Episode 228 "911"

Ferrari's on vacation, but we're gonna hold it down. You always saying somebody on vacation, on vacation, thinking of vacation. How was your birthday, Sine Solo with your hennisy glasses on? Okay, I'm still trying to recover. It was nice and chill. I really wasn't feeling too fassive. Um Sunday was the forty days celebration of life or might get one, So it was just I'm just not feeling very festive. But I did have a great time at the house last night.

My friends came over. Grace Madeline Solemn Kenesia justin and we had a ball. We have peopall. We had a ball that was more of my vibe. I didn't want to be on a flyer standing on somebody. I'm tired, Like I'm tired. I was supposed to do a party with BT. Yeah, I'm sorry, but I'm just not in the festival. So and that's okay. Yeah, but shout outs all the areas. You know, we still run it. It isn't but it is. I don't know about that, you know, Yeah, yeah,

shout out to their Yeah, thank you. It's about to get hot outside, you know. So the Leo's about to start coming outside, the leos, the leos, you got jokes today, I'm well rested. Well, you said something about the forty days of mourning, So, um, I know they knew something like this in Europe. Um, how is that in your culture?

So we are Orthodox christian Um typically the majority of us, and we have something that we call a hasin, which is basically a gathering of the community as soon as someone passes away, and it's generally for seven or ten days, but then we all come back together at the forty days and it's really just like a a check in. You know, it's really just to you know, bring the community back together, see how everyone's doing, and remind ourselves that, you know, this person is still a part of us,

even though they may not be here physically. You know, we love this person. So we all gathered at the Eritrean Community Center here in Atlanta and we ate. You know, we shared stories, we looked at pictures, and it was more of a celebration than it was morning. You know, why does the actual funeral happen or the burial that

happens right away. It's usually within the first week. Okay, Yeah, it's ceremony for to forty days, yes, okay, yeah, we're gonna I know, there are gonna be some other things planned, you know, my stones, his fiftieth birthday, things like that. But it's really important in our culture to keep that person's legacy alive, especially Mike. I mean, he's an Eritrean man that broke a lot of barriers. He dared to dream Differently, he comes from a small village in Eritrea

and was really able to grow an empire. So he is legendary. I hope to get justice too. He deserves justice. He definitely deserves justice, and I hope he gets that. The reward is up to two hundred and fifty thousand dollars. So if anyone knows the whereabouts of Mike get One's murderer Soto, feel free to share those details, and if it leads to his arrest, the reward money is yours. So many crazy things have happened and it hasn't stopped. We're gonna get into in case you missed it, get

into some words before we move on. Rest in Heaven to Clay as well. You know, at just lost someone else that's extremely legendary and important music industry. Clay is that man. If you've ever had a moment to be you may not have liked him at first. You may have thought he was arrogant an asshole, but then like two seconds later, he'll turn around and flip the conversation with a smile, make you laugh like he was a charming asshole. But he was necessary to the music industry.

I think he mentored so many people worked with Grand Hustle. There's there's so many people coming out talking about the ways that Clay helped them that I of course wasn't aware of. But it makes you realize how big of an instrument he was to Atlanta, to music, to fashion. So Atlanta took another hard hit in twenty twenty three. But it is beautiful to see the community come together and celebrate love. For sure. Yeah, her hits do not stop.

In case you missed it, Unfortunately, condolences to the hundreds of families affected. In Nashville, twenty eight year old former student and mass shooter Audrey Elizabeth Hale went crazy. She is responsible for murdering six people total at the Covenant School, which is a Presbyterian private school in the Green Hills area. Three of them were nine year old children. The other three murdered were adults said to be in their sixties.

I still don't understand the motive, but apparently, you know her being a former student, she had resentment for having to go to school. The story is still developing at this time, so I don't really know everything about it, but we know that she's transgender, and they're saying that maybe that has something to do with it. Again, the pieces are still coming together. Maybe she knew that she wanted to be transgender at that young of an age

and was teased. I really don't know what would drive a person to go to any school and kill innocent children or adults or just innocent people anywhere in the world. Like, I don't know what would drive her to do that. And it's it's sad. I mean, it's just really kind of like, you know, a touchy situation because you know, we can't keep blaming mental health for people, you know,

killing innocent people. We can't keep blaming because this person's sexuality is this some people are just fucking evil, man, Like, it's just evil people out in this world. And you know, we just got to stop blaming everything on mental health because some people are just pure evil and for somebody to do something like that, it's pure evil. And I mean, you know, we gotta do something about this gun law. You know, I know, the president only has so much

that he could do. I know, he can try to encourage everyone, but you know, nobody should be going out buying assault rifles. You know, in my opinion, you know, I understand people having handguns and nine millimeters and stuff like that to protect themselves, but nobody should be out buying assault rifles that can kill fifty people, you know, in five minutes. Like, you know, we ought to do something about that. And you know, I hope you know whoever is in control of making the laws in Tennessee,

which y'all might not care. You know, I don't know how many mass shootings have to continue happening for people to understand that the problem is people that are evil are able to access military rifles that can cause a lot of harm. And you know what I mean, I'm just I'm just sick of seeing it. But you know what, you can't gauge that, like when somebody is going to apply for a gun license or buy a gun, you can't decide in that moment whether they're evil psychotic like you.

But that's why we should just ban it, Like you should just ban you should not be able to go buy an assault rifle anywhere in the US. I mean you would have to say any gun at that point, because they can still accomplish the same murders with any type of gun. And that I don't believe. But I don't believe that guns should be banned. I don't. I don't believe guns should ben I'm just saying, and military rifles that could literally kill a lot of people and

dozens at one time. It's like you don't need all that you know, you don't you know, and you ain't taking out no military anywhere oneself and your salt work. You know how easy it is to buy a gun, they screen you more to go get an apartment, to house, to buy a house. I'm curious about like the psyche, Like what is running through your mind to say, like, like, what does her being transgender have to do with her going to her old school and killing children that did

not go to school or at random? At random? We're not responsible for you being potentially bullied. They don't know you at all, So what is going on in your brain to trigger you into doing that? You would think that you would go find the kids that taunted you in school instead of going to I just I can't wrap my head around it. So I need to know what the hell was going through this girl's mind or we will never know because you want me took her out? Ye out of there? Oh I almost say something evil?

My damn self man. Speaking of the evil acts, Brittany Taylor from Love and Hip Hop New York has been arrested for allegedly assaulting her kid's father with the baseball bat. Now apparently, and this is coming from tmz UM. As he and his mom were leaving her apartment with the kids, Brittany allegedly said something to him in which he ignored and um that set her off. According to tim Z and their sources, Uh, Brittany then punched him in the face while the kids were present. I fez I believe

is that how you saying? I fez her baby daddy? Sure? Her baby daddy then left the residence, but the cops say Brittany followed him and out with the bat and she began hitting him, leaving him with a lot of knots on his face. But now she went on had a post that I want to hear you guys opinion about this her speaking out about his domestic violence. She said, this Nigerian man has been beating her for years and he feels like women should obey their men and if

they talk back, they should be hit. That's what she said. That's what she posted. That's sad, man, because it's like, you know, some things you just gotta keep off the internet because at the end of the day, I don't know how old their kids are, but whatever lives on the internet is forever. They're their babies. The one is a baby, and I believe the other is like a toddler.

But it's wrong. Is wrong. But a lot of people in the comments are going in about her saying that he is Nigerian and that should mean something, right, Yeah, yeah, she kind of she should have left that out because it's just kind of she's paid in the picture, like like she's saying he's Nigerian, y'all, just so you know, and Nigerian men are this way and that way. Men

from all over the world that way. Don't matter where they come from, no matter how much money they have, how much money they don't have, it doesn't matter matter because portion got a Nigerian man. I mean, we don't know what's going on. But I'm just saying, like, yeah, that doesn't mean that he's an abusing because I mean, her comment kind of sounds racist. It's come off a little racist. Yeah, it's almost like she was saying, like, let me throw that in there so that people so

it makes it more believable. But some people are saying they understand like a lot of Nigeria man abusive and have like multiple women and stuff like that. So some of them are on her side, but some of them are just like what you guys are saying, Like, an abuser is an abuser. Yeah. Yeah, you shouldn't label somebody based on you know what they are now, I don't matter if they eating food full of French fries. Okay,

an abuser is an abuse Okay. Yeah. Well, it's a lot of abusing going on in the news because Jonathan Majors was arrested in New York City for assaulting a woman who winds up to be his actual girlfriend. So his rep said he has done nothing wrong. Here's what allegedly happened that led up to this. Allegedly, him and his girlfriend got in to an argument why In the taxi returning home from a bar in Brooklyn, the girlfriend saw another woman, Texan Major, and confronted him trying to

sneak a peek at his phone. His girlfriend claims that Major got extremely upset and allegedly grabbed her hand and allegedly slapped her. TIMZ has reported that the victim claims that he put his hands around her neck during this situation. Sources say that the woman was dropped off somewhere and that Jonathan Major spent the night somewhere else, and it appears the girlfriend went to the police the following Saturday morning.

Major was obviously booked Saturday morning on charges of strangulation, assault and harassment. So Jonathan Major is officially charged with the salt and harassment. Despite what the lawyer said, man, some people are saying, Oh, they just trying to, you know, defame this black man. You know, it's just the I forget what they call it, the like the teardown kind of I forget what the word that they said. I

know what you're trying to say. Pretty much, every time a black man reached a certain peak in the entertainment business, it's always something Yeah, but in this situation, we have to stop putting ourselves in these environments that could lead to something like this. That's what people are not talking about. Well, how did he put himself? So so let's say, let's say it's not true, okay, Well, how that he assaulted her? Okay?

How can you avoid someone lying on you, especially someone that you're in an intimate relationship with, black or white, black or white? How can you can't? You really can't avoid that. You just got to live your life and hope that these people are good people and not trying to take you down, but not like the damage is done right now and it's sticking with him. You know what, it doesn't seem like, it doesn't seem like to me that this is the first time this has happened before.

And I feel like if this is not, if this is his behavior, then it's just gonna come back again, come back to home him again, and you know, then that's gonna be for sure to tell us if he's really an abuser. If he isn't, So let's say he was an abuser. Has she reported him before? Is this the first time she reported him? Is it? Is it, you know, luck of the Irish that she chose to do it now as his career has taken off, like or did she just reach her breaking point? What is it?

We don't know and we probably will never know. Well, you know a lot of his exes that are coming out of some people from his past. Yes, so one of his friends from his past, or well, yes it's not his friends. When his associates from his past that went to Yale with him. He made a bit tweet that when viral all on the internet. He says, I'm just gonna say this about Jonathan Majors and be done with it. Folks at Yale and the border of New

York City community has known about him for years. He's a psychopath, an abuser, and that is how virtually everyone speaks about him. It's just a shame that it took this long for this to be reported. So I feel like, if this is his behavior, then it's just gonna come out later on, like, well it'll it'll time or reveal itself. Yeah, but as for right now, we don't know. They're saying, uh, he's officially been charged. So now it's just up to the friend to confess or admit or whatever, and you know,

just to open this case up. This is about to be a sticky situation, man, because imagine you finally getting a peak of your career and your spouse comes out and gets your girlfriend. Well well yea his girlfriend. Your girlfriend comes out or your boyfriend comes out and say says something allegedly what happened, and you end up in jail and you were just on the biggest movie this year.

This is crazy. That's why doctor doctor Lamar said. I said, Black Queens Forever, snow buddies up lead the snow buttons behind. But y'all see a pint y'all see his girlfriend? Yeah, you know, you know what's so crazy about Instagram and black Twitter. Everybody was like rooting for him, like, you know, like I hope he didn't do it. I don't think he's doing it. Then everybody was like, wait, it's his girlfriend white or black? I definitely asked that question in

the group chat. I said, is she black? Oh? White? Then? So what did the comments when they, oh, they found out she was white? Oh? It was like, oh, yeah, we don't care. We don't care black people because you know, most of his fans are women, so you know, you know the black community. I start seeing in the comments when they discovered that his girlfriend was white, was like, oh, yeah, you're on your home. I care. I just that's messed up.

I was having a conversation with my brother on Saturday, my family throw a little birthday should day for me, and he was saying how he doesn't think that rich people or people with a lot of fame would ever either sexually assault somebody or view someone. And I said, why, why do you think that? Because they have too much to lose. I was like, it don't matter how much money, fame, or fortune, somebody got their ego is their ego. The crazy things that they want to do is what they're

going to do. You don't got to be a poor man to write somebody or view somebody. It could literally be anybody. I'm like, do you hear yourself? Brother, Like, do you hear what you're saying? You have politicians that he said a lot of money they're yeah. He was like, it just doesn't make sense for rich people or famous people to turn up. But you know a lot of people, a lot of people think how Sue Brother thinks a lot that's smart, and I feel like, once enraged, they're

not thinking at all, not at all. Well, I think I think what it is. I think it's more so of people in those situations would do something like that because they're gonna say, who's gonna believe you? And they could got money to cover it up. Absolutely, you know they got money to make it go away. Grave abuse, all those things is about power. It's not about how much money you have. There's a need for power. There's the most evil people one hundred percent because again they

have resources and feel like, who won't touch me? Exactly needing the reason why none of the presidents have been to jail yet. But if okay, Donald Trump still ain't been there. I ain't gonna say no names, but I'm just saying Donald Trump still ain't in the jail. On that note, we'll be back with it. We'll be right back with more of the Baller Alert Show, Baller Nation. What's up? Man? You like what you see? Man? We

lit right now. Yes, sir, if you got a big business or small business of products and you need millions some people to see it, you can lock it right here with the ball of Love Show podcast. That's right. You can be right here right now. Get us up, y'all. It's love versus money on a ball Or Alert show, and we're bad love versus the money. I'm gonna give a couple and you let me know if they're there for the love or is it just business. I'm always

scared when you do this. Okay, ahead, Today's love versus money? Is a you know, it's a lot going on on this couple, or it's it's more than a couple. I don't know what this is. Nick Cannon and all his baby mamas, Oh lord, you are asking us, do you do we think that it's love or for the collective. Are you gonna ask us like this mother all of them, all of them? But it's not fair to group them all. Well,

it's really Nick Cannon versus Nick. First of all, you gotta have money to be pleasing all those baby mothers, does he? Because he just recently came out and say, we literally just came out and said that I do not give my children's mother's monthly allowance. But what they need, they get. What they need they get. I see that's some rich people lingo right there? Okay, you do they come out and say what they need? Do are they prideful like or some prideful because I know I'm right.

I don't need nothing. I mean clearly, but maybe maybe they all have credit cards and when they need stuff for the kids, they just go get it. And he just pays the credit card field every month, see Nick chop because honestly, they get what they need. Could mean anything, It could be anything. Is it just but we all got needs? Right? You can say, hey, I need a trip to Hawaii. No, no, no no, I need a child. What you need for a child? But I don't know, I mean some of them, that's not what he said.

I don't need a smoking mom. That's not what he said. He said, they get what they need. They it's gonna have to be there. He got a lot of days like he gotta take Yeah, he gotta take care of the rich folks talking. I mean some of them have houses. I've seen that some of them have new houses. Um, and it doesn't seem every child should have a nice home. Absolutely, so for him, he feels like, Okay, I'm gonna make

sure that my children have a nice home. What you look like your kids come to your mansion when they come over, and then their mama house is a mess. Like especially if he's a women that you actually love, respect value. I don't think he has children with just random women. I really think that he has special bonds and relationships. Yeah, yeah, I think so. I think so too, because all of his you know, when I see him.

First of all, for a man to be at all the baby showers, you gotta have some sort of connection with these women. And you know the way Nick Cannon talks about love and being there, you know for his baby mothers. You know, I mean, to me, that's a special bond. Man. I don't care how people talking about how many kids he got Listen, it's people with one kid that ain't half the man Nick Cannon got with with all these kids he got. So y'all can say what y'all want to say about Nick Cannon. That man's

handling his business. So do you think any of the mothers were there for the money and you think it's just all love all around? First of all, I ain't no woman about to know you got she said, eight baby mamas, and you ain't got no money? What do you mean? I think that some of those relationships are for the money. Which ones he thinking for the love? Whoever ain't getting no money from him? Mariah? I mean, I think some of some of those situations were there

for the love. But you know, listen, man, you're a man. You see something hot, you know he probably just ain't man. You need a kid? You need a kid? What he probably like, you need a kid? He recently just said he regretted not having a kid with Christine Million. I'm sure she felt like she digs the bullet. Baby. She like, no, I am good all at one. So I think that they're actually all there for love. And I'm gonna tell you why none of them have blasted anything about this man.

They're not flaunting things that he's purchased. They're not flaunting trips, they're not flaunting their houses, bad shoes, They're not doing that. They are not calling him a dead beat at all. Like they are all literally raising their children with this man. Whether he's physically present or just emotionally financially present, whatever it is, none of them are dogging this man out out here being extra's hell. Like, Oh, Nick, and I think that there's a lot of respects in these relationships

and a lot of love. So I think they're all there for love. You know what, Nick Cannon should teach a father class. You should come out with a book on how to be there for like your kids. Because I say, we give it about you know, ten more years. She let the kids get a little older and let them decide if they feel like he was present. The kids say yeah, because you know right now he has

um how can roll? They I am almost in middle school right or his kids from a Yeah, I think they're like with twelve, Yeah, they're probably like twelve now eleven years old? Oh right, look at that right? Yeah? Um, and he has a great relationship. He did a lot in ten years. Okay, Yeah, the math is math. You know. They brings me to the bar that Drake did. I got a homeboy who got three kids and they all three.

But we've always been the type of crew who being good without a playing b I mean, sir, sound like listen like like I said, it's a lot of fathers out there with one kid that ain't even there for their kids. Yeah. Shout out to Nick and all the women that are in this village TV show coming out too with Kevin hard out to Abby. Hey, maama's mama's. Yeah, mama's mama's it's love. It's all loved. We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more of the Baller Alert show message.

All right, now it's time for balla mail. This is a good when y'all, This is a going you're ready ball Alert. What's good? My lady X got married and she was pissed. She found out in the car with me and I ain't know what to say, so I ain't say shit. She's mad to her ex married the person he cheated on her with. Now I'm not saying she can't be mad, but in front of me and my kids, come on, now, she got me too mad.

She tried to apologize it, but I ain't accepted no apologies at this moment, and my tripping do y'all think that she still got feelings for her ex? WHOA, that is crazy. I just was having a conversation with one of my girlfriends who lives up in DC, who's kind of experiencing something in this realm. It's not exactly that, but I think when you break up with somebody and you know years have gone past you in a new relationship, but then you end up learning something new, I think

it does trigger you. You end up going back into thinking, damn, but this person ever loved me? Did you ever respect me? I don't know if it's that you still have feelings. I just think you're triggered into rethinking everything you thought about the relationship. Like, but there's also something unhealthy about getting so worked up about it years later in a new relationship with kids involved, Like, there's something about that. Yeah, I agree with that, And this is the person that

he cheated on her with exactly. So that is a good punch within itself. But you know, you always gotta keep in your mind you get them, how you lose them? Ye man, listen, I'm gonna tell you something right now, losing how you get them back, however that goes, you should be tripping. You should be very concerned because she'd be No, I'm saying that to say she should be, you know, not so so much mad, but like good

luck girl. No, no, no, no, no no, you gotta you gotta be tripping, because it's like if you're in the car and your woman finds out that this guy that she dated got married, and she's upset to the girl that he cheated on her with. You can't leave that out. Yeah, you already cheated on me with this girl, and now

you're marrying her. That is who knows how long they was together, who knows how in love she was or they were, you know, And for you to go and cheat and then marry this person, I understand that we got to move on. We gotta forget about man, move on. But if if Diddy couldn't move on from Cassie, Um, I'm just saying like she could be upset. She had to get so worked up in front of her her

new guy. Yeah that you know somewhere else. But I understand your girlfriends about that, and there's nothing you can do about it. But like I said, good luck to the next girl, because you know it could happen to her. I guess I gotta move on. You're singing Diddy now before the man just let her have that. You know she ain't she can't get him out, so you telling him, don't even trip. No, he just let it, Let it go. Talk to her, calm down and have a conversation with her.

Let her know how that makes you feel, but also be open to how she feels. Yeah, this advice coming from women, so they probably can help you. And take it to a therapist too, so y'all can understand each other because y'all sometimes you know, you need a third party and most times a third party yeah most times. Yeah, So that was bailer mail. Before we get out of here,

you know, we gotta do the pep talk today. Today's pep talk is coming from a coach and he gave a great um sermon, I should say, because that was preaching right there. On consent. Remember we went over consent deserves good. You're with a young lady. She has to consent to every act. So if you were in the car with her and something went down in the car, that does not mean that something has to go down

at the apartment. If y'all did something in the car that does not something else has to happen that next day. You cannot assume it is okay to send a or something like that. If you're in study hall and attraction walks by you and she's got tyson and she's going to study, you can I can say, look at that,

Fatima can harassment. She has every right to turn around and press charge against you if you're not quite sure what the fuck to say, picture of being your little sister or your mother, and then show what you call

the fuck up? Are we clear? Yeah? And I thought that was so great and vital because a lot of these kids, you know, who are playing sports, they look at their coaches you know, and respect them so much and actually listen to them, even sometimes more so than their parents, you know, or sometimes they may not have parents at home, and their coaches you know, really trying to like the father figure, the father figure, yeah, or

a parent, and um, they really listen. So I feel like, you know, all coaches need to follow this guy because a lot of these players go grow up and get into trouble, you know, not even knowing Sometimes or you know, not thinking. Yeah, So he's just putting the thought in their minds early, and I really appreciate that. I feel like every coach should do that, no matter what sport,

as long as it involved men. I think that the information that he gave them is very vital because I feel like a lot of these athletes, you know, they go off and they go to college, and you know, they don't understand that the situations that they can place theirselves into, you know, uh, you know, drinking and all that stuff. That doesn't that that's that's not a consent, you know what I mean. And I feel like the information he giving them can save a lot of those

guys careers and lives in the future. You know, that's information that every coach should be given these athletes because they're not I respect any coach that takes the responsibility to coach outside of what is on the court and what is on the field. When you understand that your actions outside can affect your scholarships, can really just affect

your life in general. Get you taken away from your goals, your dreams, your aspirations, everything that you've been physically training hard for has to start from your mental and a coach that will feed your spirit like that is a man or a coach that understands that everything in life goes together. They all follow. It's not just sports, it's

not just work. They all go together. So shout out to the coaches that take that extra step, because this man, in particular, he was a young man at one point in his life. He probably was a young athlete. You probably saw his his teammates go down the wrong path sexually harassed women for any little thing. I love that he was so detailed what happened in the car and spoke their language where they were. Just because something happened in the car don't mean they got to happen in

the house. Just because of woman walks by with some tight song doesn't mean. I mean, this was very clear, but it hit hard. I respect him so much. Shout out to you, coach. Coaches, get on board. Can't get enough of baller Alert. Follow us on all social media platforms at baller alert, go on to baller alert dot com.