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The Balanced Parent Podcast

Laura Froyen, PhD www.laurafroyen.com
Parenting is often lived in the extremes. It’s either great joy or chaotic overwhelm. One moment you’re nailing it and the next you’re losing your cool. I want to help you find your way to the messy middle, to a place of balance. You see, balance is a verb, not a state of being. It is a thing you DO, not a thing you ARE. It’s an action, a process, a series of micro-corrections that we make, each and every day, to keep ourselves feeling centered. We are never truly balanced, we are engaged in the process of balancing.Hello, I’m Dr. Laura Froyen, and this is the Balancing Parenting Podcast, where overwhelmed, stressed-out, and disconnected parents go to find tools, mindset shifts, and practices to help them stop yelling at the people they love and start connecting all delivered with heaping doses of grace and compassion. Join me in conversations that will help you get clear on your goals and values and start showing up in your parenting, your relationships, YOUR LIFE, with open-hearted authenticity and balance.
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Episodes

114: Perfection Culture in Parenthood & What to Do About It with Lindsay Adams

I don't know if you know this story yet. But if you have been with me from the beginning, then you probably know I have struggled with perfectionism and limiting beliefs, just like most of you. And this has affected how I parent. It was weighing me down and realized that if I continue to let this limiting belief and need for perfection drive the ship, it will take me away from my true goals for my children. One of my deepest hopes as a mom is that my kids will grow up knowing that they are lovab...

Apr 19, 202226 min

113: How to Support Your Kiddo With A New Sibling with Hannah & Kelty of Upbringing

So, I know you know that nothing is ever just one thing, that we are constantly in a place of "both/and" but I have to tell you, it was really hard to see that in the early days of being a parent. ​If you've ever wondered what my transition to parenthood was like, or want to hear about the bumpiest part of my journey raising two kiddos, I'd love to have you check out this week's episode of The Balanced Parent podcast, where I sat down with my friends and colleagues Hannah & Kelty of @Upbring...

Apr 12, 202252 min

112: A Curious and Collaborative Approach to Technology with Kids w/ Carrie Rogers-Whitehead

Two things for you this week: 1.) I'll be going live on Friday at 12:30 on IG with my friends, Hannah & Kelty of Upbringing, to chat about sibling issues, especially helping prep kiddos for a new little one. **Parents of kiddos under 2 or those that are expecting, be sure to read the PS ​ 2.) Details on the podcast episode this week are below! We will be doing a giveaway on the featured book, so be sure you're following me on IG ( @laurafroyenphd ) for updates! ​ As a result of the pandemic,...

Apr 05, 202239 min

111: How to Help Our Kids Avoid External Validation with Mory Fontanez

We want our children to understand and know their worth, advocate for themselves, and be confident in who they are. And that they do not need to be anything other than who they are to be appreciated, loved, and seen in our family. But the more time children spend out in the world, in school or sports or online on social media, the more they start comparing themselves to others and seeking external validation. It's just how the world is set up, and we sometimes, with the best of intentions, do it...

Mar 29, 202225 min

110: How Implementing Boundaries Can Improve any Relationship with Melissa Salmeron

Did you ever feel forced to do something uncomfortable because you do not want to offend that person? Do you struggle with saying "no" even when you know you should? There is so much pressure on us as parents, especially the moms reading this, to be everything and do everything for everyone. And we know the answer is to set more boundaries, to actually say no when we need to so that we have more time and energy for the things that truly matter to us. But it's not actually that simple, is it? The...

Mar 22, 202238 min

109: Challenging Behaviors Re-Imagined with Dr. Mona Delahooke

I am so excited for today's episode on The Balanced Parent Podcast because our guest is one of my favorite authors. She's got a great book that you may already have read: Beyond Behaviors: Using Brain Science and Compassion to Understand and Solve Children’s Behavioral Challenges. Plus a brand new book we are going to be discussing that will radically change the way you approach your child's challenging behaviors! Her work has transformed the lives of so many children and families, including my ...

Mar 15, 202253 min

108: How to Change Your Brain Patterns to Achieve Your Goals with Adele Spraggon

I know that you are doing your best to improve on your parenting and I'm right there with you, doing the work myself and cheering you on! But when it comes to actually implementing all that you have learned up until now, it can be really difficult. And so, for this week's episode, we are going to learn how we can change our brain patterns to achieve our goals in parenting and in our lives. To help me in this conversation, I have brought in, Adele Spraggon, a behavioral change expert and award-wi...

Mar 08, 202241 min

107: Supporting Yourself Through Hard Times with Tanisha of MedicalMomsofNICU

For this week's episode on The Balanced Parent Podcast, we are going to talk about a topic that is a little bit different from what we have tackled before and is quite personal in my own parenting journey. Many of you know that while I was pregnant with my second daughter I got into a car accident that started me down a path that eventually lead me away from academia and into my work with you all. But something I rarely talk about is my first daughter's traumatic birth that resulted in a Neonata...

Mar 01, 202236 min

106: Making Meditation Accessible for Ourselves & Our Kids with Keli Carpenter

For the past couple of episodes, we have been focusing a lot on mental health and how to overcome the many hurdles we are facing in our lives. And you've likely heard A LOT that meditation can be a powerful tool for mental health and wellbeing, right? Well if you're anything like me, when I first started dabbling in meditation it seemed like a tool that is "ideal" but not really "doable". And as a recovering perfectionist, if I can't do it "right" then I may as well not do it at all. Sound famil...

Feb 22, 202243 min

105: Recovering from Adverse Childhood Experiences with Dr. Bre Gentile

Mental health is as important as our physical health. And as parents, we need every bit of help regarding this matter because parenting is never easy when we are mentally exhausted. Not to mention, our wonderful children have a real knack for showing us know where we have healing to do, right? And so, we are going to talk about mental health and trauma-informed practices and how understanding our pasts can help make our parenting a little bit easier. To help me in that conversation, I have invit...

Feb 15, 202241 min

104: How to Release Negative Self-Talk for Yourself & Your Child with Dr. Anjani Amladi

We all have an inner critic; this voice that ever so helpfully (but not always nicely!) tells us all the things we are doing wrong. And while sometimes we are aware of this inner negative voice, because they can be LOUD, sometimes these negative thought patterns are just kind of running in the background, outside of our conscious awareness. And it's hard to tell which is worse right? On the one hand, it can be exhausting to be beaten up from the inside all the time, but on the other hand, at lea...

Feb 08, 202242 min

103: Helping Kids with ADHD with Arti Kumar-Jain

Not too long ago, I released an episode about ADHD and how we can help children who are diagnosed with it. And I know that one episode is not enough to give you all the resources that you need. There is still so much more to learn and apply in our day-to-day routine especially for those with kids who have it. And that is why I'm bringing in Arti Kumar-Jain for this week's episode on The Balanced Parent Podcast. She is a parent-child family coach who focuses on providing support through deep empa...

Feb 01, 202236 min

102: How to Heal Our Own Wounds with Sonnet and Veronica

One of my biggest fears as a parent is that I will pass down hurts, wounds, fears, and thought & behavioral patterns that have not served me well. That through my own unconsciousness and wounding that I will hurt my child in the same way that I was hurt. That they will worry about their worth. That they will struggle with not feeling good enough. That they will feel pressure to be anything other than the imperfect beings they are. And that is what we are going to focus on in this week's epis...

Jan 25, 202240 min

101: Helping Kids Simplify for Better Quality Play with Allie Casazza

Last November, I released an episode about how to move from the feeling of overwhelm to simplicity with intention and grace with Allie Casazza. And I heard from so many of you how much it resonated and helped you (I love it when that happens!). Thank you for sharing your experiences with me and how decluttering helped you find some clarity and peacefulness in your homes. ​ BUT a LOT of you expressed the need for specific support around decluttering with KIDS! One of the big questions that came u...

Jan 18, 202242 min

100: Reconnecting to Play for Our Own Wellbeing with Amanda Evans

It's my 100th episode in The Balanced Parent Podcast! I can't believe it has already been this long and I want to extend my sincerest gratitude for tuning in, for sending in your feedback, for sharing your takeaways with me, and for welcoming me into your homes and hearts each week. I am on a mission to bring more presence, ease, & connection to parenting, and I couldn't think of a better community to be doing this important work with. Thank you so much for your dedication to this work; I ho...

Jan 11, 202236 min

099: Mindful Tech Use for Parents and Kids with Sophie Brickman

Nowadays, play does not only happen through the use of toys and that as we move forward in time, our kids adapt more and more with technology. Hence, play also happens through the use of phones and other gadgets. Sophie will be helping us know how to use technology mindfully. For more information, visit www.sophiebrickman.com ....

Jan 04, 202236 min

098: How to Actually Enjoy Playing with Your Kids

No matter what the last year has looked like for you, I want you all to know that I am so proud of you for all the efforts you've made into finding more connection, joy, and balance in your life. You have showed up here and in your homes with love, commitment, and grace and it absolutely shows! And I want you to know how truly honored and grateful I am for trusting me to be a part of your journey. 💕 Okay, are you all set up with our Annual 30 Days of Play Challenge ? We began on January 2nd but...

Dec 31, 202133 min

097: Becoming Unbusy with Monica Berg

As we settle into this space between the winter holidays and the New Years, I want to invite you all to slow down and drop into the present moment with yourself. Let's just take a minute to check in. How are you doing? No really, how have you been. I don't know about you, but I've been feeling a bit harried, overwhelmed, and honestly, burnt out. I always have this big push in December as I prepare for our annual 30 Days of Play Challenge , the winter holidays, and everything else, and this year ...

Dec 28, 202129 min

096: Understanding Your Child's Personality for Ease in Parenting With Sandra Etherington

A key part of being a conscious, attuned parent is deeply understanding your UNIQUE child and adjusting your approach in a way that works for THEM. This is where understanding more about your child's temperament and personality can be SUPER helpful! And for that reason, I am bringing in one of my friends and colleagues, Sandra Etherington. She is a mom of two beautiful kids and is the owner of Family Personalities and the co-host of the Family Personalities Podcast, a fun and sometimes cheesy po...

Dec 21, 202136 min

095: Honoring Your Unique Child with Ryan Haddon

For this episode, I am so excited to be joined by Ryan Haddon. She is a certified Life and Spiritual coach, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and certified meditation teacher with over 16 years of experience with clients around the world. We will be diving into how you can use parenting as an opportunity to grow and heal through crafting healthy, well-differentiated relationships. ​ To get more resources for this topic, follow Ryan on Instagram @ and visit her website. Instagram: @ryan.haddon ​ Website: ...

Dec 17, 202137 min

094: Racial & Educational Equity & Advocacy with Sonia Lewis

In this episode, I am joined by my friend and colleague Sonia Lewis. She is a California native, wife and mother, former high school history teacher, turned entrepreneur. She is the visionary and founder behind ASCRIBE Educational Consulting, where they lift and center equity, humanity, and belonging. Long story short, Sonia is an Anti-Racism Impact Strategist, ready to face challenging topic without blame and shame. ​ To learn more about this topic, follow Sonia on social media and visit her we...

Dec 14, 202129 min

093: How to Help Your Child Have a Healthy Relationship with Food with Jennifer Anderson

I have an amazing guest for this episode. She is Jennifer Anderson of the amazing Instagram account @kids.eat.in.color . She is a registered dietitian, a mom of two very exciting boys and a cheerleader to hundreds of thousands of parents feeding kids through the Kids Eat in Color social media movement. She helps parents let go of mealtime battles, reduce their stress, and get their kids on the path to eating better. ​ Find more resources on how to end your food battles with kids by following Jen...

Dec 10, 202151 min

092: How to Use Logical Consequences with Wendy Snyder

In this week's episodes on The Balanced Parent Podcast, we are going to talk about getting into a healthy mindset with two of the biggest issues parents face: Discipline and Food! For the first episode, I’m bringing in a friend and a colleague, Wendy Snyder of the Fresh Start Family Podcast. She is a Positive Parenting educator, family coach and advocate. She is also certified in Redirecting Children's Behavior & The Joy of Parenting Program. ​ To know more about logical consequences, follow...

Dec 07, 202144 min

091: How to Find Ease & Flow in Parenting with Kiran Trace

For this episode, I am happy to be joined by Kiran Trace. She is a human development expert and spiritual teacher with 15 years of clinical experience in childhood development and early childhood education. She has built education, leadership, and developmental skill programs for children in high-risk populations and respite programs for adults and children with mild to severe developmental disabilities for organizations such as Boys & Girls Club, Outward Bound, Bay Area Parks & Recreati...

Dec 03, 202150 min

090: How to Move from Overwhelm to Simplicity with Intention & Grace with Allie Casazza

I have a secret: I have been really struggling with STUFF lately. I am not sure if it's because of pandemic stress, or simply a need to feel safe and secure, but for the past year and a half I have been holding on to a LOT (both physical stuff AND emotional stuff). And I don't think I'm alone in this? Have you been holding on to stuff too? Are you feeling overwhelmed and a bit lost on how to let go and clear the way for a new mindset? If so, hit replay and just type: ME TOO! Shame lives in the s...

Nov 30, 202149 min

089: Defining Beauty for our Children & Ourselves with Abbie Sprünger

The topic for this episode is a problem we all likely face, and with the mixed research coming out on the effect of social media on teens, it's particularly important. With the ever-changing beauty standards and the influx of social media, our perception and definition of beauty are heavily focused outward as opposed to inward. And no matter how well you meet society's standards of beauty, this can have a truly damaging effect on a person's self-concept and worth. I don't know about you, but I w...

Nov 26, 202131 min

088: A Simple Tool for Checking In with Yourself with Cher Kretz

I'm guessing you are all busy with the upcoming holidays. And as parents, sometimes the preparations and pressures of this time of year can pull up in a million different directions and away from what truly matters to us. And so for this week, I have a podcast episode to help us do a quick "check in" ourselves to make sure that we are aligned with our goals and intentions. This is super important for the holidays as we interact with people who maybe aren't in our daily lives and our boundaries g...

Nov 23, 202134 min

087: How to Save your Relationship with Kimberly Beam Holmes

Our different responsibilities and even the demands of our jobs can take a toll on our marriage. To help us understand how we can deepen our connection and have a more fulfilling relationship as busy parents living through a pandemic, I have invited Kimberly Beam Holmes to dive deep into what it takes to have a long-lasting, fulfilling relationship. She is the CEO of the Marriage Helper and is currently working on her Ph.D. in psychology. To get more support from Kimberly, visit her websites its...

Nov 19, 202133 min

086: Teaching our Kids to Ask for Help with Nyasha Chikowore

Asking for help can be so hard, for grown-ups and kids alike! Knowing when and how to ask for help and where to find support is an important skill that is developed with time and practice, that most of us are still learning. How wonderful would it be if our kids could learn this while they are young and the stakes are low? So, for this episode, I wanted to give you a resource on how to help children learn the important skill of figuring out when they need support and ask for it. Nyasha Chikowore...

Nov 16, 202129 min
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