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Ten Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community

Join Sam Fagan as she celebrates her 10th anniversary out of the closet and dives into the transformative experiences and collective wisdom shared by herself and her queer friends since coming out. In each episode, Sam guides heartfelt conversations and personal storytelling, exploring the profound lessons, challenges, and triumphs encountered in the queer experience. Through intimate reflections and candid dialogue, Sam and her guests delve into topics such as self-discovery, relationships, love, and the ongoing pursuit of living life authentically.
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Episodes

Ep 13: Queer Me

In this special final episode of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," the tables are turned as I take a step back from my usual role as host and become the guest. My close friend and fellow advocate, Kimberly Culbertson, sits down for an intimate interview, delving deep into my transformative journey since coming out. As the conversation unfolds, I opens up about my experiences growing up in an evangelical community and the pivotal moment when I decided to embrace my true identity at...

Jun 30, 202341 minSeason 1Ep. 13

Ep 12: My Mom with Diane Fagan

In this heartfelt episode of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," I welcome a very special guest: my mother, Diane Fagan. Join me and my mom as we delve into an inspiring conversation about acceptance, growth, and the ever-evolving journey of understanding. As a straight woman, Diane opens up about her own experiences and the valuable lessons she has learned throughout her life. She candidly shares how, regardless of age, she continues to discover new perspectives, challenge preconce...

Jun 28, 202321 minSeason 1Ep. 12

Ep 11: Queering Life with Nancy Shadlock

In the eleventh episode of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," host Sam Fagan welcomes Nancy Shadlock, a queer woman. Join Sam and Nancy as they delve into the multifaceted aspects of Nancy's life, from growing up as a missionary kid to finding her true identity later in life. Nancy opens up about her experience of coming out at the age of 33, a pivotal moment that led her to embrace her authentic self. As a spiritual director, she realized that in order to help others, she needed t...

Jun 26, 202333 minSeason 1Ep. 11

Ep 10: Trans Joy with Jonathan Bay

In this episode of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," host Sam Fagan welcomes Jonathan Bay, a trans man who began his medical transition 16 years ago. Jonathan shares his journey of navigating limited access to trans healthcare and the challenges he faced during that time. Reflecting on his own experience, he encourages listeners to embrace who they want to be without fixating on the destination of their transition. The discussion delves into the societal pressure of traditional ge...

Jun 23, 202344 minSeason 1Ep. 10

Ep 9: Being Different with John-Allison Weiss

In the ninth episode of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," host Sam Fagan welcomes the incredibly talented John-Allison Weiss, a trans-masc, queer musician, for an inspiring conversation about their ongoing process of self-discovery. As a successful indie musician, John-Allison has found solace and empowerment through their music, but their journey of self-acceptance and coming out hasn't always been a straightforward one. Join Sam and Johnny as they delve into the multifaceted lay...

Jun 21, 202327 minSeason 1Ep. 9

Ep 8: Being Human with Ruoyun Killian

In the eighth installment of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," your host Sam Fagan welcomes Ruoyun Killian, a cisgender, bisexual woman of Asian American heritage. Join Sam and Ruoyun as they delve into her unique perspective on queerness and the absence of religious baggage surrounding her bisexuality. Ruoyun shares her personal journey and highlights the gradual yet undeniable changes she has witnessed within the queer community over the years. With her diverse background and ex...

Jun 19, 202323 minSeason 1Ep. 8

Ep 7: Queer Celebration with Kevin Garcia

In this powerful episode of “10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community,” host Sam Fagan invites Kevin Garcia, a non-binary queer individual, to share their extraordinary journey. Kevin’s upbringing within the evangelical community led them to navigate the challenging landscape of the ex-gay movement for several years. As Sam and Kevin delve into their personal experiences, they reveal the profound impact of embracing their authentic identities. Sam opens up about her own transformative journ...

Jun 16, 202326 minSeason 1Ep. 7

Ep 6: Heaven on Earth with Janan Araujo-Siam

In the sixth episode of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," your host Sam Fagan welcomes Janan, a queer cis woman, to share her inspiring journey of self-discovery and transformation. Born into a strict Muslim family in Texas, Janan defied societal expectations to forge her own path towards personal freedom and enlightenment. Join Sam and Janan as they delve into the profound impact that finding peace in the yoga world had on Janan's life. Through the practice of yoga, she discovere...

Jun 14, 202331 minSeason 1Ep. 6

Ep 5: Acceptance with Lisa Lang

Join host Sam Fagan, as she delves into the inspiring and heartfelt story of Lisa Lang, a remarkable woman from small-town Arkansas. In this episode of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," Sam and Lisa embark on a candid conversation about Lisa's journey of self-discovery, coming out as an adult, and the transformative power of self-acceptance. Growing up in a conservative environment, Lisa realized her queerness at a young age. However, the fear of judgment and rejection forced her ...

Jun 12, 202327 minSeason 1Ep. 5

Ep 4: Queer Advocacy with Dr. Megan Gandy

In the fourth episode of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," join your host, Sam Fagan (she/her), as she engages in a powerful conversation with Dr. Megan Gandy, a lesbian cis woman and passionate advocate for trans and gender-diverse people's healthcare. Together, they explore Megan's personal journey, from her upbringing in a fundamentalist, evangelical family to her transformative work as a social worker and vocal champion for marginalized communities. From a young age, Megan kne...

Jun 09, 202325 minSeason 1Ep. 4

Ep 3: Queer Goodness with Stacey Chomiak

In the third episode of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," your host Sam Fagan welcomes Stacey Chomiak, a queer woman. Together, they delve into the personal journeys that led them to trust themselves and embrace the goodness in their identities. Sam and Stacey open up about their experiences within the evangelical church, discussing the challenges they faced while navigating the expectations and pressures placed upon them by a rigid religious environment. As they recount their res...

Jun 07, 202342 minSeason 1Ep. 3

Ep 2: The Politics of Hair with Myles Markham

In the second episode of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," host Sam engages in a compelling conversation with Myles Markham, an extraordinary guest with a unique journey in the LGBTQ+ community. Myles, a queer, trans-masculine, non-binary, Māhū individual, shares their inspiring story of personal transformation and sheds light on important topics that shape their identity and advocacy. Before finding their true path, Myles was deeply immersed in the ex-gay, reparative therapy move...

Jun 05, 202345 minSeason 1Ep. 2

Ep 1: Queer Faith with Matt Overturf

Join Sam, your host, in the debut episode of "10 Years Out: Stories from My Queer Community," as she sits down with her guest, Matt Overturf. Matt, a gay man going through the ordination process in the Episcopal church, and Sam, both having grown up in the Evangelical church, engage in a candid conversation about their faith journeys since coming out. In this heartfelt episode, Matt reminds Sam—and all listeners—that we are beloved. They reflect on the challenges and victories of reconciling the...

May 31, 202337 minSeason 1Ep. 1
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