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Jan 06, 202045 minEp. 92
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Episode 92 - "The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Produced by: @iHandlebars

Topics: Trump, Lori Loughlin, Adrien Broner and More.

The Baller Alert Show

Featuring @KennyBurns w/ @FerrariSimmons @_SuSolo

":The Culture Deserves It"

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Speaker 1

Happy New decade, every fuddade, it is your like style specialist Kenny Burn kids Rice and it's your favorite Idiopians is so low for the new decade, Happy new decade, y'all, I'm not happy. It's not just a new Years, a new decade. Yes, and it's almost We almost had a hunting episodes. Alry say that I forgot? That means you owe us that trip? Yes, done, done done. We need to broadcast from there too. Well, let's go. I think we were going to Miami, I said, you said Miami. Okay,

so we're going to Miami. Is gonna be before the super Bowl because we just go super boke me? However, you want to turn us up? You know? Then? Yeah, how was your Chliday? New Year's is so low? Learned? Let me start this keto diet for this Miami trip. Yeh wanta okay you can lose about fifteen. Oh my god. The holiday season was amazing. I spent a lot of time with my family over the Christmas break. Although Ethiopian and ary shere and Christmas is January seven, we just

spent a lot of time together. Of course, we got kids for the kids and stuff is wait is today the seven. Yeah, all right, well, happy New Year to all my folks. Man, everybody, January I'm sorry, sorry, Christmas January seventh. Our New Year's is September eleven, so January seven is tomorrow. Have at is your Christmas? Yeah, so you guys have to give to me things because I'm the only have a shot. So y'all got to give me right, right right? And um, I actually had it,

absolutely does. I actually had my first New Year's Eve party. Obviously I've been like associated to some in the past, but um, yeah, we brought back Click Tuesdays. It's it's like, yeah, it's like it was just a little teaser of what's to come. I think the original crew for Click Tuesday's is coming back together, which definitely needs to happen because Atlanta is missing that party. Well for our things are still in the works, my guy, so you know, keep it,

keep it tight. How it was beautiful. It went really well. I was very happy, super diverse crowd, white people, Indians, black DJ's were good. I mean, I just I honestly was really proud of how we put this party together in such short notice. So it was nice. It was nine. I set you you were doing some dances on the ground and said, what that point, my little sister got married. Congratulation Nicole and Mario. Welcome to the family. Congratulating crazy on us on this side, but your family crazy too

because I met him too. So I got booked as a DJ out of town. That was super dope. I saw that I did real good, but I heard you had to get on the mic. The folks up both do both um best for you when you do that, though, I guess you know what I'm saying. It is a little more present. You charged more and I saw r on the screen. They had good. They're so good they're gonna have me for back for a Pro Bowl weekend. Up, you know what I'm saying. My boy, gentlemen, jerk was

up and my Christmas was dope. Spend it with my kids family, They got everything they wanted to. Let's talk about this video you just showed us. Man the baby not called my daughter. Yeah, my two year old, um my niece, um my fiance has a twin sister. So her daughter has a pet gerbil Gerbil and is not scared of anything from the rat die Aspra. So she picked it up and it's just then she dropped it and through it, I'm gonna I'm over like they're trying

to tell her that baby, you can't do that. She picked that thing up and like, hey, you see me, I get over there called cinnamons. So yeah, but you know, you see those things online with the baby, they be seeing like pythons and they are fearless, like what is this that scared? And nothing fear is talked? Hey, I love say that one time. We are starting to new y'all, y'all right, fear is a what lessons? Okay? Great? Um baby was one on with you, sir, I was, you know,

and it was a lot y'all. Did a Triller video. I wanted to be there, TikTok video, g video, did all the damn videos you know. I you know a man one time for the ref angoiler Man. I had an amazing time. I hosted there with my brother d Nice and Nice and Burn show has been doing that nice. We had a blutique hotel. The ref is like a seventy room hotel. We had a majority of hotel um and it rained, y'all. It rained on New Year's either there and when I said I had on silk rain

is good thing. Though that sounds like the R and B video, but it was. It was an R video. It was a cleansing R and B video. I felt, honestly in one time for all the Caucasian people that did not waiver, I'm talking about ten o'clock. We went on ten oh five and started raining. They stayed on the floor while all of my black cousins Aunti Mama was under the tent and then they started coming out sporadically, but the Caucasians was on the danceflow the whole time.

I appreciate the energy because I'm talking about like I even was under the tent. You know, the Knights was the equipment was set up under the tent. So I kind of played the tent for like five minutes. But then when they started raining hard, I was like, if I don't get out there, they're gonna disperse this New Year's Eve, like we have to. Because the black folk wasn't moving until they just knew it wasn't gonna be no more chance. They just had to get in the rain.

So that happened around Actually, the sky opened up, it did not rain specifically for the fireworks, which was beautiful. Yeah, and it kind of rained again. We just party. Man. It was a family yeah, and it was cleansing, that's all my mom said. My mom was like, maybe this was this was cleansing. This is a blessing. And then and everybody had a good time. So um, I do want to say, though, I gotta boat, y'all, I gotta boat the last day and cost me my back end.

But when I tell you what your boat the boat was called the Coheba. When I tell you how you're costing my whole back end, I think so so um, I went on this boat man, and I will say, y'all, the energy you put out, you get back. I got on the boat and and this boat was so big that they only allowed twelve people, and it would disturb me because I had sixteen people. They literally tried to make me have four people get off the boat. I

was like, that's not happening. Like you know what I'm saying, like I want my money back, the trip is over. Like but I had to kind of like calm down into a situation like waits. You know, we had two boats. The Knights had a boat, and he had more room with his boat. So luckily, I was able to put the other people but it wontn't say there was some bullshit rules, but I will say though I was getting upset, and I was getting upset was the new year, and I don't want to be that person. I don't want

to get upset. I want to think and how we So anyway, I let all that go and we had the time of our lives. And yeah, now it's time for In case you miss thing, you happy new decade again, Boling Nation. We love you to miss you. But I got one question for you. Did you see Power last night? I need to know. I want to know. And if you didn't see it, Susan did it? But I know it and then I'm cool with my guys. So I definitely saw it. Actually went to the private screening at

AMC Theater Effips Private bro Timy hosted it. Um they had actually two theaters. It was really cool. I loved the episode. I loved the drama and I felt like they made it so much about him to help us understand more of him, Like we got to see its holly different light to him. We knew he had a daughter, we knew that he loved her very much. That we damn sure. Didn't know about his mama. We didn't know how traumatized he was growing up, and it really just

kind of helps you understand who Dre is. But you know what, what Cole killed me was that they did they addressed because you know what they say in Last Time on power or whatever, and they showed you know, they showed end where you know, ghost gott shot, but they didn't address ghosts at all. That I'm seeing ghost back in the thing, and I'm like, I love how they murdered No, but that they went back that was sold because I'm like, how are they gonna come back?

And it's gonna be interesting because they actually replayed the scene when he asked ghost for the money exactly. I loved and Dre shoes. I could have lived without it, though, live without knowing more about Dre. No what I'm thinking. I just wanted a little bit more out of that. Now I feel you, I feel we're gonna go down the whole list. It feels like we're gonna go there all the five people, which is more interesting just coming back, Like I guess, I just expect more. I wanted more.

She's a theatrical savant, so if you if you want a very in depth you know, she's a light pretty feet that's what she is. I think shand M's is writing is just like she becoming witty, Like she hits you hard, like especially the first episode. You you did not expect that from Power, Like, like, I watched this A Is Us and that's a show that goes back and forth in time. I'm like, how do they manage

to keep me interested? Like they go back and for saying with manifest that comes on hell like, but I like how they go back and forth and you kind of like are adjusted because you've been watching it from the beginning. You know they're going to go back at some point that we could have just learned about Jay

a little earlier, know what I mean? I think I think it would have ruined the Power in this episode, no pun intending, because it was we just assumed that they were all just these bad guys, guys that were selling you know what you want to know you don't want to go to more episodes and be interested exactly

in our opinion not, I don't know. I don't know how far they would have gotten had they've given us all the stories in the beginning to keep me interested, all right, lady and gentlemen, What in the get hard is going on with Lori Laughlin? She hires a prison coach. She had to prepare her for potential jail time. Now get hard. If you're not familiar to Will Ferrol, that was the joke, um, But what is she doing yards? I mean she is preparing herself. Absolutely, she's serious. She

does not know what types of trials and tribulation. I feel like she was gonna face hiding bars and we play with Don't let it be the lady who was sent to jail for having her kids go to a good school out of her district, because I'm sure she'll want to whoop her ass in now that you know what I just my thing is like, you really prepare what you're going on fro That means you're going to a medium security or camp, like you're not going to

the state penitentiary next. You was in there for fraud, could have gotten out from somewhere else for doing something else. You don't know what else these people done. That's what you want to You want to scare somebody straight. They asked to the prison send them to Mississippi. You know what's going somewhere just like so bad. What's happening in Mississippi right now? Oh my god, you pray for those people speaking exactly speaking to scammers, though, y'all don't abbreviate

um or else you might get got by the scammers. Y'all. Y'all saw the thing because they could add on two thousand, they can add on twenty. Uh they say two. So instead of just like you know, abbreviating the year, instead of putting like one seven twenty you need to write out because somebody could add eighteen to the end of twenty, making it null and void, meaning contract was expired in two thousand eight. Yeah, and and the biggest camera of

them all y'alls trying to send us to war. Um. Donald Trump not only did he kill General sim Solo money without Congress knowing, he now has gone to Twitter and basically said that if the Iranians do anything to any American anywhere, that they got fitted two bombs or something like that, that they're ready to drop on cultural sites on you know, and and and and the thing that disturbs me that I want to just backtrack two

sexs and I need break down. I need y'alls perspective, because I asked my mom, you know we're still on vacation. When it sounds like mom, I said, has any like world superpower leader ever just threatened because you know he dreaded. He threatened from Peo, He threatened Donald Trump, and then said, I ain't got no problems with Americans. I'm coming to get these mother suckers allegedly plays a bounty. My point is, have you ever heard of that? Never back in the day,

we like kill all Americans. We hate Americans like they like, we're going after you. We know your people don't like you, so we are saying that we're going oh and we're gonna put eighty million the grace of God. Okay, remember four was Bush and America. Now it's not even American, it's you. You are. They don't respect him as a leader,

just as we don't respect him as leader. The man was playing golf, for Christ's sakes when he decided to go ahead and let the bomb go off or the air strikes or whatever the hell has dumbas did, Like, it's really pitiful, and we are more than happy for you to do what you gotta do to get him. And my bad, there's a post on ball or criticizing Obama exactly want to start at by the way, and then he does the exact thing. He actually been quoted a lot. I like that, like from saying stuff in

the past and actually doing himself. And because he said, brace himself all the time, all the time, and for you for you to be the freeder, sorry, the leader of the free world, and you go on Twitter and said this is my notice to you Congress on Twitter, like are you He's a disgrace. And I think the world looks as him as like I said, a horrible leader. They do not respect him. So I think because he's so trash, they're able to spare us. They're like, hey,

we know it ain't y'all people. We we can clearly see your quote unquote leader is full of shit. Let's just let's just take care of that. And I appreciate that because I don't think anybody really wants to kill innocent people, and they don't want people on their end to be killed either. So and I will say this, I mean, apparently there was some you know, horrendous things that General Solomoni has done. Um and we obviously know Iran has been with the ships with harboring terrorists and

funding and doing things in the past. I'm not saying this is the current state. But for that president to come out like that, um, that was like for me, I was like, oh wow, like the hate for this man is real. But let me tell you something that is very gratifying from this process. Um, I'm in kill me crazy, right, I go to kill me crazy to get my a side bowls and my tuna rap, right, and so I men kill me crazy and a little uh Mexican girl. I hope she's Mexican. If she's not,

she's Spanish. I don't want to call her Mexicans. You know when you say called Puerto Rican Mexican and get piste off. Okay, anyway, so long story show. She comes out. That was funny, but oka serious. Nobody calmed down. No, but she comes out the back and she says, are you good. I'm like, yeah, I'm good. I was like, are you good? Like happy new you know, happy new decade. You know we're going around, hapy new decade? Have you new decade? She's like, I'm just nervous, like are they

coming to Bombas? And I'm like, what do you like? Wait a minute right the whole time, I know Trump sisters behind me. She might not be Trump sisters for real, but she looked like Trump, you're saying, or one and white women that voted after even hearing that they are. But look, I'm in line and I'm just so who she started saying. I was like, it's a perfect opportunity to have this conversation in front of you know what, I'm saying, Trump sister, right. So I'm sitting up there.

I was like, so, what was wrong? How are you feeling? She's like, well, no, I just I'm here. And she was going on about all the stuff that's in, you know, on social media, even some of the stuff that's like probably not all the way through, but just her concerns, and I was like, yeah, I said, well, listen, the bottom line is the Iranians have identified that they want to kill Trump from PO and the other dude and no other Americans, so you're probably safe here. Just killed

me crazy, like you know what I'm saying. But I mean it was gratifying because I wanted that lady to squimmer and be squirmish and so uncomfortable. I wanted her to just I turned around when I tell you how red she was. She was so rich, she likes she's about to pass out. But that is a selfish thing

on my part. But I am glad it happened. Um, but I think that Donald Trump, and I'm saying this for the record on Baller Alert today January six, in the next two weeks something drastic is about to happen, because they're talking about bombing the White House. I mean they said that man attacking the wife. Something drafted him. Next two weeks, well, the Simpsons did predict that Donald Trump was going to be murder assassinated, y'all. It seems somebody tried to scam the baby. Did you'll have all

that bread? Yeah? You know, I think, um, I think it's you know, it's a testament to these promoters, like in these back ends, Bronna have a back end, bro, you know what I'm saying. Allegedly that the that the promot we don't know, I mean, we don't know all the facts. Allegedly the baby and his crew whooped them for the back end. Allegedly the promoter didn't pay him. But like, you know what I'm saying, what here's my

message to some promoter. Man, have all the money. You know, sometimes you have to understand that if your spot is not hopping hi, ring somebody or booking somebody you can't afford, may not help you. Your spot may just not be a good spot to go to soon you can't afford the book. These super expensive people bring it down a notch, you know, y'all y'all try to go overboard thinking that, oh, if I have booked this super big artist right now, I'm gonna be jumping for the next month. No you're not.

You're gonna have a good night. Then you're gonna be back to your regular half asshole sections the next week. Yeah, that's a problem that you know. And I think that that is a form of justice. I mean where I come from. You know how you you don't have supposed to have. And this is a serious offense. This is not like service. You took me away from other potential earnings. Like I'm not saying, I just I just texted the baby's right here. Man, he's manager, So I'll find out

really happen if it were true. I can believe that it has something to do with the money, because what did you show them ten thousand? I think you and he was supposed to something around that. Okay, I thought many bro yeah whatever. But one message to the baby though, like you're popping. You got great music. Your personality, you know what I'm just saying. But your personality it's too big. I think he could be a superstar. Like I'm making this from his conversations and things you see in media.

He just he got a lot. His light is bright. Don't don't dem your light with the dumb ship like theyre trying to put you under the jail. They're trying. Yeah, exactly, money in the scheme of things. You know what I'm saying. That's why he was saying about me. But I'm just trying.

I want people to be to be more thoughtful. Don't put yourself in a situation like I was at the game going crazy other day and my wife was like, you know, you can't go crazy, like everybody knows who you are now like you I'm like, you're right, I can't be going crazy like that. Speaking going crazy, I want to hear Sue solo and I'll tea Burns go crazy. Adrian Brauner, he tried to holler that bad Baddy sixteen. Oh he knew you think he knew, he knew better.

I don't think there's anyway he didn't know that she was. She looks older than the sixteen. But at this point, how many mistakes are these grown ass men gonna make? Because we already know these little girls are grown as hell? Now we know we know that don't look grown. She looks like adult body parts. Yes, I've seen her, have seen her after the alleged filters filters. Okay, well what

Adrian said was. What Adrian said was he couldn't tell that she didn't realize she was sixteen because because of quote unquote how she moves around up make her put it. Okay, let's see, I don't follow her though. Wow, it's been there. Usually think I'm put their age their profile. Let me see my if you go on my daughter's Instagram and has sixteen right there, all sixteen, fifteen, fourteen year olds,

seventeen year olds put it in their profile. Yeah, I'm sorry looking at going through her page, Adrian, you knew, you knew, sir, You knew. You saw one picture of her made up, makeup whatever, and you liked it and you decided to some of them she does. But if he went through her page, you can. She's not the child. It's a new age. It's a new age. These young kids is they are grown as hell. These little girls

have better extensions than me. Shit, they are here walking around in thousand dollars shoes, and I mean, these kids are grown. But he knew, he knew she was young exactly. But I'm saying somebody would look at that and be like, wow, these kids got on designers like, oh, they're moving around a certain kind of way, these young girls now, and young men want to look older. They want to do

grown people things. So I understand somebody looking a little older, or you thought they may have been, But you, as a grown ass man, should have done a little research. You knew she was pals walking around here too. I said, you got these little Selena pals walking over She's like the okay, great ladies and gentlemen. The Carters were at the Golden Goals. Did you see the Carters? They were primetime superfly, super duper fly. I didn't. I was at my brunch. Yeah, I want time for gold Gloves. I

really enjoyed the Golden Gloves one time. For Ellen. They lived the neighress. I love her. She got the Carol Burnett Award UM, and she's just super awesome. I just love everything she's standing for. And to be honest, you know, our show was seventeen years old. Ellen de Generous like was like not popping popping. I mean she was popping before that because she was an actor. She was in things, but she had a sitcom or two. But I just I really love her show, and I love what she represents,

and I love how much she gives back. Her slogan is be kind of one another. I just love her and I'm happy um that she's getting all her accolades. But back to Beyonce's dress and back to his hair. I just love seeing that whole shoulder hair moment in the middle of that sea of white. And I mean that respectively, because I don't you don't see it a lot. I mean, they showed Wesley Snipes and a z suit because they were there for the Dolar Mike things, so

he dressed up like the period piece. But I don't know, it just looked like excellence all around. In that joint. Is just always slays. She just always slays. Yeah, And one time for my brother Luda Chris and his wife and Doxy they were in Gabon and actually if you follow them on social media, they went to her village where she was born. I was just like, how amazing was that? I thought that was really dope. And him and his he and his mother and daughter became citizens. Citizens. Yeah,

dual citizens, that is man. I just love Chris man and his energy and what he stands for. And I love it docs see and what I just love it. Families important, Black love is important. To go back to Africa and become a citizen. Um, we should definitely go to Africa this year. Guys, we're gonna do it. I want to speaking into exist. Then let's do it. Done. Deal ball nation, We're going to Africa. Lady and gentlemen, Nick Gordon, Bobby Christina's ex fience, that's that gave me

an eerie in my stomach. As soon as I read it, I was like, what, but you know that heroin take out anybody who touch it. Yeah. But I want to say this though, but like all the rumors were true, he did have Shati in the mix. Remember back when Bobby Christina everybody was like, I didn't think they were No, No, I'm not saying nothing was mean. He wasn't convicted of anything, but I'm just say he you know, it was the one having her hood influence. What the funk? He died

thirty like crazy man um. One time for David stern Man, Hall of Fame X NBA Commissioner. He did wonders for the NBA, made it a global brand, global brand. Um. The reason why these people are getting two hundred three hundred million dollar contracts. Um. You know, I would say probably is in front of basketball. Yes, because there's no salary camp basketball. Rest In Peace's playing baseball. DA keep him on it. Um. He was seven seventy seventy seven years old. One time for the sixty one year old

Madonna who has a twenty five year old boyfriend. But I don't want to hear ship putting his ass. She's putting his ass up through the like men, kids, we're talking about eighteen and older. She showed him has done thunder Tiger rightnocerous can all. I can imagine. I imagine when she kissed Draking the mouth and he was like, let me tell you not now, I mean, I mean not in your situation. If you were younger, yeah, older woman, would you hit just I mean this is off the record.

You know what older woman would I got one, okay, j James sixty so we're talking about sixty four. I don't know who got like Glady's Night. I got ask about you just a little something trying to my grandma. Yeah, but I will say that's got a confession, Gladys. I am a fan you know persons my father in my mind, so Purple Rain and Apollonia changed. So when you know, around when I got married, I was in uh in the w in Westwood and I saw Apollonia at the bar and I had to go speak because it was

just like a old thing. I would walk intro I was like, how cold was the water Lake Minnataka? And so she laughed. We talked for like two hours. I got to picture over my office right now, lew it up. But the whole point is, you know, in another situation, I would have knocked her off because it was just a whole it was a whole nostalgia thing. You know

what I'm saying. This was Appalonia from Purple Rain. So you're not trying to admit none of your older crushes, but Jayda, I mean an older question, like, man, so who is your Rihanna is not fifty, That's what I'm saying. I don't know, I don't think right Octavia, Um, I thought it was just trying to pull a light angela basket? She older? What about you? Okay? So come on huh well old man? I have you got one, lady Rios? Anyway, you shoot all the models and you can't think of

they're not right? He shooting? You know older models? You know the models hester I met, laughing up as a baby. All the case. You are ready to shoot? Like I got some rose oil. I infused it with crystals. Your energy already talking about rose oil. It's a real thing. Why are yours? Why? Why is your palm with Why is your hand with real? Older? Why is your hand with? So? I don't know your guy was older? I don't have a guy. What are you talking about? He's fifty. I

have no idea what you're talking about. That's worry. He's not no no what no, no no no, you're thirty? So so is not like I never said anything about fifty? Would you date a fifty? Yeah? Why not? Okay, lazy j I want from our sponsor message en time footballer now, dear baller crew, My marriage has been crazy, but after twelve years together, I don't want us to part ways, but I want to make things better. I've made a mistake of cheating, but that's something I decided to take

to my grave. He is currently in the military and it is always gone. All I've ever asked for is for him to appreciate me and show me that you love me, especially when he's away. For our anniversary, I got a happy Anniversary text, nothing else. He forgot Mother's Day and didn't get me anything for my birthday. I feel like I've been trying, but it's not being returned. I work full time and I always have the kids. I met someone through a mutual friend, and he's been

showing me attention that I've been missing. We talk every day and spend a lot of time together. Although it's nice, I want all this from my spouse. I just want us to grow together. What are some things that we can do to grow together? First off, I think prison in the military are like the number one, so he's on the road all the time he's in the military. Okay, um being the longest tenured married person or in the relationships relationship person on the person and the person. Um,

I think that you have to voice your opinion. I think you have to voice your opinion in a way where they know that it's detrimental to the relationship. The thing I see in relationships, um, is that they let you slide. You know, you tell somebody you need affection, you need to be touched, you need to be loved or whatever, and they let it slide, and they let it slide, and then you all of a sudden shock

when they cheat, you know what I'm saying. And I think that you know it's the over communication piece that's often the reason why you step outside your marriage, you know what I'm saying that I mean, I'm sure some people are just adulterers and want to cheat and they need more than one and they don't give and whatever. But you said over communication, Well yeah, over communication, Let

overly let someone know that you're serious. Like I need this, This is what I need because as we get older in general, but specifically in relationships, what you want and what you need are two different things. So you really got to be you know, aware of you know the things you need right because those are the things that fulfill you, keep your whole, make you You know what I'm saying, it seems like she, you know, what she needs, what I think I'm getting from it, He's not able

to provide. I mean, he can't physically be here to give her what the other guy is giving her, So how can she expect that from him? I think, especially when his long distance, If you can't communicate with someone often, that makes it harder if you don't have a way of getting to them, Like maybe you guys have mutual friends and you can have a friend take her some

flowers or something like that. Like, it seems like that's what she's looking for, But I don't know if he's the kind of guy to give that to what if he has something that's going on to he could more than likely just because of the military status, they do tend to have other things going on as well, and

people make time for what they want to make time for. Yeah, And I think to like, that's what I was about to say to Like, if he's not literally active duty and he's a way, that's an issue because you should be there with him. That's the case. I don't think that, you know, and I mean again, I don't think everybody's built for relationship. I think that you know, people try to hand at it and hope that it works, but everybody is not meant to be in a relationship. It's

just super facts and it's okay. Like, but you know the problem I have with his like, people weigh so many years of their lives without that communication. What I was saying, because think about your life. You're gonna look up one day it's gonna be about companionship only and then you know you don't like the mother, but you don't want to be in that person's you know what I'm saying, Uh, that person's company or that person surround So I don't know. I think it's the over communication piece.

Tell him that you do not appreciate what's happening, tell him that you would like to be where he's at, and tell them all the things you need, and they're don't hurt to go to counseling. That'll be a FaceTime. I mean for her too, and when he comes back. You know, I'm just saying, you need nothing wrong with a little extra help. Well, it seems like she's been missing it for a while and she really wants it.

You know, I think for her to write us, it's probably at a point where she feels like what am I going to do? What do I do? Especially now that she has this other guy in her life, like it's going to be really easy for her to want to spend more time with him. He's available, he's available, so she she I'm getting the vibe that she's the type of woman that needs that physical interaction like more than just every few months or once a year whenever

he's able to come home. And if you know that that's what you need to feel your love tank, then find somebody who can. Okay, Yeah, and that it's time for a word from our sponsors, and now it's time for comment. Creepy creep, creep, creep, creep creep. All right, you guys, we do live in a world where women often get compared to other women, and we just never

let one shine for who she is. And I'm tired of it now at Turner seven hit Twitter to say, when Cardi is being loud and wratchet, they say she being her true self, but when Lizzo and Tiffany are being themselves they get called embarrassing. Y'all praise Cardi B for the same thing, y'all bash Lizzo and Tiffany Hattish for hmm, and it looks like Cardi caught wind of the tweet and said, I hate when people do this ship. I get compared to every female artists every day, upcoming

or established. I get dragged for my looks. I get dried because of my race. I get dragged for going to the mall without makeup. I get dragged because I'm ghetto. I get dragged by every single fan base. Yet people want to do these types of tweets. Leave me alone, you type in Cardi beyond Twitter the first five tweets, it's me getting dragged. I just don't care anymore. I got numb to this ship and I don't be on

social media as often. So yeah, I can absolutely understand that frustration, Like it gets really annoying being someone that either maybe you're the only black girl at your job, on your floor, Oh well, Cary so and so at least so and so they do stuff like this, They do stuff like that. It's very annoying then, especially when it comes with artists. We know that Cardi was getting compared to Nikki so like every day when she was coming up. It's like, why can't I just be an artist?

That doesn't happen with men. Men come in the game. It's okay. We got the baby, we got little baby, we got all these all these guys that were able to come on, and you don't hear people comparing them for their looks in addition to their talent. That's a that's trash. Yeah, I um, but yeah, but don't not, don't don't don't. Let me just give you an example.

So don't y'all really get ready for each other, because when y'all go out, first of all, I don't give a damn by, No eyelashes, no eyebrows, don't give a damn by. That isn't that what girls do. No, we don't live our lives every minute comparing I don't walk down the street and be like, oh my god, her skin is better than mine, Oh my god, her hair is better than her nails. I'd never dissect a woman like that. All the time, women talk about women all

the time. I think it's said when we're talking about entertainment, because on one hand, people say representation matters, we want to see a diverse group of people in entertainment, But you make it so difficult for a certain group of people to come in and beat themselves. You want all the girls have to have their bodies done. There's a situation on Love and Hip Hop New York right now. I don't know her name, but um, she's an upcoming

artist who tell her she need to get her body done. Yeah, he was like, trust me, this is what the women look like. And it's not only him. It's hundreds, maybe even thousands of bomb ass dudes that are in this industry that try to convince women that they have to look a certain way. It may not be you and your friends that are going around saying, oh, men, look at her lashes, but there are people in the industry

that are like, no, you need to ask. But you know, in such a male dominant industry, you know, it's not a lot of us anyway. So once one she got to comparis to the next one, because it's not like a scarcity of men in here, not at all. It's like, hella men and it's like a limited amount of women, so that all you got is to compare one to the other. Anyway, you have men telling you what they think you should look like as a woman, and that's a problem. No, I mean, I agree with that. I

was just saying on the breakdown of it is. I just think that for example, like if a guy walks into a room, other guys are not gonna be like, I'm they're wearing some bullshit. Why then does he have that on? I see women should I definitely have heard some men do that. Definitely hear men say that definitely. What name definitely. Okay, Well let's bring it back. So I think the comparisons to Cardi versus Lizzo, let's just use them. So Cardi to me, feels like someone you know, right,

just as well as Lizzo. You know these people, you know somebody you know. You got your ratchet ass friend that speak her mind his mind. You got your your big girlfriend, your big cousin, your big sister, whatever it is, your big friend that is just not scared to catch the flat for wearing the lace and the thongs and whatever else. Right, But I say Cardi, I feel like that's her Lizzo. I feel like at times it's for the awe, the shock and awe of it all. I

don't think Cardi really gets it off like that. I think maybe in the past she may have may have you. I don't think cardis for shock value. I think I know lizzos for shock value, like her putting on that throng and that that shirt. Let's have people talk about this, let's get pressed. But this is where the irresponsible thing. And just like the irresponsible men that you know encourage women to do things so they can sell fucking records.

I think about their lives after the records. But I say that because it's just disturbing to me that the attention. You know, yes, somebody might think they can go out here and wear a throng with a sheer shirt to a basketball game and get their feelings so hurt they jump off the Staples Center. I'm just I'm dead as serious, and it's like you're telling people to do that. They're not a strong onuse you, Lizzo. They're not as secure in their waight and you know what I'm saying, where

you are with your shape. And that's the only problem I have with that Cardi b I think as Cardi grows, she knows and she's kind of active like that. I mean, because you've seen her from from the beginning. It was just like I couldn't watch it, it was too right. But then as she kind of like you know what,

but she always wanted I got them personality. But I think the personality shine through, you know what I'm saying, Like Liz those talented, she plays the flu, she's a musician, she's an artist, she's a song she cant single fare I don't forget. Besides, we had we had time to connect with Cardi on TV with you. I'm just saying the show though, I don't think Cardi was Cardi. Cardi was using the outlet of cry for help. Cardi was on Instagram telling her butt naked truth literally like no

makeup with looking crazy. I mean she that was her and you can appreciate that. That's why she don't get allcause you've seen her come from the good owner. Home girl is just out here like shock and awe A lot of the times for me now with her in the whole thought process that big women could do whatever they want and as long as they feel good, that people should feel good and don't worry about my side.

I'm with all that, but the shock and awe things are what they are, and I think that's the difference. Back to the comic creeper, Well, we are on behalf of all women shut the funk up. Stop comparing. I think it can. I just think it takes whole wave of humans to just stop, to just make a decision to be better humans. That's all. I just think social media has made it very humans personal. Non personal humans

have made it humans that use social media. It's not social media, it's the way that people are using social media. Instagram provides no content. We provide the absolutely, So it's so again that responsibility goes on us now social media. Social media is not telling us to pretend it's us. We were waiting for an opportunity to be able to pretend that we were already funked up before it came about. And it's like I said, like once we get more

women throughout the industry, it will be better. It's just like a child start. You can only compare one ch'all start to another because it's not very many. Yeah. The actress Michelle william said that last time the Golden Globe, she was like, listen, women, you know you have to vote, Like we represent the majority of people. If we voted, we could be empowered. Men have shaped this world after

their image. We can definitely, you know what I'm saying, take control of that um you know, and changing the area. I'm gonna tell you this, man like, it has to be more thoughtful people in the world. Man Like, there's not a lot of thoughtful men. You know what I'm saying. Easy, Like if you look at the hierarchy, who's in charge of our fucking freedom, our safety, our world? Like they are Yeah, I mean not only objectified women, but don't

care about life, just don't care about humanity. They care about people that are in their social circle or people that are in their class, and the people that are good and and and want to see better for the world. They're outnumbered or they're outpowered. And if you look on the Republican side more than the Democratic some of the Democrats are loaded with paper too. But they showed this

thing one senator I forgot the name. He's I think a D four thousand allar salary, but he made two million a year since two thousand five, Like, wh how are you making his money? Like what what opportunities are information? Are you getting to create these opportunities and wealth for yourself? Like? But that just shows you that the bullshit is happening. Like the motherfuckers have personal agendas, They're not really worried

about communities. I mean because if you go to any you know, local government, you can find information about where's the next gentrification happening, where are the plan like the belt think you think that Bell Line wasn't always meant to have stops that are inviting. So I just think

that we have to be more aware. But again back to women and the changing of the guard, Like women are you know, they're they're more premeditating, They're offering, they're gonna think about some ship, they're gonna playing, They're gonna you know what I'm saying. And I always say this, and y'all hear me, and and every interview black women save me. I would not be who I am without the black women in my life who raised me and who surrounded me with love. So you know I'm with

all that. And now timeous says ladies and gentlemen. I came into this new year saying, happy New decade, because this is not a regular year. This is the beginning of your journey. This is the beginning of prosperity for your efforts. This is the beginning for owning your superpowers. I think that this is the decade for everyone who can hear my voice to go forward and get what you came for. And on that No World ballination, we love you. God bless you. See it because the Three, it's real.

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