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The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert

Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchellwww.beyond-enough.com
Have you been through an affair, or struggle with healing a shattered or disconnected relationship? Each week the hosts of the originally combined Betrayed Addicted Expert podcast now release their own podcasts continueing their journeys in serving those who have faced the pain and challenge of betrayal and addiction, and chose to move forward.
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Episodes

From Hopeless to Hope

We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. In this episode we discusses a program we have chosen to not make available any more due to Coby and Ashlynn's divorce though the program was about developing trust which can sometimes lead to tough conversations and even divorce. We still believe in the principles, but possibly there are other options below that best would serve your needs. If ...

Apr 30, 201921 minSeason 2Ep. 96

Why Does It Hurt When the Addict Says I'm Beautiful?

When words are cheap how can an addict expect the betrayed to embrace a kind and sweet word? How can something be true when there is nothing by way of action to support such a statement? Listen as Coby gives insights to this exact action when he was acting out in addiction and how Ashlynn felt and responded when she heard such things. Brannon sheds light on this dynamic that is riddled with complexity. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from mo...

Apr 23, 201930 minSeason 2Ep. 95

What if the Betrayal Trauma Experts Have it Wrong?

Betrayal trauma is a real thing. It affects so many and is devastating. But what if the experts treating this have it wrong and cannot get their patients through this trauma? What if they don't know how to move them forward in a systematic way so their patients are not stuck? We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to ...

Apr 16, 201935 minSeason 2Ep. 94

Why I Can't Stop White Knuckling?

Not acting out is a thing and often times is the immediate goal. However, when we don't feel better and our partners seem to feel the energy that goes with the white knuckling, things can get tough. So why can't I stop white knuckling? We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-en...

Apr 09, 201929 minSeason 2Ep. 93

Why Can't I Build Trust?

Coby could not figure out how to build trust as he did not know how to speak the truth even in small things. The effect on Ashlynn was significant to see him hide or lie about the little things in life. Brannon shares how two can each go on the journey of discovering why truth was so hard for Coby to speak and what the effect was on Ashlynn. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If ...

Apr 02, 201934 minSeason 2Ep. 92

I'm Doing All the Right Things But Something Is Missing

There is so much that goes into recovery. Doing can keep everyone busy till the wee hours of the night but what happens when we feel like something is missing? Here are some things to consider when you get to that spot. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondb...

Mar 26, 201940 minSeason 2Ep. 91

You Are Not Loving Me Right

This delicate episode will describe how Ashlynn and Coby were raised when it comes to demonstrations of love and those behavioral norms impact their relationship. Brannon leads them through the path of bridging the gap. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondb...

Mar 19, 201920 minSeason 2Ep. 90

Can Recovery Be a Drag?

Ashlynn and Coby are guided by Brannon on how recovery can be a drag and what that looks like. It can be a hardship to put so much time, energy and resources into such a devastating thing when you don't feel better. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetra...

Mar 13, 201926 minSeason 2Ep. 87

Having Eyes to See Success

When things went wrong for Ashlynn and Coby, they developed eyes to see all the things that were bad, hard or fell short of expectations. This episode describes what that looked like and how Coby developed eyes to see his failings from a young age and how he carried that into his marriage and perpetuated addiction. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in h...

Mar 13, 201937 minSeason 2Ep. 86

How do I set Boundaries in my Relationship vs Ultimatums?

Boundaries are a critical piece of any relationship, especially a committed relationship. Today, the BAE crew discusses what healthy boundaries in marriage and relationships should look like. And what boundaries are not. If you want a thriving relationship boundaries are critical and here you'll find Brannon provide a checklist of effective boundary creation. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to ...

Mar 12, 201946 minSeason 2Ep. 89

How Long is it Gonna Take?

#Recovery is so hard because it makes me so uncomfortable at best and painful at its worst. So how long does it take cause it is exhausting? This episode will illustrate how pain tolerance is a key function of recovery so we don't see time as working against us. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our pr...

Mar 04, 201933 minSeason 2Ep. 88

Dating and That Porn Convo

In today's culture, it is not whether someone has seen porn or not. The foregone conclusion is that people have seen it since a young age by choice or by porn finding them. So while #dating how do you have the conversation about the experience each person has with #porn so it is known what you are dealing with? What are the considerations and what are dealbreakers? We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that rela...

Feb 23, 201932 minSeason 2Ep. 87

Mastering Healthy Connection

Coby used to give the power of his emotions to Ashlynn and others to determine how he felt (Codependent). Ashlynn would emotionally withdraw to a state of independence where she would function in a detached way from Coby and operate as an independent partner in their relationship (Independence). Listen as they discuss what they did and what the implications of this behavior were. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many t...

Feb 06, 201934 minSeason 2Ep. 86

Is Connecting Through Chaos a Thing?

PATREON LINK Got Questions? Want more content, access and interaction with Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon? That is found at https://www.patreon.com/betrayedaddictedexpert For therapy at Brannon’s clinic go to https://therapyutah.org For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus...

Jan 15, 201927 minSeason 2Ep. 85

Is Failure What We Think It Is?

PATREON LINK Got Questions? Want more content, access and interaction with Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon? That is found at https://www.patreon.com/betrayedaddictedexpert For therapy at Brannon’s clinic go to https://therapyutah.org For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus...

Jan 08, 201931 minSeason 2Ep. 84

Thriving in the Holidays

We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating. If you would like support from a licens...

Dec 24, 201834 minSeason 2Ep. 82

Ep: 82 What Are Their Intentions?

We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating. If you would like support from a licens...

Dec 18, 201837 minSeason 2Ep. 82

Ep: 81 What Does Transparency Look Like?

We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating. If you would like support from a licens...

Dec 10, 201836 minSeason 2Ep. 81

Ep: 80 Is Your Partner Anxious?

We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating. If you would like support from a licens...

Dec 04, 201831 minSeason 2Ep. 80

Ep: 79 What If I'm Not Attracted to My Partner Anymore?

We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating. If you would like support from a licens...

Nov 20, 201829 minSeason 2Ep. 79

Ep: 78 Why We Worked on the "Me" Before We Worked on the "We"

We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships and healing. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating. If you would like support f...

Nov 05, 201841 minSeason 2Ep. 78

Ep: 77 Dear Loved Ones...What You Ought to Know

We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships. If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating. If you would like support from a licens...

Oct 23, 201847 minSeason 2Ep. 77

Ep: 76 Embrace Your Individual Sexuality

We are glad you found our season 1 episodes where we share early parts of our processes of learning about and exploring the impacts of betrayal on our relationship, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity. Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information. We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relation...

Oct 09, 201827 minSeason 1Ep. 76

Ep: 75 Sex and Shame

We are glad you found our season 1 episodes where we share early parts of our processes of learning about and exploring the impacts of betrayal on our relationship, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity. Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information. We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relation...

Oct 01, 201835 minSeason 1Ep. 75

Ep: 74 Common Sex Problems

We are glad you found our season 1 episodes where we share early parts of our processes of learning about and exploring the impacts of betrayal on our relationship, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity. Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information. We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relation...

Sep 24, 201836 minSeason 1Ep. 74

Ep: 73 Healthy Sex...What is it Really?

We are glad you found our season 1 episodes where we share early parts of our processes of learning about and exploring the impacts of betrayal on our relationship, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity. Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information. We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relation...

Sep 17, 201830 minSeason 1Ep. 73

Ep: 72 Have You Ever Felt...

Patreon Site: Got Questions? Want more content, access and interaction with Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon? That is found at https://www.patreon.com/user?u=11077971 For therapy at Brannon’s clinic go to https://therapyutah.org For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus...

Sep 03, 201842 minSeason 1Ep. 72

Ep: 71 The Fear Cycle

We are glad you found our season 1 episodes where we share early parts of our processes of learning about and exploring the impacts of betrayal on our relationship, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity. Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information. We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relation...

Aug 27, 201830 minSeason 1Ep. 71

Ep: 70 "We are Getting Divorced"

PATREON SITE: Got Questions? Want more content, access and interaction with Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon? That is found at https://www.patreon.com/user?u=11077971 For therapy at Brannon’s clinic go to https://therapyutah.org For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus...

Aug 27, 201831 minSeason 1Ep. 70
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