heads over and over? How do we recognize we are going down that path before things really get out of control? How do we reality check our fears that manifest in our minds and feel so real? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby approach this topic. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many...
Oct 29, 2019•29 min•Season 2Ep. 123
Why did Brannon decide to become a therapist? What was behind his decision and how did he become so specialized? Listen as Coby and Ashlynn ask all kinds of questions to reveal the man behind the expertise. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is...
Oct 22, 2019•21 min•Season 2Ep. 122
Relapse is a part of recovery and a painful one at that. What happens when relapse does take place and what is the right course of action? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby walk through the ins and outs of this topic. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondb...
Oct 15, 2019•30 min•Season 2Ep. 121
Passive-Aggressive relationships are challenging but most people don't know they are acting that way. It is taught by example and very easy to pick up. Honesty and vulnerability are the keys to getting out of this kind of relationship. It takes mindfulness but once you really get it, you can work on it. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from ...
Oct 08, 2019•30 min•Season 2Ep. 120
Sexual feelings can be riddled with shame and guilt which can increase the feeling of being "bad" for having them. Where do they come from? How can one see it when it happens and make sense of it? How can one move beyond them? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby move through this episode on the delicate topic. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healin...
Oct 01, 2019•40 min•Season 2Ep. 119
When the conversation of sex is avoided, minimized and ignored what do we do? What can be done? How can it be discussed in a way that is safe and honest? What keeps this topic so taboo? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby share experiences of their own and the journey they have had. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite ...
Sep 24, 2019•33 min•Season 2Ep. 118
What does it feel like to be controlled by a partner when it comes to sex? What is the approach when one person in a relationship does not feel like like they can be themselves and authentic to who they are because they are being controlled by the other? We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program ht...
Sep 17, 2019•25 min•Season 2Ep. 117
As part of the Sextember series on the podcast, Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby walk through rejection and how it plays a role in a relationship. Why does the addict reject the betrayed? Why does the betrayed reject the addicted? What must be considered when people deal with this? Listen as Brannon, Coby and Ashlynn take a new spin on this sensitive topic. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relations...
Sep 10, 2019•33 min•Season 2Ep. 116
This is a one of a kind episode where Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby host a live event and allow their audience to ask questions of any kind. They have never produced an episode like this so listen as they field questions of all kinds. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough....
Sep 03, 2019•49 min•Season 2Ep. 115
Speaking truth for Coby as a young boy was always scary as even if he told the truth, he would get in trouble. That carried over with him into his marraige to Ashlynn. What else was it that lead Coby from disclosing the truth? Listen as Brannon leads Ashlynn and Coby on this episode to discovering the things that kept him from disclosing truth.
Aug 27, 2019•32 min•Season 2Ep. 114
Trust is a foundational piece to any relationship but can we feel it and trust that it is what we think it is? Can we also feel the lack of trust when it is gone or when it starts to subside? How can we become more sensitive to the emotions and feelings of trust? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby discuss this paramount feeling of trust. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you...
Aug 20, 2019•34 min•Season 2Ep. 113
Join in as we revisit our story of recovery! We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. Although our journey has taken us to seperate paths, the principles still apply. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding...
Aug 16, 2019•29 min•Season 2Ep. 112
Giving our emotions to someone else to determine how we feel, for better or worse, is codependency. How does this take place? Why do we betray ourselves when this happens? This episode will identify how codependent both Coby and Ashlynn were and how they sometimes deal with it still. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite...
Aug 13, 2019•46 min•Season 2Ep. 111
Work was an environment for Coby where he was a different person. He did not act the same at work as he did at home. This caused a lot of questions, anxiety, confusion, doubt and betrayal for Ashlynn. Listen as Coby shares what he did do that was no appropriate at work and its effect on Ashlynn. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal...
Aug 06, 2019•38 min•Season 2Ep. 110
How can one ever feel enough when they are betrayed? Does the addict struggle with not feeling enough? What do you do when this is a pervasive thought? How does one deal with it? This episode will walk through the journey Ashlynn and Coby on this topic. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program htt...
Jul 31, 2019•38 min•Season 2Ep. 109
Women are susceptible to cheating the same as men. However, what does a man do when his female partner has the affair? There are way more resources for women who have been betrayed than the men so what is a guy to do? Listen as this dynamic is discussed. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program ht...
Jul 23, 2019•31 min•Season 2Ep. 108
Relapsing over and over can put an addict into a headspace of apathy as they can feel powerless to stop. The betrayed can spiral in the face of continual relapse as the message from the addict can be that they don't care. Why does relapsing keep happening despite the best, heartfelt intentions? We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal ...
Jul 16, 2019•30 min•Season 2Ep. 107
The way we act as adults is largely affected by the way we were raised. When things are so challenging in life how do we overcome the habits, mindset and behavioral norms from our childhood? Listen as Coby and Ashlynn walk through their experience with Brannon. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our pro...
Jul 09, 2019•31 min•Season 2Ep. 106
There are all kinds of steps to take in recovery and in life but what happens when one partner is not ready to move at the same pace another is? That can be a tricky path to walk and may be in the pace they want to take in recovery and many others. How do we focus on ourselves and still allow our partners their own pace, even if we want to move faster? We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relatio...
Jul 02, 2019•29 min•Season 2Ep. 105
There are so many therapists with the credentials that speak to what they may be able to do to help but is there more to a good therapist? Is there something more to take into consideration when making a decision on which therapist is right for me? All these questions and more are discussed today on this very honest and candid episode. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you wo...
Jun 25, 2019•49 min•Season 2Ep. 104
What are the signs? What are the things to be looking for? How do I know they are cheating or if I am just spinning in my head? All these questions are addressed in this episode. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is not a program about staying...
Jun 18, 2019•31 min•Season 2Ep. 103
There is never any magic pill to recovery but there is a way to make small improvements even when things suck. Being curious can make all the difference when things are tough as it can help you get out of your own way and consider where your partner is. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program htt...
Jun 11, 2019•32 min•Season 2Ep. 102
Feeling unique is a common thing. One can go to a single 12 step meeting and walk away thinking their story is better or worse than others and feel a sense of hopelessness or a sense of pride and denial. Listen as Brannon, Coby and Ashlynn share their experience with this curious frame of mind and perspective. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healin...
Jun 04, 2019•30 min•Season 2Ep. 101
Abuse is a devastating thing in all its forms and has no place in a relationship no matter who you are. Is it possible though to be in a relationship and not realize it is abusive? How do I know if my partner and I abusive to each other without knowing it? Brannon walks Coby and Ashlynn through this difficult topic. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in ...
May 28, 2019•46 min•Season 2Ep. 100
There are always unanswered questions about an affair that can spin endlessly in the mind of the one betrayed. What are some considerations in pursuing the idea? What would you say? Listen as Ashlynn shares her thoughts on what she did when she reached out to Coby's second affair partner. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d i...
May 21, 2019•25 min•Season 2Ep. 99
In the past each month we hosted a Q&A where we answer questions from people. This episode is a small piece of that. Patreon is not an option any further. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is not a program about staying together or leaving...
May 14, 2019•28 min•Season 2Ep. 98
When the addicted has betrayed so many times, lied over and over how can the one who was hurt NOT watch every move with an all seeing eye? That is the first instinct much of the time but why is it not helpful? What does it do to the relationship? Listen as Brannon walks through this key crossroad of recovery with Coby and Ashlynn. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would l...
May 07, 2019•33 min•Season 2Ep. 97
