This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are. We discuss: What is cheating Why do people cheat? Is an affair the symptom of a troubled relationship or an individual problem? Can a relationship survive an affair? How couples can rebuild trus...
May 28, 2025•54 min•Season 6Ep. 10
This podcast episode features Dr. Maria Sophocles, who has been a practicing gynecologist for 29 years and is an internationally respected expert in menopause and female sexual function. She is the founder of Women's Healthcare of Princeton, a progressive gynecology practice serving over 30,000 women in the U.S. Emily and Maria discuss: Menopause and why everyone needs to learn about it How Menopause can affect sex The bedroom gap Labiaplasty Expanding your experience of sex FOLLOW US on Instagr...
Apr 16, 2025•53 min•Season 6Ep. 9
This episode features Niamh Mannion the founder of My Friend In Sex Ed. Emily and Niamh discuss: ADHD How ADHD can have positive impacts on relationships Other ways ADHD could impact relationships Rejection sensitivity Oversharing How a neurotypical or non-ADHDer can support an ADHD partner FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncan...
Apr 03, 2025•42 min•Season 6Ep. 8
How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni This episode features Nicole Colantoni who is a dating coach, ehrmony Australia’s dating expert and podcast host of Love uncensored: the modern guide to dating and relationships. Emily and Nicole discussed: Dating rules How dating rules differ between generations Dating advice Is your type really right for you? FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thats...
Mar 27, 2025•41 min•Season 6Ep. 7
This episode features Laurie Love who is a Certified Erotic Blueprint™ and Intimacy Coach. She empowers individuals and couples to navigate the intricacies of intimacy through the 5 Erotic Blueprint™ types framework which helps us understand how we are wired for pleasure. Emily and Laurie discuss: Laurie's journey to become an intimacy coach What is the erotic blueprint? How do we discover what our erotic blueprint is? Why is this helpful and how can we use it? What to do if your partner has a d...
Mar 19, 2025•43 min•Season 6Ep. 6
This episode features Laura Lee who is a psychologist & sexologist with over 17 years of experience in clinical practice and coaching. She is the Director of Blue Space Psychology where she provides individual psychological and sexual therapy. In addition to clinical practice, Laura provides supervision, professional consultation and workshops to healthcare providers. She also offers online courses, education and coaching, and is a sought after speaker and trainer. Laura‘s work has been publ...
Mar 12, 2025•37 min•Season 6Ep. 5
This episode features Laura Federico and Morgan Miller, the authors of The Cycle Book. Laura is a psychotherapist and certified sex and relationship therapist in private practice. Morgan is a certified professional midwife, lactation consultant, activist, and birth center founder in private practice. Emily, Laura and Morgan discuss: What can you track in your menstrual cycle? What are the menstrual phases and what can they feel like? The importance of tracking your cycle Why you shouldn’t digita...
Mar 05, 2025•46 min•Season 6Ep. 4
This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are. We discuss: Mismatched desire How to rebuild desire in your relationship Navigating conflict in relationships Not trusting your partner to hold information/explore difficult issues with you FOLL...
Feb 26, 2025•59 min•Season 6Ep. 3
In this episode, Emily is joined with Matt Barr who has gained notoriety as the man with the world's biggest penis (according to multiple independent medical studies, measuring him at over 36cm/14.5), a title he humorously embraces while shedding light on the complexities of his life. His journey into the public eye began with a Channel 4 documentary entitled My Massive C**k. In his upcoming memoir, A Long Story: Life With The World’s Large, Matt delves into the physical and mental health aspect...
Feb 19, 2025•33 min•Season 6Ep. 2
Welcome to season 6 of That's Orgasmic! This episode is being released on Emily's 25th birthday, so what better way to celebrate than discussing 25 things Emily has learnt about sex as a sexologist. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emi...
Feb 12, 2025•33 min•Season 6Ep. 1
In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof Emily and Nicole discuss: What is anxiety? Why do we experience anxiety? Difference between being diagnosed with anxiety and experiencing anxiety How does anxiety impact romantic relationships? Inner child work Communication between the brain and your body during an emotional response How to regulate during a fight with four steps The vagus nerve FOLLOW US on Ins...
Oct 09, 2024•29 min•Season 5Ep. 38
In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof Emily and Nicole discuss: How to have a scary conversation with someone Boundaries How a lack of boundaries can impact anxiety relationship check-ins Flop and fracture response what to do if your partner is dissociating What to do if your partner is overstimulated FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@that...
Oct 09, 2024•28 min•Season 5Ep. 39
In this episode, Emily is joined by Anna Rahe. Anna is the founder of GST Body and a somatic expert with over 25 years of professional experience. Emily and Anna discuss: What is fascia/connective tissue system Why fascia is important and how it impacts our sex lives Sexual pain and fascia Why you may be experience a lack of pleasure during sex How to support the pelvic floor muscles Sexual trauma and pelvic pain Reflective systems in the body (throat to pelvic floor) FOLLOW US on Instagram @tha...
Oct 02, 2024•55 min•Season 5Ep. 37
This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring their partnership. Featuring Mim Kempson a dating and relationship coach. Emily and Mim discuss: What is a dating and relationship coach? When should you see a relationship coach? Biphobia Common bisexual myths How can a bisexual woman honour her sexuality with a cis-gendered heterosexual man when polyamory and opening the relationship isn't on the ta...
Sep 25, 2024•53 min•Season 5Ep. 36
In this episode, Emily explores losing your sense of self while in a relationship and how you can reclaim your individuality. Emily explores six signs that you may be losing your sense of self and then provides six strategies to overcome this phenomenon. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the ...
Sep 18, 2024•25 min•Season 5Ep. 35
In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought wa...
Sep 11, 2024•28 min•Season 5Ep. 34
In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought wa...
Sep 04, 2024•33 min•Season 5Ep. 33
In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions. Where does the line get drawn between respecting someone’s personal boundaries and expanding their sexual horizons? Do women like dick pics? Connection games for lovers What do I do if sex starts to feel dull? Why does it hurt when I have sex? Is it normal to have never orgasmed? How to bring up non-monogamy with a partner FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasm...
Aug 28, 2024•36 min•Season 5Ep. 32
In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions. My vibrator recommendations I want to try anal, but it always hurts, what can I do? How much sex do people have? Can you desensitise your nerves (clitoris) from using vibrators? Is porn bad? FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for ...
Aug 07, 2024•28 min•Season 5Ep. 31
This episode features Dr. Cathleen Brown who is a board-certified OB/GYN from Philadelphia. Emily and Dr. Cat discuss: What is menopause? What is Perimenopause? Menopause myths Vaginal atrophy Sex and menopause How to support yourself to have a healthier menopause FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a revie...
Jul 31, 2024•34 min•Season 5Ep. 30
In this episode Emily discusses Cuckolding. Topics include: What is cuckolding? Why do people engage in cuckolding? How to practice cuckolding How to talk to your partner about cuckolding Things to think about in terms of cuckolding FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a di...
Jul 24, 2024•23 min•Season 5Ep. 29
In this episode, Emily discusses NDIS minister Bill Shorten’s proposed changes in the NDIS to remove sex work. Emily discusses why this should not happen, the impact this would have on disabled people and why sex work should be a service that disabled people can access. This episode was posted early due to this being a current issue. Sign the petition: https://www.progressivetherapeutic.com.au/sex-work-counselling FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to...
Jul 15, 2024•24 min•Season 5Ep. 28
In this episode Emily discusses what to first do if you want to increase your desire for sex. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website f...
Jul 10, 2024•19 min•Season 5Ep. 27
Trigger warning this episode discusses sexual assault. In this episode, Emily discusses having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia, Emily breaks down what sexsomnia is and what it can look like. She shares stories of people who have experienced sexsomnia, what can cause sexsomnia and how to support someone who lives with sexsomnia. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology fo...
Jul 03, 2024•21 min•Season 5Ep. 26
This episode features partners Stace and Ty. Stace is an intimacy coach and Ty a health coach. They both want to take the taboo and intimidation out of sex. They want people to embrace sexploration and kinksploration to fulfill their sexual potential. They have a kink for being watched and Only Fans is their means to fulfill this on demand. Emily, Stace and Ty discuss: What is Under the Sheets How Under the Sheets support couples and individuals sex lives Exhibitionism and how Stace and Ty decid...
Jun 26, 2024•37 min•Season 5Ep. 25
This episode features Irene Fehr, a Sex & Intimacy Coach who weaves together somatic sex coaching, mindfulness, and emotional communication work, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection Sex approach with monogamous long-term couples struggling with a sexless marriage who come to her often as a last resort before divorce to turn things around towards deeper sexual intimacy and passion. She also works with single women on embodying their sexuality and working throu...
Jun 19, 2024•50 min•Season 5Ep. 24
This episode feature Niamh Mannion who is a Developmental Educator and Sexologist who loves all things disability and sexuality. Emily and Niamh discuss: What is a developmental educator? What is neurodivergence? What are sensory needs? What is a sexuality sensory diet? What is a Sexuality Dopamenu? Emily and Niamh create a Sexuality Dopamenu Neurodivergent love langauges FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a s...
Jun 12, 2024•48 min•Season 5Ep. 23
In this solo episode, Emily discusses why you don't need a bigger penis. Emily also shares tips for exploring pleasure and tips for overcoming body image concerns. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my...
Jun 05, 2024•22 min•Season 5Ep. 22
This episode featured Dana Da Silva who is a single mum of two based in Sydney, Australia. She's a part-time media adviser and an indie author with big dreams. She considers putting pen to paper to be an exquisite art, free therapy, and a form of meditation. The Shift is her debut book. Emily and Dana discuss: Dana’s experience with OCD Paedophilic OCD How to support somebody with OCD BDSM Is BDSM spiritually good for you? Our experiences with orgasm becoming easier to obtain Dana’s experience w...
May 29, 2024•56 min•Season 5Ep. 21
This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist (AHPRA) , Board Approved Supervisor (AHPRA) , training author, and the Director and Founder of SHIPS. Sarah created SHIPS because she saw a deep need for safe and inclusive spaces to talk about sex and connection. She sees liberating expression of sexuality from fear, isolation, and shame as her personal and professional purpose. In this episode Emily and Dr. Sarah Ashton discuss: What is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD...
May 22, 2024•48 min•Season 5Ep. 20
