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The Badass Counseling Show

Sven Erlandsonbadasscounseling.com

Sven Erlandson, TikTok star, best-selling author & founder of BadassCounseling (NYC), is a CEO-whisperer & soul counselor, who kicks your ass, taking you to the dark places of life to finally heal into true ALIVENESS! Listen for new counseling sessions every Thursday, and Sven's responses to his followers' questions every Sunday. Explicit content.

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Episodes

Q&A: Standing Your Ground, Exit Strategies, and More

Send us a text Come on in and listen to Sven's latest Lightning Round! Have you've ever asked yourself: Why did they say they loved me and then left me? Why do I feel like a doormat? Should my friends' conspiracy theories cost me their friendship? How do I get out of this relationship when I can't afford to leave? And much more. Always tons of insight and great advice when Sven goes live on social media and answers unpredictable questions from listeners. Explicit content....

Aug 18, 202455 minSeason 9Ep. 10

Cheating: Origins and Dopamine

Send us a text Listen in as Sven counsels Zena and Corrine, two women in serious pain from lovers who just don't care. One cheated, the other was cheated on. Is a temporary dopamine hit worth the destructive behavior? And what are the roots of these two women's feelings? As they experience Sven at his maximum badass counselor self, they also find a lot to learn from each other. Explicit content.

Aug 15, 20241 hr 1 minSeason 9Ep. 9

Q&A: Co-Parenting With A Narc, Betrayal, and More

Send us a text Sven again goes live on multiple social media sites to take unpredictable questions from his followers. In this recorded Lightning Round, topics include: self-sabotaging; having no memories of childhood; journaling prompts for young people; fear of being the center of attention; and much more. Please listen in! Explicit content.

Aug 11, 202453 minSeason 9Ep. 8

Adopted Only For the Money

Send us a text In this dramatic counseling session, Sven works with Sarina, who finds herself stuck in an unhappy marriage but won't leave. She's emotionally drained, has lost her motivation after leaving the military, and confused about her next steps. As Sven probes her deepest feelings, we find that Sarina was adopted only for the financial benefit of a mother who, among other atrocities, has stolen her voice. How can Sarina reclaim her self-determination and learn to advocate for herself? Li...

Aug 08, 20241 hr 9 minSeason 9Ep. 7

Q&A: Can a Narc Be Fixed, Dating Advice, and More

Send us a text In this recorded Lightning Round, Sven fields questions in real time from his online followers on topics including: Dating advice after a long-term relationship; how can you build trust with a cheater; should you talk to your Ex-narc in order to get closure; what to do when your partner says they can't make you happy; and much more. Tons of good advice and insight here, so come on in! Explicit content....

Aug 04, 20241 hr 1 minSeason 9Ep. 6

I Just Want To Be Free

Send us a text Listen in to this moving counseling session in which Sven guides Clara and Anthony, two strangers, toward a more peaceful, hopeful life. Both were victims of difficult and often abusive childhoods, and the effects linger on. Do they have the power and the courage to stick up for themselves? And what does that mean for their lives? Please listen in, and find out. Explicit content.

Aug 01, 202449 minSeason 9Ep. 5

Q&A: Why Don't I Deserve To Be Happy, and More

Send us a text Why am I afraid to rely on myself? Why can't my guy commit? How can I possibly move on? My 14-year-old dislikes his narc dad (my ex). Am I undermining my relationship by opening up too quickly? Sven takes on these and many more intriguing questions and comments in this recorded Lightning Round. You never know what to expect when Sven goes live on multiple online platforms and asks for questions. Come on in and find out! Explicit content....

Jul 28, 202451 minSeason 9Ep. 4

Blood On the Sheets

Send us a text Sven describes April's story as being in a whole new category of heinousness. April's mother began selling her to men when she was in first grade. No wonder that April, now in her 50's, still feels scared of everything. Although she's still in contact with her mother, April is coming to terms with her true feelings and beginning to believe she can take control of her life. Is it finally springtime for April? Join Sven and April in session for this remarkable story and find out. Ex...

Jul 25, 202452 minSeason 9Ep. 3

Q&A: I Don't Want to Have Kids, I'm a Narc Magnet, and More

Send us a text In this Lighting Round, Sven and Rob go deep into a listener's question about not wanting to have kids when his partner does. Other topics and questions include: How to protect kids from a Narc ex's manipulation; what to do when your partner has a lot of online "friends;" why don't I ever feel pretty; and much more. The unpredictable questions are always provocative, and Sven is right here for insightful and instructive answers. So join us for Lightning Round 97! Explicit content....

Jul 21, 202457 minSeason 9Ep. 2

F You and Your Kids!

Send us a text That's the message Nicole got from her abusive parents. Nicole's brother sexually assaulted her, beginning at age 4. Her parents knew, and even endorsed it. Years later, when Nicole's parents began grooming her own children in the same way, she cut off all contact. But Nicole still suffers greatly and doesn't know how to heal. Sven works hard to show Nicole how it's possible to come alive and finally begin to feel free. Get out your hankies for this one! Explicit content....

Jul 18, 20241 hr 5 minSeason 9Ep. 1

Q&A: Attachment, Detachment, Narc Divorce, and More

Send us a text Listen in as Sven again fields unpredictable questions in real time from his online followers. This time, topics include: Workplace gender abuse; finding the right career; protecting kids from a narc dad; handling accusations of cheating, and much more. Come on in for Sven's latest Lightning Round! Explicit content.

Jul 14, 202446 minSeason 8Ep. 26

Anger Management, Sven Style!

Send us a text Jay is filled with anger, even rage, from a maddening divorce, childhood sexual abuse, and a mother who made it all about her when Jay needed her most. Sensing what was trapped inside Jay, Sven uses a dramatic technique that leaves Jay feeling relieved and "amazing." Listen in and join Jay in his amazing journey to a better life. Explicit content.

Jul 11, 202453 minSeason 8Ep. 25

Q&A: Relationships, Careers, Closure, and More

Send us a text In this recorded Lightning Round, Sven takes on his followers' unpredictable questions including: How do I find my passion in a career? How do I stop caring about people that don't reciprocate? How can you truly get to know yourself? Why does my spouse always get defensive? And much more. Come on in for great insight and advice! Explicit content.

Jul 07, 20241 hrSeason 8Ep. 24

It's Always My Fault

Send us a text Sven counsels Trixie, who feels like she's lost and running in circles. Everything that goes wrong in her relationship feels like it's her fault. Sven helps Trixie connect the dots to her parents and step-parents, and find how major problems almost always start small. Do you feel like your relationship is imbalanced? Listen in to Trixie's story and find a new path. Explicit content.

Jul 04, 202443 minSeason 8Ep. 23

Q&A: Narc Abuse, Letting Go Of Fear, and More

Send us a text This time out, Sven fields online questions on topics including: Teaching children to name their feelings; avoiding getting triggered; how long narc abuse can last; the difference between intuition and fantasy, and much more. Please listen in to Sven's insightful responses here in Lightning Round 94! Explicit content.

Jun 30, 202448 minSeason 8Ep. 22

Stuck in the Past: A Marriage

Send us a text *Stay tuned after the show for Overtime with both guests! Sven individually counsels Peter and Tammi Sue, whose marriage is in trouble. Lying and cheating play a part on both sides, and they both suffered terrible childhood abuse, but what's really at the root? Peter can't open up to his wife and fears she will leave him, while Tammi Sue needs Peter to express his feelings but also understands she's found herself mirroring her own parents' destructive marriage. Both partners join ...

Jun 27, 20241 hr 21 minSeason 8Ep. 21

Q&A: Isolated? Scared? Can't Stop Running?

Send us a text Join us for Sven's 93rd Lightning Round! Questions and topics include: My mom never calls me but demands that I call her; meeting your ex's new bf with whom she cheated on you; emotional attachment boundaries; dissociation from emotions; and much more. Tons of great insight and advice, right here. Please listen in! Explicit content.

Jun 23, 20241 hrSeason 8Ep. 20

Clean-Up In Aisle Dad!

Send us a text Erica is stuck. Her father has entered a nursing home, and she must clear out the contents of his house - but can't get started. Sven digs into Erica's core beliefs, and she finds that in the face of withering criticism from her father and a neglectful mother, she was taught feelings of worthlessness. On top of it, her sister (the golden child) compounded her misery. Sven guides her to escape her rage at her father, mother, and sister, and get on with her life. Explicit content....

Jun 20, 202446 minSeason 8Ep. 19

Q&A: Walking Away, Keeping Grief From the Kids, and More

Send us a text It's Lightning Round 92! Sven fields questions in real time from his online followers on topics including: Raging narc partners; your inner child vs. your authentic adult; commitment phobia; staying together for the kids - and not allowing them to experience grief; fear of getting close; and much more. Please join! Explicit content.

Jun 16, 202448 minSeason 8Ep. 18

Sister-Hood

Send us a text Meet Georgette, whose sister terrorized her (and her mother) from an early age. Now she has trouble making friends, isn't sure how to handle her young children, and is even afraid that Sven will make fun of her. Sven's empathetic and supportive counseling guide Georgette to new understanding -- and hope. And who's really the source of her core beliefs? Listen in and find out! Explicit content....

Jun 13, 202448 minSeason 8Ep. 17

Q&A: Forgiveness, Narcs, Hate, and More

Send us a text In this Lightning Round, Sven tackles the question of forgiveness in detail. Whether it's a matter of forgiving others or forgiving yourself, Sven's outlook gives you a lot to think about. Other online questions involve the difficult topic of hate: Hating yourself, hating your parents, the roots of hate, and more. With other questions about journaling, a narc's ability to change, red flags, and more, there's something for everyone in Sven's 91st Lightning Round. Please listen in! ...

Jun 09, 202455 minSeason 8Ep. 16

Pt. 3: American Hero Slays Demons!

Send us a text In this final installment of Sven's "counseling post-mortem" interview with Chief Master Sgt. Jeremy Hardy, the Chief explains the impact of his traumatic family issues, his experience and research into alternative medicines and therapies, and his coming to terms with life-altering experiences as the top Pararescue Jumper in the Air Force. Prepare to be impressed! Explicit content. Note: The opinions expressed by our guests are not necessarily the views of the Badass Counseling Sh...

Jun 06, 202455 minSeason 8Ep. 15

Q&A: Narc Boyfriend, Disfunctional Relationships, and More

Send us a text Sven goes in-depth with his followers' questions in this Lightning Round! Don't have the discipline to change? Need help dealing with adult children? Thinking about taking back a cheater? Feeling empathy for your narc ex-boyfriend? Can't remember your past? Feeling the strain of a new marriage? Come on in and take advantage of Sven's badass approach that so many have found supremely helpful. Explicit content....

Jun 02, 202455 minSeason 8Ep. 14

Pt. 2: American Hero Slays Demons!

Send us a text Sven continues his interview with Chief Master Sergeant Jeremy Hardy, who opens up about his childhood abuse and the effects of it on his life, his incredible career, and his current plans to help other veterans dealing with many of the same issues. Join us for this insightful look at one of Sven's most accomplished and intriguing clients. Explicit content.

May 30, 202455 minSeason 8Ep. 13

Q&A: In-Laws, Narc Dads, Abusive Parents, and More

Send us a text Online followers have questions, Sven has answers! Join us for insight and advice on topics including: In-laws who only visit their other grandchildren, a childhood you can't remember, physical reaction to past trauma, co-parenting issues, and much more. There's always something new to explore and learn when Sven opens up for live, unpredictable questions. Come on in! Explicit content.

May 26, 202453 minSeason 8Ep. 12

American Hero Slays Demons! (Pt. 1 of 3)

Send us a text In this first of a series of special episodes, Sven interviews Chief Master Sgt. Jeremy Hardy. As the highest ranking special forces operator in the US Air Force at the peak of his career, Jeremy is the very essence of a man's man. He's got many stories to tell about leading an elite unit of Pararescue Jumpers (PJs). But now retired, he's also Sven's client, and has much to overcome, both physically and emotionally. Join us for this penetrating look at a real American hero with a ...

May 23, 202458 minSeason 8Ep. 11

Q&A: Abused Children, Gaslighting, Finding Authenticity, and More

Send us a text Sven's online followers are at it again, lobbing in questions and comments including: I'm stressed about hurting my kids; my mom disowned me and I'm hurting; we broke up and he wants me to wait for him; how do I get to my real self; and much more. Please join us for Lightning Round LXXXVIII! Explicit content.

May 19, 202453 minSeason 8Ep. 10

"I Wish You Were Never Born"

Send us a text In this intense, sensitive counseling episode, Sven brings new insight and hope to a despondent TJ, who is great at beating himself up. The woman he loves, who he said he would always stand by despite her illness, forces him to leave and then blames him for abandoning her. Sven gets to the root of TJ's misery: a father who made him feel unimportant, and a mother who told him, "I wish you were never born." A big man comes to some big realizations in this emotional session. Please l...

May 16, 202458 minSeason 8Ep. 9

Q&A: Narcs, Trauma, Boundaries, Fear...

Send us a text Join Sven and Rob for another recorded online session featuring a wide variety of questions and topics coming in from social media. Afraid of the dark? Dealing with cheating? Moving on after divorce? Co-parenting? Wondering why your narc ex keeps contacting you? All this and more in this Lightning Round. Come on in! Explicit content.

May 12, 202453 minSeason 8Ep. 8

Generational Denial

Send us a text Although Brenda's story begins with her concern about her son getting into a car driven by her alcoholic co-parenting ex, this counseling session soon becomes all about the profound effects of bad parenting on their children and their children's children. Brenda believes she's a good parent and has trouble admitting her real feelings about her not-so-good parents, but Sven guides her to some unpleasant, yet supremely hopeful truths. Explicit content....

May 09, 202456 minSeason 8Ep. 7
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