Episode 211 "VEDO"

Angela Bassett is nominated for an oscar Snap Snap Snaps Please. She is nominated for Supporting Actress in Black Panther Wakonda Forever. Did you guys all watch the movie? Yes, you know, she dies, she's she's got not her first time she's been the mom. You know I'm saying this is her first time being nominated. Yes, time, I thought I thought you was gonna put that ship down. Though, she does pass away, but she got buried at g because she was not scared of that man. She fought all day.

That made me sad though when she the way she died. But I mean I loved the movie. Man, I just I felt it was a little like it too emotional, and yeah, I felt it was. It was long. It was, it was long. Did y'all did y'all watch the whole thing when I fall asleep? Yeah? When I followed asleep? Did you watch the whole thing without going to the bathroom? I went to the movies and it was late. Why would do it? Still? People fall asleep? It was for you?

It was resting, man, I wouldn't asleep. I got a confession. But I loved the movie. Okay, watch it. You need to watch it. You watch it, but if you're not a Marvel fan, I come to fall asleep, not really black watch it. I was waiting my wife. She was cool, she was into it, but not like me. I was blue to the TV screen. Alright. Congratulations to Rihanna and TAM's Receiver Oscar nomination for Best Original Song Lift Me Up from the Black Panther Movie Snaps Please Snaps? Do

y'all like the song? It grew on me. It grew on It grew on me like the first time. It was like she's giving us something, He's going to be three kind to Still I wanted some word word word word word, Rihanna, I don't want valid. I don't have that grow as I mean, it was. It was a cool song. It was everybody was playing it though, every every radio station, brother, everybody you're talking about. Everyone was just that. It was that that Rihanna finally gave us something.

It just wasn't about. I mean everybody, everybody. It said, rotation on this guy right here anyway, congratulations, we guessed Chrishan Rock. She is pregnant and it's decided to keep her baby, despite how blue Face Speak feels about any thoughts or comments she said. And she said this, it was a point when I wasn't getting pregnant because of how many kids I was killing, you know how like I kept a boarding or I take a point b right. It was one time I didn't do nothing. They got

to not get pregnant. So I was kind of worried. Like so I remember just playing one day like, hey god, I'm not pregning from getting pregnant. But just know this time and she's sent me a blessing from happy, I'm gonna keep it this time. Right. The thing is, man, she gotta understand what she's getting into, right, because if you know This is the beginning of This is the beginning stages of having a child with someone off the rip. It ain't my child, Hello, and she already be you know, beating.

It's no secret that you know y'all been actually doing your thing for a while, not in public. So I mean you momon is gonna kick in. Yeah, you can't get physical with her with child. Do you think that a baby will shut all things in their relationships. It's gonna make it learning, make it work, to change about the kids are beautiful, so the person is gonna be who they're gonna be. Like, That's just what it is.

And I think that's where people mess up. They think that a child is going to make the relationship better, or it's going to soften the abuser or whatever the case is. No, it's not this man for sean girl, we we love you. You are value. I love him too. Both of y'all deserved peace, love, joy and happiness. But y'all are not in alignments. So just go have this baby because the only person that's the only thing. Academics

said he got five thousand per dude. Whoever has sex with that girl a k A blue face girl to come get on his Twitch scream. Yeah, he said, because blue Face said that she had encounters with ten different dudes. Yes, that was the tweets. She said that was academic. Said, I got five thousands for every guy that comes out and says it, well, that's whack because men lie on the penis all the damn time. He said, I'm pleasure fifty k for this effort. Who got blue Face girl pregnant?

Do you guys think that she cheated on blue or that when they broke up she was having sex with other people? I think blue Face the pappy honestly, you know what, they took a break. She probably was getting that ship off somewhere else. The way that she speaks about it, you do the thing. The thing is, though, man like a woman has needs as well. She ain't gonna just sit around he over here doing this thing.

She just doesn't seem she don't seem like that type of especially showing that Hennessy started talking to you, took like this like, look you better go with he does he get it talking to you? Man? The different people react differently. I don't think that's just the already definitely get my school boy ain't so good? Make you start talking to you something like I'm about to slept. Great boy,

let's go ahead and move right along. Do you understanders apologize for a comment about Jackson State University from the ball Alert show, But I really do apologize for what I said. It's just that things did happen while my family was there that the public was not made aware of. What she was trying to say is that this is things that's getting swept under the rug, and that's why

it hasn't been reported. I think a lot of people was confused what she was saying when she said, you know what I mean in the way I can believe

that that. You know, I'm not saying that the murders happened on campus, but as far as sweeping stuff under the broug, because these schools have to tact their reputation and they got to protect the people who invest in these schools and things because things like they start getting out, you know, like you can really start losing a lot of money, a lot of back, a lot of support, stuff like that. So so you you accreditation all that.

So I'm like, you know, is it true? I don't know, but I mean I do I believe that some schools a lot of stuff under the rugs to keep them from catching fire. And she was saying that she it wasn't untrue what she said, but that she did apologize for exaggerating. Ye. Basically, you should think before you speak pretty much. It's it's like blaming you know, all murders and crime and Atlanta to more House. You can't blame more House for Atlanta crime, right like you It just

just can't. But as far as it happening on campus, they reported that it only happened one time during the three seasons that her dad was coaching. And let's not get it twisted. A lot of HBC use majority if not our in the hood, so you ain't gonna feel safe anyway. People were really people were really mad and upset about you know what she was saying, because I feel like, you know, they're like, man, this this is

our city. You you know from here. You didn't go to school here, So I think people he was a little bit more upset, was like, you know, um, because I was reading a lot of the comments about that after daddy left. Now you're dragging us. Yeah, But she, you know, she was doing a lot of hostings and stuff like that so they I feel like they they feelings was kind of her because they're like, hey, man,

she care of you the city getting money. Yeah, I'm saying doing the thing, but yet you're trying to You're trying to turn and shot name. You know. Yeah, I get I get that too, searing people off this money, getting scared of Yeah, the show because what if someone decides I don't want to be there anymore? Because when they heard all this, alright, time for the currball question of the day. O c T what you got? All right, y'all? So y'all know, Karsia said she like go to showers, right,

like a shower, Like go the showers. I do mean when the guy peas on you, on you everywhere, you like it? I just like you freaking a week. Oh we're going there. He said she ain't about their life, but Kasia said yes, um so. Now loving hip hop star Shake Johnson has said that she likes golden showers that she has given and receiving uh some golden showers.

Amar l Negra said that she likes golden showers. Um and recently three l w's Keiley Williams has just admitted to having uh sex with all members of the two K at once except for a Marion. I was there j Bug Rasby at the same time. That's what that's real? What type? You know, we're in a different time right now. You know social media is out there. Uh and you know back in the old days, you know, old school people, they don't really agree with um sharing so much of

their business private. It's private. So do you guys agree with you know how everybody's coming out speaking name. So let me ask you a question, no question now, I don't like go to showers like waste on me like this. Let me ask you a questions soon. That's the question. Do you like golden showers? Never had one before? Okay, do you like those showers? You really asked me that? Do you want to you know, like, you know like others and sometimes others come woman to pee on me me.

I don't agree or disagree. I'm I'm indifferent about that particular part of the conversation of the question. But like, if you want to share, share like that's yours is how you know what you want to give. And honestly, I think sometimes sharing is caring. I think that sometimes people would be like, you know what car that's what you're saying sharing what you enjoy in life is caring, because maybe you have now introduced someone to a new way of thinking. I'm just saying you have to be

on somebody first and sharing over sharing. No, I mean I personally, I feel like cloud is a super super addictive drug. I really, honestly, I don't know these girls from you know, from whatever can of paint. But for you to just say, I like, like niggas peel on me, I don't know if I really believe that, Like I mean, I just think I think it could just be like talking about just I don't know. I mean, I just don't you know. I mean, you just you need it

to him. You just got down on your knees and just close your eye and just let somebody peel you. If that's your thing, that's your thing. Cool. What do you think they're doing it for a cloud? I think not. I think some of them are. I think after after you had all these people come out, oh y'all, ton't too, I'm like, do you like that? What I can say is, you know, when when you got a female and you make a squirt, I don't know that was warm. I

don't know what that is. But some different been asking her a little Yeah, that's something nasty, that's something difference, that's something different. It's definitely warm that now. So I don't know that I was the biokeeper Street and you know what I mean, I don't understand, never part of it. But you're saying you could have some po say hey, look did you pe on me? You never know like it came from that, no ship but to me to do. But no as far as like hey start off toping me,

pisce on me? Not okay, No, no, no, no, I've never participated in any of the like that. I've never I've never had it done or done it. Boy, have you ever wanted to do that? Somebody in this wrong line about want because to not how it works that it was gonna say, no, never gonna work that way. It's nothing that's gonna go up. And so you have to go over there. And then I mean, I don't

know its right. People lie about their fantasies so much because you're so concerned about what it looks like, sounds like what people don't think about you. Listen, we all have sexual desires and fantasies and it might just be a little bit different for different people and a one for me in the building. Uh, let's take a quick commercial, Barber. When we come back, we're gonna get a Veto business to talk about his new music right here on the

ball Alert Show podcast. Somebody the comments said, Kelly would have had a time with this generation. We had a time we saw. Do you want to come to America. We'll be right back with more of the Baller Alert Show. You're listening to a special edition of The Baller Alert Show. Yeah, it was popping in his Veto baby, and I'm chilling with the Baller Alert Show. All right, We're back with the Baller Alert Show podcast. Veto is in the building. What's up, my brother? Are you getting Man's fresh off

that new project mood Swings? I love it? Independent? Still independent for show? Still independent? Why why are you deciding

to be independent? Because I'm sure someone like yourself, you have a lot of real fans, like I've seen people like all these people really take on too invitating towards you like well, I think I mean, just you know, realistically speaking man as as an independent artist and as a label owner, I feel like if I'm gonna go into A lot of people may beg to differ with this, but I feel I need if I did go, if

I did sign to somebody need more leverage. I need more leverage to go to a major label because you know, you still want to maintain the independence within the major label when you do sign. Basically, me making my own decisions create a control being a recalled shots. Nothing gets done without, you know, basically tapping in with the core team. Things like that. I feel like you're going to these major labels with what a little bit of what a little bit of you know what, a little bit of

traction You ain't signing three six? Don't call you yeah, my deal if when I do, if I do sign, you know what I'm saying, If my deal, we have to be something that's going to be like yo, we've we've never done anything like this. It's nothing. It's not even about the number. It's about it's the terms. You need the money now. It's the you know, a really big thing that a lot of artists don't really you know, pay to the two is the recoupment process of it.

The recoupment phase of it. Um. I think it's just those those few things man, that that are really near and dear to me as a as a label owner, as an independent artist, that I feel like I go in there if I did sign, I need to go in there with some more, some more leverage. Let me give you a little bit more context, because I don't think a lot of people know you write all your ship, you right for a lot of people, So I think

you can actually determined and dictate what you want. I don't think a lot of other R and B artists on your musical artists can do that because they have people writing for them. Signing to a label means a label and may hire you correct facts absolutely right for somebody somebody. Yeah. Well that's how I started to get my name in the door and the door. So basically

I thought, I started on YouTube. Please even start on YouTube doing covers man, you know, like like some light ship man, you know, taking popular songs and straight killing them, you know, so much that the artists themselves would reach out to me, like Yo, yeah, Sam Smith, LM reach out to me. We had Adele reached out, reach justin Bieber,

all these cats um ship for my covers. The voice reached out, you know, And that's how I ended up on the voice actually doing my rendition of Justin Bieber's Boyfriend because I was able to take a song that was already a hit and make it sound fresh and new. But when you heard it, you this is a cover. I means. So I just kind of like I kind of find found that niche and how to make something

sound new that was already been released already. So the voice ends up becoming one of your and still is still this You ended up on the tiny desk with him. I mean I can probably watch that over and over challenge. Actually that is where the challenge came in at. Yes, now it's gonna ask um as far as Ussher, you know, mentoring you and things like that, and seeing you with Eric Belinger, like having those guys around you, where are coming? Where are some of the gyms that they drop on you? Man? Um?

You know I always always asked, I asked us in the past, like how how you did you stay so relevant? How did you just stay so like like, you know, on top of your game. You know, you only come out when it matters, you know, you only show your

face when it matters. And he basically just like, yo, stay out the way, stay out the way as much as you can, Like, don't get caught up in wanting to be seen, wanting to go viral at every moment, like you need to you need you need to create your moment, and your moment needs to be able to withstand the test of time. Like the tiny desk, that's that's gonna be around for for for the next few years, you know what I mean, Like, um me me. Even

when you got a record, you got it. That was a moment that that was a moment that was created organically. And it's been three years and it's still streaming, crazy, still getting booked. People still love the record. And so that's what he meant by like creating your own moment versus allowing, you know, a bunch of comments or a bunch of likes, a bunch of reposts to create your moment for you. You gotta know your moment is gonna be a moment before you even put it out to

the world. And that's some of the best advice that he he didn give me Eric Billinger's advice. He's like, yo, look, you just keep writing songs, keep putting music out something go hit man. Man. He's one of them. He's actually one of my Top five songwriters, So humble to like super humble, super humble. You're like, Atlanta is kind of a tough city, right, Like you know, of course I

see you out on outside. We all outside, right, how do you keep up with with the idea or how do you deal with the idea that you know, people see you as this famed artists and they assume that you're going to spend X amount of dollars. You're gonna

be this reckless in the clubs every night. You're gonna pop the most bottles, throw the most ones, but keep your sanity in tactoo because a lot of that is really aside in Atlanta, I think, or and I hate to say Atlanta because I've traveled different cities and it's not an Atlanta thing. It happens market to market. But how do you keep yourself in check and be like, listen, I'm focusing on the business. I am the label. I'm an independent artist. I'm not about to sit here and

act reckless. But I also know that I need to be out here and be seen about. So how keep my sanity is? It doesn't matter if you see me at a club every night, You're not gonna what you think of me and how much money you may see, think somebody happens not gonna make me go inhere or the ten bottles. It's just not It's not mean, you know, And honestly, anybody that know me, they know like I

just enjoy going out. I like enjoy going out with the homies, kicking and having catching the vibe and going home. You know, you catched me at a spot with a hooka in a drink, just cooling it. You know, I'm never by myself, because it might be I might be with four or five other people you don't even see. But I just like to go out and have a good time. And that's how I keep my sanity, regardless of what you think of me or what I should be doing in this club. Is it gonna make me do?

I remember I was DJ and we was at Visions one night and you you came in. He was on his chill ship in the corner. All of a sudden, once women saw who he was, a seed of wind over there and was just staring at him. They were just like, it's Vito, it's Vito. I didn't even play your song yet. It was just it's Vito, It's Vito. Remember that night? Remember that night? Yeah, so, um, you got a new single out which is Dope Um featuring Chris Brown, the Homie the Homie. So how did you

get Chris Brown on the wreck? It was it was tough. It was tough. It was tough for you to get a Chris Brown to for anybody cleared, the clearing process was easy. No, it's just I wouldn't say it was tough for him. It was tough to get him to sit still long enough to made it together. Yeah, well, no, we I did it. Actually wrote the record with a couple of homies two and a half years, only three years.

And it was a record that my manager said to me like, Yo, you remember this drip like I do remember it and I remember it had the Maxwell the baseline, and I'm like, Yo, this is crazy. So I did some upgrades to it and m you know, I'm listening, bro, Like they gotta tell me no, you like look, so is it a text message? You see? Yo? Look bro, got this record, crazy record? Yo, check it out. Let me know what you think. I really would love for you to jump on the record. What do you say?

He heard? He was like, Yo, I love the record. Everything about it. The only thing I needs me to do is get Beef to beat up. That was you don't need me to change nothing on the on the lyrical side up. He said, no, it's perfect changed, change the beat up, send it back to me. I'm like, mind you, I've sitting Chris. I've sent Chris Brown multiple records like yo yo, and one of the things I can respect about him and he said, hey, look, you know you don't hold me. You know what I'm saying.

I love what you've you done for me and my career was the songwriting stuff like that. But I want you to get bigger before I get on your song, because it'll make it my song. I want you to have a bigger name because if I do your song now, you know, I couldn't do no respect that. I'm like, you know what you showed you right you write dog? You know what? So I waited. You know, I'm glad you received it that way too, because another artist we

need to have Coupy. I'm like, yo, man, they say, you know, stuff started going crazy, but man, man, I'm like, yo, I think it's time now. Similar record and I was surprised if it was the longest this. It's usually we have conversations about other stuff, it's not really about music. But this was the longest I've ever talked to him about actually getting on one of my songs. And he was receptive, like I bet even And the beat got

beefed up and I sent it back to him. He was like doing a little more like I'm going to produce his line like, hey, I don't this Chris said, said yeah, so and that's what it happened. That's what happened, man. And Um. Actually, after we got to beat and everything situated, it still took him about two weeks. We had to push the album back, which was which was still a good still a good thing because the team, myself we had more time to line everything up there we needed

to line up. But he did it for the free ride, but a free so we shot to him. Big shots to him. Man. So um, when I say it was tough, that's features are price. Yeah for him to beat to give you real love and say, you know what, I could do it. But the goal is for you to be seen as this Mica star, right Like I think that that's invaluable. Speaking of you being seen TikTok, your song with viral. How did that change your career, oh Man, drastically. Um At. At the time, I wouldn't even in tune

with TikTok or anything. So I actually the team was like, yeah, we need you to get from me with TikTok. Now, did you even have a profile? I didn't know, So you have to create I had to create one. And and actually my my Instagram name Beato. The singer was taken already, somebody had already created, but no, I just used It's Vito Baby. I used that, which is the tagline I use um And I started to creating it. Bro And I tell you man, like you know I.

And this is another thing being independent. You're literally able to see all your numbers, all your numbers. You literally where you're impacting at the most, where you're impact at the least, where you need to go do your shows at Where are you impacting the most? Outside of Atlanta, man, um New York, Houston, CALLI um Man. That's everywhere. Yeah, yeah,

usually it's a focus. Like usually it's like in the South, we got where black culture is though, right because he's not named, I hadn't heard any like rinking place we're talking about places that do have a prominent black culture. And I think people are really thirsty for good music, like outside of what when here on the radio, people are actually taking the time to go to Spotify's or your iTunes and and dig down into the crate to see like who is actually making good music? And I

think you phone into that category. Thank you, thank you. I mean I pried myself on that too, man. I've propped myself on, you know, getting this studio and doing what I can do live too. So when you see my shows, I'm really signing like my records. You know, anything I do extra's gonna be on the fly. But I think people need to really get back to like sing it man, like we need it, yeah, because you all them vocal acts basically be trying to do in the studio. Man, you can't do that live. Don't do

that embarrassing. I'm telling you. You are in a relationship absolutely, I'm engaged. We ain't even engaged twentive years and we've been together. When when? When? When is the wedding dates? Sir? It is actually February fourteen, U four kind of time's day? What made you finally proposed after all the meets or did you yeah, actually have proposed? Yeah? Um? What made

me propose? Man? Before you start? You know that means you know what this means the wedding day you can y'all should never break up because Valentine's Day is gonna be ruined. You know that, right? She know that she's going to think about She know that. I well, I always said, I always say listen, I feel like, you know, if there's no absolutely no other option but divorce, cool, But I absolutely am against divorce. I am He's gonna work.

It's gonna work. That's how I feel. But I propose, um because it's I just thought, I just thought about it. I just felt like I would be doing her a disservice for my own selfish um on selfish ways of wanting to not have that title. So you know, I'm like, Okay, if I if I stay out late, I don't feel bad, you know what I'm saying. If if if I find myself entertaining the chick or whatever, I feel bad, But now I ain't married yet, you know what I'm saying.

It was like that was those and these are these are really real things that men don't even want to like actually, uh, you know, basically say this is what it accept like those selfish ways, those are selfish ways, and you know, it's kind of like why do that? You know? You know, I know I want to be you know what I'm saying, regardless of it. And it's like you you pretty much saying like you was done playing games like yeah, dunblood, it was done. It was like,

why am I I got? Were good? The family straight? You know, I think you ain't got no worries? What are we waiting for? Do you think the birth of your daughter has a lot of decision? Yeah? I think so, because I just feel like I want to. I want to basically like be such an example of keeping you know, the family together, the black family together, because I think

that's what I really feel like. You know, a lot of black males and believe black females should really try harder to keep the black family together because it drives, it has driven a wedge so deep into our black community to to feel like it's okay to just be a baby dad or a baby mom. You know what I'm saying. It's like, it's cool if you just if you absolutely can't make it work, but if you can't try to make it work, and also women throwing themselves

that you, mainly because you're Vito the singer. You can sing, you can you know, you know what use I learned what I was about to ask the second question, how are you dealing with that? And how is your fiance call me with that? Because you know, sometimes I may be hard when she knows women are constantly throwing themselves at you all the time. Maybe because you're Vito the singer and you can sing, You're doing all these big things. Man,

I just don't deal with it. I think that, Um, you know we're gonna do these shows and do after parties. You know, I don't have I'm not having a section for women. I'm not. It's gonna be me, my manager, you know, promoter, maybe the DJ. Like I don't. I just don't put myself in that position to be to be even you know, because I mean I'm not. I don't think that. I don't believe that I would do anything like that. But your temptation is a mother like

it really is. You've got somebody who's he poking at you. You are real, you're going off the off the Julio. You're going like temptation off the any of the I'm trying to come to them. I tell him I'm engaged. I'm engaged. Women don't care about I have great men around you like that. Eric Bellinger's who is married and has children. And my manager, my manager, yea, my manager role as well. He's like, he's like, I might not have been a good example. Well I understand it. Yeah,

well we're not going. Yeah, but it's like you said, it's very important that you have to have those roads, like those you know, strong figures of on you too, because like I said, temptation is real. But I don't put myself in that position. Any of these songs real situations because you'd be writing in the past forever. Yeah, that's the real situation. Any songs that you wish that you never gave up, like damn, shouldn't because how do you know who you right, you'd be like damn, I

should keep that. I wanted to keep Woman Embrace because that was a good one for Chris Brown. Yeah yeah, but you know the thing is it was a decision I made as a as a writer and as a collaborator with the other creators. It's like family, I could be selfish and be like, Man, I'm putting this out myself? Which check is bigger? The writer chick? Right? Which which

check is gonna be bigger? Met this as an artist on myself, for myself and for the collaborators, or as a writer on a on a superstar, the check is gonna be big, Like, yeah, Chris, you can have you need some more songs keeping his records and you're not giving them and Witness, it's like a running thing. It's like you were a one you could write another one.

So you gotta be real listening to Like sometimes you know a certain voice or a certain persona attached to the song couldn't make the song bigger than what you would have been able to do it right, Like, And I think as a creative or a writer or anyone in that space, you have to decide, like what did I create this for? Did I create it for me to hold onto it and just see how big it can go? Or did I created because I want the world to experience this? You know, what is your writing process?

Like when you're writing for certain artists, I write songs as if they're gonna be man, because if they say I'm putting out on myself, damn, that's actually smart. Yeah. I like most writers right gearing towards like, oh I want us you to sing this song, So I'm gonna write it like us you're singing it now, and pitch it to him. I think the main, the main goal as a writer should being there to be is to be going there and write an amazing song and just

write a good song man. And if they want to, like she's gonna land somewhere, anybody, anybody that you ever want to work with that you haven't worked with yet, man, I wanna of course, you know, you know, actually I'm I wouldn't say that I've worked with him, but I'm actually in a position writing songs. Maybe it's Justin Bieber. He might be retired. He just sold his count along for now. He retired, he retired, not yet, but I think that. Um, I just feel like I can give

Justin the sauce. I mean I can give him the sauce when it comes to like you want to you rmb okay, cool, we're gonna get some R and b um of course, Beyonce. I think my number one would be Stevie Wonderer. I want to I want to work with Stevie that's fine. Yeah, I want to get it with Steve. That's what you got the paying for it, bro. I want to just learn from him. Give me just you know, because you gotta think about it. This is

somebody who really freestyles on his songs. All right, Well we're gonna take a break, man now speaking to R and B. Now, we gotta ball of bln't get out, all right, we got a ball of blitz. So I'm going to this one is gonna be finishing the lyric. Okay, so I got five R and B songs. Let's see if you're really know you're on let me see. Come right, that's what we're about to do. All right, here we go,

and it's quick. Now it's a blitz, so you gotta first, first answer that comes to your mind, finish the lyric. It's seven o'clock on the dot. I'm in my drafttop, cruising the streets. All right, your nice s correct? All right? One, you're like a dream come true. Two, just want to be with you. You gotta plaine tu seed the job only one from me? All right? Robbing night? Correct? Alright? Number three, here we go, let's get a little harder. Sorry,

didn't notice you there. Then again, you didn't notice me. Sorry, didn't know. I know. Oh this is me name beauty, beauty. You gotta start with the hook. With the hook, you can start with the first. Why are you calling me on the phone? Why are you not at home all time? Oh, that's that's like my that's like my mom and her boyfriend argue. I don't, that's Tony Braxton. Just be a man about it. Just be a man. He's right, Okay, all right, No, fine, here we go. It's final. Get

this one to win. Come on, man, said I left my baby girl and I'm missing it. Said, I left my baby girl. I'm missing said you. When we're coming home, I gotta be alone. Yeah, she doesn't feel understand, but a rabbily Then give me some time. I can be the man she needs. Yeah, there's a lot of lessons inside of me being together since Yeah, I don't let me. Let me see if you know this one God, I pull up to the club, v I p yes. I don't even try to sing the legs in my head.

I pull up to the club. Can you sing us to break? Y'all listening to the Ball of Alert show, Let's go to commercial. Still listening to a special edition of The Baller Alert Show. Yeah yeah, it was popping man his veto baby and I'm chilling with the Baller Alert Show. Message. Dear Baller Alert, I have a great woman in my life. She's truly a blessing, but I feel like she's settled to be with me. She's an

extremely attractive woman and I'm extremely the opposite. I know it sounds like my insecurities are kicking in, but this is why she always tends to lust over men she finds attracting like she has multi celebrity crushes. And lastly, her mother just said to her, how's your ugly ass boyfriend doing? While she was on speaker phone? And I didn't know and didn't know she was on speaker phone. These are some things that made me feel insecure. But leave it to my lady. She loves me unconditionally and

wants to be with me forever. Our relationship, our relationship is almost too perfect. What do y'all think? Am I tripping the mountain? Is you? You are self sabotaging friend? You're in your own way. If that woman loves you, love her, love you regardless of how ugly you think you are or how ugly her mamma thinks that you are. Let that woman love you. Let's keep the good benefits. Brother, keep two good benefits on the job. He needs something like what is he tripping? What the thing? I think?

You know, beauty is in the have to be holding. I think that um love is love? He got that. I think love is not measured by looks. I think love is measured by the amount of um. And what's that? What's that? You know what? Man? You gotta you gotta stopt secure. You gotta stop the insecurity because insecurity can ruin a relationship on both sides. And I'm pretty sure everybody's girlfriend a wife has a celebrity crush. That that's that's some normal ship. This dude, it just seems like

he's really insecure and her mama calling you ugly? Man, you're dating her, not her mama. Why why does it matter to her mama calling you ugly? Yeah? I mean in all actuality, man Like, at the end of the day, if your household is not in shambles, you know you you good money. She's relationship relationship, she's coming home to you, and now you ain't got there's no you know, indication

that she's stepping out on you anything like that. Bro, don't don't push down a little this chi this chill man, zoo man, you might be ugly if you said we need a d M. Now he sent it to me from fake page. I know you like boy. The craziest shiit ever is she got to be fine in here because you don't know why she with you. Now I think I know why. You're probably tearing that ass up and giving her what she needs physically, and she can't stop dealing with you. So there for, that's the first thing.

Number two. Some women like ugly men. They're more appreciative. And I'm pretty sure I'm talking about you, my brother, So that Just keep doing what you're there for. And there for, she ain't never gonna leave. Now if something happened you had some erectile this function. I'm just letting you know, she's gonna be on the first flight out of there. So you better make sure all you got damn vitamins is taking you stay healthy. Is as you

probably six five or some ship like that. You're not talking about, No, homo, just keep laying that pipe down and she ain't gonna No, Well, don't worry about mama. You stay secured and what you do is put that pound game on her. Ask but but just believe she'd go wrong and that out of that, My boy, I like, not a little ugly. But the false perception is that they are more appreciative ladies. That's bullshit. Okay, thank you for saying that they all ain't ship. Okay, I'll talk

about this particular that I just want to extremely the opposite. God, I don't. I don't like like when women be like, oh ugly niggas are faithful and all this because women women be saying that. Because I had a girl tell me that I wanted to day. She was like, I can't date you because of the way you look. I need somebody that has low self esteem. I was crazy. I was like, I was damn lot sevestance. You taking a lottle substance. Bro. She told me to my face, I want a man with low And now it's time

for pep talk. Yeah yeah, it's popping, man. This veto listen. UM. I just want to give you all some some advice. Um. And this this advice can be used in any in any field, not just in my field music, but man, you know finish with finish what you start. I think you know a lot of times that we start something and get discouraged when it doesn't go our way in the in the time we wanted to, so we move on to something else. Um. And that's that's truly like a thing that you know you do and you find

yourself back at square one. UM, So stick with your stick with your plan, stick with your your dreams, and um, you know, treat people right, man. You know, at the end of the day, it's not about what you know, how much money you got in this, in this industry, in any industry, it's about what people remember about you, all right. So if you're asshole and you treat people like a doormat, um, you're probably gonna see a bunch of them on your way down. So um, stay solid,

keep going, um, and kids stay in school. Can't get enough of baller Alert. Follow us on all social media platforms at baller Alert all going to baller alert dot com.