Today, Bryn and her ex-husband Chris Marhefka take us behind the scenes of what their 10-year relationship looked like where sex wasn’t working and how they each stepped into their best sexual selves on the other side of it. They talk about the spicy energy and wild sex of new relationships, and how the lack of intention and communication led to avoidance, playing a role in their divorce. Bryn and Chris share how individually hiring sex coaches after separating helped them heal limiting beliefs,...
Aug 18, 2021•1 hr 35 min•Ep. 51
Host of The Kelli Show and CEO of Soulfire Productions, Kelli Tennant, is back on the show! Today, Alexa and Kelli talk about creating their own rules in relationships outside of societal norms, and how this has led to healing, stronger communication, and novel experiences in the bedroom. Kelli shares her journey leading up to having sex with women and threesomes with her fiancé, Conner, and she shares their dating process for finding others to play with. Today on That Sex Chick: Having sex with...
Aug 11, 2021•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 50
In today’s episode, Jordan interviews Alexa for her 33rd birthday! As she moves into this new year, Lex vulnerably shares what’s on her heart around familial relationships, releasing resentment, and closing loops. Jordan also asks some juicy questions on dating, Lex’s favorite advice on relationships, and her best sex experience at age 32. They wrap up the episode with Jordan sharing his birthday wish for Lex, and Lex sharing what she wants to leave behind and bring with her into this new year. ...
Aug 04, 2021•53 min•Ep. 49
Today, Alexa and Jordan are delving into how they are navigating bringing a third into their relationship to play! You’ll hear the journey that brought them to this place, including what they’ve understood relationships to be in the past and how this allows them to build a stronger foundation with more connection and love. They talk about their concerns, hesitations, what they’re most excited about, along with the process of finding an incredible woman to treat like a queen! Today on That Sex Ch...
Jul 28, 2021•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 48
Today, Alexa and Bryn are unpacking the new erotic Netflix series, ‘Sex/Life’. The ladies reveal their thoughts on the show, exploring various scenes and the positive and shadow aspects of the series. This episode is for anyone who has watched ‘Sex/Life’ from start to finish because there are SPOILERS! Today on That Sex Chick: Alexa & Bryn’s perspectives on the series “Sex/Life” The waning passion in Billie’s marriage & the lack of communication between partners Personal responsibility, ...
Jul 21, 2021•1 hr 49 min•Ep. 47
Today, Alexa and Bryn are giving you a peek into the language of kink! Exhibitionist, switch, brat, rope bunny… learn through their delicious stories what these terms mean, how you may connect with them, and the imagination and play behind all of it. Today on That Sex Chick: Juicy stories explaining the language of kink How Alexa & Jordan use erotic discipline Experience transformation through consensual pain and pleasure How kink is a way for adults to use curiosity, imagination, & play...
Jul 14, 2021•57 min•Ep. 46
Get ready to hear about The Sex & Love Co weekend of play! Alexa is joined by her team, Bryn Daylor and Jordan Bowditch, and professional dominatrix and somatic therapist, Kimi Inch. The foursome dives deep into their sexy weekend full of personal growth, sharing the various ways this play party workshop was educational, entertaining, empowering, and erotic! Today on That Sex Chick: The physical and emotional prep for the play party What went into choosing the workshops for the play party De...
Jul 07, 2021•1 hr 32 min•Ep. 45
Arielle D'Angelo is an LGBTQ+ Self-Love Coach and founder of WeTheRainbow. Today, Elle shares her personal story of discovering her own sexuality and what her coming out process was like. Elle and Alexa also talk about navigating coming out, sex toys, and approaching same-sex sexual experiences! This is a beautiful conversation about self-love, acceptance, and embracing your sexuality. Today on That Sex Chick: Elle’s coming out process & discovering her own sexuality Using labels and identit...
Jun 30, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 44
Get ready for a juicy AF episode with the fairy godmother of female online fitness coaches, Hannah Deindorfer! Hannah starts by sharing the challenging relationship she’s had with her body and sexuality, and how exploring BDSM helped heal her trauma. You’ll hear about her relationship in a Dom/sub dynamic, what it means to be collared, and red flags to be aware of when you’re a sub looking for a Dom. Today on That Sex Chick: Deriving worth and value from your body & sexuality Hannah’s experi...
Jun 23, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 43
Dominance and submission aren’t only for the bedroom, and today you’re going to hear how this dynamic can lead to a deeply loving, trusting, fulfilling, and growth-oriented relationship. Andrew and Dawn share how their relationship evolved into a 24/7 Dom/Sub dynamic, and how having these roles have enriched their relationship and sex life. Today on That Sex Chick: How Andrew & Dawn’s relationship evolved into a 24/7 Dom/Sub dynamic How self-awareness, confidence, and personal growth played ...
Jun 16, 2021•55 min•Ep. 42
Today, Alexa and Bryn dive into the conversation on dating and sex. Bryn shares her first hand, real experience of her dating life—like how she knew she was ready to date post-divorce, being intentional on dating apps, and how she leads with the conversation of sex to avoid disappointment. The ladies unpack why it’s important to reflect on what did and didn’t work in past relationships, and how to get clear on what you desire in your next partner or hookup. At the end, Bryn shares her juicy thre...
Jun 09, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 41
Today, Alexa is unpacking all the ins and out of what it’s like to work with a sex coach. She answers questions around finding the right coach, when to work with one, the cost, and what a typical session looks like. If you’re curious about working with a sex and relationship coach, lean into it. Start as small or as big as your nervous system or bank account allows, because all of this work counts in becoming the best version of yourself, whether you are single or in a relationship. Today on Tha...
Jun 02, 2021•36 min•Ep. 40
Libby Lia and Andrew Drish approach their relationship from an unconventional lens—from taking relationship sabbaticals and having relationship “board meetings,” to BDSM and training with a dominatrix. You’ll hear how they navigate the various seasons of their relationship and what it takes to be “all in” for a lifetime. Get ready for another juicy and dynamic episode! Today on That Sex Chick: Creating a vision for your relationship with your partner What it takes to be “all in” for a lifetime &...
May 26, 2021•1 hr 19 min•Ep. 39
Taylor Lou Dixon and Jared Nations are on the show to talk about how they approach their relationship—with intention, play, adventure, communication, and a ‘yes’ mindset. From the start, they built their relationship on these foundational pieces, and continue to incorporate these values into their everyday lives. You can’t help but hear their story and feel inspired by their conscious, growth-minded approach! Today on That Sex Chick: Play, adventure, & communication as foundational pieces of...
May 24, 2021•58 min•Ep. 38
Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern is on the show to talk about consensual nonmonogamy and doing relationships in a nontraditional way. This conversation invites you to reflect on the intentionality in your relationships, and if you’re wanting to dabble in being open, understanding the ‘why’ behind it. Jessica also talks about attachment theory, exploring how our emotional experiences and wounding shows up in sex and relationships. Today on That Sex Chick: The different types of consensual...
May 19, 2021•58 min•Ep. 37
Dr. Susie Gronski is a physical therapist and sex counselor specializing in men’s sexual and pelvic pain. Today she unpacks how she challenges traditional views around men and sex, and the ways she helps men with their sexual pain and dysfunction. Dr. Susie and Alexa also talk about navigating sexual pain with your partner, what to expect when you see a pelvic health specialist, and taking ownership over your pleasure. Today on That Sex Chick: Navigating sexual pain with your partner Reframing t...
May 14, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 36
Today’s conversations shines the light of normalcy on kink and BDSM, giving you a nudge to connect with your inner freak! Jane Boon takes us through scenes in her novel Edge Play , exploring sex dungeons, dominatrixes, and BDSM experiences. Today on That Sex Chick: Erotic exploration: using your imagination for sexual playtime Sex dungeon experiences Dominatrixes, submissive men, and rope tying Allowing space to get curious about your kinks How to find BDSM and kink social events This show is su...
May 10, 2021•51 min•Ep. 35
Curious about sex play parties? Lila Donnolo is on the show to unpack everything you need to know before attending or hosting one! She breaks down what to expect at a play party, how to physically and emotionally prepare, play party etiquette and safer sex talk, and all the best practices along with red flags to look out for. This is a juicy, illuminating, and dynamic conversation that will expand your mind to what’s possible in a sex-positive culture. Today on That Sex Chick: What to expect at ...
May 05, 2021•2 hr 3 min•Ep. 34
Mercedes Terrell and Jade Bryce are on the show to talk about how they are merging sexuality and spirituality in OnlyFans, removing shame around sexuality, and helping men step into their kingdom. Today on That Sex Chick: The sexy & spiritual sides of Jade’s & Mercedes’ OnlyFans accounts OnlyFans as a modality for healing and men’s work Using OnlyFans to absolve shame around sexuality Men using OnlyFans for relationship & sex advice Deepening self-love & confidence through play a...
Apr 28, 2021•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 33
Madelyn Moon is a feminine and masculine coach and host of Mind Body Musings . Today, she beautifully shines light on how embodiment and presence allow you to feel into the subtleties of each moment, and how the deepest intimacy is found by noticing the subtle changes in your partner’s body. She dives deep into the polarities of masculine and feminine energy, and how to embody each. Alexa and Maddy talk about pain and pleasure in the bedroom, and the self-awareness that unfolds when you lean int...
Apr 26, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 32
Professional Dominatrix, sexological bodyworker, and vulnerability coach Rina Trevi is on the show to talk about Shibari (Japanese rope bondage) and power exchange for deeper self-awareness and healing of your shadow side. The art of rope tying, tantra, and BDSM are all tools Rina uses to guide individuals into ultimate surrender and vulnerability, a place where the outer world dissipates and you connect fully to your inner self. Today on That Sex Chick: The spiritual side of being a professiona...
Apr 21, 2021•1 hr•Ep. 31
Cam Fraser is Australia’s leading men’s sex coach who combines spirituality and esoteric traditions with science-backed approaches for greater self-love, awareness, and expansion. Today’s juicy conversation dives into the myths of men’s sexuality, practices to extend orgasms and non-ejaculatory orgasms, and how exploring prostate play can make you a better lover. Today on That Sex Chick: Myths of masculinity and men’s sexuality What to know about orgasms and ejaculation Rewriting narratives arou...
Apr 14, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 30
Kristopher Lovestone is a sex educator, relationship skills teacher, and author of “ Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual for Men .” Kristopher is passionate about changing the rules of the game when it comes to relationships, exploring how couples succeed in relationships and have long-term, satisfying sex lives. Today’s conversation unpacks what healthy masculinity entails, strategies for creating a conscious relationship, and how to stoke the fire in your partnership. Today on That ...
Apr 12, 2021•58 min•Ep. 29
Today, Alexa and Jordan crack open Jordan’s journey into men’s work. Jordan rewinds to childhood, unpacking how masculinity was modeled to him in the form of abandonment and calling as a replacement for presence. He shares how he initially viewed the personal development world as constricting due to growing up in a culture that made being overly authentic and vulnerable a weakness. You’ll hear how his fraternity and post-college experience led him into the realm of men’s work, and how sexual dev...
Apr 07, 2021•1 hr 34 min•Ep. 28
Dr. Lexx James is a certified sex educator and therapist, and author of the children’s book, “ These are My Eyes, This is My Nose, This is My Vulva, These are My Toes ”. In today’s conversation, Dr. Lexx shares how she helps clients heal sexual shame and relationship conflict to build and maintain long-lasting intimacy. Dr. Lexx also shines light on the therapy stigmas POC face and the common challenges she helps individuals work through. This heart-felt show will help you lean into vulnerabilit...
Mar 31, 2021•50 min•Ep. 27
Good sex, bad sex, vaginal dryness, yeast infections, birthing a child—whatever mood swing your vulva is experiencing, Private Packs has you covered! Suzanne Sinatra, founder and CEO of Private Packs, is on the show to share how these wearable ice and heat packs can bring relief to your vulva anytime, anywhere. Today on That Sex Chick: How Suzanne went from breast cancer to launching her own company Using cold and hot therapy to bring relief to your vulva Adding intention and ritual to your sex ...
Mar 29, 2021•39 min•Ep. 26
Sex, love, and embodiment coach Bryn Daylor is on the show to talk about her journey to embodiment after divorce, and the potent role pleasure played in that self-discovery. She shares her experience of being in a codependent marriage, feeling passionless, and getting the internal nudge to break into something greater. Bryn unpacks how she was able to hold the experience of pleasure amongst health challenges, and her tools for becoming more embodied—like sensual dance, self-pleasure, and connect...
Mar 24, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 25
Pamela Madsen is a certified somatic sex educator, founder of the American Fertility Association, and author of Shameless: How I Ditched the Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure...and Somehow Got Home in Time To Cook Dinner . This conversation is all about getting in touch with your body and how your power is in your pussy. By creating a relationship with your vulva, you become more embodied, and this will reflect in every aspect of your life. Pamela unpacks the experience of working with a sexo...
Mar 17, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 24
One of Alexa’s mentors and favorite teachers in the sex, love and relationship space is on the show to talk about tantra! Laurie Handlers is the author of Sex & Happiness , has produced and starred in 3 award-winning films, and is a speaker and facilitator on topics like sex, aging, and releasing emotional trauma. Today, she shares how tantra connects you to yourself, expands your capacity for pleasure, and keeps you feeling juicy as you age. Think your sex life is over when you turn 50? Hea...
Mar 15, 2021•58 min•Ep. 23
Nicole Jardim is a certified women's health coach, author of Fix Your Period , and host of The Period Party podcast! Today’s conversation is about living in harmony with the four phases of your cycle, and how each phase can affect your sex life. It’s time to stop normalizing period symptoms like PMS, pain, or irregularity, because there’s an underlying issue that can be helped! Nicole also talks about tracking your cycle, libido and lubrication, and the benefits of having your partner track with...
Mar 10, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 22
