And Luca the King date Luke the goaty goat, you never forget fall Nation. She likes specialist Kinny your favorite ideo being so so low. He's got her water You brunch was super lit because she was thirsty. Was that brunch or was that the actual curricular It was brunch. My only extracurricular activities on the weekends is thinking and preparing about my Sunday brunch and it's a lot. It's a little drying here, all right, Rory, what's that your
weekend champ look a little shiny weekend? Oh wow, wow, y'all bringing off a conversations inside just delicious. Yeah. I had a very extravagant weekend, try some things I've never tried before. And outside of that, I was lit. Have the MLK Day, guys, h I DJ for the first time on air in the studio Saturday. I didn't mix a street. I did a lot of broadcast before. I did a lot of those, but it was the first time mixing on air in the studio, so that was dope. Did you like it? Yeah? It was. I did a
whole hour. I do it at home all the time, so it was perfect. Yeah, Saw, you didn't you put up something that you were going live about the DJ live was that, Yeah, that's what that was. What it was. Yeah, I was live on the radio in the studio. So to feel being in that room though, because normally you're on the other side. I was comfortable because again, that's the same equipment I have at the house, um, and it was just nice and smooth. I prepared myself for
over a year actually for that particular moment. So I got a conversation later to that station, so far is there actually I heard you just say that it's the same equipment you use at home. Yes, you know, yeah, but I'm saying so, and you don't do vinyl, you ever, never don't do vinyl, but I have tried it before. I I am very aware to do Okay, Yeah, so that's a big deal for people. Something. I got a couple of DJs, Era and t Lowis, who tell me all the time, a man, when you're ready, eat on
this vinyl. So once I kind of get really comfortable on my DJ because I'm gonna slide over to the vinyl. We're from posting parties, the rocket parties and two I literally said that before you came in Kenny like, I don't know what it was, but it was in my sphere and I was like, Ferrari, look at you. He's just you know, you always got to reinvent yourself. Yeah, you master it all. How was your weekend? My weekend was fabulous, to be honest with y'all. Um. Friday, we
had a great night at Traffic. I definitely spent some time with my family. My brother had surgery on Saturday, Keith, I love you. He is recovering very well, so that took up some time on Saturday. And Sunday was I promise you are absolutely immaculate. So make sure you guys check me out at Traffic Kitchen and Cocktails every Sunday from one to seven, because promised you. It was insane it no, it's a live I'm waiting for you guys
to come on and check it out. Second weekend, way on down to the Traffic well, I was in New Orleans, man, I was in New Orleans and he was live. Yeah. Man, New Orleans this special place. And I keep trying to tell people about these markets. It spirit that town. No, No, it really is it outside of you know, the people I see laying in the street from drinking too much and throw up everywhere. You know, I went to this food. The food is everywhere food. The food is even at
this hooker spot. I don't really like cooker and I didn't mean to go there but Larry, so I forgot the name. I went down there early because Steve could now his birthday. Happy birthday, birthday. Steve and I made a lot of money together, and he had an amazing weekend. He had dinner at um desi Vegas Steakhouse, and then he had something, Yeah, he had something the next day for the Pelicans game. We were on the court taking pictures and that, and then they came and bought to
table where Larry's right. But Friday night, I was just tell y'all, I'm not I really go places to work. I really don't go to hang out. I just realized that this weekend. But I wanted to go in early because it was Steve's birthday and I want to spend some time with Larry too early. So I went down and I'll tell you this, and I tried to go in the room. At like ten o'clock. I left Duzee, Vegas, and I went to the room and I wanted to go to sleep. I was not trying to go out.
I wasn't trying to go out. Larry called me nine one one, Kenny come down, said I want you to go to it, so you know, up going downstairs for him. And then it turned into a bar and then turned into the hookah spot. I got the guy rolled to Zazeke Sauce, the freaky Zeke and then I get hold and I mean to the room at five o'clock five, But that's new order, didn't I wake up at eight thirty just on like alarm clock status in my mind,
and then I go to the game. I came back and when I tell y'all, I went to my rows in eight and when I came back to the room, I slept for six. I went to sleep at five o'clock. We supposed to meeting the lobby at twelve thirty. I woke up at the leaven thirty. Damn. I had the best sleep. Need that, oh, I needed that uninterrupted. That is new Orleans put you in a coma if nothing else and said that when I was I wanted everything that I liked on the men so I could have
a comma. And when I tell you, I had three Uncle nears to or they made these Uncle Nicks branks at the at my rows at the Barbic shot to my guy forgot his name, the bartender. But I was sleep sleep and woke up like it was the next day for little so An, we went to the All Black Affair with Angela yee uh and Larry Marrow. It was amazing, man, I mean it was like three things. I think his birthday is becoming the new Zulu ball. His join had like three from from you only twenty nine.
He just turned like bro, like you are old market for that. It was y'all was of stuff. Yeah. Yeah, and he's sticking one because I actually can I wear some leather pants. I got the leather pants St. Laurent. Look I wanted. He met Kenny. You gotta dress up, ma, I'm wearing a whole Nino brown thank you. Yes, I'm glad that they can't made sure everyone followed the dress cup. Yeah. And one time for fifty cent, man, I will say this about fifty. I've never been in a party with fifty.
Didn't participate with the people in a way that I don't see most celebrit I mean, he coming, he pulled drinks, out. He's you know, I'm telling I even got him to perform. You know what I'm saying, I'm mad I ain't have my Mike. I'm clearly with them gonna stay. I didn't have my Mike to do the ADDL because you know, he he wraps a low like he wraps on records, So it wasn't like you could really hear you know what I mean, I don't had him. But then Jeez
went to a whole another level. Yeah, Jeez in New Orleans is like Jeez in Detroit. You know. New Orleans is like third biggest market. Yeah, they love him out that one time. For everybody who came down New Orleans, I love you forever. And now it's time for and Ace. You missed it, ladies and gentlemen. I don't know if you watch Power last night. Okay, we had one of the best episodes. Now you get it. Okay, my ears because again okay, all right, put your hat over your ears.
Now it's been it's been a minute on this season. They had like a great episode. I felt like yesterday, man, that was just so powered. Okay, I just heard you say it's been a minute since they had a good episode. The third episode, last minutes, it feels like forever. In the first episode, we hadn't to wait so long. I get what you're saying, and even like, to be honest with you, you were to be fair about last week's episode. It wasn't shit compared to I'm last glad that this
episode came though, because it was good. But okay, she played the hell out that she did. She didn't listen. I'm with you in the in the storytelling, but I'm with her if you see too. I watched it this morning. That's what I'm talking about. Like what happened that night. It was such a powerful thing with close your ears.
It was such a power say with Tommy and goes when he the emotion Tommy and he was sorry because he found out that didn't do the shoot the whole time and he was just like, but guess who did it? Spoiler Torek shout why are you? Why do you think so? I'm gonna tell you because listen, listen, listen to this though.
When he went to when Trek went to go meet Tommy, Tommy and he was like, yo, I found out it wasn't Basically, I'm telling you, it was not your pops, So we're gonna go get this right and we're gonna be a family again. He was like, no, if Dre got a plot to kill him, I'm gonna let Hi kill him. Yeah, but not only that, I felt when he looked up he was sold when he was holding Ghost, because you know, they didn't addressed Ghost being shot until this episode. So when he was in this episode saw him,
We saw him actually die. So when he was holding said he was so sorry, but he looked up he was like, no, like I just saw you. Basically, he was just so angry and he really wanted to kill him, but Ghost told him no, just just let it be. And that's how you knew it was trick too. He's
just him. But not only that, ty Rick is the only one could get that close to Ghost, That's what I'm saying without him, without him retaliating or no or noticing it was coming, he would have saw that right, right, because he always tend moves ahead of people, so shot him. You're right, you can't come in here. You can't come in here watching Sunday Sunday, right, But I knew we was going to talk about it, so I watched it this morning on all right, all right, I'm sorry, it's okay,
I'm not. I love y'all. Tomorrow, I don't care. I'll be done with the season and I got to go back to season one. You ain't ship. I'm lapping up season four. Yeah, and then too. You know what I'm gonna say. I just want to give a prediction. I think those were said about council You said there were all Councilman tade because remember when he was he ordered to kill him, but he couldn't get the job done. He said he knew that. I think it's Councilman who
sent them black dudes to try to kill ghosts. Yeah, the ghosts just turned up. I mean power just turned up one more notch. I love this to the best one so far this season because they put pieces to other episodes before that. You wasn't like. I like things like that, which is why I liked the shows that we talked about before. This is us like it puts a difference in there. I like to go back and see how something actually happened or what that person's you know,
mind frame was at the time. So I love the way that this season has been shot so far. I like that you go back for a second. Let's just touch and go. And that was this episode, like we was just touch and go. We touched on the little girl, Proctor. We like he said, we brought all the pieces together, but it wasn't just on. You know, we follow and tell me the whole day trying to figure Yeah, and I thought he was gonna give the ring to the little girl. I thought he was gonna give it got hard.
It was like it was like, hey, look, if you feel like you want to come, you know, I understand too. That was on some kill Bill type stuff. Speaking of Revenge Ladies and gim and bad Boys. Three made that movie. Great movie. That is absolutely saying. I did not see it. I wanted to go with y'all, but it didn't happen. I'm taking you today, but let's go. I'm down. Were going to the movie? Did you see it? Pre ordered my tickets for Tuesday because there's a five dollar Tuesdays
at AMC. It's as good as all. I don't seen, no way. I'm praying for that too, because I tell you, I was so I was worried. I was I wasting on from Okay, Like honestly, I'm not gonna do this twice. I'm gonna walk The first ten minutes of the movie is gonna get you like ready. They said it was really good and that we needed bad boys for so for I look like this weekend again today, Ladies and gentlemen. False information warning label on photoshop images. Do you hear
about the Instagram on Instagram? Yeah? Yeah I did, And I'm curious how how does that happen? Like? How can they identify what a photoshop? Yeah? Well, I want to say this. I think that Instagram is up to some
ship anyway. I just think that the regulatory algorithms aren't allowing people to be great anymore, right, great as far as multiple people seeing because I know that they are really probably fucked up mentally that they let people call, you know, start all these businesses and they're not personally monetize. So I think that this is all part of a bigger thing. I'm interested to see where it goes, though it's scary. I think, what do you think? I think?
You know how YouTube monetizes you and then they get their percentage and sometimes they'll take it away sometimes, you know, sometimes I know a lot of the young YouTubers and sometimes they don't get their money first off of the video getting approved because if you you know, you have to upload it and if it's suitable for kids, and then some small thing in the video after it's now
they hold your money. I foresee Instagram doing the same thing, because people make a lot of money on Instagram as people as much as people are addicted to Instagram, if they were too, I mean, they're putting clearly putting these things, in my opinion, in place to you know, basically stop your house on some level, so you see how much you need them. They're gonna add other things where they
can participate. I think that's the game. But I think if they did it so abruptly, people would leave Instagram alone, because you know what many people monetize. It's you know what I'm saying, it's even like a ball five million followers, you know what I'm saying. Up in one day, they just decided, you know what I'm saying. But even like with us, it's like we care, we just put the content, you know well, you know what I'm saying. But then they want you to go by these times of day.
They want you to see the best. You know what I'm saying the post and all that, they definitely are making it hard to monetize. I do see within the next couple of years it's probably gonna be ten times harder to monetize on Instagram without them having to make x amount. I think they're trying to see how much they can keep themselves. I'm eager to see what the next social media happen. That's gonna thriller and TikTok is cool, but it's for it's very specific acting and kind of
like videos. I'm eager to see what the next big thing is, like kind of like how Twitter, how Max to Twitter? Twitter. I don't think it's gonna be another one. You want to know why, because this is the best version of all of them. I think Instagram is the best version of all. Remember for a long time, it was like like Twitter was Twitter and you couldn't have you to go to this for video, you had to go to this for filters and this. Yeah, then they're
going to continue to keep adding. Instagram was one of the first to keep that because you remember when I G Stories came, they were like snapchats out of business, you know what I mean? Because I remember they're still there and kids use it because it's younger. Yeah, I still I will go to Snapchat us and then the Snapchat filters because they have that little hard thing. It's better. It's better than the Instagram filters. But I know my kids use it because they know we're not on it
like I try to. No question, it's definitely the go and the kids are doing these ghosts accounts. So if you're like child is like not active on the page, you file Hall Ladies and Gemma. Speaking of active, Kim Kardashi and tackles Nations Mass and concerration problem. Thirty nine year old reality stars teamed up with Oxygen to executive Reduce, a documentary about the United States criminal reform system sutting light on those who she believes have been wrongfully and
hucerated through harsh prison sentences. Like no, but I would give her a big round. Hello, I mean she deserves sometime. Look at y'all are reluctantly. Actually, my finger is cut. It's hard to say that her middle finger is cut. But no, I think that's incredible what she's doing. You know what. I like that she's I'm gonna I gonna
be honest. I think that she has been extremely consistent, and I love the consistency if she has a platform and will definitely earned my respect if she continues to be consistent, because for some reason, I still think it's for the tooth. But there's no there's no monetizing it for her. But maybe there's no monetizing directly has any money, but from the press, the attention that she's getting from
her name and her name and we're about something great. No, I'm not maddening it for us to talk about it. Maybe maybe not. Maybe she's doing it because she really feels it. I'm gonna children, I want to that that that was a straight up how a mom. Just just that was real. I mean, listen again, I think from what I'm seeing in the consistent I think she really cares. So if she's consistent enough, she win me over. I definitely got my I got my you know, I got
my eyebrow up. Though I think she cares, I think, um, she cares about very specific cases. I guess it's like certain things that just speak to her heart, which is okay. I think it's just really difficult for some people not to question if it's genuine or not because it is Kim Kardashian, you know. But nonetheless, it's awesome that these people are coming out. You know, it's awesome that she's shedding light on the top of whether she is truly
genuine about it or not. I think she's inspiring the thought. You know, she's provoking the thought and encouraging other people to get on board and and educate themselves. That I just say, keep going, keep going. Thank you want to speak for herself, absolutely correct, Speaking of disrespect um Oregon US Bank employee terminated after helping a struggling man get
home for Christmas. Emily James, a senior bank employee at Portland's US Bank call center, was fired shortly after the holidays for giving twenty of her own money to help a man get home to his family for Christmas. I will never ever support US Bank if that is the truth. I mean, clearly, we don't report anything that is not that has not been fact checked. But I mean, how houseway, I'm not understanding what it has to do with them.
If she took the time to use her own car, her own gas or means of transportation and give him her own money, It's not like she, you know, tried to override something on the bank system to clear his check or put the money in his account, or she didn't do any of that. She went and gave this man money herself. I think it's absolutely disgusting. I think humans can be real big pieces of ship. Yeah, I agree, um,
and speaking to big pieces of ship. Fourteen year old girl was kidnapped and decided to use the popular social media app snapchat with just talking about that to share her her location with friends, who then promptly called the police. Um, it's amazing yeah and ape yeah, and and and saved her life. You know what I'm saying, Um, you know, I think that social media is a part to play in this, in this kidnapping thing that's going on, this
trafficing thing that's going on. You know, these people are on this thing, stalking these people, you fos, coming up with new ways to um, you know, infiltrate the system. These kids. A lot of what you're hearing is that these people are like learning them to places through you know what I'm saying, through the communication on social and it's just like man like, but how do you monitor even that? Like I said, you know, I have children, but they use sneak accounts. They they got their ways
of like communicating and getting around. You just got to prepare your kids for whatever, you know, and you know, just let them know what to do if something happens. Just keep them on in the same way they learn these fire drills at school, you need to tell, like teach them the same things at home and what to look out for. It's really important. I know it's uncomfortable and it's scary, and you don't want to, you know, invoke that fear into your child, but I think you
have to look at it more so. It's like a means of protection. They got to be scared of something first, and almost I'm not rather be scared of me or mad at me forgiven. You know another thing parents out there in ball the nation, I I often, you know, I try to tell my children only what I know. I don't try to inflate things. I try to tell them what I know. Um And you know, it's ironic to me how your kids want to go here from
somebody else though you know what I'm saying. It's like sometimes they got to hear it from us Rangel or a peer or teacher and be like, uh, my parents. Yeah, Like the coach. Okay, I just told you. I tell you every day with the coach. You didn't want to hear that was going through and having to learn themselves. And that's what we try to save with boys. Oh my bad had a moment forever we thought you were going to complete. Yeah. Boys, my dad did say that
having boys is they're more hard headed than girls. I was talking about, you know, you know, tell them a six year old no no, no no no no, not to say away. I say like, I'm saying, like a little more brother from to do something that I know he's gonna do because I was used to I used to be he was sixteen. Yeah, I got sixteen. Okay, was right as he usually is. You know. I think in times like that, you kind of got to not put it in their face, but put it in their face,
is what that happens. Yeah, just so you know. Yeah. And also later also ladies, gentlemen, Oprah Winfrey claimed that she was pressured by Russell Simmons to back out of the Apple doc highlighting his sexual abuse claims. Um According to Oprah, hip hop mogul and former friend, Russell Simmons attempted to pressure her to drop her involvement in upcoming Apple documentary that will focus on the sexual sexual misconduct
allegations against him. The TV host and filmmaker announced January tempt that she would be pulling out of the project, a decision that was met with shock from all involved in the film. Now me no open from the public because I don't know a person me. No open from her commitment to telling stories and reporting the news. Why would she do this? This is not like Oprah Winfrey. I'm trying to figure out what the hell going on?
Open never said she started that damn channel. She changed telling y'all ever since she has She went from being on the talk show having a talk show. When she started her channel, she changed business partners. Influence, you know, that's what it is. More than likely the new influences, the new the new things that she has to do or feels like she has to do. Who knows, maybe somebody's holding something over her head or thank you? Yeah, I think, Um, I don't think she'd be pressured to
do anything. I don't think she you know, I would even acknowledge that. In my personal opinion, UM, I think she probably got some information, UM that made her choose that. I don't think Russell car like, yo, please, I mean, and maybe we don't know, but I don't see Oprah Winfrey because somebody thinks it is hard to see that, right unless you know, maybe he did or some you know, someone sent a couple of messages to her and she decided to use the word that a lot of white
women uses, like you know, pressured. Maybe maybe they just said, hey, Oprah, can you chill on us? Like, hey, we're friends. What's going on? Like, can you tell me what's going on? Can I at least explain to you, like look at this proof that I have? Does this not count for anything? Right right now? I don't know. It's so hard to say because it's Oprah, you know, like we love her. It's it's really hard to read this situation facts. I agree. So I just don't see her. I don't know how's
her backing down? Nor do I see But then again, she did the Michael Jackson interview. That's what I'm saying, Man, I don't know if this is that Michael Jackson interview was so pointless to me with them boys. I'm just saying, like, I mean, I get it, and I feel bad for him if that happened to him. I believe personally, in my heart of heart that Michael Jackson had some dealings with children that were inappropriate. Um in my heart of heart, this is my personal opinion, but I don't know he
was it. So nobody's trying to obviously tell her how to do her job, But it's like, can we have some type of a balance or a consistency outside of the people that you do these stories on being our own? There are so many others that need this same attention and they're just not getting it. So no Oprah is known forgetting those big interviews anyway that no one would
ever get like with the Obama's. You know, I want to be the one that the culture comes when she was that forever and she was the only one for a while too. Yeah, like corner, So now that you guys make that point, how do you think it's going to be for her moving forward? Like do you think she if she does come out with another documentary that you know, speaks against one of our own, who may not be who may not be guilty, How do you guys feel this is gonna affect moving forward? That's a
very thoughtful question and I love it. Because I think there's a change in the guard happening like never before. Like if you look at like music, the business of entertainment, um, you know, even in our space, the media space, like everything is changing and the old guard is really going away. And I think, you know, I used to hear this. My mom and them used to say this, you know what you do as a young man's game, right, And I think I've been grad at like we already said earlier,
I'd reidentifying opportunities and amplifying my brand, right. But it's true, it is a young man's game. I'm talking about what you're willing to do, get out here and go and you know, I mean stay up and travel and leave family. So but to your point, it's like, you know, like Charlottagagne. Charlemagne to me went from the school of Wendy Williams and shock jock moments too, being a thoughtful human being that I want to here ask questions that I want
to hear, you know what I'm saying. So, yes, I think that the time is coming to where there's gonna be other people that rear their heads for the position of cultural conversation. I don't think it's gonna be one because I think that media is from when Oprah came up. Because Oprah came up, you know what I'm saying, and where you cornered the market. And you know, TV wasn't jumping out there. But now because of social media, the Internet, so forth and so on, their platforms and ways you
can get that off. And I think we're seeing in real time her figuring that out now. And she's not connected anymore, you know she's not. When you look at her audience, it's still the same audience she had a long time ago. Yeah, like her heard is flocking with her wherever she's going. That's where don't It's never gonna change.
So you're seeing her try, I guess to do something that Okay, this is super heavy in the media world for this demographic of people, and I still need them, So let me go ahead and do this Michael Jackson documentary and get an uproar out of this group of people. And then when she tried to rustle, it was like, Okay, hold on, now, we don't approve of you not highlighting these other people. Like we're not mad at you for covering something that is overcovered. Right, it's in the media.
It's it's not it's been there forever. Challenge her exactly. That was the social media. But now she gets to hear our opinions. Hold on out, what about what about these people over here? Why are you digging, digging on us so much? Where your people like Twitter is real? And she's she's feeling it. She's like, Okay, I'm actually causing this, this wedge, this divide between myself and these younger people that I won't Yeah, man, super Bowl fifty
four has been decided. Ladies and gentlemen, your home state of Florida will be hosting that ferrage sympthy will be the Kansas City Chiefs against the San Francisco forty Niners, will me and Tampa. That's gonna be super really, But who's gonna win Super Bowl fifty four? Wow? You know I kept telling everybody I don't know, but I'm gonna go ahead and pick. Now, come on, I wanted to know, pretty nice. I got the Chiefs where we bet? I want to bet a pair of easy is actually there?
It is? We can bet something else. Don't have to just said something in that room, something like that. Caliber I don't tell you why, I'll tell you why I think that it's going to come down to the quarterbacks. I mean they both both teams have phenomenal Actually, I'm teams defenses are yeah. But but okay, I was about to say the offense of the Kansas City Chiefs. I meanlo is good, but he's no. They got Richard Sherman. Yeah, Sherman have to throw it on then have to throw.
They got Sammy Walkins, the little dude, he'll they have. They got to run and they got the quarter I mean they got and they got to Kelsey. I don't know how you stopped that offense attack. I don't know. I hope it's a high scoring game because I want to see touchdowns. I don't want to see something high scoring. So yeah, that running back for San Francisco more moist something like that. His name, his name, his name, something like that. It's not moist most dirt. That's t RT.
You deserve shout out the ball the nation because you had foe touchdowns and probably would have had seven teen. Yeah, was scoring left and right. Hey man, just make sure you book your tables, okay for zero four six zero d going ahead to get that Super Bowl table shouting all right, now we're from our sponsors and now that's time for baller now, man, I put this in our ball Alert group chat. This one came strictly to us guys Deirari, Kenny, Sue, and my boyfriend recently got locked up.
He was arrested at home and left his cell phone. Of course I went through it, and to my surprise, I've discovered he potentially has a baby on the way based off the text messages him and the bitch don't know. I don't know if the baby is his or her friends. Do I leave and don't turn back or do I wait it out? Because this because before this he was a perfect man to me, f y I we don't have any kids together or separately. Yeah, first of all, JA, that's like the only time you're gonna be able to
go through his phony. Yeah, this is what's scaring me about. I'm hearing stories like this often, and I'm assuming that they're in their twenties or something. Okay, you never know, since I don't know if you, but the way people are fucking out here and and fucking each like not even respect what you're like, hiv ain't out here. I'm serious, Like the stories I hear from my mentees. It's unreal the type and they all being each other basically like
the seventies. It's like US seventies or just rotating with sharing, playing musical chairs with vagina. Um. I think it's I don't know. First of all, I really want to know what he wants to jail for. Secondly, I want to know how long you guys were together. And if you feel like you can forgive the fact that this is a possibility. If you cannot forgive him or you can't get over the situation, then you need to run leave it alone. Period. Like it all comes down to can
you really handle it? Because sometimes you'll say, I'm fine, it's cool, we can work it out. What you think about it? Every day it's constant. You can't shake the energy. Just let it go, that's the case. Yeah, I don't think she's gonna be able to get over this. Yeah, how can you? How can you like this? This is my thing? Like I will say, in relationships, at all times, there is there's both parties involved. I mean, any any action comes from a reaction, um something not being done
in their mind. Whether they let you know or not, you are part of the bullshit in some kind of way. Now, you're not responsible for him going out and cheat, you're not responsible for him not making those right decisions. But there's something in the relationship. So this is where it leads me to can we forgive? Forgiving is something you can forget because I feel like a lot of times people forgive but holding the back of their head what happened,
and it rears his ugly head at times. But but that's what I'm trying to say, Can you really forget? So you gotta you forgive. It's like if I didn't do something in my relationship, and I know that's the reason why I would have to forgive and forget it if I wanted to stay the course, because if if if I, if I held onto the bullshit, it would consume you. Like that's just like you know, if you're told something often enough, you're gonna believe it, or you're
gonna at least think about it. Like if you're told you won't ship, and you told you were told X, Y and Z, or you weren't gonna make it, that doubt plays somewhere in your spirit, you know what I'm saying. It takes a lot of strength to get over that. But you get over it, by damnit forgetting it. You don't tell abody because if it's in you, you know it has a potential to consume you. So I would just tell you, darling, um, you know what happened in
the relationship. I would need to know what happened in the relationship. Is he just out here serial cheating? Is it now? She said he was the perfect boyfriend before this? Well, one point I want to make about that, though, is if he was a perfect boyfriend and had a whole another life like this going on an affair with someone who was also having an affair, that is extremely questionable to me. Like, you are probably more dangerous than somebody
than average person. Yeah, Like you're definitely, in my eyes, dangerous that you could be so perfect and under the radar with none. But my thing is, if he was perfect and it's a mistake, that's one thing. It's a long mistake, I'm just saying, But it's a mistake. Nonetheless, you know what I'm saying. So my thing is, like I mean, the baby is, if it's his, it's a big mistake. After a while, it becomes premeditated. If you're constantly like setting up dates and sneaking to go see
this person. It's not a mistake anymore. It is premeditated. No, I think again. But we're talking about cheating, so there's not a right or wrong way to cheat. If you cheat, you cheat. Somebody gets pregnant as part of the process. My thing is why do we cheat? How did we get here? How can we fix it? Sometimes I believe a person may be unfulfilled, and sometimes I just believe that people are weak and just want what they want. They fall into temptation and they fall into the excitement.
The thrill of this person makes me feel like this. That person has the opportunity to make you. That person has no choice but to make you feel like that, because the only time y'all meet is to get down, you know. So it's like when you're in a real relationship and people have responsibilities. You've got bills, you've got jobs, schedules to try to keep up with, Like it's all like you gotta work on unconditional loves. Well, you know, don't go just be single because you got so much
wrapped up in it. And a lot of that be the security blanket. You know. Someone told me the other day. They were like, yeah, my wife, UM, such and such such, and what if I just didn't go to work like he? I guess he's the bread winner, you know what I'm saying. I guess the issues he was having was like you know, there was like, well, you know, you're making me feel some type of way, and I'm the bread winner. Like if I don't gonna make the money, it doesn't happen.
So people get My point is people get comfortable in relationships and there's certain things is why people don't leave. My thing is you can control somebody cheating in my mind, unless he's just or she's just you know, an inphomaniac or likes I'm that serious. It's like Rory Robby's trying new ship because they don't need to be. I'm that serious. You don't want to go look forward to. Curiosity is
what takes you out of the house. And if you're told over and over again what you need and those needs aren't being met, you would have to know the outcome though, or at least what could happen. That's what I would would look. Can we get these people to call in or come in? Because I think no, But I think this is and then we don't Ball the Nation. You don't have to be we have to say your name.
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was tough comment. Yes, it is all right, y'all. So alexis guy who's probably widely known on love and hip hop or for her leaked sex tape. You know with her and Fetti Walk back in two thousand seventeen, or for being an Instagram model or whatever it is that you know her for the point is or that okay, the point is you know her, okay, even if it was from the Cucumber Challenge. Well, the beautiful Alexis guy was here in Atlanta and she was hosting a party
and posted this really cute little video. Um. You know, she had these other beautiful women in the video. They were coming down the steps basically like setting the ambiance, letting you know to come out and party with her. And the caption said nothing but batties with me at Buggaloo. And of course little Duval, who is both ruthless and hilarious. He responded by leaving a comments saying, y'all should have
did a second take. So I'm guessing. I'm guessing he think everybody in the video was was Batty's you know, That's what I'm guessing. But Young Miami, this is actually what's funny. Young Miami left a comment from the City Girls. She left a comment with crying emojis, and Alexis responded to that with kissi emojis, But she didn't even acknowledge a little Duval's comment. She like skipped right over that
and just holid at a young Miami. Yeah, but you know what, I think that was the right thing to do, Alexis, don't don't bring that, don't bring any more light to that or laugh if you ain't gonna laugh at Little Duval's comment. Just ignored. Don't be mad at it. Don't be mad, she answered, Young miamis Miami. But no, no, no, no, I'm saying she chose to ignore little comment, right, she just shows ignore him and focused on, you know, a positive. But the thing is, I don't know if Young Miami's
comment was positive because she left crying emoji. So it's like where you crying and the same thing that little devolved right, Like, I don't I don't know. I would think that's what she was coming about. And I think, why would Alexis, you don't really want to issues? She want to be a city girlfriend exactly, wouldn't you want to be? Again? That shot had again I was starting asking you, okay, okay, well like this guy, you look beautiful in the video, and I feel the other ladies
y'all looked beautiful as well. Okay in spite of what little Duvall said, although it was it was funny. It was funny. He's hilarious. Did y'all see little Walls? Uh? What? You could join somebody on the instant live right, bro. He had the one girl on there. She was almost he hung with hello, kind of like pause. He's like, you gotta get yourself out of trouble for trouble stars stuff. One time for a little Duval and now time for Confucius says, ladies, and gem is MLK day, That is
Martin Luther the King Junior Day. Um. This is a time where you should be thinking of all the commitment that that era had to us, our calls and our people. Um. And today on be Honest Lifestyle, my wife posted a quote from the legend and it says, the ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of convenience and comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy. And I couldn't think of a better quote in these times that we're having right now
with this president, with our own people. UM, and I just want you all to be great and think of those who fought so that we could be great. And have these opportunities and wake up every day and live our best lives. So go forth, Ball the nation. We love you and happy Mark lived to the king Junior Day. Peace the tree's real