In this episode of the Talkin’ Crazy Podcast, I break down everything that’s been weighing on our community since the airstrike on Iran. From the stress our families are feeling, to the anxiety junior service members are hiding behind silence — this is for anyone trying to stay grounded when the world feels on fire. I talk about the generational shift in the military, what it felt like going to Afghanistan in 2012, and why now is the time for real leadership — not just rank. If you’re doomscroll...
Jun 23, 2025•24 min•Season 1Ep. 229
Before this episode, I tried to record twice. Both times, I was trying to sound like what I thought a podcaster should be. Motivational. Polished. Perfect. But it wasn’t me. This right here? This was the first real one. No fancy mic, no ring light—just me, in a closet, recording on an Android with a gaming headset, talking to save myself. I was a sergeant on the outside, but broken and lost behind closed doors. In honor of Men’s Mental Health Awareness, I’m remastering “Find Your Peace”—the epis...
Jun 09, 2025•13 min•Season 1Ep. 228
In this powerful episode, Demetrius Thigpen breaks down the victim mindset that’s keeping too many service members (and people in general) stuck. He shares a raw, unfiltered story of almost going to court-martial in 2013 and how taking accountability saved his career—and his life. He unpacks the comfort people find in victimhood, the role of toxic circles, and the importance of owning your failures. This isn’t a callout—it’s a wake-up call. If you’ve been blaming everyone else, this episode will...
Jun 05, 2025•32 min•Season 1Ep. 227
In this raw and unfiltered episode, Demetrius Thigpen (aka Meech Speaks) breaks down what toxic leadership actually looks like in the Marine Corps — and it’s not always who you think it is. From neglect to selfishness, from trauma turned tradition, Meech exposes how the real problem isn’t always the rank — it’s the mindset.He talks personal stories, accountability, and the uncomfortable truth that many of us aren’t ready to hear: you might be the toxic one. This episode isn’t about shame — it’s ...
Jun 05, 2025•38 min•Season 1Ep. 226
Meech sits down with Alex Lisot, former Air Force fighter pilot and CEO of Master the Military, for a no-holds barred talk on what it really takes to prepare for life after service. From the fear of leaving the uniform behind to building a global business as a digital nomad. This episode unpacks how to transition with purpose, build identity beyond the rank, and take full advantage of your military benefits. If you're still saying "I got Time", this is your wake-up call. www.masterthemilitary.co...
May 12, 2025•49 min•Season 1Ep. 224
You ever been halfway through a bottle, halfway through a breakdown, and halfway through a blessing—all at the same damn time? Yeah, this one’s for you. In today’s episode, Meech lays down 10 raw, unfiltered reminders from his 30-day Lock-In journey. From drunk cookouts to delayed promotions, spiritual gut-checks to early morning grinds—this episode ain’t just motivational, it’s personal. If you’re tired of hearing “give yourself grace” and ready to tell yourself the truth… lock in now. Because ...
May 05, 2025•24 min•Season 1Ep. 223
In this episode of the Talkin’ Crazy Podcast, Meech chops it up with Joshua Garcia Soto — better known as Battle Buddy Banter. From broken homes to building dreams, they dive deep into the real struggles of finding time, fighting burnout, chasing personal goals, and leading by example when your family’s counting on you. They talk mental health, military life, content creation, and what it really means to influence others without losing yourself. This ain’t just an episode — it’s a blueprint for ...
Apr 28, 2025•43 min•Season 1Ep. 222
Remaster an old fan favorite and an personal one of mine as well.
Apr 21, 2025•21 min•Season 1Ep. 221
In this hilarious yet brutally honest episode, I sit down with Peezy to unpack the chaos of recruiting duty, the toxic rise of "rage-bait" military influencers, and the difference between having a following and just followers. From My recruiter fatigue to Peezy's unapologetic take on internet clout chasers, this episode blends comedy, realness, and hard hitting truth. We also dive into the pressure of performing on and off social media, the vet-bro community and how some folks in uniform forget ...
Apr 15, 2025•46 min•Season 1Ep. 220
What happens when you get passed over for promotion, still show up, and keep creating through the pain? In this raw, hilarious, and motivating episode, I sit down with viral Marine content creator YRF Tony to talk about the struggle of being a leader, a father and a full-time creator. We cover everything everything from the barracks grind to the power of being authentically you-even when life says you're not good enough. Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you -...
Apr 07, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 1Ep. 219
In this raw and unapologetic episode of the Talkin’ Crazy Podcast , Meech dives headfirst into what it really means to lead like you give a damn. Inspired by his conversation with Gunnery Sergeant Schaeffer, Meech breaks down the hard truths about leadership — the good, the bad, and the straight-up toxic. If you’ve ever worked under a leader who only cared about the rank, the paycheck, or the power, this one’s for you. And if you’re the kind of leader who’s committed to showing up for your peopl...
Mar 31, 2025•37 min•Season 1Ep. 218
In this powerful episode of Talkin’ Crazy , Meech sits down with Lexus Schaeffer—Marine veteran, former MACE Chief Instructor, and current leader in the Human Performance Branch. What starts as a walk through Schaeffer’s Marine Corps journey turns into a masterclass on leadership, humility, and growth. From showing up at the MACE as “Nick the New Guy” to leading the entire program, Schaeffer breaks down what it takes to lead leaders . The two dive into their shared experiences—balancing family a...
Mar 24, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 217
Man, you just had to be there… 2024 was one of the hardest years of my career. I had the package, the experience, the work ethic—but when the Gunnery Sergeant board came out, my name wasn’t on it. I felt like I wasn’t good enough. I questioned everything. But instead of letting that moment define me, I made a choice—to keep grinding, to double down, and to make damn sure that when my time came, I was ready. This episode is for anyone who’s ever been passed over—whether it’s for a promotion, a jo...
Mar 16, 2025•27 min•Season 1Ep. 216
Relationship problems used to be about love and dating, but this time Meech and Shenny take it to a new level with parenting. We discussed how the dynamic changes when you go from talking about couple drama to tackling the trails of raising children Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit https://betterhelp.com/meechspeaks and enjoy a special discount on your first month....
Feb 24, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 215
This week I remastered another fan favorite with an amazing guest! thats right "Relationship Problems 3" the first episode with Shenny Solis is back Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit https://betterhelp.com/meechspeaks and enjoy a special discount on your first month.
Feb 17, 2025•59 min•Season 1Ep. 214
Ever felt like you’re working your ass off, but everybody else is getting ahead while you’re stuck? Like no matter how much effort you put in, success still feels out of reach? In this episode of Talkin’ Crazy , I get real about the frustration of feeling overlooked, the temptation to quit, and the one thing that separates winners from everybody else — showing up. I break down my own struggles, from career setbacks to watching others succeed faster, and how I fought through the doubt, the envy, ...
Feb 10, 2025•21 min•Season 1Ep. 213
What's going on everybody! So today I decided to remaster a fan favorite and bring back one of my favorite episodes! That's right "Fck You Grow" has been remastered with Darnell Gomez. Lets go down memory lane with the first intro and old name too. Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit https://betterhelp.com/meechspeaks and enjoy a special discount on your first month....
Feb 03, 2025•46 min•Season 1Ep. 212
Let’s keep it real—there are days when you wake up and just ain’t got it in you to tackle life’s to-do list. And guess what? That’s okay! In this episode, I’m breaking down why those “do-nothing” days are normal, how to handle them without beating yourself up, and why rest is just as important as the grind. If you’re feeling burnt out, unmotivated, or just plain tired, this one’s for you. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is sit your butt down and recharge. Let’s get into it! Let our sponsor ...
Jan 27, 2025•19 min•Season 1Ep. 211
In this episode of Talkin’ Crazy, Meech and Peezy dive into the chaos of the TikTok ban that shook the internet—even if only for 12 hours. But this conversation isn’t just about social media disappearing—it’s about what it revealed. From the power and pitfalls of being a military influencer to the hate and judgment creators face, Meech and Peezy explore why platforms like TikTok matter, how they connect us, and why some people cheered for others to lose it all. Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect...
Jan 20, 2025•38 min•Season 1Ep. 210
In this episode of Talkin’ Crazy , we’re talking about one simple truth: you are the author of your life. If the story you’re living doesn’t reflect who you want to be or where you want to go, it’s time to write a better one. I’ll share how to break free from limiting beliefs, take control of your narrative, and start creating a life that feels true to you. Your past doesn’t define you—it’s just a chapter, not the whole book. Tune in and let’s rewrite your story together! Let our sponsor BetterH...
Jan 13, 2025•22 min•Season 1Ep. 209
Alright now, let’s talk about it—y’all out here screaming “New Year, New Me” like you ain’t said the same thing last year… and the year before that. But let me guess, the treadmill already got dust on it, huh? In this episode of Talkin’ Crazy , I’m breaking down why your resolutions always flop and how to finally get it right this year. You want success? It’s gonna take discipline, not vibes. So grab a pen and some honesty, and let’s figure this thing out before 2026 sneaks up on you. Let our sp...
Jan 06, 2025•26 min•Season 1Ep. 208
In the final episode of 2024, Meech reflects on a year marked by challenges, growth, and unwavering resilience. From moments of pain to breakthroughs of progress, this raw and unfiltered episode dives deep into the lessons learned, the battles fought, and the power it takes to keep moving forward. As we close the chapter on 2024, Meech speaks to the importance of embracing both struggle and triumph, setting the stage for an even stronger 2025. This is more than reflection—it’s a cal...
Dec 30, 2024•26 min
Its the last month of the year, but we're not last on the list when it comes to putting ourselves first. This episode I'm talking about making ourselves the priority and what it looks like when that doesn't happenLet our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit https://betterhelp.com/meechspeaks and enjoy a special discount on your first month. Grab a “Be Gentle to Your Mental” T-Shirt at https://rarebandy.com/products/...
Dec 02, 2024•28 min
Well it's that time of year again. Our yearly Thanksgiving episode is out and this time we have a special guest to help navigate through the holidaysLet our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit https://betterhelp.com/meechspeaks and enjoy a special discount on your first month. Grab a “Be Gentle to Your Mental” T-Shirt at https://rarebandy.com/products/be-gentle-to-your-mental-x-meech-speaks
Nov 27, 2024•1 hr 19 min
Habits are like a snowball rolling downhill. They start small, but over time, they pick up momentum. The question is: Are you building a snowball that’s leading to success, or one that’s going to crush you under its weight?Today, we’re diving into something that shapes every aspect of our lives—our habits. Whether they’re lifting you up or pulling you down, habits are the building blocks of who you are.Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the co...
Nov 18, 2024•26 min
Welcome back to another episode of Talkin Crazy, the podcast where we dive deep into extraordinary thoughts and everyday experiences. In today's episode, we tackle the theme of being the "strong friend" — the person everyone relies on for support but often feels overwhelmed and isolated in the process. We'll discuss the weight of constantly wearing a mask of strength, the importance of seeking help, and practical ways to find healthy outlets for stress. Plus, a special shout-out to our ...
Nov 11, 2024•23 min
In today's episode, we're diving deep into the importance of work-life balance and effective scheduling, especially for those of us in high-pressure environments like military service. I'm opening up about my own challenges and revelations from the past month, where I found myself overworking and ultimately burning out. By reflecting on my experiences as a top-tier performer with a relentless work ethic, I'm sharing invaluable insights and strategies on setting clear objectives, maintaining f...
Nov 04, 2024•22 min
welcome back to another episode of the Talkin Crazy podcast! In today's episode, I dive deep into the world of maintaining and building a solid personal reputation. I open up about my own experiences on recruiting duty and celebrate 15 years in the Marine Corps. This episode is filled with powerful lessons on consistency, character, and holding oneself to high standards. Whether you're interested in the military or just personal development, this episode is packed with insights you...
Oct 07, 2024•22 min
On this episode I bring back a previous guest @gysgtparhm_usmc to talk about my 3 months on recruiting duty. This is probably one of my favorite episodes and I hope everyone enjoys itLet our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit https://betterhelp.com/meechspeaks and enjoy a special discount on your first month. Grab a “Be Gentle to Your Mental” T-Shirt at https://rarebandy.com/products/be-gentle-to-your-mental-x-mee...
Sep 30, 2024•1 hr 10 min
Today, we’re diving into a crucial topic—speaking up and speaking your mind.- Many of us hold back our thoughts or opinions, whether in personal relationships, at work, or even within ourselves. But today, I want to remind you that your voice matters, and silence can sometimes be your biggest enemy.- Let’s talk about why it's so important to express yourself and how to do it in ways that feel authentic and empowering.Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - ...
Sep 23, 2024•19 min
