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Tangentially Speaking with Christopher Ryan

Tangentially Speaking is dedicated to the idea that good conversation is organic, uncensored, revelatory, and free to go down unexpected paths with unconventional people.

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Episodes

725 - ROMA 109

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com What are some of the potential unintended positive consequences of this shitstorm we’re all living through in 2026? Is there a way to question the US/Israel relationship without being accused of anti-semitism?

May 21, 20263 min

724 - Ryan Norbauer (Retro-futurist)

Ryan is an aspiring underachiever. He’s worked for NASA, planned and conducted his own scientific research at the CDC, and served as a foreign affairs analyst/speechwriter in the British Parliament; he’s founded four companies and he’s published peer-reviewed scholarship in fancy-pants journals across two separate academic disciplines. All this misguided, insecure early-life ambition mostly just taught him how disappointing and anticlimactic status-driven accomplishments can be. (His words.) Thi...

May 19, 20261 hr 52 min

723 - AROMA 11

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com We respond to a listener's question about our own addictive behaviors and addiction in general. How to engage with the inner voices. Why would one be sexual with a close friend? Why do some men prefer to scan the radio stations even if they don’t like the music very much? Upcoming Substack live about DTF St. Louis....

May 14, 20262 min

722 - Guustaaf Damave (AI Expert)

Guustaaf Damave is a Dutch technologist and writer based in Taiwan. He has been writing a weekly newsletter about AI, culture, and the future since 2023. You can read it at guustaaf.substack.com . He is also the author of The Minimum You Need to Do Before AI Changes Your Life: A No-Panic Checklist for Normal People in an Abnormal Moment . Learn more about the situation we all face here . This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episode...

May 05, 20261 hr 13 min

720 - Daniele Bolelli

Author, historian, professor, podcaster, father, partner, son, funny and smart dude. Daniele is a man of many dimensions. We just bullshit for an hour or so, but I’d like to think it’s Grade A Prime bullshit. After this, we went out for Thai food. Wish you’d been there. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe...

Apr 27, 20261 hr 34 min

719 - AROMA 10 (Revolutionary Bath)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Is violence ever justified? Is structural violence different from interpersonal? What about violence against property? What about when property is violent against us? Is the US/world approaching a tipping point? Deep issues considered from a shallow bathtub. https://warehousefire.watch/

Apr 24, 20262 min

718 - ROMA 107

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Conspiracies and collapse. Felt the lightning. Waiting on the thunder.

Apr 18, 20265 min

717 - ROMA 106

The QWERTY keyboard and its resonance with cognitive and behavioral assumptions we all carry within us that are designed around conditions that no longer exist. And other stuff. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe

Apr 15, 202635 min

716 - AROMA 9

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com On this AROMA, we answer a listener’s question about whether non-monogamy is an expression of a desire for escapism, fantasy, and a lack of commitment — a perpetual state of discontent. We talk about the nature of falling in love, projection, and what our longing can teach us if we engage with it intentionally. We also discuss the puer aeturnus archetype in connection to these themes, and how that energy manifes...

Apr 11, 20262 min

715 - Baja Andy Bellerby

Andy grew up in the UK, but a series of events led him to drop his life there fly off to a place where he knew no one (although he was born there). As you’ll hear, that gutsy decision paid off very well. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe

Apr 08, 20261 hr 39 min

714 - AROMA 8: Home Again

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com In which we talk about our last days in LA, our impressions of the tenth Bombay Beach Biennale, our arrival back in Crestone, and the importance of choosing your discomforts wisely.

Apr 05, 20262 min

713 - Jesse Bering on The Incredible Afterlives of Dr. Stevenson

Jesse Bering is an award-winning science writer specializing in evolutionary psychology and human behaviour. He is the author of The Incredible Afterlives of Dr. Stevenson , about the world's leading reincarnation researcher. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe...

Apr 03, 20261 hr 7 min

712 - Peter Michael Bauer (Experimental Anthropologist -- Rewilding Expert)

Peter Michael Bauer is an internationally known leader in the cultural rewilding movement. For over 20 years he has written and taught about rewilding. He has served as an expert source in multiple academic articles and books on the subject. He is the founder and director of Rewild Portland , a trend setting community based nonprofit. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe...

Apr 01, 20261 hr 18 min

711 - Tao Ruspoli (Film Director: The Dulcinée Dialectic)

Tao is a magical man, living a magical life. Film director, musician, philosopher, bon-vivant, and all-around lovely human being. I’m thrilled to bring him back into our party again (for the fourth time?). Anya, Tao and I recorded this in our van at his recent 50th birthday celebration. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe...

Mar 23, 20261 hr 21 min

710 - Ryley Newport (Smart young dude on a path with heart)

I got an email from a guy named Nick, who suggested I might like to meet his buddy, Ryley, who happened to be in Baja. I could sense the love and respect Nick felt for his friend. And then fate placed Ryley just a few miles down the coast from where we were camped out, so it all came together pretty organically. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe...

Mar 19, 20261 hr 1 min

709 - AROMA 7

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Probably our last AROMA from Baja. This one comes to you from a campfire on the beach. We talk about education, the war in Iran, and the ones who walk away from Omelas, among other things.

Mar 13, 20262 min

708 - AROMA 6 (from the Palapa)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com In this one we talk about our reactions to “The Ones Who Walk Away from Omelas,” by Ursula K. LeGuin. Is there any walking away? What are we walking away from? Is there a way to live in this world without the stain of guilt and corruption? What does it mean to be in the world but not of it?

Mar 10, 20262 min

Live with Chris and Anya in Santa Inés, Baja.

We figure out the framing a minute in. Thank you Nickalas Chisari , Bob Goldsmith , Dustin Fenster , Devin McManus , Raymundo Ortiz , and many others for tuning into our live video! Join us for my next live video in the app. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe...

Mar 10, 202648 min

707 - Barbara Lindoerfer

Barbara, Anya’s grandmother, has lived a full life of 91 years and going strong. She’s lived all over the world, raised two sons, studied Jungian psychology, loved and lost and loved some more. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe

Mar 08, 20261 hr 28 min

706 - AROMA 5 (Los Cerritos)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Updates on our Mexico travels, my attempts to master the flip-flop, my dermatological disabilities, Anya’s thing for older men (and why older isn’t necessarily better), and the blessings and burdens of being recognized for who we really are (and the complicated role of the recognizer).

Mar 04, 20262 min

704 - AROMA 4 (from Los Barriles, Baja Sur)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com We respond to questions from listeners about therapy, whether shame fuels eroticism, why neither of us wants to have kids (or dogs), and whether we are in an “age inappropriate” relationship.

Feb 23, 20262 min

703 - AROMA 3

Greetings from the lagoon in the oasis town of San Ignacio, Baja Sur, Mexico. We talk about our (maybe) upcoming retreat this summer in Montana, answer a few listener questions (Chomsky/Pinker and Epstein), talk about the wind at our backs, and driving in Baja. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe...

Feb 20, 20261 hr 22 min

702 - AROMA 2 (From Culver City, CA)

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com I tell my Peter Attia story and we explore the nature of evil on Epstein Island. Are we all evil? How can we know? Are there justifications for the worst crimes? How can we minimize the harm we cause when we live in a world in which harm is unavoidable?

Feb 11, 20262 min

700 - Goldie Mariola (Death Doula/Earthship Captain)

One of the best things about Crestone is that it attracts people like Goldie. She came here to build an Earthship with her partner, Matt , and everyone agrees that it’s a richer place with them in it. She’s a big part of the annual Crestone Energy Fair and works with the Crestone End of Life Project as a death doula, helping people on their way to whatever comes next. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.s...

Feb 02, 20261 hr 33 min

699 - James Meacham (Ethicist, Philosopher, former Minister)

In this wide-ranging conversation, we talk about James’ journey from ministry to technology, the importance of critical thinking and humility, the role of ideology in political discourse, and the philosophical roots of Unitarianism. We even get into the nature of belief and behavior, and the implications of animal consciousness. Are critters dreaming all the time? We discuss the importance of detribalization in modern society and the role of love in ethical decision-making. Hope you enjoy it. Ja...

Jan 28, 20261 hr 31 min

698 - ROMA 105

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Looking for silver linings of very dark clouds. Muss es sein? Es muss sein. Beethoven. Lessons learned from hopping a coal train in the Finger Lakes. Why do I ban listeners? Lee Atwater. Reagan. Carter. Is our current crisis the bitter fruit of what was planted in 1980? Answ…

Jan 25, 202623 min

697 - ROMA 104

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com What is the connection (if any) between football, musicals, dancing, and prostitution Some thoughts on Tears for Fears. A bunch of other random nonsense.

Jan 19, 20263 min

696 - ROMA 103

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com This one gets dark at the beginning. Could this Epstein/Trump stuff be worse, much worse than even a cynical old bastard like me could have imagined? Stuff that’s been bending for decades all feels like it’s breaking now. What does Occam’s Razor have to say about ICE raids in Minneapolis? Or Trump’s obsession with Greenland? Tariffs? Putin?...

Jan 15, 20263 min

695 - Liam (Evolving Love Podcast)

Liam and his wife, Abbey have been together for over thirteen years and have been consensually non-monogamous for eleven of those years. Their podcast, Evolving Love , seeks to help people find whatever relationship structure works best for each couple hoping to nurture depth and authenticity. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe...

Jan 12, 20261 hr 37 min

694 - ROMA 102

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit chrisryan.substack.com Listener voice memos. Am I a good mentor? If “the medium is the message,” what’s the message of the podcasting medium? Is non-monogamy a behavior decision, a relationship configuration, or an inner state? If it’s an inner state, how can we determine compatibility with a potential partner? How can we really know what we want/need, and how to communicate …...

Jan 10, 20263 min
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