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Episode 13: Oral sexual norms in history

Jun 14, 20258 min
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In this episode of "Taboo: Fetish or Kink", host Kay Love gives listeners a historical overview of sexual norms, specifically focusing on oral sex. Beginning with ancient societies, Kay Love discusses the acceptance and inclusion of diverse sexual practices in cultures like Ancient Greece, Rome, Mesopotamia and Egypt. She then explores the shift towards more rigid norms with the emergence of religious influences such as Christianity, Islam, and Judaism. However, despite strict regulations, secular practices and indigenous cultures preserved their unique sexual customs. The podcast also addresses the Victorian era's sexual repression, countered by a sexual revolution in the 20th century that saw oral sex and diverse sexual practices gain acceptance. The episode finishes with a look at the modern era, where globalization, the internet and LGBTQ+ rights movements drive a widespread acceptance of diverse sexualities, including oral sex. Kay Love emphasizes how societal norms are shaped by power dynamics, religious influences, and secular movements.

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Hey there, it's your girl, k Love and welcome to another episode of Taboo, Fetish or Kink. Today, we're taking you on a wild ride through time and across cultures to explore how sexual norms, particularly around oral sex, have shifted and evolved. Trust me, you don't want to miss this one, all right. Let's kick things off with ancient societies spanning from the prehistoric era up to five hundred CE. So picture this cave art and venus figurines. Yep, even

our prehistoric ancestors. We're all about that fertility and sexual expression. It's crazy to think, but oral sex probably emerged naturally during this time, even though direct evidence is pretty scarce. Then we move on to ancient and me y are show or Nia or and I's get out had stop as these folks they had text like the about gods, like about specially got including oral sex. You often t her uh thank festa or yard or shaher who Statia. Next stop is ancient Greece and Rome, where sexual norms

we're super fluid. I think Sappho's poetry and those raunchy pompey frescoes. Oral sex and same sex relations were common and totally accepted. Greece had this socially regulated practice called pederisty, while Rome tied sexual roles to power dynamics. Being the active partner was like, yeah, I'm the boss, while the passive role not so much. In India, the Kammasutra wasn't just a manual, It was a whole philosophy of pleasure and love that normalized a bunch of sexual practices, including

oral sex. Now let's fast forward to the era of big religious influences from five hundred CE to fifteen hundred CE. Here comes Christianity, Islam, and Judaism, introducing stricter sexual norms. Christianity, for instance, was a zee was all about pro creation and often slammed non procreative acts like oral sex as sinful. That being said, enforcement was kind of all over the place,

and secular practices often did their own thing. In the Islamic world, those hadiths and some Persian poems hinted at sensual pleasure, but modesty and procreation were still the big deals. Meanwhile, in East Asia, especially China, Taoist texts considered sexual practices, including oral sex, part of health and spiritual balance. In Japan, Shunga art Wow it showed a diverse range of sexual acts as totally unnatural. Jumping to the medieval to early

modern periods. Between fifteen hundred and eighteen hundred, the Catholic Church really tightened the screws on sexual norms in Europe. Anything outside marital procreative sex labeled as sodomy. But don't be fooled, people were still getting down behind closed doors. Renaissance art and literature, like Boccaccio's a crutch was to Cameron, kept the freak flag flying, showcasing all kinds of sexual diversity. Colonization also played a huge role here, with Europeans imposing

their rigid norms on more permissive indigenous cultures. Some Native American tribes, for instance, had these fluid gender roles and sexual practices that colonizers tried to squash over. In Asia and Africa, local traditions stayed alive despite the growing influence of global trade. Moughal, India's art still celebrated eroticism, and African sexual customs were all over the map, from extremely

permissive to highly regulated. Let's roll into the modern era from eighteen hundred to the present ah the nineteenth century Victorian Europe was pretty much the definition of sexual repression. Modesty and heterosexual marriage were the names of the game, and oral sex pathologized by emerging medical discourses thanks to folks like Freud. Yet underground subcultures and racy literature like Fanny Hill show that people were finding ways to keep

their sexual practices alive. Then we hit the twentieth century and boom the sexual revolution of the sixties and seventies. Contraception and feminist movements took center stage, normalizing all sorts of sexual practices, including oral sex, as part of personal freedom. Kinsey's reports were eye openers, documenting widespread non procreative behaviors and blowing up taboos left and right. Globally, post colonial

societies mixed traditional and Western norms. In Japan, for instance, modern cultures stayed pretty open about sexuality, while some Middle Eastern countries stuck to strict religious codes. Though private practices they varied a lot. So what about the late twentieth to twenty first century? Globalization? Media and the Internet spread all kinds of sexual norms around the world. LGBTQ plus rights movements made huge strides in accepting diverse sexualities, though

there's still backlash in more conservative regions. Oral sex it's largely normalized today, popping up in media and getting openly discussed. The bottom line, what's taboo in one culture might be sacred in another. It all reflects power dynamics, religious influences, and the ebb and flow of secular movements. That's it for today's juicy historical romp through sexual norms and how they've evolved, especially when it comes to oral sex. You've been listening to Taboo, Fetish or King with Me Girl

k Love. Don't forget to check the show notes for any links or articles we mentioned in today's episode. Catch you next time and keep it spicy.

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