Hello. Hope you're having an amazing day. Welcome to the show. I want to talk to you today about a topic that comes up over and over with me, especially with my clients. And it always makes me laugh, but also makes me smile a little bit when they say this and The question I get probably more than any question that at all when it comes to mentorship is How do I hold it all? How am I able to have multiple seven figure businesses?
How am I able to also be a work from home mom with two kids under four? How do I also have I have a headquarters that I run with multiple employees. How do I also have properties that I own where I'm landlord and they're paying me and I'm keeping up with all that. So I have a lot going on in my life. Also in sports broadcasting.
Some of you may not know that I work for the biggest sports, uh, conglomerate in the world, the Dallas Cowboys as an on camera talent and also the Dallas Mavericks who made the championship finals last year. So I have a full plate full. Like a lot of people go, Holy. How the heck are you doing at all? So what I want to talk to you about today is you may feel this in your life. Like how am I going to do it all?
How am I going to be a mom and a business owner and a good wife and a good friend and have a social life and do things that I want to do. Do some hobbies that I want. Also hang out with my kids. Also go on a date night. Like there's so many things in life. And a thing that really halts a lot of business owners is feeling like, okay, how am I going to. Do it all. And not only that, but do it all and do it all well.
And believe it or not, this is one of the biggest things that stunts growth as a business owner because people don't talk about this. They don't put a lot of focus on you have to actually do the work to become a person that can hold it all. No one's just born like this. I wasn't just born going, I'm going to be able to do 800 million things in one day and it's going to be totally fine. And I'm going to have like a stress free, free life.
No, let me tell you, it went through a lot of glow up eras of my own to be able to get to the point where I do feel like I can hold it all. And actually I feel like I could hold way more. Like I feel like this is no big deal. Some days I'm like, you know, I haven't, I have some extra time. Like what could I be doing? Because in the past I was so used to feeling that feeling that you may feel that overwhelm of like, I just can't do it all. I just can't do it all.
But then I remember hearing someone say that if you can't hold the problems where you are now, how can you expect to hold the problems where you're going in the future? So for example, let's say you're at, I don't know, 2, 000 a month in sales right now, and you feel extremely overwhelmed all day, every day. How do you expect yourself to be able to hold when you're making 10, 000 a month, 20, 000 a month, 100, 000 a month in order to get to those next levels?
Not only do you, does your strategy need to sharpen? I mean, that's obvious, but who you are being. is so key to the success of the forward motion of your business. So we cannot feel like I can't hold it all at the level we're at, but then expect ourselves to get better. The first thing we have to do is go, okay, the level that I'm at, how can I glow up my life? Right now, because this is something you work on instantly.
It's not like, okay, well once I hit 10, 000 a month, I'm going to feel better. I'm going to feel more together. Once I hit 20, 000 a month, I'm going to feel happy. I'm going to feel like I can hold it all. I'm going to feel like I have it together. I'm telling you if you can't get it done right now and feel like you can hold it all, you're not going to have space to hold anymore.
And the universe or God or whatever it is, your spirituality that you believe in is going to know that it's going to feel that and it's going to say, well, my girl, you got to get better at where you're at before I can give you more. So, but the abundance is out there. It's waiting for you, but you have to set yourself up to be able to grab ahold of it and to take it and to be able to use it in a positive way.
And as soon as you start recognizing this and like going through your day, instead of just feeling that feeling like, how am I going to hold this all? I have to take my kids to school. Then I have to run home. Then I have to pack packages and I have to shoot new arrivals. And then I have to, you know, schedule my social media. What if you were just like, It's like, I got this.
What if you just told yourself in the morning, instead of spazzing out, you looked in the mirror and said, I am so lucky to be, to have started a business in the first place, which is a milestone. 99. 9 percent of people don't get to in this world. Okay. So let's be grateful for where we're at. So what if we just looked in the mirror and said, Instead of feeling panic and like, I can't do it all today. What if I just had a great day and was great at every activity that I did?
What if I flip my mindset? And it just starts with that one simple decision that you can hold it all. Isn't that crazy? That one decision where you say, Say I got this and you look yourself in the mirror and you eye to eye contact with yourself. Okay. And you say, wow, I'm going to do this today. My day is going to look different. It's going to look better. I'm going to, I'm going to hold more on my shoulders and it's not going to feel like a weight. It's going to feel like a blessing.
If you just change your mindset in that split second in the morning when you're brushing your teeth or whatever it is, you will see. You can hold more. You have to decide that you're ready for that though. You have to decide, I don't want to live like that anymore. I don't want to live under the pressure of, of the weight on my shoulder. That feels like a thousand pounds instead of being like lifted up by little strings on your shoulders that just lift you up and bounce you through the day.
Okay. It's not going to happen overnight, but just recognizing it is the first step because now what's going to happen is when you go throughout the day and you start to feel the weight on your shoulders, And you start to get sucked back into your quote unquote comfort zone of where you're spinning around in circles, feeling like it's too much. You go up, wait, I'm doing it again. I told myself this morning I wasn't going to feel this way. I'm going back into that. Okay. Let me take a breath.
Let me reset. Let me be the woman that can hold this. Let me be the woman that is going to put on a little music while I'm, I'm packaging up my, my orders for the day. Okay. Let me relax into the task. Let me not get overwhelmed by it. Let me go to the computer, print out my labels, get my packages ready. I'm not going to rush through it and be spazzy. I'm going to be intentional. This person ordered from me. They deserve my attention right now.
They deserve me wrapping up their package nicely instead of jamming it into an envelope and throwing it in my trunk. Okay. They spent money with you. So be intentional about that. Take a second, even to be grateful and be like, wow, this is, thank goodness for this amazing order. I'm so grateful for this order that I'm actually being able to live out my dream here and do what I've always wanted to do. And this person spent fricking money on me and my dream.
That's crazy, crazy town when we think about it right now, wait till you get to when you're walking into a meeting. And someone spending 100, 000 with you on one order. Wait till you get there and you go, Oh wow, this is a whole new level of being able to hold it all. This is a multi million dollar corporation trusting little old me to come through for them and to improve their business with the products that I have. Okay. That's the glow up era that I'm in.
It's, it's, it's a little scary at first. But I go, wait a second, I can hold this. No big deal. I've done it before, I can do it again. We got this. Instead of going into, oh my god, what I'm doing, I don't feel this, what I'm feeling, order and blah blah blah. What if this happens and what if that happens? Like, ugh, the what ifs, the what ifs will what if you to death. Nobody can sustain a positive, happy lifestyle or business like that.
So my whole purpose of today's episode is just to give you a little, a little push into the what if you could hold it all? What if you can become the woman that looks in the mirror in the morning tomorrow? Or this morning, if you're listening to this early, and goes, I got this. I'm stepping into my glow up era right now. I got this. We're gonna be diving so much more into all of this inside the glow up series. It starts Monday. I am so excited for this. This training is going to be amazing.
It's five days inside a telegram with me. It's totally free Where I walk you through what your glow up era needs to look like so you can start becoming the woman that builds a million dollar business From strategy to who you are to who you need to become We're breaking it all freaking down. Again, it's totally free. I'll put the link in the notes in the description, but you can also find the link in my bio. You can DM me on IgE or Tik Tok. Um, it's I'm a trendsetter.
com slash the glow up series, but I'll put the link right here. I cannot wait to see you inside. And by the way, once the training is over next Friday, so we start Monday, September 23rd, when the training is over on Friday, it's turning into a paid training. It's that good. So this is going to be free for this round, but then from now on out, it's going to be a paid training. So if you want to catch it for free, be sure you go to I'm a trendsetter. com slash the glow up series.
Or click the link here in the show notes or click the link in my Instagram bio or my TikTok bio. It's at ally. d. inc and we'll get you inside. I cannot wait to spend the entire week with you next week. Okay. Love you. Have a great day.