What's the Fu been up to? Desire trip -- borrowed partners and the soggy grapes of wrath Career changes and plane old problems An orgiastic experience. More more more. Tonight's Topic What does your partner do that annoys you? Maybe a size queen should take a turn for the team. Side bar about Pillow Princesses Why won't my wife have rough sex with me? Always being late is annoying your partner. Drop the Kabuki and get her to the playroom quicker! Make sure your partner is taken care of before yo...
May 10, 2013
What's up? Well... We had the 2nd Annual Mardi Gras Party Setting expectations for party guests -- dress and behavior Meeting our trucker friends Mr. Fu private pilot training Ms. Fu hosted Girls Uncorked ( http://www.girlsuncorked.com ) Spurting on about squirting. Thanks Mr K! Squirting is not a gateway sexual activity Progressive Swinging... Progressing to what? Commenting on Life of the Swingset Progressive Swinging definition ( http://www.lifeoftheswingset.com ) Going to Desire with Swinger...
Feb 26, 2013
A quick update... Are you in the lifestyle and don't even know it? odds and ends: side benefits of being in the LS The staycation party idea. You and four of your closest friends hanging at your house. Hire someone to come in and make breakfast? Going to Desire with Swingercast, March 23 - 30. More details at Swingercast.com Episode music: Florida pop stalwarts The Black Kids bring it with "I'm Not Gonna Teach Your Boyfriend How to Dance with You" off 2008's Partie Traumatic. Add them to your pl...
Nov 26, 2012
A quick catch up after oh so many months! We spent the summer sober. What was that like? Party Recap: The OktoberFUst We went to Desire Pearl! Not with a group... interesting times. What to bring to a house party or just etiquette in general? Look here: http://what-is-swinging.com/swinging-etiquette.htm This episode's music is "Loveliest Creature" by Savoir Adore on the album Our Nature. Check them out!! The whole album is great. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for...
Nov 02, 2012
Beat the heat! Stay indoors and swing! 2-1/2 months since our last podcast... staying busy and lots of fun. Our dating attempts have been mixed at best. Parents! Give your kids a break and get out of the house. How experienced are we? Mr Swap Fu says we're still new. Are we old and creepy? You be the judge! 1, 2, 3, 4 party fouls! The episode song is "Make Light" by Passion Pit on the album Manners. The whole album is excellent and would make for great poolside listening this summer. Give it a s...
Jun 28, 2012
A 10 minutes topic turns into a freefrom, hour-long conversation about our recent trip to Desire Resort and Spa in the Mayan Riviera with the Swingercast group. Observations and tips There weren't many tan lines at Desire, so we decided to bring you this song by the band Tanlines from Brooklyn. The song is called "All of Me" off the album Mixed Emotions. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for ente...
Apr 16, 2012
Recapping Podcast Comments Cuckolds are people too The good and the bad of the effects of swinging on self-image Why we don't have guests on our podcast Swing can only be improved but never mastered Topic: What's next for the Fu? Continue self-improvement: mind as well as body Going to Desire! It's a just a trip to the beach, really. How we're going to dirty up a perfectly good summer Stepping up the dating game and how we've been meeting new people A story about trying to live with more honesty...
Mar 12, 2012
Opening Toronto city officials asked to license swinger's clubs? http://cnews.canoe.ca/CNEWS/Canada/2012/01/16/19251646.html?cid=rssnewscanada A flurry of Swinger Grindr-like apps for mobile phones. Expect more anti-competitive craziness, a la SDC and Lifestyle Longue. Talk about the Adult Friend Finder bullshit date. After so much talk about of monogam-ish relationships... where are the swingers, Mr Savage? Neglecting to consult one of the many swinger sages seems a little strange. Topic The to...
Jan 27, 2012
The Spanker Revealed OpeningSwingers getting a bad wrap from shows like “Disappeared” Swingers at a family event. What happened? Pro tip: Just invite smart friends ;) Topics Get Togethers -- Woop Woop! There ain’t no such thing as a small get together Must develop a party checklist -- the checklist manifesto by Atul Gawande We played the LMFAO Pandora station at our get together... Best. Idea. Ever.Good success show less-threatening porn for parties: Sapphic Erotica and Andrew BlakeGuest list ma...
Dec 29, 2011
What's the Fu been up to? Co-hosting a party. Shared responsibilities. Opportunity to meet new people. Swinger friends rule because they get excited and bring drinks, snacks and toys! They also care better care of your stuff and have fun! Staying sober until 11:30 helped Mr Fu. As hosts, be ready to meet people. "Welcome to our home!" Shout Outs: Thank you for "flood" of responses to the gusher topic Three doctors weighing in We've got a lot of practice ahead of us Younger swingers They play, an...
Dec 15, 2011
Hang in there for fun! -- Photo courtesy of Cliff and Jaime What did the Fu do? Full Moon Party Photo shoot: The beauty and the... where did he go? Thanksgiving vs Friends Giving vs Black Friday Enjoying having friends over Guy with the hat update We had an anniversary. Thank you for the well wishes Topic Ms Swap Fu wants to learn more about female ejaculation Squirting? Prevalence squirting101.com Shout Out Safety first! -- Photo courtesy of Cliff and Jaime Sex swing camouflage pictures! Thank ...
Nov 28, 2011
Shout outs to long haul truckers, Australian travelers and http://caramelcraze.com/ (Great website!!) What's been bugging the Fu's?Learning to embrace age differencesDifferent Swinging StylesAnd being in the moment... (Thank you Doris!)Also... Halloween Party recap! We're going to the Moon Party at Pace Bend Park... come join us!! Episode Music "Never Saw the Point" by Cults. Awesome music. :) Sorry for our audio problems... damn USB mics are giving me fits on my slow laptop. The Swap Fu podcast...
Nov 11, 2011
Pre-production notes!! Tell us you're not a little impressed. Thank you for your blog comments and voicemails! Warming up the house slowly Mas Vegas: Some more details given in context of how we don't go into details Mindfulness: Were we in the right headspace? Thank you Dan Savage for giving us some insight on the dating mind -- we're all newbies so -- cut yourself some slack Mr Swap Fu is The Period Whisperer Girls Uncorked redux This episode's music is "Electronic Fences" by Computer Magic, a...
Oct 24, 2011
We're finally moved into the new place... mostly. We're back! Ms Swap Fu gets Uncorked. Join the Girls Uncorked chapter in your city. Las Vegas trip highlights and tips and tricks for swinger travel newbies The Sex-Related Injury We talk about staying active in the lifestyle during a life transition FuGrrl wants to know how you gracefully exit a sexual situation that just got weird... email her FuGrrl@gmail.com Thank you for the your patience, emails and iTunes reviews. Hopefully we're back on s...
Oct 10, 2011
What's the Fu been up to? Ms Swap Fu gets her kink on with a guy in LederhosenMs Swap Fu meets Johnny Taser Booty call -- Buffalo Wild Wings interruptedThe Trojan Truck -- Where's the Wienermobile when you need it?Hotel party -- Our party planned shared. Good setup Topic Self-improvement and the lifestyle What can you work on? What do you do about what you can't work on? Repetition is your best tool The sweet gift of the emotionally mature relationship -- allowing yourself to feel big feelings w...
Aug 08, 2011
What did the Fu do? Meeting our hot friends at the amazing Swinger Mecca: Trapeze Atlanta Topic Swinger date dynamics. Get private! Never the hook up -- you see them over and over and you never hook up The Jackknifed four-way Guys that can't stop watching their girl and the power of the switchback This and That After-party participant selection. Yes, you still have to plan. Should we disclose our online presence? We're going to Vegas Sept 23. What are you doing? Thank you for the iTunes love! Sh...
Jul 21, 2011
Howdy! Your friendly neighborhood swingers, the Fu's take you to the river as they rundown the highs and lows of the Krewe of Swingtown Guadalupe River Trip Battling vanillas for river domination In praise of Boris and Doris and the Swingercast Friends Topic: Mr Swap Fu talks about relearning to bringing flirting back to his vanilla life. Where do you draw the line? Announcements: We're going to Vegas! Come meet us! Sept. 23 - 26 What a Canadian public health worker might look like after visitin...
Jul 01, 2011
Feedback People ask us about our musical tastes. We generally broaden our musical selections by listening to channels we like on Pandora . Our favorite stations are: Ladytron Au Revoir Simone The Ting Tings The Killers The Sounds Mr. Swap Fu mourns his 20's last to grunge. Condom update: Female condoms... Out! (Thanks Allie) What's the Fu been up to? Enjoying the what all our efforts have yielded. You should too!Two amazing datesThe new walk of shame!Super fun night at Mystique ! Odds and Ends I...
Jun 13, 2011
Shout outs Positive reviews on iTunes. Keep them coming, they help us share the podcast with other swingers and wanna be swingers. Always, thank you to our awesome listeners and twitter followers Fu News Naked Condom’s $56 dozen. Naked Foundation Wii Dare you to buy this game. More info Topic Related to Friends First, Fuck First. Is it a Part II?: Thank you to the listeners for supplying topic. How to touch base in the middle of the date to pull the handbrake, or on the positive, let your partne...
Jun 06, 2011
Meet us on the Guadalupe River with the Krewe of Swingtown: June 24 - 26 Memorial Day in Chicago. Come for the Fu, stay for the Leather: May 27 - 30 Glow in the dark party at Mystique. Will we reconnect with our raver past? Pro Tips: Always take time to meet new people at the club. It will give you a chance to step away and reconnect with your partner... and to make new friends. New couple makes an effort -- and Ms Swap Fu likes it, bi the way. Do the hosts of at house party have to stay up? Wha...
May 14, 2011
News and Shout Outs: Welcome to the swinger podcast world Sparky’s Open Source! Bringing you swinging from a Canadian perspective http://www.sparkysopensource.com Planned Parenthood http://www.plannedparenthood.org Peoria Swinger Club Crackdown National Coalition for Sexual Freedom https://www.ncsfreedom.org/ Non-negative news coverage of Swinging in San Antonio, from a Fox station no less http://www.foxsanantonio.com/newsroom/top_stories/videos/vid_5826.shtml Topics: Ask Dan and Jennifer tips f...
May 05, 2011
Some shout outs: Check out this blog: A Swinging Good Time aswinginggoodtime.blogspot.com Thank you for the first cool Moon Party Still going to the Guadalupe River Trip. Are you? Please remember to include location and age in your emails and voicemails to us. Interview with the Havanas postponed. The questions we asked them are: What we your initial reservation regarding entering the lifestyle? What new reservations have there been since entering? What would you like to do next? What advice wou...
Apr 25, 2011
In this short episode we discuss last weekend's date and swinger club visit. We discuss the pitfalls of being in a busy group room and the importance of focusing on play-partner. It was Mr Havana's birthday and we were very happy to celebrate with him and his beautiful wife. Mr Swap Fu has seriously cut back his drinking... we discuss the benefits and the difference between partying and swinging. Yes, there is a difference. Episode music is "Follow your Bliss" by the B-52s. Few things are as sat...
Apr 13, 2011
Why do swingers travel so much?? We discuss our recent trip to Fort Worth to meet our fellow Texan podcasters Boris and Doris. Check them out! http://bndpodcast.com/ Mr Swap Fu meets listeners in Las Vegas, inciting an interesting conversation about vanillas dropping swinger hints. A listener question helps us further discuss transitioning a swinger play relationship to non-play. We conclude... nothing. lol Join us for the Guadalupe River Trip the weekend of June 25. More information here: http:...
Apr 04, 2011
Short notes... We've been having a lot of fun lately. We run down the last couple weeks of swinging success. Shout outs to fellow Texan swinger podcasters LifeStyleLife and Boris & Doris, check them out at: LifeStyleLife Boris & Doris We talk about double blow jobs and a very hot hotel hook up... more to come?? Episode Music in honor of St Patrick's Day "Sayonara" by The Pogues The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap...
Mar 18, 2011
Swap Fu would like to thank all our loyal listeners! Tell your swinger friends about us and please give us positive feedback on iTunes if you have a second. It takes no time, really. Mr Swap Fu is a Texas Nerd, so we talk about BBQ Tech Praise to the informed Swingers out there Swinger dating sites are an under-utilized resource The swinger dating sites need better travel discussion modules Will Swap Fu ever speak at a swinger takeover event? Will Swap Fu ever GO to a swinger takeover? Making ti...
Mar 01, 2011
Australia... you are being underserved Planned Parenthood needs you now Shout out to Boris and DorisShout out to couples at Desire -- negotiatate your vacation -- because you can't put pictures of cocks up in your cubicle The first annual Swap Fu Cock-ation Calendar The dreaded blind date Do you want a unicorn or do you want an escort? Transitioning a relationship with another couple from swinging to non-swinging. Episode Song "Mating Game" by Bitter:Sweet Support Planned Parenthood!! The Swap F...
Feb 25, 2011
This episode is chock-full of swinger goodness. Listener topic makes us rush for the mics. How do we handle the transition between swinging together vs swinging separately. Pretty advanced stuff, we think. Also, a listener's first-time experience give Ms Swap Fu the vapors Ms Swap Fu tries Viagra... interesting Music "Love Vigilantes" by New Order We love hearing from our listeners!: swapfu@gmail.com swapfu on SDC and Kasidie swap_fu on SLS If you like this podcast, please be sure to leave us a ...
Feb 04, 2011
Rather than the usual run-down of what we've been up to, we try something new. Mr Swap Fu had a date with Ms K while Ms Swap Fu was away on business. Ms Swap Fu thought it would be fun for him to tell her all about how it went for the first time, live, on the podcast. So, she hears all about it for the first time along with our listeners. We had a lot of fun doing this and we hope you enjoy it. :) Music "Daylight" by Matt and Kim We love hearing from our listeners!: swapfu@gmail.com swapfu on SD...
Jan 26, 2011
New year, new podcast, same ole swingers. :) The Fu's talk about their adventures dealing with vanilla holidays, swinging new years and cheap-ass condoms. Also a discussion about racial implications in the lifestyle Music: Ghost Town by The Specials Email: swapfu@gmail.com We are also swapfu on SDC and Kasidie or Swap_Fu on SLS. See you soon... naked! The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for enterta...
Jan 13, 2011
