This episode features a write in question asking about my personal tastes. Additionally, advice on one framework to help soften your hard limits. Announcing: When “Never” Becomes “Maybe” Online Class This class isn’t about pushing past boundaries—it’s about understanding the ones that might be ready to soften. Whether you're a seasoned explorer of kink or just beginning to map your desires, this workshop invites you to pause, reflect, and ask: What if that hard limit isn’t as hard as it used to ...
May 27, 2025•13 min
The longer you play in the BDSM Lifestyle, the more likely it is that your hard limits will soften. This episode cover a personal look at what situations can cause a hard limit to become soft. Announcing: When “Never” Becomes “Maybe” Online Class This class isn’t about pushing past boundaries—it’s about understanding the ones that might be ready to soften. Whether you're a seasoned explorer of kink or just beginning to map your desires, this workshop invites you to pause, reflect, and ask: What ...
May 16, 2025•13 min
Why do I do what I do? I've lived in shame. I've found a way out. I'm here to help you live in joyful authenticity too! Join me in the Conservatory of Dark Delights on Patreon Teaching, supporting, and inspiring adventurous individuals to embrace their dark sensual desires, delight in the embodiment and mindset of their authentic pleasures, and live a life inspired by erotic arts, sacred sexuality, mystic witch kinkery, and the Kama Sutra. I am devoted to creating a world that fosters acceptance...
Jan 06, 2025•19 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Part One Talking Points Changing perspective with the questions you ask yourself: What if you come out as X and people like it? Pro/con lists of being yourself. Risk assessment. To find others, be yourself. The community vs my community. Part 2 Talking Points Camio of my bunny Hear me stumble over talking about r*pe fantasy. I left this in to show that I still have nerves about expressing what I like in fiction, and I do it anyway Like what we do? Please support us! Patreon - https://www.patreon...
Dec 12, 2023•18 min•Season 2Ep. 2
I am thrilled to announce the return and reboot of my Talkin’ Taboo podcast after a prolonged hiatus. In this reboot you can expect a shorter format, fresh modern topics, a refined approach, and an authentic exploration of mindset and embodiment as well as discussion of edgier play types and issues. This new approach promises an enriching experience for both loyal listeners and newcomers alike. In this premiere episode with a new, shorter form we cover loving your body and sensuality. Like what ...
Nov 20, 2023•16 min
Shout out to Mark my VIP Patron who helps make these podcasts possible and easily accessible! Aftercare for Dom/mes - with guests Schadenfreuda and Wicked Why some Dom/mes struggle to ask for what they need? What do Dom/mes need outside of the actual scene? How to overcome the stigma about Dom/mes having aftercare and post aftercare needs. This podcast was edited from the original Podcast Live Stream to fit a 60 minute time allotment. Listen to the live stream here: https://www.youtube.com/watch...
Feb 14, 2021•1 hr
Marissa and Corinne share with us what it's like to be Transgender in this crazy world. This podcast was edited from the original Podcast Live Stream to fit a 60 minute time allotment. Listen to the live stream here: https://youtu.be/MRxbdx7ivGA Some topics we touch on are: * Terminology – what words should be used/are currently used (Dumb questions everyone’s afraid to ask) * The right to refuse health care laws * Being fetishized * What it was like for you to come out * Advice for those who ar...
Nov 16, 2020•1 hr
Join Lady Onyx and pet for an intriguing discussion about Sex Magic. Discover a new way to manifest your goals and incorporate spirituality into your sex and BDSM life. The book Lady Onyx recommends is Sex Magic by Donald Michael Craig (linked through my affiliate link). Support me on Patreon! Check out The Cage! Come see me at the Rochester Erotic Arts Festival!...
Feb 11, 2020•52 min
Music joins us to talk about what it's like to move to a new state and move into a new kink community. Personal experience, great advice found here. Additionally, we discuss Holiday Gifts kink style! Check out my LinkTree and find me all over social media! YAY!
Dec 26, 2019•58 min
FREE on Kindle: Munch 101 Booklet - until Sunday, June 16, 2019, 11:59 PM PDT Munch 101: A Collection Of Advice And Tips For Attending Your First BDSM / Fetish / Kink Munch or Your First Munch With A New-To-You Group https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07SVWTJDP REAF in Review - 10th Anniversary! Music and Wicked join GvS and Sadie to review and reminisce about what they saw and did at the Rochester Erotic Arts Festival 10 Year Anniversary! Did you miss something at REAF? You can probably hear about it h...
Jun 12, 2019•1 hr
Take a sneak peek at the 10-year anniversary festivities at Rochester Erotic Arts Festival (REAF) this year with the always amazing Susie and Otter! If you're an individual that has sex with yourself or others, then you need to come to REAF! See you there!
Apr 18, 2019•1 hr•Ep. 73
D20Domme joins us to discuss the scene in DC, POC and plus-size in the community, FemDomme, various fetishes, ProDommes, and classes. Cameo appearance by Sadie's Snowy Howler. Bio: d20domme is unapologetically kinky. Known as pint-height, poly(androus), plus-size, POC, 24/7 Femdom who knows what she wants and will use her craft in mindfuckery and persuasive viper tongue to get it. Ever evolving she often equates her 10+ year journey into kink as 'falling down the rabbit hole’ and constantly enjo...
Apr 07, 2019•58 min•Ep. 72
The Gelassenheit's join us to discuss bringing marriage into M/s and monogamy vs polyamory. Tough topics and learning life lessons on this month's episode. Haus Gelassenheit The house motto: "Love, Strength, Serenity" sums up the core values of Haus Gelassenheit. (Pronounced with a hard "G" - Geh - lass - en - height) A primary intention in forming Haus Gelassenheit is to create a sustainable, long term, lifestyle friendly space that serves as a calm retreat. As the storms of life swirl around o...
Mar 17, 2019•56 min
Sade Von Masoch joins us to talk about professional domination, performance art, modeling, and exploring kink at public events. Discover a whole new world of celebrating your BDSM and Fetish! Sade Von Masoch has been in the BDSM scene for over 20 years, trained as a slave and progressed through to being a professional and capable dominatrix. For the past 5 years, she has collaborated and hosted Buffalo’s only public fetish night at Mohawk Place and performs at The Underground Nightclub. You can ...
Jan 30, 2019•57 min
Musicforme2 (for the three-peat Hat Trick!) joins GvS, and Sadie for a rousing review of the movie “Kinky”. We discuss moving from the vanilla space into the kinky space dating wise, bringing humor into your play scenes, fantasy vs. reality, and of course the movie “Kinky”! Lots of laughs and serious discussion too. Archived episodes can be found here: http://www.thinktwiceradio.com/autumn/autumn.html
Nov 19, 2018•1 hr
