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The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome

The Aggressive Life with Brian Tomewww.briantome.com
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Episodes

Growing Lifelong Friendship With Your Kids—Live at Father+Son Camp

Every parent wants to cultivate a lifelong relationship with their kids, but how do you actually get there? In this accessible and incredibly practical talk, recorded at Crossroads Father+Son camp, Brian shares the steps he took to grow genuine friendship with his kids. Hint: it’s all about the transition between each stage of parenting. Learn more about Father+Son camp, including registration for the next one, here .

Jul 02, 202432 min

Cattle Drives, Leading at Home, and Wake-Makers—Listener Q&A with BT

You asked, BT answers. Fielding questions submitted by listeners via Instagram, Brian tackles everything from what he learned on a legit cattle drive, to his favorite forms of tobacco, to how he processed the online uproar over the Super Bowl of Preaching. Along the way, he also takes time to consider what items he’d take into the wilderness, why he’s so interested in learning new things, and how wake-makers are key to any organization. This unscripted Q&A is just the boost to keep you movin...

Jun 25, 20241 hr

What to Expect in Each Decade of Life with Bobb Biehl—Executive Mentor, Author, Sage

What if life wasn’t nearly as unpredictable as we think? That’s what executive mentor, Bobb Biehl, believes. After 50 years working with some of the most successful executives and brands on the planet, he’s uncovered patterns, challenges, and opportunities that every person will face in life—and he’s organized them by decades. According to Bobb, your 20s are for discovering what you don’t want to do; your 40s are about survival; and your 60s are the most impactful decade of your life. In a world...

Jun 18, 20241 hr 2 min

Father’s Day Bonus: Brian Reads “The Five Marks of a Father”—Audio Articles Podcast

In this crossover episode from the Audio Articles podcast, Brian reads (and adds extra commentary) on his original article, “The Five Marks of a Father.” While Father’s Day can be complicated for some, Brian helps redefine what it means to be fathered, and shares ideas on how to aggressively make the day count. Read the original article here . Find more articles from Brian here ....

Jun 14, 202411 min

Getting Back Up After a Hard Hit with Jim Kelly—NFL Legend, QB Buffalo Bills

You might think life as an NFL legend would be a cakewalk… but that’s not been Jim Kelly’s experience. The Buffalo Bills great has overcome more than his fair share of pain—from four straight Super Bowl losses, to a grim cancer diagnosis, to the death of his son from a rare neurological disorder. Like any great QB after a hard hit, each time Jim has gotten back up, dusted himself off, and kept going. In this aggressive conversation, Jim puts on a clinic around resilience and the lessons difficul...

Jun 11, 202438 min

We’re Overdue for a Spiritual Awakening, So How Do We Get There? With Dr. Michael McClymond—Historian and Professor, Saint-Louis University

According to the foremost expert on the topic, spiritual revivals and awakenings happen about every 50 years in American history. We’re long past the overdue mark. For whatever time he has left, Brian is focused on learning about, and doing everything he can, to be part of an awakening, a movement of God that makes history. Dr. Michael McClymond has written the definitive guide to every revival and awakening in American history—a two volume set that is over 1,200 pages long. Dr. McClymond brings...

Jun 04, 20241 hr 2 min

You Are More Than Your Enneagram Number with Ian Morgan Cron—Enneagram Expert, Podcaster, Author

Ian Morgan Cron is an Enneagram expert, the host of the insanely popular Typology podcast, and a best-selling author… who also just happens to be an Episcopal priest, a songwriter, and a psychotherapist. In this aggressive conversation, Ian breaks down the history of the Enneagram, shares healthy (and unhealthy) ways to use it, and explains why it’s critical to live beyond your personality type.

May 28, 20241 hr 10 min

Fighting the Shadows that War Against Men with Jon Tyson—Leader, Author, Pastor

If you never look into the shadows, you’ll never know what’s lurking there. Friend of the Aggressive Life, Jon Tyson, is equipping men to take that step, believing it is the key to pushing their lives forward. As well as being a NYC pastor and leading voice on issues related to men, Jon’s new book, “ Fighting Shadows: Overcoming 7 Lies That Keep Men From Becoming Fully Alive ,” releases today. It is a tour-de-force equipping and empowering men to not just survive, but thrive. Jump into this aggr...

May 21, 20241 hr 8 min

Changing the Way We Think About (and Buy) Cars with Kelly Stumpe—The Car Mom

Kelly Stumpe saw a gaping hole in the auto industry and she aggressively ran right through it. Also known as The Car Mom, she posts honest and insightful reviews of cars, vans, and SUVs that focus on things consumers care most about—the storage space, the cup-holders, and can you really get three carseats in the back row? She has built a thriving online community that focuses on empowering consumers (especially moms), disrupting the mighty auto-industry in its wake. This fun, insightful, and agg...

May 14, 202455 min

A Trip to Hell & A Second Chance at Life with Howard Storm—Near-Death Experiencer, Professor, Author

Art professor, Howard Storm, will never forget his trip to Paris. While traveling with students, he began to feel sick. A trip to the hospital revealed a tear in his duodenum, quickly filling his body cavity with poisonous fluids. Howard’s prognosis was dire, and while waiting for a surgeon to arrive, he died. What he experienced next—a trip toward Hell and a miraculous rescue—would change the course of the rest of his life. Howard’s incredible story just might change the way you think about lif...

May 07, 202456 min

Taming a Wild Horse in 60 Minutes with Todd Pierce—Horse Whisperer, Cowboy

Todd Pierce is a legit horse whisperer. He routinely gets into the round pen with a wild horse, one he’s never laid eyes on before, and will be riding it in less than an hour. His secret? Kindness and authority. He never hurts horses, punishes them, or takes a heavy hand. Instead, he shows them that he can be trusted, that he is good, and that he can offer the horse more than it currently has. Todd is an unbelievably aggressive man whose life is spilling over with wisdom that just might change y...

Apr 30, 202454 min

The Happiness-Marriage Connection with Dr. Brad Wilcox—Director of the National Marriage Project, Sociologist, Professor

Dr. Brad Wilcox’s angle is simple—marriage is a good thing for couples, children, communities, and the world. As the Director of the National Marriage Project, he leads a group of committed sociologists studying national marriage trends in America. What he’s seeing is alarming. Marriage rates are on a decline, age at first marriage is on the rise, and many people are writing off the institution as outdated and unnecessary. Dr. Wilcox is using all his energy to push back on that narrative, encour...

Apr 23, 202459 min

Building Life Around Friendships with Rhaina Cohen—Journalist and Author

What if the key to a meaningful life wasn’t in landing the dream job, finding a perfect spouse, or achieving all your personal goals? Journalist and author, Rhaina Cohen, believes the secret lies in the very thing most of us put on the back-burner as adults—friendships. In this aggressive conversation, Rhaina discusses the importance of friendships in ancient cultures, what kids can teach us about making friends, why men are at a disadvantage, and why proximity to friends matters. This aggressiv...

Apr 16, 20241 hr

Busy as a Beaver with Pete Rogers—USDA Beaver Trapper, Outdoor Podcaster and Author

If you look close enough, you’ll find aggressiveness even among nature. Case in point: beavers. USDA Beaver Trapper, Pete Rogers, has spent his life wrangling the hardest working mammal on earth. The lessons he’s learned go well beyond just his 9-5. Pete is a popular podcastor, author, and outdoorsman. In this aggressive discussion, he shares lessons he’s gleaned from a life spent outdoors.

Apr 09, 202451 min

Generosity Is Never A Bad Idea with Jimmy Darts—The Nicest Guy On The Internet, Influencer

Who says nice guys finish last? Jimmy Darts is proving otherwise, and just might be the brightest corner of the Internet. After building a following from trick shot videos and pranks, Jimmy shut his YouTube channel down. After a life-changing experience with Jesus, he restarted with a different perspective: blessing people in need. Jimmy creates original videos giving money to people who need it most. Be prepared for allergies, your eyes will get very moist. Jimmy is an aggressive man making a d...

Apr 02, 20241 hr 1 min

A Scientist Examines Crucifixion with Dr. Cahleen Shrier—Biologist, Stress-Expert

Hearing the story of the crucifixion, and walking through it with a biologist, are two different things. Dr. Cahleen Shrier, a professor at Azusa Pacific University and an expert on the neurobiology of stress and anxiety, walks Brian, step-by-step, through the events of Good Friday. From Jesus’ arrest in the garden, until his death on the cross, she explains what was likely happening inside his body, the pain he felt, and the endurance he showed. It is a painful, and sobering, conversation that ...

Mar 26, 20241 hr

Marriages Don’t Thrive on Monotony—A Taste of Couples Camp

Monotony isn’t leading you anywhere. In marriage, you need excitement, variety, and fun to be at your best. There’s where Couples Camp comes in. It’s 48-hours of adventure together, and it just might be the most fun you’ve had in a long time. Brian answers listener submitted questions about Couples Camp, then shares a live talk from last year. Claim your spot for this year’s Couples Camp at couplescamp.us .

Mar 19, 202440 min

Dismantling the KKK Through Friendship with Daryl Davis—Musician and Activist

You aren’t supposed to become friends with the people who hate you—but that’s exactly what Daryl Davis did. After a chance encounter with a KKK member in a Maryland bar, Daryl struck up a friendship that changed both of their lives. The KKK member renounced the group, and Daryl got access to do the thing he wanted: become the first African-American to write a book on the KKK based on first-person interviews. Through the years, as the men Daryl has met and befriended have left the Klan behind, he...

Mar 12, 202454 min

Naming and Using Your Superpower

What is your superpower? More importantly, do you know how to use it? Life levels up when you learn to leverage your strengths—you’ll play better offense and you’ll stop spinning your wheels on improving weaknesses that don’t matter. In this training, Brian unpacks the Biblical idea of anointing, how it influences the people around you, and the end goal it always drives to.

Mar 05, 202429 min

Lines and Circles: The Yin and Yang of Jesus

The seats get switched for an unexpected and insightful conversation that finds BT as the guest on his own podcast. Interviewed by his friend and colleague, Kyle Ranson, Brian covers topics like the yin and yang of Jesus, shutting out the old man to keep taking risks, and why the moon landing makes him emotional. It’s an aggressive hour that will keep you guessing and get you moving.

Feb 27, 202452 min

How Hospitality Built an Ice Cream Empire with Chip Graeter—Greater’s Ice Cream

Cincinnati’s own, Graeter’s Ice Cream, just might have the best scoop on the planet. It’s made with fresh ingredients the old-fashioned way—they still make ice cream two gallons at a time and hand pack each pint. While all that is central to Graeter’s success, it's their commitment to hospitality and customer-service that sets them apart from the field. Chief of Retail Operations, Chip Graeter, shares the family secrets, and his favorite scoops, in an Aggressive Life interview unlike any other.

Feb 20, 202453 min

Valentine’s Rewind—Libby Tome, Q&A with a Sex Therapist, and Camping

Just in time for Valentine’s Day, Brian shares clips from some of his favorite episodes on relationships, marriage, and sex. From his wife’s first appearance on the show, to a return visit by a sex therapist to answer listener questions, to a live talk from Couples Camp, there’s something in here for everyone. Put what you hear into practice, and it just might have the power to change your Valentine’s Day. Check out the full length episodes at the links below: Love and Relationship Q&A with ...

Feb 13, 202440 min

Living on Purpose with Rick Warren—The Purpose Driven Life

It’s not an exaggeration to say, Rick Warren has sold more books than any other person on the planet… ever. His book, Purpose Driven Life , is the most published, the most translated, and the most sold book in history, aside from the Bible. It sounds like rainbows and runaway success, but his story is anything but. Rick has walked through significant pain and loss that required levels of determination and grit he didn’t know possible. He has come out the other side and earned the right to be hea...

Feb 06, 20241 hr 16 min

Ghost Hunting, Weed, Talking to Your Kids about Sex, and More—Listener Q&A

BT spends an hour answering a grab bag of listener questions submitted via Instagram. Do you believe in aliens? Is it sinful to go ghost hunting? What is your best advice for raising daughters? How do I talk to my kids about porn? What does the Bible say about cussing? BT brings his perspective on all these questions, and much, much more. Missed your chance to submit a question? Follow BT on Instagram so you don’t miss the next opportunity....

Jan 30, 202458 min

Your 9-5 Has Eternal Significance with Jordan Raynor—Author, “The Sacredness of Secular Work”

While almost everybody is working for the weekend, Jordan Raynor has a different perspective. He believes your 9-5 has eternal significance, even if (or especially if) you labor in a “secular” job. His new book, “The Sacredness of Secular Work,” emphasizes the importance of work ethic, understanding the holistic story of scripture, and redeeming the idea of heaven. A leading voice in the faith at work movement, Jordan is a refreshing and brilliant guest who will change the way you think about wo...

Jan 23, 20241 hr 2 min

The MLK You Didn’t Learn About in School with Chuck Mingo & Troy Jackson—Undivided

Martin Luther King Jr. is on the shortlist of the most influential people in history. But much of what we know about the pastor and civil rights figure is summarized and sanitized. Alongside historian Troy Jackson, and modern racial justice leader Chuck Mingo, get reintroduced to the aggressive life of Dr. King, and let his wins (and losses) push you to fight for a better tomorrow. Learn more about the work of Undivided here .

Jan 15, 20241 hr

When Winning Looks Like Losing with Matt Chandler—Pastor, Speaker, Author

The aggressive life isn’t necessarily the easy life. Matt Chandler knows this first-hand. Just when it looked like he was on top of the world, things started to crumble. He fought through a debilitating brain cancer diagnosis, made the aggressive choice to shrink his church (on purpose), and grappled with the lessons of suffering. Incredibly, he’s come out the other side more resilient, a better leader, and a more engaged father. Matt Chandler is a deep well of aggressiveness that will inspire y...

Jan 09, 20241 hr 3 min

The Key To a Better 2024—Live from Brian’s Garage

As a new year begins, join Brian live in his garage for a special edition of his Youtube show, Garage Bible Study . Using his Jeep restoration project as an example, Brian unpacks his method for looking back on the past year, and finding vision for the next. No matter if 2023 was a banner year for you, or you’re happy to see it go, you can have a better year in 2024 by learning to take stock. Find more of Brian’s Youtube show, Garage Bible Study , here ....

Jan 02, 202426 min

An Exorcist, A Spy, and Braveheart —A Look Back at 2023

2023 was a landmark year for The Aggressive Life. In this retrospective episode, Brian looks back on some of his favorite interviews of the year—from his initial conversation with Father Vincent Lampert, a trained-in-Rome exorcist, to Braveheart screenwriter Randall Wallace. Missed the initial conversations, or need a refresh? Find links to the full episodes below. Standing Up to the Devil with Fr. Vincent Lampert ( Spotify | Apple ) Praying Live on ESPN with Dan Orlovsky ( Spotify | Apple ) Get...

Dec 26, 202340 min

Growing Christmas Trees (and Traditions) For Over 50 Years with Sheldon Corsi—2nd Generation Christmas Tree Farmer

Corsi Tree Farm is Cincinnati's largest and longest-running Christmas tree farm, covering over 100 acres of evergreens in a variety of types and sizes. The man behind it all, Sheldon Corsi, is humble and hard-working, investing 7-10 years of labor into a tree that might spend 30 days at the center of your Christmas celebrations. Learning the tricks of the trade from his father, he’s been growing trees and creating holiday traditions for over 50 years. In this conversation, he talks about everyth...

Dec 19, 202357 min
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