TWTBIM_0273 Why is the Rule the Rule

IF we reflect on our rules and why we have them, what do we discover? Are some rules outdated? Do we know where they came from? Mike and Tom share skepticism about the practice of having children co-create the rules. Long lists of specific rules can lead to tattling and power struggles. Joey points out that rules have their place in helping children understand social expectations. Everyone agrees that following a set of guidelines meets the need for flexibility and allows for success along a spectrum of developmental levels.