We Might be Concerned about the Wrong Edges

By definition, an 'edge' is considered the outside limit of an object or area.  It's the place furthest from the center, that provides a border. I suppose if we translate that into relationship terminology, we can refer to 'edges' as boundaries. I've said it before and I'll say it again, I'm the girl that has to learn everything the hard way. I was that kid who you'd tell the stove is hot and I'd just have to touch it to see if it was as hot as you said it is.  Yes, I'm that girl and I don't want you to be like me.  I want you to learn from my dumbness. One boundary that I kept moving further and further back-is tolerance. The outline that dictates what I should and should not accept.  One thing is for sure, the saying holds true, what you allow is what will continue.