Sex

Let’s talk about sex. Discussing their own sexual journeys from young lads to now, Leggy & Daniel touch on what factors have influenced their sexual experiences over time; including shame, drugs, and loneliness. This is an extremely honest conversation between 2 LADS. 

The 2 LADS podcast tackles big topics with brutal honesty and vulnerability; replacing shame and guilt with truth and love in the quest for emotional and spiritual growth. These conversations are unflinching, uncomfortable, funny... and ongoing.

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(03:27) - Discovering sex - “I would be on the bus going to school, and I couldn't get off at the stop because the bumps would cause me to have an erection.” 

(08:51) - Sex and shame - “It's part of the human experience, and it's so close to the shadows and the darkness and the shame. It's such a tragedy that we all get lost in that. Sex, sexuality, the shadow, all of these things are all linked.” 

(09:51) - Enjoying sex - “There's something about the feeling being so good—as in so complete—that feels very close to feeling like you shouldn't be that free.”

(10:47) - A confusing and lonely journey - “You can't talk to your parents about it. It's hard to even really talk to your mates about it. So you're having these monumental, life-changing experiences on your own without too much information about it.”

(18:32) - Instant gratification - “Sometimes I’m still adolecent in regards to sex in that the gratification becomes very important very quickly.”

(20:27) - Struggling with sex while sober - “The first relationship I had after getting sober was a long-term relationship, and that was difficult for me to show up sexually, because what I associated my high sexuality with was bad behavior. So when I got sober, for example, from drugs and alcohol, my promiscuity also went out with all that.”

(23:01) - Sex can be about different things - “There’s different kinds of sex. There’s sex with someone that you’re in love with, and then there’s disconnected sex.”

(25:06) - Extreme sex - “It would be like diving into a pool of skittles and then just opening your mouth and swimming. Like, ‘What flavor is that?’ It doesn't matter. There’s strawberry. There's all the flavors happening all at once.” 

(28:51) - Sex and connection - “Ultimately, I think that the deepest sexual experiences come when you do have a spiritual and emotional connection. That’s the goal. That’s the hope. There’s fear around that as well, because you’re being seen by someone that you are intimately connected to.”

(29:21) - Sex is the crux of everything in the world - “Everything that’s been made is so that somebody could have sex with somebody else, ‘We are making these objects, so that I can make a profit to make money so that I can have more sexual partners.’”

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