Episode 90 - Scening Now or Later? In this episode, the Synful Ladies discuss their weekend shenanigans and also what fun things that are coming up for the whole crew: from Rope Intensives to the Club OKCs pool party, the calendar is quite full! Then Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about how to approach someone in a dungeon to scene the same night you meet them. Going over all the important things to make sure you hit and figure out prior to scening with someone new, the Ladies hit it all. Email: sy...
Mar 22, 2023•53 min•Ep. 89
Episode 89 - Is there a Correct Way to be Polyam? On this episode of The Synful Ladies, the Ladies discuss a couple different situations where the question has arose: is this not the “right” way to be polyamorous? From someone who is a hinge in a poly-vee dynamics to someone who is poly-saturated and trying to be upfront with new people about what they can offer, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss and offer their take on what should be done. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulla...
Mar 06, 2023•53 min•Ep. 88
Episode 88 - Rule Breakers? In the latest installment from the Synful Ladies, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn tackle a couple different posts seen in the wilds of social media. First up, if a partner tells you their rules within their marriage and then breaks those rules, who is at fault? Next, is it on the person who accepts a request to play from half of a couple to check with the other half to be sure it’s okay? Join us as we discuss! Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / T...
Feb 09, 2023•52 min•Ep. 87
Episode 87 - KWN Recap In this episode, the Synful Ladies get back to business and recap all the fun and debauchery that was had at Krazy Winter Nights. From almost driving past hotels, to meeting some amazingly sexy people, to hosting the largest rope class ever, the Ladies dish on it all! Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle...
Jan 26, 2023•50 min•Ep. 86
Episode 86 - BDSM Dynamics through a Poly Lens In this episode, the Synful Ladies have a special guest join them for an intriguing topic: how is a D/s dynamic in a BDSM relationship viewed when transitioning into the world of polyamory. The Ladies take a deep dive into the nuances of what perceptions can be wrong and should be reevaluated along with their special guest star. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photo...
Jan 19, 2023•59 min•Ep. 85
Episode 84 - The Lifestyle Fixes Everything… not! In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about what happens when couples get into the lifestyle and begin swinging - to save their marriage or relationship. (Sidenote: It’s not usually good). Using play partners to attack or hurt your significant other, is never a good sign and the Synful Ladies talk about all the ways things can go wrong and what you can do if you find yourself in a situation like this.
Dec 28, 2022•44 min•Ep. 84
Episode 83 - Partner’s Partners Problems In this episode, the Synful Ladies offer their take on how a listener can address problems with their metamour taking on more of a parental role for the listeners children and refusing to have any communication or interaction with the listener. A basic respectful relationship is needed for any successful meta-meta relationship but when that isn’t happening, what is the responsibility of the mutual partner to intervene? The Synful Ladies dish out the truth...
Dec 01, 2022•50 min•Ep. 83
Episode 82 - Self Conscious vs Self Confidence In this episode, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn answer a listeners question about how to handle scars and other areas of our bodies that we are self-conscious about before, during, and after playtime. Discussing how self consciousness can turn into self-confidence, the Synful Ladies talk about different ways and strategies to manage being self-conscious.
Nov 04, 2022•45 min•Ep. 82
Episode 81 - Odors and Scents and Smells, Oh My! In this episode of the Synful Ladies, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss a listener’s dilemma: he wanted to play with a couple but the woman had an odor and he couldn’t perform. The Ladies talk about all the possible reasons smells happen; from pheromones to sweat to bacteria, there are a wide range of potential causes and the Ladies talk about why that smell may not be what you think it is: pheromones can be a shock if you’ve never had experienced th...
Oct 27, 2022•51 min•Ep. 81
Episode 80 - Habits In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about something we all have but can forget we have : habits. From “Do you get in a rut or habit of eating at the same place?” to “do you make it a habit to always initiate play in the same way?”, the Synful Ladies cover all different types of habits you can have from grooming, to play, to clothing, to eating. What habits to they discuss that are different than yours? Or the same? Let the Ladies know! Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (...
Oct 20, 2022•45 min•Ep. 80
Episode 79 - Laughter is the Best Medicine In this episode, the Synful Ladies talk about some of the funniest and silliest stories they’ve experienced in the lifestyle as well as some that others have experienced. Laughter and fun is had by all as the Ladies sit back and enjoy the stories.
Oct 13, 2022•47 min•Ep. 79
Episode 78 - Why the Judgement? In this episode, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn talk about the judgment that can be passed on people who are into looking for casual no strings attached sex without a relationship. The judgment and gatekeeping seem to come out towards those who are upfront about their intentions from the get go due to assumptions that they aren’t really being honest about what they want. The Synful Ladies look at all the reasons why judgement is bad for the community as a whole and how to...
Oct 04, 2022•44 min•Ep. 78
Episode 77 - De-escalation station In this episode, The Synful Ladies tackle something that happens often in polyamory but yet doesn’t get talked about a lot: de-escalating a relationship with a partner. Trying to navigate from partners, lovers, to friends or more of a friends with benefits situation without a true break up is an especially hard thing to do. The Ladies offer their opinions and thoughts on one listener’s particular situation. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synf...
Sep 23, 2022•59 min•Ep. 77
Episode 76 - Couple Profile Tips and Advice In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft share their insights into the world of social media and looking for other compatible couples to swing with. From what to include on your profile to what not to say when you chat with another couple, the Synful Ladies dish on it all.
Sep 09, 2022•48 min•Ep. 76
Episode 75 - Comparison Catastrophe In this episode, the Synful Ladies answer a listener’s question: how do you stop comparing yourself to your metamours, (your partner’s other partners). Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft weigh in and offer advice on how to tackle the jealousy, insecurity, and fears that could all be contributing to the comparison phenomenon. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out o...
Sep 02, 2022•58 min•Ep. 75
Episode 74 - She Does but I Don’t In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft offer advice on what to do when one half of a couple is seriously talking about ending participation in the lifestyle but the other isn’t ready to leave yet. Getting down to the reason that the partner who is wanting to leave is key because it may be that instead of leaving the lifestyle, you simply need a break. Burnout comes in all forms even for multitaskers like swingers, kinksters, and polyam people. Hear what insight...
Aug 25, 2022•51 min•Ep. 74
Episode 73 - Update and a What Would the Synful Ladies Do Dilemma? In this episode, the Synful Ladies hear back from a listener with more information and detail about their previous question and situation. This is an update from the situation featured in Episode 67 - Awkward Encounters. Then Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft tackle a “What Would You Do?” Question posed in a social media group. Find out what the Synful Ladies would do and what they think of the update from the listener!
Aug 19, 2022•51 min•Ep. 73
Episode 72 - Rumor Spreader In this episode of the Synful Ladies, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft answer a listener’s question about addressing rumors. Whether you’ve been in the lifestyle for years or if you’re just starting out, rumors can ruin a good thing. The Ladies discuss all the complications that can arise from the different ways you can tackle hearing rumors about you and your partner especially when it’s not true. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful...
Aug 11, 2022•48 min•Ep. 72
Episode 71 - Pool Party Recap In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft recount all the sexy, synful shenanigans that were had at The Club OKC Pool Party 2022! From the corn hole competition, to the sexy pool side games on Saturday, the Synful Ladies dish on it all! It was amazing and fun and if you didn’t make it out this year, be sure to put it on your calendar for next year! Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram phot...
Aug 04, 2022•51 min•Ep. 71
Episode 70 - Helicopter Mother and Polyamory In this episode, a listener writes in asking for help in addressing her overbearing mother who wants to join her on a potential polyamorous date. Amidst the uncertainty and excitement of new relationships potentially forming, a mother feeling left out is added to the mix. Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss how to set boundaries, expectations, and how to approach uncomfortable conversations. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) /...
Jul 21, 2022•44 min•Ep. 70
Episode 69 - Do You Love Me? Prove it In this episode, the Ladies address a dilemma posted in a Facebook group. After their first lifestyle experience didn’t go so well, the boyfriend is insisting that his girlfriend try again because he didn’t get enough attention. However, his girlfriend isn’t bi and isn’t sure she wants to try again. So out comes the infamous phrase “If you really loved me you would _______” Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn address all the options and concerns that go along with trying...
Jul 19, 2022•36 min•Ep. 69
Episode 68 - Change of Heart or Bait and Switch? In this episode, the Synful Ladies return from an inadvertent week long hiatus due to health issues to tackle a thorny situation. When your partner is all ready to jump into the lifestyle only to pull the plug at the very last second, is it a bait and switch? Or have they had a change of heart? The Ladies tackle tough communication conversations and more. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@syn...
Jul 07, 2022•56 min•Ep. 68
Episode 67 - Awkward Encounters In this episode, the Synful Ladies tackle a tricky problem from one of their listeners. How should you move forward when the potential significant other of a family member is discovered to be closely related to former play partners that are no longer in the lifestyle? Especially when you are not out to that particular family member in question? Join Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft as they dive into this thorny solution and try to find a solution for everyone.
Jun 23, 2022•45 min•Ep. 67
Episode 66 - First Threesome Questions and Tips In this episode, the Synful Ladies tackle the do’s and don’ts of threesomes (especially those first time threesomes). From who kisses who to how to politely ask someone to leave if they have overstayed their welcome, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft get down to the nitty gritty details sometimes overlooked in the excitement of planning the event itself. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) •...
Jun 17, 2022•45 min•Ep. 66
Episode 65 - Body Conscious In this episode, a listener asks how he can help encourage and support his wife in playing with more people. Living with surgery scars from cancer can do a number on a person’s confidence and comfort in their own body. The Synful Ladies dive into what he can do and what he should keep doing right. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its ...
Jun 09, 2022•49 min•Ep. 65
Episode 64 - Frenzy or Flag? In this episode, The Synful Ladies break down what could be potential red flags in newbies or if it could just be Newbie Frenzy. Sometimes things we would consider red flags in more experienced couples, aren’t so in newbies; the newbies don’t know any better. Time to help out newbies when we see them!
Jun 02, 2022•50 min•Ep. 64
Episode 63 - This is Weird Right? In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about meeting with a couple who has young kids. When they ask to bring the kids along to meet first and not play, is that weird or expected since they have kids so young? The Ladies discuss it all. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle Show Less...
Jun 01, 2022•37 min•Ep. 63
Episode 62 - Is this Jealousy or Territoriality? In this episode, the Synful Ladies discuss a listener’s dilemma: when a spouse walks the fine line of not quite crossing established boundaries but still ends up pushing the other into uncomfortable territory, is the reaction from the responding spouse appropriate or an overreaction? Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio...
May 12, 2022•48 min•Ep. 62
Episode 61 - Red flag or Inexperience? In this episode, Lady Kroft has a question from a listener: when talking to a potential Dom as a new submissive, how can you tell the difference between a red flag and just my inexperience? Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft tackle all the nuances of vetting and potential red flags from right out of the gate. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap R...
May 05, 2022•44 min•Ep. 61
Episode 60 - Can Communication Be Coercive? In this episode, The Synful Ladies discuss one of the most important aspects of any relationship: Communication. They also answer the question: can communication be coercive? Usually communicating is a good thing but can it also be a bad thing? Join the Ladies as they talk about it all Email: synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – ...
Apr 28, 2022•56 min•Ep. 60
