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Tales From The Fourth Trimester

Naomi Chrisoulakiswww.cocoonbynaomi.com

A podcast dedicated to the beauty and brutality of new parenthood - because giving birth is the beginning, but postpartum is forever. Created by postpartum doula Naomi Chrisoulakis, each week she chats to women about their postpartum experiences and asks experts to share their wisdom. 

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Episodes

03 | Birth as a rite of passage, parenting as a spiritual practice, with Julie Tenner

Julie Tenner is a mother of four, an experienced facilitator of deep women’s work, a naturopath, nutritionist, herbalist, counsellor, doula, intimacy and relationships coach and co-host of the Nourishing the Mother podcast. Julie’s wisdom has been such an influence on my parenting journey, and I’m so honoured to have her on the podcast. In this episode, we have a juicy chat about birth and motherhood as a rite of passage, parenting as a spiritual practice and so much in between. To connect with ...

Aug 22, 202157 minSeason 2Ep. 3

02 | How Chinese medicine influenced a first time mum's postpartum, with Kate Thomson

Today I'm chatting to Kate Thomson about how her professional experience as a midwife and Traditional Chinese Medicine doctor informed her postpartum, and how she helps other women. ~ Traditional Chinese medicine protocol for postpartum ~ food prep ~ home birth ~ breast feeding supply issues ~ donor milk ~ matrescence And heaps more. Find Kate here: https://www.themamasalchemist.com/ and here: @themamasalchemist If you enjoy this episode, please share it with a friend!...

Aug 15, 20211 hr 3 minSeason 2Ep. 2

01 | How to keep your relationship strong and connected in postpartum, with Elly Taylor

Ninety two per cent of parents report increased disagreements with their partner in their first year of family. Sixty seven per cent are less happy in their relationship. And relationship concerns are a leading cause of anxiety or depression in pregnancy and early parenthood – affecting as many as 1 in 3 mothers and 1 in 5 dads. Enter Elly Taylor, a perinatal relationship expert, author and founder of Becoming Us. She believes that partners can actually grow closer through parenthood, instead of...

Aug 07, 202147 minSeason 2Ep. 1

Guess what's coming?

SEASON TWO, BABY! It's on the way, and the first episode is dropping on Sunday. Here, a little on what to expect, as well as a bit of a life update. See you Sunday!

Aug 05, 20219 min

86 | "I wanted my baby born into an Aboriginal context" - Bridget Brennan on Indigenous maternal care, grief, and birth during COVID

In this week's episode, Bridget Brennan, journalist and former Europe correspondent for the ABC, tells her story of returning from London mid-pandemic to become a first-time mother. Despite moving back in large part for family support, border closures put an end to that plan. And after the crushing realisation that her mother wouldn't be able to be with her for the birth and postpartum, her father passed away just a day after her little boy was born. We talk about everything from the incredible ...

Mar 28, 20211 hr 16 minSeason 1Ep. 86

85 | Siblings and babies and big feelings, oh my! With respectful parenting coach Alex Emms

Going from one child to two was without a doubt the hardest part of my fourth trimester this time around, and I know I'm not alone. Whether it's your second child or your sixth, the change of family dynamics is a big shift that is keenly felt by our older children (and us!). In this episode, respectful parenting coach Alex Emms (@kidsflourish) shares her wisdom as she goes through this shift herself, as a mum of a 3 year old and an 8 week old. Find Alex at www.kidsflourish.net If you loved this ...

Mar 14, 202158 min

84 | "The body keeps the score" - Jess, on sexual trauma, PNDA and conquering her past

Jess, a mum of one with another little one on the way, shares her rollercoaster postpartum and how she conquered anxiety, depression and suicidal ideation. With the help of a counsellor, she found the link between a past sexual trauma in her twenties and her birth trauma, processed it and is now expecting her second child. If this brings up anything for you, please consider talking to a counsellor on the PANDA helpline: 1300 726 306 (Monday-Saturday 9am-7.30pm AEDT)

Mar 07, 20211 hr 5 min

83 | "My postpartum transformed me" - Mel Richardson

Melanie Richardson shares how she went from a self-confessed control freak to surrender in this episode. We talk bedsharing, mother guilt, sex (or lack thereof), overactive pelvic floor and lots more.

Feb 28, 20211 hr 7 minSeason 1Ep. 83

82 | Starting solids with Boob to Food's Luka McCabe

When should you start a baby on solids? What are the best first foods? How do you time it with milk feeds? What's the deal with baby led weaning and purees? I asked Luka McCabe--midwife, mum and nutrition consultant--to share some of her extensive wisdom on how to feed our tiny people and I learned a ton! Order her book, Milk to Meals, at www.boobtofood.com and follow her on Instagram @boobtofood

Feb 21, 202159 minSeason 1Ep. 82

81 | "I felt like I'd failed as a mother" - Kate Hassett

Kate is the deputy editor of Insight Out and a mother of two. In this episode, Kate generously shares her experiences with endometriosis, surprise pregnancy, c-section, attempted VBAC, tongue tie, mixed feeding and more.

Feb 07, 20211 hr 26 min

80 | Sleep and reflux myth busting with Dr Howard Chilton

I'm thrilled to have renowned neonatal paediatrician Dr Howard Chilton join me for this episode. He's a wealth of knowledge, so I asked for his take on two questions that occupy new parents' minds: what's going on with my babies sleep? And do they have reflux? I found his take on both these issues both reassuring and revolutionary when I first came across his work when Margot was small. I hope you find them interesting too! Apologies for the change in sound halfway - our Zoom call dropped out re...

Jan 31, 20211 hr 4 minSeason 1Ep. 80

79 | "The second time, I allowed everyone to do everything for me" - Gabby Woodward

In this ep, Gabby - an old friend and yoga teacher - discusses her two really different first and second births (one hospital and one home birth) and postpartums (one that she didn't feel ready for and the next that she was very supported through). We chat about everything from placenta previa to breastfeeding and mum guilt, birth trauma and the stretch from one child to two. Thank you Gabby xx

Jan 18, 202153 min

78 | "We kept things simple and supported" - Rosie Ricketson on her positive postpartum

Rosie Ricketson is an artist and mother from Braidwood, New South Wales, and she offers women holistic pregnancy and postpartum support, education and coaching. In this episode, she shares the work she did and the support she set up to have a positive postpartum period with her daughter. To find out more about Rosie and how you can work with her: www.rosierick.com or @_rosierick_ Side note: Rosie took the SheBirths course - if you're keen to do the online course I have a discount code (cocoon10)...

Jan 03, 20211 hr 5 minSeason 1Ep. 78

77 | Postnatal depletion: the signs, symptoms and how to get it sorted, with naturopath Kate Harrison

Okay, you're past the first few months of motherhood, and you're just feeling... a bit crap. Listen in to hear the signs of postnatal depletion, what the physiological markers are and what exactly to do about it with naturopath, postpartum doula and mum of two, Kate Harrison. Because, as Kate says, you don't want feeling like crap to be your new normal. Find Kate: www.littleyarrow.com Instagram @littleyarrow

Dec 27, 202039 min

76 | "I didn't have that love bubble, and I wasn't myself" - Amber Giles

Amber Giles is a journalist and mum of one, and in this episode she shares her experience of discovering pre-eclampsia during labour, successful breastfeeding, postpartum anxiety - and what happened when she didn't feel that in-love buzz she'd expected. Amber chats about how she got through a tricky start with the help of her partner, family, friends and professionals and how she navigated the huge identity shift that motherhood brought. Oh and keep your ears peeled for her UberEats hack for avo...

Dec 21, 20201 hr 11 min

75 | "The best way to deal with trauma is to talk about it" - Kyra Lee

Kyra Lee is a social worker who specialises in working with pregnant women and new parents in difficult circumstances - and when she fell pregnant herself, she had to work hard to let go of all the trauma and worst-case-scenarios that she'd seen and heard. In this episode, we talk about hypnobirthing, her labour (induction, postpartum haemorrhage, fourth degree tearing), birth trauma, recovery complications and PTSD. But it's not all grim! A positive breastfeeding experience, good physical recov...

Dec 13, 20201 hr 8 min

74 | "New motherhood was the loneliest time of my life" - Rhiann McGarry

Rhiann McGarry describes her fourth trimester as "treacherous". An older first time mum, she endured multiple losses before having an ultimately successful and smooth IVF pregnancy... only to be faced with a lonely and shocking fourth trimester - shocking, she says, because her expectations were way off, her baby was unsettled and not fond of sleep, and her friends had had kids a decade before she had. Listen in to hear the wisdom she's earned from her rocky but ultimately rewarding transition t...

Dec 06, 20201 hr 10 minSeason 1Ep. 74

73 | 10 top birth and beyond tips from nurse, midwife, Calmbirth educator and mother Jen Troy

How does a nurse, midwife and Calmbirth educator do birth and beyond? In this week's episode, Jen Troy of Seasons of Mama joins me to share it all - and her top tips. If you're pregnant, this ones a must listen! Find Jenna (and her beautiful products, including affirmation cards) at @seasons_of_mama She's kindly shared a 15% off code for listeners, too: cocoon15

Nov 29, 20201 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 73

72 | "Nurturing myself was the best thing I did for my postpartum" - Elle Blanks

ICU nurse and mum of one, Elle Blanks, had an "amazing" first three months of motherhood, thanks to investing in her postpartum period, both by nurturing herself and allowing others to nurture her. In this episode, Elle chats to me about her experience with IVF, the birth of her little boy, and how despite breastfeeding issues, sleep deprivation and limited family support she had a wonderful postpartum period.

Nov 08, 202045 minSeason 1Ep. 72

70 | How to heal your pelvic floor, with Bernadette Lack

Bernadette Lack is a midwife, personal trainer, mum and pelvic floor expert--she has helped hundreds of women sort out their post-baby pelvic floors with her Core and Floor Restore programs. Here, she shares her own experience with incontinence, pregnancy, home birth, and restoring her pelvic floor health... and gives plenty of tips on how you can too. Side note: when we recorded this ep, I was still pregnant and B was newly pregnant (but not publicly sharing that!). She's now in her third trime...

Oct 24, 20201 hrSeason 1Ep. 70

69 | Emmeline Tyler: "How having Asperger's helps me mother"

Fellow postpartum doula and mother of one Emmeline Tyler shares her experience of what it's been like for her to go through pregnancy, birth and postpartum as an autistic woman. Tune in to hear about her surprise pregnancy, living and working in Arnhem Land, and her positive birth experience. Emmeline has a background in anthropology and linguistics, with experience working and living in remote Aboriginal communities. Through this experience, she has witnessed an authentic community and has seen...

Oct 18, 202057 minSeason 1Ep. 69

68 | Robin McLeavy: "Pregnancy, birth and motherhood is a profound spiritual journey"

Robin McLeavy is a doula, hypnobirthing educator and actor who is able to articulate the experience of becoming a mother like no one else. Our conversation spans birth and postpartum, of course, but then we went into home birth, feminism, matrilineage, the mother wound, raising boys, parenting styles, gender politics, relationships and oh so much more. This conversation absolutely lit me up. For some reason my voice is a bit muffled on this recording - my apologies. But fortunately, the person w...

Oct 07, 20201 hr 19 minSeason 1Ep. 68

67 | Anne-Marie Cheney: "Going from a full-on career to the slowness of motherhood was a hard transition"

So often we think of postpartum as a six week period that ends with a GP check. Why aren't we talking more about the massive shift that occurs for women way beyond those early weeks? Whatever you want to call it: psychological, spiritual, psychic... the identity shake up is real, and so is the change of pace. This week Anne-Marie joins me for a chat about her transition to motherhood and how she's handled a busy, successful career with parenting her two girls.

Sep 27, 20201 hr 2 minSeason 1Ep. 67

66 | What my (second) first forty days taught me

A little six week update from me! I'm chatting about what I've been eating, the amazing meal train organised by friends, the role of my midwife and doulas, my physical recovery, breastfeeding, sleep, how my anxiety and mental health has been and lots more.

Sep 14, 202044 minSeason 1Ep. 66

65 | What food your body really needs during pregnancy and postpartum, with dietician Renee Jennings

Dietician Renee Jennings joins me on the podcast to chat about all things nutrition - she specialises in maternal health and is a mum herself. When she was pregnant with her first baby, she thought she knew all the right things to eat, but she's since discovered some surprising menu items that she's now incorporating into her second pregnancy, and she's sharing it all with us. As well as all her expert advice (including how to make the best porridge and all her tricks for making the most of free...

Aug 30, 20201 hr 5 minSeason 1Ep. 65

64 | The birth of Cormac Chrisoulakis

It's taken me a few weeks to get my head around Cormac's birth: after a long, slow wait for his arrival at 42 weeks (on top of the pregnancy that took me through the horror bushfire season and the start of the pandemic) and a measured start to labour, at the end it was all fast and furious. Amazing but also confusing: what just happened? How did I not know he was coming? Wait, was I in transition? In this episode, my lovely doula Jerusha Sutton (www.jerusha.com.au) talks me through this amazing,...

Aug 24, 20201 hr 17 minSeason 1Ep. 64

63 | Tara Ali: navigating a relationship breakdown during pregnancy and postpartum

Tara Ali is a writer and mother of two, and in this episode she shares her two very different postpartums: her first baby was born after eight years of trying to conceive, and five rounds of IVF. When she fell pregnant with her second child, she found herself facing serious relationship challenges. Listen in to hear how she navigated complex issues as her pregnancy progresses and separated from her partner during her postpartum period, all while managing the needs of a toddler and a newborn. Tar...

Aug 17, 20201 hrSeason 1Ep. 63

62 | How to navigate new motherhood like a boss: maternity leave planning with Arianna Taboada

Arianna Taboada is a Maternal Health Consultant for entrepreneurs: she helps make their maternity leave and transition to motherhood smoother – while keeping their business thriving. Whether you work for yourself or someone else, what we're focusing on in today's episode could totally change the way you think about planning for your postpartum... it did for me! Her eco map is a brilliant way to plan your move into parenthood (whether for the first or third time). We also talk about harnessing th...

Aug 09, 202039 min
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