Ep 11: Jeans, Whiskey, and Insecurities: A Lifestyle Weekend Unpacked

We're good and you're like nah nah he's sitting there going yeah she ain't paying attention take two or four I don't fucking know at this point oh my god you guys done doing your ASMR, annoyance I mean you got your first hand one but I don't think you got that recorded I can do it again no please don't don't do that please don't like I can only imagine what his ears were doing because if I had the headphones on and heard that I'm sure they would be internally bleeding,

yeah it was it was not good not good not good at all zero out of ten do not recommend yes so sometimes don't do it what how are you gonna do that anyway like a sneak attack oh well i can't now because i put the phone back i know that's what i'm saying how you can't do it today yeah because i'm gonna know i because i'm i can hear every time she moves her fingers on the microphone i've been i have a very firm grip right now you probably shouldn't have a firm grip yeah

we've We've gone over this. We've discussed this.

Yes. It's not a vice grip. Microphones, yes. Paninas' no. Yeah. Like when you're squeezing the life out of it. It didn't do nothing to you. Don't hurt it. It's a stroke. A gentle stroke. Yeah. Oh, my God. Stroke me. Stroke me. Well, at least we'll have some stroking to talk about today. Oh, yeah.

Yeah. Are you guys ready to get into episode number 11? Thank you. Yes. All righty then. Welcome to Swing Theory, where pleasure meets perspective. Join Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany, your favorite trio of temptation, as they dive deep into the swinging lifestyle. From wild stories to honest talk about connection, communication, and community, they've seen it all. And they're sharing what they've learned from over a decade of non-monogamous

adventures. So, pour a drink, relax, and get ready to explore your own theory of pleasure, right here on Swing Theory. And here we are, episode number 11. I'm going to kick this off. I'm your host, Pedro, alongside my two beautiful co-hosts, Miss Tiffany and, of course, Tink. Hello. Hi. No. No? Wait, you don't want us to say hi now? We didn't do anything and you're already telling us no. We'll just be mute. It's fine. Carry on, Pedro. It's all yours. Carry on. Oh, sorry.

Yeah, so we've had an eventful weekend. We have. We are all exhausted. Yes. Definitely a reminder of we're not no spring chickens no more. Not even a little bit. Says the baby of the group. Yeah, which means that was a lot that we did. It was. Like, wow. Yeah. I don't think we've partied like that in quite some time. Oh, yeah. Yep. So we had a kid-free weekend.

Yes. First time in quite a while. Well, basically since they went on vacation. Yeah. Oh, yeah. You're right. So we were talking, you know, like, we need to get out and do lifestyle things. You know, because like we've talked about on previous two episodes, like, that lifestyle component. has been missing. Yeah. And that, It's a big part of who we all are, you know, and like for you and Tink, like it's a big part of just your everyday personalities.

Yeah, it is. Even in the vanilla world, you know, not having that lifestyle connection, you know, kind of brings you guys down all around. We get so involved in just day-to-day life and going to work, being a mom and everything, that having that little bit of freedom to do those things is definitely much needed. Yeah. Absolutely. And, I mean, I've talked to you guys about this multiple times over the past year. And I know, like, Tiff, you're always like, eh, you know, I don't need the lifestyle.

I don't need it, you know. and Tink has kind of said the same thing over the years like I could take it or leave it but. There is a huge difference in your personalities when that component is not there yeah it gives us the opportunity to let our hair down yeah and I think it's one of those things where you know like you had said you kind of get wrapped up in everything in just your normal life that you don't make room for it to be present on the daily.

And, you know, that's kind of, I think even for me, where I kind of fell off quite a bit is the fact that I didn't make it a daily. So it wasn't on my brain 24-7. It kind of got pushed to the back burner. And like Pedro said, it ended up, you know, It's altering my personality on who I am and how people know me as Ting.

Yeah, and it was, I mean, it's the same for me. The difference is, like, before Unicorn Tiff, like, I didn't, while, yes, I would have random conversations throughout the week, like, I didn't really...

I was able to turn that switch off because I was a mom and I was myself during the week. And it was like on Fridays, that's when the switch flipped again. And I could just do whatever. But there was components of the lifestyle that was still active all week. You know, because like you're trying to make connections for the following weekend and all that stuff. So like it never truly stopped. No, because I was definitely more active in the groups, more flirty on the pages.

You know, just doing those little things like when I was winding down at the end of the night, you know, getting on Facebook and flirting with people and things like that. Yeah. So, I mean, by not doing that and by focusing on like our relationship, well, yes, that's very important. You kind of lost a big part of yourself in that process. And, you know, I've been asking both of you, like, bring that back. Those are the women that I fell in love with. You know, I fell in love with the hoes.

That is accurate. I mean. That's because you have more fun with hoes. Well, I, you know, that's in a good way. That's not like a bad thing. I've never wanted the normal, you know, the white picket fence and the, you know, 3.5 kids and, you know, like. 3.5 kids. Well, you got four now. I know. I know. But like I was never the normal type of guy.

So as things have gone we haven't had opportunities to let you guys be like the lifestyle women that you used to be yeah and i think that when we've gone out before because we've talked about this over the last couple weeks when we've gone out before because we haven't had that consistency, you know it has been just like our normal life carries over into the weekend as well Yeah. So we definitely haven't been our normal tink and tiff. Yeah.

Right. And going into this weekend, you know, I had said, no matter what, you bitches need to have fun. Yeah. You know, and I even took like myself, not out of the equation, but like I told you to whatever you're worried about how I'm going to feel about things. Don't like it's not your job to manage my feelings. I'm encouraging you both to enjoy yourselves and have fun, do what you want to do. Because to me, I felt like that was more important than any of my insecurities

or my feelings because I know I can handle them. Right. It's hard. It's hard because you don't want to put your partner in a bad headspace on purpose. And while it was up in the air, whether, you know, how things were going to go and how you were going to feel, it's still in the back of your mind where it's like, okay, well, I don't want to do something that's going to put you in a bad headspace. And I know, I understand what you're saying, that it's not our job to try and manage that.

It's our job to be supportive of you after. Right. And that's all I ask for. Right. Just, you know, if I have any feelings about things, just support me in whatever way I may need at that time.

You know or if I just need some space like let me work through it on my own like you have to respect that right but I made it very clear to both of you like I want you to to enjoy yourselves yes you did because that's that's who I am as a partner you know I'm a very unselfish person when it comes to all that and you know when you guys try to tell me like oh no like we're not gonna make you feel this way or whatever like that makes me even more mad because I'm like I literally

just fucking said like I can handle it you know I'm a very emotionally stout person. You are and I think part of this the struggle with it though too is the you know the aftermath of everything and how things you know would be perceived and how you can go about that because you know, before... You do anything, regardless of what it is, you have that sense of control because you're in that state at that moment and you're able to talk everything out, you know, where you're at.

But then going into basically the unknown, you have no more control. So everything's up in the air. You don't want to have your partner be, you know, in their head or regretting things or you feeling like you put them in this position, you didn't support them or anything like that.

So there is that back and forth of okay well yes we will you know want to be there and do what you tell us to do of having a good time but at the same time we're also like but how is this going to go for you because we want you to be having a good time i know and like we've talked about you know many times me having a good time in the lifestyle is a unicorn in itself like that's true I mean, that's the true unicorn for me is having good experiences.

So I've had a decade to build up this, you know. Emotional muscle to be able to handle things that, you know, may be uncomfortable or, you know, things that are insecurities or whatever, because it's a constant thing. You know, the lifestyle has never been about me, even when it was just Tink and I, like it was Tink, Tink, Tink, Tink, Tink. And now it's Tiff and Tink, Tiff and Tink, Tiff and Tink, which we've seen many times over now in the past year.

You know like when you guys play those like games on facebook you'll have 80 to 90 100 people saying oh yeah i'd love to play with you i get like 10 maybe you know but you guys will get all of your people in a matter of two hours yeah yeah it takes me three days to get up to like 10 people that are like yeah i i might play with you it is very different. So, when it comes to things that I know you guys are excited about.

So, this weekend started off Friday night. We had a couple that we've interacted with on the pages. And we finally met them at Sunny Rest over the summer. You've ran into them. A couple times here and there. In the past. But when we ran into them at Sunny Rest, like, you made it very clear. Like, they were definitely on your I would like to play with them list.

You know and even tink was like yeah like that's they would definitely be good in my book you know even though she had her own hesitations which revolved around me like had nothing to do with how she felt about it she was worried about me but we finally were able to make that happen because we decided we were going to have a game night here and we were trying to get two couples at least.

But it worked out that only that one couple could make it yep so there was a lot of anxiety around that like just a little in the couple days leading up to it yeah you know and like i don't mind saying this because like i've talked to the couple about this like part of my not really anxiety but like the the things that i was worried about i may have feelings about you know is the gentleman is kind of like the trifecta of my insecurities when it comes to the lifestyle you know

he's a very large man you know he's a good looking guy and he's got a nice dick you know a little bit bigger than me now he's not as big as i thought he was going to be but he's still a little bit bigger than me. So that part wasn't as bad, you know? But still, I hate being a little guy. I know you do, but. That's like the thing that you wish that you could change overall about yourself, which of course, like you even tell me all the time, like, this is what you have. Right.

You can't do anything about it. You have to just embrace what you have. I know. And, but I think the, like the part when it comes to the lifestyle is like, that's kind of your go-to. Like that's your. Yeah. You know. We've talked about that many times that that is the body type that I go for.

And it's not even like it's it's not even like an on-purpose thing like it just naturally happens and that's why it's an insecurity of mine you know same thing with you tiff and you like the fit guys right now i could get fit if i had time but i don't really have time to do that so you know that was an insecurity and like i didn't know how i was going to handle that but i promised you both like i was gonna go into it with a as good of a headspace as i could you know

i was gonna have the best time i could and we ended up having a great fucking time it was yeah it was such a great time you know they got here a little after eight and i was still up in the shower because tink and i came here right from work which she had to pick me up at the mechanic shop because again my truck kind of broke down on me i was gonna say wasn't this the second time this no nope it was last week and then again this week yeah so two weeks in a row trucks in the shop.

But i was able to limp it home or at least to my mechanic shop and she picked me up from there then we just left and came straight to you yeah so it was we got here we talked a little bit you know, tried to get on the same page, you know, as- More of that confirmation. And then I was in the shower when they got here. So I'm like trying to hurry up and I come down and you guys are all just, you know, standing around the table, talking and laughing. And, you know, I'm like, oh, hey guys.

Part of my late entrance. In Pedro fashion. Yeah. You know, and like they both looked great. Yeah, they did. I mean, the gentleman. Very well put together. Yeah, I mean, the gentleman was, you know, dressed nice and, you know, was everything that I know you girls were like, yes, you know. And we expected nothing less. Like, right. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, like, he has his own style. Yes.

And I like that style. I mean, but it's different looking at pictures online versus like when you're in person and you get that like, okay, like, we're off to a good start.

Like things are looking good yeah and literally and figuratively yes right and the wife i mean she looked beautiful yeah she did and what like what i loved about it is like she didn't try to overdress you know like she understood it's a game night didn't have to get all dolled up but jeans and it was perfect like i know you love your jeans i fucking love jeans i'm not gonna lie it kind of reminded me of like the 90s vibe. Yeah, yeah. Like that's what I would have worn. Yeah.

And I love that. Like, because they were kind of like low rise jeans. But they had like multiple buttons. Yes. Yeah, I love. That was cool. Yeah, like they weren't low rise, but they gave that illusion. Yes. And I fucking love low rise jeans. Made her ass look really good too. Yeah. Yes, it did. So, I mean, she looked beautiful and, you know. I was like, okay, now leading up to this, her and I hadn't had a lot of conversation. So I was a little nervous about that.

Which is valid. You know, because I generally, when I'm interested in somebody, like we're texting and chatting and all kinds of stuff for, you know, until we get together. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, since seeing them at Sunny Rest, there was, you know, maybe some comments on the games and the Facebook page. But then, you know, I had talked to the husband a little bit, but it wasn't like that was it.

I think there was, you know, other than when they had said about coming to game night, I think I'd only spoke to him maybe once or twice since then. And it was just like necessary conversation, not like, you know, that flirty getting to know you. Right. Yeah. It's like, okay, what time Friday? What are we doing? Like, what do you need us to bring? It's just like the basics of how to get this all together. It was getting the details. Like, that's what the conversation was. So. Yeah.

And the wife and I, like, we had just started snapping maybe two days before we got together. So there wasn't a lot of time there. And of course, like, I didn't want to be overly chatty because I know some people don't like that. Right. So it was just kind of like, you know, selfie here and there and just small talk.

So I was a little nervous, you know, because I've had lots of times where, you know, women say they're interested in me and that's not truly the case, you know, or for whatever reason, you know, they don't want to play or whatever. So I was a little worried about that. But over the course of the evening, you know, like we played a fun game. A very long game of it. Yeah. What do you mean? What? No. New phone who dis? Sorry. New phone who dis? Who dis? Which is hilarious. We had such a great time.

We played it for, I don't even know how long. I think it was like four hours. At least, I would say. Yeah. I mean, we played, we went through almost the entire deck of cards. Yeah, there was only like maybe a third left of the cards. It was such a great time, though. We had, and I think through that with just laughing and it sparked conversations, like we would have a round and something would come up on one of the cards and it would spark a story that we would tell or they would tell us.

It was just such a great time to be able to laugh, you know, have some adult beverages, get to know each other a little bit more. And just it really made us all feel so comfortable with each other. Absolutely. And I mean, I got my ass molly whooped. You were suffering really, really bad with the deck you were given. Even I really wish there was like a card that could you could like put in to

grab different ones as options like a switch. Yes, just because, I mean, granted, you just do what you can. It is the kind of game that it is. But I just think that might be helpful in cases like Pedro, where he really just was having really bad cards. I mean, however, I feel like when you do, when you did win Pedro, it was the cards that you thought were going to be such a flop. Yeah, I think because it was like, oh, here's my throw, at least a couple of

them. You're like, here's my throwaway card. There was like two or three. No, there was like two like that. I mean, you only had four cards. But then there was. One, so half 50-50. But a lot of the ones where I would pick them up the round before... Oh, yeah, you'd slap them down right away. This is it. And then somebody else would have something way fucking better. I'm like, are you kidding me? Well, I mean, so to be fair, if you think about it, we probably played about 40 rounds.

Oh, at least. Because I had 13. I had 10. And then. Each of that, each of them had. Had 10 or 11. No, I think it. 11 and 12, I think. It was 11 and 12. Yes. So right there. And I had four. So it was like 50 rounds. You had four. We played about 50 rounds of that game. Yeah. got my ass kicked. You did. I was the winner. Of course you were. Lucky number 13. Of course you're fun. But yeah, I mean, that was a really good time.

You know, we laughed so hard and, you know, really like the walls just kind of came down as we were playing. Absolutely. Not that I felt like there was really any walls up, but like it just made everyone super comfortable. Yeah, I feel like it was the anxiety levels came down. Yeah. Yeah. And like Like after we were done playing and we were kind of debating on what we're going to do next. So the wife, you know, she's a normal woman. She pees a lot.

So she had to keep going to the bathroom here. And like I started to notice like every time she would kind of like come back, she would look at me and kind of like the look would linger. And then she would stand next to me. Yes, I noticed that there was the closeness that started happening. Yeah. And then like the husband was like standing next to you two on the other side of the table. And I'm like, okay, this is a good sign. Like, yeah.

So then I suggested that we play the new game that finally came. Yeah. That finally came that I had to like threaten the file fraud. And that was called Truth or Toast. It was a really fun game. It was a fun game. And for anybody who's been looking for like an actual spicy game, that's the one. Yep. Make sure you get the expansion packs too. Yes. Yeah. I bought pretty much all of them. It was like 160 bucks. But. It was worth it. There is cards in there that will literally make you fuck. Yep.

Or you have to drink or take a blackout card as they call it. Right. But I mean, it's not shy. This is not something you're going to play with people you're hoping to get into the lifestyle room. Not recommended for them. Yeah. So we decided to play that and we played, you know, a couple of rounds of that. And I mean, there were some spicy things that happened. I mean, well, you and Tink had to like sideways 69. Oh, yeah. We forgot about that. I did forget about that. There was a lot of

drinks involved. There was a lot of drinks. I fingered Tink and the other wife at the same time. Yes, that was hot. It was hot. And what was even hotter is the fact that you both smell and taste exactly the same. Which is so funny. It's so crazy because like Tiff is really sweet. So like for me, like I've always been weird where I'm like, I don't think that I'm sweet enough. And everyone's like, no, you're sweet. I'm like, I don't know.

I mean, not like I don't taste myself because I totally do. But I just don't get that where I do with other women. Well, I think you also like when it's different when you're tasting yourself because you're like, is this what everyone else tastes? Well, yeah. And also, you know, everybody's taste buds are different. So it was like, what do you mean we're both taste the same? What are you talking about? Yeah. And I mean, it's a good thing. It was very much.

Very familiar. Yeah. Wow. This is outstanding. Yeah. You know, and. Yeah.

So that was fun and i think there's something else but i can't remember oh prior to that you and the wife had a little bit of a make-out session oh yes yes because we had a make-out session press it was supposed to be 30 seconds well we were using the timer so the timer's actually like 90 seconds it's gotta be i think so i think we timed it and it was ended up being 90 seconds yeah well we timed 30 we timed for 30 seconds and there

was still like it was only about a third of it that went down yeah so we ended up like making out for like over a minute.

Maybe if we were to really put a number on it was probably like two minutes yeah it was i mean i'm not complaining at all right no absolutely like we had a really good kissing session yeah and i feel like that that kind of set yes it definitely got things yes going in the right you and her up for success it did it was actually the first thing that happened for the card because it was you know one of those, pick two partners to kiss each other.

Yeah, it was actually your card and you picked me and the wife. Yes. I was like, let's see how this works. Which, I mean, I'm kind of surprised because normally, you know, if we want to base things off the past, you're the selfish one that would have picked yourself and the husband.

You're not wrong. You're not wrong. And it was the first thought that I had as I was like, I want to see pedro make out with the wife yeah and i mean like i appreciate it but i truly was expecting that because like i know you're very attracted to him and like normally once we get in these settings, it's all about me me me me yeah and i'm so used to that so like when you said me and her i'm like oh times have changed yes you're like wait who me oh shit it's me it's me it's my turn i actually

have to do something holy shit so yeah i mean that was really good and we played that and it was, shit, like quarter after five in the morning by the time we were done playing that. It was so late. I didn't even know it was that time. No, the time went by so fast. I mean, every once in a while we would check in and be like, holy shit, it's getting late. And then we would have, you know, another two hours of fun. And we're like, holy shit, it's even later.

Yeah. And so the one thing I loved about the wife is throughout the entire night, like probably halfway through the vanilla card game that we played, she was dropping hints about wanting to play. Yes, she was. And so once we were done playing the spicy game, we were all kind of sitting here laying here on the big ass couch. Yes. And, you know, Tink was asleep. Go figure. Listen, you rallied hard. You stayed up very late. I was very proud of you. I don't know what time I fell asleep.

I mean, I don't know either. But now to set the stage here, though. So I'm in a t-shirt and boxer briefs. The other wife is naked with a blanket kind of like wrapped up a little bit. Yeah, because it was chilly. Then there was Tink next to her like in the fetal position with no panties on, and a tank top and her little like The shawl thing or whatever, yeah. The cover. And a cover, a blanket. Yeah. And then it was you and the husband Bend.

And then you on his side. Now, he was still fully clothed. Yes. And you were in like shorts at that point? No, no, I was Winnie Pooh-ing it too, like she was, because we did the 69. Oh, that's right. You were Winnie Pooh-ing it too. So just a shirt and no panties or nothing.

And the husband was kind of like nodding off too. and like i was over here kind of like lightly touching the wife's leg and you know because you were talking about how like i do that to you and it drives you insane because you're so ticklish and she's like no i like it and so i just kept doing it and like she kept making comments of like we should play you know like well and the husband like he had his hand on my leg and he had his hand on you too that's why i was staying warm yeah yes his his

bear paw was on your thigh but speaking of that it was hilarious when me and him like compared compared our hands because i don't know what we're talking about but we were like we have the same size hands he's like really i'm like yeah and we put them up we have the same size his are a little thicker but like other than that yes yeah and all you girls were like oh my god like yeah how does little man have big hands. But so then he's kind of like going in and out of sleep,

Then you ended up snuggling up next to Tank. Oh, yes. Yes, I did. After you went pee or something. Yeah, somebody got up and I snuck in there. Yes. Yeah, so I kept rubbing my fingertips along the wife's legs and inner thighs and all that. And since I knew she was in the mood to play, and I knew at that point she was into me, because, like I said, she did a very good job of making it known. She did. That she was into me without being overtly like, I want to fuck you, you know.

So as I was playing with her legs, I would run my forearm over like her mound that was fully exposed. And that was driving her nuts. And I was loving every second of it. So finally, we were trying to get Tink up. It didn't take much. I mean, it did.

Really? yeah oh yeah we were trying for a little bit yeah you were being like you were a little grumpy about it at first yes wow yeah so we finally got you up you sorry you went to finger you and you were like, yes yeah yeah full-on finger in your vagina and you're like no i got a babe um, Wow, I'm so sorry. So finally I stepped in and I was like, either you're going to play or we're going to bed. Like, because at this point it's like 530 something in the morning.

And I had no idea what time it was, like I said. And I also did not realize I had fallen asleep. However, there's proof of what was on the table that there's a reasoning that all that occurred when it did. And like you said, I tried really good to stay up. Yeah, you did. So when you said that, I was like, I'm awake. Yeah. So you went pee and, you know, everyone else kind of got in the mood. Like I got naked. I was, I was the first one that wasn't naked who got naked.

And, you know, then the husband, he followed suit and you came out and we had to tell you, like, why are you still clothed? Like from the waist up. I was still Winnie Pooh in it. She's still waking up. I was. I was like, I just came out of the bathroom. Like, hang on, I can fix that in one moment. Yeah, so then why don't you guys tell, like, what happened from there on your end? That's a very good question. I think so. It was two days ago. She went down on me first, didn't she? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Listen, I was just enjoying it all. It's one of those things where so many things happened. There was a lot. I don't remember the sequence. So, obviously, for me waking up and then, like, us going, okay, we're going to play now.

We have five people on this couch yes which we've learned this couch is great for that because there's enough space and you're not on top of each other unless you want to be you know what i'm gonna have to try and find them if we ever have people over again i have the extra locks, oh yeah we're gonna have to do that so that would don't separate yes so to set the mood so my big comfy couch you can have it as like a big bed almost like a day bed or you

can take two sections out that are for storage and you can like move it around so the two sections aren't connected so they slide they slide sometimes because it's on carpet yeah. So, she went down on you first. Yes, she did. It was delightful. Yeah, because you and the wife were actually where I'm sitting right now. And then Tiff was about where you're at now, maybe a little bit more over. And I went down on you. No, she went down on me first.

Yes, the wife went down on her first. She went down on me first because after that. Yeah, you and the husband were kind of making out. Yeah. Okay. Yep. Okay. I remember it now. Again, there was a lot of stuff, and it was really early in the morning. And it was like, it was just so exciting. I think everything, like, it was flowing very well. So I think that's where it's just like, everybody was everywhere. Everything was great.

Like, everywhere you turned, you know, turning as in like looking from your right shoulder to your left shoulder, it was like, oh, look at that. Fuck, that sounds good. Oh, yeah, look at that angle. Or, oh, she's going to get close. Like, it was just hot all around. Yeah, so you and the husband were over where I'm at right now. Yes. In the one corner. Mm-hmm. Kind of making out, being handsy. Mm-hmm. And Tiff and the wife, where Tiff's at right now, in the center...

And the wife was kind of like hanging off the edge of the couch to go down on Tiff. So I was just kind of standing in the background and like I started to kiss on her back and, you know, like stuff like that. And just kind of try to make her feel good from where I could. And then I started to finger her while she was still going down on Tiff. And I mean, she had to stop going down on you a few times. She did. And I kept telling her, I was like, just enjoy it. I'm like, enjoy those hands.

They are marvelous. Just enjoy it. She's a trooper, though. Yeah, I mean. It's hard to focus when stuff feels good. It really is. So, I mean, like, that was a lot of fun. And then eventually, when you two. After I got off, then we switched. Well, I got up. Yeah, you got up. You sat down. Yes, I sat down and the wife started to blow me with you. Oh, yeah, that's right. Yes, we did. And at that time, I'm pretty sure, I think, was the husband going down on you at that point? Yes, he was.

She's like, absolutely. I'm like, I'm waiting now because I'm like, I know what happened at this point now. Yeah, because I started to hear you moan. And then I look over and then you're there on your back, you know, legs wide open. Enjoying his mouth. Yes. So, and I mean, like, how was that for you? I mean, it's been a while since you've played with a guy. It has been a while just because, I mean, obviously I always play with the women and it's, I don't actually remember the last time, but.

Takeover. You had one guy go down and you had the takeover. Oh, yes. So October. So October. So, I mean, that is kind of a long time. It is a while, yeah. And again, that was one time in a very long time. Yeah. Right. So like, it's never, it's not consistent enough of like, oh yeah, you know, it was just last week. No, that's not how it works. But, oh my God, it felt so fucking good. So I was pretty much like, it was like being in a euphoric state,

you know, like, I was enjoying what he was doing. He's very talented with his mouth. And I'm hearing everybody else, and I'm looking over, and the wife is playing with Pedro and, or getting ready to.

So I was like, oh, shit's about to get real. Yeah, and so I probably should have started with this before the play happened. And I had said, you know, that I would really enjoy if we could all play together. Yes. Yeah. Because the other couple, they've been doing more separate play. Yeah.

And now, normally, I'm all about separate play. But in this instance, you know, because there was things that I definitely wanted to experience with the two of you, because this was our first full swap altogether as a throuple. Yes, it was. And that's the things that we've talked about over and over again. And we knew it was going to be hard to make that happen. But we were still open for the possibility. And if obviously it came our way, we were going to make it happen.

Yeah, and very grateful because, again, like you said, Pedro, they typically play separately. So I was very grateful that they were open to us all playing together. Yeah. Yes. I mean, very thankful for that. And I made sure to help make the husband feel comfortable. Like, look, man, it is 530 in the morning. I've been up for like 26 hours at this point. My shit may not even work. Like, I'm fucking tired. But if it works, awesome.

Right. You know. Let's find out. And he was kind of in the same boat. He's like, you know what? Like, it may not work for me either, but I'm willing to give it a shot. Let's give it a go. And I think with you doing that, you know, one, you're keeping it real. You're not sugarcoating anything. And you're also giving that like, look, we're all human. Things aren't always going to work out the way we want them to.

And if it happens to you two, like, we're in the same boat. Like, it's not going to be hurt feelings. The husband and I basically finished off a bottle of peanut butter whiskey. Yes. You did. It was really fucking good, though. Almost. It was really good. By ourselves, you know. I mean, us girls were passing it back and forth, but you guys definitely did a good fair share on it. And then I also drank a quarter of my bottle of Casamigos tequila. Yes.

So. I, yes. I don't know how you weren't worse off. I don't know either. I wasn't even buzzed. Oh, I think because it was... I was so fucking tired. Like, nothing was affecting me. Well, not only that, we were literally up until 6.30 in the morning. We probably stopped drinking around, like, what, 4? Maybe? Maybe. No, my last drink, I think, was, like, 5 o'clock. So, even still, like, we had from 8, well, 8.30 p.m. Till 4 a.m. Like, I feel like we drank over an extended period of time.

We did. Instead of so much in a short time. Yeah. Which was helpful. Maybe but it was still a lot I haven't drank in a long time so you know that also I was worried in the back of my mind like am I gonna get whiskey dick too on top of being super tired so I was just being honest like my shit may not work you know. But like I said, very grateful that they gave us that opportunity. Agreed.

Because like for me too, like I wanted to experience my insecurities firsthand, you know, and if I was going to do that, like I'm going to go all the way, you know what I mean? Like just. Face it head on. Yeah. Rip the bandaid off and go for it. So I'm glad that they understood that and were willing to just give it a shot. And it turned out amazing. It did. So back to the story. So now you and the wife were giving me head. Tink's getting eaten out. And, you know, like I'm hard now.

And I was like, yeah, like I need to fuck you. Well, even before that, I had backed up and let her do her thing. But before I was just watching, I was fingering her while she was giving you head. Yes.

Which it felt amazing when she was moaning while she was blowing me. Yeah. It's an extra sensation. It took me a little while to get fully hard, which is a benefit to me. Right. Because with my curve, a lot of people can't deep throat me when I'm fully hard. So to not be fully hard and still have my dick be moldable, she was able to get it in her throat and she's moaning on it. And I'm like, oh my God, this feels so good. Yes. Which was totally great for the auditory senses that we love.

Yes so you know now like fully hard and we go to position ourselves because i wanted her to ride me, and just in that like 30 to 40 seconds of the setup i started to lose it and i'm like oh no don't do this to me now you know so i just told her i'm like would you mind going down and sucking me again like i kind of lost it a little bit and she's like absolutely you know so awesome chick Like, you know, very understanding and didn't make me feel bad at all at any point.

Because they're real people. They're down to earth people. And again, for our first experience of doing this all together, couldn't have asked for a better couple. Yeah. I agree. Yeah. So, I mean, she definitely did the trick. I mean, it didn't take long, maybe another minute or two. And I was back to full mast. and man when she sat on it I was like fuck oh no because she felt so fucking good like. I'm gonna say she was like a combination of you and Tiff like,

Yeah. Like, I don't know how to like. Yeah, like. Like it's a blend somehow. I mean, Charity smells and tastes like you, so why not? Yeah, so like. I had the structure in there too. Like, it felt very much like home. Oh. So, like, as soon as she sat on it, I was like, motherfucker, I need to try to last now. You know? Like, I was having an issue getting. Think of something else. Think of something else.

Right, but I'm like, I just had an issue of staying hard and I'm like, now I'm going to be like, oh, i'm gonna fucking nut in three seconds like what the fuck oh no very mixed signals yeah so.

She starts riding me and it is amazing and it it was probably like i don't know five minutes or so i was a little bit longer than that because i feel like i was standing about watching for quite a while you were because then before well you were watching for well from the time i had to tell her like stop for a second fair because like it got to a point where i was ready to come and i'm like I'm not doing this right now.

I've waited too long for this, you know, and, you know, she was totally cool with it. She stopped. We made out a little bit. And then when I was ready, like I just started like to fuck her from the bottom. Right. And then. Which you're so good at. Which I think it caught her off guard. I guess she was like, wait, I usually do the work here. Yeah. And as I was like kind of fucking her from the bottom, she definitely, it was like another switch flipped. Yeah.

And, excuse me, of course, that turned me on even more because she got so wet. Like, it was, like, dripping out of her. And I could feel her, like, squeezing me, you know, hard. And I'm like, oh, man. Because I don't know how many times she came because she's not like, I'm going to announce it, girl.

But i'm sure you know she has her tells that i didn't know right because i was a first time playing with her but i think she came a couple times i think she can correct me if i'm wrong i don't want to make it sound like a fucking stud or anything but it felt like she did and then finally while we were still fucking then at that point.

Tank started going down on you. Yeah. We had you come over onto the other side of the couch and then I went down on you while the husband actually got behind me and like spread my lips a little bit because, you know, I got them stupid Velcro lips. And then he came in behind me and started fucking me from behind, which was quite.

It took me a little bit by surprise because I was focused on not bumping into your clit with my teeth as he was fucking into me so I was like okay how do I do this and I had this thought I was like oh my gosh this is how Tiff feels when Pedro's fucking her from behind and she's going down on me and I'm like oh my god this is really kind of hard but it's really fucking hot and I was like okay he needs to just keep fucking me like this because this is really fucking turning me on I love doing that

yes yeah and I mean like it was nice because with me being on my back like i had a view of the whole couch so like i was able to watch utif i was able to watch tink go down on you and i was able to watch the husband fuck her from behind and like that was hot and then the wife which i gotta give her all the credit because that was a first for her too seeing her husband her husband with two women without her involved yeah and she looked over like once or twice but

then just stayed focused on me yeah which is absolutely amazing that she was able to be like it was almost like that meant that i'm going to say a mental check-in but it was also like literally like a physical check-in with her husband to be like he's good he's enjoying himself these ladies got him i can you know focus on my partner that I'm with right now. Yeah, which, you know, for anyone who listens to the show, like, knows that is a huge pet peeve of mine. Mm-hmm. When...

Playing with a partner and all they're doing is focusing on their everyday partner. And she didn't do that even in this circumstance where it was new to her. So big shout out to her. Thank you very much for, you know, giving me that experience and making you feel wanted the way she, Oh yeah. She, she made me feel like a fucking rock star. Cause you are, I mean, I'm not going to gloat, but she made me feel that way. Good.

You know? And so, i finally had to come you know and i told her and it was like she was reluctantly like okay i guess i'll get up now like but i mean i did everything i could for so long to hold off but i think i managed like a good 15 minutes yeah almost 20 minutes of actual fucking so like i'm proud of myself for that yeah and then i had to kind of like catch my breath and you know go through the whole i just came you know process and then what

she she started to go down on you or no that was you went down on her right so at one point and i i'm i'm sure i've skipped over the whole process of how this all has developed. You're going to listen to this and be like, I might remember this a little bit differently. Listen, sorry, guys. There's a lot going on. There was a lot going on. Because I remember I was giving the husband head. And then I don't know when we switched where he then was playing with you, Tiff.

Well, so we took like a very brief intermission and then I was sitting next to him. Okay. And then he had suggested, so... He had suggested that I just put my mouth on his cock. He suggested that I wrap my hands in my mouth. Yes. So then you moved over. Right. Because I was like, okay, well, I'm going to take this opportunity now to play with the wife. And I then had her, basically where I'm sitting now, that's when I was going down on her.

Yeah. And then after I kind of caught my breath, you know, at that point, like, you had been giving him head for a couple minutes now. Mm-hmm. And he was ready to go like, so you're, I think you told him like, I want you to fuck me now. Probably. Yeah. It's possible. So he kind of laid you down so that you were kind of like. Like your head was touching the wife's head. Yeah. So you're kind of like in a V. Yeah, you were.

It was a V. And so he gets on top of you and I started to play with Tank while she was going down on the wife. And from fingering her, she made a big puddle on your floor. Which was there for like two days. Yep. Yes. It was a big wet spot. There was a big wet spot. You had to lay towels down there. Yes, we did. We did. And I tried to get hard again to fuck Tink while she was going down on the wife. But I could get like halfway there.

And it was like right on that edge of just a little bit more and it'll, you know, get hard again. but it it wouldn't so like i tried the old trick of like putting it in tank soft and And hoping it would grow. Which feels amazing when that happens. But the position, like, she kept popping me out. So I was like, fuck, I'm not going to be able to do this. So I just kind of, like, stood around at that point. And, like, I was still kind of, like, caressing on Tank.

Yeah, and I was reaching back and I was, like, trying to stroke your dick.

Yeah, and at one point I was just like, it's not, you don't have to worry about it. Like, it's not going to help. And it was and it was hard for me, too, because like I wanted to still be touching you and have you still be involved in that play scenario that I had going on. But at the same time, the life was climaxing and I was like, fuck, like I can't I can't pull away right now. My mouth's kind of busy.

Yeah. And I mean, I wasn't going to either, but I couldn't stretch myself long enough to be able to make sure I had contact with both. Yeah. And I mean, it's totally fine. Like I was not trying to insert yourself, insert myself. You know, I just figured if I could get hard...

Could you know play with you while you're playing with her yeah because with the position that the husband and tiff were in like i couldn't do anything with tiff well yeah like you like you would have yeah there's just no way with your head with the wife and you guys being positioned in a v. You wouldn't even been able to like fuck her mouth because there were like there's a wall here well yeah and i mean the husband was on top of her so he was like face to face with

her yeah definitely wouldn't have worked so i did what i could you know and then like when i realized it wasn't going to happen i just kind of stepped back and watch you know because at that point i didn't want anyone to waste their energy on me when it was going to take me longer than we had to to recover you know with being so tired and everything yeah it was so late early late it was really early in the morning yeah and i mean mid morning nah not mid morning and then

at one point you and the wife tank swapped and she started to go down on you yes and that's when we realized that yes we do in fact taste like each other yes so like again while you guys were doing your thing tiff and the husband would fuck and then you know he would have to to take a little break and then you go back to fucking so i was kind of caressing on the wife then and i would finger her a little bit and you know just trying to make myself

useful because like i don't like just standing around right and like then finally you and the wife were good like she got you off yes.

And like i think you and the husband were still kind of fucking like off and on yeah it wasn't but it was only for like a little bit right after that because we sort of stopped around the same time yeah yeah and then like when you guys stopped to take a break i was like you know what i was starting to get a headache then and my dick wasn't cooperating so i'm like i think i'm just gonna go up to bed because it was like 6 30 in the morning you know i'm like you guys if

you're gonna keep playing like have fun but i gotta go to bed and it wasn't much long after that because i had to come back down to get some excedrin because my head was pounding and then very shortly after that you guys came up yeah yeah because i think the only other thing that we did was the wife was going down on you again and then i was fingering the wife yes and then you both got off at the same time. Yes, that we did. Oh, is that when I heard Tank do her screamy orgasm? Yes.

They got off at the same time and then...

We went to bed yeah we were like i think we're good now yeah and so you guys came to bed we all fell asleep pretty fucking oh yeah we passed out because i was in and out like before you guys came up but then obviously like i was up when you guys came in and then we all just passed out and so we got up then it was like 10 o'clock and everybody was in a great mood you know the other couple had stayed the night and they were already up we got some coffee and we talked and hell we talked for a

couple hours just hanging out and you know and I personally like before I came downstairs I went into the room that they were staying in and like I made sure to thank them for allowing us to all play together and you know I thanked the wife for making me feel super wanted and, you know, not like I was just, you know, something she had to do in order for them to get to you guys. Mm-hmm. Right. And, you know, they were very, you know, grateful that we invited them and that

we had a great time. And, you know, we all agreed that we definitely need to do this again. Yes. So they ended up, you know, heading out because we had other plans. We were supposed to go meet another lifestyle couple for like a late lunch. Mm-hmm. But unfortunately, my mechanic for the truck texted me and said, hey, I need you to go pick up some parts because I can't get down there in time. And I'm like, fuck, because it was snowing. Yeah. What do you do at that point?

Right. But you also need the truck for work. So you're like, I can't have it really be in the shop much longer. Right. So, you know, we had to text the other couple and tell them we had to cancel, which sucked. You know, because we were really looking forward to getting together with them also.

Mm-hmm and but just with the snow and i mean how 78 was a mess like there was accidents everywhere and so i didn't know if i was going to make it all the way back to out by where tink and i live, Run to the dealership to get parts, take it up to my mechanic, and then make it back to go to lunch in time. Right. Yeah, because we had an hour drive from here to get to lunch. Right. Yeah. Like, if anything, I probably would have had to have met you guys. Yeah.

In Harrisburg. And again, 78 was a fucking mess. So, I don't know if that. There was no guarantee. Right. So we canceled and I ended up going and doing that. And it took me till probably almost five o'clock to get back. And then we had decided on Friday before we got together with the other couple that since we have a kid-free weekend and we were going to do lunch instead of dinner, why don't we go to TJ's on Saturday night?

Yeah. That way we'd make the whole weekend just full of lifestyle stuff. Right. Because we don't get to do that. Mm-mm. So, we went to TJ's and got our tour. You know, it's a very nice club. Yeah, it was your guys' first time. Yep. Mm-hmm. Tink and I's first time. And, you know, again, very nice. We had dinner there. The food was decent. Yeah, it wasn't bad. Titty Tots weren't the best, but chicken was good. That was the only complaint I had.

I mean, and like the one thing that I will say is they probably didn't go all out because it wasn't going to be a busy night. No, it was definitely a slower night. I mean, it wasn't dead, but it was a slower night. Yeah, so we just kind of hung out, people watched. I introduced myself to some people that I knew from the pages. And like the one woman that I talked to, we had just had a back and forth with these like, would you play with me game on Facebook and stuff?

And since she was going to be there, I'm like, well, I have to at least introduce myself. You know, and she was very sweet, very attractive. You know, like the outfit that she had on really accentuated her booty, which was a fine booty, of course, drove me nuts.

The ass man over there he's like yes yeah and i mean now being the first time that i met her i wasn't going to be super forward and be like oh hey you know are you interested in play you know but hopefully we can you know chat now that we've met and they go to the to tj's a lot so hopefully we can see them there again and something can happen, And introduced myself to another lady that, you know, I've seen on the pages for a while. And her and her husband were super sweet. You know, the husband,

very, super nice guy. Like, I really enjoyed talking to him. And, you know, that was just like another little connection that I was hoping to make. But other than that, though, like a lot of the couples were very Velcro-y couples. They were. And just the overall vibe of last night, it definitely felt like it was, you know, everybody that was there with their group.

They stuck with to each other yeah like there was no mixing and mingling really you know and and i have no problem going up and just introducing myself to people but i didn't get the vibe that people were really wanting that at all no not really because even when it was just tiff and i and we were watching people on the dance floor and kind of scanning and you know checking out this couple or checking out that guy or checking out that girl like it was weird that when you left us,

nobody came up and approached us. And I was expecting it to happen. Me too. Because that always happens. And it didn't. So I was thrown off by that a little bit. And then it was, like you had said, Tiff, that it was a different crowd or it was just maybe an off night. Yeah, I think it wasn't as crowded. I think it was a combination of both because even a lot of the regular couples that are literally there every Saturday night weren't.

Huh yeah because i fully expected for people to like when you guys were out on the dance floor to try to dance with you yeah because i mean you both looked fucking hot like you were wearing almost matching we did a great job on that and panty sets with like a see-through black you know like robe-ish cover thing.

You guys look super hot. And then even when Tink went up and did a couple pole dances, like after she was done, nobody came up and even talked to her, like said, Hey, it was awesome getting to watch that. And you had people watching, but I feel like normally in a club setting, like there would be people gathered around. Right.

And like, we were sitting at the very first table and there were a couple other people that were around us, but, and watching, but from their seats, Like, it's not like they were flocking up to see the show, which normally happens at a club. Yeah. And then you didn't get that. Like, when she came down and she was done, normally, like, people were like, oh, my God. Yeah. They'd be trying to talk to her. Yeah. Like, normally, especially other women, you normally get women that come up

and they're like, I would never have the guts to do that. That was amazing. None of that. Yeah. So, I mean, that was kind of bummy. Yeah. I mean, I still had a good time because you guys were like, you need to be more of that tank. And I was sitting there. There was a couple songs, but... I just, in my head, I was like, I waited too long. Now if I get up there, I'm not going to have that song anymore, so I have to wait.

So then my types of songs that I like to listen to came on, and I was like, fuck it. I'm doing it. Yeah, I mean, we loved watching you. Oh my God, turned me on so much. Literally. Literally. Tim comes back to the table, and I'm just sitting there for a minute, and I gave them a look, and I was like, can we pretty please go find a room? Yep. That's exactly what she said. And I was like, sold, let's go do it.

Yeah, and we did. like I mean it didn't help I it did help not didn't help it did help that like when we were dancing on the floor you and I were very flirty and handsy with each other yes so from that then to seeing you on the stage I was like nope we gotta go like we got shit to do we gotta go.

Yeah I mean like you two were definitely like in a good place on Saturday night yeah yeah I think I will say that one of the things for me and I know that you had mentioned earlier when we were talking about a little bit that like, you know, with me normally being the social butterfly and having to go up to couples, I think for me, and I didn't think about it earlier when we were talking, but I think for me, it was nice to not have to.

It was nice because I was there with my people. I didn't have to like for once worry about, you know, looking awkward, standing alone because I'm there by myself and I don't have anybody.

Like it was nice to not have to, especially in that crowd because again i didn't feel like not that they weren't friendly but i didn't feel like it was a very inviting crowd so i would have had to work really hard last night i feel like to find people to sort of hang out with for the night or it would have been a lot of bouncing around and just right that makes sense yeah and like i will say i mean now this is coming from my perspective

my feelings but like you two were definitely about each other Saturday night there I was kind of the third wheel. Which, I mean, it's okay. It's going to happen. But when you wanted to go to the playroom, I knew it was because you wanted to play with Tink. And that's exactly what happened. We walked in the room. Shall we go over how that all went down? So we get in the room. Originally, we're going to just put the chain up so people could watch.

Yeah, because I'm all about that. And so are you. Oh, 100%. All three of us are.

We all. We like to be watched. so we get in the room put the chain up we're not even starting to undress yet no and like a flock of like five or six people well no it was one person person at first that came up first and it was a guy like not from here yeah he had a very strong like african accent yeah and he i don't think he completely understood the rules either because he was like he was asking us if we were gonna play and it's if it's okay if he watched

and you want to be like no shit that's why the fucking changed there but then he's like like don't talk to me like don't your inner yes he did ask to join you're right i forgot about that and then like shut up let us do our thing yeah he just kind of like stood there watching but i told him i'm like come back come back like we haven't even started yet like give us some time and then he finally got the hint that's when like a pack of

like six people came like right after him yeah the same thing in the same thing like The one guy asked to join right away. Yeah, that was the first thing he asked. And you said no. And then there was another guy telling you how beautiful you are and this and that. And I hadn't even seen him the whole entire night. Well, that's because he just got there 15 minutes before we went in the playing room. And then he's telling me how lucky I am and all this stuff. And I'm like...

Bro, you have no idea. Like, you think this is awesome. I was chopped liver to them, though. And that's probably, like, that was one of those things where they kept, like, ogling over you. And that was one of those realizations for me where I'm like, God, I'm not. It puts me in a very awkward position. It was very awkward in general. Yeah. Well, and. And I think I handled it very well for once. You did. Where, like, I didn't feel obligated. Like, I had to be like, yeah, sure.

I was like. Let me put on that show. you're waiting for yeah i was like no peace out girls we are not ready yet if you want to come back you can but not happening right now yeah so i had to say like two or three times i'm like we just walked in here like when we're ready you can come back and they finally walked away and we just shut the door yeah yeah because at that point it kind of killed the mood of wanting to be watched

and i feel like they would have been catcalling the entire time yeah well yeah Yeah, I didn't want to have that distraction. 100% would have. Literally just annoyed me at that point. Yeah, so we just shut the door. I even locked it too, because I was like, I don't even want to hear an attempt of that doorknob. I was like, I'm pissed now. Yeah, and so just going back real quick to your point of how you kind of felt like chopped liver.

Welcome to my world. I know, and I didn't help you after that when I was like, take, come here. Yeah and i mean but that's that's my reality all day every day you know no one's interested in me they're just trying to get to her and now they're trying to get to the two of you yeah but i feel like for me that that was the first time that i was completely slighted and it was just like oh my god she's so gorgeous and then my original thought was like i'm fucking hot too yeah you You are.

And you are. But then it's like, I get it. I mean. I get it. Like, obviously, I think you're both beautiful, but there's definitely a look that people associate with the lifestyle. Yeah. And unfortunately, she fits that mold to a T. 100%. And again, I get it. Like, we tell you that all the time. Like, you are model porn star beautiful. Thank you. You're gorgeous. Yeah. And I mean, and I'm sure that was kind of a big hit to your ego in the moment.

Yeah. Because you're used to being Unicorn Tiff. Excuse me. Where you walk in a room and people are like. I'm here too. Running to you. Yes. You know. Yeah. Like you had like the five or six people waiting to be able to play with you. Yeah. Yeah. Rude. It sucks. I'm sorry that you experienced that. I mean, it is what it is. We still had a great time. I mean, welcome to my world. You know. And then, so we played and it was a great play session.

It really was. It was. I mean, I fucked the literal shit out of both of you.

Yes. I mean... To the point where your booty cheeks are still a little sore. Yes. My ass... From thrusting. Is very sore. Thrust it, baby. I mean, he was pounding hard. He was very hard. For a long time. Yes. Like...

Just switching back and forth you know between the two of you and you know like like i wish i could have played with you more yeah it happens but you know we're gonna have this we didn't get the opportunity to you know do everything that we wanted well and i also excused myself at one point then too to go get towels yeah um because there wasn't any in the room so yeah and my dick still like because i hadn't come yet so i'm still rock hard you're like i'm gonna do like i'm

gonna with this thing yeah like i'm literally putting my dick in whatever holes in front of me at this point because i needed to get off right and you know i did but it was another you know five six minutes of hard fucking and i was exhausted like rightfully so i think at that point we were all exhausted we were like okay yeah because we're like it's time to go yeah i mean the bed was soaked yes the floor at the edge of the bed was soaked yes yeah

that was all you baby girl you were also in the splash zone at one point i was making you well twice so i made you splash yes you made me splash and then i was laying next to you and i was getting splashed yeah so i mean. It was a great night for us yes like especially coming off of the night before too like so we We had a great lifestyle night, Friday night. Saturday night, even though we were at a lifestyle venue, it was definitely all about us.

Yeah, it was. But we had the atmosphere of the lifestyle, the touch of the lifestyle, being able to, you know, get dressed up, go out, you know, have that spicy time, be able to be in our lingerie and just feel so sexy. And you absolutely were sexy last night. So were you. And, oh, that's stud muffin over here. Hey, they remembered me. Hold on. Oh, my God. Hold on. Okay. Yes. You had his slutty pajama pants on. Yes. My gray, like, thin gray baggy sweatpants. Uh-huh. And you're...

Fitted gray shirt which always i just love the way it fits around your arms so i was just like as soon as you put that one on i was like fuck me literally literally i was like yeah and then i had on like a gray and white snapback yeah and it fit the like it the colors matched perfectly yes yeah so i mean and i felt very handsome and you could tell because it was the way you were carrying yourself and i think that was like adding to the turn on was not

only did you look good you were carrying yourself like with that confidence yes you had that confidence and of course you had that cologne on that like you walk by and it's like the i'm gonna collect all the horse scent and i was like where'd you go yeah and i think like me personally that was my only like part where i didn't feel like i had a great time in that department because like i felt so good and right had zero interest right from anybody but i

don't want you to take that as like people weren't interested i think it was just a matter of i mean like i understand that but at the same time like it's it's just like if we would get all dolled up and go out to a club and not get much attention we would feel the same way to be like well that was a waste of an out a good outfit yeah yeah i mean i get that yes you're right i think it was just more of a thought process of the.

Yes, we saw you that way. You felt that way. And I don't want you to lose that. Because that's how it is. Well, but the thing that like bugged me the most is it's been a long time since I felt that way. Right. Okay. You know, and. I don't care if you have to wear that outfit everywhere you go. Right? Well, it was just like everything, like coming off a Friday night, you know, we were in such a good place after talking about everything.

And, you know, like I just. We got to play that afternoon before we went to the club.

Like oh yeah oh yeah that's right yeah we did that before our nap we did yeah before i had to we napped we went to nap yeah before he left oh yeah it was right before we got to play before he left that's where i'm like where did this nap come from oh yeah yeah you're right we passed out when he was doing his yeah we basically got more dick and we're like okay sorry you're gonna go run and do your thing be careful maybe we'll see you

or we hope we see you when you get back whatever time that's gonna be but yeah me and you napped which was nice because it was then he came back in time to wake us up so we could get ready to go to the club which was nice thank you but i mean like i totally forgot about that because i mean it was kind of a quickie it was but i mean i still fuck both of you made you both come twice yeah i mean it gave us the reconnection

too so that's something that we weren't able to get because of how late it was right which you know that was one of the big things too for you this weekend it was it was because I was nervous. And that was a little bit of my anxiety around it was because, you know, we have such limited time over the weekend that I was afraid that you and I weren't going to get a chance to play at all this weekend. Right, because for people that haven't listened before, one of my things when...

Tink and I used to play, you know, as just a couple, I generally would not play with Tink for about a day after she played with another guy, you know, and it has nothing to do with like jealousy or anything like that. It was mainly our BDSM aspect. You know, like I had to mentally get myself to the point where like she belonged to me again. Yeah. Because like when we swing, I let that go.

Right. you know like i don't see you as my submissive or her as my slave when we swing right but if you fuck somebody else a lot of times i have to mentally get back to that point and it doesn't always happen right away sometimes it's a day sometimes it's two days just depending on the situation right so because we had such a good time and you know everything went so well i was able to process through all that and i was able to fuck you guys i mean hours later which was also another little

bit more aggressive fuck session too because i mean it was a quickie yeah so i mean like i'm proud of myself for that because i was able to work through those feelings and everything and process all that in such a short amount of time yeah and this is where you know you told us that you needed to rip off that Band-Aid. And we needed to just be there and support you through whatever feelings you were going to have. Right, and I'm not saying that it'll be that way every time. Oh, absolutely.

No, it was a really nice surprise, though, too, because her and I were getting ready to lay down and you were like, no, no, we're going to do this first. So it was a very nice, unexpected surprise. It was. And like I told you both earlier in the week, like... I wanted you guys to have a great time this weekend, and I was going to do everything I could on my end to make that happen. And, you know, doing the internal work that I needed to do was part of that.

And I was very proud of myself that with the situation, I was able to do that and, you know, alleviate that anxiety for you. Yeah, and obviously yesterday I told you that I was very grateful for that. But, you know, we both told you how it was a very great, unexpected surprise for both of us for you to be able to do that. Yeah. And you ended up getting fucked multiple times that day. Yes. So, I mean, it was a great weekend overall and definitely looking forward to

more of those types of weekends. Yes, definitely. And we have actually talked about trying to get out to TJ's again, but we're thinking, I think it's the glow night we were looking for. Yeah, the glow night next month. Yep. Yeah. Because it's probably going to be a little bit before we can get ourselves out again. I mean, again, we have kid weekends, so it's more of a struggle because you have to find the sitters or just, you know, the logistics of it can be hard.

Yeah. Yeah. So, I mean, like, we're definitely going to do what we can to get out as soon as possible.

But i mean this was definitely a great weekend very grateful to our friends who helped make that happen absolutely and you know to the couple people that i did meet at tj's like it was very nice to meet them and hopefully i'll get to interact with them some more and hopefully the next time we go to tj's i'll have a better experience personally yeah yeah i hope so yeah i hope there's more people there i hope i hope it's a better experience just overall for

the three of us where you know you can have more of those you know conversations the one-on-one conversations and then you and I think we can you know even just mingle with people because yeah I hope that there's more people there that we know yes and that there's just more people that are open to having those conversations with you yeah like. Coming up to us and saying hi, or that doesn't feel so closed off that we couldn't go up to them and talk to them. Yeah.

Yeah, because, I mean, that was one of the things that we had talked about going to TJ's, just to wrap this up real quick. But, like, I enjoy watching you two flirt and, you know, kind of, like, do your things. Yeah, we weren't given that opportunity. Yeah, I mean, like... Like, one of the things I loved with Tink at Hotel Takeovers in the past was, you know, like, watching her flirt in the hallways and stuff and then just, like, drop down to her knees and start blowing somebody.

You know, like, it's not to completion usually, but it's, like, just a... It's a fun thing. It's the tease. It's the buildup. Like, you know, she obviously loves sucking dick, so it's, like, either way, it's a good time for her and the guy. Right. You know, like, that's the kind of stuff, like, I want to see.

You know because like i know you guys aren't like super big fans right now of wanting to like go off and play you know like full swap and stuff without me but those little things like just the flirting and like the soft swap stuff like i mean those are the fun things that we are excited to do and you know if you catch us doing it even better yeah i mean like i i would love to see that so hopefully the next time we go out there is that environment that stuff like that can happen Yeah.

You know, and to like, I want to be in a position where you guys can watch me flirt with somebody and watch someone else drop down and start. Absolutely. You know, so I can look over to you guys and be like, look what I did. Look what's happening right now. So definitely looking forward to when those type of situations can happen again. Yes. But just want to thank everybody for listening to this because I know it's kind

of been all over, but we wanted to talk about it. you know, when it just happened. So we didn't really plan anything or write anything down. We were just kind of going off the line. Maybe we should have around the timeline of things. We should have. So we weren't like going around in circles and overlapping things. And we're like, oh, no, that's not how that works. Oh, no, go back. It was the other way around. But I mean, overall, like, I feel like this is relatable to couples. You know, like...

After the weekend, talking about it. Your debriefing that you had. Yeah. So, I mean, definitely a good conversation. And, you know, like, even though parts of the weekend were difficult for me, you know, and even, like, watching you two get fucked by somebody that, you know, triggers all my insecurities, it was still hot to watch you guys fuck. You know, so, like, overall, I mean, it was a big win. And I'm super stoked for that. Yeah, it was a great time.

Looking forward to the next time that we can, you know, get together with either that couple or other great couples that are willing to, you know, be the type of lifestyle couples that make those great times happen. You know, the no drama, the just super fun. Have a great time. You can be yourselves, fuck and have fun. Yep. Yeah, love that. So thank you. I know you guys are going to listen to this. So thank you very much. You know, it was a great time and we need to do it again. Absolutely.

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