Send us Fan Mail Most partners use one move with their hands. There are dozens. And most men have never heard of the deeper spot that changes everything. This episode is a complete guide — how to prep your hands so she actually wants them on her body, the five named techniques that produce completely different sensations, the two internal spots most partners don't know exist, and the combination move that gives her something she literally cannot give herself. What you'll learn: ✔ Why prepping yo...
May 25, 2026•20 min
Send us Fan Mail Alpha male culture is teaching men to dominate, never ask, never show need — and it is quietly destroying their sex lives. Today I'm joined by James Harris, licensed mental health therapist, US Army veteran, and founder of Men to Heal, who has spent a decade watching this play out in real relationships. He's not here to shame men — he's here to give them what the alpha podcasters never do: the actual truth about what makes women want you. What you'll learn: What alpha culture is...
May 20, 2026•53 min
Send us Fan Mail You went soft during sex. She felt it. And the next thing you did probably made it worse. Every man loses his erection. Most panic, apologize, or shut down — and that reaction does more damage than the erection loss ever did. This episode gives you the five exact moves that keep the moment going, keep her turned on, and get your body back without the shame spiral. Plus: why your erection is one of the earliest warning signs of heart disease, diabetes, and hormonal imbalance — an...
May 18, 2026•20 min
Send us Fan Mail Nobody told us what to do with them. Sex ed skipped them entirely. And somewhere along the way, women just... stopped thinking about them. Until now. Three women sit down and go fully, honestly, hilariously there — what we actually find attractive, what we've been getting wrong, and the moves that will genuinely change what happens in your bedroom tonight. We're getting into: Why so many women are low-key intimidated by them (and how to fix that) The grooming conversation nobody...
May 12, 2026•56 min
Send us Fan Mail The Praise Kink episode was one of my biggest videos ever — and your comment section proved you're ready to go deeper. I pulled five questions I kept seeing and I'm giving you the real answers. Research, specifics, and the stuff I didn't have room for the first time around. ✔ What to call her when "good girl" doesn't fit — honorifics, worship titles, and why they work ✔ Can you flip the praise kink and use it on men — and what does that look like inside the kink ✔ How to actuall...
May 11, 2026•26 min
Send us Fan Mail She Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!) She didn't lose interest in sex. She lost interest in sex that never worked for her. Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons — award-winning psychologist, Emory University professor, and author of Good Sex — breaks down the real data behind the orgasm gap, why it slowly kills a woman's desire, and exactly what closes it. Why 75% of women have faked it (and what that's really costing you) The script both men AND women buy i...
May 06, 2026•55 min
Send us Fan Mail It's Masturbation May — and I'm giving you the practice that will upgrade your sex life more than any new position, any new toy, any new technique. Mutual masturbation. Touching yourselves at the same time, in the same bed, watching each other. It removes the pressure to deliver an orgasm. It builds the connection most couples are missing. It shows you exactly what works on each other's bodies. And it lets you both discover new pleasure together. What you'll learn: ✔ Why this pr...
May 05, 2026•19 min
Send us Fan Mail Please stop fucking us hard. Seriously. That's the message — and if you heard it in Suzanne Noble's voice during this episode, you already know why it hit so hard. Suzanne is the host of Sex Advice for Seniors — nearly 200K followers, 180+ episodes, and the most unfiltered voice on intimacy and aging out there. She and I got into everything: why your arousal pattern changes after 50 and what to do about it, what men in their sixties are getting wrong in bed (and the one thing th...
Apr 29, 2026•53 min
Send us Fan Mail Does she grab your hair like she forgot her own name? Does she text you at 2 AM the next day because her body won't stop replaying it? If not, the gap between what you're doing and what would make her lose her mind is just 7 moves nobody ever taught you. This episode gives you 7 moves she's never felt before. Not because they're complicated — because nobody teaches past the basics. What you'll learn: ✔ You're only hitting 20% of her nerve endings — the tongue fix that changes th...
Apr 28, 2026•20 min
Send us Fan Mail There are one night stands you forget before you've brushed your teeth — and there are one night stands you're still thinking about years later. Today we're breaking down the difference. Zachary Zane — author of Boy Slut , Men's Health sex columnist, and Grindr's official sex and relationship expert — joins me to map out exactly how to have a one night stand that actually lives up to the fantasy. From the mental prep most people skip, to where to find the right person, to what h...
Apr 22, 2026•59 min
Send us Fan Mail You watched How to F*ck Slower. You tried it. Then you lost your erection and panicked. This is the fix. Slowing down is the single best thing you can do for her pleasure — but nobody talks about what happens to you when you do it. Your brain speeds up, your body gets nervous, and you lose the one thing you need to stay in the game. This episode breaks down exactly how to stay hard, stay present, and become the man who can go slow without flinching. What you'll learn: ✔ Why slow...
Apr 21, 2026•20 min
Send us Fan Mail Most couples stumble into bed hoping their bodies will figure it out. They don't. Because nobody's talking about who's leading, who's surrendering — or whether you're both fighting for the same role. Today's guest is Sarah Perry — certified somatic sex educator, sexological body worker, and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She holds a master's in psychology and a background in women, gender, and sexuality studies. Sarah works with people through the body to help them understand ...
Apr 15, 2026•53 min
Send us Fan Mail You've been misreading her in bed. The loudest sounds she makes? Those aren't for her. Research shows the majority of women vocalize to speed up his finish — not because they're in pleasure. Meanwhile, the sounds that actually mean she's deep in it? Most men miss them completely. In this episode, I break down the five real sounds she makes during sex — what each one actually means and the exact move to make when you hear it. This isn't theory. This is a playbook. 🔥 What you'll ...
Apr 14, 2026•20 min
Send us Fan Mail What is bimboification — and why are so many people hiding it? Sex and relationship coach Niki Davis-Fainbloom breaks down one of the most misunderstood fetishes out there, where it comes from, and how to explore it in your relationship without the shame spiral. Because the fetish isn't the problem. The shame is. What bimboification and cross-dressing fetishes actually are The real link between bimboification and drag How shame drives desire underground — and the damage it does ...
Apr 08, 2026•54 min
Send us Fan Mail She's not withholding. She's not checked out. And it has nothing to do with how long you've been together. Here's what's actually happening: every time you touch her, kiss her, pull her close — she can feel that it has a destination. And when desire always has a destination, she stops being in the moment and starts managing the arc. So she waits. Every time. What she's craving is a partner who is just as hungry for the moments between sex as he is for sex itself. That shift — wh...
Apr 07, 2026•19 min
Send us Fan Mail You think you know what a fetish is — leather, feet, something you scroll past. But the cultural conversation leads with the weird and skips the why. Today we're flipping that. Jessica Renard — licensed professional counselor, sex therapist at StorieBrook Associates, and a therapist who works directly within the kink communities in Georgia — breaks down the fetishes that actually show up in relationships and the therapist's office. What's happening in the brain, the body, and th...
Apr 01, 2026•1 hr 1 min
Send us Fan Mail Most men are completely silent during sex. And that silence is costing you more than you realize. Surveys suggest that roughly 3 out of 4 women say verbal affirmation during sex increases their arousal and orgasm intensity. But it's not just about saying nice things — it's about pairing specific words with specific physical moves at exactly the right moment. That combination does something to her body that neither one can do alone. In this episode, I'm giving you 5 praise kink m...
Mar 30, 2026•20 min
Send us Fan Mail Is he a sex addict — or does he just want it more than you? The term gets thrown around constantly, but most people have no idea what it actually means. In this episode, I sit down with marriage and family therapist Kate Logan — who specializes in compulsive sexual behavior at the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles — to finally draw the line between high libido, kink, and genuine sexual compulsivity. We get into: What separates a sex addict from someone who just really loves ...
Mar 25, 2026•59 min
Send us Fan Mail She's thought about faking it. Statistically, she probably has. Between 58–80% of women have faked an orgasm — not once, but regularly, with partners they actually cared about. Most of those men never knew. If you want to be the exception, this episode is for you. This isn't about blame. It's about understanding what actually creates faking — and the specific things you can do to change it. What you'll learn: ✔ The 6 real reasons women fake it (none of them are what you think) ✔...
Mar 23, 2026•18 min
Send us Fan Mail Men's sexual shame doesn't look like what you think. It's not about a secret kink. It's the guy jackhammering away thinking that's what success looks like. The one who won't make eye contact. The one who avoids dating entirely — not because he doesn't want connection, but because his nervous system won't let him get close. I sit down with Alex Gear — men's intimacy anxiety coach who never experienced sober sex until he got sober three years ago — to unpack what sexual shame is a...
Mar 18, 2026•50 min
Send us Fan Mail She's been waiting for you to figure this out. For a huge number of women, watching a confident man willingly submit to her is one of the most erotic experiences that exists. Not a weak man — a man who is secure enough to give her complete control and trust her to lead. This episode is about real submission. Not performing. Not topping from the bottom. Actually letting go. What you'll learn: 5 specific ways to submit that she'll never forget Why real submission requires more con...
Mar 17, 2026•22 min
Send us Fan Mail She didn't lose her desire. She quietly quit it. Sex therapist and author Colette Jane Fehr joins Annette to break down why women emotionally and erotically check out of relationships long before anyone notices — and what it actually takes to come back. If you've been going through the motions, or you've watched your partner disappear and had no idea why, this one's for you. In this episode: *What quiet quitting your sex life actually looks like in the bedroom *Why emotional dis...
Mar 11, 2026•1 hr 6 min
Send us Fan Mail She's thought about it. More than once. Maybe every time. And she's decided you'll never know — because asking feels impossible, and hoping you'll figure it out on your own hasn't worked. This episode is about the five dominance moves women consistently fantasize about and almost never get. Not because their partners wouldn't do them, but because no one ever taught them what real dominance actually looks like. This is for the men who want to be the person she feels safe enough t...
Mar 09, 2026•26 min
Send us Fan Mail She didn't set out to build a six-figure business. She got pregnant — and discovered one of OnlyFans' most profitable and least talked-about kinks. Australian mom and content creator Emily Mai joins Annette to talk about what actually happens when a woman refuses to become sexually invisible after motherhood. We're getting into pregnancy kinks, lactation content, belly fetishes, and the real psychology behind why society loses its mind when mothers stay sexually embodied — and p...
Mar 04, 2026•56 min
Send us Fan Mail She's thought about it. More than once. Maybe a hundred times. And she's decided you'll never know. Not because she doesn't trust you — because she's been taught her whole life that wanting certain things makes her too much. This episode is about the five kinks women most commonly carry in silence, the shame that keeps them there, and what you can actually do to become someone it feels safe to tell. What you'll learn: ✔ The 5 kinks women fantasize about and rarely share — and th...
Mar 03, 2026•20 min
Send us Fan Mail Most people think relationships fail because someone stopped trying, cheated, or they just picked wrong. But what if relationships follow a predictable pattern — and most of us are sabotaging them at the exact same stage without even knowing it? In this episode, I sit down with Thais Gibson — founder of Personal Development School, bestselling author, and one of the world's leading experts on attachment theory — to break down the six stages every relationship moves through, why ...
Feb 25, 2026•57 min
Send us Fan Mail Most men assume she just doesn't enjoy it. Most women wonder why they want to sometimes and absolutely don't other times. The truth is more interesting — and more fixable — than either of them thinks. In this episode, sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti breaks down the psychology and neuroscience behind female desire, and gives you 6 specific, research-backed things you can do to shift the dynamic entirely. This isn't about pressure, persuasion, or performance. It's about u...
Feb 24, 2026•21 min
Send us Fan Mail What if orgasms were about more than just pleasure? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m joined by Venus O’Hara —author, sexual wellness expert, and host of the Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast —to explore the O Method, also known as orgasmic manifestation. We break down: What orgasmic manifestation actually is (and what it isn’t) How sexual energy can be used for intention, confidence, and change Why pleasure isn’t just instant gratification—it’s power How to start if mastu...
Feb 18, 2026•1 hr 1 min
Send us Fan Mail Most advice about sexual attraction is either vague, manipulative, or flat-out wrong. This episode isn’t about tricks, lines, or “alpha” posturing. It’s about what actually creates sexual attraction — in real bodies, real moments, and real connection . In this episode, I break down five specific things that reliably make women feel sexually attracted , based on psychology, nervous-system science, and what women consistently respond to — not what dating culture thinks they should...
Feb 17, 2026•16 min
Send us Fan Mail This Talk Sex With Annette topic takes the show back to its roots when it was just a girl's sex talk podcast. For too long, women’s most honest conversations about sex have happened in whispers — in group chats, locker rooms, and over wine when no one’s listening. But what happens when we stop whispering? In this episode, I sit down with writer and pleasure activist Tash Doherty, the bold voice behind Miseducated , to talk about what women really say about sex when you’re not in...
Feb 11, 2026•46 min
