Episode 179 "The Watcher"

somebody significant. I don't even if it was a significant other, lady or just a lady friend. Well, bet enjoy your vacations. Back to work on Thursday, your motherfucker. I'm great. I'm having a good time. I'm feeling good. I'm well rested. I want on the walk today. I've been writing, I've been reading, I've been drinking my water. My urine is clear. I feel great. That's nice, that's it's good. Yeah what about you? Elc t um saying it? But I've been

all right. But everything is cool. I ain't gonna catch Everything is nice and smooth, easy, sneezy, peasy, sleazy easy, not the sleazy part, Okay, without sleezy. Are you guys ready to pnb Rock? I'm tired of this. I'm going on, it's heavy. He was at the Roscoe's and uh, Los Angeles. Apparently he was in the very bad one, not the one by the airport. Um, with all the jewelry on, with his girlfriend security, no security, and uh an attempted robbery gone back. Okay, so I have a couple of things.

Let's just be real about it. Um. A lot of people are on social media right now bothered ourt comments all over the gram blaming the girlfriend for posting the location. I'm going to say this, you guys, we have to be really careful with putting blame on someone on one person in situations like this, because someone else could also say, well, why was he running around with that much jewelry and security?

It's not fair to put it on the girlfriend. I do agree that we all need to be cautious about posting our locations in real time, especially when you are someone of status. I agree with that. I also agree that people of status should not be outside wearing all this jewelry with no security. Yeah, we gotta be careful. We we know what's going on out here. We know that we're targets hip hop. You know that you are in a dangerous field. We need all to do better.

And I also think, and this is just a random thought, sometimes l A can really distract you because the weather is nice. It's just a great beyont the scene is nice, and it could kind of lower your paranoia it to a point where you just was like, all right, it's cool, let's go in and grab something to eat real quick. And I don't I'm not saying I knew know exactly what happened. I'm just saying that he let his guard

guard down. And ironically, he just did an interview a week and a half ago with academics talking about how someone was trying to press up on him in l A and he kept his guard up and he didn't want to lack. So I'm just trying to figure out I'm pretty sure it's ten different stories of what exactly happened. Um, it's just heartbreaking that. Uh. In the old POC song, we don't gotta worry about them killing us, just us killing us when you think about it. Nipsey Hustle Golf

PNB rock. We're all just doing normal things. He was chicken and waffles, Dolf was getting cookies, and I mean, it's it's sad what we're doing to each other. But I hope that the king rests well. I hope that his family does not watch the video that these insensitive people posted or person posted. That's another thing. We gotta stop sharing videos like this for cloud. You're not thinking

of their family. They may have kids, parents, whoever, significant others that are going to be on social media and are gonna see this. We gotta stop. Yeah, and you did, you guys see the tweet that when of the rappers said, you know, l A's real hot right now, so not from here, you shouldn't be here is hot right now. It's a lot going on everywhere Atlanta. There's a lot going on in Atlanta. There's a lot going on everywhere.

Speaking of Atlanta, you know when all the gang here was doing all the break ins and they broke into Mariah Carey's house, Well, you know that house is now for sale. It's traumatizing. I mean it's traumatizing. And I came in from work one night. This is when I was working in compound, so it might have been around like four in the morning, and I noticed that, like my curtains were like pulled to the side, and my laptop was gone, a little smoke was gone, and it

just felt like a violation. Even though I wasn't there to see it. It was uncomfortable going to sleep, So I can't imagine what it's like seeing it, or you know, having to consider your children or your family being in at home. This was just me and I was so uncomfortable. So y'all, we we gotta do better. I had when I was younger, somebody bringing to our house, and that feeling is just like you feel empty, you feel like scared.

You know, I get mad, like you know, I've been robbed before, and I stay paranoid with every single little detail from when I leave my house to when I get home, Like I I put on my Instagram story, like it's a job leaving your house and arriving at your house and protecting your house. Thank God for cameras. How many times? How many times do you guys get up to make sure the doors locked right right right? And now we've got so many ways to doing it on our phones or you know just what, but just

stay safe. Y'all all right, moving right along. Suit. So we was talking earlier on the radio about this, uh, this crazy as subject between this wife finding out her man. Go ahead, please. So there's this woman, black couple man woman. She thinks that they're in a monogamous relation and ship. She believes she's with a totally straight man. So we assume on her wedding day, on their wedding day, she got her dress on, hair done, nails did super excited

to be marrying her man. Yes, he proposed to me. Yes, everybody here celebrate us. Oh my god, and his ex girlfriend leaves a video of him having sex with another man. Now, in your first mind of thought, you might have been like, okay, divorce as soon as we got married, baby, it's over. A no man, I'm about to run out of here, called me the runaway bride. I'm out. But no, since continue to enjoy her dad, she stuck with the reception.

She stuck beside him. And although some of y'all might be cringing, you know their reaction is a hell of a lot different. Damn Okay, she already know what's up, what happen, So it's kind of like, damn, everybody know now, well, yeah, after reception is when I knew everybody know coming saying, you know, it's it's it's everywhere. He trend in, trend in. But like I said, the video was old. I mean,

I know, I know my husband's a freak. So well, the freak come a lot of different freaky things, you know, if you different for everybody. So I'm not judging the damn thing. I just know that that ain't my preference. That ain't I don't, I don't know. It's so confusing, I don't. I don't understand. I actually I don't understand why why people are just taking this all the way left? When is she cooling in the wet It's that initial

shock and people are putting themselves in that position. That's what My husband's a freak, So yeah, whatever floats your boat. She's obviously okay with this, and like she said, he's a freaky. Make she may not believe that he's still doing it. I feel that she knew. I don't think she was shocked. Um, there's no way for me to imagine that I would receive that information on my wedding day and still had that motherfucker dress on and be at the reception goddamn cheers and and taking photos knowing

that everybody is talking about it at the Damn. I couldn't do it. I couldn't do it where they spent all that money, you know, I don't give a damn if it was me, if it caught me off guard, I don't know if I could react like she did. I mean, especially, listen that wing reception usually about an hour, don't hand it minutes go by real quick, like they didn't already cooked and paid for everybody to come in.

I want to see the reception video or people dancing, what they're talking, what they like did they said that was quiet? Like what happened? Could you hear a pen drop? Like it was even talking? Okay, but it was there slide with slide. Listen, different strucks for different folks. Different people love differently. I respect all levels of love. I just think that you have to be honest. You should be honest with the person that you're with. Also, what

I'm learning is you gotta ask questions. This is what I'm learning. There are a lot of people that are like, it wasn't a natural conversation. It just didn't come up like it was my ladies and gentlemen asked the questions that you want to damn no, ask the questions. But you know what, we want to talk to your best seas. I want to know if you were in this position, what would you do it came I want to be

with him. I'm sorry. I understand different girls with different folks, but to know that I've just married him in that, I mean, if this right theory, like, and then another thing, honestly, like, how can you really enjoy yourself at the reception? Exactly? I do think that she's kind of putting on the show. But then side, I know you're not. You don't like that? Or it could be that really want to keep her men. Oh yeah, she did say that. She did say she may want to keep her man, and so she might

be like acting like she's okay with it. Listen, a lot of women will try to convince themselves that they're okay with something when they're really not. I think a lot of people do that in general. I think it's just really hard for us to accept that you saw your man having sex with another man. Okay, cue ushers my way. I'm speaking to couples. You're all ready for loss. The minute I met you, baby, I knew I wanted to marry the lovey. It's love versus money. Let's say

you can't put a price tag on love. I love on the ball or alerted show because I was scared with crushan blue face. Last week. It was a really good one. That was all right. So this week, for y'all who don't know love versus money, I'm going to throw out a couple. You guys gonna give me your opinion on if they're there for the love or the money, and then can you let me know the success rate of the couple. All right, So this week we got money bag Yo and Ari. Damn, they're not together right now.

They broke up allegedly, But isn't there an alleged pregnant it's an alleged pregnancy. I heard some some rumors about a pregnancy, and I don't know if it's true. I hope they work out their issues. I actually hope the breakup is a rumor. I hope that's false because I really like that. But nonetheless, I think it's love. I think I think it's a good hood love. I think both on both parts. I genuinely think that Ari Fletcher and money Bag, y'all have real love for one another.

I do not doubt it whatsoever. So if that's the case, if they have real love, you know it's not about money or anything like that. Because she got her own bag, he got his own bag. He's money bag, and um, what were about to go to? Go ahead? They really love eachself? I think so too. I thought you were gonna say, you know what if they didn't have the things that they have, like the money that they would have. But yeah, I do think they could work it out.

I hope they can work it out. But nonetheless, I just hope it's a healthy relationship for the both of them. Don't get back together for nobody, not for the magazines, not for the blogs. Like, don't get back together for nobody unless it's healthy for the both of you. But I think it's love. I think they love each other for real. Yeah, I do. I'm going with love. I do think it's love with a sprinkle of money because it is a good economic decision to be with each other.

They use bosses and they both make money. Um, but I can definitely tell other they make love to each other. I could tell that they make love to each other about how they talk to each other when you can kind of see it in the camera, how they look at each other in the camera. You can't fake an organic love and feeling for somebody. So the way that they look at each other, Yeah, they love each other. They make love. I know. It remind me when I used to boys. They ain't just it ain't just a

they and having passionate sex. Okay, yeah, they're looking at each other's eyes. You're stupid. And on that note, let go to commerce. We'll be right back with more of the Baller Alert show. Now it is time for baller Now. I'm nervous, Dear ball Alert. My man snores so loud. It's starting to affect our relationship. We we don't even sleep in the same room. My issue is I need

to cuddle with my man to fall asleep. So now I'm not getting the proper sleep because my man either snores and I can't sleep, or he sleeps in another room and I can't sleep. I don't know what to do. Please help. That's called go to the doctor. You don't they have like strips and all that south, But I'm going ahead and let you throw It might just be a little dry. You might just need a little what a little oh humidifier like you know, be probably can't

free because probably I don't know forever. Girl, go to the doctor. That's number one. Just go to the doctor. Some people really have issues they need to go see, especially have surgically removed because their airwaves are really blocked. So stop thinking that your man is snoring and it's just like some small thing. It might actually really be a health concern. Could be diet, could be that what's

you're feeding that man? Well, apparently you're in a relationship with a big man and I mustn't Why would you have sold that because he's crazy? In the comment section, if he's a smaller guy, uh, I mean like you know, husky not husky, then it's definitely a It could be a health problem with fees um because I actually snore and I'm under a hundred and sixty five. I had to go get a sleep test and find out that I have a percentage of blocking on my left nottril.

But I had to go get help for that. So if you care about your man, you need to uh dissect the problem. But I will say, if he's a big man, you know it's that time of the year, baby, Like you're gonna be cold in that bed having having your big dog sleep in another room. So uh be there for him and and take him to the doctor and see if he's gonna have to take a sleep test. That's usually what they tend to do. This is actually

real advice. Have a little teefore, have a little tee before bed, a little nasal strips, certain things to help. Maybe his tonsils need to be removed. There are a couple of things that affects snoring, so you might want to help him and be there for him. Don't just sleep in another room or just go to bed and um, I mean sleep in another room and tell your favorite I because clearly she can't just do that as a solution.

I'm just saying, come to a better solution than just sleeping in other rooms and and then being mad sleeping in um with him. So that was a cute ballerment, But I gotta get juicy, Okay, I want next week's to be nasty. Uh. She actually DM me back and said, are you gonna do it? Yeah, you're gonna do it yet? And I said, yeah, I got you here. We'll be right back with more of the bailer alert show. Time for us, get up out of here. Let me get some shoutouts, guys. UM, I want to shout out my

entire Tigodie community. Shout out to us. We celebrated a couple of holidays. This weekend September eleventh was actually New Year's for Tiglians, Ethiopians and Airtreans. So happy new Year to the entire community. Happy new Year to the Eritreans and Ethiopians that do not support the ticketdie and genocide. And shout out to all my ticket Liians for rebelling and choosing joy and keeping our culture alive. I had a great time we dressed up. You can go check

it out on my Instagram at on the score. So solo happy a Shinda, Yes, I love that. UM. I want to say big shout out to Shirley Ralfman um this week at the Emmys, she gave an amazing speech and UM, I just want everybody to hear one more time and the amy goes shoot Shirley round oming in dangerous species, But I've seen no victim song. I am a woman, I'm a nottist, and I know love below to anyone who has ever ever had a dream and

thought your dream wasn't, wouldn't, couldn't come true. I am here to tell you that this is what believing looks like, this is what striving looks like. And don't you ever ever give up on you, because if you get a Quinta Bronson and your corner, if you get a husband like mine in your corner, if you get children like mine in your corner, and if you've got friends like everybody who voted for me, cheered for me, love me,

thank you, thank you. The first one was Jackie Harry from two to seven and it's the best Supporting Actress in a comedy. Uh. She's the second black woman to ever win this award, and um, it's been a long time coming for her, so I'm just super happy for her, super proud of her. Shout out to Quintin Bronson, the creator of Abbot Elementary, in which whom she won the award from. And uh, just every black person, especially black woman out there, who has a dream, don't give up.

Keep going, ma'am. I usually have something kind of comical to say, but I'm not gonna say anything comical today. The key word of this show is flowers. Please give flowers to those who deserve them, because you never know when someone's gonna be there last day, here with us,

so even our last day. So the people who are especially in your life, let them know that they're special, call them, text them, um, do both, and UM tell them how much they mean to you, because you never know you might not be able to tell them that physically. I wish I can do that to my grandma. I know she's here in spirit, but I really wish that I can show. I wish I can see her face in person of all these blessings that I received. But then again, I know that they are here because she's

part of the reason why they're here. So UM, get a flowers to the people that you care about. Tell the people that you love, you love them, hugg on you love ones, Tell people you love them, Hugging your kids if you have them, hugging your nieces and nephews. Everybody. Just tell everybody that deserves those flowers that they can't get enough of baller Alert. Follow us on all social media platforms at baller alert at going to baller alert dot com.