In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how Teaching Self-Government began and dive into some of Nicholeen’s childhood and early motherhood experiences. Have you ever wondered how Nicholeen got into all of this in the first place? Curious about the inspiration behind TSG? Listen in for some great stories and experiences!
In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the differences between coddling and comforting children. Do you know toddlers that “rule the roost”? Or teens who feel entitled to an easy-going life? Listen in for more insight on this topic and tips for how to overcome it!
In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss some of the things that happen when people are so busy with so many things that they get burnt out. Do you have lots of things going on that all need to be balanced and are high priority? Do you struggle feeling like each thing is getting the attention it needs? Listen in to find out how to use TSG skills and principles to better manage your busy life!
In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the not-as-common family dynamic where grandparents take on the roles of parents in the lives of their grandchildren. Have you taken on the role of parent for a second time, even though you thought you were done parenting? Are you struggling to keep your energy up with your rambunctious charges? Listen in for some insight into and tips for taking up active parenting again after already raising children of your own!
In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the impact of one-on-one mentor meetings on children and families. Are you wanting to connect with your child more, but not sure where to start? Wishing you had more influence in your child’s life? Listen in for great tips and insight on better connection with your child!
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the value of Mom and Grandma and the ins and outs of how the world views motherhood. Do you feel like your service to your family is underestimated and underappreciated? Do you think that Mother could be replaced? Listen in for the insights of a mother and grandmother!
In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss some of the intricacies of Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), how challenging and frustrating it can be, and how TSG can address behaviors that are common with this diagnosis. Do you feel like your child is oddly distant? Do you wish they desired a better connection with you like you do with them? Listen in for great tips and insights on improving your connection with someone with RAD!
In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije go to the comments of Nicholeen’s YouTube channel and address a situation posed by a nanny, wondering how to navigate the complexities of “handling” other people’s children who don’t know the TSG skills. Are you a nanny or a teacher of some sort that spends a bit of time with other people’s children and struggle keeping them “in line” while they are in your care? Do you have no idea where to even start in those situations? Listen in for more understanding of ...
In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces D.D. Black , who shares about her experiences as one of TSG's earliest mentors, her family's growth and increased unity, and her thoughts and insights on freedom from emotional bondage. Listen in to learn from D.D.!
In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss seven signs that indicate emotions being stuffed or shoved down. Comments have been made that TSG is all about keeping emotions at bay, but that simply isn’t true! Do you sometimes feel like you struggle to process your emotions or don’t even realize you’re getting stuck in them until it’s too late? You’re not alone. Listen in for these seven signs and see if you could use some help!
In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije have some deeper discussion about pessimism and optimism, what they really mean, and how they affect us. Do you struggle seeing the “silver lining” in your daily situations? Are your children struggling with happiness? Listen in for some great insight and for a plan to become more optimistic!
In this podcast episode, Nicholeen and Paije go to the comments of Nicholeen’s YouTube channel and address a situation posed by a worried mother about conflict between her teen son and husband, wanting to know how to mend the relationship. Listen in to hear what Nicholeen and Paije have to say!
In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces David Eggertsen , who shares about his experiences as one of the first TSG mentors and Nicholeen’s right-hand man in the business, having TSG keep his marriage together, and the skills and principles that have been so beneficial for his family. Listen in to learn fr...
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces Shilo Lindstrom , who shares about her family, her experiences as a parent, and her perspective on tone in the home and how important it is to keep calm and stay consistent. Listen in to learn from Shilo! Links for resources recommended on the website page ....
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces Natalie Fluckiger , who shares about her family, her experiences as a parent, and her knowledge of roles and how to use them to help us advocate for and analyze with our children. Listen in to learn from Natalie! (blooper on website page )...
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces Monica Isaacson , who shares about her self-government journey, the things that have impacted her family and community the most, and how you can set your family up for success with the proper family structure and foundation. Listen in to learn from Monica!...
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces Sariah Schmickrath , who shares about her family travels and experiences, teaching about keeping families together, even with tension present, and increasing emotional maturity. Listen in to learn from Sariah!...
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije begin a new mini series! Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces Bryony Wilde, who shares about her experiences with families all over the globe and shares three key principles for successful parenting, no matter where you fall on the success scale. Listen in to learn from Bryony!...
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss more on the topic of discernment. How do you teach it to children? We’ve learned how to discern for ourselves in the previous episode, but now we need to teach it. Listen in for steps and tips to teach your children the skill of discernment!
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss what it looks like to have discernment and how it impacts the family and the individual. Do you feel that there is something beyond what you’re seeing that is contributing to negative behaviors in the home, but just don’t quite know what it is or how to figure it out? Listen in for some deep thoughts and helpful suggestions!
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss what it looks like when a house is divided and, on the flip side, what a house united looks like and how to become one. Do your family members struggle knowing who they really are? Do they have a hard time doing what they know they should do over what they want to do? Listen in for great tips and advice for healing your home!
Nicholeen Peck and Paije Baumert discuss how to create a home environment conducive to inspiring a change of heart, not just behavior. They introduce six core principles, including planning for relationship outcomes, responding calmly, understanding the "why" behind actions, openly discussing heart conditions, fostering forgiveness, and prioritizing heart connection over external activities. The discussion highlights the difference between soft and hard hearts and offers practical strategies for deep family unity.
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how to help shy children have socialization. Do you have children that are more reserved and introverted? Do you wish that they were more sociable? Listen in for advice and tips for how to support your children in socializing with your family and with others.
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how to use TSG in the classroom. Are you in charge of your church class? Are you a teacher at a public or private school and need help keeping order in your classroom? Listen in for five helpful steps and tips on how to teach self-government to children that aren’t yours outside of your home!
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss what to do when you’re wanting to implement Self-Government into your family, but you’re a single parent (or feel like you’re single parenting). Are you the only parent involved in your children’s lives right now? Are you struggling to get your spouse on board with a new parenting system? Whether you truly are on your own or just feel like you are, listen in for great insight and advice for how to skillfully navigate your situation!
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how to handle situations where children (and other people in general) just aren’t grasping a topic or the environment in general and begin to get stressed. Do you find yourself saying, “Just figure it out!” or “You know exactly what to do! Don’t tell me you don’t.”? Listen in for personal life experiences and lessons to help you!
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss what parents do that is reactive and what parents should be doing that is proactive. Do you find that you try to emotionally control and manipulate a situation when something doesn’t go how you want it? Do you wish you knew how to teach your children what you want them to know and do without resorting to emotional reactions? Listen in to learn the difference and the skills needed to do just that!
Nicholeen and Paije unveil an 8-step recipe for helping children achieve and maintain calmness, drawing on self-government principles. They explain how to pre-teach calm behavior, ensure parental readiness, describe situations clearly, and consistently focus on calmness during conflicts. The discussion also covers the importance of following through with consequences, adapting strategies, and fostering bonding and forgiveness for long-term success.
In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss skills and tips for getting children to go to bed and stay in bed. Do your children do all they can to stay up and out of bed? Do they have meltdowns before or sneak out after lights out? Listen in for help with those children who just won’t go to bed!
Nicholeen Peck and Paije Baumert discuss how to overcome the daily battle of getting children out of bed. They emphasize the principle of self-government, where individuals choose to wake up, and explore various motivators like sunrise activities or personal goals. The discussion covers structuring family routines, the connection between bedtime and wake-up time, and implementing both positive rewards and consistent corrections to foster responsibility and establish healthy morning habits.
