In this bold and revealing episode of Talking Kinky , Isabelle and Tom sit down with the extraordinary Colin Richards – intimacy coach, somatic sex engineer, and the man behind some of London’s exclusive sex parties. Colin opens up about the intersection of power, pleasure, and presence, sharing his journey from therapist to sensual facilitator, and what it really takes to help people unlock their erotic potential in a safe, conscious, and playful way. We discuss the art of creating exquisite gr...
Jul 06, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Season 9Ep. 8
In this thought-provoking episode, Tom and Isabelle discuss the state of sex education — or the lack thereof. They explore how porn has become the default sex educator for many young people, why pleasure, consent, and diversity are still missing from mainstream curriculums, and what a truly inclusive and empowering sex education could look like. With humor, honesty, and a healthy dose of frustration, your favourite co-hosts examine the long-term effects of abstinence-only teaching, the role of p...
Jun 29, 2025•52 min•Season 9Ep. 7
This week on Talking Kinky , Tom and Isabelle are diving lock-first into the world of chastity – where pleasure, power, and patience collide. Whether you're curious about caging the cock, padlocking panties, or just want to understand why anyone would voluntarily hand over the key to their orgasms… this one’s for you. We explore the history of chastity devices (yes, they go way back), the psychology behind denial and control, and the kinky thrill of being locked up—with or without release. From ...
Jun 22, 2025•37 min•Season 9Ep. 6
This week, Tom and Isabelle are getting handy as they dive into the wonderfully wide world of masturbation. From solo pleasure to mutual play, from women’s clit-orientated routines to penetrative fantasies, this episode unzips the myths, mess, and magic of self-touch. Whether you're into edging, exploring your G-spot with toys, or jacking off with an audience on Chaturbate, this one’s for you. The duo discuss the rise of video-led guided masturbation, group play, kinkier turn-ons like being told...
Jun 15, 2025•39 min•Season 9Ep. 5
Are you gagging for some pleasure? Well this week, Tom and Isabelle clamp down on one of kink’s more intense — and often misunderstood — turn-ons: gagging . But not just one kind. Oh no, they're looking closely at two sides of the gagging coin — the physical act of being gagged with toys, tools, or hands, and the visceral reaction of gagging from being made to swallow ... things or stuff . From ball gags and bite bars to forced oral scenarios and the psychology of submission, your favourite co-h...
Jun 07, 2025•42 min•Season 9Ep. 4
"Stretch Me Baby, One More Time" In this deliciously daring episode of Talking Kinky , Tom and Isabelle go deep—literally—as they explore the world of stretching orifices. From anal acrobatics to vaginal veneration, they dive into the why, the how, and the holy-wow of people who love to push the limits of what goes in (and sometimes what comes out). Our curious co-hosts chat about the joys and risks of insertions, gape play, and using toys of truly intimidating sizes. They cover safety, lube, wa...
Jun 05, 2025•34 min•Season 9Ep. 3
In this episode of Talking Kinky , co-hosts Tom and Isabelle charge headfirst into the tantalising world of dominance and submission with none other than Victoria the founder of For Play Chocolate & For Play Academy https://forplayacademy.com Victoria is also an intimacy coach with a flair for the fierce and fabulous. From leather boots to psychological power dynamics, they explore what it really means to take—or give up—control in the bedroom. Victoria shares insights from her coaching and ...
May 26, 2025•43 min•Season 9Ep. 2
In this cracking opening episode of Talking Kinky Season 9 , Tom and Isabelle are diving groin-first into the steamy, chaotic, and often misunderstood world of group sex . From the seductive swirl of an orgy to the high-intensity logistics of a gangbang and the rhythmic thrill of running a train — they are breaking it all down with their signature mix of sass, smarts, and curiosity. What makes these multi-partner encounters so damn hot? How do they differ in dynamics, power play, and appeal? And...
May 21, 2025•44 min•Season 9Ep. 1
This week on Talking Kinky , Tom and Isabelle go deep — and we mean deep — into the world of oral ass play. That’s right, we're talking rimming: who’s doing it, why it feels so good, and how to explore it safely, cleanly, and consensually across all orientations. From anatomy and biology to prep tips, hygiene hacks, and yes, even anal bleaching, nothing’s off limits. Whether you’re a curious first-timer or a backdoor connoisseur, like Tom, this episode delivers everything you need to know — with...
May 11, 2025•44 min•Season 8Ep. 8
This week on Talking Kinky , Isabelle and Tom are taking it outside—literally—as they dive into the wild world of sex outdoors. From secluded woodland romps and cheeky beach encounters to the quiet thrill of balcony play or garden quickies, they explore what makes alfresco intimacy so exhilarating—and sometimes risky. IMPORTANT Tom brought his puppy to work, so you may hear a puppy whining in the background, the puppy was having separation anxiety from Tom but we have done our very best to engin...
May 05, 2025•31 min•Season 8Ep. 7
Every relationship goes through seasons — and when the passion cools, it’s not a sign to give up; it’s an invitation to reconnect. In this episode, Tom and Isabelle explore why the spark fades over time and share practical, sexy, and surprising ways to bring it roaring back. From the power of emotional intimacy to playful kink and rediscovering each other’s desires, they offer real talk and actionable ideas to help you turn up the heat.Whether you're craving more excitement, deeper intimacy, or ...
Apr 28, 2025•43 min•Season 8Ep. 5
In this episode of Talking Kinky , Tom and Isabelle slip past the velvet rope and into the world of sex parties — where curiosity, consent, and connection are always on the guest list. Green, Red or Amber wrist band...Sir and Madam..? Whether you're a wide-eyed newbie or a seasoned swinger, this candid conversation explores what really happens behind closed doors. From house rules to hot tubs, dress codes to playroom etiquette, your favorite kinky co-hosts break down the dos, don’ts, and delight...
Apr 24, 2025•41 min•Season 8Ep. 6
Let’s talk about it — the question that lingers in bedrooms and relationships everywhere: Are we having enough sex? In this revealing episode, Tom and Isabelle get honest about desire, frequency, and the silent pressure many of us feel around how much sex we “should” be having. From long-term relationships to fresh flings, mismatched libidos to shifting seasons of intimacy, your favorite kinky co-hosts break down the myths, the stats, and the emotional truths behind sexual frequency. They explor...
Apr 13, 2025•45 min•Season 8Ep. 4
In this sizzling episode of Talking Kinky , your favorite duo Tom and Isabelle jump headfirst into their kinky mailbag to answer your kinkiest, quirkiest, and most curious questions. From first-time fantasies to deeper looks into taboo desires, no topic is off limits. With their signature blend of insight, humour, and zero judgment, they’re here to decode, de-stigmatize, and maybe even dare you to try something new. Got a question for next time? Slide into those DMs—we're just getting started....
Apr 07, 2025•43 min•Season 8Ep. 3
In this episode of Talking Kinky , Isabelle and Tom are enjoying the waves of pleasure as they wade into the wet and wonderful world of female ejaculation , also known as squirting . What is it exactly? Is it pee, is it real, and why does it matter? From the science to the sensation, the myths to the magic, your favorite co-hosts break down the mystery behind these waves of bliss with curiosity, humor, and plenty of honest conversation. Whether you've experienced it, are intrigued by it, or are ...
Mar 30, 2025•29 min•Season 8Ep. 2
So this is episode 1 of season 8. Your favourite kinky co-hosts, Tom and Isabelle, are kicking off this exciting new season by exploring a topic that's often whispered about but rarely explored openly: pleasure toys for men. Gone are the days when toys were just for the women - in this episode Tom and Isabelle unpack everything you need to know about enhancing male pleasure with innovative, enticing, and sometimes surprisingly creative toys. Join your hosts as they break down stigmas, share insi...
Mar 22, 2025•29 min•Season 8Ep. 1
In this Bonus episode of Talking Kinky , Tom is solo and takes us on a personal journey and shares his three-week trial of Length & Strength by Strong by Nature. With his signature mix of authenticity and humour, Tom opens up about what motivated him to try this program, the process he followed, and the changes, both expected and unexpected, that he experienced along the way. From skepticism to surprising results, Tom vulnerably shares the physical and mental shifts he noticed, as well as ho...
Mar 19, 2025•18 min•Season 7Ep. 9
Isabelle and Tom are back with a steamy look into face-sitting , also known as queening . From the physical and psychological appeal of this intimate power play to the trust and connection it builds, they break down why this act is more than just a kink—it’s an experience. Whether you're curious about how to explore it safely or just want to hear some juicy insights, this episode is your invitation to take a seat… or be the throne. Visit our website www.talkingkinky.com where you can get all our...
Mar 11, 2025•22 min•Season 7Ep. 8
Which UK city is the kinkiest? In this episode of Talking Kinky , Tom and Isabelle dive into some eye-opening data on kink searches across the UK, uncovering which cities have the biggest appetites for kink and why the obsession with BDSM, fetish play, and all things deliciously deviant. From the unexpected BDSM capitals to regional obsessions with niche kinks, they break down the numbers, explore what drives these interests, and discuss how culture, history, and access to sex-positive spaces sh...
Mar 02, 2025•47 min•Season 7Ep. 7
In this episode of Talking Kinky , Isabelle and Tom tie themselves up in the tantalizing world of bondage—one of the most popular and misunderstood elements of BDSM. They unravel the psychology of restraint, exploring why some people find pleasure in surrendering control while others get off on taking the reins. From silky scarves to intricate Shibari rope work, they’ll discuss the art, safety, and emotional dynamics of tying up (or being tied down). Plus, they’ll share personal stories, expert ...
Feb 21, 2025•33 min•Season 7Ep. 6
Hold your breath—literally!! In this episode of Talking Kinky , Isabelle and Tom take a 'deep breath' as they delve into the exhilarating world of breath play. From the psychological highs to the physical thrills, they explore what makes this edgy kink so intoxicating. Is it control? Trust? The ultimate surrender? They'll break down the dos, don’ts, and must-knows, making sure you're well-equipped to navigate the fine line between ecstasy and risk. So draw in a long deep intake of breath and tun...
Feb 20, 2025•28 min•Season 7Ep. 5
In this episode Tom and Isabelle are strapping in (and on) for a much-requested revisit to the world of pegging —aka strap-on play. Whether you’re new to the experience or a seasoned pro, this episode is all about exploring the physical and psychological sides of pegging, breaking down the myths, and answering the big question: why does this kink still carry so much taboo? From pleasure mechanics to power dynamics, and from first-time jitters to advanced techniques, Tom and Isabelle tackle it al...
Feb 10, 2025•39 min•Season 7Ep. 4
Power, control, and money—three elements that can make fantasies thrilling or turn them into something far more complicated. In this episode of Talking Kinky , Tom and Isabelle dive deep into the world of domination, from the exhilarating highs of consensual power exchange to the intricate and often misunderstood realm of financial domination, or Findom . But where does the line blur between kink and coercion? As we explore the allure of being in control—or surrendering it—we also take a hard lo...
Feb 03, 2025•55 min•Season 7Ep. 3
In episode 2 of season 7 you can join Isabelle and Tom as they venture into the colorful and imaginative world of hentai and the unique appeal of the futanari kink. They explore the creative storytelling, artistic expression, and taboo-breaking themes that make these genres a source of fascination and delight for fans worldwide. Whether you're curious about the allure or already a fan, this episode sheds light on the cultural, personal, and sensual aspects of these kinks in true "Talking Kinky" ...
Jan 28, 2025•36 min•Season 7Ep. 2
Welcome to Season 7 of Talking Kinky! We’re kicking off this season with a fascinating and often misunderstood topic: the kinky interests surrounding pregnancy and lactation. Your dynamic co-hosts, Isabelle and Tom, are here to explore the nuances, psychology, and allure behind these fetishes that captivate many but are rarely talked about openly. In this episode, Isabelle and Tom will dive into the wide spectrum of interests within this kink, from the emotional and nurturing aspects to the more...
Jan 19, 2025•37 min•Season 7Ep. 1
In this highly anticipated episode of Talking Kinky, co-hosts Isabelle and Tom revisit one of the most requested topics: a**l sex for women. With their signature blend of humor, honesty, and expert insights, they delve into the myths, the mechanics, and the mindset that can make anal play a pleasurable and empowering experience. Whether you’re curious, hesitant, or looking to enhance your experience, this episode offers a fresh perspective to help you explore with confidence and care. Start 2025...
Jan 12, 2025•42 min•Season 6Ep. 8
In the seventh episode of our sixth season, we’re coming back to one of our most-requested and most-listened-to topics—cuckolding—and taking the conversation even deeper. Isabelle and Tom explore the emotional, psychological, and erotic elements behind this captivating dynamic, shedding new light on why it continues to intrigue kinksters everywhere. But that’s not all! To bring the discussion to life, they’ll slip into character for a playful role play scenario, illustrating how boundaries, trus...
Dec 25, 2024•31 min•Season 6Ep. 7
In this episode of Talking Kinky, the podcast where no topic is too taboo and curiosity is always celebrated, your hosts Isabelle and Tom sit down with Todd “Max” Carey, the visionary behind the groundbreaking new film tOuch kink. This is a fabulous documentary film where pleasure, trust, and empowerment converge. The documentary tOuch kink, directed by Todd “Max” Carey, explores the nuanced worlds of kink, BDSM, and fetishism, inviting audiences to see these communities through an intimate, aut...
Dec 15, 2024•48 min•Season 6Ep. 6
This episode is packed with juicy conversations you won’t want to miss. Co-hosts Tom and Isabelle take a closer look at the powerful world of dominance and control as they ask, "Dominatrix: To Be or Not To Be?" What does it mean to step into this role, and how does it interplay with empowerment, boundaries, and pleasure? They also dip a toe in the The Ethical Slut—a book that’s become a modern manifesto for ethical non-monogamy—and chat about how it challenges conventional views on relationships...
Dec 08, 2024•37 min•Season 6Ep. 5
Buckle up for this very unique and special edition of Talking Kinky as co-host Tom takes a wild and thought-provoking road trip north with special guest, sexuality expert Sarah Tink! Together, they dive into a smorgasbord of topics, including the complexities of polyamory, insights from the iconic book The Ethical Slut, and the nuances of attraction and the erotic blueprints. But that’s not all—Sarah and Tom venture into the playful and bizarre as they imagine aliens observing human sexual behav...
Dec 03, 2024•37 min•Season 6Ep. 28
