"Can't Stop, Won't Stop"

every season. Shout out to all my pics. How sad she'd be out of town for a birthday? Now, you don't know that I may actually be here. First of all, I'm going to be in Atlanta on Thursday. I'm only going to be gone Wednesday, the day of my plan to be back, and I just may very well be available. So we're so don't try to count me out yet. I don't understand why you're mad. It's okay for me to leave. I will be back. I'm going to Charlotte.

I'm out there doing NBA activation with Moa Hennessey. It's gonna be a good time, seeming Hennessey's gonna go out and take over Charlotte. So we're really excited about that. But I'll be right back though I've been right. It's gonna be a great time. Whatever the BT was up, Man, you're welcome. You guys are inviting you guys want to come to Charlotte. We got the NBA's week all right. Well, how was your weekend, sir? My weekend was cool, just just a work weekend for me, nothing special. Why were

you not about his birthday party? Well? Because yo, yo, you listen. Man, I was trying something to DJ, so you had to be there and you're supposed to be Listen. Man, I see Nellie last night and he was like, man, why wasn't you at the part? I was like, Man, I was tired. Sometimes you know, I'm getting older. Man, I gotta take my ass to sleep. Sometimes you gotta get your rest, you feel Listen. Our careers are very demanding and sometimes you just can't make every sense. You

can't make everything good. He really, but you see how he did? You? Man? Straight shots? Damn, I'll see how was your weekend? Keep asking this week? My week it was decent outside outside, not inside outside. Where what did you do? Did you see anything? Special to anybody. Get any fights and he shootouts bang bang what he happened? I stayed away from all that stuff. Future music is still is on the way. Definitely music on the way.

Some toxic music is on the way. I was outside Boogaloo with you on Friday, Republic on Saturday, Buckhead Saloon Sunday bt uh and then yeah, we're ready to get into the show. Let's get into you. And I just say Strength of Whole Woman tour in Atlanta. I don't know who this is, but somebody from that page followed

me on the Instagram and I appreciate you'all. So if y'all need me to host the something, just you know, just click the email button on my cage and I got you, like, don't just follow me and I speak France speak Strength of a Woman festival. How at your girl? Okay, we can move on. Let's get oh speaking up. Mary J Blige. Did you'll ever realized that Mary J. Blige has no kids? I've never I've never noticed that. I thought of it. I think I know that because she's

never been bregnant. You know, they was documented that if Mary J. Blige got pregnant, that would have been documented, like she could have got bregned before she was famous. Though she was always famous, she wasn't born famous. I wasn't born by the time she wasn't she about had kids before you knew about her. It's the point that we would have knew, we would have known them kids. I'm just saying I never thought about it, but O c t you actually consciously, it's like it's stuck out

like she never had children. It's kind of like Vivica Fox, like their careers came first, and I never noticed that I knew Vivica didn't have kids, but Mary, I just I don't know. I mean, I'm into like documentary, so when I watched, you know, she didn't have about toils by now, you know, throughout her career and she's never brought up kids, and she's always struggled with herself and she's been so focused on that. It kind of let me know why she didn't want kids. You know, it's

a lot of pressure listening. I got a lot of nieces and nephews to have a lot of friends with kids, and sometimes y'all stress carries on to me and I just be feeling, like, why would I want children? Right now. I mean, but she's had a hard life because you know, you've been in the documentary she's always saying how much she doesn't like herself, she has low self esteem or you know. So my thing is very honest. Yeah, my thing is she would want to focus on herself. You know.

I think also too, it's hard like when you are someone who has certain traumas, childhood traumas, you are concerned about whether you can keep your children safe from experiencing those traumas too. So it's a lot. But nonetheless, y'all decide pressure on women have babies. Some women don't want babies at all, let alone at a certain age. So just relax. But we're don't let Mary tell So I'm good. Listen, I have nieces and nephews forever, and I'm always watching

how people or scramp, you know, scrambling around for babies. Said, I don't want to go. I don't want to go through that. I like my freedom. I like being able to get up and go and move and do what I want to do. I don't want to attend to someone all the time, you know, right now, you know, but I don't think it's gonna happen. You ain't wrong with being a rich auntie. Ain't nothing wrong nieces and nephews. It ain't nothing wrong with being around. I wish I

had one. What time for d He's my rich uncle to my kids whatever they want. So I get it. She said what she said, but it's what she said right now. So if Mary ever changes her mind, she just she just needs to adopt kids. At this point. I mean, I think, and I'm one of those people who probably like to have the kids and then get them back. And that's that's good, Auntie, that's so great, So it is time to go. I definitely understand that

I enjoyed my freedom. People definitely to stop pressuring women about having babies, but that's for all. How do you feel about motherhood? I don't have any children, and it's not the fact that I don't want them. It's just the fact that I feel like they don't want me. And I'm fine with that. But I hate how other people always want to place their views on you, like you gotta be broken just because you don't have kids. Just like I agree with that, nobody's running behind me

like I have. I'm thirty, I haven't had kids. Yet and now I've gotten so effect where I don't care for the damn kids. Some kids. Hey, that's friend. Do you feel any pressure to have kids? Okay, yes, I'm gonna rire I skid have a family like I have pressure where I get my family and my friends and everybody to come ask me like, where are you gonna have kids? Like I want of those people, I don't have kids, but I have t you're not ready and that's okay. When I talked to I'd be a little selfish.

I'd be like, damn, so I'm gonna be an old ass uncle. I don't want to be the old ass with Sue such a really good aunt towards my kids. I'm over here, like, man, you would be a great mom. Okay, one day I will be. So is it be something fun? Speaking of children, Kiki Whytt just said as she was singing, that her unborn out has leukemia, her unborn eleventh child. So a lot of people feel like, you know, damn, she doesn't have kids. Ten times before this, it should

be easy, smooth selling. She knows what to do. It's not true. Every pregnancy is different, but she said that all she could say was hallelujah. She is putting her faith in the Lord, and that's the type of strength that I can only admire to have Lord. Yeah, she was very strong, and uh, you know sometimes in moments like that, you know, we we surprise ourselves with how we are. Um. You know, humans were very strong individuals when put to the test. So um, definitely, prayers and

strength sent her way. That's to sen send her some love. Since we're send in love. Can we talk about Michael Beasley? Yes, definitely. Did you guys catch some of the pivot? Yeah? That was that was a dope interview. Mental health is real. Mental health is serious, and I think a lot of young black men, um, and I think they're starting to

do it now since two thoy. I believe um, sorry, don't quote me on that, but I believe now a lot of young African American men before they get drafted, or actually after they get drafted, they go through this mental awareness where, um, you're speaking to professionals to teach you how to uh deal with family budgeting, because as soon as you get that money, when you're in the NBA, everybody calls your phone, Hey I need this, mommy, Hey I need that Dad. Hey, you got your cousins. Hey,

I need that. I know you got it, because that's a very stressful thing. Like it was in the news that the players from the Super Bowl were stressed out before the game. Before the Super Bowl game because they were trying to, uh make sure that their family was taken care of. Everybody was asking sales all that that's a big deal and a lot of people don't talk about that, and he realized, man, ain't got it like that, Like look at that dance documentary and how it came out.

Scott Pippens deal was terrible, and my a Jordan had an awesome deal. And you know, the crazy thing about a lot of people don't understand is, you know, I got a lot of NBA friends, and you know, these guys family members are are very very demanded, and you gotta understand. It's like when you're growing up with somebody and then you ended up becoming you know, the the

you know, the Golden Google or whatever per se. You know, a lot of people expect like you know, and these players they feel bad too, because they're like, man, this is my family, Like I should be taking care of them and I should be helping them. But you gotta draw that line in the center. You know, still have your own life, and you gotta prepare for after you're not basketball. Yes, and I think a lot of athletes, especially young black African American athletes, do not prepare And

I don't think we're taught that either. Hell no, it's difficult and mental and it will affect your play or faking mental health. And easily spoke on that and it was deep. It was a wealth thought interview. No secret that he is a really good athlete, like everyone knows, he was amazing in his NBA career, but he did suffer from several substance related to incidents, substance abuse, and he just feels like he was asking for help and nobody was giving him the help that he needed. You know.

He just felt like he made a really good point. He said that when black men cry out, people laugh, you know, like literally a black man could cry and people will literally laugh at him, but you're not asking why is he crying? Like what's wrong? Like can we give him any more support? And Michael did a really good job communicating that on this podcast. Sake right now,

it's like mother's only kid. When you when when it's time for somebody to die, and the cameras to show it is like, bro, mother is out here showing every day that they need help. It's in the music and we only listen to it. To this it's like, bro, everybody out here need in help, and everybody will walking around his mother like they got it all together. Everybody

everybody walking. And then the second time, like like like bro, the white Howard cried on TV right, they called them saw what he was going through on the side he had to hold on to where he cried in front of twenty million people. How about somebody asked that questions, this is really sad. Honestly, I think we need to do a better job at creating a safe community for our talented black people to come invent. Like you, It's okay for you to say you need help, and you

should get the help that you need. One time for Ryan Clark too, I watched him on ESPN first Take a Lot, and he's on ESPN as well. He's a great announcer on television and he said a lot of great points, especially when he was talking about African American man having to deal with the burdens and the stresses of coming into money very fast and things move so fast, and then how it affects your your African American queen. As black men, we are asked because of talent to

carry everybody. We are not made to carry everybody. Black women are asked to carry everybody. They are not made to carry everybody. So it takes a village. And at some point you gotta have somebody who don't need from you, who don't want from you, who want to see you win. Man, like we don't. We don't do this for us. Yeah, like like if you want to build these things, But it's about these conversations, it's about bringing people on here and letting them tell their story. When Freddie said, man,

you could tell your narrative. Tell that and I'll preach it too. What we're saying is, man, don't give up, and we won't give up. Kudos to these guys. And it was a well thought out, um and in depth interview. But I do want to get a little hood though. Murder Mace is back er, so just for my for my nineties and two thousands babies. He started off as Murder Mace, then he went to Mace, then he went to Pastor Mace right then he went back to murder Mas.

Then he just stopped doing music completely. That he's back is murder Mas. And he going that did he loaded another another option? You really worked? Yeah, like that, that's a tune that's new. He don't need he don't need to use that normal guys. Maybe it's just not master. I think he said, did he glorifies celebrating artists after they die. And then he said, you ain't. You ain't give his mama what your man's work. She said, you from Mount Vernon, nigga, go and wrap your own hood.

You not know architect. You just the nigga that know how to market death. Go pay his mother what he really works. Nigga. That's what he said. Damn, that's what along the way, But that would have been harder on a better beat though, the beat and the yeah, it's very distracting, not the lyrics, but but yeah, yeah, I don't think I've never heard unless Diddy was involved, I've never heard Mace or did he because I meant this song was crazy. I never heard really makes really have

a good beat selection. Some already suck at that. You gotta stop stop. We're victims shaming now allegedly. Okay, Mace, it feels like Mae is trying to tell us that he is a victim. You guys, we're gonna pray for you, Mace, or can you pray for yourself? Okay now? And people have been talking about Diddy had been a little shady for a long time. I don't know. I've never met him. I'd never work with him. But some people feel like makes need to just let it go. They feel like

he's been coming at Diddy for a long time. Hey, hey, hey, you keep the same age you said the songs whack. I mean, I'm not you got to get better songs. But keep you get what you negotiate. Thank you, you signed the contract. Let's move on to the next topic. Keep signed the paperwords. There are other conversations and promises made that we don't know the promises contract. It's another example of there's another example of you coming from the bottom and you broke and here comes a situation you

can start making immediate money. Read it all the way through. It's crazy how he's coming with this. And then you know Freddy from the band he had something to say about Diddy too. You ain't never had a talent in your life. Man, somebody gave you an opportunity to open and doing fine talent, fine talent. His recipe to me

as being signed it cold people with a story. If you look over the history of all the arts he just signed, could people with a story and get paid off people's stories because you're not from that, You're not from the hood. You can't tell these story. You didn't come up like we came. You ain't even ever had no talent. You've got nine hundred million dollars from standing on people back in the sporting people. Look how Black Rob died, g depth of Dell done, how to go

out of town, look amaze. His whole recipe is this sign people with the story. I'm gonna get paid off on him and send them back to the hood and find the next one. So when I see your son buying cards and all this ship and all this laughing boofy ship, I'm offended. I'm offended he's spending my money somewhere enough and your niggas is walking past me. I will care you because about my son. I don't play

like that. We went through more hazing than anybody. We've done everything we're supposed to do, and we did it the right way. My whole group mouth quiet. They they know they've been getting fun. They know they they know it. They noticed they ain't ship. But everybody keep a mouth quirt out of your spend. Why why you care about somebody who donna give a funk about you. It's been twenty years man showing me he don't care about me on my kids? Man, why should I care about this movie?

You get what I'm saying that I'm already did what you're gonna do to me. I'm in a straight bro. You made me hate like so much that when you get to a point where you don't, you're But did he don't care? He got all the publishing solves. Yes. When he was on TV on making the band, nobody was complaining then because they thought that they had a solid thing. They thought they were that brother, Love Love You noticed this is becoming a cycle artist. Get on.

They started making a lot of money. They all on TV. It's smart, they learned, They educate themselves, and then they say, damn, I was fucked. At the end of the day, man, y'all read you actually trying because a lot of them don't know. They learned and then they say, oh, I was supposed to get away, but that's what got it, did you. A lot of these artists say they don't even read the contract. You see a lot of artists

that they educate themselves after the facts. Education. Read that contract, get a lawyer, read that contract before you sign it, Like you gotta understand that people do shady business or they do what they can get away with. And if you sign without reading ship Speaking of that, everybody, I encouraged to go watch the Steve Harvey interview with Earn your Legions to watch. He talks about, you know, his trials and errors to become who he is right now, and he's not who he wants to be, but he's

on his way there. And he talks about him not um owning his ip early on. Hollywood is the land of illusion. Most of us man are not making what y'all think we're making. We're just not man because we're in that system. See I didn't get I wasn't a business man when Steve Harvey show was ot just happy to be on TV. You know, I just took my check and went out and said I on twelve percent of the show back in but I learned real quick. In Hollywood, you never see back in. They got a

different type of rhythmetic. It's like the music industry. The only people that you make true back in with his book people. Book people are the most honest people I've ever done business with. Books. They're honest. Music and TV. You're not gonna get no back in partner, how man, by the time they get through doing their arithmetic. I ain't made back in on none of my shows ever. I just it's just crazy, man. So I started figuring

that out. I went, Okay, you know, my business with freemant On, which is one of the best companies I've ever dealt with. They're very honest and forth right. But when I signed a deal to do Family Feud, you know, look, man, Family Feud was a twenty year franchise and they had ownership and they couldn't get you know, I was going through tax problems back there. I just wanted to check, so I took the check. Over the years, I still couldn't get ownership. But since I can't get ownership, I'll

tell you what, though, I'll tell you what. I might not have ownership, but you're gonna feel like I'm born and so we've we've negotiated really nicely with them, I mean, the longest running hosts and he's real the show and it's the number one syndicated show on Earth. So like that, I think, you know, just to Art's point, it's kind of like, you know, learn, but then go harder to make it better. Yeah, it's a very bad, uh space

to be in when you realize you was funed. But is it an unfair expectation that somebody would do good business with you? Like? Is that unfair? There's no such thing as good business when you entertainment business. I believe you get what you negotiate. I believe that, But I also understand. I understand how it's easy to get a young artist into signing anything because they're impressionable, they're young. What you noticed, artists only complain when they're not hot,

No more, that's not all the way true. I think artists complain when the money slows down. That's when they ain't hot. And then they start saying that's when they ain't They're like, okay, that's where they go. Look at the contract too. They also say there we go. They started saying, wait a minute, and then guess what they do what they should have did in the first place. They read the country. You are in position to sign people, right.

Are you one of those people who's like, you know what, I'm gonna do shady business just because I can't, just because I know these niggas not gonna real nothing. I'm just asking you and sometimes not even shady. It's just business in your best interest. No, I'm not. I don't do that. I don't and I actually I managed six producers and I have open contracts. If I don't deliver and you want to leave, I don't want nothing from me. You'll be right back with more of the Bailer Alert Show.

Still listening to a special edition of The Bailler Alert, a special cloth Alert. Hey best friends, it's your favorite best in your original The Biggest I think a lot of you people know her as a fashionista, a social light, someone who just does what she does. But I'm a little confused because I don't know if I should call Eugerika or Carla. I don't know it's Carla. Is this the artist name? Is this you stepping into the artist persona? Now, before we get into it, can you please tell us

what is the biggest misconception of miss Carl. I would say that I didn't have my own platform and brand before my viral relationship that a lot of people knew. Definitely was a businesswoman way before UM working hard to branding master for several companies. UM. I went to school for fashion marketing for a little bit. Um I had an internship with PR just different things. I really got my feet with, you know, and like way before I was like get my own bread and you know, hustlings

like I've been making moves. Now for those of them who don't know, she's talking about young though, Okay, if you don't know, you don't know. But the reality is, it's unfortunate that a lot of women who date celebrity men or men with status tend to kind of be looked at like they don't have nothing, they're not driven, they're not motivated. But here you are just dropping all the facts of everything that you do and we'll continue to do. Now, let's talk about this music. Did it

come Let feel where did it come from? Where you inspired because of your previous relationship where you already into music. Yes, so, UM, music kind of was like in my history with my family and stuff, my mom was in the entertainment UM business, and I kind of like was always around it. They did like party promotions and stuff. So I was always like around different artists, but more so coming up amongst you know, the label on with Wire. Still I kind of feel like I just like watched them a lot.

I didn't even know I was like really retaining so much like about like knowledge about doing music. But I was the whole time. So but I was writing like poetry and stuff. I was just like always writing my phone. I noticed like UM poems. I really didn't know how

to like put a song together. And I went in the studio on some like I was like, I want to make a girl version to UM this song that the boys made it was Relationships with the Future, but I was like, I just want to making me and my girls, like I want to make a song for you know, the lady. And from there everybody was like, you actually sound good, and I up going with it and like I feel like it. I don't know it bruing like a different beast out of me. I love

being an artist. I didn't even know like this would be my I would ever take it serious, but I love it so much I could give me a space to you know, just really like talk about what I'm going through, to just put on like my diva persona. I love it. So did you use poetry as like an outlet for your feelings growing up? How did you get into writing poetry? So I just would honestly, I can't like I used it just to write like how I feel or like if I'm popping my issue you

break up or whatever? You right, how about how you feel about your boots stuff like that. You know, I don't think a lot of people expected for you to take your crap so seriously, and I even think that there are still more people that don't know anything about your music side. So how do we get them to refocus on you rebranding? Um, I would say tap into my socials for one. On Instagram is at okay Carl okay a y k A r l A e UM

the same handle on Twitter. I'll be on their like to have a little debate about stuff, and you know, pop my age and don't come in just assuming that she's going to sound a certain way because of the people she may have been around that might not necessarily be your style. So just come in with an open mind and give Carlis a fair chance. So you've worked with cor Lore, Bad Bad Baby, Gonna Rich the Kid, who else, Um, Young Scooter and lot of we did

a song altogether, big lot of Um who Else? Of course, the of course stuck. So you guys are still very cordial. Yeah it's healthy. Yeah, no, like, yeah, we have a great relationship. Actually we were talking to the interns earlier and a couple of them are not in a space where you are where you could be friends with your egg or you could be okay with some with maybe your current person being cool with their eggs. Does that

take a certain level of security trust? I think it takes a certain level of secure already and just kind of like um maturity and then also just like confidence because I feel like, I mean, I know, like my impact and I feel like me and thug like for ours like the music culture. I feel like we we had a big imprint on it, Like our relationship was I see people all the time like we do the same photos of people like bro y'all was that that couple.

So I felt like it would just be kind of crazy just to you know, be at os and stuff. But first we go through what we go through. We was in the public out for a long time because we was like so young in the relationship. That was kind of like, I want to say that downside of things. But you know, so we might have like been ups and downs, but like I feel like we've grown now. Yeah, young and in the public eye. I mean, that's not normal,

you know what I mean. So I don't think anybody could really just nobody knows how to deal with that even when you're in it. So and that's just what it is. Friends, Please tell everybody to get the album. Let them know to listen to the project after the video dropped today. My video dropped today as well. Log onto my youthtube. Okay, Carl okay, y k A r A E all my socials check it out blind featuring little Yatis, Queen Carlin checking out, dreaming up. Okay, thank you,

s thank you. We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more of the Baller Alert Shaw. It is time for baller now. This one's good, y'all. Dear ball Alert, Dear Rory. My daughter hates when I pick her up from school. She says, the boys pick on her at school, saying your mama find it and it's literally a crowding on boys waiting every day for me to pick her up. Now, I told my daughter how would she get home? She says she's willing to catch the bus on so that

people will stop talking about me at her school. I can't believe my child stopped would stop getting picked up and ride the damn bus just so she won't get picked on anymore. It's not like they're saying I'm ugly. I mean, come on, now, what should I do? UM? I mean, your mama fine, you can't help your mama being fine. That's that's all I'm gonna say. So you

gotta do better than that. BC don't, okay, mama, Mama, I don't have children, so please do not take this as me telling you what to do with your child. But I do think that you're gonna have to talk to your child a lot and let her know that Listen, it is not your fault or her fault that you're fine, and it's not your fault or her fault that the little boys don't know how to act. You continue to be the beautiful goddess that you are and continue to

raise a beautiful goddess. I don't know what you're wearing, mama, But you know, I hope you're wearing something you know that is school work. Come on, now, you know she ain't just sitting in that car. There them kids lined up to see mama. She ain't just sitting in the car, I miss Parker, Um. But yeah, I hope that you know, you might just need to dress down, just wear some sweats or something. That's so messed up, y'all. Boys don't be knowing how to afkter. Y'all tell us now, I

don't forget that. Where would you want to wear? I'm sorry, y'all tell the women to modify this, to modify that, because you don't know how to damn act. No, put some usher instrumentals on right now. No, apparently more mama come to pick you up. She get out and walk around the side to the car and just saying that's what your name, and then you probably walk over there and get you know them little boys. Is now I'm gonna tell your story. It was this girl. Her name

was Carla Stanley. Her mama will find him too, and me and the football players used to wait all the time for her mama to come and pick her up from school. So I actually understand, and I will always say to Carla, your mama find this hell, what time is she coming? Never mind? Already know? So I'm just letting you know. This ain't gonna stop, Mama unless you stop. So you either gonna stop picking up from school and saying, daddy, what the hell daddy that, let's daddy pick up from school?

I bet you the boys ain't gonna be waiting outside. Did you did what I'm saying? So since you want to bring your fine at up to the school and probably put on your little tighter tight tight tights, probably got a little short showing your little cab muscle. You know what I'm saying. You probably got your hair. Did I know you ain't going in there with a bonnet on? You a dressed it all the way up like none of those things. You ain't looking like? That is she

wants to wear back? Come back? She could wear what she wanted to wear. But yeah, I bet you, I bet you got a big old But don't get that. Then you get out on the side of the car, put your little hip a little body on the back bump or of the car. So right what you tell her she needs to tone it? It ain't gonna stop. So tell your daughter listen, I can't I can't help you. You want to catch the box, Ain't nothing you can do. And I think you like it too. I think you

like that little at the school. You find it fine. And if you felt some type of where the hell is dada at? Where that at? Where the little boy daddy? Somehow to respect women, little boys and just saying, hey, they're alert US fans. They're fans, they're probably fold on Instagram. Mm hm hmmm mmmm. This's damn shame. This ain't gonna stop. And that's it. Taking enough of baller Alert. Follow us on all social media platforms at baller alert a lot on to baller alert dot com