Why are men so obsessed with penis size? How do we have more expansive, earth-shattering, soul connecting and multi-orgasmic sex? On this week's episode, I am joined one of my mentors, Nic Spadaccini. Nic is the author of Penises & Vaginas - a User's Manual, Tantra Teacher, Engineer and film-maker. We delve into why penis size is something that men spend so much energy worrying about, why they have got penis size all wrong and how men can reach the deeper levels of having incredible sex. The...
Nov 17, 2021•1 hr 44 min•Season 3Ep. 104
In this week's episode, I talk about the different ways you NEED to get your mind in the right place before approaching a woman. What you will hear in this episode will allow you to get out of a mindset of neediness and scarcity and into a place of abundance and connection.
Nov 14, 2021•10 min
How can interracial and Intercultural relationships save the world? I bet that's a question you never asked yourself. How can you integrate your partner into your family even if your family display racially problematic behaviour? How can you bring your black/brown partner into your family seamlessly? Well, in this week's podcast, you will get the answer to all of these. In this weeks episode, I sit down with Hakeem Allen of The Anti Racist Social Club . A charity set up to create spaces and reso...
Nov 10, 2021•1 hr 36 min•Season 3Ep. 103
In this weeks Mini-Episode, I answer a question from a listener about our relationship to freedom and being in a relationship. I talk openly about my struggles when freedom and how I created a relationship where I have all the freedom I desire. If you are interested in learning about how to create the conscious and free relationship that will nourish your and the life you want to build, join me and Asa (my partner) for our "How To Create A Conscious Relationship" - 12 December - 5pm UK time Tick...
Nov 07, 2021•14 min
If you got to sit down with a man who is an expert in female pleasure, is an expert of erotic behaviour, and has studied a secret east African technique to help women squirt, what would you ask him? The answer is ALOT! Did you know that in Rwanda, there is a technique that young men and women learn that is said to help 90% of women squirt? You can find out all about the practice in this episode. In this weeks episode, I sit down and talk to Habeeb Akande, British-Nigerian writer, sexologist, and...
Nov 03, 2021•1 hr 31 min•Season 3Ep. 102
In this week's podcast mini-episode, I discuss the dangers of being half in and half out of a relationship. We are often in a relationship, especially initially, unsure if we want to be in it. We act half-arsed about the relationship. In this episode, I explain why this dooms a relationship from the start and hurt you.
Oct 24, 2021•10 min
Can you get enough protein if you are on a plant-based diet? For many years, gym buddies, personal trainers, and gym owners told me that the answer to this question was categorically NO. And I am sure you have heard the same thing, right? For this week's podcast episode, I sit down with Jeffrey Boadi, a man who is on a mission to help you live a healthy, plant-based lifestyle, but not by shaming you but by inspiring you. Find out in this episode how Jeffrey went from a meat-based diet to a plant...
Oct 20, 2021•1 hr 13 min•Season 3Ep. 101
In this weeks mini-episode, I talk about how we men (or women) can be more and feel more masculine.
Oct 17, 2021•11 min
A Conscious relationship, what is one? What does it feel like to be in one? Will you have more and better sex if you are in one? And does it mean that you will have a happier, easy and smooth running relationship if it is more conscious? These are the questions that I am asked about conscious relationships (and all are answered in the episode). So I thought I would ask the person I have been cultivating a conscious relationship with, my wonderful partner Asa Baav. Asa Baav is a matchmaker, coach...
Oct 13, 2021•1 hr 33 min•Season 3Ep. 100
In this weeks mini-episode, I talk about something from a slightly different angle. I have made many an episode about the ways that men can show up better and the ways that they hurt women in a relationship. But something that I see a lot from men I work with is how the women they are with hurt them and the relationship. But often, the men don't see that the actions are hurting them or feel they are to blame for what is happening.
Oct 10, 2021•12 min
We talk plenty about Masculine & Feminine Energy when it comes to ourselves and our relationships, but what about in our businesses or the businesses that we work in? Does Masculine & Feminine Energy have a place in business? And how can you utilise it and harmonise it to reach higher levels of creativity? All these questions and way more are answered in this weeks episode with Sabi Kerr. Sabi is a self-love and feminine embodiment coach, as well as a business coach. We delve into why mo...
Oct 06, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Season 3Ep. 99
In this week's mini-episode, I get into why men are afraid of commitment and being with the wrong women, the stories they tell themselves about commitment and how I got over my fear of commitment.
Oct 03, 2021•12 min
What is the man experience of pregnancy? How do men feel during childbirth? What use is a man during the birth of his child? When you hear these questions, you might think the answer to all of them is "not a lot", simply because you don't hear about it very much. But I sit down with sexologist and men's sex coach Cam Fraser to talk about his experience of pregnancy, childbirth & post-birth intimacy. This episode is an open, raw and vulnerable account of Cam's experience of a 'gnarly' and 'im...
Sep 29, 2021•1 hr 33 min•Season 3Ep. 98
In this week's Weekly Mini-Episode, I go over a little technique that I have been using with my clients to help them let go of the fearful and anxious thoughts and take the inspired and powerful action to take control of their dating lives.
Sep 26, 2021•13 min
How do we transform how we think and feel? Do we think our way or feel our way to something different? This week I sat down and talked to Cordelia Gaffar. Cordelia Gaffar is the Emotions Opener Transformation Strategist guiding leaders to use their darkest and most difficult emotions to show up powerfully. She is also a seven-time author and expert in using your emotions to transform your life and your experience of reality. Many of the men who come to work with me struggle to connect deeply wit...
Sep 22, 2021•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 97
In this week's topics, I quickly tackle an issue that was once one of my biggest dating fears, ending up in the wrong relationship. I talk about the ways that I avoided bad and misaligned relationships.
Sep 19, 2021•14 min
in this week's Weekly Mini-Episode, I get into what we men can get out of learning about women's periods and why period sex can be such a loving co-creation. https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/
Sep 12, 2021•7 min
Do we men need sexual healing? It's often assumed that men are sexually liberated, but are they? I sit down with Amelia Griffiths, a sacred sexual healer and talk about how as men, we can heal their sexual trauma, be that alone, through coaching bodywork and lingam massage. We get really deep into what sort of shame men carry, how it affects their relationships, sex lives, confidence and ability to connect. The key topics are: 🔦 What is sexual healing 🔦 Conscious masturbation 🔦 Why we all nee...
Sep 08, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Season 3Ep. 95
We grow up in a world that dictates to us what we should want, how we should look, what we should buy, who we should date and what we should do for a living. But so many of us follow these rules and end up miserable and confused as to why we aren't happy. The reason for this is because we are not engaging in what our hearts and soul really want. And not because we don't want to, but because we don't even know how to tune into what our heart truly wants and tune out of what the world thinks we sh...
Sep 01, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 94
In this weeks mini-episode, I talk about the 4 types of sex that we have. Each varying in pleasure, connection, emotionally engagement and nurturing. I talk about the types of sex that you don't want to me having in a relationship and how to experience the high levels of sex and why.
Aug 29, 2021•11 min
Is seduction always manipulative? Or has seduction been given a bad name due to the PUA movement? In this week's episode, my guest Massimo Stocchi-Fontana, sexologist, psychological therapist, sex coach, and yoga teacher, get deep into how we can seduce the people we meet (and our partners) with honesty, love, authenticity and playfulness. Seducing doesn't have to be dishonest, cohesive or manipulative if you are willing to bring your authenticity, all of you and when it is done from a place of ...
Aug 25, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Season 3Ep. 93
This weeks mini-episode inspired my own feelings and inquiry into not being good enough. I ask the question, What if you aren't good enough? What will happen? Can you be happy? Can you be successful? Who decides if you are good enough? What is good enough? https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Ilan's Shaking Video: https://youtu.be/TO2cMBkZDms
Aug 22, 2021•9 min
What is it like being a professional dominatrix? Do different dominatrices have different ways of working? Why do we have disconnected sex? Who is responsible for your partners' orgasm? All of these and sooo much more answered in this podcast episode. I am joined by Lola Jean, a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, pro Domme, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting. We talked about so much on this episode BDSM, Spanking, pegging, impulse control, communicating sexual desires,...
Aug 18, 2021•1 hr 20 min•Season 3Ep. 92
In this weeks mini-episode, I explain a little about Incel Culture. In the past, I have had men come to me for coaching after being exposed to red pill and incel culture due to them wanting to transform how they relate to women. I talk about what I see in the culture, the incorrect and oversimplified assumptions incels have made, how we can understand these men and how incel men can go about creating the connection they desire. https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/...
Aug 15, 2021•18 min
Just me again this week, but I have a great episode for you. This episode sprung from a listener request. In dating, we often come across people that blow hot and cold, on and off. They message you loads, you have a great date, and they go cold, only to come back warm weeks, months, or even years later. Frustrating right? But why? Why do men and women do this? What is happening in their heads (and hearts) that causes this behaviour? How can you break out of that cycle if you are the guilty, push...
Aug 11, 2021•56 min•Season 3Ep. 91
This is a little practice that I use to stop disagreements, arguments and conflicts from even happening. This is something you do, not just something you say. This practice will stop you from having huge blowout arguments.
Aug 08, 2021•9 min
Touch is one of the most misunderstood modes of communication, especially when it comes to sex and intimacy. We assume that just because it's something we have been doing all our lives that we actually know how to do it well! Most people (especially men) don't even think about how we touch our partners, both sexually and non sexually. We don't realise that the way we touch (or lack off) our partners is actually turning them off, making them cold and closing them down to sex. So in the episode, I...
Aug 04, 2021•50 min•Season 3Ep. 90
Weekly Mini-Episode: My Experience - How Lack Of A Father Figure Affected My Ability To Have Healthy Romantic Relationship. This is a topic that is really close to my heart, something that I have battled with most of my adult life, and I see in many of the men that I coach. And I see in men around me struggling to create healthy and connected relationships and often ending with them giving up, believing that it isn't possible for them. It takes work. It's it is possible not to repeat the pattern...
Aug 01, 2021•11 min
Polyamory is still a bit of a social taboo, but why? Have we been so entrenched in the idea that one person can only love one person at a time, or is it that we can't bear the idea of having to deal with the jealousy of sharing our partner? In monogamous relationships, are we placing too much pressure on our partners to fulfil all of our needs? And is that just leaving us with a string of disappointing relationships? In this weeks episode, we will be answering all these questions and so much mor...
Jul 28, 2021•1 hr 17 min•Season 3Ep. 89
This is a special one, I am answering a question from a listener question. The question is "Can be authentic without coming across as needy and scaring a woman of." Everything you need to know is in the episode. Events: https://linktr.ee/theauthenticman
Jul 25, 2021•11 min
