In this episode, Neeta Bhushan joins Alexa to discuss her new book "That Sucked, Now What?" which offers a practical five-stage framework to embrace the possibilities in chaos, overcome setbacks with grace, and fly forward every time. They discuss toxic positivity, personal responsibility, radical self-awareness, emotional capacity, and embodiment practices to cultivate resilience and bounce back from difficult situations. Today on That Sex Chick: Giving yourself permission to acknowledge when t...
Mar 08, 2023•44 min•Ep. 141
“Intimacy Doctor” Alexandra Stockwell joins Alexa for a juicy conversation on being fully self-expressed in your relationship and uncompromising in your intimacy. Alexandra unpacks ways we compromise in our intimacy and how it can lead to a bland and unfulfilling relationship, while also sharing insights on how to practice awareness to begin speaking up about your needs. Tune in as they explore how to cultivate curiosity and create more connection in your communication with your partner, and unl...
Mar 01, 2023•53 min•Ep. 140
Join Alexa and Jordan in this episode as Jordan shares his journey of learning to embrace his dominant side. You’ll hear how it was a difficult path, as Jordan struggled with feelings of inadequacy while Alexa felt like her kinkiness was too much for him to handle. But they found a way to navigate through the tension and dissonance, pushing past the honeymoon phase and exploring things they hadn't done before. Jordan prioritized his sexual development and found ways to lean into his dominant sid...
Feb 22, 2023•51 min•Ep. 139
Talia Koren, the ultimate dating guru, joins Alexa to share her tantalizing insights on dating intentionally and with confidence. With 61 first dates under her belt in just 10 months, Talia dishes out the juicy lessons of her journey, along with what she learned from exiting a 6-year relationship. Get ready to savor her tips on crafting a dating app bio, setting boundaries and desires, and indulging in a healthier mindset towards dating. The goal? To help you have a positive and enjoyable dating...
Feb 15, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 138
Get ready to up your sexual game and close the orgasm gap! In this juicy episode, we welcome Dr. Laurie Mintz, a leading expert in the field of sex therapy and the author of "A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex" and "Becoming Cliterate." She explains the differences between men and women when it comes to orgasm and shares her expertise on teaching female orgasm. The orgasm gap is a cultural problem, and Dr. Mintz provides practical solutions to close it, including the use of lube, vibrators,...
Feb 08, 2023•54 min•Ep. 137
Josh and Katy Whalen, the founders of Blokes for Him and Joi for Her, join the show to discuss the powerful impact of hormone optimization and peptide therapy on health and fertility. You’ll hear their personal story of how peptides not only healed their health but also their marriage. The conversation delves into the impact of hormone optimization on fertility and relationships, and the importance of being proactive and preventative in our approach to health care. Josh and Katy share their fert...
Feb 01, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 136
In this episode, Lex and Jordan guide listeners through their process of setting a New Year’s theme and intention for their relationship. They talk about intentional reflection on where they have been and where they are going, as well as milestones, celebrations, and hard moments. The couple shares their method of choosing a word for their relationship and using it as a guide for practices and goal-setting, along with ways to hold each other accountable. Lex and Jordan also discuss the importanc...
Jan 25, 2023•57 min•Ep. 135
Jessica Zweig is the CEO of The SimplyBe. Agency and a personal branding expert. Today, she and Alexa divulge what it’s like to be in business with your significant other. Jess shares how aligning as one team with the same mission, values, and dream transformed her marriage. She shares how she and her husband create conscious boundaries between their marriage and working relationship, and ways they shift from their CEO and CFO energy into husband and wife intimacy. Today on That Sex Chick: What ...
Jan 18, 2023•56 min•Ep. 134
Wendy Perkins is on the show to unpack how anxiety and ADHD impact sex, connection, and navigating the world. She provides a look into the mind of someone with ADHD, and shares simple practices for calming the mind, feeling safe in your body, and increasing dopamine production. Whether you struggle with anxiety and ADHD or love someone who does, may this episode provide insight and tools for navigating this invisible challenge. Today on That Sex Chick: Anxiety addiction & dopamine’s role How...
Jan 11, 2023•52 min•Ep. 133
Today’s conversation with Johnathan White is all about semen retention and non-ejaculatory orgasms for men, and how this can impact sex, love, and relationships. Learn why men would want to embark on this journey of separating their orgasms from ejaculation, and simple practices to begin. You’ll gain insight into the benefits like connecting deeper to yourself and your partner, shortening the orgasm gap, improving energy levels, and no longing experiencing the refractory period. Today on That Se...
Jan 04, 2023•39 min•Ep. 132
Transformation expert and coach Nikki Sharp is on the show to unpack the question of — what does it really take to become the person you want to be to attract what you desire? Nikki explores how change happens when we accept where we are with love, and shares how we can learn to unconditionally love our shadows sides. She also unravels why we often stay in relationships that are not working, and how through letting go and doing the healing work, we will truly create a life we love full of freedo...
Dec 28, 2022•53 min•Ep. 131
Dr. Lorne Brown is the Clinical Director of Acubalance Wellness Centre and host of the Conscious Fertility podcast. If you’re on the conception journey, you’ve probably become aware of how conceiving is not as easy as we think. Today, Alexa openly shares the fears and stories she’s been working through during her road to conception. It’s a deeply emotional process, and Dr. Lorne unpacks how it’s an opportunity to evolve consciously. He shares advice for addressing the physical and emotional aspe...
Dec 21, 2022•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 130
Rachel Maine is a former therapist turned sex and relationship coach! Today, Rachel unravels why she chose to pivot careers and the differences between the two models, including the business aspects and working with clients. Rachel also shares why someone would choose to work with a coach versus therapist, and what elements to consider when finding your perfect fit. Today on That Sex Chick: Why Rachel pivoted from being a therapist to coach Pros, cons, & differences of sex therapy and coachi...
Dec 14, 2022•58 min•Ep. 129
Holistic Gynecologist Dr. Shawn Tassone is passionate about women having an active role in their care. Through this conversation, you’ll hear what is possible when you find a doctor that listens and advocates for you. He takes the best components of both allopathic and alternative medicine to find solutions for treating symptoms and the body as a whole. Today on That Sex Chick: Bridging the gap between allopathic & alternative medicine How acknowledging someone’s experience heals How to advo...
Dec 07, 2022•56 min•Ep. 128
Dr. David Ley is a therapist and psychologist here to de-shame, debunk, and shed light on the idea of sex as an addiction. He unpacks the impact growing up religious or with morally conservative beliefs has on people identifying as sex addicts, discussing why it’s crucial we make sexuality a healthy part of life. David and Alexa break down how after 40 years, the sex addiction model of treatment still has no positive impact, and how leaning into self-compassion and acceptance are actual solution...
Nov 30, 2022•49 min•Ep. 127
Today, Adam Roa joins Alexa to give hot tips on how to break up better. He talks about why breakups are some of the most painful experiences we go through, exploring how it’s a simultaneous dissolution of our past, present and future. They are an opportunity to redefine who you are, and explore yourself, what you want, your fears, your magic — aspects you can only see when you’re in your single, sovereign energy. Adam unpacks his learnings from his year-long relationship hiatus, divulging how to...
Nov 23, 2022•1 hr•Ep. 126
Alexa and Jordan open up about their pregnancy journey, sharing the challenges they faced leading up to conception, and the devastation and grief from miscarriage. They unpack how it impacted their marriage and what Jordan’s learned about being fully present with Alexa and holding her emotions. Today’s show may do more than tug on your heart strings — it’s real, raw life. May it accompany those who feel alone in their own process and be of service to the hearts that need it. Today on That Sex Ch...
Nov 16, 2022•1 hr 25 min•Ep. 125
Grab your tissues, ‘cause Lex and Bryn are on the mic for a PSA that will bring some tears. Today on That Sex Chick: Full body yes & living in vans: Bryn’s path with Sex & Love Co. Lex & Bryn’s reflections on their growth together What Bryn’s excited for in her next chapter Leaning in and trusting yourself & the process Bryn’s goodbye to the community Connect with Bryn: Instagram: @bryndaylor Connect with Alexa: Instagram: @thatsexchick Website: sexandlove.co Free resources: sexa...
Nov 09, 2022•33 min•Ep. 124
Dr. Cat Meyer is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex, trauma, and Ketamine Assisted Therapy. Today she and Bryn dive into sexual healing through psychedelics, specifically empathogens like Ketamine, and how it allows us to connect with our trauma in a way that does not dysregulate the nervous system. Dr. Cat shares why Ketamine therapy is also powerful for couples, unpacking how it removes walls for vulnerability so they have a safe container to share fears and desires. Today on That ...
Nov 02, 2022•50 min•Ep. 123
Alexa and Jordan are back on the mic to unpack what it means to do “the work” as a couple, including personal and sexual development. The path of growth looks different for everyone, and tension can arise when couples are not aligned on this path. Lex and Jordan share their own experience with navigating these waters, sharing ways to encourage your partner in their expansion and why you shouldn’t just “throw the towel in” when you feel they aren’t meeting you in your growth. Today on That Sex Ch...
Oct 26, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 122
Susan Marrufo is a yoga instructor, founder of Samarasa Center, and creator of the Yoga, Sex + Death™ retreat. Today, Susan and Alexa are going deep into the waters of shadow work, sharing their personal stories of inner excavation for experiencing true intimacy with themselves and others. Learn ways to bring awareness to the parts you keep hidden, the parts that are holding you back from connection, so you may un-numb from life and access softness within. Today on That Sex Chick: Looking deep w...
Oct 19, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 121
Get ready for Burning Man part 2 with Lex and Jordan as they finish unpacking their experience on the playa! Today, Lex dives into the series of synchronicities she experienced, fully unraveling the magic that is possible in the desert. Hear about Jordan’s flirtatious fun, and the couple’s thoughts on being open to play and pleasure when it feels right. Lex and Jordan also talk about the play party and their roles as Angels, along with the unique, disarming, and healing experience of the Foam Do...
Oct 12, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 120
Lex and Jordan are on the mic bringing you part 1 of their Burning Man recap! Get an inside look at what goes down on the Playa as they share this year’s experience compared to their first Burn in 2019. Learn about the guiding principles and structure of this nine-day event, and what makes this pilgrimage-like experience as challenging as it is expansive. Today on That Sex Chick: Guiding principles of Burning Man & its “gifting economy” Why Burning Man is a unique, pilgrimage-like experience...
Oct 05, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 119
Emily Young graduated from Sex Coach Prep School, and right out of the gate, she began helping women come back to themselves, their desires, and their connection to their bodies. You’ll hear Emily’s story of getting pregnant at 19 and the moment she realized she had lost herself in her identities of mom, wife, and employee. She shares what she did to begin getting to know herself again and how this led her to find her passion and join Sex Coach Prep School. Today on That Sex Chick: Emily’s story...
Sep 28, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 118
Today, Serena and Bryn are bringing you a vulnerable, open, and tender conversation on divorce. Serena is in the midst of uncoupling with her husband and is here to share what her relationship looked like leading up to this and her experience being fully in it. Bryn shares learnings and blessings from her divorce and offers a beautiful insight into what’s possible on the other side. Today on That Sex Chick: Serena’s divorce: how she’s navigating it & supporting herself The ‘Before’ - red fla...
Sep 21, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 117
As a board-certified OB/GYN and a leading voice in women’s health, Dr. Heather Bartos helps women get to the root cause of their health issues and empowers them to develop a relationship with their bodies and intuition. Today, she joins Bryn to unpack how to individualize your self-care practice to what you need by getting in touch with your unique design. Dr. Heather shares how she and her husband healed their sexless marriage and shares a fun game to do with your ladies to feel sexy about agin...
Sep 14, 2022•47 min•Ep. 116
Kinky meme creator and kink advocate, The Funny Dom, joins Alexa to talk about being a Sadistic Daddy Dom, D/S scene planning, and aftercare! TFD shares why he chooses to be anonymous, with Alexa unpacking her initial conflict with having an anonymous guest. They get deep into how exploring various kink archetypes helps you become more of who you truly are on a more actualized level. And to wrap up, TFD paints a picture of one of his favorite, juicy D/s scenes for you to take notes on! Today on ...
Sep 07, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 115
In today’s solo episode, Alexa shares her favorite sex toys with brand recommendations! She walks you through how to get clear on the type of experience you desire and ways to use various toys, including vibrators, anal plugs, claws, and floggers. Today on That Sex Chick: Getting clear on the type of sexual experience you want Products to use for internal vs. external stimulation Anal play: beads, plugs, prostate massagers Ideas for creating a sexy environment Types of BDSM toys & how to use...
Aug 31, 2022•45 min•Ep. 114
Rina Trevi is back on the show to join Bryn in talking about tantric healing and yoni massage! Bryn shares her recent yoni massage experience with Rina and a breakdown of what it entails. You’ll learn how yoni massage and tantric healing allow us to enjoy our sexuality in a profound way. Through yoni massage, we can begin to fully understand our pleasure, the places that challenge us, and where we are numb. It expands our capacity for pleasure through trauma release and by knowing how our yoni’s...
Aug 24, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 113
Amy Natalie is an empowerment coach and embodiment guide for conscious women, spiritual seekers, and feminine leaders. Today, Amy and Bryn explore how to reconnect with your feminine energy to improve your relationships and invite more connection, pleasure, ease, and abundance into your life. Today on That Sex Chick: How masculine/feminine energy dynamics affect relationships Using your breath to move into your feminine How to invite your partner into their masculine Operating from an empowered ...
Aug 17, 2022•45 min•Ep. 112
