"Rest In Peace"

This is week too? Um, this this particular set of trades hurt like hell, you got a headache and this is your how many number of trays is three? Or this is my second second train? So you know they say it'll be many steps first to three days. Ten that's ten trays you'll get. Well, some of the trades are just for a week, some could be for two weeks. So you sound good because I was listening, I had a lisp. Well last week it's real bad. I I think I probably just got a little used to it

by now. And you have to talk for a living, so you gotta figure it. Yeah, because if you don't keep a man for the amount of time. It's just two well twenty to twenty two, but they want you to wear him for twenty two hours, so they already been awful for Are you feeling a difference. I am feeling the pain and pressure in my mouth and my head, and my temple's hurt, and and I'm hungry and one tooth at a time. Sometimes time it feels like they're

all moving. Okay, it feels like, you know, at the end of this is an amazing smile, you're gonna be just not that you didn't smile already, but you're just gonna be gone with I am super excited. It was a low rough at brunch with these on this past Sunday because I was scared I was going to accidentally drool in front of somebody spen on I don't know whatever. Y'all time. Shout out to the girls with the Cocktails podcast,

Kiki and Medina. They came through the brunch. I heard somebody in ball Nation hit you said they was coming from Seattle. It was amazing. Yeah, I got an email from someone and Seattle. I'm excited for her to come and experience it. Um did he Emma came through and did her afro burlesque. Jamison came in and spent some money. We did a couple of shots shows. It was high energy. Yeah, it was high energy. Had the strip of post I saw somebody of my my friend Mark Jackson was there. Yes, yes,

our friend left dance. I'm gonna yep. He enjoyed it too. Yeah, welcome to Sunday Brunch. What is your favorite meal there? Because I'm coming to get it this Sunday. I'm going to be in town. I'm saying that again. I'm not missing this Sunday. Right? Would you go with me? Would you? Would you come meet me and go with me? Well, since you asked, the French houses bomb. But the chicken and waffles, honest to guy, y'all is the best waffle I've ever had in my life. Okay, So that's what

we're giving this Sunday. What time? What time is good to come? Like eat without all the turn up? A good time to come and eat without the turn up. I would say, like two, you won't be there. I'm there from open and clothes every Sunday. You better be dedicated. I'm there. I do it all reservations trying to get my chickens. Okay, like Robins said, give them coining doggers. Rory, how was your weekend? You mine was good? H you know out hearing these screets doing my thing, sir, stuff

you got. You gotta award your peers honored Champ talking about my peers honor me one time for the A till twenty dinner. Um, Brandon, appreciate you, my guy and the whole crew. I know he was him and his partner. Appreciate everybody. Carmen, thank you for influencer award um in my particular field. That's right, So that was cool. Shout out to the other winners and people that got recognized too. That was super dope. That's awesome. Baby is doing man,

The babies are good. Man. Potty training is kicking my ass. But she'll poop in the potty one day and then the pooping her panties the next day because we think she ready. And yeah, outside of that, es actually looks she don't want to be messing soon enough. Trust ladies and gentlemen. I went to Indianapolis this weekend. Yeah, I haven't been to Indie. I don't think they have a

really nice downtown Indianapolis. Really, I mean it's cool. And they had this thing called Party Graw P A R D I graw like Marty Grab Party Grow And it was like two thousand plus people in this joint I'm talking about when I say party. I was just so impressed. And they had a whole give back component. Big shout to Jeff and we liked the party A party p A r D s I think the Instagram, but they were giving out money to you know, local influence the

companies and doing their thing. It was a whole cultural thing. I really had a really really good time Indianapolis. Oh and I spoke in Virginia Union y'all, so that I sent you all the clip. I had this this o G. Yeah. The o G was like, you know, I speak all the time. I mean I know that, you know, the connection is there with the people that you know come to see me. But this guy was like five cameras over here. They were like really taping this stand, Like

who are the cameras? Like it's the new anyway. So it's this older gentleman behind the camera and he was literally like fidgety, like making me nervous, fidgety, right, and I'm like, why does he keep pacing around? So we got the Q and a portion and he like tried to jump and they had this whole thing schedule with people in the audience with the mic. They were he just came like, you want to ask you a question?

And they were like wait wait, can you you know, wait till other people answer their question or ask their questions. So when they finally got back to the O G as a question, please, I got them know I need to know. So he was like, um, you know, we had the Richmond thirty fourth thing today and I just don't understand basically why so many people in here listening to you and they weren't at the Richmond thirty fourth thing.

The mind you Richmond thirty four were activists that went to Virginia Union and they sat in at the War Wars downtown and they had like this whole sitting thing. One was peaceful, the other time they got arrested. But he was so like charged. I'm like, well, and the energy he was given, I just I felt like, you know, cutting them up really quick. Oh he was, he he was, but you know I did I can't like I was

I was. I felt compassionate. I have felt I have felt like this is the time I can bridge the gap. And this is what I said, Well, the one thing your generation has to do is honor this history. And I think living in that mindset keeps us startling. But that is something we honor and we respect and we will never forget. But it's something we have to grow from.

You know, I was serving this conversation with the brothers this morning, and since it's this morning, you know, I feel racism now more than I felt as a child. And I think it's because hip hop saved so many of us, and to not honor that like you honor the civil rights leaders, is injustice to this generation. And if you can't speak to them in the way that they can receive, there's no growth for our culture. We're gonna honor our culture, this historical black houge. Then that

they're here because of your generation is offering. In in the thirty four is offering, but we have to be conscious of what's going to connect. I spoken to class today, Um the professor, I said the exact same thing. I just said it in a more relatable way. And there's no disrespect to structural teaching and you know, textbook teaching. But the Kenny Burns way happened to connect in a different form. So I appreciate that. But we don't have to doell on that anymore. We have to honor it.

We also have to speak to them in a way that they can grow well. Y'all have to want to do. Y'all tend to live in a time period instead of living in today's society. Mentally, I'm just gonna keep it a buck. So but anyway, I felt I felt like o g needed a hug. I felt like he needs to understand why it's hard for them, how it was hard for them to connect with us because that generation

put all their years on us. That generation spoke all of the tribal and tri relation they went through on us like they spoke it like it was not like this happened to us, And we're gonna move forward and you're gonna be a bigger, better, you know, offering of our generation. That's what we're doing, Like my generation is I'm touching every soul I could touch, giving them the information, making sure they are equipped to go forward. That generation didn't.

So it was it was a good I think it was a good moment and it resonated because it went viral um and people were posting it. Yeah. But anyway, so big shout out of the Virginia Union University. I will be back and I'm on this college tour now, guys called what matters most and what matters most to me now in my forty year of life. It's just you know what I'm saying, like sharing all the information.

I want you to have the information ball the nation. Anyway, now it's time for in case you missed, ladies and gentlemen, arrest in peace to the goat Obe and Gianna Brian all the pastors lost yesterday they had a ceremony at Staples Center and Claude had merchant When I say, Vanessa Brian might be the strongest human man I'm talking about. But you know what, I'm glad that they waited like at least a month out because I think earlier she couldn't have done that. I had to process. I was

crying the whole time. Oh my god. I mean there was literally not one dry eye in the room. Everyone was emotional at one point because they failed her. She said she never be able to walk her down the aisle and try to drive a car. Just little things, like little things when you talk on the way home. Things people take for granted the moment every day. And she said this is what this one made me tear it when she said that guy had to take them both.

Basically they wouldn't have been okay with I should other hill. I mean like when I when I say rint gut rink the cry right now. But on the light of no. Michael Jordan's was very emotional. Yeah, he was very emotionally. Din't tear me up because I kept thinking about the mean when I looked in his face and when he said that they're gonna have another phone year, some me crying. I died. But if you look at it, though, his tears like fall the same way every time. I was like, guys,

like he doesn't wipe his face. Yeh's crying. It's just like he just let it all fall. Let it go his face, let it go. But Shack was funny too. Shock said, he said, we came out to Hoddle. It's like, Yo, Kobe not passing the ball, so sad, I'm gonna talk to him. You go to Kobe, says Kobe. You know there's no Iron team he said, what is that? That was perfect to them and tells them to just catch him on a rebound because he's not passing the ball exactly.

Gave light to his personality. And you know, and I think that that that's what that's what was needed because I think with all the people their morning, you know, it was just a thing where it was like, we need some light heartedness because I swear to you every like swipe up every I'm seeing too, I'm seeing g I'm seeing him and it's getting depressed, and like, I just I want to know. I wanted to laugh, and I'm glad it gave us those humorous moments. But you know,

one last thing I enjoyed. I didn't judge Yance, but I really enjoyed Alicia Keys. I didn't performers played debethoven um piece that he learned. He learned it for Vanessa and he taught it to himself by ear and he played it for her and Alicia Keys would be able

to play it back the last time. That's really awesome. Well, you you mentioned Beyonce, and I actually read a story on the way in here today that people are calling her a diva because she would not allow photographers to snap any photos of her during her performance, and they were like, you know, the other celebrities or performers didn't request that she's such a diva. I actually think the opposite.

I think she didn't want them to exploit her images and make the headlines about her more so than it was about their memorial service. Exactly going away strictly for Vanessa and the family her throughout the whole entire process of the memorial and it was she was just there for her friends. I think that yea, like whenever she performed,

she's going to automatically like command respect, right. I think she just felt like like she taking about me, and she know who she is, so she was like, you know what, y'all, y'all just keep And by the way it's being stream live on you know, every time they put the camera on her too, she would like put her head down or you know, she'll be holding Vanessa. You know, you could just tell she was just there

strictly for her friends alone. I loved how the NBA legends the current player I just everybody and and and if I would say Michael Jordan said it right, a piece of all of us died like I mean, if you had any you know, my kids like I love Michael Jordan, my kids love Kobe. You know what I'm saying. So it's definitely a sad time. But rest in peace

Kobe and Gianna Briant. We love you, we miss you. Um. Also rest in peace to Katherine Johnson y'all, one of the NASA mathematicians to pick it and hit and figure that's character exactly. And also b Smith, a famous chef, and Archbready. The older we get, man, it's just like, I mean, every week, every week, it's just like tim is flying so fast and stuff is happening left and right. Were just like trying to keep up with the time, man like or slow time down. But it's like moving

at the whirlwind. I've never felt like I was surrounded by death this much. I mean culturally, they don't take us to the funerals that we're not allowed to go as children, so I didn't really understand, you know, I didn't have that full grasp of it. The older you get, I'm just like, wow, this really happens every day? Yes, every day, yes man. And rest in peace to Harvey Weinstein. No, he is not dead, but he will rest in jail. Well, bars, Bars, Well,

let's come on, man, let's see what happens. Because one of the charges he can face only like up to five years, and the other one I think it's up to five. So let'st's see how much you see him on the walker. He tried to do cripple and all that stuff. Look at him now. Didn't work, But let me know, he looked like he is the cheerier rating. I think that was I think that was the purpose. Try to look off real and old and stuff, so like have pity on the old man. I'll get your

ass in jail him. Absolutely. Yeah, shut up, win Stein Stein whatever, the old dusty nasty wine wine. Take your answer to Cell Block sevent ladies and gemmen, rest in peace to the Atlanta club scene. Uh. You know, I've been seeing I mean the O G. Frankski. I saw Stuart Rock and DJ actual least something the other day, and I want to have this conversation with um, you know frank Ski a couple of weeks. But I mean,

and you know, people have been saying this. I mean there's been you know, little things said here and there about the Atlanta club coach of the DJs. The host of promoters. Um, but Frankski notably said recently, like you know, he's he's coming at all DJ. He like the art of DJ and has gone. He just you know, in respect to frank Ski, he had one of the most popular nights ever in Atlanta with northern exposure. Um yeah he actually yeah due to the brown he wasn't leaveing

the A t l M back then. But um, but he had a point, right, So then you yesterday I saw um Stuet Rock um picture of Stuet Rock and DJ Cash and some other gentlemen were having a discussion, you know, about the Atlanta and how you know, and so they were talking about and this. Never mind you a lot of people say, we've often talked, you know, on air and off air about what's not happening in the A t l club scene. And I think it was just a shift, right my personal opinions, there's a

shift culture. Like it's like, you know, at a certain point you outgrow you know what I'm saying, that box And I call the club a box because you get really you're put in the box when you're in there, like for forever. It's taking me to get the stigma of the party guy off of me as I've transcended into corporate partnerships and actually hosting television shows and being

a real host outside of the party host. And I wanted to further the conversation because it made a lot of sense with some of the things they're saying, um promoters promoters. When I started, they had no choice because it wasn't happening right, so they had to pay. And

as you grew, your money grew. But then people like myself who started like influencer programs, thing that you added on to your piece of the pie, and then it demanded a certain level of pay right, And things I hear from you when you first started, things I heard from you when you first started, and the things I listen to them say yesterday is so true because now you could pay somebody to the three hundred dollars they're

gonna take that, you know what I'm saying. But it's fucking the game up because these people aren't as qualified to keep the energy right because first and foremost, if you make it two three hundred dollars, you're sick. You can you could just buy Jordan's like you can't. Literally, And I think they quote I'm quoting I think Stewey Rocks, Yes, but like, but at the same time, you gotta start somewhere.

But what what the what the promoters are doing. They're doubling down on it, you know what I'm saying, because they figured, like, I could pay this little money still get the shot Out'll still get the mentions and whatever I need. But what do y'all think about that piece? And we'll go on to the next that. What do y'all think about the promoter? I think a big problem is I think promoters are really selfish, and it's about

what they look like. Um, it's about the perception more so than it is about actually giving the audience a genuine experience. So if you're willing to pay somebody a dirt cheap price to host and and that is actually going to reflect in the performance, but you're you're happy with it because and he's still gonna shout your name out, it's selfish. You're you literally come off as if you only care about how many times people hear your name on the mic more so than is he actually getting

the crowd going. I think, Um, for me, when I first started working at the clubs, I was nineteen working at the doors, and I remember there were promoters and there were sub promoters. The sub promoters were like your street team. They are responsible for getting girls, taking them to the bar, Like we give you drink tickets. Take the girls to the bar, make sure they're having a good time. Go outside, make sure you, you know, solicit

people to come in. Then all of a sudden, I start seeing the sub promoters inside on the couches drinking out of bottles. I'm like, what the hell y'all doing, like promoting or not? Like what you think that you're bringing twenty people in here? Justifies you coming in here acting like this, like demanding a table. I gotta have bottles, I gotta do this. I think they're very selfish and

it shows in their behavior. But most people I didn't really notice because I was getting my price when I was hosting, well, when I became a dj um, I first started opening, and when I was opening, I was I had a price because I'm over here, like I'm not taking anything less than three or fifty to open,

because I'm still you know what I'm saying. So I understood that, and then I was getting it in certain places and in some places they would not try to offer it to me, and then I would see that they would have other DJs to do it for lesson. And it wasn't until last year summer two thousand nineteen summer, Um, I did this one spot. You know, I'm saying, they gave you my fee and I was like, yeah, so what's up with every Thursday? It was like, nah, I got somebody that's gonna do it for two fifty the

whole night. And I said what I said, you got it. You know what I'm saying. So now I'm over here like damn, okay, why is it like this? So I in my in my mind, I'm over here like there's no DJ union, there's no party host like entertainment union. I would love to start like a union where we could all meet and then we can all set the market, because that's needed. I like that. But the only problem is it's gonna be it's always somebody that needs quick,

fast money that's going to do it for cheaper. So I don't know how effective it could be. But if everybody went up a hundred and fifty dollars on their price, we can start hitting in that direction. You know, I think you know what I think fucked up the market Hookah. No, I mean there's a lot of variables, right the wires man, But the sus point, I think the sub promoters fucked the game up because let me tell you what happened.

No dance floor either though. No, But let me tell you, like what Sue said was was very very important for you to hear. When you're a sub promote, when you're sub anything, you're at a certain level where you have to prove a point, right, And I think that what has happened because of table service, bottle service, because of you know, the enormous size of the venues. At one point, certain things had to be done to fill the room. And now what you're seeing is because the mega clubs

aren't as popping and more boutique situations are popping. That's because the person you taught went and did something on their own and are doing it without you. Right now, let me tell you what this messages up the market. One, because you're spreading everybody so thin that you can't really you know, have a consistent crowd, you know what I mean.

The only venue in Atlanta that is a novelty and people come to Atlanta and know about is the compound, you know what I'm saying, the world famous compound, which I named it. But at the at the same time, I think, like, you know, when you look at like what it used to be, it was because everybody congregated together, and if we were congregating, you know, compound on this night, if we were congregating and go on this night, we you know what I'm saying. So I think that that

was kind of the thing. Now, the thing you all were saying about, and I want to get to the host portion is because obviously before me there were no hosts, right, there were no hosting like this, right, But I think that it became less of about the party and the people and it came more about individuals and I you know, and the one thing I pride myself and I try to teach all of the hosts that I mentor have

had a conversation. I can said, if I had a conversation with you in a lengthy capacity and gave you some game, I feel like you should have took it, made you know, use what you needed, and made your bones. But I feel like a lot of people are so self centered and can't get out their own way that that becomes the focus, not the party. You know what

I'm saying. And it's like, you know, there's things you can do for inflection, there's things you say and things you highlight for capturing moments, and I just feel like that's that's lost. It's like the bottle culture um, you know, in the hookah culture causes you to stand still. Then you have this voice and DJ because we cannot not blame DJs on a certain level because you get stuck into these dope boys want to hear this and they got to hear this record. If you don't play, tell

y'all students, right, y'all, students of the game. Y'all grew up in it. Y'all have become who y'all are by being stupid. Where have you ever seen it successful? Anything happened when it's all about you gotta do this. If you don't do it right now, it's gonna fair. Like I don't come from that kind of party day. And I would like to say before suego, I do a party on Saturday, I do compound, and I leave and go to Tiger, Tiger and Marietta. There's a big gas

dance floor, minimal sections. Nobody comes to the DJ booth to bother me, Nobody requests me to play any records. Everyone comes in there to have a great times. Me also know where the issue is. The issue isn't sometimes it's also that celebrity, a whole bunch of hookahs, a whole no dance floor. I'm telling y'all because I'm actually leging.

I leave one party where everyone's a fish bowl and just staring at you, and I go to another party where I can play a fucking uh, I can play suave Mende and everybody's in the mom because they're coming to the party with no intention of a celebrity my bad. They're coming in there just to have a good time. Yeah, So I think something's funked it up. All those sections

there trying to kick it. So now I'm seeing that, oh wow, there are other parties and they pay me my feet period are large amount, and they put me in the middle of the flyer. They promote that I'm coming. I can I get there, I get I get ushered to the DJs right there. I ain't going nowhere. You have like the luxury brand, and then you have the store brand, right like something you want to go. There

are different markets for for different things. So when it comes to the club, a compound person is going to more than likely be either a table customer or they're going to be in a table with the they paid for the table. It's going to be one of those great breakdown what you're talking about, Like you know, right outside of the city or these smaller places like like

ty Tig. I haven't been there before, but I can imagine like that crowd is almost like the anti club club, but they want to be there to have fun, but they don't want to feel like they're in a club environment, which most of the time means bad customer service. Security is too rough, you can't get to the bar, or the bartender won't look up to even take your order. I mean, there's so many things that go into that. But the market has definitely changed. Like millennials don't care

about buying bottles. Millennials will sit at the bar and still spend two. But think about millennials, they'll come back over and over and over again. This table person, you might see them onst every three months, depending on who they are, unless unless you're giving them some com bottles or discounting it. Like you're having to come out of

your pockets kind of come out. She did, right, And that's why I wanted to have this discussion because I just feel like there's like you know, and also people are jumping out there for cloud like everybody, nigga, you not that DJ, You're not that whole. Some of you can't even join the conversation, like sit down. You know what I'm saying. And I also want to say, is you're the reason the markets sucked up. You know what I'm saying, y'all running around here acting like y'all more

than y'all are not putting in the work. Y'are using social media to amplify nothing. And I tell people all talk you know what I mean, y'all seen come and go. You know. One bad problem too is you know, people started a cap on things like the tables and tickets and all that stuff. When a customer finds out that you when a customer finds out that you just kept on them for a few hundred dollars, do you think

they want to come back? They're not coming back. So now customers on a weekly basis, But that and I know you will episode no, no, this is but I know you won't go all the way there because of the people you're but I can go there. And robbing Peter to pay Paul has never been the look. It's never but I folk, you'll always wonder why we're in a position I insult you this. I don't. I mean everybody I don't host in Atlanta force specific reason, for a specific reason. I cost too much. You know what

I'm saying. I'm not gonna be I would never be in the club four nights a week like I was seven years ago. You know what I'm saying. But even seven years ago, I was making fift dollars a night for like and this is like, yeah, four times a week, like you understanding? And I had to look at up. So it's like when people get into the conversation like

you can't talk to me about that. I can. You can talk to me if you want to, like pure advice or you want some information, but don't come talking to me, including yourself in my level of convertence, like you know what I'm saying, like what I've contributed, And that's and that's what I think is missing to like Alex, who taught all these promoters out here the game right, anybody who has a club right now or is involved on a high level has learned from him. You know

what I'm saying. No, but every one of them, And all I'm saying is is like I wish the AWL could have had control, but see, there's certain level of personality that needs to come with that, so you can't keep control. So I and I and I and I want to say this too. Everybody keeps talking about there's no no place to do it, or just said one I created Cassette. You can't tell me that, right, but I'm saying or in others, you with your brunts, other

people have created things that you keep up. So what I want exactly, but what I want to stop is and I wanted to start it off with me because it was it was cash for the whole episode today's episode with IP, So I said, you know, RP to the club scene because yeah, the way we know it is dead, like Sue said, you know what I'm saying, And it's fine because I'm an old head. There's nowhere, there's nowhere around it. Same time though, it's just time

for new blood. They do things differently, but it's not It doesn't mean that they can't do it the right way, it doesn't mean they don't want to do it the right I'm sure there are pockets. You know, we had that big discussion at the Hot Museum and then they had a whole another separate thing instead of coming to the High Museum. Why wouldn't y'all have come if you felt like you weren't invited, you felt like you were left out, come have the conversation, you know what I'm saying.

So I just think that we as a city of real creatives, real passion, the creators, real you know what I'm saying, like influencers of the world. This is this is Atlanta influences the world. There's no pun intend to shout out to the person who owns that, but like that's no pun intended. So get with the gatekeepers because you gotta understand there are gatekeepers. And you know what separates us from y'all is the money. You can't have

nothing without the money. You can have all the creativity you want, but unless we support you, and we want to support you and any one of y'all that I've mentor no that I'm about my word, I'm about putting my money behind people. But you can't continue to have conversations like you're really curating something and not being in like Sue has been in it, or has been in

the Bocy Corey with the case. There's people that have been in it, learned and have the respectable way to do the business in the some type of like Rory said, some type of need to check some balances. Man, we need some union to I think what you said is so fire like creates did everybody? Can you some money? It's a whole bunch of money out here, but paying everybody.

It's just it's sad that everybody wants to last thing last say that again, there's enough money for everybody, yet everyone wants to do the same to get money like that. But you DJs well, ain't no camera, but he looked for camera. You should feel a certain type of way when they do a thousand dollar Halloween contests and you're only getting three fifty, period, you should feel uncomfortable about that.

But how do they demand it? Let's give them answers and I have I haven't answered, but how did they Okay, well, I got a perfect example. But to your point, tell you what I do. But to your point, though you said that somebody else is willing to do it. Give how do you demand and then get your paper. You know I'm a different breed. I come from Kenny Burns, Gray Street, big Tigger, all them treat I got a lot of old g s that keep me on point.

I get our perfect example, and I say they damn, there's eleven forty five last week, I've seen a whole bunch of extra bottles being order because I was playing the right songs. I took my ass to the back so I know y'all made extra money tonight. I need two extra tonight. That's right. When you're talking about right, I said, I need to ft the extra plus my feet. Yeah. He just looked at me crazy that. I was like, bro, I'm the one person. Hey, y'all had me in this

bitch thirty minutes extra. I need extra tonight. What they're gonna tell me? Motherfucker pulling this podcast and gave you my little extra bread. We'll see that that is that is important. I'm gonna tell you why that's important because you are demanding your work. These motherfucker's are scared to walk away, and I know you not, so he wouldn't put out there you willing to walk? Yes, okay, y'all know me. I find all the time they always come

back around. Literally, no subpromoters anymore, Like thank God for growth. A lot of the guys that I know that came up as you know, I guess the smaller promoters and the sub promoters. Um his squad has always been great with my guys. And you know they've gone, they've moved on to Oak. But now it's like, who's promoting Oak? Yeah? Right? But but but they don't need See this is my problem with sub promoter. And we'll go on because this is a whole show, is um. But and big shot.

There are people that came up in the system that are on top of the game. If you will right the promotions game. You can't have sub promoters anymore. I'm gonna tell you why. Because they don't have your best interest in mind. I mean in mind. Sub promoters do not have your best interest in mind. Their goal is to get where you're at, cap cap cap in any

time someone wants your position. And in this day and age now back in the day, you give a mother like me a shot and I'm gonna make you the million, and then I'm gonna be ready when it's time for me to make mine. I'm not trying to come in and step on your feet off top, and I think that's what these sub promoters, hosts and DJs do. D DJ ain't coming and trying to be like everywhere I go in the country. It's not even the Atlanta problem.

Everywhere I go in the country, everybody trying outdo everybody. You know, Kenny Burns up next. You can play whatever records you think you need to play, Nigga, because I will change the entire room and I will say this and big shout to the girl I want to shout out because she's a dope DJ. But before I got on and DJ band camp was up to jan because

he was rocking with me, she played all the hits. Now, mind you, this ain't the christiando or the party they sain't they play, But that's what that's what dn't want to do. But guess what I did when I came on. I played slow jams. So my point is like, you gotta be ready in verse two. You know what I'm saying. But like real hosts, real DJ's, real promoters, they're not gonna let nothing sway their movement and we gotta have control.

Back in Atlanta, Rory, I love the point of creating some type of union because I've been thinking about that for the past. There has to be law. There has to be law on all these It has to be like it has to be some game that people follow because they're not. It's why I was out here. Anybody to a party, anybody could be a host, anybody could be a DJ, because you gotta have that to stay in my lane. Like I go to people's parties, I support, I have fun I post where I'm at, like I

don't do any of that funny stuff. I tag you. But how about this after October, I'm just doing saturdays. Oh wow, I'm out. But it's time, you know, And I want to say this last year. You have to grow. As long as you're in something and you're comfortable, you will not grow. So I challenge everybody in a t to get in where they fitling, but I also challenge you to do it respectfully. Speaking of respect, I think Fury earned his respect by whooping. While you know, I

do say he whooped him. And while they're trying to say it's to suit what you have in I don't like. I don't like. Excuse not everybody's going in on this look man, and I love I love wild I'm a big Wilder fan. My thing is, come on, bro, just take the ale come back. I'm not even matter all that. I think he threw the fight. But my first thing, he threw the fight, I don't think he I think he lost off. No, of course not. I can't want to sist sis. My thing is he got his ass

beat every round. Honestly, the suit ain't that nothing to do with his ass? Not even moving out the guy damn way he was getting wrong. He did an interview before he said that he doesn't run because he like, he doesn't do a lot of cards like running because he doesn't run and he's a boxer. But okay, maybe

it was bleeding out his ear. I need him to imagine, right, what I heard was that, you know, his ear druma or something man busted even imagine like any might have been a concussion after that, like all messed up on top of having a little skinny legs. Is anybody his body, okay? Anybody looking out the tire around his waist, Is anybody looking at the building here? He is a boxer. Wilder is a hitter, like all he do is hit you.

Because the last fight that they had it was a draw only because knocked them down two times in the fight. For the most part he was losing while it was gonna lose that one too. Really, Yeah, I didn't even watch either fight. I just saw the clip his blood. Yeah, tell me where he's rocking his ass. I believe this is six rounds even round because he said an wanted to taste blood. So that's a boxer ship right there. There ain't no boxer tis here. Cannibal Tyson bit off

somebody on the blinking like he's looking at Clincheress. He licked his neck blood like it was a clincherest, did he not? Lady and German? Speaking of Clitteress, Steven Spielberg's daughter is going to the Wars that that's kind of crazy. Her panty is a big time film executive. Remember when

a fishburn starter with that was short lived? And what do you think that people just got so much paper that just go left with this because she said, and she said in an interview that she can never use her body the way she wanted to, and this is something she was tired of not being able to capitalize off her body. Okay, girl, that last name, her last name is enough to capitalize. She's like getting tossed up. She has these films in her mind that she wants

to see. She she wants you all to see her work. I just I get confused. It wants to be the Spielberger porn alrights from our sponsors. That's the time for baller man. Me and my baby daddy both two years old. We have a two year old son. We have data since high school. Well, here's the issue. I want more and he doesn't. He said he doesn't want to commit right now, and he doesn't want me to date anyone else.

What type of excuses that my dad said? I shouldn't have high expectations from a twenty two year old young man. Should I let him go and just work on me? Or do I fight for our relationship? And they got a job to have a child two years? Let me tell you what you do, little cis you put him on his head. You have control, you have the baby, and yeah, make them grow up. You know you gotta hold these young men responsible. You cannot allow them to just run all over You gotta and trust what I

tell you. Human beings don't like to be put in the corner or put on time out and put on end. Know that men do not like that. If you got missing, if you went from the loved DEVI is super thoughtful person you are to I don't funk with you. That's bruises, that's bruises. A go, that's gonna bruise his ego before you go soon? Wait soon, wait, because I know you love sooner to go in, I know Soper to go in. Uh, you're dealing with the immature young man, and he's not

ready to uh be a father. Seems like he's not ready to be a father, be responsible. He want to go out here in these streets and do his thing and put his penis inside other vaginas. Um, he's not he's not ready to be exclusive to you. And if he's not ready to be exclusive to you, you should move on and you should worry about yourself and your child. As long as he's a great father, don't nag him about anything else other than just being a great dad.

Block his ass on the ground, block him on all things, and put your butt on the sink. Take a picture and post it now put your butt on the sink and post that ship on the ground block. She said that she was, you know, concerned about the relationship and doesn't know if she should let it go. The relationship that y'all have currently is not the relationship that you're looking for, so that should be easy to let go of, say like, he's not your man. She got a whole

child taking her mind and they're having raw sex. That man has told her that he does not want to be in a committed, exclusive relationship with her. He wants her to exist. It's all about control. He's not He doesn't genuinely care about being in a family oriented relationship right now. But don't you think their measures to put in place where he could learn his lesson that this is who I was? Is there any way to salvage this?

I think he got to go finish playing because he still want to play, and him go do that while you continue to grow yourself, you know, allow yourself to date. Allow women know what they want. Man, you want to be with She don't. She clearly don't know she wants to be with him. She wants more, she knows she wants She thinks she wants to be with him. Okay, she said it, So you're not in her head and dates someone who's going to hold doors and really be

there and communicate with her to realize mo ship. But okay, would you not like to would you not like to try to instill that in your man? Or would you just want your baby daddy? Exactly because I had baby daddy. We do not want to teach you what you said something. If she wrote us on the Ball Alert Show podcast, she hadn't already been trying this, Okay. I think if she, if she knows what she wants, they're measures she can put in place to get it. That's all I'm saying.

I don't. I don't believe in quinn. I know for a fact that if there's something I like, I gotta tell Jessica. I think there's something she likes, she gotta tell me. If something we won't, she got to tell me we can't. Just as soon I know this couple. I know this couple uh in high school that I wasn't high school. I graduate two to damn. But they still together. She was ready to like get married and like Tim Grady when they met, and he was like,

what are you talking about? But now they're married, but she knew she wanted to marry her before he has in high school. My sister, my older sister, has been with my brother in law since high school. That's the only boyfriend she's ever had. Here's a major key. If you are affectionately in a relationship, meaning you have sex with someone, you're attracted, you feel like they want you, there's a way to put everything you need in place,

and that's lack of attention. If someone is not giving the equal amount that you you know what I'm saying, give I promise you try falling back and see how much of mother can call you. Try. Falling is awesome. No, no, dick your significant especially when women do it. I'm just saying, I'm just saying in that ration, I'm not saying stop having sex. If you know what I'm saying, I'm just saying, but you gotta prove a point. Sometimes I just feel

like what you know what I'm saying? Okay, baby? And that a word from our sponsors, creep creeping, and now it's tigned for comment creeping creep creep. All right. So Twitter was on fire this weekend. I know everybody was trying to keep up with the beef between Alexis Guy and Ari Fletcher. Who is I'm trying to keep up myself. Okay? So are used to be with herbo? Right? R is with money bag Yo? They have a baby together her

and g Herbo correct? Cool okay, so okay, okay, cool. Well, alex this guy and Ari had been going back and forth on Twitter. It was intense. They started talking about each other's children and how much money they have, and how many men they've been with, and all types of crazy things that women should just not say to each other. But Alexis said something that might have got somebody else a little rottled up. She said, you bitches are weird as fun. I'm in my own lane. I don't hate

no I don't hate on no one. All these trolls tagging me and ship saying I'm trying to be like this person. Let me make something clear. I love myself. I'm beautiful inside and out. I've been real humble. I paved the way for these bitches. She woke a lot of people like what she said, a lot of people. So Miss Melissa Forge, you know she doesn't hit the ground, y'all know she's like Melissa says, paved the way with

multiple question marks. People need a history lesson. But you know what, l O, l let me just chill over here with my greenery in my I don't even know how to pronounce this in my convalescent home. What does that mean? A convalescent homes? How you saying they they must have been clowning on Oh, she said, y'all a little young homes don't know nothing. Boy, that thing was all that thing was all day. It was too much. I could not sit here and refresh over and over

and over. I was like, you know what on ball her. I barely use Twitter. I know you too on me all the time. I'm gonna get it together again. I'm gonna tell you all you can watch pornos on Twitter. Okay, we know you've been watching them. I mean all my timeline if I scrolled, so I happen to scroll, I mean, I'll look at little ten seconds. That's beliefs. Not get

yourself wrapped up in this young drama for her. But her facial expression when she hit that thing, you don't tell me about the way she just looks like like like really like you just like the little girls. That's how Melissa. Yeah, and I never I never ever ever saw Melissa going online. And I mean she was popping

before social media clearly. But you know what I'm saying, I just never seen her and that that's what if you're gonna be about that life, you know, seriously, And I'm not saying Melissa fort Is, I'm saying, but if you're gonna be about that life, how are you putting it all on social media? But it seems that these young is just taking it in with it. You know. I'm just still now getting used to FaceTime and people

because I don't FaceTime nobody but my kids. But I think a lot of younger people that's all they do. You speak. If you speak to my Olivier, my six year old, they don't even call. They FaceTime only. They don't even talk on the phone, like, hey, how you doing? You know you could call somebody. Yes, they only FaceTime, So like this's just ship. That's different. Fan, It's like I call you, like, yeah, they just put it down, So what do you face tithing call text just in

case they need you to see me. Now, I'm a big Texter. I have texted all that. I don't even like talking. But you know, back to what you were saying. You know some of these people they gotta event on social media. Yeah, but do you really pay attention to what you're doing. You're talking to your phone. How is that helps people on there? But you you are talking to your phone. Now, I think some people could. I think you can't find therapy socially. But the things that

they're doing is not progressive. It's what's therapeutic is them getting justified or people are like justifying them that's online that they don't even know. Someone don't even know these people. I want co sign I need to be I even posted something the other day. They want to feel better about their decision. A whole bunch of strangers that don't

know you. And I was like, being authentically you. You don't gotta see validation like you're you, like you said, be comfortable in that, like every this app makes these people. So that's what lets me know. I was like, damn, man, I just I wish I could have thought about that. Instagram doesn't provide anything. We provide the content to Instagram.

It's just an app that has nothing in it unless the users provide that we actually made it the platform that they created the app for us, but we actually made it a platform and every one of y'all out there are not Cardi b okay next, And now it's time for a Confucius says, ladies and gentlemen, I just want to say, check on your people. Mind. You know, at the end of the day, life is so short that you really really don't know what's next. You really don't know, and the older you get, the more people

you lose. So please find solace in knowing that you are loved, and more importantly, that you love your people. Go forward, all the nation peace. It's real.