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Tangentially Speaking with Christopher Ryan

Tangentially Speaking is dedicated to the idea that good conversation is organic, uncensored, revelatory, and free to go down unexpected paths with unconventional people.

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632 - ROMA 80

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com A few of the issues stumbled over: The complicated ethics of revenge against a corporation. Yet more evidence that we don’t live in the real world. On old creeps like Woody Allen, Cormac McCarthy, and me. And more! Here’s the article about Cormac McCarthy I mentioned and the response from The Guardian. Here’s that holiday Amazon link . Intro music “Brightsi…...

Dec 16, 202424 min

631 - ROMA 79

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com — Responses to comments on the Wim Hof thing. — Is football like sex work? — How to behave in the End Times. — A few words in defense of Woody Allen and Joe Rogan. — The night Daryl Hanna asked me to sign a copy of Sex at Dawn. Intro music “Brightside of the Sun,” by Basin and Range . “Party at the End of the World,” by Carsie Blanton . “Accidentall…...

Dec 03, 202437 min

630 - ROMA 78

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Meet me in the kitchen! Anger vs gratitude. The perverse appetite for disaster. Who are we to judge? Intro music “Brightside of the Sun,” by Basin and Range . "Roll the Bones,” by Shakey Graves. “Watch it Fall,” by Billy Strings. Tangentially Speaking with Chris Ryan is a reader-supported publication. To support this thing, please consider becoming a free…...

Nov 27, 202419 min

629 - Nikki Glaser (Reboot)

This was originally episode 122, recorded in Portland, OR, in April, 2015. This conversation is about as uninhibited as they come. We bounce from shitting in Asia to how to compliment someone’s genitals to my experience giving a TED talk to eating disorders to group sex. Never a dull moment with Nikki. I’m so glad to see her getting the attention she deserves these days. Sometimes, the good guys win. Intro music “Brightside of the Sun,” by Basin and Range . “Wicked Little Pill,” by Bird York . O...

Nov 22, 20242 hr 26 min

628 - Aaron Rivera

I met Aaron at the Budokon retreat this summer, and I was immediately impressed by his candor, kindness, and the depth of his intellect. Then, when I learned that he led men’s groups, I thought he’d be a great guest for the podcast, since I know little about that world and, in fact, have some resistance to what often ends up being somewhat exploitative of men’s very real sense of alienation and desperation. But Aaron seemed like the real deal, so I invited him to set me straight on that. Please ...

Nov 11, 20241 hr 39 min

627 - ROMA 77

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Try to fix this old house again, or should we burn it down and start over?

Nov 02, 202419 min

626 - Deborah Eden Tull (After the Storm)

Deborah and her husband lost everything but their lives and each other when Hurricane Helene washed away their house a few weeks ago. Deborah’s experience of this “emergence” is framed by her experiences as a Zen Buddhist monk, teacher, and author. I greatly appreciate her trust in sharing her thoughts and insights — even while still immersed in the rawness of her grief and shock at almost being swept away with her home and everything in it. Listen to her explain what it’s like to find diamonds ...

Oct 22, 20241 hr 22 min

625 - Art Goodtimes (Poet, Activist, Groovy Elder)

Retired in 2016 after five terms as Colorado’s only Green Party county commissioner, Art Goodtimes has worked as a newspaper editor and he had a 40+ year run writing weekly and monthly op-ed columns for print and online publications including the Telluride Times , the San Miguel Journal , the Telluride Times-Journal , the Watch , the Daily Planet , the MontroseMirror.com , and Colorado Poets Center . Art studied to be a Roman Catholic priest for seven years, and has continued to marry people as ...

Oct 20, 20241 hr 7 min

624 - ROMA 76

I'm back. Thanks for your love and support over these past few difficult weeks. Intro music “Brightside of the Sun,” by Basin and Range . “Into the Mystic,” by Van Morrison. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe...

Oct 06, 202430 min

623 - Cameron Shayne (Part II)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com This is a continuation of my (I hope) never-ending conversation with Cameron Shayne, martial arts expert, legendary movement/yoga teacher, iconoclast, deep thinker, gentle bad-ass, and all-around awesome dude. Learn more about Cameron and Budokon University , which he runs with his wife, Melayne (also awesome!). Intro music “Brightside of the Sun,” by Bas…...

Sep 03, 20241 hr 4 min

Ancient Roots of Modern Politics (Audio)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com This is the “director’s cut” of the article I posted a few days ago, tracing the ancient origins of the eternal political debate back to the conflicts between an agricultural approach to social organization and the hunter-gatherer approach. What’s old is new and what’s new is ancient.

Aug 23, 202419 min

622 - Andrew Gold (Heretics)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Andrew Gold is an investigative journalist, podcaster and filmmaker who has made and presented documentaries for the BBC and HBO. He presents the popular podcast Heretics , where he has interviewed Richard Dawkins, Jon Ronson and David Baddiel amongst many others. His documentary on exorcism won several international festival awards and his research in G…...

Aug 19, 202440 min

621 - Shawn Kubli (Immunologist/Cancer Researcher)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Shawn Kubli is an American immunologist and surfer, currently land-locked in Toronto, Ontario. Working in the biotech industry for Treadwell Therapeutics, his research group develops living drugs – cell therapy – that harness the intrinsic power of the immune system to fight cancer. Shawn’s academic background in evolutionary genetics and ecology shape …...

Aug 16, 202442 min

620 - ROMA 75

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Gender controversies at the Olympics. What is a woman? How pronoun preference is like religion and veganism. What is intimacy and how can we nurture it? What is valuable? What is beauty? How is attraction contextual? Intro music “Brightside of the Sun,” by Basin and Range . “Take Me Down,” by Honey We Three . “Smoke Alarm,” by Carsie Blanton . Paid version:…...

Aug 10, 202428 min

619 - Cameron Shayne (Martial Arts Expert & Awesome Dude)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Cameron Shayne is considered the father of the Mixed Movement Arts culture. Cameron pioneered the phrase and concept of Budokon Mixed Movement Arts in 2001 by combining the combat arts of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and Mixed Martial Arts together with Yoga, Crawling Patterns, Mobility, Calisthenics, and Cognitive Studies into a single black belt system known as Budokon (BU warrior, DO way, KON spirit). Based in Los Ang...

Aug 05, 202437 min

618 - ROMA 74

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com A bit about how 2024 is like 1934 and the appeal of MAGA is like the appeal of Socialism then. Age is sedimentary, not linear. And what to do when heart, spirit, and animal desire don’t align? I love him/her, but I’m not that attracted. How to learn and grow without leaving a trail of destruction behind us. Intro music “Brightside of the Sun,” by Basin a…...

Jul 29, 202424 min

617 - Abbey and Liam (Evolving Love Project)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Abbey and Liam have been married for over a decade, and have been exploring an open relationship for most of that time. They are unusually thoughtful, open, and articulate about the joys, challenges, and surprises they've encountered along the way. You can learn more about them here . Intro music “Brightside of the Sun,” by Basin and Range . Paid version: …...

Jul 22, 202443 min

616 - Mark Jacobi (Crestone Elders)

Mark is a good dude who has lived a good life. You can see it in his face. Not a life without challenge or disappointment, but a life of meaning and purpose and love and kindness. (How could a “good life” ever be free of challenge and disappointment?) I really enjoy hanging out with this guy. We talk travel, music, film, theater, Manhattan in the 80s and 90s, Crestone in the 2000s…. Life, death — all the juicy stuff. Intro music “Brightside of the Sun,” by Basin and Range . “Brazil,”by Django Re...

Jul 02, 20241 hr 44 min

615 - Charlie Hart (Naughty Bits)

In an age where we’re told to always strive for efficiency, monetization, and TOTAL OPTIMIZATION, doing something purely for the fuck of it becomes a subversive, revolutionary act. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe

Jun 25, 20241 hr 30 min

614 - Michael Garfield (Paleontologist-Futurist)

Paleontologist-Futurist Michael Garfield is devoted to helping navigate our age of accelerating weirdness and helping cultivate the curiosity and play we'll need to thrive in it. As host and producer of Future Fossils Podcast , Michael refuses to be enslaved by a single perspective, creative medium, or intellectual community, walking through the walls between academia and festival culture, theory and practice — speaking and performing everywhere from Moogfest to Burning Man , SXSW to Boom Festiv...

Jun 17, 20242 hr 8 min

613 - Mark Nelson (Biospherian)

Mark Nelson is an American ecologist and author based in Santa Fe, New Mexico. His research focuses on closed ecological system research, ecological engineering, restoration of damaged ecosystems, and wastewater recycling. Nelson was one of the eight original crew members of Biosphere 2 in 1991. Marks books can be found here and here . Intro music “Brightside of the Sun,” by Basin and Range ; “If I had a Million Dollars,” by Barenaked Ladies ; Outro: “Smoke Alarm,” by Carsie Blanton . This is a ...

Jun 10, 20241 hr 55 min

612 - Mee Ok Icaro (From Death's Door to Becoming a Guide to Healing)

I met this incredible woman over a decade ago ( ep 87 ) , when she was in a very difficult spot, suffering from constant pain, unable to move or care for herself. She was preparing to die. In the years since, I’ve seen the light in her grow stronger and stronger. She’s recovered from severe scleroderma, written a book about her journey, been profiled on a Netflix series , featured in Gabor Maté's NYT bestseller The Myth of Normal , and continuously explored her inner world with the help of sacre...

Jun 03, 20241 hr 53 min

611 - ROMA 73

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com What values underlie this podcast? Russell Brand in search of universal human values. How not to be a fool for love (or for Andrew Tate). Looking back at life — both the parts lived and unlived — from here. Jimmy Carter and the value of some types of shame. How Ozembic symbolizes American life in 2024. Artificial cures for artificial problems and the su…...

May 28, 202442 min

610 - Bill Ellzey (Landscape Photographer)

Bill first picked up a camera in 1965, at age 20, little knowing that photography would become his profession. Since then camera work has taken him to India, China, Australia, Japan, Mexico, Alaska, Egypt, Ireland, Bhutan, Zambia, Chilean Patagonia and the American West. Bill’s images have appeared in magazines, books, calendars, newspapers, catalogs, annual reports. In 1995 Bill moved to the San Luis Valley, took up residence in a travel trailer near Crestone, Colorado and started building a st...

May 23, 202429 min

609 - Neil Strauss (To Die For)

Neil Strauss is a wildly successful writer and podcaster. He’s written for Rolling Stone , The New York Times , and just about every other high-profile platform you can think of. His best-selling books include The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists (2012), Everyone Loves You When You're Dead: Journeys Into Fame and Madness (2011), and The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships (2015). In January, 2023, The Creative Act: A Way of Being , a book Strauss wrote with mus...

May 16, 20241 hr 26 min

608 Mini-ROMA (Do We Fall in or for Love?)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com A “director’s cut” of one of my most popular posts on Substack: What We Fall in When We Fall in Love . The Raymond Carver story I mention is in this collection . Music (paid version): “Trampoline,” by Joe Henry ....

May 10, 202415 min

DJCPR 2 (Covers)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Cover versions of well-known songs that illuminate some quality in the original that was dormant, waiting to emerge, like a cicada.

Apr 27, 20246 min

A Few Things Ethical Non-Monogamy Can Be

As a follow-up to my recent post about some things ethical non-monogamy is not , I thought it might be fun to consider some things ENM can be, in the best of circumstances. In light of the volume and vehemence of the feedback my first post received, it seems this is an issue folks are interested in, so maybe this will be an on-going series. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe...

Apr 23, 202411 min

Audio: A Few Things ENM is Not.

Trying this new feature on Substack where I read a post and add some off the cuff commentary. Sort of a mini-ROMA, centered around a written piece. Let me know what you think. Is this a good format? Should I do more? This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe

Apr 22, 202423 min

607 - Gone Squatchin' with Mateo Argüello

A few months ago, someone mentioned that a dude had walked to Crestone from Colorado Springs — which is a SERIOUS walk over some very rugged mountains — and that he was some kind of Sasquatch expert. I was intrigued, but I have to admit that I assumed the guy was a wild-eyed wayward soul who’d had a bit too much psilocybin and not enough common sense. Then I met Mateo at a party and after chatting with this totally chill, reasonable, obviously smart dude for a while, I realized … wait a minute, ...

Apr 15, 20241 hr 59 min
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