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That Hoarder: Overcome Compulsive Hoarding

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Hoarding disorder is stigmatised and people who hoard feel vast amounts of shame. This podcast began life as an audio diary, an anonymous outlet for somebody with this weird condition. That Hoarder speaks about her experiences living with compulsive hoarding, she interviews therapists, academics, researchers, children of hoarders, professional organisers and influencers, and she shares insight and tips for others with the problem. Listened to by people who hoard as well as those who love them and those who work with them, Overcome Compulsive Hoarding with That Hoarder aims to shatter the stigma, share the truth and speak openly and honestly to improve lives.
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Episodes

#138 The Accountability Effect: Accountability, encouragement and mutual support when tackling hoarding and dehoarding

Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Podcast transcript: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/podcast-ep-138-the-accountability-effect-accountability-encouragement-and-mutual-support-when-tackling-hoarding-and-dehoarding/ In today's episode, I talk about holding yourself accountable by yourself. Then I talk about holding yourself accountable if you've got an accountability buddy. And then I'm going to talk about holding yourself accountable if ...

May 03, 202442 minSeason 1Ep. 138

#137 How to tackle a laundry backlog - or how to summit Mount Washmore

Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Podcast transcript: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/podcast-ep-137-how-to-tackle-a-laundry-backlog-or-how-to-summit-mount-washmore/ Today, the daunting task of tackling a laundry backlog. In this episode, I discuss practical strategies to conquer Mount Washmore and take control of the laundry chaos. From decluttering to creating a laundry system, I look at ways to streamline the process and prevent clot...

Apr 26, 202447 minSeason 1Ep. 137

#136 The lies, contradictions and justifications we tell ourselves about our stuff - I dissect and debunk 19 of them!

Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Podcast transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/ In this episode I talk about 19 lies we tell ourselves about our stuff that help us to remain hoarders rather than break free from drowning in stuff. Acknowledging the Difficulty in Addressing Hoarding Behaviour Emphasising the possibility of change and the necessity of taking action. Challenging Justifications for Hoarding Negative impact on social in...

Apr 19, 202453 minSeason 1Ep. 136

#135 Don't know where to start? 31 things you can dehoard today

Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Podcast transcript: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/podcast-ep-135-dont-know-where-to-start-31-things-you-can-dehoard-today/ Sometimes you want to get something done, but you just need somebody to tell you where to start, right? You need a nudge. Because if we have too much choice in front of us, it can become overwhelming. Benefits of becoming a Dehoarding Darling supporter for the podcast New feature ...

Apr 12, 202449 minSeason 1Ep. 135

#134 What therapists and mental health professionals need to know about working with hoarders, with Dr Jan Eppingstall

Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Podcast transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/ Today with Dr Jan Eppingstall, I look at the nuanced approaches needed for effectively supporting people with hoarding disorder. Jan provides valuable insights for therapists, emphasising the importance of curiosity, collaboration, and empathy in therapeutic sessions. The episode explores evidence-based interventions, the significance of exposure thera...

Apr 05, 20241 hr 8 minSeason 1Ep. 134

#133 What to prioritise when you can only do the absolute basics

Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Podcast transcript: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/podcast-ep-133-what-to-prioritise-when-you-can-only-do-the-absolute-basics/ Today, I talk about prioritising when you're facing a hoarding situation and can only manage the absolute basics, with guidance for people struggling with motivation, energy, and overwhelming emotions like depression or grief. Tackling the challenges of hoarding when feeling de...

Mar 29, 202420 minSeason 1Ep. 133

#132 How to dehoard when you’re really, really busy: tackling clutter in tiny time slots

Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Podcast transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/ In today's episode, I talk about trying to dehoard when life is jam-packed with commitments. I share practical tips for making the most of those precious spare moments, tackling small areas at a time, and procrastination. I discuss productive procrastination, setting achievable goals, and seeking help, as well as valuable insights on time management, p...

Mar 22, 202440 minSeason 1Ep. 132

#131 Compassionate productivity with Meg Kissack of the Daily Pep: Challenging the Cult of Productivity, Rethinking Self-Care and Embracing Vulnerability

Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Podcast transcript: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/podcast-ep-131-compassionate-productivity-with-meg-kissack-of-the-daily-pep-challenging-the-cult-of-productivity-rethinking-self-care-and-embracing-vulnerability/ Today I welcome Meg Kissack to talk about compassionate productivity. We discuss the importance of showing up for yourself, taking imperfect action, and acknowledging the value of rest. We ge...

Mar 15, 202454 minSeason 1Ep. 131

#130 Loneliness and hoarding with Vassia Sarantopoulou: build human connections and combat hoarding-related shame

Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Episode transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/ Today, I look at the link between loneliness and hoarding behaviour with special guest Vassia Sarantopoulou, an expert psychologist and relationship counsellor. Come on a thought-provoking journey as Vassia and I discuss the complexities of loneliness, and practical steps for combating the shame associated with hoarding. There's the deep impact of soci...

Mar 08, 202443 minSeason 1Ep. 130

#129 Is this the hill you want to die on? Psychological flexibility, rigidity and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Today, I'm looking at psychological flexibility and rigidity with Dr. Jan Eppingstall. Join us as we explore the impact of changing hoarding behaviours and learn about Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) as a powerful tool in addressing psychological inflexibility. Discover the six core processes of psychological flexibility and inflexibility, and gain insights into challenging rigid beliefs. We'll also discuss...

Mar 01, 20241 hr 3 minSeason 1Ep. 129

#128 Time management and hoarding: How living in a hoard impacts your time, stress and productivity

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe I take a look at the time-consuming nature of living in a hoard, including the impact of clutter on daily life. I cover the stress, procrastination, and decision fatigue that come with hoarding to shed light on the ways in which hoarding not only affects our living spaces but also consumes valuable time. Tune in for a candid conversation that challenges perceptions and offers a fresh perspective on the journey to o...

Feb 16, 202425 minSeason 1Ep. 128

#127 Overcoming overspending with Paige Pritchard, Money Coach

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Today, I am joined by the insightful Paige Pritchard, a money coach and the owner of the Overcoming Overspending community. Together, we dig into the complexities of overspending, addressing its emotional roots and psychological impact on individuals' lives. Paige offers invaluable insights into understanding the deeper motivations behind spending habits and emphasises the need to reclaim control and satisfaction i...

Feb 09, 20241 hr 16 minSeason 1Ep. 127

#126 Insight and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall: Unravelling anosognosia, clutter blindness, denial, psychological reactance and overvalued ideation

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Today with Dr Jan Eppingstall I explore the nuanced concept of insight in hoarding. From defining overvalued ideation to understanding the levels of insight, we unravel the challenges individuals face in recognising and addressing their hoarding behaviours. Through personal experiences, expert advice, and valuable research insights, this episode sheds light on personalised treatment approaches, effective communicat...

Feb 02, 20241 hr 16 minSeason 1Ep. 126

#125 Clearing hoarding hurdles: Anticipating and overcoming roadblocks in the dehoarding process

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe By acknowledging potential roadblocks ahead, we can prepare emotionally and practically for upcoming challenges and even get more efficient when we’re dehoarding. I talk about the importance of being proactive, realistic, creative and adaptable when facing obstacles, while also seeking professional support when needed. I look at the need for planning, prioritising, and breaking down tasks into smaller chunks to ove...

Jan 26, 202441 minSeason 1Ep. 125

#124 How the little-known Hummingbird Method can help you to dehoard the areas you’ve been avoiding

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Today I delve into my experiences of overcoming avoidant behaviours when it comes to decluttering. I share how the Hummingbird Method has been instrumental in breaking down the fear and anxiety associated with tackling daunting hoarded areas. Join me as I explore the power of gentle, gradual progress and the freedom that comes from challenging rigid beliefs and behaviours. New method for managing tasks: hummingbird...

Jan 19, 202432 minSeason 1Ep. 124

#123 The emotional impact of emergency dehoarding: confronting paralysis, shame, terror, panic and exhaustion

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe In today's episode, I delve into the emotional impact of emergency dehoarding. Over the last few weeks, I've faced the daunting task of decluttering my home in preparation for an impending electrical testing. I explore the rollercoaster of emotions, from terror and shame to motivation and determination, as I grapple with the challenges of addressing my hoarding situation. Join me as I uncover the journey of navigat...

Jan 12, 202440 minSeason 1Ep. 123

#122 From ’it’ll do’ to ’make do’

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe After a year where my subverted phrase of the year was "it'll do", I talk about how I'm hoping to continue shedding perfectionism and learn to be more resourceful and adaptable. Tune in to hear all about it. 2023 phrase "it will do" calms my perfectionist anxiety Striving for tidiness, resisting hoarding tendencies Retiring items when its purpose has been fulfilled Embracing "it'll do" mentality for 2023 led to les...

Jan 05, 202421 minSeason 1Ep. 122

Remix: Dehoarding: where to start

A replay of one of my most popular episodes, which I made in response to one of the listener questions I hear the most. Enjoy! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dec 22, 202345 min

#121 Can virtual reality help to treat hoarding disorder? With Dr Hannah Raila

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe In today's episode, I look at the intriguing use of virtual reality in treating hoarding disorder with our guest, Dr. Hannah Raila. Dr. Raila, a psychology researcher at UC Santa Cruz, shares her insights on how virtual reality can help individuals desensitise to distress and practice discarding virtual possessions. She discusses the immersive nature of the VR experience, the potential for the technology to attract...

Dec 15, 202333 minSeason 1Ep. 121

#120 What a crooked church spire can tell us about failure and flaws and weirdness

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe In this episode, I delve into the weird world of imperfections, flaws, and uniqueness. Drawing inspiration from the Crooked Spire of Chesterfield, I share personal struggles with self-criticism and acceptance. It's a round-about look at authenticity and self-acceptance, via imperfections and community. I also share a hoarding secret from a listener and a top tip. Join me! Chesterfield's Crooked Spire Folklore and r...

Dec 08, 202340 minSeason 1Ep. 120

#119 Homelessness and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe In today's episode, Dr Jan Eppingstall and I will be diving into a topic that is rarely discussed - homelessness and hoarding. We will explore the limited research available on the connection between these two issues and the complex factors that contribute to both. We uncover the connections between trauma, loss, and mental health issues that can lead to both homelessness and hoarding behaviours as well as the inst...

Dec 01, 202345 minSeason 1Ep. 119

#118 Can we use AI to help us dehoard? Is it just hype or a promising solution?

Subscribe to the podcast - https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe In today's episode, I dive into the topic of using AI to help us dehoard. I have some skepticism about AI and its ability to assist with decluttering. However, after exploring various AI options I share my findings and experiences with these tools. From providing tips and schedules to even taking on personas like Dolly Parton, AI can offer some assistance in the decluttering process. I also discuss the use of AI vo...

Nov 24, 202332 minSeason 1Ep. 118

REMIX: Perfectionism and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

Subscribe to the podcast The topic for today is perfectionism and its connection to hoarding. I talk with Dr Jan Eppingstall about perfectionism and its impact on hoarding behaviour. We share personal experiences and struggles with perfectionism, discussing the fear of failure and the tendency to give up if something cannot be done perfectly. We also touch upon the importance of psychological flexibility, being present in the moment, and living by our values. Dr. Eppingstall enlightens us with i...

Nov 17, 202358 min

#117 The dark side of conscious consumerism: when shopping feels like activism, can you save the world and promote your values by acquiring stuff?

Subscribe to the podcast I've always believed in making positive change through my purchases. Recycling, supporting local businesses, and buying eco-friendly products have been my way of feeling like I'm making a difference, saving the world one shopping trip at a time. But I had a revelation. In today's episode, I'll explore the common belief that shopping can be a form of activism, that it is positive to support or promote whatever values are important to us. The struggles of aligning hoarding...

Nov 10, 202350 minSeason 1Ep. 117

#116 Hoarding vs squalor vs Diogenes Syndrome with Dr Jan Eppingstall

Subscribe to the podcast In this episode, we're diving into the topic of squalor. Is it the same as hoarding? Can you have a squalid environment without hoarding being present? Compulsive hoarding and living in unsanitary conditions can have a profound impact on us. We'll explore the key factors and distinctions between hoarding and squalor, as well as the underlying causes that contribute to these behaviours. From acquired brain injuries and cognitive impairments to mental health disorders, we'...

Nov 03, 202344 minSeason 1Ep. 116

#115 Is selling your stuff worth it? The pros and cons of selling your clutter: a hoarder’s perspective

Subscribe to the podcast Today’s episode is all about the pros and cons of selling your stuff. If you've been following my journey, you know that I have been apprehensive about selling items in the past. But I've taken a tentative step into the world of selling my clutter. Today I'm going to share the lessons I've learned and explore whether selling is truly worth it. So, grab your headphones and get ready for an insightful discussion on the potential benefits and drawbacks of selling your stuff...

Oct 27, 202342 minSeason 1Ep. 115

#114 What if I regret dehoarding? Overcoming the fear of regret and letting go

Subscribe to the podcast In this episode, I look at the topic of regret when it comes to dehoarding. Drawing from my own experiences, I delve into the fear of regret that often plagues individuals who hoard. She discusses the negative impact this anticipation of regret can have on the state of our homes and our lives, as well as the importance of reframing our mindset. Through personal anecdotes and valuable reflections, That Hoarder shares how considering the potential regrets of not dehoarding...

Oct 20, 202337 minSeason 1Ep. 114

#113 Batching: the pathway to tangible results and motivation for hoarders

Subscribe to the podcast Today's episode is all about batching and hoarding. Have you ever started a task only to get sidetracked and end up feeling disheartened and unproductive? Well, you're not alone. In this episode, I explore the concept of batching tasks together and how it can help you overcome the distractions and actually get things done. Join me as we delve into the world of productivity strategies, context switching, and the positive benefits of batching tasks. Get ready to declutter ...

Oct 13, 202330 minSeason 1Ep. 113
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